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  •     I’m 24 and my boyfriend of five months is 28. He was adamant about knowing the number of sexual partners I’ve had. I’m not comfortable sharing that, but he said he had to know what he was getting into to take the relationship to the next level. He’s had 14; I’ve had four, but I told him two. It was an honest mistake - two were hookups and I forgot them. Honesty is super important to him, but I’m stressed about coming clean. He doesn’t even like that I have guy friends, so he was really upset about the two boyfriends, and wanted complete details. When I didn’t want to tell all, he claimed I was hiding something. He’s sometimes condescending, yet if I don’t respond in a pleasant fashion when I’m upset, we’ll have to have a long talk about it. Still, I’m afraid I’m misrepresenting him. He’s a great man, always tells me how wonderful I am, and appreciates the little things I do like cooking dinner. I feel he deserves my honesty, but how significant is my actual number of partners?
    — Distressed


        For Rick and Ilsa, it was “We’ll always have Paris.” What will your parting words be, “We’ll always have Guantanamo”?
        And make no mistake: You should part — pronto — because the relationship you’re in is pretty much a textbook case of abuse. Sure, the average guy gets rattled at the thought of his girlfriend naked with previous boyfriends — or even the sight of her, fully clothed, talking to some guy friend who isn’t a disfigured, 85-year-old gay troll. The appropriate response is playing it cool, not taking the girlfriend home and waterboarding her for hours.
        You actually were honest with your boyfriend — you told him you “didn’t want to tell all.” That should’ve been that. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean signing away your right to privacy. Anything short of “My last three boyfriends are buried in the backyard” or “I have these weird red bumps all over my girlparts” is information you don’t owe anybody. While guys will get curious, an emotionally healthy boyfriend doesn’t demand to know who, how many, how often and how well your being double-jointed worked out for you and the last dude.
        As for what sheer numbers say, your sexual history could look like a line for free tickets to Coldplay; it’s your ethics that predict whether you’ll cheat. This is all about control and confession and forgiveness on his terms. It’s classic abuser behavior: Isolate you - first, from your guy friends; later, from anybody who might talk some sense into you. Cut you down, build you up a little (“What a lovely stew!”) and cut you down some more. He’s essentially smacking you around, then kissing your booboo. And no, he’s not literally smacking you around now, but that’s where emotional abuse often leads. What are you waiting for, a sign? Two black eyes? A couple broken bones? Or, maybe something in writing; a death certificate, perhaps?
        Get out.
  •     You’ll find that going to motorcycle auctions can actually have several benefits. You’ll be sure to find an excellent deal on a motorcycle when you purchase at one of these auctions, and for sellers, it provides a way to get great profits easily as well.
        If you’re looking for a great motorcycle and you want a real deal, then you may want to check out one of these auctions. If you’re a consumer in the market for an excellent motorcycle that is in nice shape, this is a great way that you can find cheap motorcycles. In fact, you may even be able to get one that is almost new for a price that is excellent.
        While it usually will cost you big time to purchase a new motorcycle, you can definitely find one for a deal that is affordable when you check out these motorcycle auctions.{mosimage}

    Great Public Auctions
        There are a variety of great public motorcycle auctions that are out there that will allow you to get great prices. However, you’ll usually find the very best deals when you check out auctions of motorcycles that have been seized by the government. Often you’ll find great bikes that were taken by the government from people who were getting involved in criminal activities. Some places hold these auctions on a regular basis, so you will need to look for them. Usually the government just wants to get rid of these auctions, which is why you can get such a great deal on a motorcycle when you attend these auctions.

    Things to Remember
        Of course before you purchase a motorcycle at motorcycle auctions, there are several things that you are going to keep in mind.
        • Inspect Carefully - First of all, if you are going to purchase a motorcycle at these kinds of auctions, you need to make sure that you inspect the motorcycle before you make the purchase.
        • Come Early - Coming to the auction early is a great idea as well, since it allows you to take a closer look at the motorcycles that are being sold before there are too many people around.
        • Have a Budget - Last of all, it is so important that you have a budget already laid out before you even get to the motorcycle auction so you are sure to stick to it and not spend more than you can afford.
        While you may be able to save a lot of money at these auctions, you should always follow the old maxim “Buyer be ware,” and know what you are getting into before you put your money down.

  • Max Payne  (Rated PG-13) 1 Star

        What Hollywood schlockmeister greenlit this fly-spotted waste of celluloid? Max Payne(100 minutes), despite having (finally) knocked Beverly Hills Chihuahua off the top of the box office, is not even interesting enough to properly make fun of. Even for a movie based on a video game this is a sluggish, misinformed effort. It somehow succeeds at being worse than the travesty that was Doom, and less intelligent than the lamentable Alone in the Dark. Frankly, this unimaginative dreck is to be expected from Director John Moore, who finished the ridiculously unnecessary remake of The Omen immediately prior to this film.
        {mosimage}Perhaps we cannot blame screenwriter Beau Thorne for the on-screen missteps since this is his first movie, but we can certainly write angry letters to the casting department. Who told casting directors Deirdre Bowen and Mindy Marin that Mila Kunis could play the “tough” character? And what in the world is Nelly Furtado of all people doing in this movie? That’s just weird. Seriously, someone must have gathered some great secrets and blackmailed the entire main cast to get them to agree to appear in this shameless, meaningless exercise in foolishness.
        So, what is the plot of this mind-numbing waste of almost two hours of my life? Well, it does follow the video game to some extent, and fans can have fun looking for “insider details” like the “V” graffiti. A New York City detective named Max Payne (Mark Wahlberg) is working in the cold case files after his wife and child are violently killed. He has become obsessed with bringing their murderers to justice, and spends most of his time stalking the streets in search of answers. During the course of his investigation Max is introduced to Natasha Sax (Olga Kurylenko). Later, Natasha is attacked and Max’s old partner Alex Balder (Donal Logue) investigates, only to be attacked himself.
        Meanwhile, assassin Mona Sax (inexplicably played by Mila Kunis) runs around the city in black leather stiletto boots that would put a Pussycat Doll to shame, occasionally shooting at (and usually missing) random flunkies in an attempt to find her sister’s attackers. Eventually Mona and Max join forces, believing their two missions are related.
        While Max chews scenery in the “A” Plot, an internal affairs officer named Jim Bravura (Chris “Ludacris” Bridges)…actually, he doesn’t do much of anything. He certainly is in a lot of scenes, but nothing seems to happen.
        Luckily, there is another plot revolving around the evil AESIR Corporation headed up by B.B. Hensley (Beau Bridges). Also working for AESIR is Jason Colvin (Chris O’Donnell), whom Max brutally beats during an unofficial interrogation late in the movie. During the beating, Colvin reveals important secrets that lead Max closer to the killers he so desperately seeks.
        Following the grand finale I was so desperate to leave I admit I missed the after credits sequence. Anyone who is still alive and kicking following the so-called climax of the WORST MOVIE I HAVE SAT THROUGH IN 10 YEARS is welcome to stay and watch Mona and Max in the bar, discussing some very important information.

  •     {mosimage}In 1991, musical groups all over the country banded together to celebrate the 200th anniversary of the death of Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart. In Fayetteville, more than 80 people banded together, under the tutelage of Methodist University Professor Alan Porter, to perform Mozart’s Requiem Mass in D Minor.
        Since that first performance, the group, now called the Cumberland Oratorio Singers, has performed across the county during its annual season. The 2008-2009 season will open on Sunday, Nov. 2 at 4 p.m. in the Reeves Auditorium on the campus of Methodist University. The season will open with Magnifact – featuring “The Lamb” by John Tavener, “Rejoice in the Lamb” by Benjamin Britten; and “Magnificat” by John Rutter.
        The performance is more than an opening for the group, it’s also a new beginning, as Michael Martin begins his inaugural season as the group’s conductor. Martin, a native of Maine, took the baton from Dr. Alan Porter last year. Porter, who led the group since its inception, retired from Methodist University, where he served as the head of the Music Department and the Division of Fine Arts.
        Martin, now the director of choral activities and music education at Methodist, was appointed the artistic director and conductor of the group earlier this year. In 2007, he completed his doctoral studies and is currently a Ph.D. candidate in Music Education with an emphasis in Choral Education through Kent State University, Kent, Ohio. He has taught in grades 4-12, in the capacity of orchestral, choral and instrumental education positions throughout New England. He has received recognition as a teacher and conductor, having been the recipient of several teaching awards, and serving as a guest conductor, vocal clinician, and judge for New England and Midwestern festivals. Martin has also conducted a semi-professional community choral group in New Hampshire and an award-winning barbershop chorus in Maine.
        The group is comprised of members from a wide range of ethnic backgrounds and experiences. The season includes four performances, the Nov. 2 performance, one on March 20, 2009 and May 17, 2009. A Christmas concert is free and open to the public.
        Season tickets cost $30 and admit one. The subscription concerts will be held in Reeves Auditorium at Methodist University; the Christmas concert will be presented at Holy Trinity Episcopal Church. Individual tickets are $12 per performance. College students of any age (with ID) and schoolchildren are admitted free.
        To order season tickets, send a check (payable to Cumberland Oratorio Singers), your name, address, and the number of season tickets being purchased to: Cumberland Oratorio Singers, c/o Methodist University, 5400 Ramsey St., Fayetteville, N.C. 28311
        For more information, call COS President Mary Potter (822-4447) or Director Michael Martin (630-7153).
  •     In just a few days, North Carolina voters will elect a new governor, lieutenant governor, and perhaps a dozen or more new members to the General Assembly.    

        I wonder how many will, on second thought, decline the honor. The coming legislative session in 2009 isn’t going to be pleasant. The economic downturn could well persist far into next year, with the jobless rate reaching as high as 8 percent and many North Carolinians experiencing weak or nonexistent income growth. Among other adverse effects, economic downturns do a double-whammy on the state budget — boosting demand for public assistance while slashing revenue collections.  {mosimage}   

        According to the latest estimates from the legislative staff, the state received $230 million less than expected during the first quarter of the 2008-09 fiscal year. If the trend persists through June, that suggests the possibility that revenue collections will be more than $1 billion below projections (other quarters have bigger revenue numbers, so the same percentage drop would be worse).    

        Factor in the likely increase in Medicaid, other welfare spending tied to the business cycle and the need to plug a hole in the state employees health plan in the range of a quarter-billion dollars, and it isn’t hard to imagine a scenario in which North Carolina’s newly elected chief executive and legislative will be faced with a budget gap exceeding $1.5 billion.    

        That’s not the end of the story. Remember that North Carolina continues to grow, albeit not as rapidly as in the recent past. There’ll be plenty of demands on state coffers to fund enrollment increases in schools and colleges, staff new state prisons and facilities, and at least give state employees enough of a raise to partly offset inflation. Typically, these bread-and-butter expenditures total hundreds of millions of additional dollars.    

        Therefore, many longtime budget watchers think that the state’s fiscal deficit next year will approach if not exceed $2 billion, or roughly 10 percent of the state’s General Fund budget.    

        On the campaign trail, Beverly Perdue and Pat McCrory have both argued for more state spending on programs they consider high priorities (early childhood and higher education for Perdue, law enforcement and transportation for McCrory). It may be their sincere intention to launch new initiatives, but at least in the initial budget biennium, reality will intrude. Although the Easley administration has already begun to cut back, and the state has $800 million in its savings reserve, the magnitude of the state’s fiscal woes will likely overwhelm most other issues next year.        

        The next governor will need to propose a balanced budget that fulfills the state’s core responsibilities without making North Carolina’s economic problems worse. Right after the election, the political establishment in Raleigh will begin pressuring that incoming governor to do the “courageous” thing and raise taxes — again. It will take real courage to say no, to recognize that there will be no better time to make the tough decisions that past governors have side-stepped, to set firm spending priorities and make them stick.    

        There will be no better time to streamline North Carolina’s convoluted array of state departments and agencies, reduce bureaucracy, increase transparency and end the political patronage and pork-barrel spending that pad budgets and reduce efficiency. Both Perdue and McCrory have endorsed the idea of creating a committee of budget experts, inside and outside of government, to help identify such savings opportunities and sell the resulting package to key political constituencies and the general public.     

        That’s a good idea. It was a good idea years ago, when state lawmakers heard similar recommendations from blue-ribbon committees and then failed to act on most of them. In 2009, policymakers will need to demonstrate that they don’t just talk a good game when it comes to fiscal restraint but will actually go out on the field and score.    

        The downturn is affecting many states. They’ll be merging, pruning, and downsizing, too. Some will probably raise taxes. Unfortunately, when strong economic performance in recent years pushed North Carolina’s revenues up significantly, state leaders chose to spend the money on new and expanded programs — ratcheting up our long-term fiscal obligations while leaving our marginal tax rates relatively high. As a result, North Carolina has less room to maneuver. Only the deluded could believe that jacking up our income and sales tax rates further above those of our neighbors and regional competitions won’t have deleterious effects on entrepreneurial activity and job creation in North Carolina.    

        We’re about to discover just how far delusion pervades the political class in Raleigh. In the meantime, it might be a good idea to prepare some post-election letters of condolence — to the winners.

  •     Dear EarthTalk: What’s the story with LED light bulbs that are reputed to be even more energy-efficient than compact fluorescents?                        — Toby Eskridge, Little Rock, AR

        Perhaps the ultimate “alternative to the alternative,” the LED (light-emitting diode) light bulb may well dethrone the compact fluorescent (CFL) as king of the green lighting choices. But it has a way to go yet in terms of both affordability and brightness.
        {mosimage}LEDs have been used widely for decades in other applications — forming the numbers on digital clocks, lighting up watches and cell phones and, when used in clusters, illuminating traffic lights and forming the images on large outdoor television screens.
        Until recently LED lighting has been impractical to use for most other everyday applications because it is built around costly semiconductor technology. But the price of semiconductor materials has dropped in recent years, opening the door for some exciting changes in energy-efficient, green friendly lighting options.
    According to HowStuffWorks.com, LED bulbs are lit solely by the movement of electrons. Unlike incandescents, they have no filament that will burn out; and unlike CFLs, they contain no mercury or other toxic substances. Proponents say LEDs can last some 60 times longer than incandescents and 10 times longer than CFLs. And unlike incandescents, which generate a lot of waste heat, LEDs don’t get especially hot and use a much higher percentage of electricity for directly generating light.
        But as with early CFLs, LED bulbs are not known for their brightness. According to a January 2008 article in Science Daily, “Because of their structure and material, much of the light in standard LEDs becomes trapped, reducing the brightness of the light and making them unsuitable as the main lighting source in the home.” LED makers get around this problem in some applications by clustering many small LED bulbs together in a single casing to concentrate the light emitted. But such LED “bulbs” still don’t generate light much brighter than a 35-watt incandescent, much too little light for reading or other focused tasks.
    If LEDs are going to replace incandescents and CFLs, manufacturers will have to make them brighter. EarthLED is lighting the way with its EvoLux and ZetaLux bulbs, which use multiple LEDs in a single casing to generate light. The EvoLux delivers light equal to that of a 100-watt incandescent, the company says. But the $80/bulb price tag may be tough to swallow. The ZetaLux, which retails for $49.99, delivers light equivalent to a 50- or 60-watt incandescent, will last 50,000 hours and costs only $2/yearly to run.
        Other bulb makers are working on similar designs for high-powered LED bulbs, hoping that an increase in availability will help spur demand, which will in turn lower prices across the board. Until then, consumers can find LED bulbs suitable for secondary and mood lighting purposes in many hardware and big box stores. C. Crane’s 1.3-watt LED bulb, for example, generates as much light as a 15-watt incandescent bulb. Check your local hardware store for other options, as well as online vendors such as Best Home LED Lighting, Bulbster, SuperBrightLEDs.com and We Love LEDs.
        CONTACTS: How Stuff Works, www.howstuffworks.com/led.htm; EarthLED, www.earthled.com; Best Home LED Lighting,  Hwww.besthomeledlighting.com; Bulbster,  www.bulbster.com; SuperBrightLEDs.com,  www.superbrightleds.com; We Love LEDs,  www.weloveleds.com.
        GOT AN ENVIRONMENTAL QUESTION? Send it to: EarthTalk, c/o E/The Environmental Magazine, P.O. Box 5098, Westport, CT 06881; submit it at:  www.emagazine.com/earthtalk/thisweek/, or e-mail: earthtalk@emagazine.com. Read past columns at: www.emagazine.com.earthtalk/archives.php.
  •     In a time when everything old is new again, it’s not surprising that Harry Wayne Casey is still packing venues across the nation. For those of you who may not be hip enough to figure out who Harry Wayne is, he’s the front man for K.C. and the Sunshine Band, the band that got everybody on their feet and shaking their booties in the ‘70s.{mosimage}
        If you remember those days of bell bottoms, platform shoes and disco with a certain degree of fondness, you’re not going to want to miss the opening concert of the Community Concerts series, which kicks off on Saturday, Oct. 18, at the Crown Auditorium at the Crown Coliseum Complex, at 8 p.m.
        The Community Concerts is an all-volunteer, nonprofit arts organization whose sole mission is to bring the finest in topnotch entertainment to Fayetteville. In addition to concerts, the group’s mission includes an ever growing list of outreach programs including support for Boy’s and Girl’s Club members and deserving seniors, music clinics for children and a new music scholarship fund. Other outreach programs are only a beat away. The concert series is Fayetteville’s oldest arts organization, having been in existence for 73 years. The group’s goal is to make Fayetteville a better place.
        And nothing will lend itself to making Fayetteville a better place than spending a night remembering the golden days of disco with K.C. and his Sunshine Band.
        The band, formed in Miami in 1973, had its first breakthrough hit in 1975 with its mega hit “Get Down Tonight.” The song topped not only the rhythm and blues charts, but also the Billboard charts. That song was followed with a string of hits, including “That’s the Way ( I Like It), “I’m Your Boogie Man (Shake, shake, shake, shake your booty),” “Keep It Coming Love” and “Please Don’t Go,” which hit the charts in 1979 and was the band’s last major hit. But that hasn’t stopped fans from continuing to listen to and introduce their kids and grandkids to the music of K.C. and the Sunshine Band.
        The concert is the first of four concerts planned for the 2008-2009 season. Other performers scheduled to perform include Michael Bolton, Natalie Cole and Boyz II Men.
        Tickets for the Community Concert Series are on sale now and range in price from $50 to $5,000.         Admission to all concerts is by season membership only. Concerts and attractions are subject to change, and refunds are not available. It is requested that all ticket holders enter the facility by 7:45 p.m.
        For more information, visit www.community-concerts.com


  • Chocolate News is the African-American Parody of Current Affairs

        Finally, a worthy successor to the late, lamented Chappelle’s Show. In Chocolate News (Wednesday, 10:30 p.m., Comedy Central), the talented comedian David Alan Grier purports to explore current affairs from an African-American perspective. What he really does is lampoon black culture, stereotypes about black culture and the white culture that traffics in those stereotypes.
        {mosimage}One “report” profiles a self-important hip-hop bonehead who, hired to make a public service announcement for No Child Left Behind, merely adapts one of his usual filthy videos to the educational theme. (The sexy dancing girls supply the “behind” in No Child Left Behind.) We hear from Caucasians for the Fair Use of the N Word Commission and Maya Angelou (Grier in drag) recites a pseudo-profound poem about Barack Obama. Clearly, no sacred cow is safe during this half-hour.
        In the event of an African-American president, Chocolate News could be the go-to fake news program of the next four years. Watch your back, Daily Show.

    LIVING PROOF
    Saturday, 9 p.m. (Lifetime)

        Harry Connick Jr. got famous doing a bad impersonation of Frank Sinatra. So you can hardly blame him for sticking with his forte — bad impersonations — in this TV movie about the real-life researcher who developed the breast cancer treatment Herceptin. Connick tries to look all scientific in a white lab coat, but you can only laugh at his earnest-Ph.D. line readings. “Two-hundred thousand women a year are diagnosed with breast cancer!” he barks at his new assistant (Amanda Bynes). “Getting Herceptin to work can save a lot of those lives!”

    THE LIFE AND TIMES of TIM
    Sunday, 11 p.m. (HBO)
        This animated series follows an excruciatingly normal guy named Tim. The humor and animation are low-temperature — a perfect match for Tim himself, a young man who’s going nowhere slow. He has a cruddy corporate job, an okay girlfriend and a penchant for getting sucked into dubious situations. In this week’s episode, a family baptism goes bad, suggesting that there’s little hope for today’s alienated man.
        You’d have to be as much of a loser as Tim to find this series funny. That’s why I…um, hate it.

    FRANK TV
    Tuesday, 11 p.m. (TBS)
        With the presidential campaign in full swing, you’d think that impressionist Frank Caliendo would be in hog heaven. But in the season premiere of his sketch comedy show, he wastes time on toothless bits about David Letterman, James Gandolfini and Star Wars. The only political sketch is a clunker about John McCain’s whiteness.

  •    {mosimage}Blindness (Rated R) Four Stars

        If Blindness(120 minutes) conveys anything, it is that the ability to see atrocities does not necessarily translate to a willingness to stop atrocities.
        Yes, like many other end-of-the-world movies, this is a shockingly violent film that attempts to explore the fragility of civilization. Yes, there is sexual violence against women, a theme that appears far too often in this kind of movie. Yes, there is an overwhelming amount of degradation, and blood. Certainly, the day-to-day life of the blind is not depicted in a realistic or positive way. In fact, the only sighted character is several times treated as morally superior and more functional than all the blind around her. Even so, there is something compelling about it.
        I am accustomed to enjoying films that others find repulsive or without redeeming social value, but in this case so many overly critical reviewers seem to have missed the forest for the trees, failing to appreciate the moral stance of the film amidst all the horror.
        An unnamed city in an unspecified location experiences a medically improbable epidemic of sudden blindness. The first man affected (Yusuke Iseya) spreads the affliction to his wife and several others, who themselves pass the blindness along to those they meet. His doctor (Mark Ruffalo) is infected, and along with others he is quarantined in a dilapidated, inadequately provisioned, quarantine facility. The doctor’s wife (Julianne Moore) has accompanied him despite her seeming immunity to the problem, and she is s silent witness as criminals prey on the weak. The doctor has increasing difficulty coping with his loss of sight and his wife’s new role as his caretaker, and his wife is unable to act decisively without exposing herself to the overwhelming demands of the sightless masses.
        Powerful secondary roles include the bartender (Gael Garcia Bernal), the woman with dark glasses (Alice Braga), and the man with eye patch (Danny Glover), all of whom deliver excellent characterization even with the absence of back story. Some of the quarantined eventually escape the facility, only to walk into a changed world where the only ones they can depend on are each other.   
        What makes this particular movie stand out is the use of a visual medium to convey the widespread lack of sight in its protagonists. The camera manipulates us, nothing can be taken for granted, and the audience is constantly reminded that the ability to see is a fragile gift, easily lost. A boy stumbles, the film flickers, and only then do we see the table he fell over. Director Fernando Meirelles delivers a horror movie that actually will give you nightmares, because he is using a visual style that will trick you into lingering looks at horrible things we should not want to see. In short, the cinematography, the use of color and the use of darkness is incredibly cool.
        Let me confess, there are plot holes. It is a neat idea to present a film without providing any history or even names for the main characters, but it also leaves many questions unanswered. Although it is nice to see an international cast, failure to provide a specific location for the movie results in a lack of audience connection to the story. And the plot resolution, although providing a much needed catharsis, is far too long in coming. Overall, a challenging film that intelligently re-imagines the science fiction class, Day of the Triffids.

  •     If you take a poll, many people will tell you that fall is their favorite time of the year. The nip in the air, the warmth of the Carolina sun and the gold and red of the leaves as they change their color are an invitation get outdoors and explore the beauty of our state.
        One of the best ways to take in that beauty is by taking in one of the countless fall festivals that are staged every weekend in our state. Below you’ll find a round up of some of the upcoming festivals that are within a day’s drive of our community.

    Carolina In the Fall Festival
    Oct. 17-18
    North Wilkesboro

        On the edge of the mountains, North Wilkesboro is an ideal place to spend a weekend, particularly if you love bluegrass music. The festival starts at 5 p.m. on Friday and continues throughout Saturday. This year the North Carolina Banjo Championship will be hosted at the festival, with the competition starting at 10 a.m.     For more information, visit www.carolinainthefall.com

    Wooly Worm Festival
    Oct. 18-19
    Banner Elk

        In Pennsylvania they have their groundhog to predict the weather. In North Carolina, we look close to the ground as well, as mountain folks turn to the wooly worm to determine how severe our winter will be.
        These days folks may not take the prediction that seriously, but they sure enjoy the party that surrounds it. The Woolly Worm races begin around 10 a.m. Each heat consists of 20 worms and races continue all day until the grand final around 4 p.m. The winning worm on Saturday is declared the official winter forecasting agent. The Sunday worm races are for prestige, fun and small prizes.
        In addition to the Woolly Worm Races, the festival features crafts, food vendors, live entertainment and much more. Last year’s festival attracted an estimated 20,000 fans, 140 vendors and around 1,000 race entrants.
        The Woolly Worm Festival is sponsored by the Avery County Chamber of Commerce and the Kiwanis Club of Banner Elk and a portion of the proceeds go to support children’s charities throughout the county.     For more information, phone 828-898-5605 or visit www. Averycounty.com

    Fairmont Farmers Festival
    Oct. 17-19
    Fairmont

        A little closer to home, the Fairmont Farmers Festival offers music, food, golf, pageants and much more. The event kicks off on Friday at 1 p.m. with the Fairmont Chamber of Commerce Festival Golf Tournament.     Opening ceremonies at on Saturday, Oct. 18 at 9:40 a.m. The ceremony will be followed by a parade, a car/motorcycle, antique tractor show, Civil War Reenactment, entertainment and a tobacco barn dance. For more information, visit www.fairmontnc.com.

    Nascar Day Festival
    Oct. 18
    Randleman

        On Saturday, Oct. 18, 2008 from 9 a.m. until 7 p.m., NASCAR excitement will once again invade Randleman. If you can imagine 40,000 people coming together to celebrate racing, you will get the picture.     An enormous amount of fun happens in Randleman during NASCAR Day & Festival.
        Each year, Main Street is transformed by its vendors to include something for everyone. There is a large selection of things to see, buy or do . . . handmade crafts, food booths, live bands and entertainment, NASCAR show cars, drag cars, vintage antique automobiles, official NASCAR souvenir vendors and games for kids. Visitors especially enjoy the opportunity to meet and visit with members of the Winston Cup Old Timers Club, and admire the collection of vintage race cars on display. A highlight of this annual event is the glittering fireworks display near the downtown festival area that is sponsored by Richard and Lynda Petty.
        Also, the Richard Petty Museum is located within one block of Main Street and visitors enjoy touring the 12,000 square foot facility, rich with mementos the Petty family has collected during several decades of racing. Racing highlights include awesome automobiles, an intimate video theater, as well as numerous awards won by Richard Petty. Apart from racing, the museum even includes Lynda Petty’s fabulous doll collection. For more information, visit  www.randlemanchamber.com/nascar.htm.

    N.C. Oyster Festival
    Oct. 18 -19
    Ocean Isle Beach

        The 28th Annual North Carolina Oyster Festival will feature live entertainment, arts and crafts vendors, festival food, a road race, kid’s area, North Carolina Oyster Shucking Championships and an Oyster Stew Cook-off.{mosimage}
        This event is wildly popular with beach lovers, and lovers of beach music. This year’s entertainment lineup includes beach music luminaries like The Coastline Band, the Embers, the Band of Oz and the Craig Woolard Band. For more information, visit  www.brunswickcountychamber.org/OF

    25th Annual Barbecue Festival
    Oct. 25
    Lexington

        Lexington is North Carolina’s barbecue capital. To hear the folks from Lexington talk, it’s the barbecue capital of the world. Don’t believe them, then head up to Lexington to check out their legendary barbecue. You’ll find yourself in good company, as more than 100,000 people turn out for     the annual affair.
        The 25th Annual Barbecue Festival is set for Saturday, Oct. 25. In addition to the festival, the City of Lexington and Davidson County officially declared October as “Barbecue” month. Events are held throughout the month of October which lead to the grand finale, the Barbecue Festival. Events that are held during the month of October include the Tour de Pig - the annual cycling event benefiting the Mental Health Association in Davidson County. Also included are a golf tournament, a tennis tournament, the 5K Hawg run, and the Hawg Shoot Air Rifle Tournament. All of these events draw talented athletes from across the Southeast.
        The Festival is held in Uptown Lexington. An eight block stretch of Main Street is closed to traffic, with banners at either end announcing the Festival with a logo featuring four dancing pigs. Over four hundred exhibitors sell everything from handmade crafts to homemade fudge. Also a Juried competition includes artists and craftsmen from across the country. This competition, sponsored by Carolane Propane Gas, Inc., is held throughout two blocks of Main Street in front of the Davidson county Museum of Art. Five stages of entertainment showcase local and national artists. The festival is for people of all ages and includes a special section of rides and games for children, Piglet Land. Barbecue is served at three locations through the festival area. These are amazing places where no fewer than 35 people work beneath each red and white tent chopping barbecue, fixing slaw, and serving french fries. Here from Mission Central, the heart of the Festival, comes the special Festival barbecue, which is a result of the combined effort of seven masters of the trade. a
  •  The Arts Council of Fayetteville/Cumberland County has announced a series of grants to benefit local arts organizations.

    The Arts Guild
        The Fayetteville Art Guild today announced a project, which will increase participation in visual art both for the artists and the viewing public by producing a series of seven art exhibitions with the help of a grant from the Arts Council of Fayetteville/Cumberland County
        “The Arts Council Grant will aid the Fayetteville Art Guild in continuing to provide artistic representation of and outlets for our community’s many diverse cultural groups and opportunities for artists of all levels to develop and show their work,” said Starr Oldorff, president of the guild.
        The mission of the Fayetteville Art Guild is to illuminate the richness and diversity of local art while cultivating art appreciation in Fayetteville and the surrounding communities. The Guild strives to preserve local culture yet introduce international flavors through exhibits, community activities, education, competitions, workshops and monthly meetings devoted to the advancement of art. Thousands of community members visit and enjoy the annual juried and non-juried exhibits, including collaborative exhibits with Fort Bragg and Fayetteville State University. The Fayetteville Art Guild is a nonprofit organization dedicated to building a vibrant and enduring art community. For more than 40 years, the guild has served the Cumberland County community in this capacity. Current membership includes approximately 85 member artists of varying skill levels. The guild has four at large board members representing business, art and community interests as well as five member officer board members. All board members and officers serve voluntarily. 
        The Arts Council of Fayetteville/Cumberland County has awarded the Friends of the Cumberland County Public Library & Information Center a $4,000 project support grant for The Big Read set for mid-February through March.

    The Big Read
        {mosimage}Cumberland County’s The Big Read 2009 will encourage the community to read and discuss “The Maltese Falcon” by Dashiell Hammett. Published in 1930, “The Maltese Falcon” set the standard for all subsequent hardboiled detective stories. It follows private investigator Sam Spade as he sets out to find a jewel-encrusted falcon statue and prove he is innocent of his partner’s murder.
        “The generous support of the Arts Council will allow the Friends of the Library and our community partners to shine a bright spotlight on a great American literary classic,” said Gail Byrd, president of the Friends of the Library. “We hope the community will enjoy reading the book and attending the many programs scheduled at various libraries and museums.”
        The Big Read is an initiative of the National Endowment for the Arts in partnership with the Institute of Museum and Library Services designed to revitalize the role of literature in American culture and bring the transformative power of literature into the lives of its citizens. The Big Read brings together partners across the country to encourage citizens to read for pleasure and enlightenment.
        The Friends of the Library received a $20,000 grant from the NEA for the 2009 project. This is the third year in a row the NEA and Arts Council have awarded funds to support Cumberland County’s The Big Read. In 2007 the community read “Their Eyes Were Watching God” by Zora Neale Hurston, followed by Ray Bradbury’s “Fahrenheit 451” this spring. The library and its community partners hope to build on the success of the past two projects. More than 2,800 people attended programs related to “Fahrenheit 45” held throughout the community in March and April.
        Funding from the Arts Council will support programming such as the March 10 appearance of Dr. Richard Layman, editor of Discovering The Maltese Falcon and Sam Spade and Hardboiled Mystery Writers: Raymond Chandler, Dashiell Hammett, Ross Macdonald: A Literary Reference, as well as a March 31 presentation by Margaret Maron, one of North Carolina’s best-selling mystery writers.
        The Friends of the Cumberland County Public Library & Information Center, Inc., is a volunteer organization whose mission is to create an awareness of the services and resources offered by the Cumberland County Public Library & Information Center, to focus attention on library needs and to enrich programming opportunities available to county citizens of all ages.
        “The Project Support Grants truly makes a difference,” said Deborah Martin Mintz, executive director of the Arts Council. “We’re proud to partner with The Fayetteville Art Guild to provide arts related programming that engages our residents in projects that make our home a better place for everyone.”
        The Arts Council’s Project Support Grants are awarded to local non-profit agencies, who produce programs of artistic merit and who demonstrate financial and administrative stability. The purpose of Project Support Grants is to recognize and support exemplary forms of artistic expression.
        The Fayetteville Art Guild was incorporated as a nonprofit corporation on June 6, 1967 for “the furtherance of the art interest” of residents, to provide a “focal point for practicing artists” and “to provide an organization to hold and engage in exhibitions, workshops and critique activities concerning art.”  Members are welcome at monthly meetings that are held the third Monday of each month at the Arts Center at 5:30 p.m. Yearly membership dues are $20 per person. For more information, please call Starr Oldorff at 910-635-6114.

  •     Creation Festival: The Tour, the blockbuster event of the Fall, is coming to the Crown Coliseum on Thursday, Nov. 6 at 6 p.m.Patterned after the Creation Festivals, the nation’s largest Christian music festival and the premier name in Christian music events, this “mini Creation on wheels” will be headlined by BEC Recordings band, Kutless, with special guests, Thousand Foot Krutch and Pillar.  The line up is rounded out by female-fronted rockers, Fireflight, Run Kid Run and Integrity’s Worth Dying For providing a time of praise and worship. 
        KJ-52 will also perform and serve as MC for the night. World-renowned speaker, Bob Lenz, will share the gospel each night, with Pastor Harry Thomas, Creation Festival director and co-founder and Teen Mania’s founder, Ron Luce, also joining the tour on select dates. A special “pre-show” will kick off the event, featuring performances by Esterlyn and Capital Lights. {mosimage}
        “I think Christian rock needs this tour,” explains Rob Beckley, frontman for Pillar.  “It is a great effort from Creation to have the guts to put this together.  Christian rock needs the tour; one, for the strength of the line up and two, because this generation needs the masses to come together and be encouraged every night through music and leave stronger than they came in.  Pillar is excited to be a part of the tour, and I’m excited to see the other bands!”  
        The goal of Creation Festival: The Tour is to not only provide an exciting evening of great music, but also present an opportunity to impact the local community through outreach. Each city will partner with a local ministry, such as a food bank or clothing drop and attendees are asked to bring a can of food, thick socks or a warm blanket to donate to the cause.  Details for the outreach for each date can be found online at www.creationfesttour.com/itstartswithyou.  
        “The center purpose and mission of what we do at the Creation Festivals and now thru this tour is to give ‘Tribute to our Creator,’” says Nick Kulb, executive producer of the Tour. “That simple founding principal from 30 years ago is still in the forefront of our operations and is proving the test of time. This tour is extremely ministry and community active — we are looking forward to seeing thousands of lives changed as they accept Christ in the nightly alter call — we’ve teamed up with Compassion International and we’ve also launched the ‘It Starts With You’ campaign.  This tour is so much more than the artists performing nightly; collectively, each of the bands and speakers are heading out on a united front with the Good News of Christ Jesus and to see lives radically changed for Him.”
        Tickets are $25 to $38 and are on sale now. Additional fees may apply. Group discounts are available. Tickets may be purchased at the Crown Center Box Office, all Ticketmaster outlets, Ticketmaster.com or by calling 910-223-2900. The Crown Center main box office is located at the Crown Coliseum and open Monday through Friday, 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. and Saturday 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.
        The Crown Center is owned and operated by Cumberland County. Located in Fayetteville, North Carolina, the complex features a 60,000 square-foot exposition center, a 2,400-seat theatre, a 4,500-seat arena and a 10,000-seat coliseum.  For more information on the complex, visit www.AtTheCrown.com.
  •     Disneyland has long been a dream destination for small children. The idea of Cinderella’s Castle, parades of favorite Disney characters and rides of all degrees of thrills put a glimmer in a child’s eye and a longing in their heart.
        One drawback about Disneyland is it is thousands of miles away on the West Coast, but don’t worry you can bring the magic of Disneyland to your child right here in Fayetteville as Feld Entertainment brings a Disneyland Adventure to the Crown Coliseum Oct. 23-26.
        Disney on Ice brings the magic of Disney to life on the ice. Disney has brought together some of the most talented ice skaters in the world together to glide into your child’s heart through their imagination. During this iteration of Disney on Ice, one of Disney’s favorite families, The Incredibles ask you to join them on a trip to the Magic Kingdom.
        {mosimage}The Parr family (the Incredibles) choose to go to Disney Land after Mother Nature ruins their initial vacation plans with a volcano (this incident is in the short  comic book The Incredibles in: “Holiday Heroes”). One minute into the Main Street Parade (for which the Parrs are reluctant Grand Marshals), an android replica of  Syndrome, ( an archenemy of the Incredibles) attacks the resort, kidnaps Mickey and Minnie Mouse, and makes plans to build his own theme park, SyndromeLand in the resort’s place, forcing the Parrs to become the Incredibles and come out of hiding once more.
        The robot Syndrome imprisons Mickey and Minnie in the Pirates of the Caribbean section of the park, but is forced to lock them up in laser prisons instead after the Incredibles attack him. When Frozone imprisons the robot Syndrome in ice, Mickey and Minnie are liberated and the resort is restored.
        Goofy, Pluto, Donald Duck and Chip and Dale, along with characters from The Jungle Book, Toy Story, Cinderella, Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs and Alice in Wonderland, make cameo appearances through out the early half of the show before coming together at parade time when they all manage to escape Syndrome. The  Enchanted Tiki Room, Jungle Cruise, Buzz Lightyear’s Space Ranger Spin, Big Thunder Mountain Railroad, Haunted Mansion, Mad Tea Party, Main Street, U.S.A., It’s a Small World and Pirates of the Caribbean, sections of the Magic Kingdom, as well as the entrance to the Cinderella Castle centerpiece, are all part of the show
        Tickets for Disney On Ice presents a Disneyland Adventure are $13.50 to $19.50 for reserved seats and $26.50 to $36.50 for VIP and Rinkside seating and go on sale Friday, Aug. 1 at 10 a.m. Group and military discounts are available. All seats excluding VIP and Rinkside are only $12 for opening night. Additional fees may apply. Tickets may be purchased at the Crown Center Box Office, all Ticketmaster outlets, Ticketmaster.com or by calling 910-223-2900. The Crown Center main box office is located at the Crown Coliseum and is open Monday through Friday, 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. and Saturday 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.  
  •    {mosimage} If you were in Fayetteville last year about this time and happened by Festival Park, you may have noticed some strange sights: a Bavarian band, stein relay races, polka dancing and a parade of folks dancing around the park. In case you didn’t figure out what they were doing, they were celebrating Oktoberfest.
        This year, the celebration returns on Saturday, Oct. 18 from 4-8 p.m. The event, sponsored by the Cape Fear Regional Theatre, brings a little of the old country to Fayetteville in an afternoon celebration of fall and fun.
    Oktoberfest, traditionally is a celebration of beer, and while the traditional beer tent will be on site, organizers want people to know that this day-long event is about more than beer.
        “This is one of those festivities that I was thinking to myself that when I had young children, it’s the kind of thing I would like to take them to,” said Marlene Shelton, the managing director of the CFRT. “There’s going to be games, face painting, balloons, something for them to eat, and for adults there will also be beer, pretzels and polka dances. It’s going to be a great family fun event. There’s going to be something for everybody. I like to say there’s going to be something for everyone from grandma to baby.”
        This is the second Oktoberfest sponsored by the theatre. Last year’s event drew crowds to the park; however, it wasn’t much of a fundraiser for the theatre. This year the organization looked at ways to make it a more effective fundraiser. One of the ways of ensuring its financial success was to add an entrance fee. Tickets for people 12 and up are $10 at the gate. With the ticket purchase, you will receive five $1 coupons to be used for games or food once inside the venue. Shelton said that the games will have prizes awarded.
        Celebrants at the Oktoberfest can listen to music, participate in a sing-along, play games, eat food, lots of food, imbibe of their favorite adult beverage and maybe even take a hayride..
        And for the young-at-heart, but long-in-the-tooth (you adults), there are games for you, too. These games center around the traditional celebration of Oktoberfest, and no, we’re not talking about beer pong. The first event, the Beer Stein Holding contest, is a lot harder than it sounds. The object of the contest is to extend your arm and hold a large beer stein in front of your body without spilling it. The mug can only be held in on hand, and once the competition begins, you cannot switch hands. Participants are eliminated when the level of their mugs drop enough to allow beer to spill. The winner is the one who outlasts everyone else.
        The Beer Stein Relay is a great team competition. The object of this game is to transfer beer from one full bucket to another. Each team will be composed of six members. Team members take turns, relay-style transferring the beer. Sound easy? Think again. The trick is that each player must do this by balancing the beer-filled mug on the palm of their hand as they transport it from one end of the course to the other. If a team member spills his or her beer before dumping it into the other bucket, that member has to start over. The first team to overfill their bucket wins.
        And, of course, Oktoberfest wouldn’t be Oktoberfest without the beer and food. The beer tent will sale several different beers, and will have as its featured beers Hefewiezen and a specially-brewed Oktoberfest beer. Soft drinks, wine and other beers will also be available.
            The theatre board of directors will be manning the grills to offer up the favorite food of Oktoberfest — the bratwurst. “We thought, ‘Hey, they can’t get any better chefs than us,’” said Shelton.
        In addition to the bratwurst there will also be a variety of other foods — ranging from hamburgers and hotgos, chicken kabobs, ice cream and other carnival fare.
        While in the tent, you can raise your mug to the tunes of the Bavarian Brass Band. “They will be playing on and off through the afternoon,” said Shelton. “They’ll perform all of the traditional polkas and German music. They just played in Savannah and ran into some people from Fayetteville. They asked them why there wasn’t something like the event in Fayetteville and they told them there was.”
        For more information about the event, at www.cfrt.org.
  •     The Fayetteville After Five Performing Arts Concert Series comes to a positively ghoulish ending on Thursday, Oct. 16 beginning at 5:30 p.m., when Festival Park becomes home to chilling tunes and a host of supernatural spectators, including ghosts and goblins and perhaps a gremlin or two.
        The hugely succesful event, which raises funds for the Fayetteville Museum of Art, ends the season with a costume concert and the percolating sounds of Mr. Coffee and the Creamers. There will be prizes awarded for the best costumes. There will also be free goodies provided the truly scary cast of characters from the staff of Up and Coming Weekly.
        Mr. Coffee and the Creamers specializes in Motown soul and R&B. It features a diverse array of musicians whose backgrounds include everything from punk to funk, hip-hop to jazz. While performing various classic cover cover songs, the Creamers still manage to bring a unique energy to these old hits while remaining true to the spirit and soul of the music. {mosimage}
        Among the band’s many cover songs are: “My Girl,” The Temptations; “Reach Out (I’ll Be There),” The Four Tops; “Think,” Aretha Franklin; “Soul Man,” Sam & Dave; “Superstition,” Stevie Wonder; “I Want You Back,” Jackson Five;  “Ain’t Too Proud To Beg,” The Temptations; “Sittin’ On The Dock Of The Bay,” Otis Redding; “Tears Of A Clown,” Smokey Robinson and the Miracles; “I Heard It Through The Grapevine,” Marvin Gaye; and “Son of a Preacher Man,” Dusty Springfield;
        Band members include: Erik Aagaard and Jon Christie on guitars;  John Crouch on drums; Carl Dorr on keyboards; Noah Fiorentino on bass; Jason Gabriel on sax and vocals; Dan Kinney on vocals and auxiliary percussion; Andy Kleindienst on trombone and vocals; Tim Smith on sax, flute and vocals; and Robeson County’s own Charly Lowry on vocals.
        Lowry gained a measure of fame when she was a contestant on American Idol several years ago, competing in the show’s third season. Lowryís performance of Creedence Cleawater Revival’s “Proud Mary” earned her a spot among Idol’s final 32 and a trip to Los Angeles.
        A member of the Lumbee tribe, Lowry has released a solo CD entitled Movin’ On, which reflects her heritage, boasting such songs as the single “Brown Skin.” She released the CD on the Greensky Records label.
        For more information on Mr. Coffee and the Creamers, check out the Web site, www.mrcoffeeandthecreaners.com.
        Fayetteville After Five is a free event that raises money for the Fayetteville Museum of Art. In addition to the music, there are vendors and tents featuring such activities as the Young at Art Tent, which allows children to participate in making art, as well as the Visual Artist Tent, which features artists creating arts and crafts on-site, as well as a selection of unuque, hand-crafted art.
        No coolers or food are allowed — bring a blanket or lawn chair and arrice early to get a good view of Mr. Coffee and the Creamers.
  •    {mosimage} From fire came a phoenix... a songbird.
        And so it was with Cape Fear Music, which survived two fires... figuratively and literally.
        The first one was a fire sale of sorts when longtime Fayetteville music retailer McFadyen Music was bought out by the conglomerate Brooke Mayes Music Company about three years ago, sparking a quartet of musicians and artisans — Tony Harrison, Jeff Stone, Dave Waylett and Tyrone Green — to start their own venture... Cape Fear Music. Well-regarded guitar instructor Guy Unger joined the team at a later date.
        They began anew, bringing 120 years of combined teaching and playing experience to their new location at the Gas House on Rowan Street.
        Then, in 2007, the second fire... real this time... burned their business down in a sad symphony of strings and snare drums, melting away $160,000 in instruments and machinery — some of it irreplaceable, such as Harrison’s vintage Gibson ES-175, and Old World musician’s tools; however, Cape Fear Music rose from the ashes again, regrouping and relocating to its present location at 128 Maxwell St., offering lessons, instrument sales and band and orchestra rentals and repairs.
        “As far as I know, we’re the only shop in town that rents, repairs and offers instruction in band and orchestra all under one roof,” said Harrison.
        Cape Fear Music also offers a diverse mix of musical instruments from major manufacturers such as Gretsch, Samick and Roland. However, it’s the lessons, the education of musical minds young and old alike, that drives the staff.
        “We knew after McFadyen Music was bought out that there would be a void in music education and repair,” said Harrison. “That’s why we started this. In Guy, we have one of the most respected guitar teachers in Fayetteville. I mean, we do sell instruments... it helps pay the bills... but our focus really is education.”
        Cape Fear Music offers courses in guitar, piano, bass, drums and voice. The shop’s instructors are big proponents of teaching music theory and performance, sponsoring a regular 4th Friday event at the Cotton Exchange in which young students perform on stage with fellow musicians.
        “The performances and the classes allow the students to develop their creative side,” said Stone, who teaches drums. “The 4th Friday performances are a way to teach the students as well as allow them to interact with other musicians.”
        The shop acts as a haven for local musicians, with jam sessions often going long into the night after the doors are closed. And it’s not just local musicians — Cape Fear Music is sponsoring a pair of workshops featuring world renowned musicians Greg Bennett and Pat Petrillo.
        Bennett is known as a world class fingerstylist as well as guitar designer; he will offer demonstrations of both his guitar technique and guitar building skills at Cape Fear Music on Oct. 28, starting at 7 p.m. (Location is subject to change — check out the latest news concerning the venue at the shop’s Web site, www.capefearmusiccenter.com.)
        Petrillo is a major league drummer who has taught at The Collective School of Music in New York and is currently an adjunct professor at the University of North Carolina at Pembroke. The date and time of his workshop has yet to be finalized — check out the Web site for updates.
        Again, the staff at Cape Fear Music is unanimous in the belief that it’s their core mission to educate the masses on the magic of music.
        “We like to think we have a comfortable atmosphere for moms, as well as musicians,” said Harrison.     “Some moms drop off their kids and leave because they know they’re safe here.”
        “We have students from age 5 to 55,” added Stone. “We help students not only learn about music, but learn about themselves. Some kids come here and decide they don’t want to play an instrument... they want to do something else. And that’s OK, too.”
  •     Transportation took center stage at the Fayetteville City Council’s work session on Monday, Oct. 6. During the meeting the council discussed the proposed multimodal transportation center and proposed changes to bus routes, which are designed to improve customer satisfaction by providing prompt service.
        The architectural firm of Gantt Hubberman Architects of Charlotte was hired to perform sit evaluation and a market feasibility study for the multimodal transportation center. On Monday, the architects were back to make their final recommendation for the location of the center. {mosimage}
        The architects recommended the city-owned property co-located to the current train depot and the Prince Charles Hotel for the site. The new center will serve not only the FAST buses, but the trains as well. It will provide a central downtown transfer site and offer an enclosed waiting space for people waiting to make transfers. In addition to the facilities for the transportation elements, the center will also offer retail space for rent and administrative offices for FAST. The proposed 24,000 square foot building has a price tag of $15.2 million. It is estimated that 80 percent or more of the cost would be covered by federal transportation funds.
        Turning their attention to FAST, the council heard from Ron Macaluso, the transit director, on proposed changes to the existing bus routes. The changes are in line with the city’s goal of improving the timeliness and efficiency of the bus system. The tardiness of the buses was one of the major complaints made by bus riders during a customer satisfaction survey.
        Several council members were uncomfortable with the proposed changes and asked that the council hold a public hearing to allow the citizens affected by the changes to respond to the changes.
        The changes are designed to shorten routes by altering transfer sites, deleting turns down side roads, moving bus stops to a centralized spot and eliminating unsafe turns on busy roads like Ramsey Street.
        The public hearing will be held during the Oct. 27 city council meeting. To see a PowerPoint presentation of the proposed changes, visit www.upandcomingweekly.com.
  •     {mosimage}For one Fayetteville girl, fame is a wrap... or rather, a rap.
    Almost.
        Tati Hilton, 12, is one of 15 finalists in a national talent contest sponsored by Kidz Bop. Hilton was chosen from thousands of finalists after submitting a video called “Bubble Gum Wrap” in which the she raps about positive things, such as good grades and her unconditional love for her pet iDog, Nemo. Hilton, is the only finalist from North Carolina.
        And unlike much of the misogynistic and misanthropic rap filling the airwaves, Hilton’s beats have a “positive” vibe.
        “I want to change the culture of rap music for kids,” said Hilton. “I want to make it more positive.”
        Hilton also wants positive reinforcement for her video. In order to win the Kidz Bop contest, Hilton’s video must be voted on by visitors to the Kids Bop Web site — www.kidzbop.com. The winner will earn a shot at various prizes, including a chance to star in her own Kidz Bop original series; runner-up prizes include an all-expenses paid family vacation to the Beaches Spa and Resort in the Turks and Caicos Islands, as well as a starring role in an official Kidz Bop music video.
        “I’m so excited about this opportunity,” said Hilton. “It’s great to see that all my hard work has started paying off.”
    Hilton has been performing since the age of 3 and has starred at numerous events, including belting out the national anthem at the Foxy 99 Summer Jam at Fort Bragg and singing at the Cumberland County Fair. She also played Addy in a Fayetteville production of the popular American Girlseries and has been featured in several Citi Trends commercials.
        Hilton has also shown journalistic skills, contributing a column to Peace magazine.
        The preteen diva has dived head first into the show biz gig, going so far as to adopt a stage name; her real name is actually Tahtiana Dantzler — she adopted the Tati Hilton moniker as an homage to one of her idols, Paris Hilton. Other entertainers she admires include Missy Elliot and Andre 300 of OutKast.
        Despite having her head in the clouds over her newfound fame, Hilton manages to stay grounded, earning all As (and one B) at the Christian Learning Center.
        “School comes first,” insists Toni Bryant, Hilton’s mother. “She even jokes in ‘Bubble Gum Wrap’ that if she makes good enough grades she’ll earn a Porsche.
        “I’m excited and very proud of her,” said Bryant. “She deserves this.”  
        Though Hilton has her eye on the grand prize, she admits she’s already honored by the recognition from having her “Bubble Gum Wrap” video distributed to the world via Kidz Bop.
        “I don’t even have to win,” said Hilton, who, in addition to her good grades and musical skills,volunteers at PetSmart. “Maybe this will help me prepare for my future; I would like to rap professionally and someday own a veterinary clinic.”
        If you would like to see the hometown girl win, go to www.kidzbop.com and click on the “Contests” banner. You can only vote once, but, as Hilton said with a gleam in her eye, “You can always vote more than once by setting up multiple e-mail accounts.”
        The contest deadline is Nov. 1.
  •     Bring your coolers, lawn chairs and blankets for an afternoon of Jazz In The Park as Fayetteville native John Brown and his Grammy-nominated John Brown Orchestra perform at a free concert celebration at Festival Park on Sunday, Oct. 19, at 2 p.m. {mosimage}
        The Arts Council of Fayetteville/ Cumberland County, along with the City of Fayetteville, Draughon Brothers Incorporated and WFSS-91.9 FM, will join Brown to honor his mentor, Fayetteville’s own jazz legend Ray Codrington, on the weekend of his 74th birthday. A student jazz ensemble from Fayetteville State University will open the show at 2 p.m. and Brown’s full 19-piece orchestra will take the stage around 3:30 p.m.
        This performance brings Brown full-circle. In addition to mentoring, training and coaching him from childhood, Codrington is a regular member of the John Brown Orchestra.
        As a graduate of Howard University and with a career spanning nearly 50 years, Codrington remains in high demand among musicians in the southeastern United States. He has performed and recorded with Eddie Harris, the JFK Quintet, Larry Willis and Hugo Montinegro. His experience includes recording for the Godfather II soundtrack and has taken him to the famed Apollo Theater in New York.
        Brown is the director of the jazz program at Duke University and a graduate of the School of Music at The University of North Carolina at Greensboro and the School of Law at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. He has performed all over the world with artists such as Elvin Jones, each member of the Marsalis family, Nnenna Freelon, Rosemary Clooney, Nicholas Payton and Mark Whitfield. He has performed regularly with the North Carolina Symphony since 1992 and his experience includes performances at venues such as Carnegie Hall, the Kennedy Center the Blue Note and the Hollywood Bowl.
        When John Brown’s musicians get together, they form an exciting mix of talent and brotherhood encompassing the past, present and future of jazz. The combination of the diverse backgrounds of each band member, and the fire they bring to the music, makes this group the perfect setting for dynamic and creative ideas to flourish. The group performs a wide range of jazz styles including the timeless classics of the Great American Songbook, original versions and new arrangements of traditional jazz standards, modern jazz pieces and original compositions of each band member.
        The parking lot adjacent to Festival Park Plaza Building on Ray Avenue will be reserved for handicapped and special needs drivers. Coolers and lawn chairs will be allowed and attendees are encouraged to bring drinks and snacks. Please remember that dogs or domesticated animals are not allowed in Festival Park.
  •     Apparently there are no longer any adults in charge of the world. We’re ruled by buccaneers. Like Willie Yeats once wrote, “things fall apart, the center cannot hold.” Stock market crashes, golden parachutes and politicians whistling past graveyards. Oh for the simpler days when all we had to worry about was lipstick on pigs and shooting baby seals from helicopters. To quote the great songwriter Randy Newman “Now it seems like we’re supposed to be afraid/ It’s patriotic in fact and color coded.” We have no warm fuzzy FDR or Ronald Reagan telling us not be afraid. The whole country has fallen into the Salem Witch Project movie. We can roll ourselves up into a ball of fear and hide under the bed or we can try to put the fun back into dysfunctional. When economic catastrophe is inevitable, might as well try to enjoy it.
        {mosimage}The leadership displayed by our political and financial leaders during our current financial crisis calls up the cheerful and yet minty fresh painting by Bruegel the Elder called “The Parable of the Blind Leading the Blind.” The painting shows six blind beggars holding onto each other walking down a path. The leading beggar has fallen in a ditch and the other five are soon to follow. Bruegel painted this in 1568. Who knew he was predicting America’s leadership in 2008? Nostradamus step aside.
        Watching the $700 billion bailout booty fizzle and seeing the stock market drop 800 points during one day can be a bit off putting. Get used to it — your money has gone to Davy Jones’ locker. Your financial future’s been keelhauled. In the Great Depression II, all is not lost. We’ll get to try out new roles in the brave new world in which the Good Ship Deregulation has foundered. Like Gilligan, the Skipper and the landlubbers who were shipwrecked from the Minnow on Gilligan’s Island, our visit to the island of Lost IRAs and ghost banks is going take a lot longer than a three-hour tour.
        We’re going to need new jobs because the old ones won’t exist. Personally, I am going to apply to be a Pirate Spokesman like Suguli Ali. Suguli is the Pirate Spokesman for the Somali pirates who took over the Ukranian freighter M.V. Faina. When captured by pirates off the Somalia coast, the Faina was loaded with guns and Russian T-72 tanks. At first I was mildly surprised that 21st century pirates have a spokesman. How would you go about getting that job? Suguli announced the pirates would release the ship and crew for only $20 million. That’s a lot less than the Wall Street Bailout.
        As I pondered the concept of a world that can generate a Pirate Spokesman, I realized that AIG, Lehman Brothers and Morgan Stanley all have spokesmen. There’ll be no cat o’ nine tails for those gentlemen of fortune executives, just a huge pile of golden doubloon parachutes and a McMansion at Fiddler’s Green for them. Our financial wizards are no better than seagoing pirates. Naturally, the Somali pirates have the right to have a spokesman. Put an eye patch and a parrot on Richard Fuld of the late, great Lehman Brothers and you’ve got a dandy pirate. Pirating is just another form of love.
        The pirates also have K Street Lobbyists. Tucked away into the starboard side of the $700 billion bail out bill for Wall Street was a nifty little earmark for $192 million in excise tax rebates for rum producers in the Virgin Islands and Puerto Rico. Who benefits from cheaper rum? Pirates of course. The pirates got their earmark. How great is that? Unsurprisingly, pirates get treated better than non-pirates. Sixteen congressmen on a dead individual retirement account’s chest, Yo-Ho-Ho and a bottle of rum!
        It is no coincidence that we just observed International Talk Like a Pirate Day on Sept. 19. The stock market went up 388 points that day to over 11,000 just to fool us into thinking we’d found a safe harbor. Unfortunately, Talk Like a Pirate Day contained a secret message to the Bilge Rats who ran Wall Street to take the money and run. Arrr, me hearties! The scurvy curs grabbed the gold from the hold of the Good Ship America when they scuttled the stock market by making the credit markets walk the Bring down old Glory, Mateys! Hoist the Jolly Roger! Guzzle the grog! Aye! We be under new management.
  •     As my father would have said, “I think I have seen it all now.”
        My culturally-observant daughter who informs me about parts of our modern life that I might otherwise miss sent me an article by Sarah Kershaw in the New York Times addressing the nature of human beauty. What makes us find one person beautiful but another one with similar physical attributes — say, blond hair and blue eyes or smooth skin and curly black hair — less attractive? 
        {mosimage}Scientists are studying this, and a group of computer scientists in Israel have come up with a computer program featuring a “beautification engine.” The program has taken more than 200 measurements between facial features — eyes to nose, eyes to mouth, nose to hairline, and the like, to try to determine which configurations people find most attractive when we look at someone else. It then takes ordinary human faces, like yours and mine, and applies these ideal distances through the magic of computer technology. This is not a program that airbrushes fine lines or changes hair color. It is more like plastic surgery by computer, lifting an eyelid here and plumping up a lip there, theoretically making faces more attractive.
        The online version features human faces which have been put through the beautification engine. One woman with a long face looked dramatically different, many of us would say more attractive. She is quoted as saying she preferred her regular old face.
        I could hardly tell the difference in several of the faces, including those of a young Marlon Brando in a military uniform and those of a mature Woody Allen with serious bags under his eyes in both photos. Mid 20th century French sex symbol Brigitte Bardot’s lips got less plump, and while her beautified self looked just fine, I prefer the original bombshell. A note beside several pictures which were not much different after beautification speculated that those faces were already so naturally well proportioned that they did not need realignment.
        There is no question human beings find some of us more beautiful than others, but why. Scientists say attributes of beauty are common even among people of different cultures, races, ethnicities, ages and genders. Apparently, we all agree that symmetry of features, youthfulness, smooth and clear skin, and hair and eyes of a vivid color make people attractive, sometimes even beautiful.    
        There is no question we all want to be beautiful.
        A peek into the cosmetics drawers and bathroom cabinets of women around the globe will demonstrate that. I read magazines in the grocery store checkout line, and a recent perusal told me this is true even in hard times. I read an article on how to give yourself a pedicure when you cannot pay for a professional one.
    My concern is not that we all want to be attractive.
        It is the importance we have attached to it, sometimes at the expense of other qualities which I believe are ultimately more important in human life and certainly more enduring.
        I was astounded several years ago to learn that a perfectly lovely young woman I know had been given breast augmentation surgery by her parents for her high school graduation. The message she and her friends must have received from the gift is that large breasts are important in life and that the body she was born with was not good enough to go forward into adulthood. {mosimage}
        I am equally astounded when I visit local schools and see elementary school girls in what look like quite grownup outfits, sometimes even provocative outfits. In high school, I have seen girls teetering along terrazzo floors in stiletto heels that are not only dangerously high but also damaging to their still developing feet.
        I am also astounded and occasionally embarrassed by the clothing of some young adult women whose desire to be attractive has led them to dress as if less were more.
        Looking at the photos of the people who have been through the “beautification engine,” I realized that most of them, even enhanced by pleasing facial measurements, still look like real people. Some were younger, some looked healthier, some more made up, but each could have been someone we might run into somewhere — well, maybe not Marlon and Brigitte. 
        They look much the way nature made them, which to me, is the point. We all arrive into this world with certain physical attributes, and I am all for playing up the best ones and down the ones we like less.
    The danger, of course, is falling over some ill-defined edge of what is both healthy and attractive into a place where the search for beauty becomes more than the search for what makes a positive and productive human being.
        Nancy Etcoff, psychologist at Harvard Medical School, put it this way to the Times. “Everyone wants to look better. And we keep taking it further and further….There is a whole generation of girls growing up who think it’s normal not to look the way they really look.”
        Yikes!
  •     What is there left to say about Sarah Palin?
        Since her public debut just before Labor Day, observing the endless cycle of leftist attacks on her and ponderous conservative commentaries on why the left attacks her has become tedious. Yet like many Americans, I am anything but indifferent to the governor and if a 60-minute news show promises a 30-second blurb on her at the end, I will stay tuned.
        But no one has yet to fully answer, why does the left hate Sarah Palin?
        Disclaimer: I am a conservative Republican and I like our VP nominee for her drive, determination, her record of reform in unseating an incumbent Republican governor, her small town, small government philosophy and her stands on certain issues. Her critics, on the other hand, some of whom do voice legitimate concerns, hate her not just because she is supposedly unqualified or because she is Rush Limbaugh in a dress (I forget who said that). We political junkies tend to look at life through the prism of ideology when some answers reflect simple human nature.
        They hate her because she is so darn perfect. No, they will never admit that, but let’s be honest, Sarah Palin flits from one career-topping achievement to the next without ever losing her gosh-darn small-town charm. Her whole life seems to be a seamless, upward trajectory — basketball star, hometown beauty queen, city council member, mayor after defeating a nine-year incumbent and you know the rest.
    High on my resume is that I have learned to lose gracefully. As I write this, though I don’t hate her, I am starting to highly resent her.
        And, of course, she is attractive and is the mother of a beautiful brood who could’ve stepped out of a Sear’s catalog. The oft-played image of the successful governor, holding her newborn to her bosom just after accepting her party’s nomination for VP should have served as an iconic feminist moment, but in some their lesser selves took over and a certain green-eyed monster reared its ugly head.
    Then, of course, there’s Todd — handsome, rugged, manly and supportive of his ambitious wife and the consummate stay-at-home dad. What aging, unmarried heterosexual feminist wouldn’t want a man like Todd waiting for her at home after running the state all day?
       {mosimage} Is it any wonder that an unattractive mess like “comedienne’” Sandra Bernhard of an entertainment industry littered with drugs, alcohol, broken relationships and attention-seeking social misfits, would spout off an obscenity-laden attack on even the very idea of a Sarah Palin? And Sarah Palin will probably never know and will surely never care.
        She is not in the least contentious and there is not an ounce of arrogance or ego about her. She doesn’t even give her critics the opportunity of dropping the b-word on her. It just doesn’t fit her and they know it and they hate her for it.
        Appearances, of course, can be deceiving and no one knows what, if any, private heartbreak she bears. There is always the suspicion and sometimes the hope that the outwardly successful pay for their fortune like some figure out of Greek tragedy. Certainly, a Down Syndrome baby and a pregnant teen daughter present challenges but she seems no worse for the wear.
        Certainly politics and ideology matter. To many she is simply wrong and even some conservatives think she is unqualified. Nonetheless, a media sensation was born when an Alaska reporter remarked that the new governor, clad in leather boots and a skirt, didn’t fit his image of a Republican. In a celebrity-obsessed, media-saturated culture, she will draw attention even if McCain loses — especially with the prospect of a 2012 presidential run. Everyone is vying for fame in this age of blogs and YouTube and Sarah Palin has already exceeded her 15 minutes. For some that is reason enough to hate her.
  •     What is there left to say about Sarah Palin?
        Since her public debut just before Labor Day, observing the endless cycle of leftist attacks on her and ponderous conservative commentaries on why the left attacks her has become tedious. Yet like many Americans, I am anything but indifferent to the governor and if a 60-minute news show promises a 30-second blurb on her at the end, I will stay tuned.
        But no one has yet to fully answer, why does the left hate Sarah Palin?
    Disclaimer: I am a conservative Republican and I like our VP nominee for her drive, determination, her record of reform in unseating an incumbent Republican governor, her small town, small government philosophy and her stands on certain issues. Her critics, on the other hand, some of whom do voice legitimate concerns, hate her not just because she is supposedly unqualified or because she is Rush Limbaugh in a dress (I forget who said that). We political junkies tend to look at life through the prism of ideology when some answers reflect simple human nature.
        They hate her because she is so darn perfect. No, they will never admit that, but let’s be honest, Sarah Palin flits from one career-topping achievement to the next without ever losing her gosh-darn small-town charm. Her whole life seems to be a seamless, upward trajectory — basketball star, hometown beauty queen, city council member, mayor after defeating a nine-year incumbent and you know the rest.
        High on my resume is that I have learned to lose gracefully. As I write this, though I don’t hate her, I am starting to highly resent her.
        And, of course, she is attractive and is the mother of a beautiful brood who could’ve stepped out of a Sear’s catalog. The oft-played image of the successful governor, holding her newborn to her bosom just after accepting her party’s nomination for VP should have served as an iconic feminist moment, but in some their lesser selves took over and a certain green-eyed monster reared its ugly head.
    Then, of course, there’s Todd — handsome, rugged, manly and supportive of his ambitious wife and the consummate stay-at-home dad. What aging, unmarried heterosexual feminist wouldn’t want a man like Todd waiting for her at home after running the state all day?
        {mosimage}Is it any wonder that an unattractive mess like “comedienne’” Sandra Bernhard of an entertainment industry littered with drugs, alcohol, broken relationships and attention-seeking social misfits, would spout off an obscenity-laden attack on even the very idea of a Sarah Palin? And Sarah Palin will probably never know and will surely never care.
    She is not in the least contentious and there is not an ounce of arrogance or ego about her. She doesn’t even give her critics the opportunity of dropping the b-word on her. It just doesn’t fit her and they know it and they hate her for it.
        Appearances, of course, can be deceiving and no one knows what, if any, private heartbreak she bears. There is always the suspicion and sometimes the hope that the outwardly successful pay for their fortune like some figure out of Greek tragedy. Certainly, a Down Syndrome baby and a pregnant teen daughter present challenges but she seems no worse for the wear.
        Certainly politics and ideology matter. To many she is simply wrong and even some conservatives think she is unqualified. Nonetheless, a media sensation was born when an Alaska reporter remarked that the new governor, clad in leather boots and a skirt, didn’t fit his image of a Republican. In a celebrity-obsessed, media-saturated culture, she will draw attention even if McCain loses — especially with the prospect of a 2012 presidential run. Everyone is vying for fame in this age of blogs and YouTube and Sarah Palin has already exceeded her 15 minutes. For some that is reason enough to hate her.
  •     I’m a 30-year-old woman who started seeing a guy in his early 40s a month ago. He’s very healthy and confident, and seems pretty balanced. We get together about once a week, on weekends, and he’s amazing in bed! He wants sex three to four times in a 12-hour period, and lasts quite a while. I’m loving this, but just once on some days would be fine, too. Also, I’m thinking this is unusual for a guy above 25. Would it be out of line to ask if he’s taking Viagra?
    —Wondering


        Don’t look a gift stallion in the mouth. The problem comes if, say, all that wild adult fun starts to seem like having a newborn, with you being awakened every night at 3 a.m. by something pawing for your breast.
    For now, if you’re enjoying your new pony, why fret about why? Maybe he’s got a high sex drive, and his idea of abstinence is going without for three hours. Maybe he’s like that right now, on account of this being something new. Maybe he’s trying to impress you (okay, he’s 40-something, but he can still lead a girl to bed and show her around the circus). On a less sexy note, maybe he’s in a feeding frenzy after a long hiatus or maybe he’s doing the squirrel thing and stocking up in case there’s a long winter.
        As for parsing whether he’s naturally extra-perky or pharm-fresh, it’s kind of like worrying, “Are you somebody who doesn’t have hideous body odor, or are you just wearing deodorant?” You are right that the guy rebounds like a 25-year-old. Dr. Jacob Rajfer, chief of urology at Harbor-UCLA Medical Center, explains that the big difference between younger guys and guys in their 40s is a longer “refractory period” — the penile coffee break they have to take before they can come back up for more (sometimes a day or days for the 40-something penis). Viagra, often mistakenly thought of as a libido booster, actually works on the mechanics of the penis, increasing blood flow to allow for an erection. But, more and more, guys without erectile problems are using it to last longer and to shorten the downtime between playdates.
        Rajfer doesn’t have a problem prescribing Viagra for these purposes, providing a guy’s not taking nitrates — for cardiovascular problems or as “poppers,” a potentially deadly mix — and his heart’s strong enough for him to survive sex. (It isn’t the Viagra that kills you, it’s the sexathalon.) Of course, with any drug there can be risks, maybe yet-unknown, maybe long-term and serious. In healthy men, however, Rajfer said there are mainly temporary complaints of facial flushing, a headache, maybe a little indigestion, and “some men may see a blue halo.” (And then there’s the gummy residue from the gold star their girlfriend sticks on their forehead.)
        After essentially four dates, it’s a little early to start taking the guy’s medical history. You could mention that once is sometimes enough for you — relieving any pressure he might be feeling to keep the Tilt-A-Whirl on overdrive. Meanwhile, take a pill yourself, the chill kind. It takes time and settling in to figure out whether you’re compatible — whether you want what he wants as often as he wants it, or you find yourself longing for the days when you could get off an airplane without three new bruises: one for hot, one for cold and another for the soap dispenser.
  • Unclear on the Concept
        Bernard LeCorn, running for the school board in Ocala, Fla., declared himself the best-qualified school steward among the three candidates because of his “doctorate,” but the Ocala Star-Bannerdiscovered that not only was it from a well-known diploma mill (cost: $249), but that Alabama A&M, a real school where he had claimed to be a faculty member after receiving bachelor’s and master’s degrees, had never employed him and had enrolled him for only one year.
        (In another diploma-mill fraud indictment in August, one alleged purchaser of a doctorate was Bart Anderson, superintendent of a school district in Columbus, Ohio.)

    Can’t Possibly Be True
        Jose Rivera, 22, survived two tours in Iraq, but back home in California, he took a job at the high-security Atwater federal prison, where officers cannot carry even non-lethal crowd-control weapons, and Rivera was murdered 10 months later by two inmates armed with handmade shivs. “Every single inmate in there is armed to the teeth for his own protection,” complained one officer, but a Bureau of Prisons spokesman told CNN in August that “communication” with inmates is a better policy than even modestly arming guards.
    When Eric Aderholt’s house in Rockwell County, Texas, burned down in June, it wasn’t because the fire department was too slow. They arrived within minutes, but none was aware that local hydrants were locked. Apparently, departments know that hydrants in rural areas have been shut off, as part of post-9/11 security, and must be turned on with a special tool, which no one brought that night. Texas law even requires shut-off hydrants to be painted black, but the firefighters still arrived without the tool, and by the time they retrieved it, Aderholt’s house was gone.

    With Too Much Time on Their Hands
        In December 2003, Yves Julien worked a regular 11-hour shift, plus overtime, all at premium pay, for the Canada Border Services Agency, and then demanded an additional $9 (Cdn) for a sandwich he had purchased when asked to put in the extra hours. The agency said he was not entitled, by contract, because the overtime was already at premium pay. In September 2008, after nearly five years of multiple reviews, hair-splitting legal decisions and lengthy appeals, Julien won his $9.

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