On January 30th, the Greater Fayetteville Chamber held its 2024 Annual Awards at The Carolina Barn, sponsored by the Huff Family Office, Piedmont Natural Gas, and Fort Liberty Federal Credit Union.

The event brought together esteemed professionals, community leaders, and entrepreneurs to celebrate the remarkable achievements of individual and business members that have significantly contributed to the prosperity of Fayetteville. With over 300 attendees from the local business community, the event was a resounding success.

Our Chamber team extends its congratulations to all the winners and expresses gratitude to the entire business community for their continued commitment to excellence.

"This year's Annual Awards ceremony truly showcased the incredible talent and dedication within our business community," said Chamber President and CEO, Nat Robertson.

"We are proud to honor these exceptional individuals and organizations that contribute to the success and vitality of Greater Fayetteville. Their accomplishments inspire us all and serve as a testament to the resilience and innovation that define our community."

 

In recognition of our outstanding local achievers, we are pleased to announce the 17 winners of the 2024 Annual Awards as follows:

Excellence in Innovation Award: Public Works Commission

Business Beautification Award: Miller’s Brew

Best in Communication Award: Up & Coming Weekly

Young Professional of the Year Award: Ella Wrenn, Cape Fear Regional Theatre

Public Service Award: Johnny Wilson, Fayetteville Urban Ministry

Outstanding Educator of the Year: Dr. Marvin Connelly, Cumberland County Schools

Ambassador of the Year Award: Jordan Blake, 5 West Media Group

Chairman’s Service Award: Joseph “BEAR” Dewberry, On-After Bar & Grub

Government Relations Service Award: Henry Tyson, Tyson Commercial Real Estate

Military Affairs Council Service Award: Greg Dudak, Mercedes of Fayetteville

Non-Profit of the Year: Cumberland Community Foundation

Small Business of the Year: Bubba’s 33 Restaurant

Business of the Year: Mercedes of Fayetteville

Realtor’s Cup: Dr. Larry Keen

The Chamber’s Breece Legacy Award: John “Mac” Healy, Healy Wholesale; Judy Dawkins, Community Supporter; Anthony & Joanne Chavonne, CityView Media

For more information about our events or to become a sponsor, email events@faybiz.com.

Get ready to catch football fever because Super Bowl Sunday is just around the corner!

The teams are set. The San Francisco 49ers will face off against the Kansas City Chiefs for Super Bowl LVIII on Sunday, Feb. 11 at Allegiant Stadium in Las Vegas, NV.

Whether you're a die-hard football fanatic or just enjoy the commercials and halftime show, there's something for everyone on Super Bowl Sunday. Don't miss out on the electrifying atmosphere and camaraderie that only the Super Bowl can deliver.

To help you find your local game-day spot we've rounded up the best places to catch the big game with fellow enthusiasts.

So put on your team colors and get ready to cheer on your favorite team as they battle it out for football supremacy.

• Mac's Speed Shop at 482 N. McPherson Church Road, 910-354-2590
https://www.facebook.com/MacsFayetteville
— Mac’s has party platters you can pre-order if you need a gameday spread for a watch party at home.

• Huske at 405 Hay Street, 910-437-9905
https://www.facebook.com/huskehardwarerestaurant

• District House of Taps at 1240 Fort Bragg Road, 910-491-6737
— Taking reservations and are extending their hours to accommodate the end of the game.
https://www.facebook.com/districthouseoftaps

• Scrub Oaks at 5780 Ramsey Street, 910-884-3072
https://www.facebook.com/scruboaks

• Bubba's 33 at 500 Westwood Shopping Center, 910-223-2601
http://tinyurl.com/4z3n44zw

• Latitude 35 Bar & Grill at 1217 Hay Street, 910-485-4777
http://tinyurl.com/5ast2n6x

• Gaston Brewing Company at 124 Hay Street, 910-748-0580
https://www.facebook.com/gbc910

• Walk-On's Sports Bistreaux at 2116 Skibo Road, 910-779-4901
https://www.facebook.com/WalkOnsFayetteville

• Buffalo Wild Wings at 2097 Skibo Road, 910-868-1561
https://www.facebook.com/BWWFayettevilleNC

• KickBack Jack's at 5081 Morgantaon Road, 910-223-7676
https://www.facebook.com/KBJFayetteville
• Hooters at 501 N. McPherson Church Road, 910-868-0700
https://www.facebook.com/HootersofFayetteville/

• Carolina Ale House at 161 Glensfood Drive, 910-860-1114
https://www.facebook.com/CAHFayetteville

• H8ters at 2926 C Fort Bragg Road, 910-835-5881
https://www.facebook.com/H8tersH3

• Louie's Sports Bar at 2417 Robeson Street, 910-323-3373
https://www.facebook.com/Louiessportspub

Be sure to visit the Facebook page listed or call your chosen venue for further details on the big game.

HERWeek hosted by NC CEED and the Women’s Business Center is preparing for its annual HERWeek during Women’s History Month, March 2 to 8.

NC CEED has opened applications for HERPitch training classes which is a prerequisite for participation in the HERPitch competition. In previous years, pitch winners have been awarded $2,500 to $7,500 in grants. HERWeek is a week-long celebration where we celebrate women and their remarkable contributions to our community. On HERPITCH day entrepreneurs, who completed a PITCH course and have been selected to participate, present their business idea in a 3 minute pitch to a panel of judges for the chance to win a reimbursable grant.

Hannah de la Reyes Stevenson of Rosette Visual Art was a HERPitch winner from HERWeek in March 2023. She shared her experience of participating and winning the HERPitch.

“I came to the Fayetteville Women’s Business Center to learn about running a business and I was told that there was a contest in a few weeks to win business fund money. I was skeptical about joining with it coming up so soon. But the wonderful mentors there not only encouraged me but also trained me on how to pitch a business. I am so grateful for their patience, honest feedback, and kindness," de la Reyes Stevenson said.

For businesses and entrepreneurs interested in participating in the HERWeek Pitch Prep; How to Pitch Training, starting online on Jan. 27, or seeking further information and enrollment details, please visit https://www.eventbrite.com/e/pitch-training-session-tickets-759823150497?aff=ebdsoporgprofile

 

This training prepares you to compete in the #HERpitch Business Pitch Competition to pitch your great idea and have the opportunity to win funding with a reimbursable grant.

Learn how to create your business pitch! In this training, we will go over:
• The basics of pitching your business
• Important things to include in your pitch
• What to expect when you compete in the business pitch competition

About Women's Business Center of Fayetteville:

The Women's Business Center of Fayetteville is a dedicated organization focused on empowering women entrepreneurs and providing them with the resources, training, and support they need to succeed in the business world.

By offering comprehensive programs and events, the center aims to foster economic growth and promote self-sufficiency in the community.

To learn more, visit www.wbcfay.org.

Will North Carolina snag one of two new Major League Baseball franchises? That’s what Gov. Roy Cooper, Carolina Hurricanes owner Tom Dundon, and other civic and business leaders are hoping.

They’re prepping a bid for a team to be based either in Raleigh or Charlotte. As soon as MLB announces its process and timeline, they’ll try to make their Carolina baseball dream a reality.

I couldn’t care less, frankly. I don’t follow professional sports closely — and even if I did, my interest would be in football, not baseball. Still, it’s a free country. If MLB does decide to expand to 32 teams and a North Carolina ownership group uses its own resources to go after a franchise, fine by me.

That’s not what will happen, however. The prospective owners will demand that taxpayers subsidize their team by building a ballpark for it. They’ll argue that such a project will expand our economy and create new jobs. This is, in a word, false.

 

“Sports stadiums are provably ineffective economic development tools,” writes John Mozena, a fellow with the Better Cities Project. “Once you look past rosy economic impact predictions and the glittering stadium renderings, the evidence of decades’ worth of real-world results from across the country is crystal clear: Stadiums strike out when it comes to economic development.”

Last September, the Journal of Economic Surveys published a comprehensive review by three university professors of more than 130 academic studies of the issue. The results “confirm the decades-old consensus of very limited economic impacts of professional sports teams and stadiums,” the authors wrote. “Even with added nonpecuniary social benefits from quality-of-life externalities and civic pride, welfare improvements from hosting teams tend to fall well short of covering public outlays.”

In other words, it costs taxpayers more to subsidize a sports enterprise than they get back in benefits.

Some taxpayers don’t mind, of course. They are superfans who regularly attend games and derive personal enjoyment from following the team. But most residents compelled to subsidize the stadium don’t fit this description. The only way the math works for them is to benefit indirectly — by attracting legions of free-spending fans from elsewhere, or to raise the national profile of their community in ways that promote growth and development.

That’s always the promise. It’s rarely the result. “Nearly all empirical studies find little to no tangible impacts of sports teams and facilities on local economic activity,” the professors concluded, “and the level of venue subsidies typically provided far exceeds any observed economic benefits.”

On other issues, competing philosophical camps may hurl competing studies at each other. That’s not the case here. In 2016, three scholars affiliated with the left-of-center Brookings Institution wrote that “decades of academic studies consistently find no discernible positive relationship between sports facilities and local economic development, income growth, or job creation.”

Tim Carney, a senior fellow at the right-of-center American Enterprise Institute, made a similar point in a 2022 column. “A city or county does not see net economic growth from subsidizing stadiums,” he wrote. “This is one of the most consistent findings in economics.”

Now, I wasn’t born yesterday. And I’m hardly new to the stadium beat. Although the case against sports subsidies is solid, I knew full well that advocates of a Carolina team will lobby aggressively to grab our money to fund their pet project. Some politicians will fold quickly (as Governor Cooper already has). But others will understand that a tax dollar spent on a baseball park represents a tax dollar not spent on a core public service, or not available to taxpayers to spend on a good or service of their choice.

Fiscal conservatives should be ready for a long fight. We should block any attempt to use state revenues or regional authorities to subsidize a ballpark. And we should urge our city and county officials not to get distracted by shiny objects like sports franchises. They have far more important issues to work on.

Editor’s Note: John Hood is a John Locke Foundation board member. His latest books, Mountain Folk and Forest Folk, combine epic fantasy with early American history (FolkloreCycle.com).

"Woe is me” is much in the air these days, likely ginned up by the 2024 election cycle.

Actually, it is more like “woe is us,” as millions of Americans decry the direction they see our nation and the world taking. Here are some of our Chicken Little fears. Our culture is increasingly violent, facilitated by out-of-control gun ownership—more guns than Americans.

Covid threatened our lives, and human-induced climate change threatens to make the earth uninhabitable. Technology in general and A.I. in particular could get so smart, they could take control of everything, even if we humans fail to realize it. Our nation is on the brink of being overtaken by a possibly deranged, fascist dictator.

And what if ongoing global conflicts trigger World War III? Is it wise to turn life-threatening issues such as A.I. development, climate change, and space exploration over to the private sector?

The list of woes goes and goes.

Tyler Austin Harper, an assistant professor of environmental studies at Bates College in Maine, recently published an article in the New York Times, addressing what he terms “extinction panics.” Working from the adage that everything old is new again, Harper asserts that such panics occur about every hundred years and that this one has arrived right on schedule. The last one struck us in the 1920s.

 

The extinction panic of the 20th century has much in common with the one we are experiencing. The world had just survived a flu pandemic, estimated to have killed 50 million people across the globe. There were no effective treatments, much less vaccines to prevent it. The US economy seemed to be roaring, but it got so heated that it ultimately crashed in 1929, triggering the Great Depression.

Fueling that extinction panic was the spread of fascism in Europe, which by 1939 had blossomed into what became World War II and which ended with the world’s first atomic explosions. More than 200-thousand people died almost instantly, with hundreds of thousands more maimed and/or sickened.

It is almost impossible to miss the parallels.

Harper quotes from HG Wells’ 1928 book, The Way the World is Going, which still resonates a century later. “Human life is different from what it has ever been before, and it is rapidly becoming more different….Perhaps never in the whole history of life has there been a living species subjected to so fiercely urgent, many-sided and comprehensive a process of changes as ours today. None at least that has survived. Transformation or extinction have been nature’s invariable alternatives. Ours is a species in an intense phase of transition.”

Hard to argue with that.

Harper himself seems more optimistic than Wells. He writes in the Times, “as for machine-age angst, there’s a lesson to learn here, too: Our panics are often puffed up, our predictions simply wrong.

Human life and labor were not superseded by machines, as some in the 1920s predicted. Or in the 1960s or in the 1980s, two other flash-in-the-pan periods of A.I. hype. The takeaway is not that we shouldn’t be worried but that we shouldn’t panic. Foretelling doom is an ancient human hobby, but we don’t appear to be very good at it.”

As for this writer, the threats seem very real and increasingly urgent. But our “species,” as Wells identified us, has indeed survived millennia by using our big brains and probably some dumb luck.
We do see what is facing us, and if we really are smart, we will choose to act on these threats, not to ignore them.

 

Last article we examined several factors you need to consider when purchasing a home. Today we are going to go more in depth concerning what house design and house features make people like or value a home most.

 

 

In national surveys, almost all buyers list the following features as important to them:
• Separate Laundry Room
• Walk-in Kitchen Pantry
• Front porch and rear porch/deck
• Hardwood floors in the main living area
• A full bath on the first floor
• Walk-in closet in the Main Bedroom
• Eat-in Kitchen
• Dining Room
• Garage Storage space.

 

Some other interesting statistics about what buyers looked for in 2023
• 67% of buyers wanted a single-family home
• 60% of buyers prefered a new home
• 85% wanted an open-concept kitchen and dining room
• 40% of buyers thought about accessibility when shopping for homes
• 42% of recent and prospective home buyers want a two-car garage
• 75% of real estate agents still say that stainless steel is the most popular appliance finish, and it's now available in different colors

 

In addition, Floyd Properties and Development Inc. has found that higher-end buyers also like these upgrade features:
• Specialty Flooring
• Arches and Pillars
• Nook Spaces
• Areas that can host large gatherings
• Kitchen upgrades such as granite or quarts countertops; large ranges with dedicated fans and hoods; butler pantries; specialty shelving
• Bathroom upgrades such as showers with multiple heads, and separate and stand-alone soaking tubs.

 

Along with these higher-end upgrades, Floyd Properties is planning some Idea Homes to explore some elite design features such as:
• Integration of the outdoors by using multiple sliding glass doors or accordion doors to open to the outside
• Range hood pot fillers
• Outdoor kitchen areas
• Advanced smart technology such as remote check cameras to adjust lights, air temperature and to lock or unlock doors.
• Special purpose rooms

 

What do you think?

Floor Properties invites the public to help design these houses and add features. Just go to https://floydproperties.com/ and give your opinion on what upgrade features you would like to see in the Idea Houses.

“People are like stained glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.”
— Elizabeth Kubler-Ross

Cape Fear Studios is a non-profit organization. It has been the only visual arts cooperative for 32 years in Fayetteville. The mission of the Cape Fear Studios is “to involve, educate, and enrich Cumberland County and surrounding communities with the opportunity to create and freely view art.”

Bits and Pieces of Glass features distinctive and luminous stained-glass creations by Jaylene Nordgren and her students. The exhibit will be held from Jan. 11, to Feb. 20, at Cape Fear Studios, in Fayetteville.

“Stained glass has been used for thousands of years beginning with Ancient Romans and Egyptians, who produced small objects made from colored glass. Stained glass can be traced back to the 7th century with early examples found in monasteries and churches. Benedict Biscop commissioned French workers to create the stained glass for the monastery of St. Peter in 675 A.D.” according to A Short History of Stained Glass.

“In 1991, I started my journey into stained glass. I took classes from John Stoddard and Christa Moore. After several years of practice, I joined the Cape Fear Studios and began teaching. I have been teaching for over twenty years. I enjoy watching my students overcome their fear of breaking glass. They have inspired me in their various visions,” said Nordgren, Cape Fear Studios artist.

Delight in the Bits and Pieces of Glass at the Cape Fear Studios at 148 Maxwell Street. The main gallery spotlights engaging paintings, photographs, sculptures, pottery and fine jewelry by local, national and international artists. Educational workshops and classes are available to the public.

The exhibit is available for viewing on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday during the hours of 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday hours are 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Cape Fear Studios is closed on Sundays.
Admission to Bits and Pieces of Glass is free. For more information about Cape Fear Studios and the exhibit, call 910-433-2986 or visit www.capefearstudios.com.

 

Do you recall a period when we didn't observe Galentine's Day? This occasion, similar to Friendsgiving, was initiated by a TV program. "Friends" brought about Friendsgiving, while Galentine's Day originated from "Parks and Rec." Leslie Knope took her gal pals out to celebrate friendship and the holiday was born.

Round up your besties and honor your ride-or-die crew by attending a great local event. Take this opportunity to shower them with appreciation, laughter and a memorable experience.

 

 

February 9th:
Galentines Cooking Class- 6 p.m. at Haymount Truckstop
http://tinyurl.com/47dtaaad

February 10th:
2nd Annual Happy Galentine's Floral Party- 6 p.m. at The Downtown Market of Fayetteville
http://tinyurl.com/ym4kwva5
February Sip & Paint- 2 p.m. at Grapes & Hops
http://tinyurl.com/24c7vrnt

February 11th:
Galentines Day Brunch- 11 a.m. Village Wine Shop (Aberdeen)
http://tinyurl.com/2p8w9d4h
Cupid's Victim: A Galentine's Trivia Party- 2 p.m. at Atomic Orchard Salon
http://tinyurl.com/mr25hs5x

February 12th:
Galentine's Pajama Paint Party- 5 p.m. at Hoke Parks & Recreation
http://tinyurl.com/7vepb9fn

February 13th:
Be Mine GALentine!- 10 a.m. at Shop Cursive
http://tinyurl.com/4a85hkj6
Women on the Wall: Galentine's Day Edition- 6 p.m. at Triangle Rock Club (Fayetteville)
http://tinyurl.com/56xeb6cx
Galentines Day- 6 p.m. at Pucker Up
http://tinyurl.com/56fp6dyr
Galentine's Day Blast to the Eighties Cocktail Class- 5:30 p.m. at Circa 1800
http://tinyurl.com/ycyednbe

February 14th:
Self-Love Galentine's Day Brunch Experience- 10 a.m. at L2 Candle Bar
http://tinyurl.com/5n6n9em8

February 16th:
Galentine's Day-A Toast to Me- 6 p.m. at The Metropolitan Room
http://tinyurl.com/2kkt44u5

February 17th:
Galentine's Night Out- 5:30 p.m. at Chris's Steak & Seafood House
http://tinyurl.com/4dzhmh8r
Galentine's Brunch- 10 a.m. at Bees & Boards
http://tinyurl.com/j2sr4fc7

Cursive, previously named White Trash, and situated in the heart of downtown at 223 Franklin Street, did not have a predetermined future as a permanent store.

Molly Arnold, the proprietor of the establishment, found herself with a vacant storefront after a tenant decided to move out. Her intention was to temporarily convert the space into a pop-up store until she could secure a new tenant.

Arnold has always had a penchant for thrift stores and antique hunting, and over the course of 19 years, with some modifications, Cursive gradually transformed into a fully-fledged retail destination, thanks to the addition of her discoveries.

At Shop Cursive, you won't find your typical home decor or gift shop. It's anything but ordinary. The store offers a diverse range of one-of-a-kind products that truly stand out.

In March of last year, they started hosting zodiac birthday parties. Arnold started these celebrations to “find happy and celebrate people.” She sees the events as a way to thank her customers and celebrate them at the same time. Arnold makes a point to make an appearance at these events in order to interact with her customers and be witness to the joy and happiness these events bring to the participants.

 

As someone who believes in astrology, Arnold believes that one's birthdate has an influence on their personality. The zodiac birthday parties go beyond just celebrating another year of life. They hold a deeper significance as they represent the individual's distinct characteristics, talents, and passions. By commemorating someone's astrological sign, Cursive genuinely pays tribute to and values the remarkable qualities embodied by each zodiac sign.

Each month, on either the first or second Wednesday, an in-store celebration of the Zodiac of that month is celebrated. Visitors to the shop receive treats like cupcakes, candy, and chocolate, as well as wine.

All guests are given a complimentary gift, but those celebrating their birthdays receive an additional special treat.

Come alone or bring the girls with you to explore the zodiac-themed collection in the shop. It's an opportunity to make it a fun night out dedicated to celebrating yourself, just as the event was intended.

The next Zodiac Birthday Party will be Wednesday, Feb. 7, to celebrate all the Aquarius (Jan 20-Feb. 18) babies out there. Happy Birthday to you all!

Learn more about Cursive’s next Zodiac Birthday Party here: http://tinyurl.com/bdfu9388

Be sure to follow the shop on Facebook for more Zodiac Birthday Party announcements as well as some other exciting events that will be happening throughout the year: https://www.facebook.com/shopcursive.

Want to cheer yourself up by wallowing in the misery of another human being?

Of course not. Even though it might make you feel better about your own lot in life? Gentle Reader, you are much too evolved to sink to such a low level. Only a person of subterranean character would find a tale of misfortune to be amusing.

Fortunately, I proudly possess a juvenile sense of humor. I am the man for the job to find humor in an exploding toilet. Naturally, our story involves one of our old friends- Florida Man.

Florida Man is a species of homo sapiens who is always getting into colorful scrapes. I could make a crack about the Original Florida Man: Ron DeSantis, Presidential Quitter, but in a superhuman display of self-control, I will not.

Would an exploding toilet by any other name smell as sweet? What is so rare as an exploding toilet? Let us count the ways.
If bathroom humor appeals to you, keep reading. Otherwise, do not waste your time on this column. Start working on your taxes. Considering the alternative to doing your taxes, an exploding toilet story doesn’t seem so bad, does it?

 

Once upon a time, and for once I am not making this up, there was a Florida Man named Pete. As was done in the Dragnet TV series, the names of the parties have been changed to protect the innocent. The ghost of Detective Sgt. Joe Friday, advises “Just stick to the facts.” And the facts in this case are pretty sticky, not to mention disgusting.

Return with us now to those thrilling days of Yesteryear, way back in 2022 when Pete Smith met his match in the rest room of a restaurant in lovely Winter Park, Florida. Initially, like the late great Harry Chapin once sang: “It was just an any old kind of day, the kind that comes and slips away.”

All was calm and bright when Pete, requiring empty calories, entered the restaurant. Little did he know, that instead of being like the Lone Ranger and leaving behind a cloud of dust with a hearty “Hi Yo Silver and Away!” he would be engulfed in a cloud of feces and urine when a porcelain throne exploded.

Pete realized the need to answer the call of nature prior to enjoying a donut or two. The cause of the explosion remains unclear. However, as surely as the sun rises in the East, it occurred. According to his complaint filed with the court, Pete walked out of the bathroom “covered in feces and urine.”

He had lost his appetite. Toilets are not expected to explode. Like a herd of frozen dead Teslas in a Chicago snowstorm, something went wrong resulting in an unhappy result.

An aromatic and soggy Pete staggered out of the bathroom. He was wounded in body, mind, and spirit. Toilet shrapnel covered in human waste is not conducive to having a good day.

Seeking help from the restaurant’s staff, Pete reports he was told “they were aware of the problem with the toilet” as there had been previous incidents.

Query: How many previous toilet-related incidents are necessary to be put on notice that a plumber is needed? Pete’s lawsuit alleges he suffered bodily injury, and mental anguish, requiring counseling due to his toilet of terror trauma.

This is a case for Attorney Jackie Chiles of Seinfeld fame. Jackie would advise Pete about the merits of his case.

“You get me one person who has used a public toilet on that jury, you gonna walk outta there a rich man.”

The negligence of the restaurant is a “clear violation of your rights as a consumer of a public bathroom. It is an infringement on your Constitutional Rights. It’s deplorable, unfathomable, improbable. It’s outrageous, egregious, preposterous!”

Jackie’s cross-examination would be a wonder to behold: “Did you provide the toilet or did they provide the toilet?”

Many years ago, I personally witnessed a toilet tragedy in Southern Pines at the Stoney Brook horse races. Some fratty bagger boys had been consuming an excess of alcohol.

One of the guys went into a Porta Potty. His drunken friends thought it would be hilarious to push over the Porta Potty while he was in it. Push came to shove causing the Porta Pot to tumble over.

Frat Boy came out cursing, covered on one side in blue Porta Potty chemicals and the residue from heavy use by thousands of race fans. It was one of the worst things I ever saw.

I have often wondered if they gave him a ride home covered in rancid effluvia. Like Charlie on the MTA, he may still be wandering the racecourse.

Now don’t you feel better about your own life? Things could be worse.

You’ve spent years building and growing your business. You’ve dedicated so much of your time and energy to ensuring its success, but it can be challenging to determine when the best time is to sell.

People sell businesses for a variety of reasons. When preparing a plan for selling your business, it’s a good idea to be straightforward and honest about what it would take to prepare your company for a potential transaction. You should also develop a strategy and timeline for hitting those benchmarks. But remember, this is a guideline and it’s not set in stone.

 

 

Reasons for selling

Certainly, events can result in the need to sell your business sooner or later than you intended. However, it is wise for any business owner to spend some time considering their situation and what events may make the sale of their business necessary. Having a plan is a smart idea to prevent some headaches if you must sell sooner than you anticipated.

First, consider your financial security. For instance, will the sale of your business support your current lifestyle? You will need to consider any existing debts you have, and your cash flow needs for now and the future. Do you have other sources of income and potential long-term expenses that can be used for these debts and expenses? Investigating if the current economic environment is favorable to selling is also important.

Next, evaluate what your personal and family concerns may be around the sale of your business. Some people may need to consider selling due to a lifestyle change such as divorce or illness. You may be dealing with a conflict with your business partner that requires you to sell your business. Finally, many people are interested in selling their business simply to have more personal time or because they want to retire.

Finally, many entrepreneurs are constantly seeking their next challenge. If you have a new business interest, you may be contemplating selling your existing company. This happens when you have already achieved all your personal goals for that business. Or you may be interested in running a less intensive or hands-on business. Another reason may be that you feel someone else is needed to run the business to help it go to the next level.

 Understanding timing

Businesses have life cycles, just like living creatures. One way to evaluate the best time to sell your business is by honestly evaluating where your business is in its life. There are five stages:

Is your business new and just finding its feet? Then, it is a start-up.

The second stage is when the business grows, and you build a name, clientele, and profitability.

The middle phase occurs when the initial growth spurt slows, but you still have forward momentum.

The fourth stage happens when your profits have leveled off, and you sustain a flat growth plane.

The fifth and final stage occurs when revenues are sliding, indicating that your business is in decline.

Visualize your business’s life cycle on a bell curve. You are likely to get the best price when your business is in the sustaining phase. Waiting until past the sustaining phase may be too late in terms of maximizing buyer interest and your profitability.

 

Transworld Business Advisors has a team of brokers with expertise in selling businesses in a wide range of industries and a proven process to match sellers with qualified buyers. We know that selling your business can be a lot of work, but with the right help to manage the process, the sale experience can be much less stressful. For a free consultation, contact Ashley Kelsey with Transworld Business Advisors of Eastern NC at 910-302-6447 or email akelsey@tworld.com.

Prepare for an immersive love experience with Love in the Oval Ballroom on Feb. 17. It is hosted by Beespoke Vintage and Heritage Historical Society. The event features a recreation of the 1830s wedding and reception of Margaret Halliday and John Sanford.

“I am a historical clothier and own Beespoke Vintage, a business that focuses on creating clothing from the 1770s through the 1970s, recreating vintage patterns, and curating historical events,” said Rebecca A. Russell.

“While working with Mary Erwin Olive, member of the Colonial Dames, on a written project for the Oval Room’s inclusion in the Great American Treasures book, I learned about the interesting history of the buildings and the women who inhabited them. I decided to recreate the 1830s wedding of one of the Halliday daughters for whose reception oral traditions state the Oval Ballroom was originally constructed,” said Russell.

“I applied and was awarded a mini-grant from the Arts Council for support of this event. The idea to recreate the 1830s wedding and reception at the actual site was placed in active mode. Oral tradition holds that the Oval Ballroom was intended for the wedding receptions of two Halliday daughters, Mary, and Margaret Halliday. Mary Halliday married Dr. Daniel Theodore Coxe in St John’s Episcopal Church on the evening of March 4, 1830. Margaret Halliday married John. W Sanford, also at St John’s Episcopal Church on July 7, 1830.

"I chose Valentine’s Day as the perfect day to recreate Margaret Halliday and John. W Sanford’s nuptials and receptions. Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love, marriage, and engagements,” said Russell.

 

Marriage has existed for over 4350 years. Early marriages were based on economics, political alliances, and male heirs, according to The Week Magazine

Marriage for love was considered a radical practice. “Too much love was thought to be a real threat to the establishment of marriage. Early proponents were horrified by the idea of love. The idea of love as a prime reason for marriage began to spread in the late 18th century and 19th century partially due to the French and American Revolutions,” said Stephanie Coontz.

Love in the Oval Ballroom is a two part event: the historically recreated wedding of Halliday and Sanford, and mini ceremonies for attendees.

“Cassandra McMillion, Heritage Square Historical President, introduced the idea of hosting a mini wedding as a fun addition [to the recreation of the nuptials of Margaret and John Sanford],” said Russell.

The mini-wedding ceremony symbolizes the elements of marriage, love, mutual respect and sacrifice. It is commitment. When a person says, “I Do,” it is a beautiful, memorable, and life-defining moment. The wedding ceremony is a public acknowledgment of love and commitment.

Love in the Oval Ballroom will feature the proposal, wedding vows or renewal experience. Enjoy an official wedding, and make sure to bring the marriage license, IDs, and other required documents prior to the ceremony. Here is the website for information about documentation https://www.nccourts.gov/help-topics/divorce-and-marriage/marriage .

The ceremonies are limited to 30 minutes in the Oval Ballroom. The photography package includes professional editing, 6 digital images, and a 12 x 16 print. There is the option to invite 30 guests. Please register for the proposal, wedding, renewals experience by Feb. 9. The fee is $750 per couple. The hours are 1 p.m., 1:30 p.m., 2 p.m., 2:30 p.m., 4 p.m., 5:30 p.m., 6 p.m. and 6:30 p.m. on February 17.

The second part of the Love in the Oval Ballroom event is the 1830 Wedding Presentation. This aspect will feature the immersive experience of attending Margaret and John Sanford’s 1830 wedding ceremony and reception.

Prior to attending the reenactment of the wedding and reception, there will be a presentation of the wedding tradition, fashion, architecture, history of the Oval Ballroom, and family history of the residents.

The public is encouraged to wear costumes of the early Regency and Victorian eras. Costumes are not required to attend the wedding and reception. The historical presentation begins at 3 p.m. on Feb. 17.

The Oval Ballroom is located at Heritage Square, 225 Dick Street. The ticket link is https://allevents.in/fayetteville/love-in-oval- ballroom/80003146032347. The ticket cost is $25.00. Ticket information is available on the website, Bespoke Vintage, https://wwwbeespokevintage.com. The event is limited to 30 people.

Mardi Gras, also known as Fat Tuesday, is a vibrant and lively celebration that has a rich history spanning several centuries.

This annual event has become synonymous with indulgence, revelry, and colorful parades. The roots of Mardi Gras can be traced back to ancient Roman festivals of fertility and abundance, but its modern incarnation can be attributed to French settlers in the city of New Orleans.

The history of Mardi Gras in New Orleans dates back to the early 18th century when French explorers established the city. They brought with them the tradition of celebrating Mardi Gras, a time of feasting and merrymaking before the solemn period of Lent.

Over the years, the celebration evolved and incorporated elements from various cultures, including Native American and African traditions.

Today, Mardi Gras has become a unique blend of different influences, making it one of the most iconic and anticipated events in the world.

 

The heart of Mardi Gras lies in its elaborate parades, flamboyant costumes, and vibrant music. Krewes, which are social organizations responsible for planning and organizing the festivities, play a significant role in the celebration.

Each Krewe has its own theme and designs elaborate floats that are paraded through the streets for all to see. Spectators line the sidewalks, eagerly waiting to catch beads, trinkets, and other treasures thrown from the floats.

Mardi Gras is not only a time for revelry but also an opportunity for communities to come together and celebrate. It is a chance for people from all walks of life to forget their worries and immerse themselves in the joyous atmosphere.

The streets of New Orleans come alive with laughter, music, and dancing as locals and visitors alike join in the festivities.

The history of Mardi Gras is a fascinating tale of cultural fusion and celebration. From its humble beginnings as a religious observance, to its current status as a global phenomenon, Mardi Gras continues to captivate and enchant people from all around the world.

Here in Fayetteville, the celebrations may be a bit small, but that doesn't mean you can't throw a fabulous Mardi Gras party in your home.

Guide to Mardi Gras Party at Home

Can't make it to New Orleans to join the festivités? Bring the Big Easy home with our Ultimate Guide to Throwing a New Orleans-inspired party. So put on your mask, grab some beads, and let the spirit of Mardi Gras carry you away!

Set the Mood with Music
Perhaps one of the most essential elements that make Mardi Gras truly unforgettable is the music. Music is the beating heart of Mardi Gras, infusing every street corner and party venue with infectious rhythms that compel everyone to dance and let loose. From the soulful sounds of jazz to the energetic beats of zydeco, music sets the tone for this grand celebration like no other.

Here are some great resources to compose the ultimate Mardi Gras playlist:
NOLA School of Music's Ultimate Mardi Gras Playlist: http://tinyurl.com/59c27pxf
37 Songs for Your Mardi Gras Music Playlist from The Bash: http://tinyurl.com/3z95p5nv

Plan the Menu
One of the most important aspects of any party is the food, and planning your Mardi Gras party menu is no exception. The rich and vibrant flavors of Cajun and Creole cuisine are a must-have for this festive occasion. From jambalaya to gumbo, there are countless recipes that will transport your guests straight to the heart of Louisiana.

To start off your Mardi Gras feast, consider serving some traditional appetizers like crawfish dip or spicy shrimp cocktail. These dishes are sure to get your guests' taste buds dancing in anticipation of what's to come.
For the main course, you can't go wrong with a classic jambalaya. Packed with bold flavors and a mix of meats like sausage and chicken, this hearty dish is a true crowd-pleaser. If you're feeling adventurous, you can also try your hand at making gumbo, a rich stew filled with shrimp, sausage, and okra.

No Mardi Gras celebration would be complete without some delicious desserts. King cake is an absolute must-have for this occasion. This sweet and colorful pastry is traditionally served during the Carnival season and is typically filled with cinnamon or cream cheese. Another popular dessert is beignets, which are deep-fried doughnuts dusted with powdered sugar. These pillowy treats are perfect for dipping into a cup of café au lait.

Get inspired with some of these great recipes:
50 Classic Mardi Gras Recipes from Southern Living: http://tinyurl.com/bdhc7e23
Must-Have Mardi Gras Recipes from Southern Discourse: http://tinyurl.com/mry4232k

Spread the Purple, Green & Gold Around
You are for sure going to need some fabulous decorations that will transport your guests straight to the heart of New Orleans. Mardi Gras is all about indulgence, celebration, and vibrant colors, so it's important to set the mood with the right decorations. From purple, green, and gold streamers to festive masks and beads, there are so many creative ways to transform your space into a Mardi Gras wonderland.

Start by setting the scene with a colorful backdrop. Hang purple, green, and gold curtains or fabric to create a backdrop reminiscent of the iconic Mardi Gras parade floats. You can also use balloons in these vibrant colors to add a touch of fun and whimsy. Scatter confetti or glitter on tables and countertops to give your party that extra sparkle. Don't forget to incorporate traditional Mardi Gras symbols like fleur-de-lis or jester hats into your decorations for an authentic touch.

Another essential element of any Mardi Gras party is masks and beads. Provide your guests with an assortment of masks in various colors and styles so they can fully embrace the spirit of the celebration. You can also hang strings of beads around the party area or use them as table centerpieces. Not only do these decorations add a festive touch, but they also make for great photo opportunities.

To take your Mardi Gras decorations to the next level, consider incorporating some themed props. Set up a photo booth area with props like feather boas, oversized sunglasses, and sequined hats for your guests to pose with. This will not only encourage interaction and fun but also create lasting memories.

Take some decorating notes from these great sites:
Family-Friendly Mardi Gras Dinner Party from Giggles Galore: http://tinyurl.com/5avseruv
11 Vibrant Mardi Gras Party Ideas for Adults to Nail the Celebration from Sixth Selle: http://tinyurl.com/bdfwrspa

Let the Good Drinks Flow
From vibrant cocktails to traditional New Orleans favorites, there are plenty of options to choose from that will have your guests feeling like they're right in the heart of the French Quarter. One popular choice is the classic Hurricane cocktail, a fruity and rum-filled drink that is sure to get the party started. Another great option is the Sazerac, a traditional New Orleans cocktail made with rye whiskey, absinthe, and sugar. The bold flavors of this drink perfectly capture the spirit of Mardi Gras.

And let's not forget about the iconic Mardi Gras punch, a festive blend of fruit juices and spirits that is as delicious as it is colorful. No matter which drinks you choose to serve at your Mardi Gras party, one thing is for sure - they will definitely add to the overall celebration and make your guests feel like they're part of the festivities in the Big Easy.

Find something fabulous for your guest here:
13 Mardi Gras Cocktails to Sip and Savor Like a Boss from Dine with Drinks: http://tinyurl.com/4c79rcfc
25+ Mardi Gras Mocktails from 3 Boys and a Dog: http://tinyurl.com/wny6fhe2

 

Remember, Mardi Gras is all about letting loose and embracing the joy of life. So go all out with your celebration and let your creativity shine through. Whether you choose to go for a traditional approach or put your own unique spin on things, your Mardi Gras party is sure to be a hit.

So, get ready to party like they do in the Big Easy and let the good times roll!

No stranger to taking on plays with intense subject matter, Gilbert Theater is taking it back in time with In the Blood.

This production has a history with the theater, a favorite of Lynn Pryer, the former art director. “[This was] his favorite show that he ever had anything to do with at the Gilbert,” said Larry Carlisle, current AD of the theater.

In the Blood was written by Suzan-Lori Parks in 1999.

Although most of the productions at the theater are family-friendly, this particular production has a rating of M for mature audiences. Parents considering bringing their children should be aware of strong language, blood, sexual suggestions, and other adult themes. Shows start Feb. 2nd and run through Feb. 18th, Friday through Sunday with one show per day. Friday and Saturday shows are at 8 p.m. and Sunday's show is at 2 p.m. Tickets are $20, with discounts for teachers, military, seniors, and groups.

In the Blood is a story of a woman named Hester, who is homeless with her five children. The play follows her trials and tribulations through “Confessions,” a monologue leading to the scene. Each scene is powerful, forcing audiences to question their prejudices and biases. Taking center stage as Hester is Lumberton native, local thespian, and Gilbert Theater veteran, Jackie Hill.

 

“I love to entertain. I entertained when I was serving my country and also right in Lumberton at the Carolina Civic Center in productions. I’m so glad to be back at the Gilbert… I’m also in school. Theater is my major,” she said of her career as an entertainer.

Although a seasoned entertainer, the role of Hester challenged Hill in a way that has not only expanded her acting range but opened her mind.

“Can I be someone homeless with five children? But the more I got into my rehearsing, I say that you can be Hester and you don’t have to be homeless. I know from some of my own life experiences. So now I face Hester, and I become her little by little… I believe the way I felt about it at first is exactly how people feel when it comes to homeless people or people out here in distress. The first thing they kinda do is put them under their feet or they have a judgment…We don’t know everyone’s situation and we don’t know who’s one day away from it,” Hill said of the role.

Directing this year’s production is Ayana Washington, founder of Book Black Women and star of many local productions including the record-breaking run of Matilda at Cape Fear Regional Theater and The Color Purple.

Her talent and knowledge of the stage go far beyond gracing its stage. Washington has held several backstage support roles in productions like The Addams Family as well. In the Blood called for a director like Washington.

“Everybody knows Ayana, and everybody loves Ayana… Ayana has been involved in lots of stuff all around town and in various capacities and at the Gilbert we wanted to make sure that we are creating a place where we could amplify diversity… this play is really powerful… I didn’t want to direct it myself,” said Carlisle.

“I heard the Gilbert was looking to diversify and I really wanted to be a part of it, especially since they were doing a black show, during Black History Month with an all-black cast,” Washington said.

“I am used to most of the black shows being trauma-based and I wanted the challenge, so I jumped on it. This show is about black trauma and everything that has to do with it, every element. I think more so black female trauma. It touches on a lot of topics that affect different types of black women but it’s all happening to this one character. It spans.

"I wanted the challenge of bringing that to life, finding nuggets of comedic relief… [they] asked me and I said yes, of course. So many theaters who do black shows and the production team cannot relate. That is always a frustration of mine. So the fact that they have this black show and they came looking for a black director speaks volumes,” said Washington on her decision to accept the position as director.

Washington will also host talks after each Saturday show to help attendees carry on the conversation long after they have left and start a deeper conversation within our community.

Volunteers for the front of the house are always needed and appreciated. Those interested should reach out via email to om@gilbertheater.com. 

For tickets visit https://www.gilberttheater.com/2023-2024-season/ or call 910-678-7186.

Continuing the success of the 100 Professional Black Women in Black Photoshoot, community organizer Tiffany Campbell is at it again with the 100 Professional Black Men in Black photoshoot.

Taking place in downtown Fayetteville just like its predecessor, this event will gather local professionals, all dressed in black for a powerful photoshoot. This time, it will be professional black men in the spotlight. The historic event is set to take place on Feb. 10th from 2 p.m. to 4 p.m. Participants can start checking in at 1:45 p.m. at Segra Stadium.

There will be an opportunity for mixing and introductions until 2:15 p.m. when the first photo will take place. 100 Black Men in Black is sponsored by Fayetteville Observer, Brother Strong, Flip Flop Sauce, and Segra Stadium. Tickets are $5 and can be purchased online at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/100-professional-black-men-in-black-tickets-793832312817?aff=ebdssbdestsearch.

Campbell, a Youth Counselor Technician and owner of Elite Steps is excited to bring this opportunity to the black men of Fayetteville.

 

 

“This event is going to be epic. History is about to be made again. I expect a larger turnout since they know what the end goal is. I’m also excited for women to drop by with their sons, who don’t have male figures to attend with them, to be in a room full of professionals. I love that because due to my job I see many black young men in the system that lack male figures and they don’t always see professionals so they don’t think it’s a possibility,” she said about the event.

After 100 Professional Black Women in Black and its viral fame, Campbell didn’t want the men to think she had forgotten about them. They definitely weren’t an afterthought in her planning of these historic events.

“It was a thought as I planned the 100 Professional Black Women in Black but the true inspiration was when I saw the lingering effects of that photo shoot and the excitement of the men to have their own,” said Campbell.

100 Professional Black Men in Black is more than an event, it’s a movement. Campbell is inviting attendees to bring the young men in their lives, be they sons, nephews, or cousins, with them.

“It is extremely important for the boys to not only see it but interact so they understand that everyone has a story and being professional does not mean they don’t understand them. This gives them hope and shows them that dressing up makes you feel good - it's not a funeral or court. This will build self-esteem and hopefully help strive for greatness,” Campbell said of the importance of the event for the young men and boys in the community.

Campbell will need help the day of the photoshoot with the boys and young men who will be attending, saying, “I need men who are willing to help me look after boys whose mothers will be present but not in Segra Stadium with them ­— to look out for them while we walk. There is someone affiliated with me who is assisting parents who need assistance getting clothing for their children. I need for every child to feel their best and look their best. As we help many of them see something that is not common.”

The plans for the future are big for the founder and creator, saying, “The future is to create opportunities for us to network in hopes to create generational connections and enhance our culture. [To] create a space so that everyone can go to one place and see all we have to offer so we can support each other, collaborate and more than anything, create a safe space that’s full of love and a nurturing environment that promotes and prioritizes mental health.”

100 Professional Black Men in Black is sure to be revolutionary and conversation-starting, a catalyst for greater things. Those attending can use the hashtag #100BlkProMen to document the experience.

For more information about 100 Professional Black in Black, check out the Facebook page, https://www.facebook.com/events/396077419545584?active_tab=about.

In a wonderful cultural shift challenging traditional stereotypes, Rex Plowden Heirs plans to create an enjoyable and relaxing new setting for men in an unlikely way– tea parties.

Ayreka Plowden and her two sons, William and Cory II, are all co-owners of Rex Plowden Heirs. Both William and Cory came up with the fun new idea for a men’s tea party.

“I haven’t [been to] a boy’s tea party before,” Cory explains, “I always saw girls do it but I wanted to do one for the boys.” William, the eldest son at 8 years old, joins in to explain, “I think it’s going to be a fun thing to do for boys. We can talk and learn different things about [the] people [that come].”

Their mother heard their ideas and turned it into a reality. At Ayreka’s current job, she hosts various types of exhibition events throughout the year. Instead of hosting an event for herself, she decided to let her boys’ ideas come to fruition. As avid tea drinkers, the three family members knew it would be a wonderful way to bring people together to promote health and create a positive male community. Their focus is to bring boys together and instill loving values and traditions in them that will help them succeed and be their most authentic selves.

Rex Plowden Heirs’ Tea party is set to take place on Feb. 3, from noon to 2 p.m. and invites young men and boys alike to spend a relaxing afternoon making friends, exchanging stories, and drinking delicious tea. Though primarily geared towards young men and boys of color, who have often been excluded from events like this, everyone is welcome. The venue is on the seventh floor at 100 Hay Street #Suite 706 in Fayetteville. Make sure to get your tickets ahead of time so Rex Plowden Heirs can accommodate everyone with an accurate headcount.

 

“I am ever grateful for Ms. Sylvia Glanton for allowing me to utilize her space for this event for my boys and it’s a really beautiful space and I really can’t wait to set everything up,” Plowden says.

“[We want to show] that boys can have tea parties as well and to show them how to properly present themselves in society."

Plowden explains just how helpful this event can be for so many young people.

“[This] gives them an opportunity to put their best foot forward [and] gives them a chance to put some pride in themselves and how they dress and how they present themselves to others.”

Plowden and her two boys have plenty of games and activities planned. Hot and cold tea will be provided alongside hors d'oeuvres. They ask attendees dress to impress, whether that means a nice suit or a well-loved dress shirt. Bring friends and family to create an even bigger and sweeter community for young boys to figure out who they are and what they like. The more positive male figures and support, the better. Tickets are $45 for an adult male, $15 for a young boy, and $25 for any extra men in your party.

Rex Plowden Heirs hopes to host a boy’s tea party annually to continually create a safe space for men and boys to have positive male bonding. “I wanted to kind of get out of the toxic masculine mindset that drinking tea [is or] isn’t masculine,” Plowden explains.

If you’d like to help sponsor or be a part of this event, visit https://www.eventbrite.com/e/royaltea-a-gentlemens-tea-party-tickets-792676967147 for tickets or contact Rex Plowden Heirs on the same website.

In July of last year, the Census Bureau estimated that some 10.8 million people resided in our state. One of the fastest-growing in the country, North Carolina’s population ranks ninth, just below Georgia’s population of 11 million.

More generally, Southern states accounted for almost 90% of America’s net population increase last year, with migration into Texas, Florida, Georgia, Tennessee, and the Carolinas driving most of the region’s growth.

There’s a robust debate about why this is so. I’ve participated in the debate myself, long arguing that freer states — defined as having smaller governments, lower tax and regulatory burdens, and greater choice and competition in public services — tend to grow faster than their peers.

 

Today, however, I’ll focus not on the past but on the future. What will North Carolina’s population be 16 years from now, in 2040? And what are the policy implications of that prediction?

In other words, let’s set aside whether the current policy mix in North Carolina and most of our Southern neighbors are responsible for recent growth. Let’s just assume that current population projections will come to pass.

Based on the 2020 Census headcount and subsequent estimates, North Carolina’s State Office of Budget and Management currently projects that our population will reach approximately 13 million by 2040.

Although there is no comparable projection for other states, a somewhat older Census projection suggested North Carolina will rank seventh in population by then, exceeded only by California, Texas, Florida, New York, Pennsylvania, and Georgia.

However, the projected figures for North Carolina, Pennsylvania, and Georgia are so similar, and sufficiently fuzzy, that it’s possible we’ll be the fifth-most-populous state by 2040!

Within our state, the largest metropolitan areas will likely add population at a faster rate than our smaller municipalities and rural areas, with some exceptions (such as coastal and mountain communities attractive to retirees and work-from-home households). Still, if we consider the 10 counties projected to have at least 300,000 residents in 2040 — Wake, Mecklenburg, Guilford, Forsyth, Durham, Union, Cumberland, Johnston, Buncombe, and Cabarrus — their combined population of 6.3 million will still be less than half the state’s total population.

By 2040, about 21% of North Carolinians will be 65 years of age or older, up from 18% today. About 22% of North Carolinians will be 20 or younger, down from 24% today. For all the talk of rapid demographic change, I don’t see these changes as particularly dramatic. Do you?

As for race and ethnicity, non-Hispanic whites as defined by the Census Bureau are projected to account for approximately 56% of the state’s population in 2040, down from 61% today. Hispanics (of any race) and people of Asian ancestry will grow as a share of the state’s population, as will North Carolinians whose ancestries are mixed or who reject placing themselves in such crude categories in the first place.
Indeed, all projections and demographic categories have some built-in uncertainty and ambiguity.

Although most new residents will either be born here or arrive as citizens from other states, immigration from overseas will play a role — as will federal policies that either encourage or discourage such immigration in the future. And unforeseen economic, social, or even medical events might significantly influence our birth and death rates.

Nevertheless, I think it’s reasonable to expect that North Carolina will be much more populous in 2040 than it is today. In my view, that’s a good reason for state and local policymakers to elevate such issues as infrastructure, housing, and workforce development to the top of their priority lists.

Given the eroding capacity of motor fuel taxes, for example, North Carolina must move as quickly as possible to a more sustainable means of paying for roads and bridges. Our zoning and housing codes are too strict, keeping builders from supplying enough homes to meet rising demand. As for workforce development, continued reforms in education and occupational licensing will be necessary to fill the jobs of tomorrow and help all North Carolinians prosper.

Editor’s Note: John Hood is a John Locke Foundation board member. His latest books, Mountain Folk and Forest Folk, combine epic fantasy with early American history (FolkloreCycle.com).

Arguably, the Ukrainians have already won their country’s battle with Putin’s Russia—if we don’t make them give up that victory.
It is a complicated situation, of course. Russian troops are still holding onto Ukrainian territory in the eastern part of the country and are attempting to conquer more.

But they are paying a high price.

According to Newsweek in a January 8 article by Ellie Cook, “Ukrainian forces have taken out more than nine battalions worth of Russian soldiers since the New Year, Kyiv said on Monday, in the latest indication of the human cost of the nearly two-year-old war.”

Cook continued, “Russia lost around 4,350 soldiers between January 1 and January 7, according to Ukraine's Military Media Center, a platform run by the country's Defense Ministry and military.”

 

Both Ukraine and Russia limit disclosures of causalities, but some estimates conclude that Russian troop losses could approach a half million and, by the most conservative estimate 80,000 Russians have been killed.

Thus, Russian losses in the last two years are already greater than the U.S. losses of 58,220 during the entire Vietnam War.

In Afghanistan, both Russia (1979-1989) and the U.S. (2001-2021) learned or should have learned the difficulties involved in trying to defeat a highly motivated enemy on its home territory.

It is a lesson Great Britain learned from George Washington in the American Revolution.

The Americans in the late 1770s and 1780s needed outside help from France to complete their victory.
Similarly, notwithstanding the advantages Ukraine has in defending its home territory, it needs help confronting Putin’s Russia and preserving its success in holding the Russians back for two years.
And the Ukrainians need help from the U.S. and European allies to stop the Russian invasion.

Why should the U.S. continue to help?

Writing in The New York Times in September, columnist Tom Friedman summed up an important reason. “What Putin is doing in Ukraine is not just reckless, not just a war of choice, not just an invasion in a class of its own for overreach, mendacity, immorality and incompetence, all wrapped in a farrago of lies. What he is doing is evil.”

Friedman continued, “Ukraine is a game-changing country for the West, for better or for worse depending on the war’s outcome. Its integration into the European Union and NATO someday would constitute a power shift that could rival the fall of the Berlin Wall and German unification. Ukraine is a country with impressive human capital, agricultural resources and natural resources — ‘hands, brains and grains,’ as Western investors in Kyiv like to say. Its full-fledged integration into Europe’s democratic security and economic architecture would be felt in Moscow and Beijing.”

Nevertheless, some American politicians are asking hard questions about continuing American support for Ukraine in the form of military supplies and money.
But it’s Putin, with all the losses of Russia’s young men on the battlefield, who has the greater challenge of explaining why he continues the war.

Assuming the Ukraine leaders are willing to continue, what should we and they do now?

Holding off the Russians for two years is a victory in itself, but Ukraine should expect and prepare for the war to continue. Do not expect a quick victory.

Ukraine should prepare for a long war. It should make the Russians pay a high price for their efforts to capture more territory.

With the help of the U.S. and European supporters, Ukraine must sustain and improve air defenses.

It should attack the Russian air bases that launch the aircraft, drones, and missiles aimed at Ukrainian targets.

To retaliate for the damage done to Ukrainian civilian buildings, it should make similar attacks on Russian civilian targets.

To the Ukrainians:

Hold on.

You’ve already won.

Editor’s Note: D.G. Martin, a retired lawyer, served as UNC-System’s vice president for public affairs and hosted PBS-NC’s North Carolina Bookwatch.

Whether you are a perfume connoisseur or just love trying new scents, you’ll enjoy swapping perfumes on Feb. 10, from noon to 2 p.m., at 541 Bonanza Drive, Suite 102 in Fayetteville, hosted by Chef Judy Cage. Get ready to indulge your senses in a delightful brunch spread while exploring a wide range of exquisite perfumes.

Chef Judy started this unique event to bring fellow perfume enthusiasts together to discover a world of luxury scents, mingle, eat great food, and be in a safe space to share tips and give recommendations.

The brunch is also a great way to network with like-minded people who share a passion for luxury perfumes. Attendees are asked to bring a scent valued between $65 to $110 in a gift bag.

Chef Judy is a staple in the Fayetteville area. She loves connecting with and supporting local business owners and is known for her generous giving and infectious smile. Her love for cooking started at a young age. A native of Chicago, she joined the military after high school and honed in on her cooking skills.

Stationed in Fayetteville, she made it her home and started three businesses: Uptown’s Chicken & Waffles, Let Me Cater To You, and Personal Chef & Catering Company.

“We have built a reputation for quality food with a diverse menu. My passion is providing excellent service for all events, from a casual company picnic to an elegant wedding reception,” Chef Judy shared.

 

Chef Judy has built an impressive reputation catering to well-known artists and treating every client like a VIP. She operates with a spirit of humility, excellence, and professionalism. Her incredible talent has been recognized on the Food Network's Super Market Stakeout, where she showcased her skills and emerged as the winner. This experience propelled her to new heights, fueling her love for television, cooking, and the thrill of competition.

“I had such a great time,” Chef Judy said, “This experience has been amazing. I love television, I love cooking, and I love the exposure. These competition shows allow me to perform at my highest level in the kitchen. I also met some amazing people while showing my competitive side.”

Later this year, Chef Judy will release a coloring cookbook titled, “The Book Next To The Bible.” It will offer recipes and stories from Chef Judy’s table. She loves to travel, laugh, make people smile, and spend quality time with her family and friends.

Chef Judy says attendees will be in for a real treat at this event. She always has something exciting and fun to do. Not only will you exchange fragrances and enjoy good food, but there will be local vendors you can support. Grab as many perfumes as you want to exchange, grab a friend, and plan to have a fabulous time as you network with people in the area!

Tickets can be purchased at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/luxury-perfume-exchange-brunch-tickets-788682660067?aff=ebdssbdestsearch or by calling 910-443-3588.

Kappa Epsilon Psi Military Sorority Inc., Fayetteville Beta Chapter, is having its 10th Anniversary Scholarship Ball on Feb. 17 from 6 p.m. to 11 p.m., at The Diamond Venue located at 328 Gillespie St. in Fayetteville. The theme is a masquerade and requires a mask and all-black attire.

Tiffney Knighten, President of Kappa Epsilon Psi Military Sorority Inc., says the event promises an unforgettable evening of music, dancing and entertainment.

“Our scholarship ball aims to commemorate the 10th anniversary of our chapter’s charter to raise funds for deserving ROTC students in need of financial assistance. As a female veteran, service-based organization, the recipient will be a female ROTC/JROTC high school senior or college student with high scholastic achievement. We will be presenting the recipient with a $1,000 scholarship at the ball,” Knighten shared.

Knighten is a native of San Diego, California. She joined the Army in February 2004 and is currently pending retirement after 20 years of military service. She was drawn to Kappa Epsilon Psi Military Sorority Inc. because she longed for sisterhood and community beyond that of her maternal brothers and sisters.

“The founders, Moneka Smith and Shica Hill, are revolutionaries that have created an organization that is one of a kind and has truly been a blessing to me and thousands of other women,” Knighten added.

Knighten says she is excited to have Fayetteville violinist sensation, Dextorist Timmons as part of the entertainment. Mayor Mitch Colvin will be in attendance to present the chapter with a city proclamation for community efforts to the city of Fayetteville over the last ten years.

Kappa Epsilon Psi Military Sorority Inc. was established on April 4, 2011. It’s an organization of female veterans and elite professionals who diligently serve in local communities as veteran advocates. To date, Kappa Epsilon Psi has approximately 39 chapters with nearly 2,000 members within the United States and internationally.

Their goal is to establish Kappa Epsilon Psi chapters on every U.S. military installation and abroad.

Get ready to show off your best moves while enjoying delicious food and drinks. This event is a wonderful opportunity to support a great cause, have fun, and make a difference.

Tickets are available on Eventbrite at: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/fayetteville-beta-chapters-10th-charter-anniversary-scholarship-ball-tickets-738531526677

In a show of collaboration, teamwork, and theatrical prowess, the team at Ace Brown Productions created an original stage play for theater fans and new fans alike. Come see Frenemy at New Life Bible Church on Feb. 3.

Instead of following the new norm of filmmakers pursuing streaming services like Tubi, producer Ace Brown opted for a different and exciting approach — stage plays. He and his team of cast and crew continue to work tirelessly designing complex sets, fleshing out their original characters, and rehearsing over and over again.

“I’m most excited about seeing my castmates perform,” Ace says, praising his cast and crew for all their hard work. “Started back in 2012, Ace Brown Productions [has] produced films for the community. This is the first of many theater projects [of ours].”

Ace Brown is known for producing, writing, and acting in the TV mini-series “I Need Help” and starring in the films “Those Who Can’t” and “Risk: The Life of Floyd & Sabrina” among plenty other acting credits.

 

Ace goes on to share the intriguing plot of his newest story, “We run across new people every day, whether at work or in our neighborhoods. At some point, we may consider them a friend. Are they really a friend to you or are they a frenemy?”

Plenty of us have had ups and downs with all kinds of relationships. Ace Brown plans to tackle that topic with creativity and intrigue.

“Ashlee and Kevin have been dating since college. When Ashlee starts a new job and meets new friends, their relationship gets tested!”

Although it’s not a musical, this drama-comedy style play will have you on the edge of your seats the same way a powerful song would. Don’t miss your chance to see a visionary in action and a team of people with an overwhelming and tangible love for their craft.

Join the Ace Brown Productions Frenemy show on Feb. 3, for either one of their two shows. Both shows are estimated to last around 2.5 hours each, with one starting at 2 p.m. and the other starting at 7 p.m. the same day.

All ages are allowed, however the content in the play is recommended for those 17 and up. The Frenemy stage play is set to be held at New Life Bible Church at 1420 Hoke Loop Rd. in Fayetteville. Tickets are $30.

Audience members can expect to see multiple vendors selling their items and a concession stand to purchase food and drinks.

Continuing to go the extra mile for their audience, Ace Brown Productions will have welcoming music playing from the moment you step through the doors and will gladly get you situated with anything you may need. They ask that you please purchase tickets ahead of time and enjoy a stress-free and entertaining afternoon and evening!

For more information and ticket purchase, visit either site below:

For 2 p.m. tickets visit https://www.eventbrite.com/e/frenemy-stage-play-2pm-show-only-tickets-783629074657?aff=ebdsshios

For 7 p.m. tickets visit https://allevents.in/fayetteville/frenemy-stage-play-7pm-show-only/10000783679194567

Valentine's Day falls on Wednesday, February 14th this year. No matter if you are commemorating the occasion alone, with a partner, or with your children, Fayetteville has a variety of events and activities to offer for everyone's enjoyment.

 

Friday, February 9th:

-Candles & Cocktails: Valentine's Day Edition-Dirty Whiskey Craft Cocktail Bar at 6:30 p.m.
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-A Fatal Valentine: A Valentine Murder Mystery-VFW 10630 at 7 p.m.
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-Date Night Charcuterie-The Downtown Market of Fayetteville at 6 p.m.
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Saturday, February 10th:

-Dress Like Your Type-Valentine's Event-Dirtbag Ales Brewery & Taproom at 7 p.m.
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-Be My Valentine Carriage Rides-222 Hay Street at 1 p.m.
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-Tying the Knot with Us Macrame Workshop-Green Side Up Garden & Gift Center at 10 a.m.
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-Cupids Arrow Beer Mile-Dirtbag Ales Brewery & Taproom at 2 p.m.
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-Pre-Valentines Speed Dating-Rockfish Creek Winery at 6 p.m.
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-Valentine's Day Hangout-Cumberland County Public Library at 10 a.m.
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-Valentine's Day KickBack-5555 Yadkin Road at 10 a.m.
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-Valentine's Day Vegan Dinner-Prima Elements Holistic Wellness Center at 8:30 p.m.
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-Valentine's Candle Making & Wine Tasting-Scented Wicks Candle Bar at 6 p.m.
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-Ariel's Under the Sea Valentine Tea-HanMarie's Performing Arts & Events at 10 a.m. at 4787 Raeford Rd.
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-Red & Black Annual Love Party-2945 Hope Mills Road at 9:30 p.m.
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-Luxury Perfume Exchange Brunch-L2 Candle Bar at 10 a.m.
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-Lovers & Friends Paint Party-805 Elm Street at 7 p.m.
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Sunday, February 11th:

-Gastons Valentines Day Drag Brunch-Gaston Brewing Taproom at 11 a.m.
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Tuesday, February 13th:

-Valentines Spirit Night-Roundabout Skating Center (71st Location) at 5:30 p.m.
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Wednesday, February 14th:

-Valentine's Day Murder Myster & Dinner-Segra Stadium at 8 p.m.
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-Flower Crown Workshop-Dirtbag Ales Brewery & Taproom at 7 p.m.
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-Sip & Paint Valentine's Day Edition-White Rabbit Pub at 8 p.m.
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-Auricular Acupuncture & Reiki in the Salt Room-414 Ray Ave at 6:30 p.m.
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-Be My Valentine-Cape Fear Vineyard & Winery at 6 p.m.
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-Anti-Valentine's Garage Patio Bar-Bubba's 33 at 7 p.m.
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-Love is Blind Taste Test-James Creek Cider House at 7 p.m.
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-Preschool Story Time: Valentine's Day/Love-North Regional Library at 11 a.m.
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Thursday, February 15th:

-Valentine's Day Party-The Sip Room at 4 p.m.
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Friday, February 16th:

-FLD Valentine's Day Affair with Brian & Ellie-Fayetteville Latin Dance LLC at 8 p.m.
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Looking to get back to a fitness routine and get back into shape this new year? You're not alone! As resolutions are set, many people strive to prioritize their health and fitness goals.

Traditional Gym Workout

After a hiatus, it's time to reignite your fitness routine and embrace the benefits of a traditional gym workout. With its wide range of equipment, professional trainers, and motivating atmosphere, a traditional gym provides numerous benefits to help you achieve your fitness goals. Whether you prefer strength training, cardio workouts, or group exercise classes, a traditional gym offers a variety of options to suit your preferences and target different muscle groups. Furthermore, the supportive environment of a gym can play a crucial role in keeping you motivated and accountable for your fitness journey.
Here are a few fitness center options to consider:

Fit 4 Life Health Clubs- https://fit4lifehealthclubs.com
Planet Fitness- https://www.planetfitness.com/
The Spa Fitness Wellness Center- https://www.thespafitnesscenter.com/

New Fitness Options to Explore in the Upcoming Year

This year, let's make getting into shape exciting and fun. Say "goodbye" to the boring and mundane workout routines and "hello" to fresh and exhilarating approaches. There are endless options to keep you motivated and engaged beyond the traditional gym environment.

POUND

Unleash your inner rockstar and infuse your workout with high-energy, drum-inspired cardio. Get ready to rock your body and break a sweat with this exhilarating full-body drumming session. Rather than simply listening to music, you can embody the music with Ripstix®, drumsticks that have been specially designed for exercise. POUND takes drumming and transforms it into a highly effective workout method. Suitable for individuals of all fitness levels, this unique approach to fitness is sure to leave you feeling energized and accomplished.

Catch a Class at the YMCA of the Sandhills at 3910 Ellison Street, Hope Mills on Tuesdays at 5:30 p.m. For more information call 910-303-8283.

Trapeze, Circus or Aerial Silks

Mastering the skill of executing captivating performances using various apparatus like silks, trapeze, sling, or hoop is the essence of circus arts. These artistic endeavors not only serve as a creative outlet but also offer a comprehensive fitness routine. By engaging in these activities, you can boost your self-assurance and cultivate a sense of joy while simultaneously achieving optimal physical fitness.

Air Born Aerial Fitness, located at 4910 Yadkin Road, offers a variety of classes with different techniques, apparatus and skill levels. See the full schedule here:
https://www.airbornaerialfitness.com.

Pole Fitness

Pole Fitness is a form of pole dancing that maximizes the potential of the pole as a versatile fitness tool. It engages the entire body, enhancing muscle definition, flexibility, coordination, posture, and strength in the upper body and core. The range of exercises available with a pole is astonishing, resembling those performed in a gym but utilizing one's own body weight as resistance.

Studio X Pole Fitness studio, located at 5129 Bragg Blvd, has a variety of Pole Fitness classes as well as Chair Dance, Floorography, Belly Dancing and other fun ways to get fit. See their full schedule at www.studioxpolefitness.com

Trampolining

Indoor trampoline parks have been emerging all over the place. However, they are not just a fantastic destination to bring the whole family, but also a wonderful chance to engage in an enjoyable exercise session. Trampoline workouts are considered to be aerobic exercises, similar to activities such as jogging or cycling. However, unlike high-impact exercises like running or fast walking, trampoline workouts are low-impact, which means they put less strain on the joints and reduce the risk of injury or fatigue.
Some indoor trampoline parks to check out:

Urban Air Adventure Park- www.urbanair.com/north-carolina-fayetteville
Sky Zone- www.skyzone.com/fayetteville

Rollerskating

Roller skating can help you burn a similar amount of calories as participating in group cycling or putting in a moderate effort on the rowing machine. In addition to the calorie-burning aspect, skating also offers other advantages such as enhanced balance and core stability, which could potentially reduce lower back pain.

Round-A-Bout Skating Centers has two local locations with weekly specials, special events and lots of open skate times for the public. Find out more information here: https://www.round-a-bout.com/

Here are some fitness trends that haven't reached our area yet, but are worth keeping an eye on:
Cycle Karaoke
HulaFit
Punk Rope
SURFSET Fitness
Lightsaber Fighting

Daddies come in all forms: fathers, uncles, grandfathers and godfathers. There is no one way to be considered a “daddy.” And that bond is one a girl will never forget and one that leaves an impact on a man’s heart forever. Principal Warriors Car Club is sponsoring its 2nd Annual Daddy & Daughter Dance,

 

“A Date with Daddy” on Feb. 10th from 3 p.m. until 6 p.m. at the 82nd Airborne Division Association Fayetteville Chapter building located at 606 Johnson Street.

The dance is semi-formal and a great opportunity for daddies and daughters to bring out their finest dresses and suits. Festivities start at 3 p.m., with dinner, snacks and photo opportunities to commemorate the night. The DJ kicks up the music starting at 4 p.m. for dancing and the official daddy daughter dance off.

There will be vendors, games and networking with other amazing fathers and father figures. Tickets are $30 per couple and an additional $10 for each additional young lady and can be purchased at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/daddy-daughter-dance-tickets-723799131687.

Principal Warriors Car Club was founded by Dion Dink Parker. Parker said, “Our mission is to mentor our youth by showing them they can have nice things without being in the streets and helping our community through charitable contributions and work.” The Daddy and Daughter is an event that Fayetteville residents can look forward to for years to come.

“We plan on making this a yearly event,” Parker said.

The idea behind the dance came from a member.

“One of our members suggested we do this event to show that fathers, uncles and grandfathers are a part of their girl's lives,” Parker said.

The car club was established here in Fayetteville. Its members are avid participants in community outreach, organizing car shows that raise money for a range of local charities and scholarship funds.

Last year, the club raised $7K during their 8th Annual Scholarship Banquet. Scholarship money goes to local students to assist in paying for the increasing cost of college. Principal Warriors Car Club has a full schedule as they gear up to support and raise money.

Mar 9 - Mommy and Son Dance
Mar 30 - Charity Car Show
Apr 27- Charity Car Show
June 8 - Charity Car Show
July 27 - Scholarship Ball
Sept 7 - Charity Car Show
Oct 12- Charity Car Show

The next big event for the car club is their Mommy and Son Dance. This is an opportunity for moms (or aunts or grandmothers) and sons to get dressed in their best and come take a turn around the dance floor.

Principal Warriors Car Club makes it fun and easy to be a part of a difference in the community. All their charity car shows are open to the public and are a good time for everyone involved.

Make sure to follow the club on social media to stay up to date on all the club's events and how you can be a part of the solution, https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100057611231834.

Let’s have Dinner!

For years, I have looked forward to this very special and unique fundraising event. This year, I invite Up & Coming Weekly community newspaper readers and hundreds of Fayetteville and Cumberland County residents to join us as we celebrate The CARE Clinic’s 27th Annual Week of CARE Dinner.

I always know when Valentine's Day is approaching because The CARE Clinic begins preparation for the Week of CARE Dinner.

This unique fundraising event has brought friends and families together for decades. This year's Dinner is scheduled for February: Celebrating Love through CARE!

Join me and our family as three of Fayetteville’s finest and most CARING community restaurants and food service providers prepare three distinct menus with take-home meals for this year's event.

 

As I said, this unique CARE Clinic fundraiser gives you plenty of convenient and delicious options to choose from: You get to select the day you want to pick up your food (Feb. 3rd to 10th ), the time of your event (lunch or dinner), the venue (Luigi’s, The Coffee Scene, or Dorothy’s Catering 2), and your Menu (Chicken Marsala, Spaghetti, Bacon, Vegetable or Crustless Meat & Veggie Quiche).

There are many choices, and with all the fixings, it is for one tax-deductible donation to The CARE Clinic of $175.00. Pretty cool, huh? This event will sell out, so place your order by January 26th. To participate in the Week of CARE Dinner event, contact Tara Martin at 910 485-0555 or email your order to Development@thecareclinic.org.

Tara can also provide more information about how you can get involved, contribute to, or support the great work The CARE Clinic is doing in Cumberland and the surrounding counties.

For those unfamiliar with The CARE Clinic, it is a non-profit 501c3 organization located at 239 Robeson St, in downtown Fayetteville, that has provided free quality healthcare to uninsured adult residents of Cumberland and surrounding counties since 1993.

The clinic is run primarily by volunteers and offers various services, including primary Care, simple dental extractions, diagnostic testing, and outside specialist referrals.

These services are free and made possible through grants and community support from fundraising events like the Week of CARE Dinner.

This event and others throughout the year provide financial stability for the clinic while celebrating and thanking the Fayetteville/Cumberland community for making The CARE Clinic’s mission possible and successful.

Everyone here at Up & Coming Weekly loves to eat and drink, and most events we are involved with seem to center around food.

This adds credence to the theory that food is one of the strongest unifiers of people across the globe. Food has undoubtedly been the primary element of hospitality for centuries, welcoming guests, initiating discussions, and sharing expressions of love and concern.

This is what The CARE Clinic is all about. Hosting the annual Week of CARE Dinner this February and sharing a meal with friends and family celebrates and demonstrates that love and Care. Join us in supporting the event and the continued work of The Care Clinic. As always, thank you for reading Up & Coming Weekly.