Christmas is coming! The holiday season has officially kicked off in Cumberland County.

Downtown Fayetteville is getting its annual holiday treatment with festive art installations popping up, white lights twirled around flag poles, and store window fronts getting the jingle treatment, displaying all the offerings of the season of giving.

The Gilbert Theater, a staple and downtown legend, is part of the kick-off with its annual production of A Christmas Carol. After a small hiatus — the theater ran It’s a Wonderful Life for several years during the Christmas season — the beloved classic is back… but with a twist.

This year, the theater is putting on an adaptation of A Christmas Carol written by veteran thespian, James Dean.

A Christmas Carol will start running on November 24th and run until December 17th.

The show will run every Friday through Sunday. Friday’s and Sunday’s shows start at 8 p.m. Saturday has two shows for the public to choose from, one at 2 p.m. and the other at 8 p.m. Ticket prices range from $18 to $20 and there is a group discount as well.

Patrons are encouraged to buy tickets early, as this is one show that is popular and well-loved. Tickets can be purchased online at gilbertheater.com or by calling 910.678.7186. Gilbert Theater is located at 116 Green Street, in downtown Fayetteville.

The Gilbert Theater has run A Christmas Carol since 2006, with a small break for a few years to give another timeless classic a chance to shine.

While most are familiar with the age-old tale of A Christmas Carol, in true community theater fashion, Gilbert Theater has decided to put on an adaptation of the play, written by long-time supporter and actor of the stage, James Dean.

With a name like that, the expectation for this adaptation is high. Dean has been working in theater since 1976 and played Scrooge in the theater's very first production of the show in 2006. A love for the stage and the art form keeps him coming back.

“I just do what I do. I’m not in it for money. I never have been. Money has always turned me off all my life. I was into commercial art until I realized you got paid for it, and people only wanted you to do what they wanted you to do in order to get paid for it and so… I do it for fun and because I love it,” he said.

“I wouldn’t have started doing it back then and now I’m 72 and still doing it. That’s a long time, but I’ve done a lot of good roles that I’ve loved. A couple of years ago I got to do All My Son’s playing Joe Keller. I got to do Big Daddy in Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, and funny I wrote a story about a guy who hasn’t got to do Billy Loeman in Death of a Salesman, which I haven’t got to do yet… and then he gets on stage to make his entrance and drops dead… so that’s it. There are no big things to tell."

This year he is reprising his role as Scrooge, making this year’s production all that more unique and magical.

For those who are fans of the original, the theater promises that while this adaptation is more condensed, it still carries the spirit of the original while adding new elements that create depth.
“In this version, Scrooge is telling the story… he breaks the fourth wall,” Dean said. Dean has made a name for himself as Scrooge here in Fayetteville, “It’s pretty natural and I’ve done it for so long I don’t like thinking about it too much. I just do it. I’ve been acting since the world began, something like that.”

With Dean’s adaptation, it’s up to Theater Artistic Director Lawrence Carlisle to make it work on stage.

“It’s always how to stage things… it tends to be a fairly elaborate show, usually with the trips to the past, the trips to the places in the present, visions of the future, so creative staging is always what we have to deal with to make sure we can tell the story and it makes sense.” This year’s production brings a few surprises, “I will hint that the spirits are a little different this year,” Dean said.

Gilbert Theater will also be in full effect at A Dickens Holiday in Downtown Fayetteville. Carlisle said, “We will have our GLEE kids… selling flowers, as they’ve done in years previous, and I’ll have one or two cast members out walking around in character… I’m trying to keep the ghost secret because it’s different than what's normally done.”

There could also be an opportunity to see some scenes played out during A Dickens Holiday at SkyView. There is no confirmation yet but make sure you are following Gilbert Theater on social media to stay up to date on all things A Christmas Carol.

The election cycle has come and gone. Out of the 152,096 registered voters, data from the North Carolina State Board of Elections reports that only 20,229 ballots were cast for the municipal elections. Though only ~13.30 percent of registered voters came out to cast their vote, their voices will have long-lasting effects on the future of Fayetteville and Cumberland County. These are the returning and newly elected officials chosen by the Fayetteville population.

Mayor

Incumbent mayor Mitch Colvin has once again retained his position as mayor of Fayetteville, securing a fourth term. With 11,469 ballots counted in his favor, Colvin secured ~65 percent of the vote over his opponent, Freddie de la Cruz. Cruz, having 6,089 ballots in his turn, could only secure ~34.5 percent of the vote. Lastly, 80 individuals wrote in their choice for mayor and took up ~.5 percent of the total votes for mayor.

District 1

Incumbent District One city council member Kathy Keefe Jensen has managed to maintain her seat on the council. Earning 1,088 ballots in her favor, Jensen claimed ~65 percent of the total votes cast for the District 1 race. Alex Rodriguez, however, could only inspire 584 ballots to be cast in his favor. Rodriguez took ~35 percent of the ballots cast for District 1 council seat. Finally, three people wrote in their choice for the District 1 seat and made up .18 percent of the total ballots counted for the city council seat of District 1

District 2

Coming in with 1,298 ballots cast in his favor, Malik Davis secured the majority of the vote at ~65 percent. This win will mark Davis’s first term as city council member for District 2. The incumbent, Shakeyla Ingram, only managed to have 690 ballots in her favor, leaving her with ~35 percent of the votes in the District 2 race. Then, 15 individuals wrote in their suggested choice for a council seat and were .75 percent of the total ballots cast.

 

District 3

Commanding a large majority of the vote at 75~ percent, Mario Benavente, the incumbent city council chair holder for District 3, was able to secure 1,670 ballots cast in his favor. However, Michele Arita Dillon had 535 ballots cast for her and, as such, garnered ~24 percent of the total ballots cast. Eight people wrote in their choice and made up .36 percent of the vote. 

District 4

Pushing his lead even further than others, D.J. Haire was able to amass a staggering ~81 percent of the total ballots cast for the District 4 race. With 1,443 ballots cast in Haire’s favor, ~18 percent, or 322 ballots, of the vote was seized by Stuart A. Collick. The remaining .9 percent of the vote came from 16 ballots submitted with write-ins.

District 5

In the second most contested race of the cycle, District 5 has elected Lynne Bissette Greene as the new city council chairholder for their District. Gathering 1,905 ballots cast in her favor, Greene secured ~60 of the vote against the incumbent, Johnny Dawkins. Dawkins, who had 1,261 ballots cast in his favor, was able to hold onto ~40 percent of the total vote in his run for re-election. A negligible .35 percent of the total ballots cast were those for miscellaneous write-ins.

District 6

Running unopposed, Derrick Thompson of District 6 secured 1,559 votes and ~96 of the total for his District. The other ~4 percent were made up of 66 write-in ballots.

District 7

Another single-person race, District 7, has chosen to elect Brenda McNair. With 1,554 votes, McNair won ~97 of the ballots cast. The remaining ballots consisted of 47 write-ins and amounted to ~3 percent of all ballots cast for the District 7 race.

District 8

In the final unopposed race, District 8, with ~97 percent of ballots cast in her favor, has chosen Courtney Banks-McLaughlin to represent them as the city council chairholder from District 8. Though small, the 38 write-in ballots represented ~3 percent of the total ballots cast in the District 8 race.

District 9

Lastly, 1,815 people came out to cast their ballots for the city council race of District 9. Deno Hondros has once again been re-elected by his constituents. With 1,209 ballots cast in his favor, Hondros managed to cumulate ~67 percent of ballots cast. Meanwhile, Fredlisha R. Lansana only obtained 596 votes. With ~33 of the total ballots cast going to Lansana, the remaining .5 percent comprised nine ballots cast in favor of write-ins.

With less than half the total estimated population of Cumberland County registered to vote, this is an opportunity to see that your vote matters and can determine the future shape of legislation, local infrastructure, and even widespread reform. For more information on this election, visit https://er.ncsbe.gov/?election_dt=11/07/2023&county_id=26&office=ALL&contest=0. If you want to know more about upcoming elections, if you qualify to vote in them or your current voter registration status, please visit https://www.ncsbe.gov/voting/upcoming-election for further resources. 

Calling all high school poets, now is the time to shine! Lost Voices Empire LLC presents in collaboration with the Fayetteville Arts Council and Cumberland County Schools, the First Annual High School Poetry Slam on Nov. 18th from noon to 2 p.m. at The Stadium Event Center, located at 421 Maiden Lane.

Special guest judges include Poetic Zae, Alexis Lawson, Suavethepoet, Nick Courmon and Jeremiah I’Shod. Tickets for the event are donation-based, give what you can.

This project is supported by a mini grant from the Arts Council of Fayetteville/Cumberland County and, in part, by contributions from the City of Fayetteville, Cumberland County and other community partners. The event is sponsored by MUG Photography and The Insurance Lady.

Bringing young poets together from across the county, the High School Poetry Slam is setting the stage to bring the brightest, newest talent to a big stage for an epic competition.

Poetry slams are a unique poetic experience, bringing a competitive element to a time-honored art form. Poets will perform original poems and judges will score each one based on the poem and performance. In the end, only one poet remains as the champion.

Andre Sansbury, CEO of Lost Voices Empire LLC and one of the judges, explains the slam setup.

“15 High School Students from Cumberland County Schools verbalizing their best poems, judged by 5 national poets, over 3 rounds until a winner is crowned,” he said.

 

Poets are asked to follow slam rules:

1. Material must be an original piece of work.
2. You do not have to memorize your poem. Phones and paper can be used during the slam.
3. Poets get 3 minutes to perform one poem with a 3-second grace period.
4. Poets will lose .5 points for each minute they go over given time
5. Poets may not use props, instruments or music while performing
6. The poem cannot include any hateful and/or offensive language to any person/persons.
7. The poet receives scores of 10 from 5 randomly selected judges.

The high and low scores are dropped and the middle three are added together, giving the poet a total score out of 30.

 

MC for the night is Soe the Monk with an opening performance by judge Jeremiah I’Shod. Intermission entertainment will be none other than Poetic Zae, the 5th-ranking poet in the nation. Closing out the evening will be best-selling author and multi-published poet, Sauvethepoet.

Registration ended October 22nd, and is officially full, a sign to Sansbury that this will continue to be an annual event.

“Judging by the sign ups and buy in already, I see this event becoming an annual opportunity for students to display their talents and vocalize their emotions through spoken word, something me and my organization actually teach in Schools through a program called ‘Purpose through Poetry’."

This program is currently in place at Ramsey High, Pine Forest, and Douglas Byrd and is supported by the Fayetteville Arts Council,” said Sansbury.

Last article (Oct. 25 edition of Up and Coming Weekly), I covered Medicare parts A and B and how the pitfall to the unwary is the lack of a maximum out of pocket. There are two ways to address this problem: Supplements and Medicare Advantage. The rules vary between states so I will only cover North Carolina rules.

Gertrude Stein said, “A rose is a rose is a rose” and the same can be said of a Medicare Supplement. Supplements are state regulated. The state decides which plans can be sold and the benefits do not vary between companies. No matter the source of your plan, the benefits remain the same.

A Plan G is a Plan G is a Plan G. Carriers only decide the premium and underwriting questions. Typically, the lower the premium, the more stringent the underwriting questions. Medicare Supplements, commonly called Medigap, are only guaranteed issue after age 65 and for the first six months of eligibility for Part B.

A supplement is filed in addition to Original Medicare and picks up the co-pays and charges left over. Which co-pays and charges depend on the letter of the plan. Plan G is the most comprehensive, only leaving the Part B deductible unpaid.

Supplement pros: no network — Providers accepting Medicare accept the Supplement, known costs are already calculated for the year, and it can be freely used while traveling inside the US.

Supplement cons: Expensive and price increases with age, no prescription drug coverage so it requires a drug card, does not cover dental, hearing, or vision, and it isn't a guaranteed issue outside the initial window which may preclude some people.

If you are on medicare due to disability, the premium skyrockets. As an aside, Blue Cross Blue Shield has a Blue to Blue program allowing clients to switch plans without underwriting.

Medicare Advantage isn’t filed like a supplement additionally to Original Medicare. It is filed in lieu of Original Medicare. Advantage plans are cheap and typically cover prescription drugs. There are many beneficial inducements offered with these plans.

MA pros: Guaranteed issue, cheap, most offer hearing, vision, and dental benefits as well as quarterly over the counter benefits. Some offer transportation, home service, gym memberships, and part B buybacks. Low co-pays, low maximum out of pocket, and no deductible are generally staples.

MA cons: Networks, remember Cape Fear Valley’s situation, and formularies are the two major things to pay firm attention to. Make certain all your providers and prescription drugs are covered or have suitable substitutes.

These plans can change by county and zip code so the plan your friend has might not be available to you. Benefits fluctuate annually and a good plan this year may be bad the next.

Travel is possible but requires calling your carrier for approved providers in your intended destination. When done well, by a professional, they are great. When done wrong, they are a nightmare.

This open enrollment, try to make an educated decision with a professional’s help. If you need one, I know a guy.

Since Republican lawmakers won majorities in both houses of the General Assembly in 2010, they’ve been reforming North Carolina’s tax system. They’ve broadened the bases of state taxes, reduced tax rates, diminished or eliminated special-interest tax breaks, and simplified the code.

As a result, virtually all North Carolinians are keeping more of what they earn to use as they wish. Our state has become a more attractive place to work, live, invest and create jobs.

The leaders of other states, motivated to compete with us, have reformed and reduced their own taxes, often emulating North Carolina’s practice of tethering scheduled rate reductions to revenue triggers in order to avoid any unforeseen budget problems.

The latest tax-climate study from the nonprofit Tax Foundation serves as an instructive record of North Carolina’s progress. The study examines five major categories of taxation: personal income taxes, corporate income taxes, sales taxes, property taxes, and payroll taxes (which fund each state’s unemployment-insurance system).

Before 2010, the Tax Foundation typically ranked our tax system as among the worst in the South for investment and growth, and far below the national average. By 2014, the conservative-led legislature had slashed sales and income taxes and initiated other reforms. North Carolina ranked 31st that year.

As the General Assembly continued to modify the system — with a particular focus on reducing marginal tax rates on personal and corporate income — the state soared in the Tax Foundation rankings. Last year, North Carolina had the 10th-best tax system in the country.

In the newest ranking, we improved to 9th. Most of these states either don’t tax personal income, don’t tax corporate income, or don’t tax retail sales. Utah is the exception. It has all five major forms of taxation, but fares well in the rankings because it applies relatively low rates to relatively broad tax bases.

So does North Carolina — but thanks to tax reforms already scheduled through the end of the decade, we are poised to eliminate entirely our tax on corporate income.

This is an excellent idea.

Corporations aren’t people. They’re bundles of contracts among people. So when government taxes corporate income, what it really does is reduce the incomes of shareholders (by reducing investment returns), employees (by reducing their wages), or customers (by increasing the prices they pay).

This is a foolish way to tax individuals. It was invented by Congress more than a century ago as a clever way to get around the federal constitution’s prohibition against personal income taxes. After the 16th Amendment was ratified in 1913, Congress gained the legal power to tax personal incomes directly — and immediately did so. It should have repealed the corporate tax. State governments should have done the same. Alas, they didn’t.

So we ended up with multiple layers of taxation, especially on investment, and a less-transparent system that obscured who was really bearing the burden of the corporate-tax regime.

Employees and customers had no idea that the corporate tax cost them money. And contrary to the progressives’ original goal, everyone ended up paying more — not just the wealthy. Millions of people own shares of corporate stock, directly or indirectly as savers and pensioners.

North Carolina is in the midst of rectifying this oversight. When our corporate tax phases out over the next six years, that will leave us an even more attractive place for companies to do business.

It is likely that these tangible benefits will also be reflected in a higher ranking on the Tax Foundation index. That’s not the purpose of enacting tax reform, of course. It is merely an indicator of how much North Carolina’s business climate is improving.

Editor’s note: John Hood is a John Locke Foundation board member. His latest books, Mountain Folk and Forest Folk, combine epic fantasy with early American history (FolkloreCycle.com).

 

Data analytics is the exciting new process of analyzing data to uncover insights and make informed decisions.

It focuses on collecting, cleaning, and exploring data, building models, analyzing findings, and presenting them visually. Data analytics can help businesses and organizations make better decisions. It can also provide skilled users of these techniques with new and highly paid job opportunities.

Students begin their data analytics training at FTCC by taking BAS 120, Introduction to Analytics. In this course, students learn the basics of analytics and descriptive statistics using analytical techniques in Excel and then move on to applying the same concepts in Alteryx Designer.

This innovative data analytics and data preparation software is designed for business analysts and data professionals. In 2023, Alteryx was named Analytics Company of the Year by Data Breakthrough Awards.
It is popular among data analysts and business intelligence professionals and is used across various industries and organizations which ensures that anyone who can use Alteryx Designer will be in high demand on the job market.

Upon successful completion of the BAS 120 course, students have the following four certificates to add to their résumé: Alteryx Designer Core Micro-Credential: General Knowledge, Alteryx Designer Core Micro-Credential: Data Preparation, Alteryx Designer Core Micro-Credential: Data Manipulation and Alteryx Designer Core Micro-Credential: Data Transformation.

Students who complete their data analytics coursework at FTCC are qualified to sit for the Statistical Analysis System Examination. The average salary for a SAS certified worker is $92,000 per year. Data science jobs are expected to grow by 36% in the next ten years, making it one of the nation’s fastest-growing fields.

Students can complete data analytics courses at FTCC fully online. Students who take online classes are free to complete their classwork entirely from home. They also have the option to visit campus and use college computer labs, libraries, and gyms.

Are you ready to learn more? Please contact us today. We have campuses in Fayetteville and Spring Lake and a presence at Fort Liberty and are eager to help you start the next chapter in your life.

We’re currently registering students for spring semester classes. Spring classes begin January 16. We invite you to begin the new year with a new direction: focus on a high-tech career with great pay and exciting opportunities, such as the field of Data Analytics. It’s never too late to enrich your life and reimagine your future; your first, important step begins at FTCC.

For more information about Data Analytics and other Computer Information programs of study, contact Hana Seidi, IT/Computer Programming & Development/Database Instructor, at Fayetteville Technical Community College, 910-486-7349, or visit the Advanced Technology Center in Room 113H or Cumberland Hall in Room 377H at the Fayetteville campus.

We look forward to the opportunity to serve you.

It would be hard today to find an old-fashioned boardinghouse to spend the night and eat a meal with the other boarders.

Not impossible, but difficult, and yet less than a century ago boardinghouses covered the towns and cities where Americans came together for eating and sleeping.

Although most boardinghouses might be gone today, memories are firm.

Elizabeth Engelhardt, Kenan Eminent Professor of Southern Studies at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, has collected hundreds of them for her new book, “Boardinghouse Women: How Southern Keepers, Cooks, Nurses, Widows, and Runaways Shaped Modern America,”to be published by UNC press in November.

Engelhardt cites examples of how women escaped irrelevance and became accomplished and independent businesspeople as the owners and operators of boardinghouses in the nineteenth and early twentiethcenturies.

One of her examples, Julia Wolfe, ran the Old Kentucky Home boardinghouse in Asheville at the turn of the last century. The experiences in her boardinghouse formed an important basis for her son Thomas Wolfe’s novel, “Look Homeward Angel.”

Engelhardt writes, “So intertwined was her identity with the business, Wolfe did not allow herself to have even small luxuries in her own private quarters of the house. A ‘plain cot’ without a headboard and a ‘single chair’ were the only furnishings in her room. Julia Wolfe became the face of her boardinghouse and the driver of its operations — roles she played for the rest of her life.”

Another famous boardinghouse child, the late New York Times food critic Craig Claiborne, said that his love of food came from his experiences in his mother's boardinghouse.

Engelhardt has assembled scores of other examples where ambitious or desperate women struggled to make their boardinghouse business successful. She also shows how the boardinghouse experiences of women had an impact on the typical foods that we today call southern.

I have my own boardinghouse memory.

At Davidson College, when I was growing up, there were 12 fraternities. Each had a boardinghouse in town — for eating only. The boardinghouse woman in charge was called a housemother. Each fraternity also had a small cottage on the campus for formal fraternity activities. But the real activity centered around the boardinghouses in the town. In about 1957, the college built a brand-new fraternity court and brought the eating and social activities of the fraternities onto the campus centered in the new fraternity houses.

The housemothers moved from town, each into a comfortable apartment in the new fraternity house. Each one continued to supervise a staff and was in charge of preparing the three meals a day. It was a big operation. Not all the housemothers were happy. As a part of my temporary job as assistant dean of students, I was charged with looking out for the housemothers and doing what I could to make them happier.

I did my best.

About 20 years later when I was a Charlotte lawyer running as a Democrat for the U. S. Congress, I stopped by an apartment building in the Myers Park area of Charlotte to make a few campaign cold calls on some of the residents.

When I knocked on one door, a charming older lady greeted me, “Oh D.G., I am so glad to see you. When I was a housemother at Davidson you were so wonderful to me. You paid attention to us. You arranged for a meeting with the president and the dean. Things got better. I’ll always be grateful.”

I was thrilled with this encounter. Campaign workers were hard to come by and she would certainly be a supporter of my political efforts.

But when I asked her if she would help give out campaign literature in her building, she said, “Oh no, D.G., I would never do that. I'm a Republican.”

Another tough boardinghouse woman!

Editor’s Note: D.G. Martin, a retired lawyer, served as UNC-System’s vice president for public affairs and hosted PBS-NC’s North Carolina Bookwatch.

Wine enthusiasts and connoisseurs, mark your calendars because a splendid evening awaits you at The Sip Room, located at 106 Hay Street. On Nov. 16, from 6 to 8 p.m., The Sip Room will become a haven for wine lovers, promising an unforgettable wine-tasting experience.

Guests will have the unique opportunity to embark on a journey through various countries' finest wines, all within the welcoming embrace of this chic venue.

The Sip Room has earned a reputation for offering a cozy and refined atmosphere for wine lovers, making it the perfect setting for this event.

The main highlight of the evening is, of course, the vast array of wines on offer. From the rich reds of Italy to the crisp whites of New Zealand, the wine selection promises to tantalize the taste buds of seasoned oenophiles and those new to the world of wine.

The event will feature sommeliers and wine experts ready to guide patrons through the nuances of each wine, helping them discover new favorites.
To complement this elegant experience, The Sip Room has brought in the hottest DJ in the city to provide a lively backdrop of music throughout the evening. The vibrant beats and rhythms will keep the atmosphere energetic, ensuring that this is not just a wine tasting but a celebration of the senses.

Up & Coming Weekly caught up with the owners, Juawana Colbert, Tomeka Purcell and Santina Epps-Thomas to gain insight into the wine selection process.

“The wine selection process featured in our wine-tasting event at The Sip Room is a meticulous and passionate endeavor. We believe in offering our patrons a diverse and exceptional range of wines that represent different regions and embody the artistry and craftsmanship of winemakers worldwide.

 

"Our team of sommeliers and wine experts dedicate extensive time and effort to curate a selection combining classic and lesser-known gems,” they said.

So, what makes this wine-tasting event particularly special?

“Our wine-tasting event at The Sip Room is an extraordinary occasion for several reasons.

"First and foremost, it's an immersive experience where wine lovers and novices alike can come together in a sophisticated and relaxed setting. We encourage attendees to mark their calendars because this event promises an unforgettable evening of sophistication, flavor, and entertainment.

"It's a fantastic opportunity to expand your wine knowledge, socialize with fellow enthusiasts, and create lasting memories.”

For those eager to participate in this delightful evening, tickets are available at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/wine-tasting-the-sip-room-tickets-731143097687. Ensure you secure your spot in advance, as the demand for this wine-tasting event is expected to be high.

The Sip Room's Wine Tasting Event on Thursday, Nov. 16, promises an evening of sophistication, flavor, and fantastic music. Join them as they raise their glasses to exquisite wines and the joy of savoring life's finer things.

Ageism is defined as discrimination against older adults with predefined stereotypes. It begins around fifty years old, when an individual is being defined as growing old. We are inundated with ads targeted toward those growing old with how we look, dress, eat, live and maintain health.

I think info commercials are the worst with leading claims of countless gimmicks of how something changed someone’s life. Recently I had a man come to the house to discuss doing some work.
He proceeded to talk to me, with what he thought was a good sales pitch.

“You know people try to take advantage of 'Elderly People.'”

I rather found this offensive because by comparing the two of us it was obvious that I was in much better physical shape than he was, and he was not that much younger than me.

I said, “I hope you are not referring me to being elderly, sir, because I could kick you into next week!”

He began to backtrack his statement. He was not called back to be hired.

“Elderly” is defined as someone sixty-five years or older with silver hair. I guess we need to add sitting in a rocking chair to that definition.

The “young old” is approximately 65 to 74, “middle age,” 75 to 84, and “old old,” over 85. I refer to the definition of “elderly as a physical and cognitive capability,” and someone could be considered a state of “elderly” at a much younger age. The term “I am ageless” has a more positive approach to age, and let us face it, we begin aging the day we are born.

Today’s seniors are not the stereotypical images of our parents retiring and going home to rest. Who wants to rest? The modern senior enjoys life and knows how to do it.

They do not feel the need to be anything to anyone except themselves, are not governed by social status, and try to fit in, where they live or with what they have. Priorities are easier set and “no as an answer” has become part of our vocabulary.

“Been there done that” is a frequent go-to as part of a conversation. You have arrived at your stage of life. You know what you do and do not want, and you set your boundaries with gained confidence.

You have confidence because you know what and what not to say and often find that wisdom is a part of not saying anything or getting involved. Your circle of friends may begin to get smaller as you discover who is there for you and who is there for convenience.

Today's seniors are well-read, hip and many still work because they prefer to in the way of part-time employment or by volunteering. They are an asset to any work environment because they are dependable and have good work ethics.

They bring a wealth of knowledge to work because they simply have experience in life. Many companies are gearing toward older workers because of skills based on experience and are less likely to jump from one job to another because it does not suit them.

I work at a fitness center that caters to an older clientele, and as a personal trainer and group fitness instructor, that is my preference for a client to work with.

The reason is that lifestyle is all about functional movement and the ability to continue an active lifestyle. It is not about the latest diet or being skinny, because health comes in all sizes. On any given day you will find that the “elderly generation” outperforms the younger ones.

Live love life with passion.

WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 8

ADULT CRAFT: THANKSGIVING LUMINARIES

SPRING LAKE COMMUNITY LIBRARY

3 p.m.

 

November is here, and Thanksgiving is right around the corner.  You have the menu planned out but what about your holiday decorations? Looking to add some pizzazz to your Thanksgiving decorations? Why not craft a stunning Thanksgiving luminary using tissue paper and personalize it with a festive message of your own? Registration is required by calling (910) 483-7727 ext. 1459.

Registration & Event Link: https://bit.ly/3QCoD6p

 

THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 9

PETER AND THE STARCATCHER

FAYETTEVILLE TECHNICAL COMMUNITY COLLEGE

7 p.m.

 

FTCC Fine Arts is excited to present "Peter and the Starcatcher," a captivating play written by Rick Elise. This delightful production is based on the novel penned by Dave Barry and Ridley Pearson and offers audiences a heartwarming origin tale of well-loved characters such as Peter Pan, Mrs. Darling, Tinker Bell, and Hook. Join us for a family-friendly experience that will transport you to a world of magic and adventure. All performances are free and open to the public and will take place in the Cumberland Hall Auditorium.

Facebook Event Link: https://bit.ly/46UE2EW

 

FRIDAY, NOVEMBER `10

SWEETS N' ART

SWEET FACTORY FAYETTEVILLE

6 p.m.

 

Join Sweet Factory Fayetteville for a fun and imaginative afternoon with the incredibly talented artist, Stephanie Mollett, at "Sweets n' Art" - an amazing event created specifically for children aged 6 and above. Embrace your artistic side, unleash your creativity, and savor delectable treats from Sweet Factory, all in a truly unforgettable experience! $15 Tickets include all arts and crafts materials, professional guidance from Stephanie Mollett, and a sweet treat from Sweet Factory.

Eventbrite Link: https://bit.ly/3FI4wgX

 

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 11

FTCC HOLIDAY BAZAAR

FAYETTEVILLE TECHNICAL COMMUNITY COLLEGE

10 a.m.

 

Join the FTCC Gaming and Digital Media Club for their FTCC Holiday Bazaar. This event will feature a total of twenty-seven vendors selling unique and handcrafted items, as well as five food vendors for attendees to enjoy. Come support local artists and creators!  Admission is free and open to the public. The bazaar will take place at Tony Rand Student Center, 2220 Hull Road.

Facebook Event Link: https://bit.ly/46VGgE7

 

 

 

SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 11

RIDE FOR A WREATH

FORT BRAGG HARLEY DAVIDSON &

DIRTY WHISKEY CRAFT COCKTAIL BAR

8 a.m.

 

Join us for a ride and be a part of our mission to honor and remember our fallen U.S. veterans. All vehicles are welcome as we come together to raise funds for placing wreaths on the graves of veterans at both Sandhills State Veterans Cemetery and Fort Liberty Main Post Cemetery. It's an opportunity to teach your children the true value of freedom and show our gratitude to those who have served. REGISTRATION: Begins at 8:00am at Fort Bragg Harley Davidson (3950 Sycamore Dairy Rd.) $20 per bike - $10 per passenger

Facebook Event Link: https://bit.ly/3u3qEQ8

 

SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 12

DOG YOGA

PATRIOT K NINE TRAINING & BEHAVIOR

10 a.m.

 

Dog yoga, also referred to as "doga," is a type of yoga that entails engaging in yoga poses and exercises alongside your dog. It merges conventional yoga postures with movements and interactions that involve your four-legged companion. The objective of doga is to enhance the bond between humans and their canines while fostering relaxation, flexibility, and overall well-being for all participants. It can serve as an enjoyable method to spend quality time with your beloved pet while reaping the benefits of yoga. $20

Event Link: https://bit.ly/45RHM8J

 

MONDAY, NOVEMBER 13

FRIENDSHIP DANCE WITH THE COHARIE TRIBE

HOPE MILLS COMMUNITY LIBRARY

5 p.m.

 

The Coharie Tribe is situated near the Little Coharie River in Harnett and Sampson Counties. They offer various tribal community programs aimed at promoting the health and wellness, community development, and cultural vibrancy of the tribe. Tribal members will be present to educate us about their tribe, as well as lead a Friendship Dance and engage in crafting activities. For more information about this program, please call (910) 483-7727 ext. 1435.

Event Link: https://bit.ly/45WpTpl

 

 

TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 14

TERRIFIC TUESDAY: RADICAL REPTILES

NORTH REGIONAL LIBRARY

3:30 p.m.

 

Interested in learning more about reptiles? Delight in entertaining and educational narratives, interactive activities, and creative projects centered around lizards, snakes, turtles, and other fascinating creatures with scales. Age Group: 6-11 years old. This program is designed for children and accompanying adults. Please plan to attend and be engaged with your child for this program. Drop offs will not be permitted.  For more information about this program, please call (910) 483-7727 ext. 1450.

Event Link: https://bit.ly/3u00o9t

The new moon is fast approaching. For community members who are in sync with the moon's cycles, this new moon is significant, and Prima Elements Holistic Wellness Center, located at 124 Anderson Street in downtown Fayetteville, is hosting a New Moon Meditation on Monday, Nov. 13th from 6 p.m. to 7:45 p.m.

Tickets are $15 and can be purchased online at Eventbrite.com. The event will include guided meditations or visualizations centered around goal setting, and manifesting dreams and personal goals.

For those unfamiliar with meditation classes, Prima Elements explains,

“A New Moon meditation class is a specific type of meditation session that typically occurs around the time of the New Moon. The New Moon is associated with new beginnings and a clean slate in astrology and many spiritual practices. During these classes, participants often focus on setting intentions, releasing what no longer serves them, and connecting with the energy of new possibilities…We provide a structured and supportive environment for individuals to tap into the energies of the New Moon and align their intentions with it.”

Phases of the moon and how they affect the world are not a foreign concept for many, especially here in the South, where full moons are credited for full birthing centers and jails. According to Prima Elements, each moon phase carries a different energy to be tapped into.

“The moon phases have been a source of fascination and belief for many cultures throughout history. While the scientific evidence for direct, profound effects on individuals is limited, some believe the moon can influence human behavior and emotions.

“Here's a general overview of how moon phases are thought to affect us: 1. New Moon: It's associated with new beginnings and setting intentions. Many people use this phase for goal setting and planning.

"2. Waxing Crescent: As the moon grows, it's believed to bring energy and momentum. People often feel more motivated during this phase.

"3. First Quarter: This phase is often seen as a time for taking action, making decisions, and overcoming challenges. The moon's gravitational pull influences Earth's tides, a scientifically established phenomenon. If you find that moon phases positively impact your mindset and well-being, it can be a valuable tool for personal growth and self-reflection.”

Owner and military veteran, Hilda Burgos, founded Prima Elements Holistic Wellness Center in 2012, and runs the business with her son, Adrian Burgos, and his wife, Audriaunna Burgos, managing the day-to-day operations of the Center.

Prima Elements Holistic Wellness Center is not new to meditation. They offer a host of different and unique holistic treatments for community members.

“Prima Elements provides holistic services to stressed and ailing individuals in the community. Our wellness center offers caring, expert clinicians and staff that provide natural remedies, massage, and detoxifying natural cleanses.
With a focus on holistic care and prevention, our wellness center has personalized its services to each patient, incorporating the mind, body, and spirit,” Burgos said.

The holiday season is often considered the most delightful period of the year. However, for individuals facing food insecurity or experiencing difficulties in finding their next meal, it does not bring the same joy and happiness. Luckily, there are numerous resources available in our locality to provide assistance to those who require it.

If you are aware of someone who is experiencing difficulties, kindly share these available resources with them. Alternatively, you can also consider reaching out to any of the organizations mentioned below to make a donation or offer your time as a volunteer. Let's work together to spread happiness during this festive season.

 

 

Food Pantry:

 

Name:The Beatitude House Ministries of the NSRBA

Location: New South River Baptist Association, 2341 Downing Rd., Fayetteville

Hours:Thursday and Friday 10:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m., Saturday - 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.

Contact: 910-496-0925

 

Name:Operation Blessings

Location: AAA Crisis Pregnancy Center/Operation Blessing, 1337 Ramsey St., Fayetteville

Hours:Monday - Thursday 9:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. and 1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m.

Contact: 910-483-1119

 

Name:Salvation Army of Fayetteville

Location: Variety of Locations

Hours:Clients seen Monday - Friday 9:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. and 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. by appointment only.

Contact: 910-483-8119

 

Name:Catholic Charities - Fayetteville Regional Office

Location: 726 Ramsey St., Suites 10 & 11, Fayetteville

Hours:Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday 9:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.

Contact: 910-424-2020  ext. 2601

 

Name:Cliffdale Food Bank

Location: 6427 Cliffdale Rd., Fayetteville

Hours: Assistance given outonce a month on a Wednesday from 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.

See Dates Here: https://www.cliffdalealive.com/calendar

Contact:910-864-4911

 

Name:Jehovah Jireh Christian Church

Location: 1913 Harris St., Fayetteville

Hours:Monday - Friday 9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. by appointment

Contact: (910) 423-1600

 

Name:Abney Chapel Community Services Center

Location: 330 Old Wilmington Rd., Fayetteville

Hours:

Contact: (910) 483-4384

 

Name:FTCC Food Pantry

Location: Horace Sisk Building (HOS), Room 708, 2204 Hull Rd., Fayetteville

Hours:Monday – Friday 9:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m., Monday – Thursday 1:00 p.m. – 5:00 p.m.

Contact:910-678-8214 / 910-678-8441

 

Name:Abney Chapel Seventh Day Adventist Church

Location: 2996 Rosehill Rd., Fayetteville

Hours:Days of assistance change monthly.  Call ahead

Contact:910-488-8146

 

Name: Galatia Presbyterian Church

Location: 8800 Galatia Church Rd., Fayetteville

Hours:Friday 9:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Contact:910-867-0656

 

Name:ALMS House

Location: 3909 Ellison St., Hope Mills

Hours:Monday - Friday 8:00 a.m - 5:00 p.m.

Contact:910-425-0902

 

Name:Operation Blessing of Fayetteville

Location: 1337 Ramsey St., Fayetteville

Hours:Monday - Thursday 9:00 a.m. - 2:30 p.m.

Contact:910-483-1119

 

Name:Beatitude House

Location: 102 N. Main St., Spring Lake

Hours:Thursday and Friday 10:30 a.m.-12:00 p.m. and 1:00 p.m. -3:00 p.m.

Contact:910-496-0925

 

Name: Christ United Methodist Church

Location: 3101 Raeford Rd., Fayetteville

Hours:Tuesdays 10:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m.

Contact: 910-484-3340

 

Name:Epicenter Church

Location: 2512 Fort Bragg Rd., Fayetteville

Hours: Tuesday and Thursday 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m.

Contact:910-485-8855

 

Name:Fayetteville Dream Center

Location: 336 Ray Ave., Fayetteville

Hours:1st and 3rd Thursdays 10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.

Contact:910-568-3897

 

Name:First Baptist Church

Location: 302 Moore St., Fayetteville

Hours:3rd Wednesday at 10:00 a.m.

Contact:910-483-6505

 

Name:Gray’s Creek Christian Center

Location: 3028 School Rd., Hope Mills

Hours:Monday, Wednesday and Friday 9:00 a.m – 12:00 p.m.

Contact:910-485-3005

 

Name:Meals that Matter

Location: First Presbyterian Church, 102 Ann St., Fayetteville

Hours:

Contact: 910-483-0121

 

Name:Harry Hosier United Methodist

Location: 6201 Milford Rd., Fayetteville

Hours: 1st & 3rd Friday, 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m.

Contact: 910-864-6019

 

Name:Mt. Olive Missionary Baptist Church

Location: 118 Johnson St., Fayetteville

Hours:Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m.

Contact: 910-868-2770

 

Name:Person St. United Methodist Church

Location: 509 Person St., Fayetteville

Hours: 1st and 3rd Saturdays from 10:00 a.m.-12:30 p.m.

Contact: 910-483-4714

 

Name:Praise Fellowship Church of God

Location: 514 Adam St., Fayetteville

Hours:Available by appointment. Call for scheduling and availability.

Contact:910-483-6500

 

Name:Seth’s Wish

Location: 330 S. Cool Springs St., Fayetteville

Hours:Tuesday and Thursday 10:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

Contact:910-476-6613

 

Name:Simon Temple AME Zion Church

Location: 441 Donray Dr., Fayetteville

Hours:Tuesday and Thursday 9:00 a.m.-3:00 p.m.

Contact:910-867-1183

 

Name:St. Matthews United Methodist Church

Location: 202 Hope Mills Rd., Fayetteville

Hours:Tuesday 10:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m.

Contact:910-425-0401

 

Name:True Vine Ministries

Location: 5301 Morganton Rd., Fayetteville

Hours:Tuesday and Thursday 11:30 a.m. -1:30 p.m.

Contact: 910-867-6762

 

Name:Veterans Empowering Veterans

Location: 325 B St., Fayetteville

Hours: Call for hours.

Contact:910-223-3213

 

Name:City Rescue Mission

Location: 331 Adam St., Fayetteville

Hours:Call for specifics

Contact: 910-323-0446

 

Name: The Food Pantry

Location: Reilly Road Presbyterian Church. 208 S. Reilly Rd., Fayetteville

Hours: Monday and Wednesday 9:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Contact:910-867-5773

 

Name:Holy Trinity Episcopal Church

Location: 1601 Raeford Rd., Fayetteville

Hours:Monday - Thursday 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.

Contact: 910.484.2134

 

 

Food Banks:

 

Name:Fayetteville Urban Ministry

Location: 701 Whitfield St., Fayetteville

Hours:Monday thru Thursday 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m.

Contact: 910-483-5944

 

Name:Second Harvest Food Bank of Southeast NC

Location: 406 Deep Creek Rd., Fayetteville

Hours:Monday - Friday, 8:00 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Contact: 910-485-6923

 

 

Holiday Food Assistance Programs:

 

Name:Robeson County Church and Community Center - Brighter Christmas Program

Location: 600 West 5th St,, Lumberton

Hours:

Contact: 910-738-5204

 

Name:Thanksgiving Boxes of Love Drive

Location: All About Fitness, Inc.,  45 Treetop Dr., Fayetteville

Hours:

Contact:318-918-8580

 

Name:Operation Blessing of Fayetteville

Location: 1337 Ramsey St., Fayetteville

Hours:

Contact:910-483-1119

 

Name: Harvest Family Church

Location: 6575 Fisher Rd., Fayetteville

Hours:

Contact:910-433-3036

 

Name:Gethsemane Baptist Church

Location: 4300 Blanton Rd., Fayetteville

Hours:Wednesday 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m., Sunday 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.

Contact: (910) 488-8725

 

Name:Fayetteville Operation Turkey 2023

Location: 606 Johnson St., Fayetteville

Hours:Meals will be handed out November 23rd 8:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Contact: (866) 678-8751

 

 

Other Programs:

 

Name:Meals on Wheels

Location: Cumberland County Council on Older Adults, 339 Devers St., Fayetteville

Hours:Monday - Friday 8:00 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Contact: 910-484-0111

 

 

Love is one of the most intense emotions that is supposed to make an individual feel good and feel safe. Domestic violence is not.

The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence reports that one in three women have experienced some form of physical violence by an intimate partner. That is why a Domestic Violence Awareness Exhibition Event will take place Saturday, Nov. 18, from 2 p.m. to 4 p.m. at the SIP room on Hay Street in downtown Fayetteville.

“The purpose of the event is to spread the knowledge of domestic violence awareness and to share resources for domestic violence awareness,” said Takieyah Mathis, founder of the Standing Light Foundation and event planner of the Love Shouldn’t Hurt Domestic Violence Awareness Exhibition event. “It is so important to know that there are other dynamics about domestic violence other than a male hitting a female or vice versa.”

Domestic violence awareness is significant to Mathis because she was a victim of domestic violence as well as her mother.

“My mother was in a nine-year domestic violence relationship and I went through my own domestic violence situation when I was 19-years-old,” said Mathis. “My situation was bad but it was not as bad as my mom’s.”
She added, “My mom is the reason I left my situation because I was like, I have to get out of this and I am not going to go through this for a long
period of time.”

The event will entail a diverse panel of speakers, domestic violence resources, poetry and art displays and a toast to the survivors and non-survivors of domestic violence.

“I have an author who will share how her partner abused her and her children, a woman who will teach how to use firearms and the proper steps to protect yourself, and I will share domestic violence resources,” said Mathis. “We will have poetry and art displays and I am going to allow people to share their domestic violence story.”

The effects of domestic violence can be long lasting or permanent and victims of domestic violence can suffer from serious mental health consequences.

“My mom’s situation caused me more trauma than anything,” said Mathis. “It really affected the dynamics of our household because it affected my mom’s mental health which meant that she could not be a mom and properly function for us.”

“I want to break the stigma of domestic violence, especially by being a mom of boys,” said Mathis.
“We have to teach our sons that there are other ways to channel anger and learn how to positively communicate our emotions.”

Mathis’ one wish is for more community leaders to read this article and be more in touch with the little people and join the cause for domestic violence.

The event is free and open to the public. Participants are asked to wear purple to the event.

The National Violence Domestic Hotline is (800) 799- 7233.

No one has a right to put their hands on you. Your last reprimand should have been when you were a child living in your parents’ house.

Please do not put your family in a situation where they have to plan your funeral. Take heed to this article and run for your life.

Welcome back to the wonderful world of Grimms’ Fairy Tales.

Watching the Republicans’ colorful method of choosing the Speaker of the House got me wondering if their method was just a simple circular firing squad or something darker, like cannibalism.

Always looking on the sunny side of life, I figured cannibalism was the better analogy. Who knows more about cannibalism than the Brothers Grimm with their rollicking medieval tales filled with gore, witches and evil stepmothers? Cannibalism was common during the Medieval period.

Sit back and return with us now to the thrilling days of Hansel and Gretel.

Once upon a time, on the edge of a dark forest there lived a poor woodcutter, his two children, and his wife, the proverbial wicked stepmother.

Things were tough all over. The woodcutting market was bad. Famine, like celery, stalked the land. The woodcutter’s family lived on the ragged edge of starvation.

Wicked Step Mom kept fussing at her husband that they would all starve to death if he kept trying to feed his kids. Her solution was to take Hansel and Gretel into the deep forest and leave them there to starve or be eaten by wild animals.
Dad did not want to do it but eventually gave in after days of endless nagging. Fortunately, the kids overheard the plan to dump them in the woods.

Hansel, a plucky lad, came up with a plan. The night before they were to be taken to the forest, Hansel sneaked out of the cottage to fill his pockets with little white stones.

He surreptitiously dropped the stones leaving a trail as they went into the forest. Hansel probably stole this idea from Greek mythology as Theseus left a string to find his way out of the labyrinth after killing the Minotaur.

In any event, the kids found their way out of the forest, showing up back home the next morning to the chagrin of Step Mom.
She pretended to be glad to see them but being a wicked Step Mom, she was faking it. She convinced their Dad to take them back into the woods.

She locked the cottage door so Hansel could not get out to gather stones to set the trail. Hansel switched to Plan B which involved leaving a trail of bread crumbs instead of rocks.

Alas, Plan B failed because birds ate all the bread crumbs Hansel dropped. They were stuck in the deep dark woods. After three days the kids were beyond hungry, borderline hangry.

Suddenly they spotted a white bird singing a cheery song. They followed the bird because what else were they going to do? Soon the bird led them to a beautiful cottage in a glade. The roof was made of cake, the windows were sugar, and its walls were made of bread.

The kids immediately started chowing down on the infrastructure. Yum.

A very old woman came out of the house and invited them inside saying: “Just come inside my little darlings, rest yourselves in my little box of treats. It’s as safe as houses!”

Pro tip: Anytime someone tells you something is safe without being asked; it ain’t safe.

The old woman was a witch. She fed them a hearty cholesterol and gluten heavy meal and tucked them into bed. The next morning, she grabbed Hansel locking him up in a cage in her She Shed.

She had been catching children, killing them, and eating them for many years. Hansel and Gretel were the next items on the menu.

Plot device: Witches are near sighted.

She wanted to fatten up Hansel by stuffing him with fried food like a hungry redneck at a Calabash seafood buffet. To determine if Hansel was fat enough, she made him stick his finger out the bars so she could see if he was a candidate for

Type 2 diabetes and the stew pot.

Hansel knew she had poor vision, so he stuck a chicken bone out for her to feel instead of his finger. He never seemed to gain weight for weeks.

Finally, she could wait no longer. She ordered Gretel to start a fire in the wood stove to cook Hansel.

She demanded Gretel climb into the oven to see if it was hot enough. Gretel pretended she did not understand, asking the witch to show her how. Like a Medieval Sylvia Plath, the witch stuck her head in the oven.

Gretel pushed her inside leading to the witch’s toasty death. Gretel freed Hansel from his cage. They scoured the cottage for jewels, liberating lots of loot.

They found a magic duck who gave them a ride across a wide lake and arrived back home with Dad. Wicked Step Mom had died while they were gone. Dad and the kids lived happily ever after on the witch’s jewels.

Moral: Never sleep in a house made of cake.

No actual stepmothers or witches were harmed while writing this column.

Without a doubt, news media is crucial for all cities and towns to keep them informed of local issues and, more importantly, keep a diligent eye on the goings-on in municipal governments. 

Anyone disappointed and skeptical of the effectiveness and competency of Fayetteville and Cumberland County elected officials, or are familiar with the recent corruption and fiscal mismanagement of the Town of Spring Lake, or has witnessed the chaos and grief that has resulted from the victimizing of the Hope Mills mayor and town officials by a small group of local discontents and social media trolls, can see the similarities.
What all three municipalities have in common is the absence of LOCAL media.

I cannot overstate the media's role in maintaining a fiscally healthy and well-managed city or town. This is why the news media is often called the Fourth Estate. (The three branches/estates of government: Executive, Legislative, and Judicial).

The Fourth Estate, news media, is the check and balance and informational conduit keeping citizens informed of what is happening in government. Through investigative reporting, local news media uncovers corruption, conflicts of interest, or misuse of power in municipal governments.

The effective use of news media is critical to preventing the abuse of authority. When elected officials are aware that we, the media, are scrutinizing their actions, they are more likely to be on their best behavior and make decisions that are in our best interests. Accountability helps prevent negligence or unethical behavior.
Up & Coming Weekly community newspaper works closely with the newly reformatted CityViewToday's daily electronic newsletter to inform Cumberland County residents in all nine municipalities of important news and information.

We applaud CVT for its commitment to bringing local news and issues to the forefront of the Fayetteville/Cumberland County community. Hiring former newspaper publisher Bill Horner III as CVT Executive Editor and, most recently, Fayetteville Observer's veteran reporter Paul Woolverton, is a massive step toward steering Fayetteville from becoming a "news media desert."

Talented and knowledgeable, these news media professionals bring industry expertise, integrity, and hard news reporting back to Fayetteville. More importantly, Woolverton retains local historical knowledge that's vital when making inquiries and contacts and connecting the dots on important community stories and events.

If you are still unclear on how important news media is to Cumberland County, consider media outlets like Up & Coming Weekly newspaper and CityViewToday newsletter's responsibilities to the community.

Together, we provide transparency and, whenever possible, serve as watchdogs, holding local city and county elected officials accountable for their actions.

We ensure transparency on essential decisions concerning projects, spending, and public funds allocation. A lack of accountability caused the criminal loss of hundreds of thousands of taxpayers' money and threatened the existence of the Town of Spring Lake.

Local news media encourages community involvement. It is vital to inform residents about important issues, meetings, and decisions that impact their daily lives. It enables and encourages citizens to participate in the democratic process.

One of the significant reasons voter turnout is so poor in Fayetteville and Hope Mills is that the voters are not informed or engaged. They do not know the issues or, more importantly, the candidates. Without this engagement, knowledge, and communication, the motivation to vote or participate in local government is nonexistent.

Additionally, and unfortunately, Fayetteville and Cumberland County have no local TV stations. In most communities nationwide, a local TV station and newspaper inform citizens about local issues, policies, initiatives, and events.

Without such means, disseminating crucial information to the public becomes virtually impossible. Without these local news outlets, residents lose their voice and cannot share their opinions, concerns, or suggestions regarding municipal matters.

Public input of this nature influences decision-makers and leads to more responsive governance.

Again, we welcome Bill Horner III to Fayetteville and Paul Woolverton back from the Dark Side (Just kidding, Paul!). The citizens of Fayetteville and all Cumberland County municipalities have our assurance that CityViewToday and Up & Coming Weekly community newspaper will continue to serve in the best interest of the citizens by being trusted media resources that bridge local governments with informed citizens, assuring transparency, accountability, and creating an engaged community.

The Fayetteville community deserves it.

Thank you for reading Up & Coming Weekly.

Health is wealth and the First Annual Integrative Health Fair aims to make that more achievable for the Fayetteville community. The fair will take place on Nov. 11, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Origins Naturopathic Health and Wellness located at 2529 Raeford Road.

“Integrative health aims for well-coordinated care among different providers and institutions by bringing conventional and complementary approaches together to care for the whole person,” Owner and Operator of Integrative MedSpace and Origins Naturopathic Health and Wellness, Kerry Dunn explained. “We aim to treat the whole person so that a person's health span matches as closely as possible with their life span.”

The health fair is the first of its kind and will be packed full of health and wellness experts, vendors and food trucks. Orange Theory, Fleet Feet, Pure Barre, Fit Lab, Drip Bar, Middleton Dentistry, Align Chiropractic, Planted Life Coaching, ZR Team Jiu-Jitsu and Radiant Reflections will round out the vendor list for the event. Vendors and providers who share the co-working space will also have tables available with giveaways during the fair. No fair would be complete without food, even a health fair. Household 6 will be providing a healthy meal for attendees and Vagabond Coffee will be in attendance. Children are also welcome at the event and will be able to enjoy an inflatable slide, face painting and a make-and-take granola bar with an informational session on sugar intake.

The fair will feature a raffle for baskets by co-op providers and gift cards amounting to more than $1000. All proceeds from the event will go to Falcon Children’s Home, tickets are $10 each. Because the fair will take place on Veterans Day, all Veteran attendees will be treated to free cryotherapy pain treatments. The first 50 attendees will receive a swag bag, that will include, promotional pricing and gift options that can be used in the upcoming Christmas season. 

Dunn feels the fair is important for the community.

 “The purpose of the Integrative Health Fair is to show our community how many allies they have that are focused on keeping them as healthy as possible. Fayetteville has a lot to offer in the health and wellness community, and as providers, we noticed that the majority of our patients thought they would have to travel out of town to find what they were looking for,” Dunn said. “ Our hope is to showcase local businesses and Health providers that are offering Integrative or preventative services to improve the health and well-being of our city.”

 Fair attendees will be able to ask providers questions and schedule future services. For health or wealth providers looking for a space, co-op space is currently available. Contact Kerry Dunn at info@integrativemed.space for more information on the event and co-op.

Cross Creek 01 (CC01) Fayetteville Fire Station #1 at 607 Person Street
Cross Creek 02 (G1A) Greater Works Deliverance Temple 315 S Plymouth Street
Cross Creek 03 (CC03) Alger B. Wilkins High School 1429 Skibo Road
Cross Creek 04 (CC04) Lion's Civic Center (upper level) 725 W Rowan Street
Cross Creek 06 (CC06) Margaret Willis Elementary School 1412 Belvedere Avenue
Cross Creek 07 (CC07) Snyder Memorial Baptist Church 701 Westmont Drive
Cross Creek 08 (CC08) Highland Presbyterian Church 111 Highland Avenue
Cross Creek 09 (G2A) Church of Christ 651 Country Club Drive
Cross Creek 10 (CC10) Fayetteville Fire Station #5 at 3040 Boone Trail Ext
Cross Creek 11 (G3B) Massey Hill Rec Center 1612 Camden Road
Cross Creek 12 (CC12) Vanstory Elementary School 400 Foxhall Road
Cross Creek 13 (CC13) Arthur D. Smith Rec Center 1520 Slater Avenue
Cross Creek 14 (CC14) Kiwanis Rec Center 352 Devers Street
Cross Creek 15 (CC15) Glendale Acres Elementary School 2915 Skycrest Drive
Cross Creek 16 (CC16) E. E. Smith High School 1800 Seabrook Road
Cross Creek 17 (CC17) Westarea Elementary School 941 Country Club Drive
Cross Creek 18 (CC18) R. Max Abbott Elementary School 590 Winding Creek Road
Cross Creek 20 (G4B) Bordeaux Branch Library 3711 Village Drive
Cross Creek 21 (CC21) Jesus Christ-Latter Day Sts Church 3200 Scotty Hill Road
Cross Creek 22 (CC22A) Reid Ross Classical High School 3200 Ramsey Street
Cross Creek 23-1 (G2C-1) North Regional Library 855 McArthur Road
Cross Creek 23-2 (CC23-2) Fayetteville Fire Station #19 at 3841 Walsh Pkwy
Cross Creek 24 (CC24) Campground United Methodist Church 4625 Campground Road
Cross Creek 25 (CC25) Jesus Christ-Latter Day Sts Church 6420 Morganton Road
Cross Creek 26 (CC26) Morganton Road Elem School 102 Bonanza Drive

Cross Creek 27 (CC27) Cliffdale Rec Center 6404 Cliffdale Road
Cross Creek 28-1 (G5B-1) John D. Fuller Sr. Recreational Complex 6667 Old Bunce Road
Cross Creek 28-2 (G5B-2) Fayetteville Fire Station #8 at 1116 Seventy First School Road
Cross Creek 29 (CC29) Anne Chesnutt Middle School 2121 Skibo Road
Cross Creek 30 (G4A) Ireland Drive Middle School 1606 Ireland Drive
Cross Creek 31 (CC31) Fayetteville Fire Station #12 at 911 Hope Mills Road
Cross Creek 32 (CC32) Westover Rec Center 267 Bonanza Drive
Cross Creek 33 (CC33) Fayetteville Fire Station #9 at 5091 Santa Fe Drive
Cross Creek 34 (CC34) Church of the Open Door 4445 Cliffdale Road
Cross Creek 519 (CC519) VFW Post 6018 116 Chance Street
Alderman (AL51) John Dove "J.D." Pone Rec Center 2964 School Road
Arran Hills (AH49) Fayetteville Fire Station #17 at 6701 Bailey Lake Road
Auman 01 (G5A-1) Church Of The Nazarene 1844 Rayconda Pl
Auman 02 (G5A-2) West Regional Library 7469 Century Cir
Beaver Dam (G6B) Beaver Dam Fire Station 26 11042 NC Hwy 210 S
Black River (G7A) Godwin Town Hall 7827 Royal Street
Brentwood (G5C) Arran Lake Baptist Church 1130 Bingham Dr
Cedar Creek (G6C) Cedar Creek Fire Station 4960 Tabor Church Rd
Cliffdale West 01 (CL57-1) Bill Hefner Elementary School 7059 Calamar Drive
Cliffdale West 02 (CL57-2) Lake Rim Rec Center 1455 Hoke Loop Road
Cumberland 01A (G8B) E. Melvin Honeycutt Elem School 4655 Lakewood Dr
Cumberland 02 (CU02) Sherwood Park Elem School 2115 Hope Mills Road
Cumberland 03 (G8C) Cumberland Mills Elem School 2576 Hope Mills Road
Cumberland 04 (G8A) John Griffin Middle School 5551 Fisher Road
Eastover 01 (EO01) Lebanon Baptist Church 3329 Beard Road

Eastover 02 (EO02) Eastover-Central Rec Center 3637 Pembroke Lane
Hope Mills 01A (G8D) Hope Mills Rec Center 5766 Rockfish Road
Hope Mills 02A (G9B-1) Cotton Fire Department 4618 Calico Street
Hope Mills 02B (G9B-2) Gallberry Farm Elementary School 8019 Byerly Drive
Hope Mills 03 (G9A) Hope Mills Middle School 4975 Cameron Road
Hope Mills 04 (G10B) C Wayne Collier Elementary School 3522 Sturbridge Drive
Judson Vander (G1B) Vander Fire Department 3509 Clinton Road
Lake Rim (LR63) Bill Crisp Senior Center 7560 Raeford Road
Linden (LI65) Linden Community Center 9447 Market Street
Long Hill (LO66A) Cedar Falls Baptist Church 6181 Ramsey Street
Manchester (G11B) William T. Brown Elementary School 2522 Andrews Church Road
Montibello (MB62) EE Miller Recr Center 1347 Rim Road
Morganton Rd 02 (MR02) Benjamin Martin Elementary School 430 N Reilly Road
Pearces Mill 02A (G3A-1) Pearces Mill Fire Dept 168 Dedication Drive
Pearces Mill 02B (G3A-2) Breezewood Church 3337 Legion Road
Pearces Mill 03 (G3C) Crown Arena 2405 Gillespie Street
Pearces Mill 04 (G4C) Faymont Baptist Church 3663 Cumberland Road
Sherwood (SH77) Gray's Creek Fire Station # 24 at 2661 Sand Hill Road
Spring Lake 03 (SL78-3) Spring Lake Multipurpose Comm Center 245 Ruth Street
Stedman (G6A) Stedman Community Building 335 First Street
Stoney Point 01 (G10C) Stoney Point Rec Center 7411 Rockfish Road
Stoney Point 02 (G10A) Lighthouse Baptist Church 5991 Rockfish Road
Wade (G7B) Wade Volunteer Fire Department 7130 Powell Street
Westarea 01 (G2E-1) College Lakes Rec Center 4945 Rosehill Road
Westarea 02 (G2E-2) Warrenwood Elementary School 4618 Rosehill Road

 

The future begins now. With the upcoming elections for local government right around the corner, now is the perfect time to start catching up on who you're voting for and why.
After the candidate forum held by the Greater Fayetteville Chamber last week, Up & Coming Weekly was able to reach some of the candidates running to clarify their statements and dive deeper into their platforms and core issues that need addressing in the community.

The candidates were asked various questions about issues such as the local unhoused population, local mental health care services, the crime seeping out of Ft. Liberty, and their plans for alleviating and addressing these issues at the city government level.

 

Mayor

For the mayoral race, we reached out to Mitch Colvin, current mayor, and Freddie De La Cruz for their mindset and plans around the need for more affordable mental health services, the crime in Fayetteville and efforts going forward to improve the city as a whole.

 

Mitch Colvin

Concerning plans for developing new avenues for mental health services, incumbent Mayor Mitch Colvin had this to say, "It's not naturally a space we're a good fit for, but we have a responsibility nonetheless. For one, putting real funding behind continuing care."

Colvin speaks briefly on the city government's role in the process of lobbying for more funding from the county government.
"There's room for the city in the lines of creating these connections between organizations
and businesses."

 

Freddie De La Cruz
When asked about his plans for developing infrastructure to combat the unhoused problem, De La Cruz had this to say.

"That's a county lane. Health and education are county issues. But here's what I would do. Number one, we need to leverage our assets and resources. We have to help the county with that problem; however, we can do that either through 501 c programs, clinics, shelters, places that already do this work.

"We need to figure out how to connect those people and the county with these organizations and help them work together. Not just healthcare workers. We need to get the pastors and ministers involved too."
With his lengthy military background, De La Cruz was also asked about the issue of crimes committed by soldiers off-post.

"Soldiers are soldiers; you have good ones and bad ones. What we need to look at when comparing the military sexual assaults and crime to how it transitions to the city, which is part of the county, the military has higher standards.

"We have sexual assault organizations and the chain of command. Everyone's involved in the process to make sure we prosecute sex offenders in the military. The same incident that happens in the city limits doesn't have the same stringency on the civilian sector in the city. We have so much crime in the city, the gun violence; the crimes we're talking about [sexual violence crimes] are getting lower," responded De La Cruz.

Regarding the quality of police officers in the city, De La Cruz had this to say.

"What I would do when it comes to reducing those crimes, I'd increase police activity. More patrols, more stops. The city is hiring anyone who has credentials because it's all about numbers and getting them out on patrols.

"The way I think we need to approach this problem is hiring quality police officers that actually know what is right and interacting with their community and showing their presence where the people are to help reduce the crime and enforcing the law when it's needed. We need to increase the police pay and benefits." De La Cruz continued, "The reason we need to do that is because by doing so you're going to be able to hire a quality police force. Instead of 58 police officers, we're going to have people lining up to be a police officer."

"How are you going to pay for it? We've got a hundred personnel shortage in emergency services. We're already operating with that shortage. My idea is to cut that number in half.
"We use the money saved and reallocate it to paying for those pay increases and benefits. Once that entices people, that will give us the chance to pick between quality candidates that allow us to enforce those higher standards," he said.

 

District One

Next, U&CW spoke to the candidates for the District One seat, incumbent Kathy Jensen and her opponent Alex Rodriguez.
They were asked questions concerning the process of improving mental health services, crime in Fayetteville and their plans for improving those already existing avenues in the future.

 

Kathy Jensen

When asked about the mental health crises Fayetteville is currently facing, Jensen brought up the Office for Community Safety, a fledgling organization aimed at developing the understanding and necessary solutions to the mental health crises we are facing in the city. She talked about not only supporting it but lauding its efforts and results so far.

"We have already started the process for improvement. It's going to take more resources from the city, the county, the hospitals, the non-profit organizations, and really all of us to sit down and work towards that improvement. We need to come together as a whole community to move ahead towards our goals," said Jensen.
Jensen was also asked about her stance on the city council and its efficacy in future endeavors.
"Storming, forming, norming. We start out adjusting to the changes. Then, once we've found our footing, we can begin organizing. Finally, we can start working together as a whole. We have a young council.
"We've only been together 14 months, and we lost 6 of those months due to the census. It just takes time. I see this council coming together, and we can begin to really do a lot of great things when we do."

 

Jose Alejandro "Alex" Rodriguez
When asked about the issue of soldiers committing crimes off base and its relation to the rising crime rate across military installations, Rodriguez had this to say.
"I would treat them like any other scumbag. We'll put them on the news and send the message that their actions will be held accountable. They need to understand that that kind of behavior won't be tolerated in our city."
In response, Rodriguez was asked about the rising rate of sexual assaults taking place across military installations and how he would combat that with his experience from his military career.
"Let me go old school on you. You have to separate the sexes. If you want to stop the sexual assaults, you have to separate the sexes."
Concerning his stance on crime in general, Rodriguez was also asked what his actions would be to handle the crime in Fayetteville as well.
"We need more police traffic stops. We need more stops to search for guns, drugs, and outstanding warrants. We need more DUI checkpoints to get those people off the streets."

 

District Two

Next, we spoke to the candidate running for the District Two seat, Malik Davis.
Incumbent Shakeyla Ingram was unable to be reached for comment, so only Malik Davis's responses will be shown below.

 

Malik Davis
When asked about the current issues with the local unhoused population, Davis had this to say.
"We can set them up with job trainers to help them get job skills, life skills and mental health care. If we don't help with their minds and problems, we can't help them change," he said.
Continuing, Davis then spoke about his ideas regarding new avenues of education for the youth.
"I want to help them with their goals. Providing lessons and courses for life skills, financial literacy and job training. Not everyone gets to go to college, but those people still want to help their communities and feel like they have an impact."
Finally, Davis was asked to comment on the importance of voting for his generation as well as those to come.
"When we vote, our vote matters. As a millennial I'd like to let them know things happen. They might not happen to us, but if we don't vote, the same things that been happening will continue to happen. Step up to the plate. Step up and be the change you want to see in society."

 

District Five

Finally, we spoke to two of the candidates for District Five, the incumbent, Johnny Dawkins, and Lynne Greene. Both were asked questions about their goals concerning the future of mental health infrastructure in Fayetteville and their plans to improve them moving forward.

 

Johnny Dawkins
When asked about improving mental health services, Dawkins had this to say.
"The North Carolina State Constitution clearly states that the counties, not municipalities, have jurisdiction over this issue. However, we are also working on a new homeless shelter. The Day Resource Center has also been so successful that people are coming to our town because of how good it is. Mental Health Services are crucial for our society," he said.
"Mental health services, especially for our young people, are crucial. Speaking with garrison commander Colonel Wilcox on Fort Liberty, I pleaded with him to convince the army to set aside some funding for improving mental health services for our veterans and soldiers," remarked Dawkins about what place the military had in this developing situation.

 

Lynne Greene
When questioned about her plans to improve the mental health services already available in our community, Greene had this to say.
"I just don't have enough background to answer that, but I do know the next initiative and phases must include the county. We can't expect to correct the issues overnight. We've got to work together, the city and the county," she said.
In response, Greene was asked how she would improve her understanding of the current issues and what her plan of action would be.
"I really want to have more one on one conversations with those affected. Even more small group or community meetings. The lines of communication have to start with the community and the police. I can't pretend to know what their struggles are, but I want to hear them voice it to me. I don't want to assume. I want to learn what the real bottom line struggle is," said Greene.

 

 

 

 

 

Early voting
One-stop early voting for the Nov. 7 Municipal Elections in Cumberland County's municipal elections is now open. Voters will be required to show a photo identification to vote in this election.
Citizens who do not have a photo ID can get a free photo ID at the Cumberland County Board of Elections Office at 227 Fountainhead Lane in Fayetteville.
One-stop early voting will be open until Nov. 4 at the following locations:
• Cumberland County Board of Elections at E. Newton Smith Center, 227 Fountainhead Lane in Fayetteville, from Monday to Friday, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.

• Cliffdale Recreation Center at 6404 Cliffdale Rd, in Fayetteville, from Monday to Friday, noon to 7 p.m.

Both locations will also be open on the last day of one-stop voting on Saturday, Nov. 4, from 8 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Photo ID required
Voters will be asked to show photo ID when voting in North Carolina, beginning with the 2023 municipal elections.
Most voters will simply show their driver’s license, but there are other acceptable photo IDs.
For more information regarding voter information, visit https://www.cumberlandcountync.gov/departments/election-group/elections/voters/voter-guide, or call 910-678-7733
For a full list of polling locations around Cumberland County, please see the back of this issue of Up and Coming Weekly. Election Day is Nov. 7.

Fayetteville-Cumberland Parks and Recreation offers a variety of locations around town to enjoy the outdoors and learn about local flora, fauna and wildlife.

In addition to park facilities, there are a number of activities scheduled for November. Below are just a few, so be sure to check https://www.fcpr.us/facilities/recreation-centers for more information.

 

 

Mazarick Park, 910-433-1579)

 

 

Nov 2: Fall Mosaic

While discussing the changing of the season, collect different items from the trail to create a fall nature mosaic.

All ages; Thurs.; 10-11:30 am; Free

 

 

 

Lake Rim Park, 910-433-1018

 

Fishing Tackle Loaner Program

Try your hand at fishing without buying the equipment. This program allows you to borrow a rod and reel for 24 hours and provides a great opportunity for the whole family to get outside. A driver’s license or ID is required to register. Participants must follow state fishing license requirements.

All ages; Mon.-Fri.; 8 am-5 pm; Free

 

Park Ranger Chats

This lecture series will focus on a new topic each month. Program is held at the Bill Crisp Senior Center. Call Lake Rim Park or the Bill Crisp Senior Center to register. Nov. 1: Mystery of the Sand Mound People.Native people inhabited the region thousands of years before the first European explorers.  Arrowheads, pottery, and their characteristic burial mounds remain as clues to understanding Fayetteville’s earlier people.  Learn about the lives of this little-known group and about possible links with living descendants.

55+; Wed.; 1:30-2:30; Free

 

Youth Archery Clinic 

This is an introductory class for younger archers. Smaller bows and a shorter class time will help beginning archers learn the basics of safety, equipment care, and proper form. Parent or guardian must stay and supervise. Call or register online, space is limited.

5-7 yrs; Sat., Nov. 4; noon-2 pm; $5

 

Stained “Glass” Leaf Art

Bring your old crayons to this fun class where we will crunch them up and melt them into art. Learn some common tree species from around the park and collect their colorful leaves to form the centerpiece of your creation. Then you will be ready to decorate your winter windows.

All ages; Thurs., Nov. 9; 3:45-4:45 pm; Free

Thanksgiving Animal Hunt

“Stuffed” animals will be on hand to teach about the different native animals and traditional foods associated with Thanksgiving. Practice your hunting skills on a scavenger hunt to find some of these animals hiding in the woods. Call or register online.

All ages; Thurs., Nov. 16; 4-5 pm; Free

Clark Park, 910-433-1579

 

Animal Feedings!

Alligators chomping, snakes swallowing, and turtles snapping, come see what is for dinner at the nature center.

All ages; Wed.: 4 pm and Sat.: 2 pm; Free

 

Nature Story Time

You and your child are invited to Clark Park for an interactive story time with the Cumberland County Public Library. The story will be followed by themed crafts and activities. Call or register online.

6-under yrs. w/adult; Tues., Nov. 14: Bears; 1-2 pm; Free

 

Big Tree Bike Ride

Bring your bike to travel along the Cape Fear River Trail in search of the biggest trees. Learn how to use a Biltmore stick to determine the height and width of trees along the trail. Call or register online.

8+ yrs.; Tues., Nov. 7; 10 am-noon; Free

 

Native American Culture

Native Americans had inhabited North Carolina for thousands of years before the first European explorers arrived and changed their world forever. Learn how the original people of North Carolina lived before contact. Through demonstrations and artifacts, you will learn what people in this region ate, what they wore, and the tools they made to help them survive. Call or register online.

8+; Tue., Nov. 7; 3:30-5 pm; Free                                                                                                                                                   

 

Turkey Shoot Archery

This is the basic archery class with a holiday theme. Learn safety, proper stance, and correct technique then practice on turkey shaped targets and play holiday themed games. Call or register online, space is limited.

8+ yrs.; Wed., Nov. 22; 9 am-noon; $5

Many business owners may think that the tough part is over once they make the call to sell their business. While there’s no doubt that decision can be hard, there is still work to be done. Owners must adapt their business environment to continue running without them. Working with an experienced business advisor can make all the difference as a company shifts towards new leadership.
Thinking Of Stepping Away?
Most owners feel like no one knows the company like they do. After all, you’ve put your blood, sweat and tears into growing this business. When the day does come that you need to step away, you can start by asking these questions:
•Are you the primary reason for your company’s ongoing growth?
•Have you built a management team that understands your company inside and out?
•Are the processes that make your business tick documented, or do they reside solely in your head?
•Have your books and financials been kept in order?
How you answer these will depend on how difficult it will be to reduce the organization’s dependence on you. A trusted business advisor can help you loosen the reins to help the team function without you and ensure that your business is attractive to a buyer, ensuring your exit is financially beneficial.
Reducing Dependence on You
Concerned that you are too deeply enmeshed in the day-to-day activities of your company to successfully walk away? An excellent place to start reducing dependence on you to run the show is to document processes and delegating responsibilities. From there, here are some steps you can take to start to wean yourself away before you sell:
Build a strong management team. Do you have leaders you trust to keep things running smoothly if you aren’t around? If not, start taking steps to ensure your management team knows the processes behind your business, from handling the books and payroll to ordering supplies to dealing with employee issues.
Boost the confidence/capability of your team. Maybe your team is strong already, but have you made them feel empowered and capable? If you haven’t shared with your employees and staff that you trust in their abilities, there’s no time like the present.
Spend less time in the office. Once you have a strong, confident team, you need to start stepping away from the day-to-day business activities. This allows the business’ other leaders to test drive how well they do when you are no longer the boss.
Prove To Buyers the Business Works Without You
No doubt, this is a painful reality, but to ensure your business sells for the best possible price and terms, you must prove to a new buyer that the company can operate without you. It may be hard to step away, but if you have done your job right, the company will have the tools to succeed.
Here are some actions to take:
•Delegate responsibilities to trusted employees
•Develop a succession plan
•Detail your company’s processes and procedures
•Implement any necessary new technology
A final note about technology. Today’s world is digital. If you haven’t already brought your business out of the analog realm, that should be top of your to-do list before selling. Start by updating your POS system, digitizing all your processes and moving your operations online or to a cloud-based system.

Editor's note: Ashley Kelsey is with Transworld Business Advisors of Eastern NC. She can be reached at 910-302-6447 or akelsey@tworld.com.

“In a world full of doing, doing, doing, it is important to take a moment just to breathe, and just be.” -Author unknown.
Mindfulness activities address suffering and vulnerability. It is the awakening to our best and shadow self. Mental wellness is being in the present moment.
The Prima Elements Holistic Wellness Center’s meditation and mindfulness classes addresses wellness practices within our lives. The Mindfulness and Self Worth Meditation is on Wednesday, Nov. 8, at 124 Anderson Street. The class will be held from 6:30 p.m. to 7:30 p.m.
“Prima Elements is committed to providing our community with essentials for optimal living. Our wellness center offers holistic health services. Our wellness services offer caring, expert, clinicians and staff that provide natural remedies, massages, and detoxifying natural cleanses. Prima Elements hosts wellness services such as Yoga, Meditation, Reiki and RestStation Therapy,” said Audriaunna Burgos. “[The center] has been in existence since 2012. Hilda Burgos, Fayetteville resident, nurse and retired IT consultant at Fort Liberty, is one of the founders. Adrian Burgos and myself are responsible for the operational aspects of the Prime Elements Holistic Wellness Center.”
Tyreena G is a vital team member to Prima Elements. She is an herbalist, teacher, plant vegan chef and meal planner, and creator of customized teas for the Wellness Center. She calls her customized teas Tyreena G Tea Brand. Flavors included are Thee Jazzy Beet, The Respiratory Blend, The Rooted Blend and Blue Lotus &Butterfly Pea.
“My passion is fulfilled at the Prima Elements Holistic Wellness Center by the development of personal relationships, opportunities for creative expression, researching new options and focus for health and wellness education,” Tyreena G. said. “Herbalism is a family tradition for me, my family is originally from Jamaica. My family members developed and utilized herbs and plants to heal and maintain good health. My Jamaican roots are an influence upon by cooking style. The guidelines are plant-based vegan, simple preparation and ingredients and nutrients from the fruits and vegetables of the earth. Did you know strawberry leaves are excellent for Tea?”
Do you desire to sleep soundly, energize naturally, and silence the inner critic? Have you experienced stress and anxiety? Do you want to feel calmer and experience peace? Experience the Mindfulness and Self -Worth Meditation at Prima Elements Holistic Wellness Center, 124 Anderson Street. The meditation session is from 6:30 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. Members are free, admission is ten dollars per person for non-members.
Contact 910-483-8406 or text 910-456-6533 for more information.

Gladys Knight’s musical influence has been embedded in the DNA of many genres of music for generations. Just after 11 years, The Empress of Soul will be making her return to Fayetteville with the 88th Season of Community Concert Series on Nov. 10 at the Crown Complex.
Her discography and list of accomplishments is nothing short of amazing. Her most recent honorary award was given in 2022 by President Joe Biden in Washington D.C. The award is called The Kennedy Center Honors, an annual award given to those in the performing arts field for their lifetime accomplishments.
The legendary vocalist, singer, songwriter and actress has been able to hold her value and super star status since the 1950’s. Rolling Stone magazine placed her in their Greatest Singers of All-Time list, another highlight to her already impressive career. On her interview with Sway in the Morning back in 2015, she credits her longevity with her ability to adjust with the times and appreciating music from different genres at a young age.
Gladys Knight has also been able to take her talents to the big screen on several occasions, besides her early vocal performances, she made her debut on “The Muppet Show” in 1981 as a guest. Since then she’s appeared on shows such as “Charlie & Co.”, “The Jamie Foxx Show,” “The First Family,” and many more. She even made an appearance on “Dancing with the Stars” in 2012.
She’s won seven Grammy awards but has been nominated for 22 over the course of her career, both solo and with the Pips, landing her in the Grammy Hall of Fame for her musical significance and value. Her success as a vocalist and songwriter with the Pips has also placed her in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, and the Vocal Group Hall of Fame.
Gladys Knight was born in Atlanta, Georgia on May 28, 1944. She’s been singing for 75 years with her journey beginning at the age of four.
With the support and nurturing of her parents, she crafted her vocal abilities early with singing in the choir and talent shows around the city of Atlanta. After winning a TV show contest on “Ted Mack’s Amateur Hour,” her mother Elizabeth Knight urged her and her relatives to form the group Gladys Knight and the Pips, and shortly after they were on their way to stardom.
Gladys Knight & the Pips were a family music group that made hits in rhythm and blues, soul, funk and pop from the 1950’s through the 1980’s. The group originally consisted of Gladys Knight, her brother Merald Knight, sister Brenda Knight and cousins Eleanor and William Guest. They started off as just the Pips, named after their cousin James “Pip” Woods. After a rocky start in the late 50’s, trying to get a big single off Brunswick Records, Brenda Knight and Eleanor Guest left the group. During these times, the group was still getting recognition while performing for big R&B acts like Jackie Wilson and Sam Cooke.
The group re-united shortly after and recruited their cousin Edward Patten and family friend Langston George to form Gladys Knight and the Pips. The illustrious group stayed active, on and off, from 1960 to 1987. They made their mark on legendary record labels like Motown records, Buddah Records, Columbia Records, and MCA Records until Gladys decided to pursue a solo career.
They had early hits like “Every Beat of My Heart,” “Heard it through the Grapevine” that was later sung by Marvin Gaye, and “Midnight Train to Georgia.” As a group they had a total of 22 singles reach the Top 20 Billboard charts, with several reaching number one. They also released over 20 albums as a group, winning three Grammy’s together and 7 American Music Awards.
As Gladys Knight pursued her solo career towards the late 80’s she began her journey on the biggest stages possible and has done some of the most Iconic performances around the world. She performed at the opening ceremony for the 2002 Winter Olympics in Salt Lake City and sang the National Anthem for the Superbowl in 2019 with many other incredible performances in between.
To still be a master of her craft and grace stages around the country at almost 80 years old is a remarkable accomplishment. After a stop here in Fayetteville, she’ll be on tour in the States until late February of 2024. Beginning in June, she’ll be making her way to The Netherlands and the United Kingdom for show dates during the months of June and July of 2024.
To learn more about the incredible life of Gladys Knight and to keep up with her tour dates, visit Gladysknight.com. To catch her live in Fayetteville for the Community Concert Series, tickets are on sale for the Friday, Nov. 10 show at ticketmaster.com. Don’t miss a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to see this legendary performer give a show of a lifetime.

James Olsen can still recall the first time he saw The Beach Boys perform as a teenager in the 1980s in Michigan.
Now, all those years later, he’s ready to sing along with “Wouldn’t It Be Nice,” “California Girls” and so many more of the memorable hits.
This time, however, he doesn’t have to go too far to see the legendary act since The Beach Boys are making a stop at the Crown Theatre in Fayetteville.
“I love just the simplicity of it. Most of them are three-chord progression songs and upbeat. They are just fun,” Olsen said. “It’s hard to get songs that people like and they just have dozens and dozens.”
Olsen just recently downloaded The Beach Boys 50 greatest hits when the very next day he heard about the fact that the band was coming to Fayetteville.
“I thought, ‘You gotta be kidding me. What are the chances?’” he said. “I took that as a sign to revisit The Beach Boys in person after 36 years.”
The band is scheduled to appear in just a little over a week at the Crown Theatre on Nov. 9. The show starts at 7:30 p.m. and should last about two hours.
Of course at the Crown Theatre concessions will be open for those seeing the show and will include tropical drink specials as an homage to The Beach Boys.
“I’ve definitely heard some buzz about this show out in the community,” Madeleine Eversole, the Director of Marketing for the Crown Complex, said. “Anyone who’s enjoyed hearing these songs over the years should take the opportunity to come see the band perform live.”
Eversole and other members of the Crown Complex have been getting a lot of good feedback, she says, from playing the band’s music at local events trying to drum up some publicity for the upcoming show.
“People love these shows,” she said.
While not all the original members of The Beach Boys still tour and travel, the show will include original member Mike Love as well as Bruce Johnson. Eversole expects a good turn out with more than 70% of the seats already sold for the upcoming show. Tickets start at $31.
“The Beach Boys have so many hits and it’s going to be so much fun to see them perform live!” Eversole said.
For Olsen, he says he hopes they still sound like The Beach Boys after all these years.
“I have been on a kick of seeing bands over again this year,” Olsen said. “The year of 2023 has been it.”
The Crown will also host upcoming shows for Gladys Knight, Josh Turner, Air Supply, Leanne Morgan and John Mellencamp.
For more information about this or any upcoming shows visit www.crowncomplexnc.com.