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  • shopping carts City officials aim to round up a problem that shoppers encounter in retail parking lots everywhere: abandoned shopping carts.

    The problem is not only one of safety, officials said, but one that cost the city at least $78,000 over a period of two and a half years.

    The Fayetteville City Council voted 8-1 on Jan.3 to direct city staffers to develop an ordinance setting rules for businesses on retrieving stray carts on their property.

    Councilman Derrick Thompson made a motion calling for the ordinance, and Councilwoman Brenda McNair seconded it.
    Councilman Deno Hondros voted against the motion.

    No city or county in North Carolina has a similar ordinance, according to Brook Redding, special projects manager for the city manager's office.

    “This has been a project over the past three years that we’ve spoken about,” Redding told the council during a work session on Tuesday.

    Redding asked council members for direction on what the ordinance should address.
    Since August 2019, he said, Mayor Mitch Colvin has requested that the staff investigate the problems that errant shopping carts cause for pedestrians and drivers.

    Redding said he researched the problem that year to identify ways to track and manage the shopping cart problems and determine the city’s cost to collect abandoned carts. Over a 20-day period, Redding said, his staff identified more than 143 displaced carts citywide. They were found in residential areas and on street curbs, Redding said.

    In May 2020, with the help of the N.C. Retail Merchants Association, he said, the city entered into an agreement with big-box retail chains such as Walmart to manage the problem.
    That agreement expired in April 2021, but the city continued to collect data on abandoned shopping carts. From May 2020 to October 2022, city crews collected or found more than 1,000 abandoned carts across the city.

    Assuming that it takes about two hours of an employee’s time to locate, collect and dispose of abandoned carts, and to talk with the business, he said, since May 2020 the city has spent more than $78,000 picking up shopping carts.
    That cost does not include the equipment needed to collect the carts and disposal fees, Redding said.

    A state statute classifies abandoning a shopping cart as a misdemeanor, Redding said, but police officers can’t be expected to enforce that law when they are dealing with more serious crimest.
    Councilman D.J. Haire asked Redding whether his staff and the city’s legal team can craft an ordinance to address the problem.

    “It is a problem,” Haire said. “It is a concern, regardless if other cities don’t have ordinances in place.”

    Redding said he would need direction from the council on what the ordinance would cover.

  • 16 The financial disparities between male and female entrepreneurs are far-reaching. Women-led businesses receive lower valuations, less capital and fewer conventional small business loans than those led by men. Women entrepreneurs also pay themselves less than men and often take the brunt of balancing their family’s needs while growing their business. In spite of these challenges, women-led businesses of all types are thriving across the United States, thanks in part to initiatives offering tactical support and networking opportunities.

    Take it from Racquel Garcia, whose substance abuse recovery and life coaching business HardBeauty had substantial outside funding but needed guidance in becoming an efficient and sustainable operation. She applied to join the Milestone Circles program offered by the Nasdaq Entrepreneurial Center and funded by Wells Fargo Foundation.

    As part of Wells Fargo’s Connect to More program, the Nasdaq Entrepreneurial Center places women entrepreneurs from across the country into “circles” that receive virtual and in-person peer and professional coaching over 12 weeks, plus the support of a growing network of fellow business leaders. As of June 2022, the program has graduated more than 540 entrepreneurs in 47 states, with an aim of graduating another 1,000 women over the next 12 months. Built by entrepreneurs for entrepreneurs, the goal is to create space for women to step away from business pressures, identify goals and support each other’s growth.

    With the assistance of her program “sisters,” Garcia built two revenue streams that were less grant-dependent, growing her income by $200,000 in 12 weeks. But the impact of this support went beyond the business. For Garcia, who is one of the only women of color in her small Colorado town, the program was a rare opportunity to share her dreams with other women she would not have crossed paths with otherwise.

    “Many women entrepreneurs suffer from imposter syndrome. This confidence gap and the systemic financial barriers and pressures faced by women entrepreneurs are just some of the reasons I saw a need for this program,” says Jenny Flores, head of Small Business Growth Philanthropy at Wells Fargo.

    For Terriekka Cardenas, a sixth grade teacher, engineer and owner of Perceptive Engineering, having this support is what helped her embrace the title of CEO. “That was the first moment for me that I didn’t box myself in,” she says.

    Others, such as Ruby Taylor, who graduated from the first Milestone Circle in 2021, haven’t stopped meeting with their peers after the initial 12 weeks. In 2020, Taylor created a card game, LEGACY!, to teach people how to close the racial wealth gap and have fun doing it. Being able to craft a mission statement while enrolled inspired her to amplify her vision and found Financial Joy School, which coaches Black families on building generational wealth.

    “My circle is a tight-knit group that continuously supports each other when we get stuck. We’re just a telephone call away when we feel discouraged,” she said.
    While founding and growing a business comes with risks, support from peers and mentors can make all the difference, say program organizers. “When you’re able to show up authentically and say what you need help with — the real things, the hard things — and people can come around and provide support in an environment free of competition or judgment, that’s really game-changing,” says Flores.

  • 17 For paranormal romance writer Krista Masotto, the idea for her first book came from a rather unexpected source — a place where the absurd and the “could-be” walk confidently hand-in-hand.

    “I was going through a huge ‘Bachelor’ phase,” she admitted. “I’d binge-watch that show until it eventually grew into a bigger world that was fun to hang out in.”
    Masotto, who writes under the name K.M. Rives, has taken the idea of women vying for the attention of one gorgeous, mercurial man and transformed it into a world of vampires, fiery witches, and other figures of fantasy in her series “A Culling of Blood and Magic.”

    “It’s a paranormal romance that starts with a vampire prince finding his queen,” Rives explained. "As you read, the story devolves into a world of war, mystery and the supernatural —with some spice sprinkled in.”

    The saga of vampire prince August Nicholson and doomed twin Emery Montgomery begins with “The Replacement,” which recently held the #1 spot on Amazon’s Vampire Romance and its Fantasy/Futuristic Romance lists and is followed by “The Intended,” and “Hybrid Moon Rising.”

    Book four, “The United,” is the series’ final installment and was released on Dec. 6 — just in time for Christmas. Early reviews suggest it will be as popular as its predecessors and a fitting end to “The Culling” saga. It's been a long journey with these characters, first conceived in 2018, but Rives feels their story is over, and she's ready to write new adventures.

    “It’s such a bittersweet moment for me as an author, but I am so excited for everything that comes next! Enjoy every minute of August and Emery's journey to happily ever after!” she told her fans via Facebook on release day.

    With several irons in the fire, her trusty laptop always open, and two or three notebooks overflowing with ideas, the military wife and mother of two girls never saw herself as a professional writer.

    “I’ve always loved writing,” she shared. “I was that kid in high school that loved writing letters to my friends, always had my head in the clouds with ideas, and was always an avid reader. I didn’t start writing fiction or taking myself seriously as a writer until 2019.”

    Seeking advice from other authors in her writing group, Rives set out to create a story with characters in which she, herself, could invest within a genre she was already familiar. “I wanted to write something I knew and enjoyed reading,” she said.

    As any “Twilight” fan can happily tell you, vampires have been seducing audiences for centuries. Stoker’s Dracula never fails to draw in readers with each new interpretation of the source material — not too shabby for a book published nearly 130 years ago. So while vampires and the women who love them are nothing new, something about Rives’ slick, stylish world-building brings fresh blood to the evergreen content. Her penchant for spice and her electric turns of phrase make for a wholly satisfying read for anyone looking for a searing romance novel with some bite to it.

    Though she’s comfortable in the world of immortals, Rives is excited to explore other genres and keeps her mind open to new story ideas no matter how unlikely the inspiration may be.

    “I have a duet planned — an extension of this world,” she recently shared with Up & Coming Weekly. “It will be about gods and the realm of mythology from characters you already know, with some surprises thrown in.”

    Rives is also ready to try her hand at contemporary romance. This sub-genre and romance as a whole have seen an incredible rise in popularity and revenue due to social media and the persuasive power of #booktok posts. Now a billion-dollar industry, it’s one of the highest-earning genres across fiction.

    With so many avenues to publication, global publicity through social media, and a built-in audience that consumes, on average, one new book a week — it’s an exciting time to write exciting prose.

    As a military wife, the Hope Mills resident understands how easy it is to get lost in the shuffle of deployments, moving trucks, and the demands of military life; Rives knows how fortunate she is to have not only a satisfying career but a legacy to pass down to her daughters. And while the commitment to serve her craft every day is sometimes difficult to meet — her motto: “write the words,” keeps her on track.

    “Sometimes I get up early or stay up late — whatever it takes,” Rives explained. “Both of my kids are in school, so that helps. I utilize any downtime I get, and it helps that I have an incredibly supportive husband,” she beamed.

    When not writing, Rives is a rabid sports fan and can often be found at nearly every Woodpeckers game with her family during the team’s regular season. She’s also maintained the same fantasy football league with the same group of friends for nearly ten years. With her long hair dyed in her trademark kaleidoscopic range of blues, greens, and purples — Rives somehow manages to be exactly and not at all what you'd expect of a romance writer.

    Despite her rock star looks and surprising knowledge of who’s on first, Rives’ talent as a writer is apparent, and she's optimistic about whatever’s next.

    “I love all the people I get to meet,” she shared when asked what she enjoys most about being a writer. “Other military spouses, authors and readers from all walks of life have opened up so many opportunities and doors for me — it’s been amazing.”

    All four books of “The Culling of Blood and Magic” series are available to purchase or download on Amazon, https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09CN39SDZ?binding=kindle_edition&qid=1670475233&sr=8-3&ref=dbs_dp_rwt_sb_pc_tukn.
    You can follow K.M. Rives on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/kmriveswritesbooks.

  • 141 The new year brings new opportunities to take the kids out to local parks to explore, learn and have some fun. There are a variety of events scheduled at Clark Park and Lake Rim Park to interest all ages.

    Clark Park

    www.fcpr.us/parks-trails/parks/clark-park or 910-433-1579
    Clark Park and its Nature Center join the Cape Fear River Trail and Moses Mathis “Bicycle Man” playground/trailhead to form a complex suited to hours of enjoyment and education. It remains a natural woodland area dedicated to preserving the environment, educating the public on North Carolina plants and wildlife, and providing a place to passively commune with nature. The Nature Center features exhibits and free viewing of live animals. You can walk an outdoor storybook on the trail near the playground.
    Visitors can picnic overlooking the woods and one of the highest waterfalls in the coastal plain. For those interested in walking or jogging, the park has its own set of unpaved trails. Well behaved, leashed pets are welcome on trails as long as you clean up after them.
    Clark Park Nature Center offers nature and recreation programming for educators, groups, individuals and families. Programs meet at the Nature Center unless otherwise noted. You must pre-register for all programs. Register early; space is limited in most programs. If enrollment is low, programs are canceled.
    For more program information follow the park on Facebook at www.facebook.com/fcprnature. Clark Park is located at 631 Sherman Drive. The Center hours are Nov.- Feb.: Mon.-Fri. 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.; March-Oct.: Mon.-Fri. 8a.m. to 5 p.m., Sat. 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Trail Hours are 8 a.m. until dusk.
    Free programs scheduled for January and early February are listed below.

    Animal Feedings!

    Alligators chomping, snakes swallowing, and turtles snapping, come see what is for dinner at the nature center. All ages; Wed.: 4 p.m.

    Mystery Animal Identification

    Do you know the clues to identifying local animals by their tracks? Help the rangers look for tracks around the park to identify what animals call Clark Park home. Make a track of your own to take home. Call or register online. All ages; Tues., Jan. 3: 3 to 4 p.m.

    Nature Story Time

    You and your child are invited to Clark Park for an interactive story time with the Cumberland County Public Library and Information Center. The story will be followed by themed crafts and activities. Call or register online. 6-under yrs. with adult; Tues., Jan. 10: Frogs; 1 to 2 p.m.

    Winter Magic Nature Potions

    It’s Brew a Potion Day so let nature be inspiration to brew up a special potion in the Loblolly Garden. Bring a jar and your imagination, nature will supply the rest! Call or register online. Age 10 and under; Thurs., Jan. 19: 11 a.m. until noon.

    Dung Beetle Derby

    Scarabs, tumblebugs, dung beetles. It’s a dirty job but somebody in the animal world has to do it! This special group of beetles is nature’s cleanup crew. After learning about their unique lifestyles, participants can make a craft tumblebug and participate in a “Dung Beetle Derby” for prizes. Call or register online. All ages; Fri., Jan. 27: 3:30 to 5 p.m.

    National Draw a Dinosaur Day

    Learn about dinosaurs, play with some and draw a dinosaur! All supplies provided, just bring your creativity. Call or register online. All ages; Mon., Jan. 30: 3:30 to 4:30 p.m.

    The Groundhog’s Big Day!

    Will the groundhog see his shadow? How did this tradition get started? Just what is a groundhog? Come to Clark Park to discover this unique underground creature through games, stories, and a craft. Call or register online. All ages; Wed., Feb. 1: 10 to 11:30 a.m.

    14Lake Rim Park

    www.fcpr.us/parks-trails/parks/lake-rim-park or 910-433-1018
    Whether you want to take a stroll on the one-mile border trail through the wetlands to Bones Creek, play a game of soccer with friends, or have a family picnic, Lake Rim Park offers something for everyone. An assortment of outdoor amenities, including picnic areas, horseshoe pits, walking trails, tennis courts, sand volleyball courts, athletic fields, natural areas, and children’s playgrounds are available to enjoy.
    All facilities are open to the public on a first come, first serve basis unless they are reserved. To find out how you can reserve a picnic shelter or athletic field for your special event contact the park office. Well-behaved, furry family members are welcome to enjoy a walk around the park too, but they must be on a leash and under your control at all times.
    Lake Rim Park is located at 2214 Tar Kiln Drive. Park winter hours are 7 a.m. to 5 p.m. Park summer hours are 7 a.m. until dusk. Office hours are Mon.-Fri. 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.
    Free programs scheduled for January and early February are listed below.

    Feel the Soil

    Bring an empty two-liter bottle to help explore our local soils. Find out why the place we call home is known as the Sandhills. Call or register online at register.fcpr.us. All ages; Fri., Jan. 13: 4 to 5 p.m.

    Stars and Constellations

    Winter nights are the premier time to view the night sky. Learn about our constellations, other celestial objects and the folklore behind them. Bring telescopes and binoculars if you have them. This program occurs after park operating hours. Please arrive promptly at 6 p.m. so staff can let you in the gate. Dress for the weather. Call or register online at register.fcpr.us. All ages; Fri., Jan. 20: 6 to 8 p.m.

    Here’s to the Land of the Longleaf Pine

    The pine tree is North Carolina’s State Tree. While it wasn’t officially designated as such, most people believe that the honor was reserved for the longleaf pine specifically. Find out what makes this tree so important to our state's history and to the nature of the Southeast. Call or register online at register.fcpr.us. All ages; Tues., Jan. 31: 3 to 4:30 p.m.
    Fruit or Vegetable Munch and Learn
    Munch and learn as you look inside food to discover what parts of the plant makes it a fruit or a vegetable. Call or register online at register.fcpr.us. All ages; Mon., Feb. 6: 3 to 4 p.m.

    Bird Walk

    Take a walk around Lake Rim Park to see which of our feathered friends are flitting about while counting birds for the Great Backyard Bird Count. Bring binoculars if you have them. Meet at the park office. Call or register online at register.fcpr.us, space is limited. Adults and mature children ages 8+; Fri., Feb. 17: 3:30 to 5 p.m.

  • 5 I’ve been on the redistricting beat a long time. Back in the early 1990s, I wrote numerous articles criticizing the collaboration among Republican and NAACP activists to maximize the number of Black-majority districts. After the egregious Democratic gerrymander of 2001, I cheered on the lawsuit that ultimately became the Stephenson v. Bartlett case, which overturned the gerrymander and enforced the state constitution’s rule against unnecessarily splitting counties in legislative maps.

    Later I endorsed and helped organize multiple coalitions to reform the process by amending North Carolina’s constitution. Just as the whole-county provision had acted as a check on gerrymandering in Stephenson, we argued that adding other redistricting criteria such as compactness to the constitution could erect additional guardrails against abuses.

    What I never believed is that North Carolina’s constitution already contained redistricting rules discoverable in such clauses as “all elections shall be free” and “no person shall be denied equal protection of the laws.” We had, after all, spent many years seeking to persuade state lawmakers to place a redistricting-reform amendment on the ballot precisely because the current state constitution did not contain the safeguards in question.

    Other reformers disagreed. More to the point, Republicans had won legislative majorities in 2010 — running in districts drawn by the other party, mind you — while a few years later Democrats regained a majority on the North Carolina Supreme Court. State and national Democrats decided they couldn’t pass up the opportunity to sue. Their federal litigation ultimately hit a dead end. The U.S. Supreme Court declared that similarly vague language in the federal constitution did not empower the federal judiciary to police partisan gerrymandering or supplant the role of state legislatures in drawing congressional maps.

    Their litigation in the state courts went a different direction, however. Back in February, the four Democrats on the state’s highest court ruled in Harper v. Hall that the North Carolina constitution’s general protections of free elections, equal protection, free speech, and free assembly did, in fact, constitute legitimate grounds for state courts to judge the fairness of districts drawn by the General Assembly — and even for judges to use their own consultants and resources to draw the maps instead.

    The practical effect was that the 2022 elections for General Assembly and U.S. House of Representatives were held within districts that were either drawn by court-appointed “special masters” or by legislators subject to a court order. Republicans still won a supermajority in the state senate and came within a seat of winning one in the state house.

    Both the Democratic plaintiffs and Republican defendants were dissatisfied. Both appealed separate elements of the decision. On Dec. 16, the North Carolina Supreme Court issued another decision in Harper v. Hall. Once again by a party-line vote, Democratic justices affirmed their original findings and even threw out the senate districts we just used in the election, ordering the legislature to try again in 2023.

    To my mind, the folly of the Democrats’ original decision is clearly exposed. By liberally construing the state constitution to prohibit what its text clearly does not, and then refusing to spell out specific legal and numerical criteria for lawmakers to follow, the Democratic justices have created an intolerable mess.

    Whatever happens next year, the defendants are likely to appeal to a new North Carolina Supreme Court with an originalist majority. The Harper v. Hall standard “is a dead man walking,” as my John Locke Foundation colleague Andy Jackson predicts.

    That doesn’t mean redistricting reform itself is dead. It just means we’ll have to do it the proper way: by amending the state constitution.

  • CPP logo The year 2022 took the nation through many economic, legislative and political twists and turns and North Carolina marched in step.

    The state started the year with a winter storm that dropped as much as five inches of snow across central NC; COVID-19 tests and vaccines continued to be rolled out and the state experienced the spread of new coronavirus variants as the pandemic left in its wake an economic upheaval.

    Later in the year, inflation surged across the nation, the U.S. Supreme Court overturned abortion rights in June and Governor Roy Cooper signed an executive order to protect access to abortion; Hurricane Ian ravaged the coastal cities at the end of September, leaving thousands without power or homes and killing at least four people.

    Mass shootings increased, reaching epidemic levels, with a mass shooting occurring in October in Raleigh, North Carolina when a 15-year old went on a rampage in a suburban neighborhood — killing five and injuring two.

    Politically, North Carolina also made some turns in the road. The state gained a congressional seat, sitting congressman Rep. Madison Cawthorn (R-N.C.) lost the primary, and voters elected a new U.S. Senator. To wrap the year up, the U.S. Supreme Court is hearing a case, Moore vs. Harper, originating in North Carolina, that could change election law in the state and the rest of the country.

    Throughout the year Carolina Public Press reported on the in-depth stories that mattered to our communities. The stories for this end-of-year edition were selected based on human interest, impact and inclusiveness, relevance, timeliness, uniqueness and alignment with Carolina Public Press’ mission. We also took into consideration the readership of each of these stories. They have been arranged chronologically.

    Why NC legislators are arguing a legal theory that could upend US democracy (April)

    House Speaker Tim Moore, R-Cleveland, and Senate President Pro Tempore Phil Berger, R-Rockingham, tried out a legal theory in 2020 elections litigation that had the potential to change the balance of power between the state legislature and the executive branch.
    It failed at every level of state and federal courts.
    Now, they’re trying to apply that theory again with a petition to the U.S. Supreme Court, this time over a disagreement with the other branch of government, the state courts.
    https://carolinapublicpress.org/53029/why-nc-legislators-are-arguing-a-legal-theory-that-could-upend-us-democracy/

    7 Pilot program brings sexual assault nurse training to historically Black university (May)

    By the end of summer, a handful of nursing students at Fayetteville State University will have started taking courses on how to care for sexual assault survivors. It’s a small start but one Sheila Cannon has worked toward for more than two years. The funding comes from the state legislature, which allocated $125,000 for a pilot training program in Cumberland County late last year.
    https://carolinapublicpress.org/53627/pilot-program-brings-sexual-assault-nurse-training-to-historically-black-university/

    Child’s death triggers new state response to Cherokee County DSS (May)

    The death of any child whose family was in contact with a county DSS unleashes a hurricane of bureaucracy. In North Carolina’s system of state oversight and county administration, state workers examine whether county workers followed law, policy and accepted practice.
    https://carolinapublicpress.org/54341/childs-death-triggers-new-state-response-to-cherokee-county-dss/

    What does Supreme Court action on abortion mean for North Carolina: An FAQ (May)

    This summer, the U.S. Supreme Court may overturn the nearly 50-year-old legal precedent upholding the legal right to an abortion. If that happens, North Carolina is one of the few Southern states where abortion would remain legal after six weeks.
    https://carolinapublicpress.org/53758/what-does-supreme-court-action-on-abortion-mean-for-north-carolina-an-faq/

    Judge orders Cherokee County DSS to turn over open case records (June)

    The Cherokee County Department of Social Services must hand over all documents related to all open DSS cases on the calendar, a District Court judge ruled at a Monday hearing. Last month, local attorney David Moore said he filed a subpoena for DSS records after learning that Cherokee County DSS was under investigation by the state of North Carolina yet again after a 5-month-old’s January death.
    https://carolinapublicpress.org/58454/carolina-public-press-top-stories-of-the-year/?utm_source=Subscribers&utm_campaign=2611f7a0ba-RSS_EMAIL_CAMPAIGN&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_1545d58992-2611f7a0ba-207707765&mc_cid=2611f7a0ba&mc_eid=ed69f794fd

    8 NC town set to cease existence as state treasurer calls for criminal charges (June)

    For the first time in North Carolina’s history, the Local Government Commission used a new law, Senate Bill 314, to vote unanimously to dissolve the town’s charter, which is scheduled to take place on June 30.
    https://carolinapublicpress.org/54987/nc-town-set-to-cease-existence-as-state-treasurer-calls-for-criminal-charges/

    Monkeypox cases spreading in NC (July)

    North Carolina officials have confirmed 11 cases of monkeypox, a disease caused by the monkeypox virus, in the state as of Wednesday. Of those cases, 10 involve North Carolina residents, and one involves a nonresident. At least 929 people in the United States — and over 7,500 people around the globe — have been infected with it since May 18, according to the national Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
    https://carolinapublicpress.org/55329/monkeypox-cases-spreading-in-nc/

    81 ‘Ghost forests’ are creeping across NC’s coast at an alarming rate. Researchers are trying to stop them (August)

    The spreading stands of dead trees are what’s known as “ghost forests,” a general term to describe contiguous areas of dead trees. And they are the focus of Duke University ecosystem ecologist and biogeochemist Emily Bernhardt’s research.
    https://carolinapublicpress.org/55902/ghost-forests-are-creeping-across-ncs-coast-at-an-alarming-rate-researchers-are-trying-to-stop-them/

    NC child welfare leader says system is ‘in crisis’ and state could be sued ‘at any point’ (September)

    The state’s child welfare system “is in crisis,” and “at any point there could be a massive class-action lawsuit,” the N.C. Department of Health and Human Services told county directors of social services departments during a presentation earlier this month.
    https://carolinapublicpress.org/56616/nc-child-welfare-leader-says-system-is-in-crisis-and-state-could-be-sued-at-any-point/

     Automated gunshot detection is coming to Fayetteville. The community is split on whether it’s the right fit for the city (December)

    Cynthia Leeks, 60, lives in a neighborhood off the Murchison Road Corridor in Fayetteville. She moved back to the area five years ago to be close to her aging parents. She is now the secretary of her local neighborhood watch. She loves her neighborhood, she said, even though it’s in a city where gun violence is commonplace. Even with the violence, Leeks doesn’t want police officers knocking on her door after a ShotSpotter gunshot alert has been sent to them.
    https://carolinapublicpress.org/58197/automated-gunshot-detection-is-coming-to-fayetteville-the-community-is-split-on-whether-its-the-right-fit-for-the-city/

     Editor's note: Carolina Public Press is an independent nonprofit news organization dedicated to nonpartisan, in-depth and investigative news built upon the facts and context North Carolinians need to know. Their award-winning, breakthrough journalism dismantles barriers and shines a light on the critical overlooked and under-reported issues facing the state’s 10.4 million residents.
    Ben Sessoms covers local government in eastern North Carolina, primarily in Cumberland County and the surrounding region. He can be reached at bsessoms@carolinapublicpress.org or 828-774-5290 extension 414.

  • 10 For many Cumberland County residents, the annual black-eyed peas dinner was a decades-old Southern tradition.
    Each New Year’s Day, thousands of people gathered at the Crown Expo Center to share bread — and the signature black-eyed peas and other fare — with others from the community.

    The dinner, which was free, hasn’t been held since January 2020 because of concerns related to COVID-19. After being put off for several years, organizers said this seemed like a good year to stop the event.

    “At this point, there are no plans to have the black-eyed peas dinner in the future,” Cumberland County District Attorney Billy West said.

    West and Cumberland County Register of Deeds Lee Warren have hosted the event for years, but its roots date back much further.

    “I kind of have mixed emotions,’’ Warren said Dec. 28. “It’s a phenomenal amount of work and a phenomenal amount of expense. Seems like with COVID, along January of this year and February, it seemed to be getting a little better. As the year progressed, it started getting worse. It’s kind of like a roller-coaster.

    “We can’t seem to get a grip on all of the illness. All the COVID,” he added. “We just don’t feel comfortable getting people together like we did. That’s a lot of people. We can’t risk making anyone sick.”

    The prevailing theme of the dinner evolved from a long-held belief that eating black-eyed peas would bring you good luck and prosperity for the coming year. Along with the black-eyed peas, participants were served such down-home country favorites as pork barbecue, candied yams and collard greens. You also would find dignitaries from the Fayetteville area. For many, it was the ideal setting to see and be seen.

    “We had Larry Chason who provided gospel music. We just always had such a nice time,” Warren said. “We had congressmen every year come. Occasionally, somebody from the senate. We had the lieutenant governor come before. It was just a good way to get together and renew old friendships.”

    The idea of a single black-eyed peas dinner came about when former Cumberland County Sheriff Ottis Jones and local attorney Willis Brown held separate New Year’s Day dinners, inviting their friends to come.
    Following years of that, everyone who had attended the separate functions gathered together for the one meal, Warren said. That ended in 1987 with the death of Jones. Warren, at the time a county commissioner, and Owen Spears, who was elected to the N.C. General Assembly in 1992, started the tradition again at the suggestion of Warren’s father.

    “Owen and I did them together,” Warren said.

    When Spears got out of the General Assembly, Warren partnered with District Attorney Ed Grannis. Eventually, West joined the hosts and carried on with Warren after Grannis died, the register of deeds said.
    “So, Billy and I had been doing it ever since,” Warren said.

    According to the old Southern superstition, eating collard greens on New Year’s Day will bring you dollar bills and eating black-eyed peas will bring you pennies throughout the upcoming year.

    “Many of the folks who helped us each year have either passed away or are not able to help us anymore,” West said. “After not having it because of COVID the last few years, we decided this was the best year to stop it. We will miss it. It was a great community tradition.’’

  • 19 Not sure which one rescued the other. After making the rounds of all the shelters on a cold January day, I told Dorothy I really wanted to bring him home with us. There was something about the way he looked at me when I spoke to him.

    It had been less than two months since our son was killed; our 10- year-old Rottweiler mix had died suddenly just before that. Though surrounded by family, friends, and acquaintances, I was experiencing a general sense of loneliness.

    I think, in retrospect, it was simply grief. Whatever it was, this great big hunk of unruliness seemed to take the edge off it. We were quizzed, interrogated and even cautioned by the shelter that he might be too big and unmanageable for people ‘our age’, but I was adamant. This was my next best friend. And so he has become.

    Champ was full of personality from the first day he came into our home and family. Full of energy and enough curiosity for any five cats, at a whopping 90 pounds he could be a challenge for a couple ‘our age’ at times.

    But love. As his challenges were met by grace and love from his new family, we all began the journey of growing toward center. Just three years later, I can barely move from room-to-room without him wanting to be there. This dog, once deemed unruly and destructive and cast aside, has become one of the best friends I’ve ever had. It’s clear he simply wants to be near us, be loved, and experience life as one who is accepted.

    To a great extent, he defines my relationship with God.

    As a young man I was defiant and unruly, constantly looking for the boundaries I was not yet living on. Situations I could not control I lashed out against, and I found myself written off by even those who were closest to me. Perhaps especially by them. But God. God saw more in me than I saw in myself. He saw the look in my eyes as one person warned another I wasn’t worth the effort. He took me in, called me son, and my many challenges were met repeatedly by His patient grace and love.

    Today, when I see God moving, that’s where I want to be. Just as Champ sits at (or ON) my feet, I want nothing more than to be near my master and enjoy simply being together. In every situation, I pray I find myself resting in God’s favor, pleasing Him in all I do.

    Thank you, God, for showing me what rescue looks like and for transforming me into someone who sees the value you place in others regardless of their past, their hurts or defiance. Thank you for teaching me to look others in the eyes — whether two-legged or four — and respond with the same love you’ve shown me.

  • 111The Annual Grinding of the Greens Christmas tree recycling program, a Fayetteville holiday tradition since 1994, continues in 2023. The annual program is celebrating its 29th year of protecting and enhancing the environment.

    Grinding of the Greens encourages Fayetteville residents to recycle their live Christmas trees and, since its beginning, has kept thousands of pounds of recyclable material out of our landfills.
    The long-standing partnership between Fayetteville Public Works Commission, Cumberland-Fayetteville Parks & Recreation and Duke Energy Progress turns cut Christmas trees into mulch for the Fayetteville Community Garden and other local parks.

    The Cumberland-Fayetteville Parks & Recreation will collect the trees from Fayetteville city residents in a special tree pickup beginning Monday, Jan. 9, 2023. Pickups are separate from yard waste, trash or recycle pickups and city residents should put their trees out for curbside collection by the morning of January 9 . All lights, stands and trimmings should be removed from the tree.

    Residents who live outside the city or those who miss the pickup, may drop off trees at the Fayetteville Community Garden, located at the corner of Van Story and Mann Streets, just off Old Wilmington Road, any day by Jan. 20. PWC and Duke Energy Progress volunteers will grind them into mulch at the Grinding of the Greens at the Community Garden on Jan. 21 following a ceremonial start at 8:30 a.m. For more information: www.faypwc.com/grinding-of-the-greens/.

  • 12 You would never suspect a professional recording studio sits nestled inside a log cabin one block south of eastern Raeford Road, two doors away from a Chick-fil-A. And yet, there it stands amongst skinny oak trees, concealing a warm and quiet interior.

    Started during the pandemic, Cabin Fever Studio is the brainchild of owners Lynne O’Quinn and audio engineer Currie Wayne Clayton, Jr. The studio and HOW (His Outreach Worldwide) ministry split the building down the center, with O’Quinn running HOW and Clayton overseeing the recording studio.

    "We think of this operation like an “east wing, west wing” sort of deal," Clayton says. On one side there’s the ministry, and the other side is the studio.

    In between, there’s a full kitchen, wood trim throughout the whole place and plenty of light streaming through the windows. Owing to its log and plaster construction, the building doesn’t budge like a regular house to bodies walking across its floors: it is unbelievably solid.

    “We’ve had bands and missionaries stay here,” O’Quinn says. “It’s a really neat place. This house was originally built in 1949.”

    O’Quinn is an interesting Fayetteville native. She possesses a sweet disposition, serene blue eyes and, at one time, managed Lynyrd Skynyrd. O’Quinn has connections in Nashville, and she just started a publishing company named Charted Records whose performers, Bailey Morrison and Jonathan Tucker, will perform at the Carolina Country Music Awards in Myrtle Beach, Jan. 23. In fact, Clayton will perform as well.

    In what they call the “live room” (which used to be the living room) sits a full drum set and a real first generation 1959 Hammond B3 organ that looks more like a piece of antique furniture than instrument.

    “We’re getting ready to mount a TV screen [over the brick fireplace] so the drummer can be in touch with everything” happening in the control room, O’Quinn says.

    Entering the control room, the door on the right leads to what is obviously the studio’s point of pride: the vocal booth.

    The booth is as professional as it gets, extremely private and oddly deafening because of the way acoustic sound foam (pyramidal and lining the walls) absorbs ambient noises, keeping them from the microphone that’s suspended from the ceiling at the tip of an articulated arm. That’s Ozzy Osbourne’s go-to recording microphone, Clayton says.

    The booth is an intimate affair: a video monitor and camera provide two-way communication between singer and engineer.

    “It was a bathroom,” Clayton says. “I converted it.”

    Clayton has a silver waist-length pony tail, silver goatee and black tattoos. He’s big and intense, yet affable and responsible for every bit of the studio’s trick carpentry. Guitars hang neatly from racks on the walls, along with monitors, microphones and cables running through a hole in the ceiling to another isolation booth upstairs.

    In his own music, Clayton plays every instrument except for horns.

    “Whatever I hear, I can do,” Clayton says from his seat at the head of Cabin Fever Studio’s nerve center. “That’s the gift I have. It’s not mine. God gave it to me. I’ve never taken a lesson on anything I’m doing.”

    That’s the truth, too. Pulling guitars and bass guitars from the racks, Clayton shreds them with the kind of ability you’re either born with or not. Playing drums, Clayton hits them solidly and with an intimate sense of time.

    “[Clayton] was born and raised in Haw River,” O’Quinn says. “So, he’s a North Carolina boy, but he also grew up in Delaware” and lived in South Carolina before moving to Fayetteville.

    Behind Clayton, a red and massive analogue mixer sprawls out towards a large flatscreen monitor on the wall displaying Pro Tools, a standard in digital mixing software. Incoming recordings first go through the analogue mixer before going to the digital mixer.

    There are 16 channels of analogue, Clayton explains, plus eight tracks of pre-amp, giving a total of 24 analogue channels for recording instruments. Digital meaning “so you can see” music in real-time on a screen, he adds.

    “We run analogue first,” Clayton says. “We go analogue to digital, and then digital back to analogue” for a super warm sound.

    O’Quinn started HOW in 2008 after writing a book entitled “Sharing Jesus With Children Around The World.” Since it was published, the little book has made its way around the globe to an estimated 159 countries, including the entire African continent. Over two million copies have been published, and it has been translated into over 100 languages.

    From July 2021 to July 2022, organized by HOW, thousands of pounds worth of foodstuffs, clothes, and book and bed supplies were served to peoples all over the world, as well as three new churches built in Honduras, a church in Pakistan and a primary school in Myanmar.

    “It’s interesting,” O’Quinn says. “God just takes you down roads and paths that you have just no idea [about], and all of a sudden it’s really cool.”

    Cabin Fever Studio specializes in country music, although they are open to working with different types of genres. In fact, Clayton is in the process of finishing a track with a local rapper.
    Clayton is also responsible for much of the production that happens in Cabin Fever Studio, revealing decades worth of musical knowledge to young musicians who’re just beginning to forge their paths in what can be an inhospitable business.

    Since Currie Wayne moved to town, people don’t know he’s so talented, O’Quinn says. He tours up and down the east coast performing professionally, and he’s a whirlwind of ideas.
    Cabin Fever Studio is proud of Bailey Morrison, Jonathan Tucker and Clayton. In addition to performing at the Carolina Country Music Awards, Bailey Morrison is nominated for Country Single of the Year and Clayton has been nominated for the Damien Horne Humanitarian Award.

    The Damien Horne Humanitarian Award is given to those who serve others in their musical pursuits.

    For more information, Cabin Fever Studio can be reached at 910-476-7975 and www.CabinFeverStudioProductions.com. The studio is open by appointment only.

  • 6 Kemberle Braden will be the next police chief for the city of Fayetteville. Braden, an assistant chief who has been with the department for 27 years, will replace Police Chief Gina Hawkins, who announced in July that she is retiring in January.

    “I’m extremely thankful for the opportunity to continue to serve the Fayetteville community, which I have called home for the past 45 years,” Braden said during a Dec. 28 news conference. “I want to thank City Manager Doug Hewett for his confidence in my ability to lead and giving me this opportunity.

    “I look forward to bringing what I’ve learned throughout my career to lead the Fayetteville Police Department as many others have done before me,” Braden said. “I’m grateful for the opportunity, and I’m ready for this responsibility.”

    Hewett made the announcement during a news conference at City Hall. As the city manager, Hewett is responsible for the hire.
    He was flanked by Braden and Hawkins during the news conference. Assistant Chief James Nolette, who was the other finalist for the position, was in attendance during the announcement.

    “We are just a few days away from celebrating the new year,” Hewett said. “And now we can celebrate the selection of new leadership for our Fayetteville Police Department.
    ”... In particular, I’d like to say to the staff of the Fayetteville Police Department, ‘Thank you.’ Throughout this entire process you have been in my thoughts, and I’m very pleased to be able to make this selection and appointment today.”

    The appointment follows what Hewett called “an intense search process.”

    The final selection came down between the 49-year-old Braden and Nolette, the department’s 47-year-old commander of the Specialized Services Bureau. Braden has served as the Field Operations commander for the Police Department. In that role, he supervises patrol operations and investigations. He started his law enforcement career as a patrol officer assigned to the Murchison Road area. Braden is married and has two grown children.

    “We are truly fortunate to have identified exceptionally qualified candidates through the search,” the city manager said, “and making an internal hire exemplifies how well we cultivate and nurture talent from within.”
    Braden said he looked forward to working with Nolette and others in the community in the coming year.

    "There's a lot of work ahead of us as we prepare to close out 2022 with the New Year's Eve Spectacular this Saturday,” Braden said of the second annual event set for Festival Park.

    Hewett said the Fayetteville Police Department employs 605 members on a budget of more than $59 million.

    “We’ll start conversations and develop strategic plans that align our departmental strengths with the needs of our community," Braden said. "There will be many conversations concerning recruitment, retention and strategies to address violent crime.”

    Braden then thanked Hawkins for her leadership and service to the community for the last five years.

    “For me personally,” he said, “she has provided opportunities that have allowed me to grow as an officer and an individual. And prepare me for my time to lead. I’d like to thank her and wish her well in her retirement.”

    Hawkins then made a brief statement, initially congratulating her successor. She said the community should be proud.

    “Chief Braden, you should be proud. Chief Braden’s family, you should be proud," she added. "You have someone who has come from the city and is about to lead this department and this community into the next chapter. And I’m very proud. We will continue to transition for the next month as I continue my retirement. We are one city that’s going to move forward with the next chief.”

    Following the news conference, Hawkins called Braden “a good officer. He has experience, and he has the heart of the city embedded in him. He’s humble; he’s sincere," she replied when asked if he was a good hire.

    “The department is going to be in good hands,” she said. “I pray the community supports him and the department as they have supported me.”

  • 4 Our right to be offensive is increasingly being seen as this pesky, little symptom of the First Amendment that must be either begrudgingly entertained or reluctantly accepted. People will casually write off being offensive as uncouth or unbecoming of a civilized society; they are, however, mistaken. The ones who are annoyed by our right to be offensive are the same ones who are likely to be ignorant of the fact that we are where we are today as a result of individuals offending the orthodoxies of their day. They are also likely unaware of the consequences that limiting offensiveness can have.

    One might ask themselves whether it’s worth being offensive in today’s era of wokeism, microaggressions, and cancel culture. The answer should be (and always will be) a resounding and resolute yes. Below are three reasons why we must embrace, and continue, our tradition of being offensive.

    First, we owe it to all of those who came before us and who sacrificed so much in the name of giving offense. We owe it to those who were mocked and ridiculed, booed and hissed at, beaten or imprisoned, exiled and ostracized, and hanged or burned at the stake all for simply offending the doctrines and dogmas of their day. Literal blood, sweat, and tears were given by countless generations so we could be where we are today.

    Secondly, giving offense has been the main driver of change over (at least) the last millennium. As pointed out above, our society has gotten to the point it is at today because individuals thumbed their noses at the norms and orthodoxies of their day. Examples abound:

    •Copernicus offended Christendom when he said that the earth was not at the center of the universe, which eventually gave way to Galileo and his subsequent discoveries

    •Suffragettes offended the male-dominated society of the 19th and 20th centuries when they published literature and held demonstrations demanding the right to vote, and ultimately this led to women’s enfranchisement

    •Rosa Parks offended a whole segment of society when she refused to give up her seat in the front of the bus. By doing so she sparked a conversation about the inequality of the doctrine “separate but equal,” and a reversal of numerous Jim Crow-era policies ensued

    •The first openly gay magazine in the United States, ONE, offended norms and orthodoxies of the 1950s. But by doing so, and in its subsequent struggles with the authorities, ONE helped give change to obscenity laws and increased First Amendment right for the LGBT community in its landmark Supreme Court case One, Inc. v. Olesen

    One can only imagine where we would be today had these courageous individuals not dared to be offensive.

    Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, it is imperative that we continue our long tradition of offending contemporary orthodoxies because the only other alternative is clamping down or dismissing speech and expressions that are deemed offensive. The notion that any idea that is legitimately expressed can be silenced or banned on the grounds that it is merely “offensive” is censorship, and as one of our greatest founding fathers, Benjamin Franklin, put it, “Censorship is the handmaiden to tyranny.”

    So, if you are against tyranny, you have to be for offensiveness.
    As was stated at the start, the right to be offensive, which has been affirmed to us as citizens by various Supreme Court cases (RAV v. St. Paul, Texas v. Johnson, Snyder v. Phelps) is increasingly being portrayed as a thorn in the side of modern society; as if the only thing stopping us from achieving an idyllic society is our individual right to give offense. It is time that that misconception comes to an end and we start to view this inalienable right for what it really is: the heart and soul of the First Amendment.

  • 13 It’s time to get excited, country music fans! The 8th annual Carolina Country Music Awards is on Jan. 21 at the House of Blues in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina.

    Once a year, a panel of judges formed by industry leaders comes together to honor stars native to North and South Carolina. The ceremony is produced and hosted each year by the Carolina Music Association.

    Bill Bowman, publisher of Up & Coming Weekly, will act as the master of ceremonies at this year’s award show, and a veritable who’s who of Fayetteville musicians are nominated across 12 categories or scheduled to perform on the House of Blues stage.

    Created and developed by the Carolina Music Association, the CCMAs are an opportunity to showcase and honor musical talent here in the Sandhills and throughout the Carolinas.
    Up & Coming Weekly spoke with CMA’s Executive Director Christy Andrulonis, known as Sweet Tea to her listeners on the Carolina Country Radio Network 100.1 WFAY in Fayetteville, about CMA’s mission to create space for independent artists native to the region and “share the story of the Carolinas” through music.

    “Traditionally, you play the hits [on a radio station]; you don’t make the hits,” she explained. “There are just so many talented artists in the Carolinas and even here in the immediate area that deserve to tell their story.”

    13 Bailey morrison With this in mind, CMA created the Carolina Artist Showdown to bring attention and airplay to new and emerging Carolina musicians. The knock-out style competition allows artists to get daily airplay, or “spins,” on local radio stations. Listeners can vote on their favorite artists each week. Whichever musician or group receives the most votes go on to become Artist of the Month and may eventually be in contention to win “Fan Voted Artist of the Year” at the CCMAs.

    The Carolina Artist Showdown is an opportunity for some artists, many of whom are hearing themselves on the radio for the first time. In the course of a month, a song may get as many as 20 spins bringing a massive amount of exposure to musicians in an industry that often overlooks small acts.

    “My jaw just dropped,” said Fayetteville native Bailey Morrison on hearing his song on the radio for the first time. “It was surreal — I had just left lunch, hopped in my truck, turned on the radio, and my song came on — I couldn’t believe it.” The 19-year-old musician’s song, “Where I Come From,” is nominated for Country Single of the Year at this year’s CCMAs.

    In addition to the Carolina Artist Showdown and the CCMAs, the Carolina Music Association is also responsible for the North Carolina Songwriters Festival. This multi-day event highlights the stories and writers behind some of today’s hottest and newest country music.

    Andrulonis, a 20-year player in the industry, knows how difficult it can be to get a foot in the door, and she’s dedicated to holding it open a bit wider for those brave enough to knock. 13 Currie Wayne Clayton

    “I’m passionate about this because I’ve seen so many phenomenal singer-songwriters not get the recognition they deserve,” she said. “To watch an artist from the beginning of their career to making it big in country music is amazing to be a part of.”

    The continued endeavor to celebrate what is beautiful about the Carolinas — its people, history and values, is fully represented in the rich tapestry of country music, a genre that first took root in the mountains of North Carolina. Originally brought over in the folk music of Scottish and Irish immigrants, country music is a loop in the swirling fingerprint of the Carolinas.

    13 Doyle Wood “It’s a traditional sound that’s a part of our roots and community,” Andruolins explained. “If you listen to the older country music, you hear the banjo, the mandolin and guitar — you can hear those roots, and it’s just evolved into the country music we know today.”

    In addition to Bailey Morrison, Fayetteville will be represented by eight-time Fayetteville’s favorite band, Rivermist — nominated for Vocal Group of the Year; Fayetteville Music Hall of Fame inductee Doyle Wood is nominated for Christian Country Single of the Year for his song “There’s a River Called Jordan” performed with Rivermist. Eric Hawks will pull double duty as a nominee for Male Artist of the Year and performer, a fact for which he is truly in disbelief.

    “I grew up going to Myrtle Beach for vacations every year,” Hawks said. “I’ve seen hundreds of shows at the House of Blues, so to be able to say that I’ve played on that stage is unreal.”

    Born and raised in Rockingham, Hawks moved to Fayetteville in 2018 and decided to make a go of his solo career right as the world shut down due to COVID. As restrictions lifted, Hawks began touring in 2021 and put out two singles: “Notebooks” and “Tracing Your Tattoos,” which Andrulonis picked up, and the rest has been an exciting blur, according to Hawks. No matter the outcome, he’s honored to be nominated and grateful for the CMA’s support.

    “I think the CMA is so cool to spotlight all the talent in North and South Carolina — to give us a platform to get our music out there is wonderful, and I’m very fortunate to be a small part of it,” he said. 13 Erik Hawks

    Well-known Fayetteville arts and music personality, Dr. Gail Morfesis, will present this year’s Songwriter of the Year award, and Cabin Fever Studio co-founder Currie Wayne Clayton Jr. is nominated for the Damien Horne Humanitarian Award.

    A special guest performance by drummer Mark Herndon of legendary country music group Alabama will make it a night to remember for guests in attendance and the artists waiting to hear their names.

    13 rivermist Ultimately, the CCMAs tell every independent artist or would-be musician that their efforts, however small, are worthwhile. They champion the idea that you don’t have to be well-known to be well-loved, and while talent might go a long way — opportunity is sometimes the final ingredient in the recipe for success.

    According to Sweet Tea, “I can give the artist the canvas, but they have to make the masterpiece.”

    Tickets for the show run $25-$100 on Eventbrite. To purchase tickets visit https://www.eventbrite.com/e/carolina-country-music-awards-tickets-376892865707?aff=ebdssbdestsearch.

    To learn more about the Carolina Music Association and this year’s nominees, visit https://www.carolinacountrymusicassociation.org/.
    The House of Blues is located at 4640 Hwy 17 S, North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina.

  • 18 A common question after Christmas is about New Year’s resolutions. Common resolutions are joining a fitness center, weight loss,or simply wanting to get into shape.
    Healthy comes in all sizes and shapes and it is unfair to the consumer to think that you are going to look like the fitness model in commercials and print, or that you will have a flat stomach. However, it is important

    to know that you are doing something healthy for yourself and are able to continue enjoying an active lifestyle.

    If you are thinking about a lifestyle change to a healthier you, ask yourself why you are about to make a change and what has brought you to this decision. Is it weight loss, lack of balance, difficulty in getting off the floor, strength training, back hurting, blood pressure, shuffled walking, recovery from illness or injury, or if you feel it is time to do something for yourself?

    Sometimes people will tell me, “I do not like to exercise, I don’t have time to go to the gym, I can exercise at home, I do not like going to the gym or I can’t exercise because of.”
    When we are younger, exercise is more about looks and as we age, exercise is more about sustainability.

    I wish there were another word for exercise that brings a positive light instead of drumming yourself into extinction in a gym. Let’s remove the word exercise and replace it with wellness and forget the guidelines with what and how much you should do.

    When I have a new client my first question is “tell me about yourself and what you like to do.” The next question is “tell me about your previous work or injuries.”
    Both of those open-ended questions tell me what will motivate them and the reason they may be experiencing some difficulty with movement or limitations. A person beginning a fitness program will respond better if they are doing something that they like.

    Self-care is the first step in a wellness program and a valuable gift for yourself. There is nothing wrong with taking time for yourself and embarking on a wellness journey and fitting your workout into your schedule. Continue to give your time for family, friends, obligations, social engagements and charitable work, but also recognize that saying “that time is not convenient for me” is a powerful statement for you.

    There are a lot of reasons to join a fitness center and, outside of the wellness benefits, social engagement is just as important. You will make new friends and get to know people that share your interest.
    You will also find a community that is there for the same reason as you. It can also be beneficial to begin your fitness training with a personal trainer to show you the proper way to perform exercises, reducing the risk of injury and developing a plan to reach your goals.

    Sometimes, people are hesitant to go to fitness classes or join a gym because they feel uncomfortable with how they look or their ability to be a part of the group or do the exercises. All those feelings are normal but begin to dissipate as you start to see changes in yourself and your confidence grows.

    Live, love life and wellness for you in 2023.

  • 11 The annual fashion show from An Affair to Remember is back. The show highlights the empowerment of local young women and female leaders in businesses and nonprofits.
    Kathy Jensen, the founder of An Affair to Remember, Pageant, and Formal Wear, started this show 11 years ago. She was approached about doing a fashion show to highlight upcoming trends, but she wanted to highlight girls in town.

    “The show is just about women celebrating that they are women,” Jensen said. “Anytime you see a woman on the stage, their confidence is raised.”

    Five years ago, the idea of highlighting local women in business and nonprofits was brought up by community members. No speeches, just a place where women could come together as strangers and leave as friends. These Women of Power would not only get recognition but also be able to talk to and inspire young women in high school.

    Women of Power became such a success that a nonprofit organization called the Women of Power Society of North Carolina came out of it. The Women of Power Society is the brainchild of Jensen and Suzy Hrabovsky.

    In 2022, the Women of Power Society partnered with the Center for Economic Empowerment and Development to host a Women’s Equality Day Brunch and #HerWeek Fayetteville. A portion of the fashion show’s proceeds will go to #HerPitch, a grant awarded to women in business.

    Last year, Jensen says that $10,000 was raised over the year to go to CEED. This year’s fashion show is themed “The You Won’t Break My Soul Runway Extravaganza.” The theme is focused on making women and young girls feel empowered and beautiful in their own right.

    Jensen tells Up & Coming Weekly that the theme was inspired by Beyonce’s song, “You Won’t Break My Soul.” This upcoming show will be the eleventh fashion show that An Affair to Remember will be hosting. The show features the latest formal wear from the industries leading designers like JOVANI, Sherri Hill, Rachel Allan, ASHLEYlauren, Johnathan Kayne and more. Julie Durocher, the leading prom dress designer for JOVANI, will be present at the fashion show.

    Unlike last year, there will only be one show combining both the younger ladies of Fayetteville and the main show featuring high school-aged girls and the Women of Power. Overall, there will be 110 models this year, and at least 15 featured Women of Power.

    The show will feature live music this year by the band Sleeping Booty. The Sleeping Booty Band is an energetic music collective based in Raleigh. They take inspiration from every genre, playing classics from Aretha Franklin to ZZ Top.

    This year, one high schooler will have the opportunity to win a free prom dress and a VIP prom experience with some of her closest friends. In order to enter, all that high schooler has to do is attend the show. They will receive a raffle ticket that will be drawn during the show.

    This fashion show is for anyone who wants to get out and support fellow women in the community, not just those who are interested in fashion

    “Expect a great dinner. Be prepared to dance,” Jensen said. “It’s a great family event. Great for girls’ night out. It will just be a great night.”

    General admission tickets are $20. Tickets for Row 3 are $40, Row 2 are $50, and Row 1 is $60. The show will take place at the Crown Coliseum on Saturday, Jan. 7. Doors open at 6 p.m., the show starts at 7 p.m.
    Tickets can be bought at www.eventbrite.com/e/runway-extravaganza-fashion-show-tickets-442930917297. For more information on the show, go to www.aatrncfashionshow.com/.

  • 12aIndividuals looking for a little more excitement and adventure in their lives can think about making New Year’s resolutions that align with their adventurous goals. Below are some ideas that can serve as inspiration for anyone who wants to be a little more daring with this year’s resolutions.

    Try a new outdoor activity

    The great outdoors consistently beckons. Answer the call by engaging in a new outdoor activity. Any activity can be adventurous if it’s new to you.
    Start off small and get more into it as your skills improve. Consider kayaking, surfing, mountain biking, rock climbing, or anything else that presents a thrill.

    Get creative in the kitchen

    Being adventurous can extend to any aspect of life, including dining. Expand your culinary horizons by trying new flavor profiles and recipes inspired by global cuisine. This may include ingredients you deem to be “exotic” but are customary in other parts of the world.
    Inviting others to join you in these culinary efforts can also bring new ideas to the table. You may find your new favorite dish.

    Sleep outdoors

    Adventures do not have to be large and time-consuming. In fact, the term “microadventure” was dubbed by Alastair Humphreys, an adventurer and speaker, as a way to squeeze more gutsy activity into anyone’s schedule.
    One way to do so is to resolve to sleep outdoors in a new place once a month. Shaking off the creature comforts of home enables you to adapt and embrace new experiences.

    Aim to be more sustainable

    Active lifestyles often involve exploring natural landscapes. These areas can be affected by trash, which also can impact wildlife in negative ways.
    Resolve to keep parks, trails, rivers, lakes, forests and other outdoor areas clean and beautiful. Various organizations spearhead these types of efforts, but you can work independently as well. Always practice a “carry in, carry out” policy when hiking or enjoying nature.

    Individuals can ponder the many ways to embrace more adventurous resolutions in the year ahead.

  • 13bEstimates vary depending on the year and scope of the study, but research into New Year’s resolutions has generally found that fewer than 10% of people who make resolutions each year stay the course until they’ve accomplished their goal.

    In fact, a 2020 poll conducted by OnePoll in conjunction with Crispy Green found that the average person has abandoned his or her resolution by February 1.
    No two people are the same, but resolutions could fall victim to various pitfalls that can affect anyone. Recognition of these pitfalls when making a resolution may improve your chances of being successful in the year ahead.

    Lack of specificity: When making a resolution, be as specific as possible. If you want to read more, resolve to read two books per month (or however many books you feel you can reasonably read in a month). If you want to lose weight, speak to your physician to help you set a specific weight loss goal you can meet without compromising your overall health.

    No measuring stick to track progress: Specificity is important, but it’s not the only tool you can use to stay the course with a resolution. Maintain a resolution journal or blog that allows you to gauge your performance.
    This can help you engage more fully in your resolution efforts, providing an outlet you can use to explore your successess and failures.
    The more engaged you are in your resolution efforts, the more likely those efforts will prove successful.

    Going it alone: The buddy system works when pursuing various goals, and New Year’s resolutions are no exception. A friend or family member along for the resolution journey can make it easier to maintain your motivation. For example, anyone who wants to read more can join a book club, which can provide the motivation to finish books or excerpts before a weekly discussion.

    Biting off more than you can chew: Small resolutions may not seem like much, but minor efforts can serve as the stepping stones to realizing larger goals.
    If your goals are too ambitious at the outset, you’re more likely to give up at the first setback.

    Not anticipating setbacks: Setbacks will happen, and as noted, it’s easy to let them derail your efforts when they first appear. Recognize that there will be bumps in the road but that these bumps should in no way end your journey. Take setbacks as the valuable lessons that they can be, and use them as an opportunity to examine what you did that didn’t work and what you can do to avoid future setbacks.

  • 9aPiedmont Natural Gas earned the No. 1 spot in customer satisfaction with residential natural gas service in the South among large utilities, according to the J.D. Power 2022 Gas Utility Residential Customer Satisfaction Study.

    This is the first time Piedmont Natural Gas has received the No.1 ranking, topping six other utilities in the South Large segment.

    “Earning top honors in customer satisfaction demonstrates our strategy to put customers first,” said Sasha Weintraub, senior vice president and president of Piedmont Natural Gas. “Our think-customer approach is simple — listen to what our customers say and act on it. We work daily to deliver what matters most to them — safe, reliable, affordable and increasingly clean energy. We are grateful these efforts have been noticed, and I’m proud of the entire Piedmont Natural Gas team for this recognition.”

    Piedmont’s efforts to understand and address the needs of customers earned top rankings in the following study factors: billing and payment, corporate citizenship, communications, customer care and safety and reliability.

    J.D. Power represents the voice of customers. This year’s study results are based on responses from over 57,000 online interviews conducted from January 2022 through October 2022 with residential customers of the 84 largest natural gas utility brands, representing nearly 64.6 million households across the United States.

    J.D. Power began measuring the customer satisfaction of natural gas utilities in 2002.
    Piedmont Natural Gas is a subsidiary of Duke Energy, and distributes natural gas to more than 1.1 million residential, commercial, industrial and power generation customers in North Carolina, as well as South Carolina and Tennessee.

    Piedmont has been named by Cogent Reports as one of the most trusted utility brands in the U.S. For more information visit the website at piedmontng.com.
    Duke Energy, a Fortune 150 company headquartered in Charlotte, is one of America’s largest energy holding companies. Its electric utilities serve 8.2 million customers in North Carolina, South Carolina, Florida, Indiana, Ohio and Kentucky. Its natural gas unit serves 1.6 million customers in North Carolina, South Carolina, Tennessee, Ohio and Kentucky. The company employs 28,000 people.

    More information is available at duke-energy.com. The Duke Energy News Center contains news releases, fact sheets, photos and videos. Duke Energy’s illumination features stories about people, innovations, community topics and environmental issues.

  • 14Award-winning rhythm and blues trio Tony! Toni! Toné! will help usher in the new year during the city’s New Year’s Eve party at Festival Park.
    The group will headline the city’s New Year’s Eve party when a Night Circus: A District New Year’s Eve Spectacular returns for a second year, the Cool Spring Downtown District and the city of Fayetteville said in a release.

    The group was popular in the late 1980s to the early 90s. It has 14 Billboard-charting R&B singles, including five No. 1 hits, three top 10 pop singles, one gold album, two platinum albums and one double platinum album, and over six million total albums sold, according to the release.

    Their hits include “Feels Good,’’ “The Blues’’ and “Anniversary.’’ The group includes D’Wayne Wiggins, Timothy Christian Riley and Amar Khalil. The night also will include carnival attractions such as stilt walkers, fire dancers and roving magicians. There also will be food trucks and live music, the release said.

    Local DJs will entertain the crowd before the headliner takes the stage. At midnight, organizers plan to raise a large multi-colored star. There also will be fireworks, the release said.

    The Cool Spring District is facilitating the event on behalf of the city. Organizations and individuals who are interested in becoming a sponsor should contact Bianca Shoneman, president and CEO of the Cool Spring Downtown District at 910-223-1089 or Bianca@CoolSpringFay.org.

    The Night Circus and concert are free and open to the public.

  • 19If you happened to be at the Cumberland County Courthouse last month, it was hard to miss the news that Nov. 30 was Amy H. Cannon Day. On every floor, a huge poster display in the area of the elevators thanked Cannon for 32 years of service.

    The Cumberland County Board of Commissioners had proclaimed the day in her honor. Cannon has been the Cumberland County manager for the past eight years. Unlike the departures of many chief executives in public service these days, hers was civil. She did not get fired on the whim of an elected body. And she’s not packing her belongings to head to some faraway place.

    Instead, Cannon is retiring amid a host of accolades from the county commissioners who hired her and the fellow employees she worked with. The Fayetteville native grew up in the Cliffdale Road area of Fayetteville and graduated from Seventy-First High School in 1983.

    Commissioner Jeannette Council said Cannon was good at her job. And she had to be: She was a woman at the helm of one of the largest counties in North Carolina, Council said. Commissioner Jimmy Keefe also praised Cannon and said she served the county well. Commissioner Charles Evans echoed those statements.

    At one of Cannon’s last meetings as manager, those three commissioners were asked to present her with awards because they were on the board when it hired her as manager in 2014.
    Cannon acknowledges that being a native and having the opportunity to serve 32 years in local government doesn’t happen often.

    “Not many managers have the opportunity to service in their own community,” she said.

    She plans to stay right here in Fayetteville and spend some quality time with her family: her mother; two sons; a daughter-in-law who she says is like the daughter she never had; and an 8-week-old grandbaby.

    A team player

    Cannon started her final morning as manager visiting employees in the tax department and thanking them. She said other goodbyes and thanked employees; had lunch with her administrative staff; and honored her assistant county manager, Tracy Jackson. Jackson also plans to retire in December. Cannon credits her team with any success she’s had, referring to them as “dedicated public servants.”

    Her fifth-floor office overlooks the parking lot where the county commissioners, just days before her last day, decided to build a 69,000- to 89,000-square-foot multipurpose center that they say will be a downtown showpiece to replace the aging Crown Theatre and Crown Arena, located just off U.S. 301.

    “I am very excited about the Crown Event Center,” Cannon said. “I’m excited to have had a part in it. It’s going to be transformational for our community. The next step is for the county to hire a construction manager.”

    Cannon said to be successful as a public servant and leader, one must “feel the burden of those you represent.” That includes understanding the pressure on elected officials who may have come into office with a specific agenda or passion for a certain project.

    “I always understood their burden. (The commissioners) make difficult decisions. The needs often outweigh the resources. And, at the end of the day, they are the policymakers.”

    Challenging times

    Looking back over her career, Cannon reflects on her accomplishments as well as the things she wanted to get done before she left. The one project she wishes she could have seen to completion is building a homeless shelter.

    “Homelessness is a significant issue. I do wish we were further along to providing a solution to homelessness,” she said.

    The county is working to acquire land to build a homeless center. It’s one of the commissioners’ top priorities, she said. Cannon believes one of her successes was achieving financial stability in county government.
    “It’s something I’m extremely proud of,” she said.

    She recalls the dire years of 2012 and 2013, when the federal government shut down. County sales tax revenue plummeted in part because the military quit contracting with local vendors. When she became manager, she initiated stringent measures to ensure financial security, setting aside money for just such economic downturns.

    “When I became manager, I put into place some long-term capital plans. We set aside funding for capital projects so we didn’t have to raise taxes and the money would be there,” she said.

    “I’m so proud the board adopted those measures and embraced them and followed through on them,” she said. “It went a long way to stabilize the county financially and to weather upcoming storms.”

    Setting money aside for a rainy day paid dividends in 2017, the year the county underwent a property revaluation. Property values declined in Cumberland County that year, which resulted in a drop in tax revenue.

    “That never happened before. There was a $5 million shortfall in property taxes that year,” she said.

    Cannon recalls the difficult decisions that faced her management team. They included cutting jobs, slashing department budgets, and asking the commissioners to pass a small tax rate increase. But that needed to be done to ensure the county’s financial integrity and that it could weather economic storms.

    Some of the economic storms came in the form of hurricanes — first Matthew in October 2016, then Florence in September 2018. Cannon said Hurricane Florence resulted in historic flooding in Cumberland County.
    In the midst of recovering from the lower property revaluation and the devastation caused by Hurricane Florence, the county faced another economic disaster.

    “Then came the pandemic, another historic event,” Cannon said. “Those were significant events, and we survived each one of them.”

    Cannon graduated from UNC-Charlotte in 1987 with an accounting degree. An on-campus interview landed her a job with Cherry, Bekaert and Holland, a Raleigh-based accounting firm. At the time, the firm was hired to conduct annual audits for both Cumberland County and the city of Fayetteville.

    For the next several years, Cannon’s employers had her delving into local government finances, giving her what she calls “a great foundation” in the budget process. She moved on from the accounting firm to become the city of Fayetteville’s internal auditor, giving her more experience.

    But soon she was hired as a county budget analyst. Eight years later, in 1998, she became the county’s finance director. In 2000, then-County Manager James Martin appointed Cannon to a dual role: finance director and assistant county manager.

    “It was the best of both worlds: finance and budget, and an opportunity to grow in a leadership role,” she said.

    Looking back over her years with the county, Cannon says her successes came from the people who worked for her.

    “I could not have done this job without the grace of God, my family, and an extremely supportive workforce,” she said.

    For the rest of the month, Cannon plans to reconnect with friends and spend time with her family. In January, she hopes to start several home projects that have been waiting on the wings. And at some point, she said, she may reach out to colleagues in local government seeking part-time work.

    “When you have public service in your heart, you can’t cut it off after 32 years,” she said.

  • 6Howdy boys and girls, here’s the annual New Year’s salute to what was doing 100 years ago. After some high level cyphering, it turns out 1923 is the year that turns 100 in 2023. A decade here, a decade there, and pretty soon it adds up to some real time. Grab a cup of your favorite caffeinated beverage, put on your thinking cap, and hop into Mr. Peabody’s Way Back Machine to relive the thrills of 1923.

    On 1 January 1923, the Union of Soviet Socialist Republics was established under the old Soviet calendar. The USSR died on 26 December 1991 at the age of 68 due to sclerosis. It was replaced by Russia which may suffer the same fate this time due to chronic corruption. January 13 saw Hitler stir up a riot of 5,000 storm troopers to protest everything. This would not be the last the world saw of Hitler. Over in Italy, Mussolini formed the Fascists Voluntary Militia on February 1. The ferment of World War 2 was starting to bubble.

    On February 16, British archeologist Howard Carter opened the burial chamber of Pharaoh Tutankhamun. King Tut had been peacefully dead for about 3,000 years until Howie woke him up. Like most people rudely awakened from sleep, King Tut was cranky at being disturbed. You would not like King Tut when he was angry, and he was plenty angry. Nine people who were involved in disturbing Tut died mysterious deaths. Some good things did result. Steve Martin became famous for doing the King Tut Strut on "Saturday Night Live." Who can ever forget the immortal lyrics: “Born in Arizona/ Moved to Babylonia/ Dancin’ by the Nile/ Ladies love his style/ Rockin’ for a mile/ He ate a crocodile/ King Tut.”

    Boris Karloff’s career soared after playing Imhotep the mummy in the 1932 movie "The Mummy." Multiple mummy movies have stalked the silver screen since then. The actor Billy Mumy owes his name and success to King Tut. Mr. Mumy appeared in "Lost in Space" and the "Twilight Zone" episode in which he plays an evil child with psychic powers. His most dramatic role was in the short musical film "Fish Heads" which stars singing fish heads. Go look "Fish Heads" up on Mr. Google. You’ll be glad you did.

    On February 22 the first successful chinchilla farm was founded in California. People of a certain vintage may remember when chinchilla coats were the rage.
    On the entertainment front, the hit song “Yes, We have no Bananas” appeared on March 23. On June 6, Albert Anastasia was sentenced to two years in prison. Al was not someone to let time in the slammer get him down. Al went on to be one of the founding fathers of the American Mafia, the Boss of Murder Inc, and head of the Gambino Crime Family. Sadly, Al later died of lead poisoning in October 1957 while sitting in a barber chair in New York City.

    Harry Houdini astounded New Yorkers on June 12 when he escaped from a strait jacket while hanging upside down forty feet above the ground. Why anyone would want to hang upside down in a strait jacket remains one of the many mysteries surrounding Houdini’s life. The comic strip "Moon Mullins" debuted on 19 June and ran until 1991 lasting almost as long as the USSR.

    On July 13, paleontologist Roy Chapman Andrews found the first fossilized dinosaur eggs while digging in Mongolia. It is unclear if the eggs were poached, sunny side up or scrambled.
    Warren G. Harding, the 29th President, died mysteriously in a hotel room in San Francisco on August 3 making Cal Coolidge the 30th President. Silent Cal didn’t say much, but is remembered for saying “The business of America is business” whatever that means.

    On September 5, a boxing miracle occurred when two fly weight boxers, Gene LaRue and Kid Pancho knocked each other out simultaneously. That was an athletic feat unlikely to be repeated. In September, Lou Gehrig playing for the NY Yankees got his first hit. He went on to get a total of 2,721 hits,493 home runs with a life time batting average of .340. Pretty darned impressive.
    In Germany, the Mark continued its downward spiral, reaching a conversion rate of 4 billion Marks to a dollar on 11 October. The Disney Brothers founded their studio on 16 October. Disney thinks kids grow up too fast, but capitalizes on it by charging full adult admission at its theme parks for any kid over the age of 9.

    On 16 October John Harwood patented the first self-winding watch for people too lazy to wind their watch. This ultimately ruined the old saying about learning something dumb: “I did not know whether to go blind or wind my watch.”

    On November 8, Adolph Hitler surfaced like pond scum with the Beer Hall Putsch in another failed attempt to take over the German government.

    So, there you have it. Our old pal 1923 turns 100 this year. He doesn’t look a day over 75. Must be the curse of King Tut is finally wearing off. Happy New Year to us each and every one.

  • 11Each year Army Community Service accepts nomination packets from units for the Family of the Year program. There were 25 families nominated from units across Fort Bragg. Out of those 25, the family that chose “Commitment” was the Burlee family.

    Maj. Sarah Burlee and 1st Sgt. Christopher Burlee has been together for 16 years. After almost two decades together, they have been deployed multiple times, stationed at several military installations, and raised one older son and two daughters together. The two met in Korea. They bonded over the movie “Highlander” and had a similar sense of humor.

    “The night that I caught her with a really great line, she was on her way up the stairs, with the basket laundry, and I was on my way down, and she just passed by when I said, ‘what, you’re not going to say hi,’ which I’m pretty sure made her more angry than anything else,” Christopher Burlee joked.

    They were married a few months later in Hawaii. Alex Burlee, 26, was Christopher’s son from a previous relationship. Their daughters, Audie, 11, and Paisley, 9, have been to four different schools, but have kept a happy, joking attitude and don’t mind being the ‘new kids’ at school.

    The success of the family can be partially credited to Sarah’s family. Her parents moved out to Fort Campbell shortly after the family was stationed there. When Sarah worked in the D.C. area for two years, her sister was in the area and helped watch after the girls. Now at Fort Bragg, Sarah’s parents have moved to Fayetteville and reconnected with other family members who live in the area.

    Her family were present at the Fort Bragg Family of the Year ceremony on Dec. 1. Another thing that helps the family is a digital family calendar and jumping back into routine after one of the Burlees were away. Christopher has been on eight total rotations to Afghanistan, six after the girls were born.

    “So when he says like eight rotations, it’s like, okay, we’re leaving today,” Sarah remarked.

    Christopher says the one to two month rotations are the hardest to get adjusted back into family life.11a

    “Because by the time I got back, she had found her way into a schedule. And now I’m back and it’s like, oh, throw me into the rotation coach and it just threw her off a lot of times. But I look back now and I think that her assertion was absolutely 100% correct. You just have to have family help and just understand that when we come back, things have to change. That was the hardest thing for me,” Christopher remarked.

    “I know it’s not easy for anybody, even me traveling in and out. I try to get back into the routine just in time to like jump back out again,” Sarah jumped in. In the last year, Sarah spent 13 to 14 weeks gone — a quarter of the year away from her family.

    In the end, both the Burlees agree that, at the end of the day, the job has to get done.

    “I think there’s the understanding too that, you know, for especially in Sarah’s position now is this stuff has to get done. There’s very few people that can do it and when she showed up to her job, they said, ‘here’s a problem, we need you to fix it.’ And then a little over a year later, she’s like, ‘Are your problems fixed?’ ‘How did you do that,’ ‘Well, because you told me to fix it.’ So it was fixed with trips and long days at work and everything else,” Christopher said.

    “My job requires me to be here. There’s 300 people in this company that need my help. So I just have to be available for them and have to be willing to say work day doesn’t end just because 1700 hits or 1800. The workday continues until the next workday begins for everybody else. So just a lot of commitment and dedication to get the job done. We're hired for a reason.”

    The Fort Bragg Family of the Year is a unique title given to just one family annually who exemplifies the spirit of military families. Christopher was the one who nominated his family for the Family of the Year award, which was odd, according to Sarah, because he’s typically the one who hates any attention and additionally hates Hallmark movies.

    Little did he know that the submission for his family would lead to the ultimate Hallmark moment — lighting the Christmas tree at the annual Fort Bragg tree lighting ceremony. Christopher also didn’t tell his wife that he applied. She learned about it a few days before the Family of the Year Board interviewed them. She was also in Lithuania at the time, so she had to call in.

    11b“I heard very little of the interview. I was literally in a speakeasy in Lithuania trying to listen in,” Sarah said.

    According to the ACS, one of the many reasons why the Burlee Family was nominated included the Family’s initiation of a Girl Scout Troop, where they have volunteered leading the girls and helping them develop tangible skills.

    The Burlee family also organized a blood donation program at the Fort Bragg Blood Donor Center and created a Quilts for Valor program with Sarah’s mother. The program presents Soldier’s newborn children with handmade baby quilts.

    Each family who is nominated for family of the year has to submit a word that describes their family. The word for the Burlee family was “Commitment.”
    Sarah recalls a story from a kickboxing teacher in Afghanistan, which has stuck with her for a long time and has reflected in how their family is run.

    “You don’t think you have time? You don’t think you want to do a second workout? You don't want to have to deal with the laundry. You don’t want to have yeah yeah yeah. And then you will do it because you want to. We'll do it because we decided that was what we were going to do,” Sarah said.

    “We decided to do the Girl Scouts thing. We decided to put them in the school. We decided that we were not caving either one of our careers. We decided that we were going to finish this degree,” Sarah said. “We do because we decided to do.”

  • 13aNew Year’s Eve is one of the most festive nights of the year. Despite its reputation for revelry, New Year’s Eve also can be dangerous, which underscores the need to celebrate responsibly when ringing in a new year.
    American Addiction Centers surveyed 1,000 Americans regarding their alcohol consumption habits on certain holidays. The survey found that the average person consumes 4.4 alcoholic drinks on New Year’s Eve, making the holiday second only to Mardi Gras in terms of drinks consumed.

    Alcohol lowers individuals’ inhibitions and adversely affects their judgment, which could make them vulnerable to criminals and more likely to make bad decisions, including driving after a few drinks. In fact, the National Safety Council estimates that 427 people may die on U.S. roads during the 2022 New Year’s holiday period.

    A new year is worthy of celebration, and the festivities can be even more enjoyable when individuals take these safety tips to heart.

    Recognize the risks. Recognition of the potentially serious threats that can be lurking on New Year’s Eve is vital to celebrating safely. A 2011 report from the Bureau of Crime Statistics and Research in the United States noted a significant spike in the rate of assaults, murders, sexual assaults and robberies on New Year’s Eve, linking that increase to higher levels of alcohol consumption. Individuals who recognize how vulnerable overconsumption of alcohol can make them may be less inclined to overdo it this year.

    Avoid the roads. Data from the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration indicates that 68% of drunk driving traffic fatalities on New Year’s 2016 involved drivers with a high blood alcohol concentration. One of the safest things individuals can do on New Year’s Eve is to avoid the roads. Consider celebrating at home or staying in a hotel or the home of a loved one. If you must be on the road, call a cab or book an Uber when you need to get to and from a party.

    Be careful even if you’re hosting. New Year’s Eve celebrants also must be vigilant if they’re hosting a gathering at home. Laws vary, but social host liability laws generally hold hosts who serve alcohol responsible for the actions of their guests after they leave their homes. So hosts could conceivably be vulnerable to criminal or civil proceedings if they serve alcohol to guests who are then involved in traffic accidents or other incidents after they leave hosts’ homes.

    New Year’s Eve is a time for celebration. Taking steps to ensure celebrations are safe can make the night even more fun.

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