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  •     Weren’t George W. Bush’s years great? Didn’t you have a lot of fun? Bet you are better off now than you were in 2000. Everything was really swell for eight glorious years. I get all misty eyed remembering the dandy times we had under the Great Decider. Watching him reading “My Pet Goat” on 9/11, faking weapons of mass destruction, invading Iraq, occupying Iraq, dodging shoes in Iraq, ratting out a CIA agent, watching New Orleans drown, letting Dick Cheney shred civil liberties, melting down stock markets, vanishing retirement savings, bailing out crooks on Wall Street. Those were the good old days. I really liked Cheney’s theory that in order to save the Constitution it was necessary to destroy the Constitution. The Bush years were more fun than a barrel of rabid monkeys. All in all, like the Federal Emergency Management Agency’s goofy director Brownie during Katrina, President Bush has done a heckuva a job. We’re gonna miss him.
        When Bush ran for office way back in 2000 he promised to be a “uniter.” That may have been the only true thing he said in eight years. With the help of Karl “Boy Genius” Rove, Bush did unite America — against him and the Republican party. A recent poll has 76 percent of Americans united in thinking the country is going in the wrong direction. It takes a special kind of President to get 76 percent of Americans to agree on anything but W managed to do it. Thank you President Bush for bringing us all together, even if it ultimately will be standing next to each other in bread lines.
        By the time this column appears, W’s reign of error will be down to a mere fortnight. Hold onto your food stamps though, there’s no telling what wild and crazy things he will be able to pull off during his last two weeks in office. Remember, it’s always darkest before the storm. If we are all lucky, he’ll just hang out in Crawford. If we’re not so lucky, he’ll have time to bomb Iran or North Korea as a going away gift to the world. Who knows? Maybe he’ll just bomb Bermuda. We should be able to win a war with Bermuda in his last two weeks so he can have a real “Mission Accomplished” moment. We certainly want to send him off in a cloud of positive self-esteem.
        {mosimage}Pondering the end of Bush’s term, I am reminded of the subtle quote in 1974 by Nicholas Von Hoffman who was referring to President Nixon right before Nixon resigned in disgrace. Nick felt it was time for Nixon to go and called out Nixon as “a dead rat on America’s kitchen floor” that needed to be removed. This comment caused a bit of controversy, and got Nick fired from 60 Minutes.
        Despite our financial gloom, all is not lost. Skateboarders in California have discovered a silver lining to the clouds of the foreclosure storms. It turns out that many of the rapidly multiplying abandoned foreclosed homes in California have swimming pools. These swimming pools when emptied of water make excellent skate board ramps. The skaters locate the foreclosed homes with pools on realtor Internet sites and take pumps with them to empty the pools so they can skate. This serves two useful purposes — skaters get exercise and the pools get emptied. The undrained pools at abandoned houses tend to fill up with green slime, deceased animals and West Nile virus carrying mosquitos causing some interesting Third World public health hazards to occur right in American suburbia. Double yikes!
        Skaters can’t do it all though. There are too many abandoned pools for them to drain. What we need is a core of workers to drain America’s green slime-filled pools. Fortunately, America does have a group of individuals trained as financial blood suckers whose talents could be easily switched to sucking out pool scum. We could use the CEO’s of the Wall Street investment banks who came up with the brilliant derivatives schemes that resulted in our current economic Armageddon to suck out the green pools. Provide the wizards at Lehman Brothers, Merrill Lynch, Bear Sterns and other financial outfits a case of flexible straws, put orange jump suits on them and let them start sucking out scum from abandoned pools.

    Contact Pitt Dickey at editor@upandcomingweekly.com 

  •     Award winning political cartoonist Dennis Draughon — whose illustrations will be on display at Gallery 208 beginning Jan. 22 — says his career path was strewn with peanuts.
        “When I was in the fifth grade I used to draw Snoopy and I would mail the drawings to Peanuts creator Charles Schultz,” said Draughon via a telephone interview from his Raleigh home. “He sent me letters encouraging me to keep it up. I kept one of those framed letters hanging on my wall for years.”
        Though Draughon never met the late, great creator of Charlie Brown, Linus, Lucy and Pigpen, Schultz’s early interest in the artist as a young man paved the way for Draughon to produce biting, satirical cartoons that have appeared in countless newspapers. You probably know him best by his illustrations that appear regularly on the editorial page of The Fayetteville Observer. His work is also published weekly in The Durham News and other media outlets affiliated with the Capitol Press Association.
        {mosimage}Despite being known as a “cartoonist,” Draughon’s work should still be considered art, said Tom Grubb, executive director of the Fayetteville Museum of Art.
        “This is an important exhibit because it is a way to point out that cartooning is part of the visual arts,” said Grubb. “Political cartoons show what is going on in the world around us.”
        While Draughon earned his early illustrating chops with drawings of the “famous World War I flying ace” battling the Red Baron from atop a doghouse, Draughon attributes his success to a specific failure: Draughon failed the physical exam for entrance into the Air Force Academy, which led him to enroll at North Carolina State University, where he studied aerospace engineering, history and visual design. While enrolled at State, he first dipped his feet into the world of ink and political satire, spending eight years as the editorial cartoonist for the student newspaper, The Technician.
        And, in a stroke of pure synchronicity, the man who sponsored Draughon in his failed attempt at joining the Air Force would later become one of the cartoonist’s favorite targets when he put pen to paper: the late Sen. Jesse Helms.
    “I’ve had friendly relations with many of my targets,” said Draughon. “Senator Helms was a great help to me. And even though we could not be further apart politically, after we met I found that I really liked him a lot.”
    Draughon says he never allows personal feelings to come into play when he draws one of his politically charged cartoons.
        “When I worked for the Scranton Times Tribune in the ‘90s, I made the city’s mayor a frequent target,” said Draughon. “I liked the guy personally, but I felt he had no business being a mayor. I drew him with really big ears... a very goofy persona. But we had lunch together all the time. It’s never personal... It’s just business.”
        Closer to home, Draughon has made Fayetteville Mayor Tony Chavonne his target more than once.
    For his part, Chavonne — former general manager of The Fayetteville Observer — says he enjoys Draughon’s caricatures.
        “It comes with the territory,” said Chavonne. “I enjoy his work, even when I’m the brunt of it. We’re lucky to have such a talented cartoonist drawing for The Fayetteville Observer.
        Draughon says folks with exaggerated physical features are easier to draw. His all-time favorite subjects include a couple of presidents — Ronald Reagan, Bill Clinton and George W. Bush.
        “Pretty people are usually harder to draw,” said Draughon. “If they don’t have a big nose or big ears, then those characters don’t come easy to me.”
        While Draughon says he has “no regrets” about anyone he’s ever lampooned on the editorial page, he says that a certain President-elect causes a pause in the pens of many cartoonists.
        “A lot of cartoonists are hesitant about how they draw Obama because of the racial connotations,” said Draughon. “Mainly because most of them are white. There aren’t a whole lot of women or minorities in this business.”
        Actually, there aren’t a whole lot of cartoonists in the editorial cartoon business. Draughon says the proliferation of the Internet and other mass media has reduced the number of full-time political cartoonists from 300 to about 80.
    Despite the slim odds of achieving success as an editorial cartoonist in the current climate, whenever aspiring illustrators send him samples of their work Draughon remembers the early guidance of Schultz — and other mentors such as well-known cartoonist Doug Marlette.
        “I always offer these up and coming cartoonists encouragement,” said Draughon. “Just like I received from Schultz all those years ago.”
        And despite the limited number of cartoonists currently harpooning political figures with a sharpened quill, Draughon feels there may be more opportunities for cartoonists in the future, thanks to the same device that has submarined many of his contemporaries: “The Internet may provide an outlet for more and more cartoonists,” said Draughon.
        However, Draughon advises would-be cartoonists to follow their art with their heart, not their wallets.
        After all, he started out working for peanuts.
        The premiere party for the Draughon exhibit will be Jan. 22 from 5-7 p.m. at Gallery 208 in the Up and Coming Weekly offices, 208 Rowan St.

    Contact Tim Wilkins at tim@upandcomingweekly.com 

  • (Editor’s Note: Margaret is beginning a several week visit to India, and has elected to print some of her favorite columns from the past. We hope you enjoy them.)           

        We have just come through the season of giving, and I am always humbled by just how giving we Americans are. In 2005, we dug into our pockets to help victims of natural disasters ranging from tsunamis to hurricanes to earthquakes.     We went to far-flung locations to provide physical assistance and moral support. We also gave to our local causes even though many of us had already blown through our budgets for charitable giving.
        Americans are a generous people.
        We can also be incredibly rude.
        A cousin and I traveled in southeast Asia last fall, a wonderful and memorable experience in all kinds of ways. Airline travel in that part of the world was an unexpected delight. Thai Airways even had vases of orchids in the onboard restrooms, but the service really shone. Lovely and slender young women in uniforms patterned after traditional Thai dress floated down the aisles with bottles of wine, inquiring whether we would like more red or white.
        {mosimage}I know, of course, that Americans no longer tolerate employment requirements about gender, weight and makeup, but we do tolerate what seems to me an increasing level of rudeness in our culture.
        This was brought home to my cousin and me several times on our trip. The first was an American man who loudly berated airline personnel in Bangkok because our late trans-Pacific flight caused him to miss his connection. He shouted at counter agents, who, of course, had nothing to do with the delayed flight, demanding that they buy him a train ticket to his next stop and give him a meal voucher even though we had just had a large breakfast on the plane. Everyone within earshot was embarrassed.
        Another tilt on the rude-o-meter came once we were back in the United States on a domestic airline on the way to the East Coast. A flight attendant — a middle-aged woman with a loud voice and dirty hair — was selling earphones for $2 to passengers who wanted to watch a movie or listen to music. The man seated in front of me had been coughing and as the earphone-hawking attendant passed his seat he asked her politely for something to drink. Her reaction left him — and me — speechless.
        “Does this look like a beverage cart to you?” she snapped, adding that she would deal with drinks after she finished selling the earphones.
        I do not know whether that poor fellow ever got his water, but I do know that in addition to safety training, that airline should consider bringing on Miss Manners as a consultant.
        None of us really know whether Americans were more courteous and polite in past generations, but I suspect that our “Me! Me! Me!” culture of today with the emphasis on individual rights and self-fulfillment has created, at best, less sensitivity for the feelings of others, and, at worst, a lot of truly rude people.
        I hear cell phones go off in meetings and in movie theaters. I see people all the time interrupting actual face-to-face conversations to take cell phone calls, leaving others to stand by and listen to personal, even intimate discussions with who-knows-who on the other end of the wireless call. I deal with surly store clerks who begrudge me their time and effort even though I may buy some item or service for which they might receive a commission. I receive emails from people who write things I doubt they would ever say in person. I see motorists make obscene gestures and mouth curses to others drivers.
        The list of rudeness is endless, and I know you see it, too.
        Just out of curiosity, I did a search on the word “manners.” My grandmother called manners the glue of society and said they are what keep us from killing each other. The search did not quote my grandmother, but it did turn up several insights on the concepts of manners and of rudeness. Eric Hoffer observes that “Rudeness is the weak man’s imitation of strength.” Margaret Walker and Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas had similar takes. They said, respectively, “Friends and good manners will carry you where money won’t go,” and “Good manners will open doors that the best education cannot.” George Bernard Shaw’s Henry Higgins tells his waif-in-training-to-be-a-lady that “The great secret,     Eliza, is not having bad manners or good manners or any other particular sort of manners, but having the same manners for all human souls.” Emily Post, the Miss Manners of her day, put it this way: “Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners no matter what fork you use.”
        My favorite, though, comes from an unknown author and it pretty much sums up the concept of manners for me.
        “Treat everyone with politeness, even those who are rude to you — not because they are nice, but because you are.”

        Contact Margaret Dickson at editor@upandcomingweekly.com 

  •     The end of a year gives us the opportunity to reflect on the highlights of the past year and to look ahead to the challenges and great opportunities that await us.
        Your city council enjoyed success in 2008 by demonstrating a new commitment to this city, its citizens and its government through Fayetteville Forward. We saw more collaboration between the city and our partners, working with PWC to develop a $200 million sewer extension plan for western Fayetteville; with the military on the annexation of Fort Bragg; and with Cumberland County on a growth management strategy.
        {mosimage}We listened more to citizens, involving them in task forces for recycling, transit, studies of Ramsey Street and Murchison Road, and the Fayetteville Museum of Art location. We started moving city council meetings to the neighborhoods and now aggressively recruit, train and mentor citizens for our boards and commissions.
        We raised the development standards with the approval of ordinances regulating Storm Water, Big Box development, non-conforming junk yards and temporary storage containers.
    Improving our neighborhoods was a focus of the council. We continued our commitment to pave soil streets in the city; demolished dozens of dilapidated buildings; restricted panhandling and increased buffers between night clubs, day cares and schools.
        We saw the continued development of downtown Fayetteville with the approval of the Hope VI project; plans for the N.C. State Veterans Park, the Northwest Gateway; and a new Multi Modal Center. 
        We put more sworn officers on the streets and significantly increased the number of citations written and Fayetteville was recently ranked as one of the safest large cities in North Carolina.
        We continued to diversify our economy with more technology-based jobs opportunities. Our per-capita income grew by almost 8 percent last year ranking us number one in North Carolina.
        We showed our commitment to transit through increased funding; upgraded the fleet and improved the routes as the first steps towards an improved transit system.
        We organized to take advantage of the opportunities for growth with BRAC and broke ground for the Military Business Park. And we reached out to support the soldiers and airmen as well as their families while they defend our freedom throughout the world. This council continued its commitment to our environment with the implementation of residential curbside recycling; a requirement for litter receptacles outside businesses and two Fayetteville Beautiful community-wide cleanups. Fayetteville’s future is a bright one. You will continue to see us make progress as we focus on several key areas for next year.
        We have to bring more and better jobs to the community by recruiting military contractors and working with others to further develop our workforce and prepare them for the jobs of tomorrow. We will work to grow smarter.
        We’ll approve the Joint 2030 Growth Vision Plan and its new policies for zoning, sewer extensions, and annexation. We will implement the changes from the comprehensive review of the city’s zoning codes.
        We will get organized to address the recommendations of the BRAC RTF Growth Management Plan report and prepare our community for the upcoming growth opportunities.
        We will strengthen our commitment to reducing our crime rates with more resources and attention in this critical area.
        We will resolve the growing parking problem in downtown Fayetteville and break ground on the N.C. Veterans Park as well as replacing hundreds of homes in the first stages of the Hope VI project.
        We’ll work to expand the existing recycling efforts into multifamily housing and commercial areas. We’ll continue to push for a greener city with more trees and green space and a healthier environment.
        We will work with the parks and recreation board to prioritize and identify funding plans to begin to address the facility needs identified in the master plan.
        We will continue our plans to pave soil streets, raise development and appearance standards and provide additional funding for more sidewalks in high traffic areas. And we will continue our efforts to end homelessness in our city.
    We will improve the transit system with a comprehensive redesign of the routes, additional funding and better coordination with the county, Fort Bragg and Pope.
        We are working hard to make Fayetteville a more attractive, clean and peaceful city; one with economic opportunity for all.
        That great city is within our grasp.
        We ask for your continued support and prayers. Pray for our military neighbors. Give us wisdom and guidance as we help lead this city to an even brighter future.  May God bless you and our great city.
  •     “Father God I am clay in your hands, help to stay that with through all of life’s demands because they chip and they nag and they pull at me and every little thing I make up my mind to be …. And I pray that I’m an artist that rises above the road that is wide and full of self-love.”
        Those are the words that kick-off Toby Mac’s “Lose My Soul,” one of the singles from his latest offering Portable Sounds. The singer/songwriter, who has been called “one of the 50 most influential evangelical leaders in America,” will headline Winter Jam 2009, one of the biggest Contemporary Christian tours to hit the roads. The 10-week tour brings together some of Christian music’s biggest names for a “house party” that is more about touching the soul than raising the roof.
        {mosimage}In addition to great music, the tour brings evangelist Tony Nolan to the stage to share the word of God in an environment designed to open hearts and change lives. Nolan, the son of a homeless, mentally-ill prostitute, was put in foster care where he suffered unspeakable abuse at the hands of his own foster parents. For the first three years of his life, he was repeatedly sexually abused, brutally beaten and thrown down flights of stairs for sport and burned with cigarettes when he refused to perform perverted sexual acts. At age 3, Tony was adopted by a poor and dysfunctional family for only $200. His adopted father beat and verbally abused Tony regularly. In drunken rages he would often look at Tony in disgust and demand, “Is this all my $200 got me?! I wish I’d never bought you.”
        By the age of 13, he was hooked on drugs and looking for a way out. While contemplating suicide, Nolan was given the word of God, and it not only touched his life, it changed it. Since then, he has seen his role as “helping people get it about God’s great love and salvation.” One way he does that is participating in events like Winter Jam.
    Since its inception, Winter Jam has consistently led Pollstar’s rankings in attendance. This past year was no different. In 2008, the tour averaged 9,172 in nightly attendance, which gave it a ranking of fourth in Pollstar’s first quarter ticket sales, topping Hannah Montana/Miley Cyrus, the Police and the Foo Fighters. More important to the event organizers than the numbers is the people whose lives are changed — and that goes beyond ticket sales, but unless people are there, organizers understand they can’t hear the “life changing” gospel of Jesus.
        When you look at the sheer number and fame of the bands on the lineup, you would think the tickets would be through the roof. But that isn’t the case. Winter Jam has, from the beginning, had a “no tickets” policy that allows concert attendees to pay a flat $10 fee at the door for admission. That’s a lot of  bang for your buck.
    Winter Jam comes to the Crown Coliseum on Saturday, Jan. 10. The show starts at 6 p.m.
        This year’s lineup includes punk pop group Hawk Nelson, Brandon Heath (the GMA New Artist of the Year,) Francesca Battistelli and Stephanie Smith. At select dates, The Afters, Family Force 5 and BarlowGirl will also be on stage. That kind of lineup makes the wait at the box office well worth the price.
        TobyMac says it is his passion that keeps his music relevant. “Passion for my art drives me so long as I feel the Most High breathing new songs through me,” he said. “Over the years, I have noticed some consistency in what I appeal to God for, like ‘Help me remember what this is all about … God, I don’t want to be that jaded man. I don’t want to be that hardened artist. I want to remain soft in your hands, so that you can shape me into a vessel that you can breathe through’ … I expected great, amazing things while recording this record. I’m not talking about sales or first week numbers or critics. I’m talking about people’s lives being touched.”

        Contact Janice Burton at editor@upandcomingweekly.com
  •     At the outset of 2008, much of the nation’s attention was focused on two things: the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq and the presidential elections. As the election got closer, the war receded to the background and the economy and gas prices took center stage. In the opening minutes of 2009, politics and the economy will still be the most important issues to many in the nation — Cumberland County is no exception.
        As 2008 got underway, both the county and the City of Fayetteville were focused on water — clean drinking water. Residents in western Fayetteville were faced with contaminated wells, as were citizens in the western portion of the city. Both governments began researching efforts to get water to the citizens in the affected areas. In Fayetteville, PWC expanded water services to residents in their areas, and just a week before the end of 2008, the county worked out a plan to provide water to county residents via an agreement with neighboring counties.
       {mosimage}In January 2008, the Crown Coliseum celebrated its 10th anniversary with a sold-out concert featuring Kelly Clarkson and Reba McEntire. The concert was the first of several sold-out shows at the coliseum throughout 2008. For much of the year, local resident Paul Beard was at the helm of the Crown; as 2008 drew to a close, Beard, along with marketing director Wind Lawson and Fair Manager Hubert Bullard, came under fire, with Beard and Lawson resigning their positions. Bullard was informed his contract would not be renewed. Going into 2009, the county is looking at a national search to find new management for the facility.
        The state of the less fortunate in our community was discussed throughout much of the beginning of 2008. A new panhandling ordinance passed by the City of Fayetteville in January 2008, drew approval from some segments of the community, but disapproval from homeless advocates. Those who work with the homeless on a daily basis argued that the panhandling ban would have adverse affects on the homeless in the community. At the same time, they took the opportunity to bring the real problems of homelessness in the city to the forefront, asking the city to put as much of a focus on homelessness as it did on panhandling.
        Parking also became an issue, as city consultants brought a comprehensive parking plan to downtown. The plan focused on the cost of parking — not just to the city — but also to those who use parking downtown. As 2009 winds down, not much as has been achieved in this arena, but it’s an area the city will have to tackle sooner rather than later.
        2008 saw the approval of a new landmark in downtown — the N.C. State Veterans Park. In February, the city unveiled plans for the $15 million park. It caused a great deal of excitement in the community, as well as controversy. Part of the park’s plan called for commercial development in Rowan Street Park. Local residents appeared en masse to fight that aspect of the development. Their voice was heard, and with the exception of the Rowan Park development, the Veterans Park proposal moved forward, gaining funding through the N.C. Legislature. The city has received the first half of the funding for the park, and has begun work on plans.
        With veterans gaining much-deserved recognition, a controversy at the VA Medical Center also gained headlines. At the center of the controversy was a debate over the placement of religious paraphernalia in the chapel. A VA administrator from Virginia ordered the removal of the religious accouterments from the chapel, which resulted in the resignation from the center of its chaplain.
        In April, the city took a critical look at the city’s transportation needs. The transit task force tackled the issue of improving the city’s transit system, which could only be described as substandard. With the work of the task force and the hiring of a new management staff, the transit system made strides over 2008. New buses were put into service, routes were shortened and changed, and money — a lot of money — was added to the transit system budget. That, according to city leaders, was only a drop in the bucket of what is really needed to improve the system.     “We are only trying to get to the state average,” said Fayetteville Mayor Tony Chavonne.
        The city also took a hard look at its appearance, with Fayetteville Beauty, a volunteer project headed by City Council Bobby Hurst, making the city’s appearance important.
        Honoring the men and women of the community was also important in 2008 — from the Field of Honor to an AUSA Welcome Home Concert to the Army’s Army Fayetteville embraced its relationship to the military and showed its support to the men and women in uniform.
        As the summer got in full swing, Fayetteville, like the rest of the nation, was held captive by the rising gas prices. With gas near $4 a gallon, many in the community stayed home and took advantage of the many community events sponsored by nonprofits in the community. At the center of many of these events was Festival Park. As the year wound down, Festival Park was still central to community discussion –— but those discussion revolved around the proposed construction of the new Fayetteville Museum of Art. With the year winding down, the Museum Task Force, appointed by the city, took a break for the holidays. When it reconvenes in 2009, the task force will again tackle the finances of the museum as it relates to the sustainability of the facility.
        In the political arena, it was a year of firsts: the first African-American president was elected; the first female North Carolina governor prepares to step into office; and in Cumberland County, a female — Jeannette Council — took over as chairman of the county commissioners.

    Contact Janice Burton at editor@upandcomingweekly.com















     
     






     
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  •     Can you spell “success?”
        That’s the word of the day if you’re planning on attending The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee at the Crown Theatre on Jan. 6.
        The Tony-Award winning musical comedy has been wildly successful, earning critical raves across the country. The production follows six students — all in varying stages of pubescent awkwardness — as they attempt to win the spelling bee, a victory that will earn the winner a trophy and a $200 savings bond, plus a trip to Washington D.C., for the national finals. Along the way, the child spellers (played by adults) learn the true meanings of life lessons such as the importance of self-awareness and that winning, while worth striving for, is not the end all and be all.
        {mosimage}It is also something of an audience participation gig, as four volunteer audience members are pulled onto the stage to “compete” in the spelling bee. Fair warning: The words doled out to the volunteers are nigh on impossible to spell, so be prepared for a little consonant confusion if you’re lucky (or unlucky) enough to be chosen as one of the four.
        The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee is based on C-R-E-P-U-S-C-U-L-E, an original play by The Farm improv group in New York City. The musical had its world premiere production in July 2004 at Barrington Stage Company in Sheffield, Mass. Under the direction of James Lapine, Putnam County Spelling Bee officially opened off-Broadway on Feb. 7, 2005, at Second Stage Theatre, where it ran from Jan. 11 through March 20, 2005.
        Critics were effusive about the production, with The New York Times’critic writing, “Can you spell i-r-r-e-s-i-s-t-i-b-l-e? Putnam County Spelling Bee is riotously funny and remarkably ingenious. Gold stars all around.”
        And a critic for the Wall Street Journalcalled it, “perfect in every possible way — that rarity of rarities, a super-smart musical that is also a bona fide crowd-pleaser. An ingenious blend of simplicity and sophistication, it’s not merely funny, it’s wise.”
        Actor Ryan Goodale, who plays Leaf Coneybear, said that he was a fan of the show long before he became a member of the cast.
        “First of all, it’s hysterically funny,” said Goodale. “I saw it three times on Broadway before I even auditioned for the touring company just because I loved it so much. The other thing is that it’s a William Finn show, which means that it has a serious undertone. Later in the piece, the things that the kids are going through come out and the songs become more heartwarming and poignant. You end up caring for them because what they say — or sing — is so honest.”
        The 25th Annual Putnam County County Spelling Bee will play at the Crown Theatre on Tuesday, Jan. 6, beginning at 7:30 p.m. Ticket prices are $25, $30, $35 and $45. For more information, call the Crown at (910) 438-4100, or check it out via Internet at www.crowncoliseum.com.

    Contact Tim Wilkins at tim@upandcomingweekly.com







  • “Spend more time with my family and exercise more.”
    Cumberland County Manager James Martin

    “To get closer to God and to spend more time with my family.”
    Keith A. Bates Sr.

    “While I don’t actually make annual resolutions, the turning of the clock’s
    hands from one year to the next favors, in me, a periodic review of my own
    attitudes and habits. For 2009, a couple of these I’d like to improve upon
    — committing to and maintaining a more regular exercise and conditioning
    program; and a need for me to take pause and appreciate the moment — the
    moments of life move all too quickly through our paths, and I need to be
    more attentive to each and every one of them in a positive, appreciative
    way, for their pleasures and memories can be taken for granted all too easily.”
    Robin Jenkins, Ph.D.
    Cumberland County CommuniCare, Inc.

    “I have two resolutions, actually — one personal, and one professional. The first is to pay more attention to my family — to make sure that their needs are being met and that I’m able to be a good husband and father. My second resolution is to be better organized. I’ve spent the first six months in my role in Fayetteville trying to sort through history and getting my arms around where we are as a community and, more importantly, where we’re going. I’ve pledged to myself that I’ll do a better job of staying organized as we ramp up new products, services and offerings to Chamber members!”
    Douglas S. Peters, IOM
    President & CEO, Fayetteville-Cumberland County Chamber of Commerce

    {mosimage}“I’m going to try not to do as much shopping in the New Year. I don’t normally make resolutions, but because of the economy I think that’s one I need to stick to. It’s a mindset... mind over matter. Also, I want to be nicer to people.”
    Judy Dawkins,
    Director, Retired and Senior Volunteer Program

    “To provide the very best services to our citizens.”
    J. Breeden Blackwell, Cumberland County Commissioner

    “Spend more time with my wife and family.
    Stick to my exercise program.
    Continue to work for the improvement of Fayetteville.”
    Dale E. Iman
    City Manager
    City of Fayetteville

    “My New Year’s Resolution is to recruit new better-paying jobs to Fayetteville.”
    Fayetteville Mayor Tony Chavonne

    “My desire for the upcoming 2009 year is to have a better, improved Christian
    lifestyle. I have found in my life that when I live better for Chirst I make
    the best ‘decisions’ regardless of what the subject is, and I’m surrounded
    by His favor.”
    Darrell Haire,
    Fayetteville City Councilman

    “I want to continue to make the best decisions I can with the information I have so all 305,000 citizens of Cumberland County can see their new year’s wishes come true.”
    Dr. Jeannette Council,
    Chairman Cumberland County Commissioners



  •     At the outset of 2008, the newly elected Fayetteville City Council signed the Fayetteville Forward Pledge. The idea behind the pledge was multifaceted. It was designed to establish a way for the city council to do business, but also to show city residents they were serious about tackling tough issues.
        During the first 100 days, the council tackled a number of issues and in doing so, changed the way many in the community looked at local government. Fayetteville Mayor Tony Chavonne sees that change as one of many important changes that happened in the city over the course of 2008. Chavonne said that much of what was accomplished by the city during the year wasn’t high profile, but was important nonetheless.
        Chavonne explained that 2008 could be looked at as the “product development stage” for the city. “We know we have a lot of opportunities facing us, and in 2008, we did the things we had to do to get us ready for those opportunities,” he said.
        {mosimage}For Chavonne, many of the projects tackled by the city during this “product development stage” came from an article he read on a blog. “I carry this article in my wallet. It was written by a military spouse who had lived in Fayetteville, and was facing the opportunity of coming back. She wrote that she would never come back here until the city was a more attractive, more peaceful city. That really struck me. All the things we’ve done over this past year — implementing a recycling program, improving our transit system, tearing down 100 dilapidated buildings, raising development standards — have all been a part of the effort to improve the product... What we are as a community.”
        Chavonne said it is important not to lose sight of the fact that these projects are not just window dressing designed to attract people to the community, but rather they are designed to make the city more attractive, cleaner and more peaceful for everyone who lives in the community.
        Some of the not so sexy but important projects tackled by the city in 2008 include the finalization of funding for the $215 sewer extension without a tax increase or PWC rate increase; the establishment of a municipal influence area to control growth and establish standards for it, which will keep the city from having to retrofit in the future.
        “We can’t just accept growth, we have to grow smarter,” he said. “By having these plans in place, we can grow smarter.”
        He noted that for more than 20 years Fayetteville could not annex, and development occurred in a haphazard manner, with subdivisions served by septic tanks and wells, no sidewalks or other urban standards. It is those areas of uncontrolled growth that are now causing problems for the city.
        He noted that the city has had its share of challenges over the year and expects many of them to flow into 2009. He said the biggest challenge is, and will continue to be, lack of resources to do what needs to be done, particularly as it relates to BRAC (Base Realignment and Closure.)
        “We are going to find it difficult to find money to build the schools and roads that we are going to need,” he said, pointing to the current fight for funding for the planned I-295 loop. “We can’t lose that funding, and we need millions in school construction.”
        He noted that key to the city’s success this past year, and in the future, is improved citizen participation in government. He noted that the task forces organized by the city to tackle issues like recycling, transit and now the museum, have been important in resolving the issues.
        He said that the continued growth of downtown is also a bright spot in the city’s future. In the past 10 years, more than $67 million has been invested in downtown. In the next five years if you count the Hope VI grant and the N.C. State Veterans Park, close to $200 million will be spent in the area. “What’s going to happen in the next five years is going to be huge,” said Chavonne. “We are going to have some challenges — like parking — but we will make it happen.”
        He said the success of downtown’s revitalization has not gone unnoticed. “We are getting frequent calls from people who have heard about downtown who want to be a part of it. We are getting people coming with ideas that we didn’t get three years ago,” he said. “This is an exciting time for our community and we are going to do our best to make it a reality.”

    Contact Janice Burton at editor@upandcomingweekly.com

  •     Times are tough... and they’re probably going to get tougher.
        You don’t need a politician to tell you that.
        However, N.C. State Sen. Tony Rand drove home the point about just how heated an economic battle we’re waging when he spoke at Fayetteville Technical Community College on Dec. 15.
        Rand was at FTCC as part of a program that presented an overview of the North Carolina state budget and an economic forecast for 2009 — discussing issues affecting the nation, the state and Cumberland County.
        Rand placed much of the blame for the economic woes squarely at the feet of unscrupulous lenders.
        “Why people put people in a position to pay mortgages they couldn’t afford, I don’t understand,” said Rand. “Well, actually, I do understand greed.”
        According to statistics provided by the North Carolina Justice Center, in 2007 there were more than 49,000 foreclosure filings in North Carolina. In an attempt to dam this flood of foreclosures, Rand said the state allocated $12 million during the past session to help people in danger of losing their homes.
        “The problem now is knowing how to negotiate with mortgagers because no one knows who owns these mortgages,” said Rand.
        Rand also made a dig at the White House’s outgoing Republican administration, saying bad financial policies had led to the problems on Wall Street; he also excoriated the CEOs who oversaw the plunge in the stock market.
        “Lehman Brothers paid this guy $50 million to put the company into bankruptcy,” said Rand. “I would have done it for $5 million.”
        {mosimage}Despite the hard times, Rand said all is not gloomy. He said the state’s general assembly will continue to work hard to fund education (school funding takes up 60 percent of the state’s budget), while continuing to reform a state mental health system he called “intolerable.”
        Rand also pointed out that with the current budget the state had:
        •Expanded health choices for children without health insurance, growing the program by more than 130,000 children;
        •Provided funding to low income, uninsured rural people;
        •Increased the Earned Income Tax Credit from 3.5 percent to 5 percent.
        “This upcoming session of the legislature will present problems but it is also an opportunity,” said Rand. “There are no more sacred cows. And as we come out of this economic distress we will have a more efficient government. I liken it to pruning an orchard; your yield will go down if you don’t prune. And, we have a balanced budget and we have a Triple AAA bond coverage; we are one of three states that has the state pension plan completely funded.”
        Despite Rand’s optimism about the coming year, Elaine Meija, director of the North Carolina Budget and Tax Center for the North Carolina Justice Center says more needs to be done — especially here in Cumberland County.
        “The child poverty rate in Cumberland County is 20 percent... statewide average is 16 percent,” said Meija. “The overall poverty rate in Cumberland County is 17 percent, while the state rate is 14.3 percent; 38.6 percent of county residents were low income in 2007, meaning their incomes were less than twice the federal poverty level ($21,027 for a family of four).”
        Louisa Warren, senior policy advocate for the North Carolina Justice Center gave a laundry list of what needs to be done in 2009 to correct some of these problems, both across the state and in Cumberland County.
        “Among other things, we need to provide child care subsidies to working families to help with the high cost of raising children,” said Warren. “And for the economic stimulus plan to work we need additional weeks of unemployment insurance and a temporary boost to food stamp benefits; we also need investment in the national housing trust fund and local funds to support affordable housing construction for the economically disadvantaged.
        “We’re in tough times and will be facing tough times over the next few years,” said Warren. “But there is hope that the new administration in Washington will address some of these problems.”

    Contact Tim Wilkins at tim@upandcomingweekly.com




     
     

  •     Dr. Jeanette Council stands on the precipice of an historic 2009.
        The freshly minted chairman of the Cumberland County Commissioners has achieved a position of status that she — an African-American woman — says she never would have believed possible 25 years ago.
    And the fact that the president elect is also of African-American descent has been the icing on her New Year’s cake.
        “I have always been positive about changes in politics and society,’ said Council, “but I never dreamed all this would have happened in America in 2008. When Obama spoke in 2004 we were all mesmerized by his ideas and to see his vision come to fruition has been a wonderful thing.
        {mosimage}“As for myself, being elected chairman of the Cumberland County Commissioners, of course it’s an honor to selected by your peers,” said Council. “But at the same time, it is an awesome, awesome responsibility to represent the views of the commissioners and to make the right decisions in doing so.”
        While Council is pleased and optimistic about the recent displays of equality shown in the national and local political processes, she is concerned about a number of issues that will confront the county in 2009, citing the economy and clean water as priorities.
        “We don’t know what funds the state government will withhold,” said Council. “So of course the economy is an uncertain thing. And we’ve got to concentrate on providing clean water forevery one of the citizens living in Cumberland County.”
        The cost of a countywide water system has been estimated at $650,000. Four of the counties bordering Cumberland — Robeson, Harnett, Bladen and Hoke — have countywide water systems. However, those counties are so poor they have received substantial aid from the state to implement those systems — something Cumberland County may not qualify for because of its tax revenues. It is unknown at this time where Cumberland County would raise the funds for a countywide water system, though the commissioners have hired a Lumberton engineering firm to look into the feasibility of such a system.
        In addition to the water problem and the state of the economy, other hot-button issues Council says are confronting the county in 2009 include completing the I-295 loop and improving emergency services at Cape Fear Valley Medical Center.
        “Right now, we want to provide an instant level of service to our citizens because of the state of the economy,” said Council.
        Council’s fellow commissioner, Breeden Blackwell, also agrees that the water issue and economy are at the forefront of the county’s concerns in 2009.
        “Of course, the water situation is something that’s got to be addressed,” said Blackwell. “I would ask the citizens of Cumberland County to be patient with us on this issue.
        “We usually don’t get much, if any, money from the state, so we can’t plan on any extra funds,” said Blackwell. “We’re going to have to tighten out belts across the board economically, but that doesn’t mean any employee layoffs. But everybody needs to cut back.”

    Contact Tim Wilkins at tim@upandcomingweekly.com




  • (Editor’s Note: Margaret is beginning a several week visit to India, and has elected to print some of her favorite columns from the past. We hope you enjoy them.)           

        Christmas will never be the same in the Dickson household.
        I have known this at some level for a good while, of course, but this truth rocketed inward on me with the force of a body blow shortly after Dec. 25, 2004, while all three children were still home from their various schools. This stunning and somewhat numbing realization exploded when I chanced upon a photograph from not-so-many-years ago of my younger son, now just shy of 6-feet tall and clearly still growing. In the picture, though, he is standing in an elementary school classroom beside his extraordinary fifth-grade teacher, the renowned Katie McFadyen of VanStory Hills Elementary School. Not a tall woman, she nevertheless stands nearly a head taller than the brown-haired boy beside her and upon whose shoulders she fondly rests her hands. Both teacher and pupil are smiling, she in the warm way teachers do and he with braces gleaming. I remember snapping the photograph myself one spring afternoon, along with similar ones of Mrs. McFadyen and several of her other students. 
        And what made this Christmas so different from the ones which have preceded it? 
        No longer do the Dickson parents enforce the previously ironclad rule that no one and that means NO ONE, goes downstairs before 7 a.m. No longer do the Dickson parents have to beg, cajole and threaten the Dickson children to go back to sleep until at least daylight. Nowadays, Santa Claus hits our house in the bright light of Christmas morning amid heavy breathing, perhaps even snores, from the still-sleeping “youngsters.”
        {mosimage}No longer does Santa deliver presents with thousands of tiny parts which torture bare feet, and the only “wheels” they yearn for are equipped with much horsepower and are sold by dealerships.
        The final proof, if I really needed it, was confirmed in church on Christmas Eve when only one minor maternal behavioral correction was required. This was in marked contrast to the same service 17 years ago when one child crawled under pews and between other congregates’ legs and another stuck crayons in her nostrils. These Christmas Eve performances were capped that very evening by the older child falling head first into a semi-frozen pool presided over by a statue of St. Francis of Assisi.
        Neither Christmas nor any other aspect of our family life will ever be the same again, because we are no longer a family with young children. We are a family of young adults.
        Every parent comes to this realization, I imagine. While it feels bittersweet in some ways and is accompanied by memories of family life, some wonderful and some horrendous, family evolution is both inevitable and positive.  It means all of us — both parents and children — have survived and developed. I am a bit anxious but also tremendously excited and maybe even a tad jealous of the futures staring at my own precious young adults. Number one graduates from college this spring. Number two is right behind him, and number three has begun to think about college. I do not know what any of them may wind up doing, but each will probably have several careers, if what sociologists now tell us is correct. I do know that having grown up in a mass culture and a global economy, they are much more experienced and sophisticated than I was at their ages. But I also know they will experience the same “birthing” pains all human beings do as we move into our adult lives and that there is very little even the most loving and caring parent can do to ease them through this phase of their own maturation.
        I confess that I have teared several times during the holiday season over the changes in my own little family. 
        The boys have returned to their respective schools, and our daughter is visiting a friend in another state before her classes resume. It surprises me only a little that the “children” seem to feel the evolution as well. Just before they scattered back to their own lives, all five of us rode together, two in the front seat and three in the back, in one car to the same destination. Number one, a strapping young man, laughed at the memory of family trips together over the years, of the family once again “rolling along.” He wondered how we actually did that for so long. Of course, we were all smaller then, he noted quite accurately and — did I only imagine this part? —  perhaps a bit wistfully. We returned from our destination in the same cozy fashion.
        And what do maturing families do when they get home from such an outing? This one sat down and watched dogs competing to see which one could jump the longest distance into a pool of water and talked about a terrific dog we had for many years not so long ago.
        Maybe nature builds us this way, but I really do like this better than Sesame Street.

    Contact Margaret Dickson at editor@upandcomingweekly.com
  •     The new year is here and the big question looms: What lies ahead for our community in 2009? Well, folks, who really knows? “Lions and tigers and bears? Oh,My!”  ‘Oh, my!’ is right. So many questions and so few answers about the future as the new year approaches. The war(s), the economy, unemployment, the environment. Just a few of our ever present concerns and preoccupations clouding otherwise bright, sunny and carefree days we enjoy here in Fayetteville and Cumberland County. Well, the only comforting words I can think of are  “… this too shall pass.”
        {mosimage}Whatever the new year brings we’re going to be ready for it. Everyone here at Up & Coming Weekly, Primelife Magazine and Kidsville News! are entering the new year prepared to continue doing what we do best — informing, editorializing and entertaining the community. After all, this is what free “community” newspapers are supposed to do. We are proud to be entering our 14th year serving this community. Fourteen years... Go figure. Especially, as daily newspapers nationwide struggle for mere existence, community newspapers continue to grow stronger as they traditionally stay in close communication to the people, businesses and organizations that make up their local communities. Community newspapers, unlike their daily brethren, have a better understanding on how to use their resources, especially the Internet, as a networking, informational supplement rather than an independent “media” source, which it is not.  Think about it. When was the last time you heard someone say, “I saw your article on the Internet?” or “I think I’ll check the Internet to see where I can get the best, most dependable local service for my......” or “Hey, did you see my kid’s picture on the Internet?” The Internet is great for general information, however, it was never designed to build or brand a business, service, organization or a community. For that you need a constant and ever present presence. Communities, like businesses and organizations, have heart  and soul. That is what makes them unique. That’s their brand. Your brand is what you are and what you stand for. That’s why it is important to constantly market, promote, nurture and develop it. The Internet cannot do this and it is foolish to think (as daily newspapers do) that the Internet can be both your nemesis and your salvation at the same time. Hmmmm... That arrogance is familiar.
        In 2009, we are going to continue to develop our “brand” and also continue to help those who want to develop theirs. Candles concealed under a bushel will surely radiate little light. So, thank you sincerely for reading our publications and keeping us focused on what is important in our community. Continue to  support and patronize our advertisers. Visit their organizations, use their products and services and see for yourselves, firsthand, how local community commitment affects value. Also, do check us out on the Internet. This is how we are going to stay in business serving this community for many years to come.
        Who knows what the future has in store for us? What we do know is this: It doesn’t make any difference whether you’re a government organization, institution, local business, local civic or government official or community newspaper, when you do the  “right things” for the “right reasons” good things always result, and, you never have to apologize for your actions.
    Thanks for reading and have a happy New Year!

    Contact Bill Bowman at bill@upandcomingweekly.com
  •     “Father God I am clay in your hands, help to stay that with through all of life’s demands because they chip and they nag and they pull at me and every little thing I make up my mind to be …. And I pray that I’m an artist that rises above the road that is wide and full of self-love.”
        Those are the words that kick-off Toby Mac’s “Lose My Soul,” one of the singles from his latest offering Portable Sounds. The singer/songwriter, who has been called “one of the 50 most influential evangelical leaders in America,” will headline Winter Jam 2009, one of the biggest Contemporary Christian tours to hit the roads. The 10-week tour brings together some of Christian music’s biggest names for a “house party” that is more about touching the soul than raising the roof.
        {mosimage}In addition to great music, the tour brings evangelist Tony Nolan to the stage to share the word of God in an environment designed to open hearts and change lives. Nolan, the son of a homeless, mentally-ill prostitute, was put in foster care where he suffered unspeakable abuse at the hands of his own foster parents. For the first three years of his life, he was repeatedly sexually abused, brutally beaten and thrown down flights of stairs for sport and burned with cigarettes when he refused to perform perverted sexual acts. At age 3, Tony was adopted by a poor and dysfunctional family for only $200. His adopted father beat and verbally abused Tony regularly. In drunken rages he would often look at Tony in disgust and demand, “Is this all my $200 got me?! I wish I’d never bought you.”
        By the age of 13, he was hooked on drugs and looking for a way out. While contemplating suicide, Nolan was given the word of God, and it not only touched his life, it changed it. Since then, he has seen his role as “helping people get it about God’s great love and salvation.” One way he does that is participating in events like Winter Jam.
        {mosimage}Since its inception, Winter Jam has consistently led Pollstar’s rankings in attendance. This past year was no different. In 2008, the tour averaged 9,172 in nightly attendance, which gave it a ranking of fourth in Pollstar’s first quarter ticket sales, topping Hannah Montana/Miley Cyrus, the Police and the Foo Fighters. More important to the event organizers than the numbers is the people whose lives are changed — and that goes beyond ticket sales, but unless people are there, organizers understand they can’t hear the “life changing” gospel of Jesus.
        When you look at the sheer number and fame of the bands on the lineup, you would think the tickets would be through the roof. But that isn’t the case. Winter Jam has, from the beginning, had a “no tickets” policy that allows concert attendees to pay a flat $10 fee at the door for admission. That’s a lot of  bang for your buck.
    Winter Jam comes to the Crown Coliseum on Saturday, Jan. 10. The show starts at 6 p.m.
        This year’s lineup includes punk pop group Hawk Nelson, Brandon Heath (the GMA New Artist of the Year,) Francesca Battistelli and Stephanie Smith. At select dates, The Afters, Family Force 5 and BarlowGirl will also be on stage. That kind of lineup makes the wait at the box office well worth the price.
        TobyMac says it is his passion that keeps his music relevant. “Passion for my art drives me so long as I feel the Most High breathing new songs through me,” he said. “Over the years, I have noticed some consistency in what I appeal to God for, like ‘Help me remember what this is all about … God, I don’t want to be that jaded man. I don’t want to be that hardened artist. I want to remain soft in your hands, so that you can shape me into a vessel that you can breathe through’ … I expected great, amazing things while recording this record. I’m not talking about sales or first week numbers or critics. I’m talking about people’s lives being touched.”

    Contact Janice Burton at editor@upandcomingweekly.com
  •     By the time this publication hits the street, many of you will be winding down from your holiday shopping and focusing on spending quality family time with your family and friends. For those of you who are not finished with your shopping, good luck!
        At Up & Coming Weekly, we will be finishing up our New Year’s edition, and then taking a much deserved break to spend time with our families. We’ve already had the privilege and pleasure of spending this year with you, our friends.
        Holiday celebrations vary for many in our community, but they all focus on the joy of the season. At my house, the weeks leading up to Christmas are always a little chaotic. We grab hold of every aspect of the season and try to wring every bit of joy out of it. I have to say, for the most part, we succeed.
        {mosimage}We are fortunate. Unlike many in our community we have the benefit of home and hearth and have the economic security to celebrate the season. That isn’t the case for many in our community. This season, as you reflect on your good fortune and the security of family and friends, take a moment to pause and think about those who are less fortunate. Remember them in both word and deed.
        While you are thinking of them, add another thought: Think about our soldiers and airmen who are far from home. Remember their sacrifice and the sacrifices of their families. If you know a military family who is alone this season, think about opening your home to them and welcoming them into your family.
        And when you sit down to share your Christmas feast, say a prayer for those men and women who are standing a line. Pray for their safety, for their well-being both physically and mentally, and give thanks for their willingness to protect all we hold dear.
        As you watch your children or loved ones open their presents with a sparkle in their eye, remember that no matter our faults, we have the gift of freedom. And then remember those who will never understand what an awesome responsibility and privilege that is.
        From the staff at Up & Coming Weekly — Bill, Jean, Tim, Shani, Suzy, Maureen, Sam, Barbara, our distribution team and myself, we wish you and yours the happiest of Christmases and all the best in the upcoming year.
        Merry Christmas!

    Contact Janice Burton at editor@upandcomingweekly.com

  •     The Dicksons moved to a new-to-us house in the summer of 2007, after 25 years of raising three children in what I will always think of as our family home.
        I understood then and there that we Dicksons have way too much stuff.
        Too many clothes. Too many books and magazines. Too many appliances. Too much of just about everything.
        {mosimage}None of us could explain where all these belongings had come from, who bought  them and why, even who was using them, if anyone. Why, for example, did my little family have a half dozen hair dryers stashed in various bathroom cabinets and more gift bags at the ready than we were likely to have gifts to give? Why had I continued to buy cans of tuna when I had more than 10 in the pantry, some of which had been there so long, their expiration dates had passed? Why did we still have broken toys and video games which fit into players we no longer had even though the children were in college or beyond?
        It was a real learning experience in the American way of excess.
        Now we are, again, in the season of what has become even more glorious excess. This financially trying year, though, there will not be as much stuff for many of us. Retailers, of course, see that as a negative situation, and slower sales will have repercussions across our troubled economy.
        Those of us who have become accustomed to massive holiday receiving may be disappointed this year, but I am trying hard to see opportunity here, an opportunity to take stock of what we do have and how and why we got it and what we really need.
        Many of the gifts I did buy this season, I bought with various credit cards. This has not always been the case, though. As a teenager shopping in downtown Fayetteville, everything I bought I had to pay for with cash. When I got a little older and into the working world, I paid for my purchases with checks. Either way, I had to have the cash in hand to make my purchases.
        Easy credit changed all that.
        With the simple whipping out of a little plastic card, we can now become proud owners of our heart’s material desires whether we really have the cash to pay for them or not, which is how many of us wound up with all our stuff. We have become a nation with little self-restraint about what we purchase. That “stuff” has taken on an importance far out of proportion to what it really means in our lives. That fact came home to me in the most visceral way when I heard the news story about the Wal-Mart greeter, a man over 6 feet tall, who was trampled to death on Black Friday by a crowd of shoppers who literally killed for a bargain.
    What earthly possession could possibly be worth participating in that?
        Our preoccupation with consumption is paradoxical. While millions of Americans have stuff, we are also in need. We have possessions galore at the same time really basic and critical needs are not met. This season we are seeing people with plenty of the paraphernalia of modern American life heading to food banks to provide for their families. We see our fellow Americans losing their homes full of stuff to foreclosure because they took advantage of too-easy credit. We see people with plenty of possessions foregoing needed prescriptions because they cannot afford them and have no health insurance coverage to help. We see students, many of them first generation college goers, who will not return to their institutions of higher learning for the coming semester because student loan monies have dried up.
        As difficult as all this is right now, I believe that it is our opportunity, even if we are being forced to look at it kicking and screaming, to take stock of what is really important to us. My family is healthy, and we are together this holiday season. We have a house, and we are warm and anticipating another meal. We have vehicles to get us places and, at least for now, gasoline available to power them.
        Life is not perfect to be sure, but many of us are increasingly thankful our basic needs and many of our wants are being met. The coming year and perhaps beyond is going to bring tough days for many Americans and for millions of people in other parts of the world, and none of us can take our own well being or our material possessions for granted.
        My hope for the days ahead is that we will emerge from our financial distress, whenever that may be, a country refocused on the values that made our nation great, and that American families will be reminded that the most valuable possessions are not things, but the time and care we give each other.
        As you ponder what is most dear in your life, I can almost promise you it will not be something you bought with a credit card.

    Contact Margaret Dickson at editor@upandcomingweekly.com








  •     Let us now consider Christmas foods. It takes a big man to admit when he is wrong. So I seldom can admit to being wrong even when confronted with overwhelming evidence. The pecan log in my eye is seldom as noticeable as the fruitcake in the eye of my neighbor. However, I recently heard John Lennon’s Christmas song and had a moment of clarity. Ponder John’s lyrics: “So this is Christmas/And what have you done/Another year over/A new one’s just begun.”
        {mosimage}After hearing John, I resolved to start the year by getting right with fruitcakes.
        I admit to being an anti-fruitcakeite. It’s an ugly admission but I want to move on. I hereby and forthwith offer my sincere and humble apologies to fruitcakes everywhere. Many individuals actually enjoy making their own fruitcakes at home. The king of all fruitcake producers is the Claxton Fruit Cake company in Georgia. I particularly apologize to the Claxton Fruitcake Company — a company about which I have made bad jokes for periods of time from which the memory of man runneth not. I vow never to make another joke about fruitcakes. I do not extend that courtesy to the state of New Jersey, however. Whenever I am introduced to someone from New Jersey I will always ask them “What exit?” This stupid joke never fails to amuse me and irritate some innocent Yankee.
        In the interest of full disclosure, let me explain my long and tortured history with fruitcakes. When I was a lad, my sainted mother Sally Dickey would always obtain several Claxton fruitcakes for the Christmas season. We were compelled to eat fruitcake. I lived in a fruitcake nightmare. She would give fruitcakes as Christmas presents. I cannot remember a time in which Santa and fruitcake did not share equal Christmas billing in our home. The fruitcakes always beat Santa to the house and remained long after he had reindeered off to the North Pole. Fruitcakes would lurk in our refrigerator in July.
        As I grew older, I became suspicious of fruitcake. I realized that unlike fruitcake, not all cakes had the consistency of concrete. I began to wonder what those little green things were that inhabited the fruitcake. There are no clear green fruits in nature. Could they be thin slices of space aliens from Mars? Were fruitcake companies conducting some hideous biological experiments on secret farms surrounded by armed guards in which they raised clear green fruit to feed Americans? How could fruitcakes remain just as good two years after they were purchased as they were the day they came home from the grocery store? Was fruitcake one word or two? Should people eat a cake that can double as a door stop or be used as a baseball bat? The house of fruitcake has many unanswered questions.
        At Christmas we would travel from Fayetteville to my grandparent’s home in Washington, D.C. This trip meant stopping at Stuckey’s. I will always associate the elegant and delicious Stuckey’s pecan log with Christmas. We would purchase a pecan log and share it in the car on the long trip in the days before President Eisenhower created the interstate highway system.
        Stuckey’s was the home of the most amazing Christmas presents imaginable: ceramic donkeys, goofy license plates and the magic drinking bird who would repeatedly dip his beak into a glass of water. My personal favorite was the chicken with the thermometer protruding from his tail feathers. The chicken thermometer was truly the epitome of western civilization. Any nation which could mass produce chicken thermometers was guaranteed by Manifest Destiny to invent adjustable rate mortgages. What boy would not want a chicken thermometer? A chicken thermometer was hilarious and yet totally functional to measure the Fahrenheit around a slice of fruit cake.
        My reason to apologize to fruitcakes is that the lowly fruitcake is the only thing that has held its value all these years. Consider the stock market and your house. Are they worth as much now as last Christmas? The fruitcake holds its value. You can build a house out of fruitcakes if you have enough. If times get really tough during the coming deflation you can even eat fruitcake. Fruitcakes of America I salute you.
    Merry Christmas.

    Contact Pitt Dickey at editor@upandcomingweekly.com
     
     

  •     Contaminated water flowing into the homes of some Cumberland County residents could soon receive a clean bill of health thanks to action taken by the Cumberland County Commissioners.
    At last week’s regular meeting, the commissioners pledged $47,000 to study the feasibility of bringing clean, public water from Robeson County to more than 100 homes in the Southport subdivision; residents of that community had complained of tainted, foul tasting drinking water.
        The $47,000 will be paid to Lumberton engineering firm Koonce, Noble and Associates to design a water transport system that would go out for bids. Early estimates for the system are in excess of $650,000, though the county hasn’t announced plans on how to pay for the system. If the homes that will receive the clean water are required to foot the bill, it would cost each household approximately $5,700.
        Public Utilities Director Tom Cooney says that if the cost is to be covered by the affected households, the more than approximately 100 homes making up the Southport subdivision could have help: Cooney said a number of people living on or near Chickenfoot Road have called his office to say they would be interested in a public water hookup.
        “There are some problems with water quality in that area and the folks are very much interested in it,” said Cooney.
        {mosimage}A subcommittee will be formed to make recommendations to the commissioners about the payment options for the extension of water service to the Southport subdivision.
        Cooney said Koonce, Noble and Associates evaluated five possible options for the Southport subdivision, including extending water from Bladen County or having Cumberland County install a well system and storage tank on its own and provide limited water service to that area; Cooney said these options were considered unfeasible because Bladen is not prepared at this time to provide the needed water, while the latter option was considered too expensive to implement — such an option would cost an estimated $855,000. There was also an option considered to extend service from PWC’s line from Chickenfoot Road; however, Cooney said that option was deemed unworkable because that location is two miles further from the Southport subdivision than Robeson County and would not include a large number of residences or properties on it to help offset the costs.
        Cooney said the Robeson County extension has the potential to serve 113 properties along the route.
        The contaminated water issue came to the attention of the commissioners last February, motivating the board to form a Safe Water Task Force.
        The commissioners and the Safe Water Task Force have since discussed the feasibility of a countywide water system. Counties surrounding Cumberland, including Hoke, Robeson, Bladen and Harnett, already have countywide water systems. It is expected that the county will request that Koonce, Noble and Associates look into the cost of such a system.
        “Ten months ago, we just found out about this, and tonight we’re addressing it,” said Commissioner Breeden Blackwell. “I think that’s remarkable for us to bring about that quick a turnaround. I ask the county’s residents to be patient with us because I know we’re all interested in eventually getting a countywide water system.”

    Contact Tim Wilkins at tim@upandcomingweekly.com




  •     Chad Collins is the winningest and most highly decorated goaltender in Fayetteville FireAntz history. He is playing in his fifth season with the club and has accumulated quite an impressive 83-48-14 record. In addition to the wins and losses, Collins has racked up quite a list of accomplishments while wearing a FireAntz jesey.
        The 2004-05 campaign — Collins’ rookie season and first with the FireAntz — was a productive one for the young netminder. He ended the season with a 25-13-0 record, a 2.48 goals against average and a .922 save percentage. Collins also collected some league hardware during his rookie year. He won Goaltender of the Year, Rookie of the Year, First Team All-SPHL and two Player of the Week awards, as well as a Player of the Month Award.
        {mosimage}After a highly-decorated rookie campaign, Collins spent the majority of the 2005-06 season in the East Coast Hockey League (ECHL), splitting time with three teams. He returned late in the season to the FireAntz and was superb down the stretch for the club. Though he posted an 8-5-3 record, he had a miniscule 2.06 goals against average with a whopping .941 save percentage.
        Collins entered the 2006-07 season with his mind set on one goal: the SPHL President’s Cup. The goaltender played in an astonishing 45 of the team’s 56 regular season games and broke his own franchise record for wins in a season with 27. He ended the regular season with a stellar 27-12-5 record, an .897 save percentage and a 3.34 goals against average. But it wasn’t in the regular season where Collins would shine the most, it was in the President’s Cup Playoffs. He was an “iron man” in between the pipes for the club, going 7-1 with a 2.60 goals against average and a .924 save percentage en route to leading his team to the championship and earning the Most Valuable Player award.
        Collins’ impact on the FireAntz extends well beyond the confines of the ice rink of the Crown Coliseum. He has served as the spokesman for the Cape Fear Valley Blood Donor Center’s blood drive campaign for the past two years; making several appearances throughout the community urging people to donate. Children in the community have always been high on Collins’ priority list, and he has made dozens of appearances at local schools and youth functions during his tenure with the club.
        Collins returns to the FireAntz with renewed vigor this season to continue to be a star on the ice and a role model off of it. Expect to see a lot of  Collins with the FireAntz this season and, hopefully, many seasons to come.

    Contact Jason Fleming at editor@upandcomingweekly.com 

  •     There are many traditions that are held dear in the celebration of the new year, but none is as ingrained in the Southern psyche as the traditional meal of black-eyed peas, collards and pork. For many, it’s a tradition that has been handed down for generations. For J. Lee Warren, the Cumberland County Register of Deeds, and Ed Grannis, the district attorney, it’s a tradition worth savoring.
        {mosimage}On Thursday, Jan. 1, 2009, the duo will host the 16th annual Black-Eyed Pea dinner at the Crown Expo Center from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. And yes, before you ask, there will be plenty of black-eyed peas, collards, barbecue and candied yams, all designed to bring a prosperous 2009 to the residents of Cumberland County.
        “It is not a political event,” said Warren, who actually organized the event 16 years ago with Owen Spears of the N.C. House of Representatives. “Both Ed and I agree that too many times politicians are only seen when they are running for office. We don’t want to be associated with that idea — so we host this annual dinner to let folks know we care about them and what they have to say.”
        The dinner, which cannot be put on without the help of a lot of volunteers, brings the community together for an afternoon of fellowship and fun. “A lot of people come year after year,” said Warren. “When you’re standing there in line talking to people and shaking hands, you realize that for many of those people, this is the only hot meal they are going to get that day. So it makes it very important to us.”
        Warren said in addition to the great food, there will be great gospel music and conversation. Several thousand people attend each year, with the numbers going up significantly when New Years falls during the middle of the week or on Sunday. “If New Years is on a weekend, attendance drops a little because people go out of town,” said Warren. “That isn’t the case when it’s in the middle of the week or on Sundays.”
        While Warren can’t really give you the origins of the traditional foods, he is quick to tell you the origin of the dinner. “Sheriff Otis Jones and Willis Brown, a local attorney, held the dinner for years and years at the coliseum,” he explained. “After the sheriff died, the event stopped as well. When I was first elected in 1992, I was sitting in my dad’s office with Owen talking about the fact that we wanted to do something with the community. My dad said, ‘Boys, the black-eyed pea dinner would be a good event,’ and we’ve been doing it ever since.”
        After Spears dropped out of the political arena, Warren asked Grannis to join him, and for the past 13 years they’ve been bringing in the new year in style. The event is free and open to the public — no matter what your political leanings may be.
        As to the reason behind the traditional foods, Snopes.com explains it this way: The eating of black-eyed peas on New Year’s Day will attract both good luck and financial prosperity. While collards and pork are added to the mix, the peas seem to be the key. That’s not to knock the pork. Pork is considered lucky because “poultry scratches forward, a cow stands still, but a pig roots forward, ergo those who dine upon pork will be moving forward in the new year. Conversely, the eating of chicken or turkey on New Year’s results in poverty as fowl scratch in the dirt for their dinner.

    Contact Janice Burton at editor@upandcomingweekly.com


  •      A time of gathering, a time of reverence, a time of commemoration, a time of commitment and a time of celebration — these are the fundamental beliefs that mark the celebration of Kwanzaa.
        For those not in the know, Kwanzaa is an African-American holiday that celebrates family, community and culture. In the United States, the holiday is celebrated from Dec. 26 through Jan. 1. Locally, Kwanzaa will be celebrated on Saturday, Dec. 27, from 5-8 p.m. at Reid Ross Classical School.
        {mosimage}The annual event brings the community together to honor its heritage and culture. It is sponsored by the Umoja Group, which is dedicated to preserving and celebrating African-American history and heritage. The group, whose name means “unity” in Swahili, organizes annual Kwanzaa and Umoja festivals and a commemoration of the birth of Malcolm X. There will be traditional dancing, food, a parade of kings and queens, as well as the lighting of the seven pillars, which are the foundations of the celebration, according to event organizers.
        The event has its roots in ancient Egyptian and Nubian celebrations of the harvest or first fruits. The name Kwanzaa is derived from the phrase “Matunda ya Kwanza,” which means “first fruits” in Swahili. While it is celebrated throughout the African word, Kwanzaa celebrations began in America 42 years ago. Kwanzaa was established in 1966 as an offshoot of the Black Freedom Movement. The Organization Us founded Kwanzaa celebrations in the United States under the leadership of Dr. Maulana Karenga, a professor of African Studies at California State University, Long Beach, to reaffirm and restore the African-American roots in African culture, to serve as a communal celebration to reaffirm and reinforce bonds between African-Americans as a people and to introduce and reinforce the Nguzo Saba (the Seven Principles) that are communitarian African values.
        The seven principles celebrated during Kwanzaa are: Umoja (unity), Kujichagulia (self-determination), Ujima (Collective Work and Responsibility), Ujamaa (Cooperative Economics), Nia (Purpose), Kuumba (Creativity), and Imani (Faith).
        The last day of Kwanzaa is Jan. 1. Historically, as it is in all cultures, it has been a time for African people to reflect on what has happened and what has to be done. It is a time of self-reflection. In the modern celebration of Kwanzaa, the new year is deemed a Day of Meditation.
        There is no cost to participate in the Kwanzaa celebrations; however, participants are asked to bring a covered dish to share with their neighbors. For more information, call 488-7130 or 488-6152.

    Contact Janice Burton at editor@upandcomingweekly.com
  •     With Christmas plans probably locked in, you might want to start focusing on the best way to ring in the New Year.     For some, that might be a quiet night at home with friends and family or maybe a trip to the beach. For those who want to ring in the New Year with a little flair, you don’t have to look too far. Many of Fayetteville’s eateries and night spots are primed to help you celebrate in style.
       {mosimage} If your idea of a wild night stops at dinner time, why not try out one of Fayetteville’s newest dining establishments? At Locks Creek Seafood Grill and Oyster Bar, the staff is offering a few New Year’s specials: prime rib, salmon filet stuffed with crab meat or a pork dish. Seatings for the New Year’s Eve meals are at 6, 6:30 and 8:30 p.m. Seating is by reservation only, with each dinner running $29.99. Call 323-5625 for more information.
        If you are more of a night owl, you may want to check out one of these fabulous events:
        The Holiday Inn Bordeaux is offering the most extensive, and probably most formal affair in the city. According to Ramona Moore, the director of sales, this is the third annual New Year’s Gala at the hotel. “It is a dressy event,” said Moore. “Not formal, but it’s not jeans either. It’s the kind of event where you can dress up and have fun.”
        The party starts at 8 p.m. and runs through 1 a.m. It features heavy hors d’oeuvres, party favors, souvenir champagne glass and a pony bottle of champagne to toast in the New Year.
    Perennial favorite Northtower will peform a mix of Top 40, Oldies, Beach and Rock music for dancing. And, if you party a little too hard, you can purchase an overnight ticket that not only guarantees you room at the inn, but also brunch the next day.
        Tickets for the event must be purchased in advance: Couple tickets for the overnight package are $209. Tickets without the overnight option are $159. Single tickets are $159 and $109 respectively. All members of the military receive a 10 percent discount.
    “The party keeps growing every year, and we look forward to a great event,” said Moore.
    For reservations, call the Holiday Inn at 323-0111.
        Down on Hay Street, things are going to be jumping as well.
        At the Keys Piano Bar three piano players will be on hand to entertain and delight the crowd. Steve Monroe, Frankie Allen and Richard Wojack will be taking requests all night long. Owners of the establishment are quick to point out that the bar and the show are all about audience participation. So, if you head to the Keys, be prepared to sing, clap and dance along.
        The evening’s entertainment will include a countdown at midnight with a champagne toast, heavy hors d’oeuvres and party favors. There will also be drink specials all night long. The bar is currently taking reservations for tables, but they are going fast. The standard reservation fee of $25 is still applicable, but there is an additional $25 admission fee.     For more information, call 483-3854.
        Up the street at Docks, you’re going to want to put on your dancing shoes, as Pete Everett and the Total Package take the stage at 7 p.m. After you are warmed up, Deejay Rayn will take over and will rock the club from 11 p.m. to 3 a.m. Tickets are $40 for couples and $25 for singles. A $15 upgrade includes a breakfast buffet after the complimentary champagne toast at midnight. For more information, call 423-6257 (DOCKS).
        Just down the road, The Rock Shop is celebrating its second anniversary with New Year’s Evil. Not one, not two, but five bands will help you ring in the New Year. Featured that night are Malicious Intent, Gasoline, All She Wrote, Bound ‘n Gagged and Rot Gut Likker. There will be a mixed-drink toast at midnight, according to Sean Adkins, The Rock Shop’s owner. “It’s going to be big. You might want to get in early before it sells out.”
        The music will start at 8 p.m. and there is a $10 cover. Oh, one thing you might want to know — dressing up evil is strongly suggested. For more info, call 321-7625.
        Across town at the Big Apple, the deejay will spin tunes all night long. The party will start early, with early bird tickets (admission from 9-11 p.m.) costing $15 and tickets purchased after 11 costing $20. Free party favors, a champagne toast and balloon drop with prizes will be the highlight of the evening. For more information, call 868-5559.
        At Legend’s Pub there will be food, party favors and a midnight toast. Deejay Little John will keep the party going with a mix of rock, some dance and a little country. For the real party animal, the pub opens at 1 p.m. in the afternoon, so go early and stay late — of course, the real party won’t start until 8 p.m. For more info, call 867-2364.
        On Owen Drive, The Fifth will ring in the New Year at the Doghouse Bar & Grill. There will be the customary champagne toast at midnight and party favors for the  $10 cover. The kitchen will be open all night long for those who get a little hungry. The party should kick off in the afternoon, but The Fifth won’t come on until 10 p.m. There is no dress code for the event, and you will be able to watch the ball drop on one of the club’s many televisions.
        Over at Huske Hardware, there will be a live deejay, dancing, drink specials and a New Year’s Countdown.
    The Blue Moon Cafe will offer a full menu, as well as tappas specials and a wine and champagne toast at midnight.


    You can contact Janice Burton at editor@aupandcomingweekly.com
  •     In a holiday season known for families and friends getting together to renew old ties, it’s only fitting that a group of musicians united by deeply planted Fayetteville roots and a love for all things rock ‘n’ roll would come together for a little Christmas “jam” to go along with the traditional fruitcake and hot cider.
        {mosimage}On Dec. 26, a host of rockers, bluesmen and soul stirrers will come together at Broadstreet Café and Billiards for the Holiday Reunion Jam — an event that has brought musicians who share a Cumberland County connection back to Fayetteville to rock the season for more than 25 years.
        The event has become the lovechild of local musician Morris Cardenas and producer/soundman/stagehand extraordinaire Terry Shea of i4i Productions for the past six or seven years, with the pair — along with an army of volunteers and sponsors — bringing music to the masses in this season of merry making and mistletoe.
        “Many moons ago me and Terry met another guy who was having a holiday or Christmas jam,” said Cardenas, who will be rocking the event with his group, the Borderland Band. “He left town, so to keep tradition going and keep the spirit of all people who are in town for Christmas and New Years, we sort of picked it up and ran with it as a way to reunite all these diverse musicians who are from Fayetteville or who got started here.
    “We don’t mean just a musical jam but a jam of people because a lot of us don’t see each other unless, it seems, at some special event or a funeral now. These are people we’ve all known since we were kids. And now we’re just big kids.”
        In addition to Cardenas and the Borderland Band, which performs original songs, as well as jamming on classic rock concoctions by such heavyweights as the Allman Brothers and Santana, bands that will be laying down the bottom and the beat at the Holiday Reunion Jam include:
        •Joyner, Young, and Marie — a soulful and hard rocking trio famous for its tight three-part harmonies and bluesy guitar sound. Danny Young and Bill Joyner are both Fayetteville musicians who joined up with vocalist Marie Dennis to form one of the region’s most popular acts.
        •The five-piece outfit Big Mama E and the Cool hails from Raleigh and plays rock ‘n’ roll with a Southern rhythm and blues influence. Guitarist Mike Edwards is a Fayetteville boy known for his fiery chops. The band has been performing in the Triangle area since 1997.
        •Helping you get your Christmas blues on will be local guitar slinger Bob Steele, who will “steel” around the strings, bringing gritty ax work and even grittier vocals to the stage.
        •Superdrive will keep the tradition of such power trios as Cream and Beck, Bogart and Appice alive when it takes the stage to perform a mix of blues, soul and funk. Superdrive is comprised of Bryan Shaw (bass, lead vocals), J.D. Shaw (drums, lead vocals) and Clay Singletary (guitar, backing vocals); the Shaw brothers were raised right here in Fayetteville.
        •Bringing some young blood to the event is Raleigh-based Fathers & Sons, which boasts a pair of “old fogies” — Richard Allman and David Diffee, backed by their sons, Derek Allman and Allen Diffee — playing original songs that smack of influences as diverse as Bob Dylan, Radiohead, Neil Young and Ben Harper. Their excellent CD, Temporarily Breathing, was given a four star rating in these very pages several months ago.
        •Local legendary guitarists Don Euler and Steve Watson will also be joining in on the jam, while singer-songwriter and local radio personality Dave Stone —  aka “Stoney” of FM 96.5’s  “The Drive” — will do the hosting duties.
        Though the guys behind the show bring in “new blood” every year to spice up the musical mix, as well as encouraging younger music fans to attend the event, longtime participants such as guitarist Cliff Bender of the Borderland Band say it’s the blasts from the past that really make the show what it is.
        “We all get to hear music we haven’t heard for years,” said Bender. “Some of these bands will get together and we’ll get in the audience and just listen to these bands. You don’t get to hear live music anymore … you don’t get to hear stuff like old Little Feat.
        “It’s so much fun we (the Borderland Band) cut our Christmas vacation in Ohio short and drove 16 hours and walked right on the stage. It’s just cool to hear the old music and see the old guys.”
        Danny Young, guitarist for Joyner, Young, and Marie, also looks forward to reuniting with old friends to play some of that good, old time old rock ‘n’ roll.
        “The thing I love about the jam is seeing old familiar faces,” said Young. “People that I grew up with seeing them play or being in bands with.
        “I am really looking forward to seeing and playing with Steve Watson this year,” said Young. “He and I played together back in the early ‘70s. I am really looking forward to the jam this year. The last two years I was so sick I couldn’t stay to enjoy the rest of the music as much as I wanted to. But I took my flu shot this year and so far so good!”
        Young’s bandmate, Bill Joyner, has similar feelings about the Jam.
        “I’ve been at most of them and, to be honest, listening is as much fun as playing,” said Joyner. “Although Fayetteville has had its share of exceptionally talented musicians, there have been very few successful bands to come out of the area. Right after Christmas is our time for a special fellowship. It’s almost like the way you wish your high school reunion would be. I saw some people there last year that I haven’t seen in 25 years, and I can’t wait to see what’s happening this year.”
        Getting back together with old friends and fperforming live music is the only compensation the musicians receive — no one is paid for the gig. They do it for the love and the music … and the appreciation of a live audience.
    Several hundred people showed up for last year’s show, and Cardenas says he’s looking for an even bigger turnout this year — a turnout that he says is vital not only to help support the musicians, but the entire Fayetteville music scene.
        “If we don’t have an audience for this show and other shows in Fayetteville, live music won’t be around much longer,” said Cardenas. “The community has to show its support for these types of events. We already know we can play, but we want people to come out, especially the younger generation, to see us play.”
        You can heed Cardenas’ pleas by showing up at Broadstreet Café and Billiards around 3 p.m. The show goes on until 1 a.m. And unlike past years, the “jam” will be put back into the Holiday Reunion Jam, with an hour to two set aside for the band members to get together onstage and show just how well they play with others.
    For more info on the Holiday Reunion Jam, visit www.myspace.com/theholidayreunionjam.

    Contact Tim Wilkins at tim@upandcomingweekly.com














     
     






     
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  •     {mosimage}For several weeks the city-appointed Fayetteville Museum of Art Task Force has been meeting to resolve issues surround the location for the new museum. Other than answering questions directed to them by the task force, museum officials have had little to say about the process. Museum Director Tom Grubb sat down with Up & Coming Weekly recently to talk about the task force, the vision of the museum and the state of the arts in the community.
        “The task force was established politically,” said Grubb, “and as such, it has a political agenda. What everyone seems to be missing is that there is a contract between the city and the museum. In a contract, both parties agree to move forward and make things happen. The task force doesn’t fit into that.”
        According to Grubb, when the initial agreement was reached between the museum and the City of Fayetteville, the city asked that the museum provide additional parking for the park and other infrastructure improvements at the site.
        “The museum has only done what we thought the elected officials and the community wanted us to do,” he said.
    He contends that behind the scenes and “closed door” meetings were held with the express purpose of preventing the museum from receiving the deeds to the property. Grubb said the first deed was turned over to the museum in April ‘07. When the second deed was not forthcoming, he made numerous trips to the city hall to check on it, finally being told by city staffers that they were told not to ask about the deed again. “It was at that point that the idea of the task force came up and the press became involved,” said Grubb, adding that prior to, and since its formation, museum officials have been pressured to return the first deed to the city.
        Of the task force, Grubb noted, “It’s hard to control something like a task force once it gets started. We let the city know that we would participate and cooperate with the task force, but we really see it as an obstacle to the fulfillment of the contract.”
        He noted that the since the task force has started deliberating sites, the sites they are focusing on are either in the park or close to the park. “It will be really interesting to see if the city listens to the task force if they recommend the museum be built inside the park,” said Grubb.
        He added that the museum has already agreed to a compromise on the location of the museum, with the site moving back closer to Ray Avenue. “There seems to be some growing support for that site,” he said.
    When asked about the museum’s ability to support the facility financially, Grubb explained that the museum board had taken a hard look at the financial ramifications of the move. “We had experts come in and help us develop a business plan and a budget,” said Grubb. “We programmed more than 12,000 square feet of revenue-generating space into the design. This museum is not going to be a box with art in it. That’s the old design for a museum. This museum is going to be a gathering place.”
        The revenue-generating space Grubb referenced is a full-service restaurant, a cafe, a catering service and a multi-purpose meeting room, which can be rented out for meetings. Acknowledging that the museum knows art, not the restaurant business, Grubb said the restaurant, cafe and catering service would all be business partnerships with experts in those fields running those businesses. The leases for those facilities would help cover the additional costs of operating the new facility.
        Grubb acknowledges that many in the city are afraid of getting burned if the museum cannot fund the facility. When asked if the museum could find itself in the same position as the Airborne and Special Operations Museum, unable to pay its debt to the city, Grubb said he doesn’t believe the museum will ever be in that position, but noted that the city has benefited and will continue to benefit from the ASOM, despite its initial financial problems.
        One of the many questions that has been raised over the course of the discussions concerning the museum is: Who would actually own Festival Park? Many people are concerned that the museum would program, and thus control the park. Grubb said that is not the case. “We would not interfere with events in the park,” he said. “There is nothing that is currently done in the park that won’t be able to be done when the museum is there.”
        He said museum officials are aware of people’s concerns regarding the International Festival and the Dogwood Festival. “From the beginning of the design of the park, it was never expected that the whole festival would be held in the park,” he said. “For events like that, it’s all about staging. Both events have moved further up Ray Avenue and closer to Hay Street. We could be an asset to those events by bringing world-class exhibits that tie in with the themes.”
        When asked about the museum’s ability to raise the $13 million needed to construct the facility, Grubb noted that the task force and the controversy has put a damper on fundraising, but feels that once the issue is resolved the museum can be successful. “In July people were paying $147 for oil, now they are paying $43. So we don’t know what’s around the corner. If we put together a good product, and if the community works together, we can make it happen,” he said. “We have a good product. We are flexible. We have been providing a wonderful service to this community for 35 years, and it’s sad to see that being undermined and discredited. That’s what I find shameful in this whole process.”
        And while Grubb can’t pinpoint the source of the discord or the agenda, he is excited about the discussions. “Can you imagine this kind of discussion and dialogue about the arts occurring in Fayetteville?” he said. “We may be in the dark here, but when we get this right, the museum is going to be a light that shines brighter than anything.”

  •     I went out briefly (three months) with an unbelievably charming and confidant man who treated me horribly and turned out to be a major player. He canceled dates at the last minute, constantly flirted with other girls when we were out, and had a pattern of ignoring me for weeks, then texting “What’s up?” at 2 a.m. to see if he could come over. I finally stopped seeing him. Two years later, out of nowhere, he nonchalantly sent me a birthday message on Facebook: “Happy birthday, lady.” I was enraged. My impulse was to write back asking why he thinks he can treat me so badly, then casually saunter back into my life with such a generic message. Should I? A friend thinks so, as this guy has gotten away with treating women terribly for too long, and somebody needs to take a stand!
    — Not Having It


        Come on, do you really think this guy is only a player because he has yet to get written notification of the error of his ways? I guess it’s like hitting a pedestrian while driving. Sometimes you simply have no idea until you stop at the light, and somebody frantically motions you to roll down your window, then breaks the bad news. “Gee, thanks!” you tell him. “I thought I was just in serious need of a car wash until you pointed out the bleeding victim spread-eagled across my windshield.”
        You were seeing this guy of your own free will; you don’t mention him arriving at your house, pulling a gun and snarling, “Dinner and a movie or your life!” Yet, two years later, you must have one tired finger because you’re still pointing it at him. The leopard showed you his spots. In fact, he repeatedly rubbed your nose in his spots, then texted you at 2 a.m. to see if he could pop by for an hour or two to do it again. While it’s easier on the ego to blame him, let’s be honest - the guy doesn’t treat women badly; he treats women who put up with it badly: “Hi, my name is Welcome, need a good place to wipe your feet?”
        As for why he thinks he can “casually saunter” into your life after treating you like his backup booty call; frankly, his thinking probably isn’t that complex. Either he was cruising around Facebook and saw your birthday alert  — “Oh, yeah...her” — or, like a used car salesman in a slow period, he went back through his customer list to see who might be in the market for the same old crap.
        Go ahead and write back — if your goal is giving him and his buddies a good laugh about how, after all this time, you’re still emotionally rooted in his shallow soil. But, you protest, “Somebody needs to take a stand!” Sure they do - against genocide, world hunger and people who pull out of parallel parking, scrape your back bumper and drive off. You, on the other hand, need to take a seat and figure out why you stuck around as he constantly canceled dates, macked on other girls right in your face and ignored you until he needed a little something at 2 a.m. Sadly, self-reflection doesn’t offer the weight-loss opportunity of a hunger strike or the media coverage you’d get by taking up residence in one of his trees. But, reform is reform: Give peace a chance! Speak truth to power! When the phone rings, and it’s him, let it go to voicemail! (“Hey, hey, ho, ho! ‘Hey, ho!’ has got to go!”)

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  • Beignets on the Bayou serves food, culture, curiosity
  • Metro Kappa Foundation hosts food, music festival
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