Long before Santa Claus, caroling, and light-strewn Christmas trees, people in medieval Europe celebrated the Christmas season with 12 full days of feasting and revelry. Christmas in the Middle Ages was preceded by the month-long fast of Advent, during which Christians avoided rich foods and overindulgence.
Once Christmas Day arrived, people were expected to eat, drink, be merry, dress up, play games, and go dancing around the neighborhood for 12 solid days. The degree of Christmas decadence depended on your social status, but the spirit of celebration was universal.
Feasting
Let’s step back in time and discover the lavish and surprising dishes that adorned the tables of medieval Christmas feasts.
Mince pies are one of the oldest traditions from midwinter festivities. They were originally meant as a way to re-use shredded meats from banquet leftovers like goose, chicken, or beef. The pies were filled with fruits and spices, possibly to mask the smell and taste of the slightly off bits of meat.
The addition of meat in the dish was removed in the 1800s, making it much closer to the sweet dessert we know today. Despite the changes over the centuries, mince pies remain a staple of Christmas celebrations.
While having a turkey as the centerpiece of our Christmas dinner is now the norm, this wasn’t the case in the medieval period. But the idea of having a bird as the main course does pre-date our modern-day meal. In medieval celebrations, birds were served at the banqueting table in most wealthy households.
Unlike our roast turkeys, these birds were served to look like they were still alive! The animal was skinned, then roasted, and a replacement skin was sewn back onto the meat. This was done so that the meat looked like it was being served from a living bird. The peacock was considered the most prestigious of these creations because its feathers would bring awe to all the guests present. Smaller households, inspired by the royals, would serve a simple goose.
If you don’t have turkey on Christmas, you might have a large roasted Christmas ham. The tradition of eating pork during the Yule time celebrations goes all the way back to the Middle Ages. Instead of meat from the hind leg, people would dine on the boar’s head!
This tradition is thanks to the Vikings, who would sacrifice a boar to the god Frey during the Yuletide. Frey was known to ride a great gold-bristled boar named Gullinbursti. As Frey was the god of fertility, rain, and sunshine, it was thought that this sacrifice would bring good fortune and a healthy harvest to the people. Eating a boar’s head became even more popular across Europe when it became a popular part of a Christmas carol, the “Boar’s Head Carol.” Eventually, the traditions evolved into what we now know as the roast ham.
Plum pudding, a dish most popular in the UK, has its roots in medieval England. Originally, it was more akin to a porridge, created from beef and mutton mixed with raisins, wine, and spices. Despite its soupy consistency, breadcrumbs were added to provide thickness. This hearty dish was considered a luxury for poor families struggling to find something warm and filling during the Christmas season.
A delightful tradition associated with plum pudding is the hiding of small treasures inside the dessert. These could be silver coins, small crowns, or rings, hidden before baking. The person who finds the treasure in their slice is said to be the King or Queen of the dinner, bringing them good fortune for the coming year. Just be sure to use food-safe materials to continue this charming practice safely!
Wassail, a warm and spiced beverage was a staple at Yuletide festivals. Made from hot mead or mulled cider, it was brought to the tree of worship by pagans, who would pour it over the roots of a great apple tree to ensure a good harvest the following year. This ancient tradition was so integral to the festival that an entire Christmas carol is dedicated to Wassail.
Decorating
Discover the enchanting and symbolic Christmas decorating traditions from the medieval era, revealing the roots of some customs we still cherish today.
During the cold and dark winters, the idea of bringing greenery into your house was a popular medieval tradition. The idea of seeing these green boughs was meant to symbolize life during a season when everything else seemed to be dying. While the outdoors was barren and gray, your home was not.
Even the most impoverished household could go out and collect greenery to decorate the house, so its popularity was wide-ranging. Two of the most popular plants to collect were holly and ivy. Since they had roots in Saturnalia’s pagan festival, the church widely disapproved of this kind of decoration. But the people persisted with it, nonetheless. Holly is one of the oldest good-luck charms used by ancient Celtic druids to ward off evil spirits. It was thought to also protect the home from lightning and was used for good luck.
Mistletoe is another plant that has been used in Christmas celebrations for ages. It was long thought to be used as an ancient cure-all by the druids. People would use it for fertility, to protect their crops, and even to ward off witches. The mistletoe myth of bestowing love upon any couple who kiss beneath it dates to the Norse gods.
The Norse god Balder was thought to have died after being killed with a spear made from the mistletoe. His mother, Frigg, wept upon finding her son dead, and her tears turned into the white berries on the plant. Frigg ensured that whenever a couple met under the mistletoe, she would protect them in a way she could not have saved her son. And instead of becoming known as a deadly plant, it was known as the plant of love. The idea of kissing under the mistletoe comes from England, when servants were allowed to steal a kiss from any woman under the mistletoe, and refusing was seen as bad luck. Another tradition goes that you must kiss once for every berry on the mistletoe and pluck them as you go until all the berries are gone.
In medieval times, druids were known to worship oak trees. This enraged many early Christians, including St. Boniface, who despised their love of the great tree. One day St. Boniface headed out to the great oak and cut it down. When it fell, a fir tree grew up from its roots.
Boniface proclaimed that this fir tree symbolized Christ, as its branches never turned brown, a symbol of Jesus’s eternal life. Being amazed at the sight, many of the druids decided to finally convert to Christianity.
The earliest known decorated Christmas tree was noted in 1419 in Freiburg, Germany. The Baker’s apprentices decorated a tree outside the local hospital with apples, wafers, gingerbread, and tinsel.
They decorated it at Christmastime to bring joy to those suffering inside whenever they looked out their window.
Pagan and Norse people would perform a yearly ritual to appease the god Thor. They would place a log in the hearth, and if the log burned throughout the Yuletide celebrations, this would ensure the sun’s return.
The Yule Log tradition is a testament to the deep connection between medieval societies and their natural surroundings, seeking harmony and balance during the harsh winter months.
Music
Dive into the enchanting world of medieval winter songs and discover the melodies that defined the season.
Medieval winter songs have their roots in the mid-12th to the mid-14th century, where they were closely tied to the French 'carole,' a type of monophonic dance song. These caroles were often accompanied by choreography and were a popular form of entertainment during this period.
In medieval England, the term 'carol' referred to songs with a specific structure, featuring a burden (refrain) and several verses (stanzas). These songs could be about various subjects, including religious themes, the winter season, or social and political issues.
St. Francis of Assisi is often credited with the invention of the Christmas Carol. In 1224, during one of his nativity services, he led the congregation in a song of praise for the baby Jesus. This joyful practice quickly caught on, and the tradition of singing festive tunes during the holiday season began.
St. Francis's influence helped popularize the idea of communal singing during Christmas, laying the foundation for a beloved tradition that continues to this day.
Initially, medieval carols were monophonic, meaning they had only one melody line. This simplicity made them easy to sing and popular among groups.
By the 15th century, carols evolved to become polyphonic, incorporating multiple melodic lines sung or played simultaneously. This added complexity made the music richer and more elaborate, often with each verse set to different music.
The popularity of carols declined during the Reformation, as Christmas customs were suppressed by the Puritans. Many traditional practices, including caroling, fell out of favor during this period.
However, the 19th century saw a revival of interest in medieval carols. This resurgence was part of a broader movement to rediscover and celebrate traditional customs, leading to the reestablishment of caroling as a cherished holiday tradition.

Fayetteville is growing. Downtown is seeing its own growth and revitalization of existing buildings that mark the humble beginnings of the All America City.
The newest addition to the Downtown area is 226 The Warehouse, located in the old Cotton Exchange building located at 226 Donaldson Street. Nestled on a side street right off Hay Street, 226 has a sophisticated atmosphere before you even open the doors. From the sign that hangs above the double, temperance glass doors, to the restored brick and wood inside, the space serves as the perfect backdrop for an array of occasions.
The space boasts a brand-new elevated DJ booth, and 2 fully stocked bars, one serving the downstairs area and one for the upstairs mezzanine and private lounge area. Downstairs is an open-space concept with several luxury private booths for guests to sit and enjoy a more intimate space while still enjoying the festivities.
Keeping some of the essence of the previous long-term tenants, several antique fixtures were kept and incorporated into the new space. The antiques and modern fixtures serve as perfect backdrops for any occasion. The Mezzanine also has a fully stocked bar and custom-made tables and railings, offering cup spaces for those who are standing. Owners Robert Savage and Andre Thomas have been very meticulous in the details they added to the space. Ladies can find purse hangers methodically placed around the space and custom-built cup holders in the upstairs area for standing guests. Every inch of the space has been well thought out and the process from purchasing the building to the ribbon cutting took two years.
Savage, a St. Thomas, Jamaica native, father, husband, and retired CW4 is no stranger to opening and operating a business. He and his wife also own a hair replacement center. When Thomas asked him to walk over to The Cotton Exchange one evening after a drink at the Livery Cigar Emporium, Savage was open to the idea of bringing something different to the downtown area.
“I saw what this place could be, and I saw that we could actually make a change for what is in Fayetteville. The space is 8,000 square feet. I [said] we can make something upscale for Fayetteville. And it took us a very, very long time to get it, a bit over two years to get it where it’s at. My buddy Jose and I did 90 % of the work in here. We didn’t have contractors. We had specialty tradesmen who came in, the electricity and plumbing and so forth. But this was a massive undertaking, so Andre and I, we [held] true to our vision of making something exclusive for Fayetteville,” Savage explained. Co-owner Andre Thomas, a Chicago native and also a retired military member, has always loved a good party, and opening 226 The Warehouse was just a natural progression for him.
“I’ve always liked entertainment. Something like this was just playing into who I [have] always been. I used to do parties at different locations and things of that nature. So it was like hey, how about having somewhere where you can host your own events?” Thomas said.
Keeping the integrity of the building was important to Savage.
“[The] majority of everything that you see in here was already here. If it’s on the wall, it was here before… We didn’t want to do drywall because [the] original structure was wood. We want[ed] to keep the natural color of the wood. For all the stains, we used a light stain,” he said.
All of the design choices and preservation have led to a unique, one-of-a-kind space that is perfect for hosting a variety of events including weddings, receptions, balls, fashion shows, art shows, comedy shows, and of course parties. Through collaborations they have made themselves a one-stop shop, offering access to a range of caterers, decorators, and DJs. It took several years of work to open, and Savage and Thomas are thankful for all who have helped to get them ready.
“There are so many people, that contributed their time and their energy and sacrificed so much for us to get here,” Thomas said.
To book your event or tour the space visit the website at https://www.226thewarehousenc.com/ or send an inquiry via email to 226thewarehouse@gmail.com.

The New Year's Eve Party and Celebration of 2024 is shaping to be an event long remembered in Cumberland County. With doors opening at 7 p.m. on Dec. 31, the Gates Four Golf & Country Club and the Fayetteville Dinner Theatre will host an event unlike any other. Themed Let Freedom Ring: America Rocks in 2025, this New Year's Eve Party promises an evening of great music, dining, and dancing, blending party and patriotism with a heartfelt appreciation and recognition of American values.
The evening is loaded with fun activities designed to be entertaining and inspiring. Gifts, door prizes, and a Patriotic Attire contest will encourage the partygoers to dress in their most original red, white, and blue outfits to win prizes. It's a party designed to excite and energize the entire community entering the new year. The event is hosted by Up & Coming Weekly community newspaper and Black's Tire Stores. The excitement has been building for weeks, with local sponsors and organizers working to ensure that every detail is perfect.
Bill Bowman, publisher of Up & Coming Weekly community newspaper, commented "..the Let Freedom Ring in 2025 event is much more than a party celebrating the new year—it's about celebrating Fayetteville, Cumberland County, and the spirit of being a proud American." He adds, "This party is about people coming together locally to launch the new year by celebrating American values and sharing the excitement, enthusiasm, and optimism that 2025 will bring to our community, state, and nation. These principles are what unite us and are worth celebrating.”
Here's what is in store for New Year partygoers:
New Year Revelers will be dancing the night away to the live music of Rivermist, a popular local variety music band based in Fayetteville that has become a regional and statewide favorite for its energetic performances. “Rivermist brings high energy and an unmatched stage presence," Bowman said. "Rivermist connects with their audiences. Their showmanship and audience appeal are what make their performances unforgettable. Their music and participation make this New Year's event so special." Since 2014, Rivermist has been earning accolades for their blend of classic rock, R&B, and original songs. They've been named "best local band" nine years in a row by Up & Coming Weekly newspaper readers. Rivermist has a real knack for creating a party atmosphere and getting people on their feet to dance. Undoubtedly, when RIVERMIST performs, it guarantees everyone will have a good time.
Chefs Brad and Kelly McLawhorn of Two Brothers Catering will have a carving station featuring a delicious spread of their award-winning heavy hors d'oeuvres.
A Patriotic Tribute to our Nation's Armed Forces, Veterans, and Gold Star families will be held. The theme America Rocks in 2025 is woven into every evening aspect, from the patriotic décor to the Armed Forces Tribute and honoring Gold Star families.
“Our soldiers stationed at Ft. Liberty are an integral part of this community," Bowman said. “This tribute is our collective way of saying ‘thank you’ and reminding everyone of their daily sacrifices for our freedoms. Fayetteville has a strong connection to the military, and this event will honor them for their service, sacrifices, and contributions while enjoying an evening of delicious food, great music, fun, and fellowship."
A Midnight Champagne Toast. As midnight approaches, everyone will gather for a Champagne Toast to welcome in 2025. And as Rivermist plays their final set of the evening, guests will enjoy a Mimosa Breakfast with all your favorite early-morning entrees prepared by Two Brothers Catering.
The evening concludes with each guest receiving a special gift from Cape Fear Winery & Distillery as a memento of the evening.
The Greater Fayetteville Chamber joins the event this year as a cosponsor, marking a new chapter for this Gates Four tradition. Chamber President and CEO Nat Robertson expressed excitement about the partnership's significance to the local business community.
"The Fayetteville Chamber of Commerce and our members are very excited to be cosponsoring Gates Four's New Year's Eve celebration," Robertson said. "This will be the first year that we have offered Chamber members the opportunity to celebrate the new year with each other. It's a great way to foster camaraderie and showcase Fayetteville's vibrant business community."
Everyone—person, business, and organization—involved with producing the Let Freedom Ring in 2025 Party is a Fayetteville Chamber of Commerce member and shares the same principles of pride, honor, and love for our country.
If you go….
With limited seating, Fayetteville residents are encouraged to purchase tickets early. Tickets for the event are selling quickly, with various options. General admission tickets, priced at $140, include dinner, dancing, and access to all activities. VIP tickets, $170, offer reserved seating and additional perks, including complimentary wine, and VIP tables for eight (8) provide reserved seating, a center-stage experience with wine and champagne.
Discounts are available for Groups of eight or more, Seniors 65+, all military members and veterans, and Chamber of Commerce members. For more information or to purchase tickets, visit www.fayettevilledinnertheatre.com or contact the box office at 910-391-3859. Direct event partnering and sponsorship inquiries bill@upandcomingweekly.com.
A Celebration with Heart
"I want people to leave this New Year's Eve Party feeling inspired and connected," Bowman said. "This event is about celebrating our values, our community, and our shared vision for the America we want to leave for our children's children."
This is a night you won't want to miss. As the community looks forward to the new year, America Rocks in 2025 promises to be a night filled with joy, fun, music, and meaningful connections. Dress in your patriotic best, grab a partner, and prepare for an evening celebrating a revitalized America.

Gates Four and the Fayetteville Dinner Theatre support Cumberland County education with proceeds from the evening benefiting the Kidsville News! Literacy and Education Foundation a nonprofit 501c3 organization dedicated to promoting literacy in Cumberland County.

(Photo courtesy of Rivermist Facebook)

When Grace Bex faced a particularly challenging first pregnancy, she could hardly have imagined the transition and opportunities it would bring into her life. She gave birth 4 weeks early due to preeclampsia and began navigating the unknowns of postpartum recovery. That was in 2017. Now, she’s on the cusp of opening Fayetteville’s only exclusively female fitness facility.
Bex’s journey began when she started sharing her postpartum weight loss journey on social media. Though she had spent her childhood and college years involved in a variety of sports and power-lifting, her new daughter was changing her perspective. There was a new motivation behind her fitness.
“I wanted to take care of myself,” Bex explained, “for [my daughter].”
She began sharing the details of her postpartum workouts, meal plans, and progress. As followers, friends, and family connected with her story and saw that her choices were working, they began to reach out.
“Friends who were like, hey, can you write down what you're doing so I can do it? I was like, okay, yeah, but you know, I'm not certified.”
As time went on, friends and family encouraged her to pursue certification. Bex eventually became a Certified Personal Trainer through Auburn University’s American College of Sports Medicine. She said her business grew rapidly during the first year and a half. During that time she offered training in her “humble” home gym.
In 2019, Army life dictated changes, and Bex and her husband moved to Germany. Bex didn’t expect personal training would keep her busy during their time there, but spent several months advertising her services ahead of the move anyway. When she settled in Germany, she restarted in their 160-square-foot garage.
“I figured, okay, everybody's going to be paying for traveling and whatever, they're not going to want to pay for personal training,” Bex shared. “By the grace of God, I was wrong.”
Her first three months of offering training in Germany were fully booked.
During her time in Germany, Bex began hosting what has since become one of her most popular events, “Ladies Lift Night.” She describes the event as “a night full of empowerment and ladies getting together who potentially wouldn't cross paths otherwise.” The ladies she brings together hail from a variety of backgrounds such as Cross-Fit and Yoga; backgrounds that Bex says often carry the stigma of not getting along in the fitness world.
“These nights are for everybody to come together,” she explained.
When COVID-19 hit, the German government eventually closed all gyms, and Bex decided to permanently close the 10,000-square-foot facility she had purchased and was operating her business in. At that time, she was expecting again, and she and her husband were preparing for a permanent change of station
back to Fayetteville.
Back in the Fayetteville area, she had no intentions of opening another gym and planned on operating Gracefully Fit out of her commercially equipped home gym until her training waitlist grew beyond what she could support there.
She continued living by the motto she had coined for her business years earlier - “Do one thing today that you didn't do yesterday that will change your tomorrow”- and eventually began to see the need for an exclusive women’s gym in the area.
Having now faced three challenging birth experiences - journeys that she feels have given her the ability to relate to other women around her - she wants to create an environment where women can “feel comfortable and heard and seen and related to and the ways that only women can relate to each other.”
Gracefully Fit is set to open their new facility in a to-be-announced location in the first quarter of 2025. A boutique gym, Bex says they’ll focus on a “well-rounded, wellness approach,” offering classes and training in a variety of modalities such as Pilates, yoga, and barre in addition to regular classes. Other offerings will include an on-site cold plunge, sauna, discounted rates on child care at the facility directly next door, and Connect Groups.
“I’m really big on community,” Bex shared.
She said from the beginning of her journey as a personal trainer, clients have wanted spaces to connect, whether virtually or in person. Connect Groups give clients the chance to connect via book clubs, mom groups, and more according to Bex. She hopes clients will use the groups as a place to “find [their] people.”
Find more information on Gracefully Fit’s training packages and stay up to date with developments at https://begracefullyfit.com/

(Grace Bex will be opening a woman only fitness space in Fayetteville in 2025. Bex hopes the gym will bring ladies of all backgrounds together. Photo courtesy of Grace Bex)

The return of the Marquis de Lafayette to Fayetteville in March 2025 will be held with great fanfare throughout the town. Lafayette came to Fayetteville in 1825, as part of his farewell tour throughout the United States. A Revolutionary War hero who hailed from France, Lafayette only ever visited one town named after him: Ours!
To mark the bicentennial of his tour, the national organization of The American Friends of Lafayette in conjunction with the local Lafayette Society plans to hold lectures, speeches, a ball, and a procession through downtown Fayetteville. The two-day event will be held March 4 and 5. In the meantime, however, the Lafayette Society has been working to garner even more interest within our community.
In September, the Society hosted its 17th Annual Lafayette Birthday Celebration. Events included lectures with authors, a guided trolley tour in downtown Fayetteville with coffee and croissants, and a birthday party.
Last month, the Society held a dance workshop with Charles Steplively, a dance master who led attendees through traditional 1800s dances. More workshops will be scheduled throughout January for those who wish to learn the historical steps before the Lafayette Ball in March.
These events, and others held this year, are all part of the bigger picture: Celebrating the 200th anniversary of the visit of the Marquis to our area. And the Society isn’t stopping there. In an effort to encourage and promote excellence in local creative expression, they are asking members of the community to submit short films celebrating the principles of Lafayette: liberty, human rights, equality, religious tolerance and the abolition of slavery.
The competition is open to current Cumberland County and Fort Liberty residents and students. The video should be under 4 minutes in length and should be a PG-13 rating or lower.
Submissions must be hosted on YouTube, with a direct link provided with the submission form. The deadline for submissions is Feb. 10, 2025. The first place winning video will receive $750, second place will win $300, third place will win $100.
To see the full list of rules and to get a submission form, visit www.lafayettesociety.org/creativity
The winning films will be shown during the Lafayette Society’s annual member luncheon on March 2, 2025. Winning poems from the poetry contest, now closed, will also be read aloud. To become a member of the Society, or to learn more about Lafayette and his enduring legacy on our city, visit www.lafayettesociety.org.

New Year’s Eve marks the end of one year and the beginning of the next. It’s a time to join loved ones and friends for the biggest global celebration of the year. Cities around the world will ignite the sky with fireworks and laser shows. Hundreds, thousands, and millions will watch various objects fall in the countdown to 2025. Cool Springs Downtown District is hosting its fourth annual Night Circus: A District New Year’s Eve Spectacular on Dec. 31 from 7:30 p.m. to 12:30 a.m. at Festival Park.
The standard has been set and the party is going down at this year’s celebration. Festival Park will be transformed into an outdoor Night Circus, with amusements for all ages with circus performers, art displays, a kid's section with bounce houses, food trucks, a photo booth, and of course a “libation station” sponsored by Healy Wholesale.
Keeping the party going all night is ringmaster and emcee of the evening radio personality and local community KidsPeace organizer, Dominque Womack. This year’s entertainment lineup will host two of the 90’s greatest Hip-hop groups, Atlanta icons Arrested Development and Philly legends Digable Planets. Hitting the District Vibe Stage fresh off of touring with The Roots, Ashanti Bennett, Director of Special Projects for Cool Spring Downtown District, said, “90s hip-hop and R&B just seems to be one of the eras of music that has universal cross-appeal; when we look out at the crowd we see the full diversity of our community represented. While we [definitely] have ideas for shaking it up in the future, this year we are ready to give a little bit more of a good thing. We work with a couple of booking agents [that we] have developed a great relationship with over the years. I send them a short list of aspirational artists in the genre and we work our way through availability and budget to narrow that list down. We were so excited to be able to book Arrested Development and Digable Planets as they were coming off their successful 2024 tour with The Roots. We anticipate a show that folks will be talking about for some time to come!”
The District Vibe Stage lineup also includes a few local musicians, local DJs, and the Air Born Aerials. Several food trucks will be ready and available to feed the masses including Smokey's Legendary Grill, Big Erv's BBQ, Fry Papi, Carolina Diva Donut, Tropical Concession, The Carnival Cart and Popcorn-Is-Us.
For parents looking to get the little ones back in the house before midnight, there will be a special countdown for the kids.
“We want the whole family to come out to the Night Circus but we know it can be a late night for the little ones. To that end, we hold a children's countdown at 9 p.m. so that everyone can participate in the celebration. We will also have a children's area with games and a bounce house obstacle course,” Bennett said.
At midnight, Fayetteville’s 18-foot star will be lifted into the sky above the District Vibe Stage with the backdrop of illuminating fireworks, a picturesque beginning to the new year.
This year’s celebration has been a labor of love and enthusiasm for Bennett, the person behind some of the best events downtown.
“The Night Circus NYE Spectacular is one of my favorite events that I've worked on. I love to see the joy on people's faces when they come together to celebrate. When we did our first event, we were all coming out of the pandemic and it was so important to get people to gather and carouse and look to the future. So every year, when planning the Night Circus, I try to think about it in terms of joy making,” she said. “As a team, everything that we do is to amplify the spirit of the community that we love with bold vision. I like to think of the Night Circus as Downtown Fayetteville's love letter to our community, and a great example of that commitment. Our team puts a lot of heart into this event.”
“We want to thank our title sponsor, the City of Fayetteville, for bringing this event forward for our community. In addition, we would like to thank our other community sponsors: ABC11, Healy Wholesale, PWC, Metronet, Distinctly Fayetteville, The Arts Council of Fayetteville/Cumberland County, and the North Carolina Arts Council. Lastly, we couldn't pull off this kind of event without a little help from our friends,” said Bennet. “Thank you to everyone who has volunteered with us in the past. If you are interested in volunteering or learning more about the Night Circus, go to visitdowntownfayetteville.com for the volunteer link, performance schedule, and more. You can also follow Downtown Fayetteville and Cool Spring Downtown District on Facebook and Instagram to stay up-to-date on this event and others throughout the year.”

(Photo courtesy of Cool Spring District Facebook page)

On Dec. 5, Fort Liberty leaders named the Family of the Year during a ceremony at the Main Post Chapel. Army Volunteer Corps Coordinator Alice Stephens emceed; she has organized everything behind the scenes for 18 of the event’s 22 years. The 82nd Airborne Division All-American Chorus performed “God Bless America” and a heartfelt rendition of “Lean On Me.” Chaplain Col. Jay Outen gave the invocation, inviting God to watch over not only the families being honored that evening but all Fort Liberty families. In his final public appearance as Commander of the XVIII Airborne Corps and Fort Liberty, Lt. Gen. Christopher T. Donahue reiterated that “here at the center of the military universe,” as he referred to Fort Liberty, the Airborne Corps has two jobs: to protect the nation and to take care of its people. These families not only supported its military member, but they were involved with the unit, other military families and the wider community.
Each year, unit leaders on Fort Liberty nominate families from their unit to be considered for Family of the Year. The families put together packets of their involvement with other families in the unit, activities on base and volunteer work in Fayetteville. Board members whittle the pool of families down to 16, all of which are invited to the ceremony. The field is again narrowed to the five top families and one finalist family is selected from the five.
Top honors this year went to:
• Sgt. Maj. Scott Chapman II, Headquarters and Headquarters Battalion, DIVARTY, 82nd Airborne Division, spouse Melinda; children Triston, Giulianna, Keira, Abigail and Elijah
The four remaining top five families in alphabetical order are:
• Chaplain Cpt. Euy Cho, Headquarters and Headquarters Company, 82nd Brigade Support Battalion, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne Division, spouse Eun Sung; children: David and Daniel
• First Sgt. Gregg Kimbell, 127th Airborne Engineer Battalion, 1st Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne Division, spouse Daisy; child Angelina
• Sgt. Johnathan Lovegren, A Co., 189th Combat Sustainment Support Battalion, 82nd Airborne Division Sustainment Brigade, 82nd Airborne Division, spouse Amanda; children Athena and Ares
• Chaplain Cpt. Andrew Lowe, Headquarters and Headquarters Battalion, 2-319 Airborne Field Artillery Regiment, 82nd Airborne DIVARTY, 82nd Airborne Division, spouse Alexandria; children Dominic and Allen

In addition to a plaque commemorating the Chapmans recognition as the 2024 Fort Liberty Family of the Year, they also received a red poinsettia and a stocking full of snacks. Each family chose a single word to describe the essence of their interactions and motivations. The Chapmans chose “versatile” because they meet the demanding schedules of two careers, five kids, volunteer efforts and deployments. Sgt. Maj. Chapman said of his family, the effort “has only strengthened our bond and love for each other.” The family is involved in the annual Walk to End Alzheimer’s in Fayetteville, Melinda is a Family Readiness Group advisor and this year the family collected donations to send to our still-suffering neighbors in the western mountains of the state. Their eldest son is a U.S. Army Reserve member.
Following the ceremony, guests moved outside for the Christmas festivities being held at the Main Post Parade Field. The 82nd Airborne Division All-American Chorus added some cadences and Christmas carols to their evening’s repertoire. Cookies and hot chocolate were available for the kids while food trucks and beer and wine tents served the needs of their parents. The U.S. Army Parachute Team, the Golden Knights, provided swirling, sparkling white Christmas lights as they surfed the air from plane to ground. Santa and Mrs. Clause arrived to the tune of the 82nd Chorus singing “Here Comes Santa Claus,” and the Chapman’s youngest girl flipped the lever that lit the posts’ main Christmas tree.

(Above Photo: Sgt. Maj. Scott Chapman II, Headquarters and Headquarters Battery, 82nd Airborne Division Artillery, alongside his wife, Melinda and kids, Keria, Abigale, and Elijah receives the Garrison Family of the Year award during the Family of the Year Ceremony on Fort Liberty, Dec. 5. Sixteen family nominees were recognized by their units for their willingness to sacrifice moments as a family to serve full time while still investing in the community.)

World War II sparked an unprecedented asbestos demand in the U.S. military as affordable materials were highly sought for equipment production. All five branches resorted to durable asbestos products, and it put many service members at risk of asbestos exposure, especially those of the Second World War, the Korean War, and the Vietnam War. Today’s growing number of veterans' toxic exposure cases mirror the health risks they assumed aside from the challenges of service.
Asbestos was widely used in most industries, so nobody considered asbestos dust a health threat.
It is why asbestos diseases still are a concern for all veterans who might have asbestos fibers in their lungs, including those in Cumberland County's veteran community and Fayetteville’s veteran population. Because ships needed insulation from bow to stern, the Navy required vast quantities of this fire-resistant material.
Thus, personnel of vessels built before the 1980s were at a very high risk of asbestos exposure. This fact, however, doesn't diminish the exposure risks of military base personnel throughout the state. Toxic contaminants are health and environmental risks on military sites, and exposure to these dangerous substances is a severe issue requiring more attention, investigation, and, in most cases, immediate action after discovery. North Carolina hosts eight active military bases from all the branches except the Navy.
Among them is Camp Lejeune Marine Corps Base, an infamous case of decades-long unabated contamination. Even if the toxins in the water aren’t related to asbestos, the hazardous mineral insulated facilities throughout the base.
Veterans’ slowly declining health after asbestos exposure
Vets worked and lived near asbestos products while in the military, unaware of these materials' danger. Wear and tear breaks asbestos into microscopic particles that can float in the air for hours. It’s the white dust many veterans remember. Asbestos fibers are easily inhaled or ingested, and their sharp edges cause irreversible damage to organ tissue. Furthermore, asbestos-related diseases produce symptoms only after decades beyond the initial exposure.
While veterans may not have health issues during their service, some of them have to face the effects of asbestos exposure when diagnosed with severe illnesses linked to it, like mesothelioma, asbestosis, and lung cancer.
Those routinely in contact with asbestos products during service must continuously fight for their health. Many must acknowledge that their disease will shorten their lives, as no existing treatment can reverse the damage done by asbestos fibers. Today’s medical procedures can only slow the evolution, relieve symptoms, and prevent complications.
With North Carolina ranking 39th nationwide for the rate of new lung cancer cases and 13th highest in the country for deaths related to asbestos exposure, veterans should protect their health with regular medical examinations. Timely detection is crucial in asbestos-related diseases because it considerably improves treatment results and prolongs life expectancy.
That is why vets should proactively attend periodical check-ups and stay informed by learning their legal rights.
Being open with doctors about military service and potential asbestos exposure is vital in receiving a correct diagnosis. Inhaled asbestos fibers injure the lungs first, so veterans should take chest X-rays or CT scans and pulmonary function (breathing) tests to reveal any damage caused by them. These tests are also reliable tools in diagnosing benign and malignant asbestos conditions.
Veterans who know they’ve served in a contaminated environment or those who suspect they’ve been exposed to asbestos should know their rights and options. Compensation programs and legal avenues are available through asbestos trust funds and Veterans Affairs to help those affected by asbestos exposure, and veterans need to be informed about these resources.
Help for North Carolina veterans and their families through the PACT Act
In 2022, the 117th U.S. Congress enacted the Sergeant First Class Heath Robinson Honoring our Promise to Address Comprehensive Toxics Act of 2022, known as the PACT Act. The new law delivered improvement in health care and compensations for veterans exposed to toxic sub-stances.
The Act extends eligibility for V.A. health care for retired military members exposed to harmful substances during active duty and aims to provide veterans with the care and benefits they deserve.
Thanks to this new law, approximately 3.5 million toxic-exposed veterans are eligible for extended VA benefits. Since the passage of the PACT Act, nearly 6 million veterans have been screened for toxic exposure, and more than 1.3 million vets have been approved for expanded benefits.
In North Carolina, approximately 74,000 veterans have filed PACT Act claims, and over 7,000 veterans received expanded benefits. Cumberland County veterans can consult more information by accessing https://www.va.gov/resources/the-pact-act-and-your-va-benefits/.

Editor's note: Cristina Johnson is a Navy veteran advocate for Asbestos Ships Organization, a nonprofit whose primary mission is to raise awareness and educate veterans about the dangers of asbestos exposure on Navy ships and assist them in navigating the VA claims process. For more information, please visit their webpage at https://www.asbestos-ships.com/

(Photo: U.S. Navy photo by Mass Communication Specialist Seaman Jarrod A. Schad)

This week's contribution is a replay and slightly revised version of my Christmas column which appeared on 12.17.2019, my ode to Fruit Cake. Since A Charlie Brown's Christmas has been kidnapped by Apple, another Christmas tradition lost to the Merchants of Money instead of being shown on free teevee, I thought I would bring back my traditional Fruit Cake column. Christmas traditions are important.
Merry Christmas.
Pitt

Once a year, like the Kraken, a horrible creature arises from the depths of the sea to terrorize those of pure heart and gastric system. I speak of the unspeakable — the fruitcake. Before delving into the origins and misuses of the fruitcake, consider its less toxic cousin — the Kraken. The Kraken was a giant sea monster living near the coast of Norway. It resembled a giant squid. Mr. Science considers the Kraken to be a Cephalopod. The Cephalopod family is even creepier and ookier, mysteriouser and spookier than the Addams family. The Kraken lies on the bottom of the ocean until it sees wooden sailing ships floating above. Like a Phoenix rising from Arizona, the Kraken will suddenly breach the surface of the ocean. It would wrap its tentacles around the ship, pulling it down into Davy Jones’ locker. The hapless sailors would be eaten by the Kraken, like so many apples bobbing in a barrel at an Amish barn dance.
Our old poetry-writing pal Alfred, Lord Tennyson wrote a poem about the Kraken in the 19th century. Enjoy your cultural corner of the day, to quote Lord Al: “Below the thunders of the upper deep/ Far, far beneath the abysmal sea/ His ancient, dreamless, uninvaded sleep/ The Kraken sleepeth.” It is best to let sleeping dogs and babies lie. This applies regarding Krakens. If you see a sleeping Kraken, don’t wake him up. If you see a fruitcake, don’t wake it up either.
If you are still reading this stain on world literature, ask yourself: “Self, why are Krakens better than fruitcakes?” Here is the answer: Krakens surface rarely, fruitcakes show up unbidden once a year during the Yuletide season. I would rather be eaten by a Kraken than eat a piece of fruitcake. A fruitcake is the only thing that will survive a nuclear attack other than Keith Richards, Twinkies, and cockroaches. Fruitcake contains unidentifiable ingredients, held together by a concrete-like cake structure denser than a black hole. Neither time nor light can escape from a fruitcake. Once the bilious green chunks of some hideous fruit are captured in a fruitcake, they can never escape. Fruitcakes are indestructible. Paleontologists opine that pyramids existed for millennia due to being constructed of fruitcakes. Fruitcakes are as good the day they were extruded from the factory fruitcake trough as they will be 10,000 years from now. Incidentally, fruitcakes make excellent door stops.
Every year around Christmas, fruitcakes rear their ugly heads. You never see a fruitcake in July. Like the Kraken, fruitcakes lie somewhere on the bottom of the ocean, or in a dusty factory in New Jersey; biding their time, waiting for Christmas. A friend of mine, who shall remain nameless — Bill Drewry — threatened to give me a fruitcake one Christmas. He tried to hand me a fruitcake. The horror. The horror. This “gift” was without a trigger warning. It sent me into a state of fruitcake toxic shock syndrome, thereby generating this column in 2019. The only good thing about fruitcakes is that I don’t have to eat them.
However, seeing them does tend to set off a series of Christmas memories. My mother loved fruitcakes. We had them every Christmas. They would last until Halloween with no change in their complexion or texture. They would lurk at the back of the refrigerator, daring to be eaten. I would rather eat a giant sea worm.
As children at Christmas, we would drive to Washington, D.C., to see my grandparents. This was before the miracle of I-95. It was a 10-hour trip from Fayetteville to D.C. on Highway 301 which was replete with little towns and stop lights. Ten hours in a car at age 8 is a trip from here to eternity. The trip’s highlight was stopping at Stuckey’s, a roadside attraction filled with many wonders. Chicken thermometers, Santa figurines, funny postcards, toy guns in real leather holsters. All the good stuff an 8-year-old boy loves. We would buy orange juice and visit the head.
If I was really lucky, my parents might buy me a valuable trinket. On one trip, I scored a Famous Drinking Bird through massive wheedling. The Famous Drinking Bird had a red head, big red boots, and wore a black top hat. The Bird was filled with a mysterious red liquid, which was probably Kraken blood. By a miracle of physics, if you put the bird next to a glass of water, dipped its beak into said water, the bird would bob up and down for infinity, or at least until the water evaporated. It was bigly wonderful. I took good care of the Drinking Bird. It went to college with me many years later, where it dazzled and amazed countless fellow students.
Gentle readers, I trust you will have an excellent fruitcake-free Christmas. No fruitcakes were harmed during the writing of this column. To quote Tiny Tim: “Merry Christmas and may God bless us, everyone.”

(Illustration by Pitt Dickey)

On behalf of everyone here at Up & Coming Weekly, we wish you a Merry Christmas and a very Happy and Optimistic New Year! This is my 28th-holiday greeting, and I can genuinely say I am blessed with the best job serving Fayetteville and Cumberland County residents with our community newspaper.
This is going to be the best Christmas and New Year ever. In the past several weeks, everything in our city, state, and nation has seemed to be changing for the better. Pessimism, doom and gloom, and "the sky is falling" attitudes are being replaced with unbridled optimism, patriotic hope, and steller confidence. Our local, state, and national leaders are again starting to aggressively step up and speak out about maintaining and nurturing American values and directing their efforts to "doing the right things for the right reasons."
We are leaving those folks behind who have not bought into this contagious patriotic euphoria.
Locally, it is my prediction that with fresh and enthusiastic leadership now on our Board of County Commissioners we will see quick and efficient progress in dealing with concerning issues. Countywide clean water, overall crime and homicide reduction, education, the looming homeless problem, curbing the drug epidemic, and most importantly, a return to fiscal accountability and responsibility are all on the table.
The new year is coming in hot! Join us at Gates Four this New Year's Eve as we party and celebrate Fayetteville, Cumberland County, our nation, and the freedoms we enjoy exclusively as Americans. We have so much to be thankful for. Let's celebrate!
Again, on behalf of everyone here at Up & Coming Weekly newspaper and Kidsville News! thank you for twenty-eight years of confidence and support. Onward to twenty-nine! Happy New Year!
Thank you for reading Up & Coming Weekly.

Fayetteville Technical Community College’s High School Central Sterile Processing Program aims to bridge the gap between secondary education and the healthcare industry. Students gain the essential skills needed to thrive in one of the most critical areas of healthcare – Central Sterile Processing.
As the demand for highly trained sterile processing professionals continues to grow, FTCC’s program offers a practical solution to build a skilled workforce pipeline. According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, the demand for sterile processing technicians will continue to grow at an increasing rate.
The High School Central Sterile Processing Program is the first of its kind in our service area. It offers high school seniors in the Cumberland County School District a unique opportunity to gain hands-on experience in a highly specialized field.
Through classroom instruction and practical training, students will learn the intricate processes involved in cleaning, sterilizing, and managing surgical instruments and equipment. The program will allow high school seniors an excellent foundation for those interested in exploring and advancing into other healthcare roles, as the program provides a solid footing in infection control and patient safety. In addition, allowing students to have a stackable credential, such as the certification in sterile processing, instills a sense of accomplishment and confidence.
High school graduates enter the workforce knowing they have valuable, validated skills they worked hard to attain, achieved personal growth, and obtained a sense of pride in their achievements. More importantly, this confidence can positively impact their academic motivation and self-esteem as they prepare for life after high school.
This innovative program has received enthusiastic support from local hospitals that recognize the importance of training a new generation of healthcare workers to address the current and future workforce gap.
The program is also a vital community resource, strengthening the healthcare system by preparing skilled entry-level professionals. In addition to gaining job-ready skills, students are also able to save on college tuition costs through the dual-enrollment structure established between FTCC and Cumberland County Schools. This format offers significant financial advantages for both families and students, which allows students to earn college credits for free or at a reduced rate while still in high school.
As the department chair for this program, I can share with potential students that this program is a game-changer for high school seniors.
It opens doors for dual enrollment, allowing seniors to earn high school and college credits before graduation and thereby save themselves and their parents significant dollars in achieving a college degree. The bottom line is our graduates gain real-world experiences, a professional certification, and complete a pathway into a growing and high-demand, good-paying career.
Students interested in enrolling in the program are encouraged to contact FTCC’s Department of Surgical Services or Student Services.
As the program continues to grow, it is expected to serve as a role model for other communities that are looking to address the healthcare workforce shortages through innovative educational initiatives.
These initiatives exemplify how education and industry collaboration can open the doors for unlimited possibilities for young professionals while strengthening the healthcare system. I invite you to reach out at herringt@faytechcc.edu or contact an admissions counselor who specializes in assisting students interested in healthcare programs of study at healthproadmissions@faytechcc.edu.

The holiday season is a wonderful time for family connection, full of opportunities to create lasting memories. However, it can also bring stress and emotional challenges. This December, we’re focusing on ways to strengthen family engagement and well-being, helping families enjoy special moments together while prioritizing mental health.
Family Time: Simple, Fun Ways to Connect
Family bonding doesn’t have to be complex. Simple activities can create the most cherished memories. Storytime is one way to connect, especially with younger children. Gather around with a favorite holiday book and take turns reading aloud, letting everyone savor the magic of storytelling.
Looking for more ways to keep kids engaged over the holiday break? Here are ten ideas that combine fun and family connection:
1. Holiday Crafting: Create holiday-themed crafts or homemade gifts.
2. Baking Together: Cooking as a family is fun and teaches kids new skills.
3. Volunteer as a Family: Serving together, like donating toys or helping at a shelter, teaches kids the value of giving.
4. Family Movie Night: Pick a favorite holiday film and have a cozy night.
5. Nature Walks: Fresh air and exercise make for refreshing outings.
6. Holiday Scrapbook: Capture memories of holiday moments in a family scrapbook.
7. Board Games and Puzzles: Turn off screens for some classic game time.
8. DIY Decorations: Let kids make decorations, from paper snowflakes to garlands.
9. Visit Local Holiday Events: Parades, light displays and markets make for festive outings.
10. Write Letters to Loved Ones: Sending cards or letters brings joy to both sender and receiver.
These activities build togetherness while fostering creativity, empathy and active engagement.
Staying Mindful of Mental Health
While the holidays are a joyful time, they can also bring unique pressures.
With additional activities and higher expectations, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Take time to check in with yourself and others, remembering that not everyone may feel festive. Setting boundaries, taking breaks and asking for help are all part of healthy holiday self-care.
Whether spending quality time with family or seeking mental health support, the holidays are a time for kindness toward ourselves and others.
This year, let’s prioritize joyful memories, nurturing connections and a balanced approach to holiday activities and well-being. A season filled with love, understanding and support is truly the best gift we can share.

Traditions are a major component of the holiday season. No matter which holiday individuals celebrate, chances are they cherish certain traditions that make the season more special.
Kwanzaa celebrants know that tradition figures prominently in this week-long celebration of African American culture that begins each year on Dec. 26.
Kwanzaa was created more than half a century ago, and in the years since its creation in 1966 many traditions have been become part and parcel of celebrants' holiday seasons. The following are a handful of Kwanzaa traditions that can make celebrations more special.
• Lighting the kinara: Candles feature prominently in both religious and secular holiday season celebrations, and Kwanzaa is no exception. The kinara is a special candleholder with three red, three green and one black candle, and each night during Kwanzaa celebrants light a new candle.
The African American Cultural Center-Los Angeles notes that candles are lit beginning with the black candle, which is at the center of kinara. Candles are then lit in alternate left and right, lighting inward to outward.
• Discussion: The Nguzo Saba are the seven principles of Kwanzaa. Each principle is named after a Swahili word that expresses a particular concept, including unity (umoja), purpose (nia) and creativity (kuumba). After lighting the kinara each night, families discuss the principle of Kwanzaa that correlates to the candle they lit that night.
For example, the black candle that is lit on the first night of Kwanzaa represents unity, so families will discuss that principle after lighting the candle.
• Family meal: Feasting with family is a holiday tradition in many households, including those that celebrate Kwanzaa. The Karamu Ya Imani ('Feast of Faith') typically takes place on the sixth day of Kwanzaa (Dec. 31).
Traditional African cuisine is typically prepared for the meal, and each person present may take a turn drinking from the Kikombe cha Umoja (Unity Cup). Some celebrations of the Karamu Ya Imani are community-wide events that extend beyond immediate family members.
• Gift exchange: Exchanging handmade gifts known as "zawadi" is another Kwanzaa tradition. Gifts are typically reserved for children, though adults may exchange presents as well. The gift exchange typically occurs on the final day of the week-long celebration of Kwanzaa.
These are just a handful of Kwanzaa traditions that can make the celebration of African American culture more meaningful this holiday season.

Every part of the country has its unique cuisine, snacks, local delicacies and favorites. The West Coast is known for its unique and sometimes quirky take on American classics, and its large Hispanic population has made it the taco capital of America. The Midwest boasts a bounty of hearty and flavorful favorites, including bratwurst, deep-dish pizzas, and Kansas City-style Barbeque. The South’s contributions amass in calories and flavors, bringing its variations of barbeque, rich casseroles, and pies of all assortments. The North brings thin-crust pizza, bagels (made with NYC water), cheesesteaks, and water ice.
One of the best things about living in Fayetteville is its diverse population, with some of these favorites in the city for all to enjoy. Wisdom Waterice is a locally owned father-daughter-run business delivering the classic Philly snack to the area. Water Ice is the regional variation of Italian ice, with a slightly different consistency. While the unrefined taste palettes of those not born in the area, one would think they were the same, but water ice is distinctively Philadelphia and natives will kindly let you know.
Owner and Philadelphia native, Christopher Irvin, explains, “Water ice is a great fun flavorful treat for the spring and summertime. We grew up eating water ice in Philadelphia where it originated. Water ice is made with three key components, water, sugar, and flavoring.”
Bringing the cold, portable snack to the city has been a successful venture for the businessman, who originally started the business to build something with his daughter that could be passed on for generations. Water ice has been well received in Fayetteville. Wisdom Waterice can be found at just about every major event in the area. This past season saw them at several Festival Park events and the Cumberland County Fair. Just look for the trailer with the brightly colored cute cartoon version of Irvin’s daughter, Wisdom, to secure a cup of the cool treat.
“Now that water ice [is] served here in Fayetteville, we look to continuously season after season supply, serve, and deliver quality, Philadelphia water ice, in every scoop and serve. If anyone is looking to purchase or stop by Wisdom Waterice we post our locations daily on social media such as Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. To book Wisdom Waterice you can email us at WisdomWaterice@gmail.com for your event or party. We want the community to know that when they are looking for the ‘real cool down’ as we say, ‘The cold down starts here,’ and a fun treat the whole family can enjoy together,” Irvin said.
Irvin is grateful for the community's outpouring of support and thankful for those who have helped him in this venture, saying, “I want to absolutely thank God for putting this business venture in my life, showing me the vision and the ways to serve this community. I also want to thank LaTonya my partner and Julie my other partner for trusting and believing that water ice would do well here and be accepted here as well as my daughter Wisdom. She’s been the face of this business and as her father, I hope and pray that when I’m long gone, she will continue to serve Wisdom water ice, and bless her for life. The one thing I’ve learned along this journey is that if the people love your product, love your service, you’ll always have faithful and continuous customers.”

(Photo courtesy of Wisdom Waterice Facebook page)

The holiday season has a magical way of transforming certain films into Christmas classics, even if they don’t exactly fit the traditional mold. Sure, we all know It’s a Wonderful Life or A Christmas Carol, but what about those films that simply take place during Christmas and have become beloved seasonal favorites over time? Let’s dive into some of the great, unexpected holiday classics that we can’t help but return to every December.

Die Hard (1988)
The eternal debate: Is Die Hard a Christmas movie? According to legions of fans, the answer is a resounding yes! This action-packed thriller starring Bruce Willis as NYPD cop John McClane unfolds on Christmas Eve, with McClane battling terrorists in a Los Angeles high-rise. Sure, it’s not about the spirit of giving, but with its festive setting, Christmas music, and memorable quips ("Now I have a machine gun. Ho-ho-ho.”), Die Hard is a holiday staple for those who crave something edgier with their yuletide cheer.

Gremlins (1984)
If you want to add a little horror-comedy to your Christmas movie marathon, Gremlins is a perfect pick. Set in a small town during Christmas, this film tells the story of a young man who receives an adorable, mysterious creature called Gizmo as a pet. But when Gizmo’s mischievous offspring wreak havoc on the town, the holiday season takes a wild turn. With Christmas carols, lights, and a snowy setting, Gremlins is a quirky, sometimes dark holiday treat that blends laughs with scares.

Love Actually (2003)
One of the most beloved modern Christmas movies, Love Actually follows multiple intertwining stories of love, heartbreak, and connection, all set during the festive lead-up to Christmas. With an all-star cast including Hugh Grant, Emma Thompson, Keira Knightley, and Liam Neeson, the film captures both the joy and melancholy of the holiday season. Whether it’s Grant dancing to “Jump (For My Love)” or the bittersweet moments between Emma Thompson and Alan Rickman’s characters, Love Actually has earned its place as a go-to holiday romance.

Batman Returns (1992)
Tim Burton’s dark, gothic take on Gotham City makes an unexpected holiday backdrop in Batman Returns. Set during the Christmas season, with its snow-covered streets, giant trees, and festive decorations, this superhero film adds a moody twist to holiday films. The action, combined with standout performances by Michael Keaton, Michelle Pfeiffer, and Danny DeVito, makes it a unique alternative to the usual holiday fare. After all, nothing says Christmas quite like a superhero saving the day under the mistletoe.

Edward Scissorhands (1990)
Tim Burton’s whimsical fantasy Edward Scissorhands is set against a suburban Christmas backdrop, combining holiday cheer with themes of love and acceptance. The film tells the story of Edward, an artificial man with scissors for hands, who struggles to fit into society. With its enchanting visuals, a hauntingly beautiful score, and a memorable Christmas scene that captures both the magic and isolation of the season, Edward Scissorhands has become a favorite holiday film for many.

The Family Stone (2005)
A heartfelt dramedy, The Family Stone is a warm yet poignant look at the holiday season through the eyes of a close-knit but chaotic family. When Everett Stone (Dermot Mulroney) brings his uptight girlfriend Meredith (Sarah Jessica Parker) home to meet his family, tensions flare as she clashes with his free-spirited relatives. With a brilliant ensemble cast including Diane Keaton, Luke Wilson, and Rachel McAdams, the film mixes laughter with tears as the Stone family navigates their own joys and challenges over the holidays.

Black Christmas (1974)
For those who enjoy a good fright during the holiday season, the original Black Christmas delivers a chilling narrative that has become a cult classic. Set in a sorority house during Christmas break, a group of women finds themselves being stalked by a mysterious killer. While it’s a far cry from the feel-good holiday movies, its unsettling atmosphere and seasonal setting make it a unique addition to the Christmas movie lineup for fans of horror.

Meet Me in St. Louis (1944)
This classic musical features a memorable Christmas segment that has enchanted audiences for generations. Set in the early 1900s, Meet Me in St. Louis follows the lives of the Smith family as they navigate love and family dynamics leading up to the 1904 World’s Fair. The iconic song "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas," sung by Judy Garland, has cemented this film’s place in the holiday canon, making it a timeless reminder of family, nostalgia, and the magic of Christmas.

The Apartment (1960)
Billy Wilder’s classic romantic comedy-drama The Apartment is set during the holiday season and explores themes of loneliness, love, and moral dilemmas. Starring Jack Lemmon and Shirley MacLaine, it tells the story of an office worker who lets his bosses use his apartment for their extramarital affairs, only to fall for one of the mistresses. I The film’s melancholy tone, Christmas parties, and New Year’s Eve conclusion make it a poignant choice for the holiday season.

Lethal Weapon (1987)
The first Lethal Weapon introduces us to the now-iconic duo of Riggs (Mel Gibson) and Murtaugh (Danny Glover), who find themselves navigating a high-stakes case during Christmas. The film may be an action thriller, but with a backdrop of holiday decorations and a few choice Christmas tunes, Lethal Weapon has earned its status as an unconventional holiday favorite. The festive season plays nicely against the grit and intensity of the plot, making it an exciting addition to any December movie marathon.
As we dive into the heart of the holiday season, these films remind us that Christmas movies don’t always have to be about Santa Claus, reindeer, or even family gatherings. Sometimes, the backdrop of Christmas—whether it’s in the form of twinkling lights, festive chaos, or a few well-placed holiday tunes—can elevate a movie to seasonal classic status. So, if you’re looking for something a little offbeat this year, these films are worth revisiting, not just for their stories, but for the way they capture the magic of the season in unexpected ways.

Marquis de Lafayette, born Marie-Joseph Paul Yves Roch Gilbert du Motier, was a prominent French aristocrat and military officer who played a crucial role in the American Revolutionary War. His dedication to the cause of American independence earned him the respect and admiration of American and French citizens. Lafayette's efforts in securing French support for the American cause were instrumental in the Revolution's eventual success.
Lafayette's military prowess and unwavering commitment to liberty made him a beloved figure in American history. He served alongside General George Washington and became a close friend and confidant. Lafayette's contributions extended beyond the battlefield as he also advocated for the abolition of slavery and the promotion of civil liberties.
In 1783, the North Carolina General Assembly decided to rename the towns of Cross Creek and Campbellton to Fayetteville in honor of Marquis de Lafayette. This made Fayetteville the first city in the United States to be named after the French hero. The renaming was a tribute to Lafayette's significant contributions to the American Revolutionary War and his enduring legacy as a champion of freedom.
The decision to honor Lafayette was a reflection of the deep appreciation and respect that the people of North Carolina had for his sacrifices and dedication. The town's new name symbolized the strong bond between France and the United States, forged through their shared struggle for independence.
In 1825, Lafayette embarked on a grand tour of the United States to celebrate the 50th anniversary of the Battle of Bunker Hill. During this tour, he made a memorable visit to Fayetteville. Lafayette arrived in the town by horse-drawn carriage and was warmly welcomed by the residents.
The visit was marked by a speech of welcome and various celebrations in his honor. Lafayette's presence in Fayetteville further solidified the town's connection to its namesake and left a lasting impression on its residents. The event was a historic moment that underscored the enduring legacy of Lafayette's contributions to American independence.
Fayetteville, is gearing up to celebrate the bicentennial of Lafayette’s visit on March 4–5, 2025. The celebrations promise to be grand and memorable, reflecting the town's rich history and heritage.We all are very excited for the coming events, but what if we got a headstart on the celebration with a French Christmas?
Lets Start with the Menu
In France, Christmas is not just a holiday but a culinary celebration that elevates traditional dining to an art form. A French Christmas meal is a meticulously orchestrated affair where each dish is brought out consecutively, ensuring it is enjoyed at the perfect temperature. This methodical approach ensures that every course receives the attention it deserves, from the delicate starters to the grand finale of desserts.
Unlike many other cultures where the focus might be on gift-giving, the emphasis is squarely on the food in France. Each dish is a testament to the country's rich culinary heritage, making the meal itself a cherished experience.
As guests begin to arrive at a French Christmas gathering, the festivities start with a series of traditional apéritifs and cocktails. Popular choices include pastis, kir royale, and mixed cocktails like whiskey coke. Other well-loved apéritifs are Dubonnet, Suze, Pineau des Charentes, Lillet, and La Pomme Givrée.
These drinks are often accompanied by a variety of finger foods, such as Jambon Rouleaux de chèvre (goat cheese rolled in ham), Cake salé (savory cake slices), and Courgettes roulées (zucchini rolls filled with cheese). This initial round of drinks and snacks sets the tone for the culinary delights that are to follow.
Once all the guests have gathered, the dining table becomes the focal point, and the starters are brought out. These may include luxurious options like foie gras on small brioche toasts, caviar with canapés, salmon tartare, lobster tails, escargots (snails), and oysters.
These starters are not only exquisite but also quite expensive, underscoring the importance of food in French Christmas celebrations. Seafood, particularly oysters, holds a special place and is often featured prominently during this festive season.
After the sumptuous starters, the main course takes center stage. Despite the richness of the starters, the main meat dishes are typically smaller but no less impressive. Choices may include roast beef, leg of lamb, pork loin roast, veal roast, baked turkey roast, roasted ham, or a capon (a large chicken) roast.
These meats are accompanied by vegetable dishes, such as cauliflower gratin, roasted eggplant, mushrooms and potato casserole, green beans, and baked broccoli with lardons (bacon). Salads are also a common addition. The meal is complemented by French wines, with red wines often served with meat dishes and white or rosé wines accompanying seafood and lighter fare.
As the main dishes are cleared away, a platter of fromage (cheeses) is brought out. The selection of cheeses can vary but usually includes staples like Goat cheese, Roquefort, Camembert or Brie, and Comté. Some hosts may choose to serve champagne at this point, adding a celebratory touch to the cheese course.
The grand finale of the meal is the traditional French Christmas dessert, the log cake or Bûche de Noël. This iconic dessert is a visual and culinary delight, often intricately decorated and rich in flavor, making it the perfect sweet ending to a festive and memorable meal.
Now that we've explored the delicious French holiday cuisine, let's discover other cherished Christmas traditions that make your celebration truly magical and unique.
Advent Calendars and Wreaths
Advent calendars are a significant part of the Christmas season in France. Every year, French chocolatiers and luxury brands release beautifully crafted advent calendars. These calendars, which now often include goodies beyond chocolates such as teas, beauty products, and other high-end treats, have become a must-have for cozy holiday decor. The tradition involves opening one window each day from December 1st until Christmas Eve, adding to the anticipation and excitement of the holiday season.
Advent wreaths, known as Couronnes de l’Avent, are also a cherished tradition. Made from fir and pine branches, these wreaths are typically adorned with red bows and pine cones. They are often used to decorate tables, front doors, or windows, enhancing the festive atmosphere of French homes during the holiday season.
Shoes by the Fireplace
In France, one of the most charming Christmas traditions involves children leaving their shoes by the fireplace on Christmas Eve. These shoes are filled with treats for Santa (le Père Noël) before the children go to bed. In return, Santa takes the offerings and leaves presents in their place.
This tradition adds a touch of magic to the holiday season, as children eagerly anticipate the gifts that will appear in their shoes come Christmas morning.
French Christmas Carols
Christmas carols and hymns are an integral part of the holiday season in France. While many beloved carols have their origins in England or Germany, France boasts several popular Christmas songs worth a listen. Some of the most cherished French Christmas carols include “Mon Beau Sapin” (“O Christmas Tree”), “Il Est Né, Le Divin Enfant”, “Vive le Vent” (“Jingle Bells”), “Douce Nuit, Sainte Nuit” (“Silent Night”), and “Petit Papa Noël”.
These melodies add to the festive cheer, creating a joyful and reflective atmosphere that is enjoyed by people of all ages.
Papillotes and Mulled Wine
A delightful sweet tradition in France during Christmas is the consumption of papillotes. These are chocolates or pates de fruits wrapped in sparkling golden paper with fringed ends. Inside, there is usually a little note, adding a touch of whimsy to this treat. The tradition dates back to the 18th century, inspired by a confectioner named Papillot in Lyon.
Mulled wine is another popular tradition, especially during winter. This warm, spiced beverage can be found in bars, Christmas markets, and even on the streets. It has become a trendy seasonal drink, perfect for cozy fireside gatherings at home or après-ski.

As 2024 draws to a close, it's time to bid farewell to the memories, achievements, and experiences of the past year while enthusiastically welcoming the fresh start that a new year brings. This transition calls for a proper celebration filled with joy and festivities.
Pull out your most glamorous attire — whether it's a sparkly dress, sharp suit, or festive cocktail wear - and prepare to ring in the new year in spectacular fashion. Don't miss out on the incredible New Year's Eve events happening around town that promise unforgettable celebrations with music, dancing, and champagne toasts.

SATURDAY, DEC.28
Latin Night, New Year's 2025 Edition
Dirty Whiskey Craft Cocktail Bar, 5431 Corporation Drive
9:30 p.m.
Get ready to dance your way into the New Year with an unforgettable celebration! Join in for the Latin Night New Year's 2025 Edition at the vibrant Dirty Whiskey Craft Cocktail Bar. The incredible DJ Q will set the dance floor on fire with an electrifying mix of your favorite Latin rhythms, including sizzling Salsa beats, energetic Merengue tunes, romantic Bachata melodies, and pulse-pounding Reggaeton hits that will keep you moving all night long!
Treat your taste buds to an authentic culinary journey with delectable offerings from Latin Flavours Street Cuisine. Savor the perfect blend of traditional and modern Latin American dishes—from crispy, hand-crafted empanadas filled with seasoned meats and vegetables to hearty mofongo bursting with garlic and plantain flavors. Plus, discover many more mouthwatering specialties that will transport you straight to the streets of Latin America!
This event is from and only for ages 21+. Who's ready to embrace the passionate Latin spirit, dance until dawn, and welcome 2025 with an explosion of flavor, music, and unforgettable memories? Don't miss this spectacular celebration! For more information visit https://tinyurl.com/4s3x47ub

TUESDAY, DEC. 31
Night Circus: A District New Year's Eve Spectacular 2024
Downtown Fayetteville
7:30 p.m.
The City of Fayetteville's Night Circus: A District New Year's Eve Spectacular is making its triumphant return for an incredible fourth year, promising to be the most magnificent celebration yet! Presented by Cool Spring Downtown District, this year's event will feature two iconic Grammy-winning headliners that defined 90s hip-hop: the jazz-rap pioneers Digable Planets and the legendary conscious hip-hop group Arrested Development!
Prepare yourself for an enchanting evening filled with mesmerizing circus-themed entertainment that will delight attendees of all ages. Marvel at graceful stilt walkers towering above the crowds, be amazed by daring fire dancers performing heart-stopping routines and watch in wonder as skilled roving magicians perform mind-bending illusions throughout the venue. Children will find endless joy in the dedicated kids' activity zones, while an array of festive food vendors will tempt your taste buds with delectable holiday treats. Adding to the electric atmosphere, talented local DJs and musicians will keep the energy high on the District Vibe Stage, ensuring the party never stops.
As the clock approaches midnight, all eyes will turn to the sky as they raise their spectacular 18-foot New Year's Eve star, a dazzling symbol of hope and new beginnings. The night will reach its crescendo with a breathtaking fireworks display illuminating the downtown skyline, welcoming 2025 in spectacular fashion!
Don't miss this opportunity to be part of Downtown Fayetteville's most anticipated event of the year. Head Downtown for a New Year's Eve celebration that promises memories to last a lifetime! For more information visit https://tinyurl.com/2r7ctbfj

New Year Sneaker Ball
Seven Horsemen Billards, 715 W Rowan Street
10 p.m.
Kappa Lambda Chi Military Fraternity - Delta Chapter proudly presents an elegant New Year Sneaker Ball, promising an unforgettable evening of sophistication and style!
Kappa Lambda Chi Military Fraternity stands as an exclusive brotherhood dedicated to serving the distinguished men of the United States Armed Forces. As a premier Greek-letter organization, they have established themselves as a unique alternative to conventional military associations. Their fraternity takes pride in fostering strong bonds among service members while maintaining the highest standards of excellence that truly make them second to none.
Ladies and gentlemen are invited to showcase their finest attire at this spectacular event. Combine your elegant evening wear with your most stylish sneakers for a perfect blend of class and comfort.
Ticket Prices are:
• Singles: $35 (advance purchase)
• Couples: $60 (advance purchase)
• Singles: $40 (at door)
• Couples: $65 (at door)
Don't miss this exceptional celebration where military brotherhood meets sophisticated entertainment! For more information visit https://tinyurl.com/4d6ceb4p

Gates Four NYE Party
Gates Four Golf & Country Club, 6775 Irongate Drive
6 p.m.
Join Fayetteville Dinner Theatre at Gates Four Country Club for an unforgettable New Year's Eve celebration! Featuring live music by Rivermist, this event promises an evening filled with great entertainment, delicious food, and patriotic fun as we ring in the new year together. Your ticket includes a Dinner and Dance Party. Indulge in a carefully curated gourmet meal featuring seasonal favorites and culinary delights, then hit the dance floor as Rivermist performs an energetic mix of classic hits and contemporary favorites that will keep you moving all night long. Also included in your admission:
• Military & Veteran Tribute – Join in for meaningful tribute to honor our brave service members, veterans, and their families. This special moment will include a ceremonial salute and recognition of their dedication and sacrifice.
• Patriotic Attire Contest – Show your American spirit by wearing your most creative red, white, and blue ensemble! Prizes will be awarded for Most Patriotic, Most Creative, and Best Overall looks.
• Door Prizes – Throughout the evening, lucky attendees will have multiple chances to win amazing prizes including gift certificates, luxury items, and exclusive experiences.
• Midnight Champagne Toast – As the clock strikes twelve, raise your glass with premium champagne and join fellow guests in welcoming 2025 with style and elegance.
• Mimosa Breakfast – Begin the first morning of 2025 with a delightful spread featuring fresh pastries, seasonal fruits, and refreshing mimosas. The perfect way to start your new year!
• New Year's Gift – Take home a specially designed commemorative keepsake that captures the spirit of this memorable evening. This exclusive gift is their way of thanking you for choosing to celebrate with them.
Don't miss this spectacular celebration at one of Fayetteville's most prestigious venues. Gates Four Country Club provides the perfect backdrop for an elegant and patriotic New Year's Eve celebration that combines Southern hospitality with American pride. Make your reservations early as space is limited for this premier event! There are a variety of ticket and package options. To learn more about this event and tickets visit https://fayettevilledinnertheatre.com/

New Year's Eve Celebration
Pinehurst Resort, 80 Carolina Vista, Pinehurst
8 p.m.
Celebrate the arrival of the New Year in style at this spectacular New Year's Eve celebration featuring the dynamic and soulful sounds of Laiken Love & Fellowship of Love, performing live in the elegant Grand Ballroom at the Carolina Hotel! This unforgettable evening includes an exquisite gourmet dinner buffet showcasing chef-crafted specialties, followed by delectable late-night light bites to keep your energy high throughout the festivities. Dance the night away on the expansive dancefloor while enjoying premium party favors, a complimentary welcome glass of fine wine upon arrival, and a traditional champagne toast at midnight to welcome the New Year. This promises to be the most memorable way to bid farewell to the old year and embrace the new!
The sophisticated theme for this exclusive event will be Red & Black, setting the perfect ambiance for an elegant evening of celebration. Full-service credit-card bars will be available throughout the venue, featuring expert mixologists crafting special signature cocktails designed specifically for this celebration. (Please note that cash payments are not accepted at the bars) The outstanding live musical entertainment runs from 8:30 p.m. until 1 a.m., ensuring five hours of non-stop celebration. Your tickets grant you exclusive access to both the Gourmet Buffet and Dance Experience in the magnificent Grand Ballroom.
This event is only for 21 years or older attendees. Join this extraordinary evening of fine dining, dancing, and celebration as we welcome the New Year in grand style! Tickets are $160. For more information visit https://tinyurl.com/2w3jkybk

Caribbean Old Year's Night Party
Tasting Queens Market, 1218 Hawkins Ave, Sanford
9:30 p.m.
In the Caribbean, the last night of the year holds a special place in cultural traditions, celebrated with vibrant festivities and joyous gatherings. Old Year's Night, as New Year's Eve is affectionately known in Caribbean culture, represents a meaningful pause - a moment to reflect with deep gratitude on the year that's passing before embracing the promise and potential of the year ahead.
This year, experience an authentic Caribbean-style celebration at Tasting Queens Market, where the spirit of the islands comes alive through pulsating rhythms and infectious dance moves. The evening features a carefully curated tropical buffet showcasing the rich flavors of Caribbean cuisine, accompanied by lively music that will keep you moving until midnight. As the clock strikes twelve, raise your complimentary glass for a traditional toast to new beginnings.
Tasting Queens Market, renowned for their exceptional gourmet market-chef-tasting events and premium catering services, brings the authentic holiday traditions of the Caribbean to you. Their expertise in creating immersive culinary experiences ensures an unforgettable celebration.
Join them for an enchanting Old Year's Night filled with the warmth of community spirit. Let the festive décor transport you to a tropical paradise as you dance, dine, and welcome the new year surrounded by friends old and new.
Guests will enjoy complimentary party favors, a feast of Caribbean delicacies, and a special midnight toast to mark this momentous occasion. Tickets are $40. For more information visit https://tinyurl.com/y5j6nf6z

New Years Eve Party
Stewart's Tavern, 116 N Main Street
8 p.m.
Ring in the New Year in style at Stewart's Tavern! Join in for an unforgettable evening featuring their signature barbecue classics that have made them a local favorite. Their renowned menu of slow-smoked meats and homestyle sides has quickly earned them a reputation for exceptional dining.
As midnight approaches, raise your glass with a complimentary champagne toast to welcome the New Year. For more information visit: https://tinyurl.com/mr4eymw3

New Years Eve
American Legion Post 382, 305 Legion Drive, Sanford
2 p.m.
Join the American Legion Post 382 for a New Year's Eve celebration. The canteen will be open at 2 p.m. for all your dining needs, serving a variety of fresh food and beverages.
Back Alley Katts, the popular local band known for their energetic performances, will take the stage from 9 p.m. Don’t miss some good food and tunes to ring in the new year. For more information visit https://tinyurl.com/mryujnzh

‘Tis the season for gatherings and parties with family and friends. Christmas is fast approaching and the calendars are filling with ugly sweater socials, Christmas tree lightings, and all the fanfare in between. In honor of the season, The Sip Room is hosting a holiday cocktail-making class with Libations Mobile Bar.
Mark your calendars and get ready to learn the art of cocktail-making with a holiday theme on Friday, Dec. 13 from 7 p.m. to 9 p.m.
The Sip Room is located in the heart of downtown at 106 Hay Street. Tickets can be purchased online at https://bit.ly/3VrM1FX. Tickets include all supplies and entertainment will be provided.
Craft cocktails are truly an art form and once the basics are mastered, one’s imagination is the limit. That’s what the Holiday Cocktail-Making Class looks to offer. Attendees will walk away with a fundamental understanding of creating unique, one-of-a-kind craft cocktails.
Ariel Evans, North Carolina native, veteran and owner of Libations Mobile Bar, will teach the class and guide attendees step-by-step in creating the perfect cocktail—a skill they can use to impress their friends year-round. Evans spent 9 years in the military but always knew she would become an entrepreneur one day.
“I replaced my boots with a cocktail shaker and launched Libations in September 2022. I love nothing more than to create crafted cocktails and mocktails. I really enjoy making someone’s celebration special! If I am not working on making my events special, I am creating special moments for my family,” she said.
Although Evans has only been bartending for two years, her experience in the industry dates over a decade, working closely with masters of the craft.
She explained, “I bring over a decade of experience in the hospitality industry. Much of my bartending expertise comes from working closely with my team of seasoned bartenders, who each have over 15 years of experience. I consider myself fortunate to have been taught by the best in the industry.”
Her decision to open a mobile bar service wasn’t solidified until she paid a visit to a Charlotte bar.
“After a visit to Black Moth Bar in 2020 located in the Camp North End area of Charlotte, I found myself obsessed with the idea of a mobile bar. Black Moth was a transformed Airstream to bar concept. I quickly began pursuing the creation of Libations shortly after,” she said.
Her business has successfully created picture-perfect and taste-perfect craft cocktails for customers ever since. Evans is excited to bring her expertise to Fayetteville thanks to Santina Thomas, owner of The Sip Room.
“Attendees can look forward to an engaging and educational evening at our upcoming cocktail class! We’ll cover essential tools and cocktail-making techniques, all while enjoying a fun and lively atmosphere. Plus, there will be some light bites available while supplies last. It’s the perfect recipe for a great night out! Our upcoming cocktail class isn’t just about learning, it’s a fantastic opportunity to network and connect with new people. Feel free to come solo or bring a friend and enjoy a memorable evening of cocktails and conversation!” Thomas said.
For more information about Libations Mobile Bar services, visit the website at https://www.cheerslibationsmobilebar.com/ 

(Photo courtesy of Libations Mobile Bar)

The Cape Fear Studios is presenting their Annual Holiday Member’s show. The exhibit opened Nov. 22 and will be held until Jan. 7, 2025. Cape Fear Studios is located at 148 Maxwell Street, Fayetteville. They are open Tuesday through Friday, 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. and Saturday, 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. General admission to the public is free.
The exhibit features two- and three-dimensional art pieces of Cape Fear Studio members. The artists representing two-dimensional art (drawing painting, and photography) are Ray Im, Stanley Greaves, Sara Jane Lee, Sandie McFarlane, Rose Kennedy, Karen Moore, Gene Davis, Helen Zumbahlen, Steve Opet, Angela Stout, Edwina Clark and Annette Szcezktek. The Cape Fear members highlighting three-dimensional art (sculptures, statutes, carvings) are Ray Im, Stanley Greaves, Jaylene Nordgren, Guy Jencks, Curtis Barnes, Jill Dieffenbach, Pandy Autry and Nancy Edge.
According to Damian Skinner, “Jewelry is one of our oldest forms of creativity. It has a rich world of objects, types, materials, and relationship to the wearer.” The artists displaying jewelry in this exhibit are Larkin Pfeffer, Linda Sue Barnes and Gail Ferguson. Stan Simmons and Robert Helsel are displaying clay pieces.
Jill Dieffenbach shares her passion about membership in Cape Fear Studios.
“I began my journey as a potter 42 years ago in Fayetteville. I took pottery lessons through Fayetteville Park and Recreation programs and Fayetteville Technical Community College. I taught pottery at Fayetteville Technical College for 15 years in the Continuing Education Program. I have enjoyed being an active member of Cape Fear Studios for over 31 years. I take immense pride in helping Cape Fear Studios a beautiful place to view and experience art in our community,” she said.
The original artworks in the holiday exhibit are available for purchase and make great Christmas presents.
According to Adrian Reynolds, “Art is a gift that lasts a lifetime. When you purchase original art, you are purchasing a timeless piece of beauty that brings joy for years to come. The purchase of original art allows a glimpse of the artist mind and soul.”
Sarah Lyons, Psychology Art, and Connection states, “Art pieces in our living space create a sense of presence and connection, not only to ourselves but also the artist. Art can contribute to physical healing.”
Pandry Autry, Board Chairperson, Cape Fear Studios, shares, “Our members have been making new artwork for holiday shopping. We have a delightful selection of new pottery, paintings, small woodworks, and lots of ornaments. We also have a broad selection of pottery from last month’s exhibitors Stan Simmons and Robert Helsel. The gentlemen have been kind enough to display some of their artwork. Give the gift of art this holiday season.”
May the Spirit of the Holidays be with you throughout the New Year. For more information contact Cape Fear Studios at 910-433-2986.

(Photo by Lena Simmons)

Famed American dancer and choreographer Martha Graham once said, “Dance is the hidden language of the soul of the body.” Those who have stepped foot on a dance floor will attest to this sentiment. Ballet, ballroom, hip-hop, contemporary, jazz, and tap; if you can think of it, you can find a class in Fayetteville. The traditional forms of dance are not the only options.
Heel dance is a more modern dance form that has recently increased in popularity as social media highlights videos and reels of students and instructors enjoying an end-of-class choreographed dance.
Bettania “Bethany” Young is the owner of Heels Headquarters, Fayetteville’s only Heels dance studio. Young, a Hawaii native, has been active duty for 10 years and was stationed at Fort Liberty a year and a half ago. She started Heels Headquarters last September, growing every month and adding new classes and instructors.
Heel dancing incorporates several types of dance: heels, and high-energy movement and music. Young was introduced to heel dancing five years ago in San Antonio, Texas. She fell in love with the dance style and unexpectedly with herself again. Heels danced into Young’s life when she was not feeling the best about herself, especially as a new mother. This has been the driving force behind her offering heel dancing to the Fayetteville and Fort Liberty area.
“Heels Headquarters intent is to promote confidence. The whole intent was just to provide a space for people who were interested in exploring a new art form of dance,” she said. “If they think that dance is just something they can enjoy and have fun with, then I would be providing that space and half of it would be a fun experience, half of it would be a training experience.”
Those who have seen the various heel dancing videos online, know that it can be a little intimidating. Young doesn’t want that to deter people from coming in and trying at least one class. In San Antonio, Young is a popular heel dancer.
“I trained really hard for the past two years, where I just constantly took classes, and I spent so much money on classes [it’s] ridiculous. I went to a minimum of two classes a week. Then I started dancing a lot. I started getting recognized in San Antonio, so people started asking me to be a part of their showcases, their dance visual concepts, and some videos. So I was just like wow, I never thought that people would look at me that way, but they did. I finally produced my own video,” Young explained.
Bringing heel dancing to Fayetteville has been a great choice, as the women and men in the city have been filing into classes.
“Most women do like the atmosphere that we provide so I’ve been really happy about how it’s been going. The whole intention is just to build your confidence and that can do a lot for a military spouse. If you want to learn more about dance, and how to move your body and get retention going on with your mind, and retaining that choreo that we teach you, then that also helps in other beneficial ways [outside of dance]. In heels, you could use any style and make it into a heel style. So that’s the beauty [of] exploring heels. Just because you can do whatever is you feel, your niche,” Young said.
You can follow Heels Headquarters on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/byoungheelshq. For class schedule and to register visit the website at Heels Headquarters. Classes are held at 2700 Breezewood Avenue.

It takes work to keep up traditions within neighborhoods, even more so when those neighborhoods happen to be right next to one of the largest Army bases in the world.
Thankfully, Tina Young, and many of her neighbors, aren’t opposed to putting in a little elbow grease.
Young has lived in the Kinwood neighborhood since the 1970s. Sometime in the 1980s, Kinwood started helping and participating in the neighborhood Woodhaven Garden Club. A staple of the clubs is the now-known Kinwood Luminaries.
Even though the garden club was disbanded in the early 2000s, Young still helps with the Kinwood Luminaries. This decades-long tradition consists of placing candles in paper bags and lining most of the homes and neighborhood for a night in December.
Typically, the homeowners usually do the second Saturday in December. This year, the event will occur on Dec. 14th from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m.
While most viewers come to see a sea of lights that goes on and on, they get surprises from homeowners as well who want to add more to the festivities.
“One of the homes has their big speakers out and plays Christmas music,” Young says. “It’s just beautiful. You don’t even want to drive by, you want to walk by. Some do candy canes or puppet shows. There’s Santa Claus.”
Young says all the extra beyond the twinkling lights in the night are up to the individual homeowners.
Each homeowner that participates will purchase bags and lights from the committee with all the proceeds going to the upkeep of the neighborhood sign throughout the year.
Then the homeowners will place the bags out that night. This can be kind of tricky for the older homeowners, but their neighbors are always willing to help, Young says. They will come out to help those who can’t place the bags and take them back up again after the event.
The coordinator, Mary Elliott, will find teenagers to come help those homeowners.
“We all look out for each other. I think that’s one of the reasons the luminary event has always lasted,” she says. “People live such busy lives. This gives us time to catch up.”
And while riders will get to see the lights, the homeowners can usually be seen outside saying hello or watching the magic of what they’ve created on the faces of those who come from all over town to see flickering lights piercing holes in the dark of a December night.
“You just never know what you are going to see. My son, when he was young, said, ‘I’m going to dress in all red and stand on the front porch and play my trumpet.’”
Young laughs retelling the story. For a few years, Young’s son continued to stand on their porch during the event and play the trumpet.
As years have passed, some neighbors have moved on, but Young is so proud when new neighbors move in and they recount how they would always attend the event and now, they get to participate in it too.
The event is open to anyone to drive in and see the lights, and enjoy the spirit of Christmas. It will take ten to twenty minutes to get through the drive, according to Young.
As far as how many will attend, Young laughs.
“Well,” she says, “between 6 p.m. and 8 p.m., we can have bumper-to-bumper traffic. I couldn’t tell you how many people go through. We do have a pretty good participation.”
The neighborhood consists of about 300 homes and Methodist University also typically participates in the event since the neighborhood backs right up to the school.
“It’s festive. We get a lot of participation”
Kinwood neighborhood is located off Ramsey St., just passed Methodist University, on Kinlaw Rd.

This was a ceremony of assurance that whenever there’s the need, the XVIII Airborne Corps and the men and women in uniform on one of the largest military installations in the world will be there to answer that call.
They will be under the command of Lt. Gen. Gregory K. Anderson, who at 1:35 p.m. Friday, Dec. 6 became the 40th commander of the XVIII Airborne Corps, succeeding Lt. Gen. Christopher Donahue, who moves onward as commander of the U.S. Army Europe-Africa.
Donahue, 54, who served nearly three years as the military base commander, was scheduled on Saturday to depart Fort Liberty for Wiesbaden, Germany, headquarters for U.S. Army-Africa, and where he is expected for promotion as a four-star general.
“You are a better man, a hard act to follow,” Anderson told Donahue after a changing of the colors that unfolded before more than 500 people, including active-duty soldiers, veterans and political leaders from the Fayetteville community.
Anderson, according to his military resume, previously has served in a myriad of command positions, including assignments with the 7th Infantry Division, 1st Armored Division, 75th Ranger Regiment, United States Special Operations Command, the 173rd Infantry Brigade Combat Team (Airborne), United States Central Command, United States Africa Command and the 10th Mountain Division (Light). Anderson has deployed 17 times, including assignments in Haiti, Bosnia and Iraq.
“It’s a great responsibility,” said Anderson, San Jose, California, native and a 1991 U.S. Military Academy graduate. “We will not be distracted. Whenever the nation calls on the U.S., we will answer that call. Gen. Donahue, please accept my heartfelt congratulations for your command. This corps was always ready to answer your command. Best of luck as you transition overseas — godspeed.”
‘It starts at the top’
Gen. Andrew Poppas, commanding general of U.S. Army Forces Command on the military base, reminded all in attendance that the XVIII Airborne Corps is always ready to defend this nation with “tenacity and focus.”
He looked Donahue’s way, at the American soldier who deployed 20 times and oversaw the final withdrawal of U.S. soldiers from the long war in Afghanistan and was the last soldier to board a C-17 cargo aircraft on Aug. 30, 2021, at Hamid Karzai International Airport in Kabul.
“It starts at the top,” Poppas said. “C.D. has spent 18 years here with his soldiers, and a third of that time C.D. was deployed. C.D. and Mrs. Donahue … thank you.” He looked at the couple’s five children. “Kids, thank you for sharing your dad.”
He looked Anderson’s way.
“Today, Greg starts the next chapter of readiness,” Poppas said. “He’s a proven combat leader. He possesses keen strategic insight. Greg, your soldiers and America are counting on you.”
Donahue was humble in preparing to leave the military base, his soldiers and the neighboring Fayetteville community that is home to so many retired veterans who have served on Fort Liberty.
“The rest of my life people are going to say, ‘Donahue, I heard you were commander of the 18th,’” he said. “I will say, ‘People of the 18th are people willing to go anywhere in the world for a nation in crisis.’ I say it’s not about me. It’s about people I worked with. People will say, ‘How did you do it?’”
Donahue looked toward soldiers throughout the room.
“It was our people,” he said. “Our bosses gave us guidance. There were incredible units. Everyone you see up here has been deployed. I could have slept every day, and they would have done their job.”
A leader to remember
Donahue would remember those in this community, too, for support of Fort Liberty soldiers, and this community would remember Donahue.
Retired Gen. Dan K. McNeill described Donahue as an extraordinary military leader.
“He’s seen everything and he sees beyond the clouds,” said McNeill, the four-star general who grew up in Duplin County and commanded the 82nd Airborne Division, the XVIII Airborne Corps, the U.S. Army Forces Command, the Coalition Forces, Afghanistan from 2002 to 2003 and the U.S. Army Forces Command from 2004 to 2007. “He’s extraordinary.”
McNeill, who resides in Fayetteville, said that while Donahue will be missed on Fort Liberty, Donahue’s leadership as commander of the U.S. Army Europe-Africa “will be good for the country.”
N.C. Sen. Val Applewhite is a U.S. Air Force veteran. She sat alongside Tywanna Frazier, who worked as executive administrator for Donahue.
“I’ve met many generals,” Applewhite said before the ceremony. “I’ve seen him with the highest of officers to the young troops. You just can’t capture him in words. I will miss him tremendously.”
Frazier echoed the sentiment.
“I will miss how he takes care of his soldiers,” Frazier said, “and how he mentored his soldiers. I’m going to miss him.”
Dan Dederick is a retired Marine who is currently a civilian aide to the Army for North Carolina.
“I will miss his leadership,” Dederick said. “I’ve never seen somebody in so many places.”
Cumberland County Board of Commissioners Chair Kirk deViere joined with fellow commissioners Pavan Patel, Henry Tyson and Veronica Jones in remembering Donahue for immersing himself into the Cumberland County community.
“C.D. and his family are part of our community,” said deViere, 54, a military veteran. “His leadership brought our military community even closer together because he truly understands what makes our county special and the amazing connection we’ve always had with our service members. You could always count on him to reach out and find ways to work together.”
Dec. 6's farewell would belong to Donahue’s family and his soldiers.
Lt. Gen. Donahue interacts with other soldiers in a gymnasium, all wearing their camo uniforms. His wife holds his right soldier as she interacts with a child.
“I have decades and decades of friends in and out of uniform,” Donahue said in poignant remarks before casting his eyes toward his wife, Devon, and five children. “I have unlimited love for my family, and in the last several months, my unlimited love has grown more.”
You could feel this tender moment, when a decorated American soldier was simply a proud husband and father.
Then, a last farewell to his XVIII Airborne Corps and Fort Liberty soldiers.
“Obviously, it’s very difficult to say goodbye,” Donahue said, his voice choking. “I’ll miss you. Airborne all the way.”

(Photo: Lt. Gen. Gregory Anderson takes the XVIII Airborne Corps colors from Gen. Andrew Poppas, United States Forces Command commander, signifying his taking command of the corps during the XVIII Airborne Corps Change of Command Ceremony at Fort Liberty, Dec. 6. The ceremony underscores the XVIII Airborne Corps' legacy as the nation’s premier response force for global contingencies. U.S. Army photo by Sgt. Jacob Bradford)

As a mother and now a grandmother, I cannot help asking that question.
Since the beginning of time, parents have feared for our children’s health and safety, often with good reason. Children are accident-prone, partly from lack of life experience, and they get sick. Over time, we have addressed children’s needs with safety gear like car seats and bicycle helmets, preventative measures like swimming lessons, and medical tools including antibiotics and vaccines against diseases that historically disable and kill them.
It has felt like we are making progress.
But we are wrong. Very wrong when it comes to children and firearms.
The leading cause of child and teen death in the United States is no longer vehicle accidents or diseases like cancer. It is gunshots, both accidental and intentional. Let that sink in for a moment. While our young people are dying from those causes as well as drugs including hard to control and highly lethal fentanyl, guns take more young lives than any other cause.
No other peer nation in the world even comes close to that grim statistic.
KKF, a health policy organization, reported 4733 gun deaths in children between 1- 19 in the United States in 2021. Canada (2019 data) was next with 48. Other than our two countries, no other nation reported firearms among the top 5 causes of death for young people.
If that is not enough to convince Americans that we have a real and growing problem—crisis is probably a better word—on our hands, consider this from Pew Research. While the alarming rise in firearm child fatalities is part of an overall increase in gun deaths, it is a dramatic part. Between 2019 and 2021, the number of children killed by firearms increased by 50 percent. Pew Research also reports that the majority of these deaths in children were homicides, fully 60 percent, with suicides accounting for 32 percent. Only 5 percent of those deaths were accidental. Of childhood deaths by firearms, older children 12-17, are more likely at 86 percent of gun deaths to be killed than younger children, and boys are far more likely to die by gunshot than girls, 83 percent to 17 percent. It is difficult to assess the magnitude of non-fatal gunshot injuries, but experts estimate them at 2 to 4 times greater than gunshot fatalities.
So how is all this violence and death affecting children and teenagers?
KKF and other researchers have found correlations between gun violence and significant problems for children and teenagers who have experienced gun violence themselves and many who simply fear it. These include post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety of varying levels, poor school performance, school absenteeism, and mental health issues, including clinical depression and suicide.
We all love our children and grandchildren and want them to be safe and to grow into productive and happy adults. None of us want them to be afraid or to suffer from anxiety or mental health problems. Our greatest fear is that they are injured or even killed, as increasing numbers of America’s children are. Children profoundly affected by firearms may not be yours or mine, but they belong to and are loved by someone.
So, the question becomes, why are we not addressing the issues of firearm proliferation and firearm violence in meaningful ways before the fact instead of weeping after a gunshot tragedy?
Could it be that we love our guns more than we love our children?