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  • Yin Yang

    If a pollster rings up today and asks us what we think of the Tea Party and the newer Occupy10-26-margaret.jpg Wall Street movement, many of us would say that they are different groups entirely, maybe even polar opposites.

    Some of us might go on to say that the Tea Party is a right-wing movement, giving a more boots-on-the-ground boost of energy to Republicans but also giving the GOP establishment a bad case of heebie jee-bie anxiety lest the rightest right Tea Partiers scare independent voters directly into the Democratic fold. Some of us might also say that Occupy Wall Street is a liberal movement, well intentioned but risking damage to American free enterprise with a credo and goals so amorphous that not even the die-hard adherents camping out all over American are able to articulate them.

    Some of us might well be wrong.

    The Tea Party rose to national prominence in the weeks and months preceding the 2010 General Elections. It is a seemingly populist movement born of the frustration of a sour economy and fueled by animosity toward government at all levels. If the Tea Party had a slogan, it would almost certainly be the words of its iconic President, Ronald Reagan, who intoned at every opportunity, “Government is the problem, not the solution.”

    The Tea Party mopped up for Republicans in the 2010 off year elections, changing the balance of power in Congress and in state legislatures across the land.

    Enter Occupy Wall Street carrying signs saying “Eat the Rich” and attacking the excesses of American Big Business, the financial institutions and their practices which drove us smack into the Great Recession from which we have yet to thoroughly emerge. Its Democratic leaning mes-sage says that the rich must pay their fair share of taxes, at least in the same percentages as middle-class teachers, policemen, fire fighters, and mom and pop businesses. You and I may be counting our pennies, but Forbes recent release of the 10 highest-paid CEOs in the nation shows that some people need not worry at all. Someone I have never heard of, John Hammergren of McKesson, a health care conglomerate, will bring home the top paycheck this year at a cool $161,000,000. Everyone’s favorite polo enthusiast, Ralph Lauren, comes in a somewhat distant second, bringing home $66,700,000 worth of bacon this year. It is hard for people out of work and maybe even for some diehard free-enterprisers to make sense of those numbers, but they are kerosene on the flames for Occupy Wall Street.

    So, can we expect our television screens to be covered by Tea Partiers and Wall Street Occupiers yelling at each other every second between now and Election Day 2012?

    I suspect not as much as one might think, because while their political leanings may indeed tilt in opposite directions, both movements were birthed by the same tired mother.

    Both were born of economic frustration and alienation from society at large. President Obama spoke about this to ABC News on his visit to North Carolina last month.

    Addressing Occupy Wall Street, the President said, “I understand the frustrations being expressed in those pro-tests. In some ways, they’re not that different from some of the protests we saw coming from the Tea Party. Both on the left and on the right, I think people feel separated from their government. They feel that their institutions aren’t looking out for them.”

    The President is right.

    Millions of Americans do feel that way, even those of us who are neither Tea Partiers nor Occupy Wall Streeters.

    For several months now, I have been explor-ing different eras of American history, particu-larly our Civil War and World Wars I and II, pondering what events and movements gave rise to massive societal change. My own generation initiated tremendous change during the 1960s, although this Baby Boomer certainly did not grasp the magnitude of change and its repercussions at the time.

    Could it be that the Tea Partiers and Occupy Wall Street are the advance guard of a larger movement that will demand reform of both gov-ernment and business? Are we witnessing the first stretches and stirrings of the tiger of change of the Precious Jewels’ generation, a tiger that will sweep away the old and tired and replace them with something yet to be formed?

    No one knows the answers to those questions, but 2012 and the elec-tions next fall will certainly reveal clues. As unscientific as this may be, I sense significant change not unlike what I experienced earlier in my life forming at this later stage of my journey.

    Yin Yang.

    Perhaps.

    Polar opposites.

    I think not.

    Photo: No one knows the answers to those questions, but 2012 and the elections next fall will certainly reveal clues.

  • uac102611001.jpg The Holly Day Fair is right up there with Black Friday when it comes to shopping traditions in Eastern North Carolina. Perhaps one of the reasons is that the event gets bigger and bet-ter each year. In fact, it is the largest show of this type in this region of our state. In its 45th year, the Holly Day Fair is something that organizers and shoppers both look forward each fall. So November 3-6, loosen up those purse strings, head to the Crown Expo Center and shop till every last name has been crossed off that list.

    About 22,000 shoppers attend each year, and the more than 200 vendors that come are eager to impress the crowds.

    We’ve got a great selection of vendors this year,” said Jenny Beaver, Holly Day Fair chair. “We’ve brought back the favorites and added some new vendors too.”

    Shoppers can look for an extensive selection of unique handcrafted and manufactured products to select from including the best in holiday decorations, handmade crafts, stylish jewelry and clothes, children’s toys, specialty food items and much more. There will be Christmas trees — fully decorated and ready to take home and set beside the mantle — for sale. Not too many though, said Beaver, as each one is deco-rated by a professional designer.

    This year’s theme is “An All American Christmas.” With Fort Bragg right next door and the “All America City” title which was awarded to the city of Fayetteville earlier this year, the theme was a natural and easy fit. Besides, Bea-ver is hoping to draw in even more visi-tors than last year, including Fort Bragg residents and shoppers from surrounding areas like Pinehurst and Sanford.

    “We are working really hard to get the most out of our advertising dollars this year and to extend our reach,” said Beaver. “We’ve made some really big leaps this year in getting the word out. This is the first year that the Holly Day Fairhas its own website. We also have a Facebook page and will be doing a Facebook ad this year.”

    It’s an ambitious goal, but the Holly Day Fair organizers are looking to top the almost $275,000 raised last year. “We are hoping for $300,000,” said Beaver. “I know that is a big number, but we can do it.”

    The shopping is great and the festively decorated event puts shoppers in the holiday spirit, but what some people don’t realize is that all of the money raised by the Holly Day Fair goes right back into the community.

    More than 400 members strong, the Junior League of Fayetteville is an all-volunteer organization. According to their website, these volunteers “partner with various agencies to effect change in area of child health and welfare. The Junior League of Fayetteville is a member of the Association of Junior Leagues International (AJLI), which has 290 member Junior Leagues and 160,000 members internationally.”

    Last year alone, the Junior League of Fayetteville gave grants to 15 organizations ranging from Hope Mills Middle School for math reviews to Hungry Angela’s back pack buddies program, the Southeastern Regional Area Health Education Center’s child abuse and detection prevention program to the Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra concert for special needs children and adults and to the Child Advocacy Center’s program help for abused children under age 18.

    “A lot of people don’t realize just how much the Junior League of Fayetteville contri10-26-11-holly-day-fair-text.jpgbutes to the community,” said Beaver. “The organization has done a great job of branding their event — the Holly Day Fair — but they haven’t necessarily branded themselves as the sponsor. It’s important for the community to know that not only are they getting a wonderful shopping experience when they come to the Holly Day Fair, they are helping the children in our community too.”LaJuanMills, Junior League of Fayetteville echoes that sentiment.

    “Each year keeps getting bigger and better and we are proud to report that we raised over $270,000 for the community last year with this one fund-raiser,” said LaJuan Mills, Junior League of Fayetteville President, “We hope to surpass that amount this year, to sus-tain our focus of commit-ting programs, projects and advocacy to ensur-ing children ages 0 to 18 have the opportunity and services essential to their physical, intellec-tual, emotional and social well-being.”

    Holly Day Fair kicks off Nov. 3 with the Super Shopper event from 9 a.m. to noon. These special event tickets can be purchased for $13. Tickets are limited. Strollers and any type of rolling carts are strictly prohibited during Super Shopper hours.

    General admission tickets for the event are $9. All tickets include free parking. Chil-dren 5 and under are free. Regular hours of the event are as follows: Thursday, noon to 8 p.m., Friday, 9 a.m. to 8 p.m., Saturday, 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. and Sunday, 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Tickets to the 2011 Holly Day Fair can be purchased in advance through Ticketmaster at www.ticketmaster.com, at the official Holly Day Fair Web site at www.hollydayfair.com, or at the following local merchant locations: Bell’s Seed Store, The Pilgrim, Luv My K-9’s and So Chic Bebe.

    Find out more at the Holly Day Fairwebsite www.hollydayfair.com/press.php and Facebook page www.facebook.com/hollydayfair.

  • Ides of March(Rated R) 4 Stars10-26-11-movie-review.jpg

    The Ides of March (101 minutes) is one of the early fall “prestige” flicks that I usually don’t have a whole lot of patience with. When a political film, based on a play (by Beau Williamson), does the awards circuit I expect to be bored. George “Facts of Life” Clooney takes the director’s chair for the fifth time, and I confess I would be more tolerant of the implied vanity if he had a lesser role in the film. While he doesn’t take up an unreasonable amount of screen time, he did cast himself as a presidential hopeful that almost everyone loves and admires.

    Stephen Meyers (Ryan Gosling) is a Junior Campaign Manager for Governor Mike Morris (Clooney). The Governor is in the middle of the Ohio Primary, competing against Senator Ted Pullman (Michael Mantell) for the Democratic nomination.

    When the film opens, Meyers is playing with podiums prior to a political debate. Following the debate, Pullman’s senior campaign manager Tom Duffy (Paul Giamatti) persuades Meyers to meet with him. Meyers is unable to contact Senior Campaign Manager Paul Zara (Philip Seymour Hoffman), and in the absence of direction, curiosity drives him to the meeting. Unless you think Meyers is sort of shady, then ambition drives him to the meeting. Judging by the reaction of Zara later in the film, that is a very bad choice.

    During the meeting, Duffy tries to seduce Meyers to the dark side of the Democratic Party, and Meyers compares his tactics to that of Republicans. Them are fighting words, and the meeting ends with Machiavellian laughter echoing over the hot wings. Also, Duffy ends the meeting with explaining that Meyers’ infantile approach to politics will inevitably turn into jaded cynicism. Watch Duffy help him with that!

    Soon after Meyers’ expresses his undying loyalty to Morris and Morris’ ideals he gets to know intern Molly Stearns (Evan Rachel Wood). Given the number of times she lies or otherwise misleads him, a smart politico would be asking to see some identification for proof of age, or would at least Google his sweet young thing. Since Meyers is fairly naïve (as becomes glaringly obvious later in the film) he elects to trust that the manipulative blonde is totally legal. Sucker.

    Molly clearly likes older men, so it is no surprise when one older man in particular makes random late night/early morning calls to her personal cell phone. Too bad for her gentleman caller that Meyers is on the case. Molly makes no attempt to cover up the inappropriate nature of the call, and methinks she wanted to get caught. Or maybe she’s just that dumb. Given the events in the remainder of the film, I lean towards the latter.

    Somewhere in there a New York Times reporter gets tossed into the mix. Ida Horowicz (Marisa Tomei) dogs the Morris campaign managers for insider information. While Meyers’ believes that loose lips sink ships, Zara is far more willing to leak tidbits to the press. His leakage eventually inconveniences poor dumb Meyers who had unthinkingly confessed to meeting with Duffy (though it takes Meyers a bit of time to figure out the mystery of who told). Why everyone gets their panties in a twist over this one brief meeting seems a bit confusing, but I agree that it’s a nice contrast between how Molly is treated by Meyers over her non-mistake and how Meyers is treated by everyone else over his non-mistake. Too bad he doesn’t seem to appreciate any of the hypocrisy he is embracing.

    Meyers spins out in fairly short order. With every scene his nostrils flare a bit wider, his eyes twitch a bit more, and his inability to accept the reality he has chosen to inhabit gets more obvious. Overall, this is an interesting political thriller that entertains more often than not.

    Now showing at Wynnsong 7, Carmike 12 and Carmike Market Fair 15.

  • ARE YOU AN OSTRICH?

    November is National Alzheimer’s Disease Awareness Month and it deserves attention from you. According to the Alzheimer’s Association report Changing the Trajectory of Alzheimer’s Disease, “The number of Americans age 65 and older who have this condition will increase from 5.1 million today to 13.5 million by mid-century.”

    The impact of this information on healthcare, senior care and the family unit is going to be devastating. Figuring out medical options, residential situations and financial resources are just a few areas which will be impacted greatly. As the research continues to try to find a cure for this dreadful disease, you must get informed.

    From personal experience, we know that seniors do not want to inform family when they are having problems with household management, paying bills or preparing meals. They do not want to admit when they get lost returning home from church or the grocery store. Seniors want to maintain their independence and not worry their children. This is reasonable but not practical.

    10-26-11-senior-corner.jpgThe practical side of the situation is that when there are obvious changes in behaviors or routines, strategies can be put into place to fix the situation. Family members or professional caregivers can plan, purchase, prepare and serve meals daily. An approved designee can pay bills or automatic drafts can be set up easily. Homes can have simple handrails and shower seats installed or retrofitted for entire handicapped accessible bathrooms. Safety measures can be implemented such as removing throw rugs, purchasing alert buttons, installing extra locks on doors to prevent wandering and locking away dangerous items. These are a few ideas, but the key is to know what needs attention.

    Often a senior will explain away why things are happening … just an accident, the bill got stuffed away in old papers or the peas burned because she just didn’t put enough water in them. The senior might say they planned to go a different way home than the usual route to cover up getting confused on the directions. When visits are short, explanations might continue to work. However, with an extended visit the symptoms become more evident to indicate the senior needs more help.

    Get informed. Know the symptoms for the onset of dementia, of which Alzheimer’s is the most prevalent.

    Research has shown the starting certain medications can slow the progression of the disease. Waiting is the wrong path to choose. Discuss it with your primary Physician. Consider seeking further testing.

    Our title, Are you an Ostrich? is simply to encourage you to Take your head out of the sand and know that you will have a family member, neighbor or close friend who will develop Alzheimer ’s disease, if you haven’t already.

    Become informed by reading materials available on the internet, at bookstores or in the library. Attend seminars in the community. Contact your local Area on Aging for upcoming events which might be helpful for you.

    Getting ready now will empower you to act appropriately when necessary.

    Photo: Become informed by reading materials available on the internet, at bookstores or in the library. Attend seminars in the community. Contact your local Area on Aging for upcoming events which might be helpful for you.

  • 10-19-11-wfss_logo.jpgWhen it comes to advocating government subsidies of National Public Radio (NPR), I stay neutral on the topic. This is because after listening to NPR for nearly 30 years, I am confident it is a venue that can support and sustain itself.

    Here, in our hometown of Fayetteville, we are extremely lucky to have our own NPR station, WFSS, located on the campus of Fayetteville State University. We are even luckier to live in a community that appreciates the contributions WFSS makes locally. After all, WFSS (91.9 FM), has been our hometown NPR radio station for 34 years, continually growing and providing useful local and national news, interviews with community and business leaders and supporting its neighbors who are making a difference by contributing to our quality of life.

    This month, WFSS has its semi-annual fund drive. As this area’s weekly community newspaper, we intend to support this effort and hope our readers will also.

    The entire station operates on donations. Over the years it has proven to be a good investment and the money raised by WFSS directly benefits the listeners by providing NPR programming, quality local programming and community outreach.

    Local is the key word here. It does get rather confusing in this part of North Carolina. There are 16 public radio stations in our state and each one is independently owned and operated. Each must raise its own funds and no money is shared between them. No one NPR station represents all the public radio stations in our state. That means contributions to WFSS in support of public radio here in our neighborhood must be contributed locally. That is not to say WFSS doesn’t have a broad reach.

    WFSS broadcasts into 13 counties in southeastern North Carolina, covering a 60-mile radius. Joe Ross, Kathy Klaus, Janet Wright and the entire staff live and work in this community. They are professionals and are committed to every market they serve, including: Fayetteville, Spring Lake, Hope Mills, Fort Bragg, Raeford, Sanford, Pinehurst, Southern Pines, Lumberton, Clinton, Dunn and Elizabethtown.

    Need I say more about this wonderful media outlet? Yes. A special thank you to the Cumberland Community Foundation Inc., for challenging the NPR listening audience and WFSS team to bring in new members and to encourage lapsed members to come back. The CCF will match every basic membership pledge of $60 or more. Now, that’s a commitment!

    Below, I have listed the many ways you can support this valuable asset to our community. You can’t beat “free!” Tune in and let’s keep public radio in the Fayetteville community. Contributions can be made by calling 672-1621 or 1-800-245-9377. You may also pledge online at www.wfss.org or you may mail your pledge to WFSS, 1200 Murchison Rd., Fayetteville, NC 28301, ATTN: Fall Fund Drive.

    Tell them that your favorite community newspaper, Up & Coming Weekly, recommended them.

  • Where Is the Logic in Occupying Wall Street?10-19-11-pub-notes.jpg

    Occupy Wall Street, the current movement du jour, is bringing together tens of thousands of protesters. Unfortunately, the only thing this diverse group is coming together on is that they are victims of a rotten economy and incompetent, irresponsible and failed government leadership at all levels.

    Oh yeah, it’s sad, but true. In our own community hundreds of Fayetteville/ Cumberland County residents stood in long lines for hours last week at a job fair held at the Crown Center by the Cumberland County Department of Social Services. This event served as a dismal reminder of what comes from ineffective and failed government policies and blatant incompetence and dishonesty.

    The constant sound bites of rhetoric about the nation’s $14 trillion dollar debt, the 25 million out-of-work Americans and the prospects of increasing taxes to raise enough money to pay our bills ring hollow, when the most serious concerns are ignored.

    Concerns like the gross Medicaid/Medicare fraud that totals billions. Solyndra’s $535 million dollar bankruptcy and loss of taxpayers money. We can’t forget, my all time favorite example of government incompetence — the covert hair brained operation of Fast and Furious which placed hundreds of lethal weapons into the hands of criminals and gangsters who are currently using them not only to commit crimes, but, to actually kill Americans.

    No wonder people are angry. Targeting Wall Street, capitalism and rich people is easy. The sad truth is most of the protesters have little or no knowledge of local, state or national affairs or of how economics really work. Their time and passion is so misplaced.

    Our nation was built on capitalism and through the blood, sweat and tears of true risk-taking entrepreneurs. How can this reality be ignored by protesters wearing $110 tennis shoes, Old Navy hoodies and Gap jeans while communicating on cell phones and entertaining themselves with ipads, ipods and iphones? Where is the logic?

    My suggestion to these folks, and the 35 people who rallied locally around the Fayetteville Market House last week, is to first become responsible for their own actions and well being. Take control of their futures and realize that the redistribution of wealth is not the answer to their problems. The second thing they need to do is find a job. Only 4.3 percent of the unemployed have college educations. Maybe they should get educated.

    Third, stop blaming everyone else. The realization that our nation was built on a foundation of hard work, free enterprise and capitalism will eventually prove them silly. Locally, we have plenty of examples of people who exercised their talents, worked hard, took their chances and succeeded in participating in the American Dream: The late Bobby McCoy, M.J. Soffee and Putt Putt Golf creator and founder Don Clayton immediately come to mind. Some of these amazing, hard working, dedicated risk takers I see everyday like Ralph Huff of H&H Homes, Ron Darden of Darden & Miranda Insurance Company, Mike Karaman of Karaman Communications, Jimmy Townsend of Townsend Real Estate, Jim Pittman of Fast Signs, Bill and Mary Mathews of M & M Leather, Don Price of Lafayette Ford and Holly Whitney of Legends Pub on Bragg Boulevard.

    Entrepreneurs and risk takers everyone, and, not a “silver spoon” to be found anywhere. My list could go on and on but you get the point. The system works. It is the government that is broken. It is our government at all levels that has fostered programs and policies that cripple all Americans not just the poor and working middle class.

    Only we can fix this problem and the solution is to get involved with the process. Vote in the upcoming election and let your voice be heard. This is where and how justice will be done. Not on Wall Street and not by protesting ambiguities where each fruitless day only showcases and defines the hypocrisy of the uninformed. Vote, work, educate. If you never earn a million dollars your pride, dignity and happiness will bring you wealth beyond compare. Thank you for reading Up & Coming Weekly.  

    Photo: Protesters rail against Wall Street while embracing the corporate culture as seen by name-brand camping gear and communications devices.

  • uac101911001.jpg Reading Rocksis in its eighth year, and it is bigger and better than ever. On Oct. 22, the public is invited to rally at Festival Park for a 1.5-mile walk through historic downtown Fayetteville.

    Last year the program attracted about 20,000 participants and raised more than $200,000. Every school in the system participated — that’s two special schools, one year-round classical high school, 14 traditional-calendar high schools, 15 middle schools and 53 elementary schools — 85 schools in all, according to the Cumberland County Schools website. There are 53,361 students enrolled in this school system and 24,290 of them attend elementary school. That is almost half of our county’s students.

    The money raised averages out to more than $2,300 per school, although it wasn’t necessarily distributed that way. It’s still an impressive sum — and every penny of it was used to promote literacy for the benefit of Cumberland County students.

    Belinda Cashwell, Cumberland County Schools System media services director, said that the event organizers are hoping to have 25,000 walkers this year and that they’ve already raised $225,000. While the schools have already completed their fundraising campaigns, the county is still taking donations and can be reached at678-2613.

    One of the many great things about this fund-raiser is that each school keeps 100 percent of funds they raise.

    “It is all used to promote literacy in Cumberland County,” said Cashwell. “We are trying to raise money to put quality literature in the hands of children through our media centers. We have professional media coordinators who read professional reviews on every book purchased. We want to make sure our children have the very best materials.”10-19-11-reading-rocks-logo.jpg

    Getting kids to read is only part of the program. Cumberland County Schools also have computer-based reading programs in the schools. Once students read a book they can go and take a test about what they have read. Any parent with a child in the Cumberland County Schools is well-acquainted with the Accelerated Reader program. The program gives student a goal to read a set number of books. That goal goes into determing a student’s grade. The tests, taken on the computer, track how well a student is comprehending and processing the information they read in the book. Students must score greater than 70 percent on the test for the book to count against their goal.

    The testing element is a web-based model that Cashwell says has more than 150,000 quizzes in it. The school system also has a targeted teaching prescriptive learning model, that students can use to check out books by objective in every single media center in the Cumberland County Schools System.

    Statistics were not readily available to compare the literacy rates of local students with the state or country, but Cashwell did note that, “Our drop out rate is only 2.7 percent. We are the fourth largest school system in the state and our drop out rate is lower — which is a good step when you are talking about drop out rates — than other counties our size.”

    In addition to the walk, which is free and does not require registration, there is also a run scheduled for Oct. 22 that will benefit Reading Rocks.

    Runners can register at active.com and search Reading Rocks in Fayetteville, N.C. The race starts at 7 a.m. Online registration costs $20. It is $15 for students and same day registration is $25.

    If the good cause is not enough to inspire participation, Cashwell said that the format of the event is a unique and fun way to do things.

    “We call Reading Rocks a parade in reverse — 16 bands are stationed along the route and everyone walks past the bands,” said Cashwell. “The school that raised the most money, well, their band gets to perform at the center of the Market House. The most exciting thing is that this is our only community-wide signature program with Cumberland County School in the greater Fayetteville area. It is exciting because it is not just school children walking. We have nursing home residents who come out and participate in their wheelchairs, school personnel and their families come out too. It’s an everyone event, even though it is a fundraiser.”

    10-19-11-reading-rocks-photo.jpgSure, raising money for literacy is a great thing and the community support is amazing, but most of all, Cashwell loves the kids.

    “My favorite thing about Reading Rocks are the children. Last year there was a big surprise. It was the first year that our high school students exceeded our elementary students in attendance for this event and that is very exciting.”

    There is no registration required for the Reading Rocks walkathon. It’s a great way to support literacy and promote healthy living at the same time. The whole thing is over by 11 a.m. Call 678-2613 to find out more information or to make a donation.

    Photo: Event organizers are hoping to have 25,000 walkers this year.

     

  • 50/50  Rated R  3 stars10-19-11-movie-review.jpg

    Interesting trivia: Director Jonathan Levine is the guy who directed All the Boys Love Mandy Lane! So, here’s hoping 50/50 (100 minutes) makes a TON of money, because fan boys and girls have been talking about that Amber Heard flick since it was finished in 2006, and a successful box office for 50/50 might give an American Studio the impetus to release it stateside.

    Quality-wise, this is way better than Seth Rogen’s other cancer comedy, which we have all collectively decided to pretend is in no way similar to this movie. Except Seth Rogen is in them both and they both involve his friend who has cancer. But when I think about it, they are actually very different movies, because this one involved interesting characters instead of caricatures of real people, and was actually funny.

    Adam (Joseph Cobra Commander Gordon-Levitt) is dating Rachael (Bryce Dallas Howard). Howard is usually gorgeous, and Rachael is supposedly out of Adam’s league, but she is com-ing off as kinda whiney and trashy. Not only is Adam way more together than her, her whole character is a poorly put together clichéd mess. Since the script is loosely based on an incident in the life of screenwriter Will Reiser (who is friends with Seth Rogen in real life as well), it begs the question: did he date a girl named Rachael who was this much of a mess? Is she a real person who he is making look way, way worse in the screenplay because he needs to work some stuff out and bashing an ex-girlfriend in his movie was one way of doing that? It would be a sad commentary on his screenwriting skills if he made up a character this limited.

    Adam works at a kind of NPR with his friend Kyle (Rogen). Adam doesn’t drink, smoke, or drive, so he is genuinely puzzled when he finds out he has a rare, difficult to effectively treat, spinal cancer. Because jogging every morning and living a super healthy lifestyle will guarantee that you live forever. Really though, Adam does a pretty good job of dealing overall. As he points out to his therapist Katie (Anna Kendrick), life is 100% fatal (I may be paraphrasing).

    Having dealt with the shock of a cancer diagnosis, Adam invites his mother (Angelica Huston) and father (Serge Houde) to dinner so he can fill them in. Again I wonder: In real life did Reiser have a father with Alzheimer’s? If not, then this is a pret-ty cynical attempt to jerk the audience around. If yes, then why not leave out that part of the story and focus on how his mother deals? Is it padding? The scenes with the father don’t add a whole lot of depth to the film, Houde doesn’t get a whole lot of dialogue, and the character is a sort of emotional wallpaper.

    So, having filled in the family, Adam heads in for his chemo treatment. Naturally, Rachael refuses to share the experience. To make up for failing to handle the situation perfectly, she invests in a retired race dog named Skeletor. Let us pause and acknowl-edge how awesome that name is. While sitting through chemo-therapy, Adam makes friends with Alan (Philip Baker Hall) and Mitch (Matt Frewer). Mitch brings pot infused macaroons to the hospital, and a good time is had by all.

    Kyle starts using Adam’s cancer to pick up chicks, which works well for him (since he is a player) but not so much for Adam (due to Adam’s awkwardness/domesticity/overwhelming depression). Here’s where things start to get a bit depressing. In a movie about cancer, it is surprising that didn’t happen earlier. My husband suggested that, overall, the movie was uplifting. I pointed out that I felt jerked around and manipulated. Perhaps, as he said, this move falls outside my skill set.

    Now showing at Wynnsong 7, Carmike 12 and Carmike Market Fair 15.

  • OM.....10-19-11-margaret.jpg

    One of my favorite columnists recently wrote a column on one of my favorite topics.

    The New York Times’ ever-clever Maureen Dowd devoted her piece, entitled “How Garbo Learned to Stand on Her Head,” to the benefits and dangers of practicing yoga.

    I read Dowd regularly, but this column grabbed me since I have had an active yoga practice for well over a decade. It has seen me through the sale of a third generation family business, the Precious Jewels’ departures from the nest, five political campaigns and countless untold and largely unremembered stresses of daily life. I began yoga at a time when I was facing unwanted surgery, though not because of my medical problem. The upshot is that my medical issue long ago resolved itself without surgery, and I take no medication for it — nada! I never even think about it unless I tell someone this story. 

    Yoga is an ancient tradition — some would say art, involving both body and mind. There are many different practices, some more physical, some more mental, some more spiritual. American Baby Boomers have adopted yoga by the millions, and it is now practiced in gyms across the nation as a form of exercise, though there are certainly many people whose practices are more cerebral.

    Dowd and I agree on many things, including this: Yoga is not for everyone, but then neither are triathlons, polo, mountain bike racing or sitting on the sofa drinking martinis and savoring chocolate.

    I found Dowd’s yoga column a riveting read, both because she suggests yoga as a cure for some of our most intensely partisan politicians and because she touches on possible negative effects of yoga, which has not been my experience at all. Interesting as her column is, the 114 literate reader comments the Times allowed may be even more so. They come from people who believe they have benefi ted from the practice of yoga and from others who see it as hogwash.

    Here is a sampling of those comments: “

    We can learn to relax our bodies and minds, and we need to regularly for our health and well-being. Well-taught yoga in moderation is one way. I wonder why this simple idea, with many years of research and common sense behind it, still makes people … well, nervous.” Margaret in New York City

    “I tried standing on my head and found that it was easier and more fulfilling to stand on someone else’s head.” Richhorn in University Place, Washington

    “Oh brother. I’d rather have a couple of martinis than listen to a yoga teacher for an hour instructing me to make my body do things it doesn’t want to do on a dirty mat with crummy music …We Baby Boomers are the most obnoxious generation that ever lived. No wonder the 20-somethings can’t stand us.” Louise in Kansas

    “I always thought that if you could look that silly in a room full of other equally silly-ly posed people then you must have achieved a state of complete oblivion. I find it now just too uncomfortable. However yoga has saved my sanity. When in my life I have found myself under extreme stress, I will lie flat on the floor, do the circular breathing and relax. It works. Amazing.” Scientella in Palo Alto

    “With the economy in downward dog, the 99 percent and 1 percent in warrior, and all of our politicians in child’s pose, yoga may very well be our undoing, after all.” Jacob B. in Seattle, Washington

    “Get a dog. No nagging, nor alimony, no university tuition, always glad to see you.” Dan Green in Delray Beach, Florida

    “As a holistic physician I routinely ‘prescribe’ yoga to my patients. ‘Behavioral prescriptions’ are slowly replacing the U.S. obsession with meds. Yoga, however, historically comes from Eastern culture. Although Harvard’s Herbert Benson ‘Westernized’ yoga … any medical intervention from other cultures is inherently mistrusted by arrogant U.S. bio-medicine … U.S. patients are light years ahead of the stuck U.S. profession of organized medicine. But I doubt U.S. politicians are among our most enlightened patients.” Dr. Rick Lippin Southampton, Pennsylvania“

    A soothing massage, a nice piece of Stilton and some Chivas on the rocks, sipped slowly, works wonders for me after a hard day at my volunteer job … Finally, unplug all media and communication devices for an hour or two before bed and read a few pages of a good book. Good night….ZZZZ..zzz” Renolady in Nevada

    “I’ve done every type of exercise and fitness regime for my entire life. Took up yoga at 40 and am now 50 and it is unquestionably the best thing I’ve ever done for my mind and body...Harmony with yourself is what allows harmony with others and all your environments: social, family, work, etc…” Mr. Spock in New York City

    Larry Eisenberg in New York City wins the Maureen Dowd Ever-Clever Award, though, with this little ditty:“

    I’m raring to discard my toga, Resume my old practice of Yoga,End sexual disorder,Put frayed nerves in order,Pretend that I’m not an old foga.” Namaste.

  • Join in on the fun in Downtown Fayetteville at this month’s 4th Friday celebration on Oct. 28. Take a stroll around the historic district, browse the unique boutiques and satisfy your hunger at one of the many remarkable restaurants. There will be music on every corner and many other fun activities for visitors and resi-dents to enjoy.

    “We have a drum circle, belly dancers, acoustic musicians, jugglers. Different businesses will have refreshments, and the Arts Council has an exhibit,” said Sheri Collins, 4th Friday coordinator at the Downtown Alliance. “Also, this year we started doing different themes. For instance, this month’s theme is the Zombie Walk.

    ”In the spirit of Halloween, Zombies will invade downtown Fayetteville at the Second Annual Zombie Walkon 4th Friday. Join in on the fright fest by slip-ping into your most blood-curdling costume and start lining up at the Festival Park Promenade at 7:30 p.m. The zombies will start invading downtown at 8 p.m. and will begin shuffling down Ray Avenue and making their way toward the Market House on Hay Street. The walk will end on Green Street and the zombies will be greeted by haunting music by the Villains/Misfits and others. “The Zombie Walk ended up being a bigger event than we thought,” said Collins, “There were about 1,000 people who participated last year, and we were only expecting maybe a couple hundred.”

    The Zombie Walk and concert is free and open to the public. It is expected that this year the costumes will be even better than last year and that there will be even more participation.

    Other Halloween related events are the Murder Mystery dinner theatre at the Rainbow Room. This is a fundraiser put on by a group from Fayetteville State University and will benefit homeless and runaway teenagers. Tickets are $45 and can be purchased by calling 322-8266.

    There will also be a showing of The Night of the Living Dead at the Cameo Art House Theatre.

    This month’s feature exhibit at the Art’s Council is Witness: The American Vietnam Experience Told First Hand Through Images and Stories of Local Vietnam Veterans, Native Born Vietnamese and the Texas Tech University’s Vietnam Center and Archive. This exhibit will be open to the public at the Arts Council from 7-9 p.m. during 4th Friday.10-19-11-4th-friday-logo.jpg

    Arts Alive!is another 4th Friday feature that takes place at the Farmer’s Market at the Fayetteville Area Transportation and Local History Museum on Franklin Street. Local artists will set up dis-plays and there will be handmade goods such as clay pottery, paintings and jewelry for sale.

    Cotton Exchange Express will be on site for visitors to ride through the 4th Friday area. “This can be for adults as well, but is mostly something that the kids enjoy,” said Collins. “There’s also the 4th Friday trolley and you can get out anywhere.”

    So come out to this month’s 4th Friday and join in on the haunting and art-centered festivities that Downtown Fayetteville has to offer.

    Photo: Take a stroll around the historic district, browse the unique boutiques and satisfy your hunger at one of the many remarkable restaurants.

  • With elections right around the corner, being informed is paramount to ensuring the right candidates get voted into public office. While figuring out which candidate is indeed the one to vote for can be difficult, The Fayetteville Republican Women’s Club is mak-ing it a little easier for some people to decide.

    On Saturday, Oct. 22, The Fayetteville Republican Women’s Club presents Politics in the Park. The event is at Mazarick Park One, from 1–4 p.m. There are several fun activities on the agenda including a picnic, silent auc-tion and 50/50 raffle.10-19-11-picnic-table.jpg

    Linda McAlister, The Fayetteville Republican Women’s Club secretary, is looking forward to is the recognition of historical achievements by Republican women. She noted that women have had an influential role in American politics and have swayed the course of history yet go largely unnoticed for their efforts. She added that people may be surprised by what they will learn about the achievements of Republican women.

    The main event of the day, though, is the meet ‘n greet.

    “It is meant to introduce Fayetteville area citizens to Republican candidates at the state and local level,” said McAlister. “I think introducing candidates to people, networking with local citizens and the public having a chance to meet the candidates one on one makes such a difference. When you can meet some-one and look in their eyes — and not just hear sound bites — and hear why they believe a certain way and what has gotten them to that opinion and shake their hand, it makes a difference.”

    Several candidates plan to attend, which McAlister says will benefit both the candidates, because they can connect with potential voters, and those in attendance at the event because it offers face time with the candidates.

    Tony Gurly is scheduled to be there. He is running for lieutenanat gov-ernor. “He is pretty much a name that no one knows around here,” said McAlister. “This is a chance for people to meet him before they see his name on the ballot.”

    Wayne King is not a candidate, but he is the Republican vice chairman for the state, and he will be there, too. “He is a 30-year-old gentleman who is such a grass-roots organizer,” said McAlister. King is visiting different counties in the state to unite the Republican voters and help with campaigns.

    Ilario Pantano is tentatively planning to attend. McAlister describes him as a dynamic speaker, a veteran, an author and a financial guru who is sure to impress the crowd.

    Local radio personality Dave Taylor is the emcee. He will introduce not only the state-level candidates, but also the local councilmen who are running. There are several people running for the very first time and they will be at the event, McAlister said. “It’s a great opportunity to reach out and get to know the people who may be making decisions for the city and state in the coming years,” she added.

    It is events like these, says McAlister that give people an opportunity to become informed and help shape the government.

    “You are not just relying on news, print coverage or sound bites,” she said. “This is what The Fayetteville Republican Women’s Club has done for me — it has made candidates accessible to me. I am thrilled with having met everyone who was running on the Republican ticket the last election cycle. We get so busy with the bubbles of our lives that we don’t meet the people who are making the decisions about our lives.”

    Tickets are $15. Call 323-5369 or email mgkidd@aol.com for more information or to pur-chase a ticket.

  • 10-19-11-oktoberfest.jpgIt has been two years since Fort Bragg hosted its last Oktoberfest, but it’s back now, and from Oct. 27-Nov. 6, at the Fort Bragg Fairgrounds, local residents choose to attend are in for a great time.The festival has all the things required for a fun day with friends and family.

    What started in 1810 as a wedding celebration in the fields just out-side the city gates of Munich, Germany, has grown into a celebration that people look forward to all over the world each year. Sure, when Crowne Prince Ludwig (later to become King Ludwig I) wed Princess Therese of Saxony-Hildburghausen, he had no idea this festive occas-sion would be the root of a long-lasting and much cherished tradtion, much less the largest festival in the world, according to the city of Munich’s website.

    The fact that it gives the rest of the world a reason to hold a festi-val, enjoy the autumn weather and some entertainment is a boone for festival lovers all around. With the cooler weather, heading out for a day of fun is an easy choice, and the fact that there is not far to travel to get there is a bonus.

    The Fort Bragg version of Oktoberfest is full of great entertainment and activities that the entire family is sure to enjoy.

    Entertainment varies daily and includes a Bavarian Brass Band, a traditional German oom-pa band, Newton and the Signature Series Band, an R&B band, rock band Black Market Special, country performers Currie Clayton and Contraband and Ryan Daniels. Delta Saints, a blues/rock band and The Fifth, a rock band, round out the stage sched-ule. There are multiple performances scheduled each day.

    Of course, there will be carnival rides galore, and food vendors offering everything from popcorn and cotton candy to funnel cakes and hot dogs. Unlimited free rides are included with the price of admission.

    Every Monday through Thursday is Customer Appreciation Day. From 5-7 p.m., it costs just $5 to get in for those aged 3 and older.

    Gates open at 5 p.m. on weekdays and 1 p.m. on weekends. Monday through Thursday after 7 p.m. general admission is $12; children 3-9 $10; military and Department of Defense civilians $10; Handicapped non-rider $7; senior citizen non-rider age 50 or older $7. Friday through Sunday general admission is $17; children 3-9 are $15; military ID cardholders and Department of Defense Civilians are $15; Handicapped non-riders are $7; and senior citizen non-riders ages 50 and older are $7 to get in. Children under 36” tall and under age 3 are admitted free every day.

    Parking is free and the public is invited to come and join the fun. Find out more at www.fortbraggmwr.com.

    Photo: The Fort Bragg version of Oktoberfest is full of great entertainment and activities that the entire family is sure to enjoy.

  • uac101211001.jpg With the first signs of Fall showing up in the Cape Fear Region, it only makes sense that people’s thoughts will turn away from summer and outdoor pursuits to something a little calmer — but not if you’re a fan of hockey. In Fayetteville, colder weather means one thing: It’s time for FireAntz Hockey. This year, the FireAntz are pulling out all of the stops to ensure a great year as they celebrate their 10th anniversary, according to Dean Russell, the team’s assistant general manager.

    Russell said the team is going into the season with a new outlook, a new coach and by-in-large, a new bench. The team has been busy recruiting new players under the watchful eye of the new coach, Sean Gillam.

    “Sean is looking to build a bigger team, a tougher team,” said Russell. “We are truly a developmental league, so players come here to learn and then they move on. We are looking at about six former players returning, but everyone else will be new.”

    Russell said he doesn’t believe that will affect the devotion of fans, who have a strong support for the team. “We have even more opportunities for fans to get out and meet the new players. We are scheduling more meet and greets and more opportunities for the players to be out in the community,” he said. “I think it won’t take long for the fans to warm up to the new team.” 10-12-11-fireantz-story.jpg

    The new coach and the new team are something of a fresh start for the franchise. Last year was the first time the team did not make the playoffs, something Russell hopes will change this year.

    “This is going to be a bigger team, a tougher team,” he said. “We start training camp Sunday (Oct. 9), and I’m sure we are going to see a lot out of the team.”

    Over the years, the FireAntz have worked very hard to become an integral part of the community. They have participated in everything from promoting the Blood Donor Center to reading to children in elementary schools. That sense of community will be even stronger this year, as the team celebrates its anniversary.

    “We have a lot of special nights already scheduled and a lot of other events, including the choosing of an all-decade team by the fans later this year,” continued Russell. “Our first military night is at the end of this month on Oct 29.”

    Military nights are one way the FireAntz reach out to the military community. The team has already made inroads with the new commands and hopes to continue building relationships with the military.

    The first game of the season is scheduled for Oct. 21 at the Crown Coliseum. Russell hopes that fans will come out and show the new players the support that make FireAntz fans legend.

    “We have some players returning who were fan favorites, but we don’t think it will take long for the fans to warm up to the new team,” he said.

    For more information about meet and greets, how to particiapte at on-ice games or to book appearances by the FireAntz, visit www.fireantzhockey.com. Check out upcoming issues of Up & Coming Weekly for more information on the team, special nights and upcoming events.

     

     Gillam to Lead FireAntz in 10th Anniversary Season10-12-11-sgillam.jpg

    When Kevin MacNaught, president/general manager of the Fayetteville FireAntz, announced he was looking for a new coach to the lead the team in its 10th anniversary season, he was innundated with resumes. As he pored over reams of paper, one resume rose to the top — that of Sean Gillam, an assistant coach of the Rio Grande Valley Killer Bees.

    Gillam replaces Tommy Stewart, who was released April 7 after four seasons with the Southern Professional Hockey League team.

    “The cornerstones are that we’re going to be a hard-working, disciplined team that puts forth 100 percent effort every night,” Gillam said.

    MacNaught noted,“I have faith in him to be able to recruit and put a strong team together,” MacNaught said.

    “I have confidence in him that he’s straight-up. He didn’t brag about anything — I had to pry stuff out of him about his assets, so he’s pretty humble that way. He’s a guy I think the team’s going to be able to follow and believe in.”

    Gillam, is a 35-year-old native of Lethbridge, Alberta, and a third-round pick by Detroit in the 1994 NHL entry level draft. A defenseman, Gillam played in 662 games over 10 seasons as a pro minor leaguer. He signed with Rio Grande Valley (McAllen, Texas) in 2003 when the Killer Bees were launched, and the team retired his jersey in 2008.

  • 10-12-11-cumberland-oratorio-logo.jpgIt’s been 20 years since the Cumberland Oratorio Singers debuted in Fayetteville. It’s been 20 years of high quality performances and entertainment and 20 years of fun. On Oct. 14, the Cumberland Oratorio Singers open their 2011/2012 season with A Concert of German Masters: Bach, Beethoven and Brahms.

    “This is the first performance of our season,” said Maureen Yearby, of the Cumberland Oratorio Singers. “It is the German Master Composers — about 1/2 of the concert will be presented in German as it was written by the composers. A few peices will be sung in English.”

    Ludwig van Beethoven’s “Hallelujah,” from Christ on the Mount of Olives is the first number in the line-up. It’s a piece that is set in the garden of Gethsemane right before the crucifixion of Jesus Christ and explores the emotional turmoil that Jesus must have felt at the time. The piece is often considered more dramatic than religious. The piece ends when Jesus personally accepts his fate and focuses on the fact that it was a personal decision.

    The concert ends with Johann Sebastian Bach’s “Wachet auf, ruft uns die Stimme, BWV 140,” a chorale contata which is also known as “Sleeper’s Wake.” Based on Wachet auf, ruft uns die Stimme by Philipp Nicolai, this hymn has been translated into English and enjoys popularity in English and German. The piece is about the parable of the ten virgins in the book of Matthew of the Bible.

    The rest of the season promises to be well rounded and packed with great entertainment too.

    On Dec. 4, the annual performance of Messiah Sing! Will be performed at First Presbyterian Church. This classic is always fun for the audience because citizens of Fayetteville are invited to join the chorus on stage and sing with them.

    On March 24, the Cumberland Oratorio Singers team up with the Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra, area university and community choirs to perform “Beethoven Symphony No. 9 in D Minor, Op. 125” at Reeve’s Auditorium. Other works to be performed are “Ode to Joy,” The group of choirs is called The Spring Festival Chorus and plans to work together in the future to make collaborative choral works a tradition in the community.

    Let Your Light Shine is the last performance of the season and will take place on May 11 at St. Ann Catholic Church. They will perform Lux Aeterna by Morton Lauridson. “The concept of light is very powerful in both poetry and song. The five movements of Lux Aeterna are based on various references to light from sacred Latin texts. The power and finesse of Lux Aeterna will speak to each of us in its own way,” says the Cumberland Oratorio Singers website.

    The concert is at Highland Presbyterian Church. It begins at 7:30 p.m.

    “We love to have students in attendance,” said Yearby. “In fact, students of all ages are admitted free of charge. That has always been our commitment to the community. We take very serioulsly trying tp spread the love of classical choral music and trying to make sure that we expose younger genreations to the genre to inspire them to participate when they grow up and to introduce them to the classiscs.

    Visit http://cumberlandoratoriosingers.org to find out more about the Cumberland Oratorio Singers.

  • Defender of the Faith

    Tom Ross has a really, really tough job.10-12-11-margaret.jpg

    Ross was inaugurated last week as the fifth president of the University of North Carolina system, which now has nearly 225,000 students. He has already been on the job for nine months, long enough to understand that his challenge is to continue providing higher education to more and more sons and daughters of North Carolina at a time of fewer and fewer resources.

    I do not know anyone who does not think that public education at all levels is under serious assault in our state. During its recent session, the General Assembly cut funding to all educational levels — K-12 an the community colleges. The university system took the hardest hit of all. Federal and private dollars are harder to come by in this grim economy as well.

    Parents moan, often with justification, about all sorts of issues in K-12 schools — curricula, discipline, red tape and more, and they often vote with their feet by putting their children in independent schools or home schooling them. These choices affect public schools in many ways, including decreased funding, decreased diversity with the cultural enrichment it brings and less parental input and support. In some cases, there are also political attacks against public schools. I heard candidates in the last election cycle referring to public schools as “government schools,” insinuating that this is negative and not the glue of common experience that binds much of our nation.

    In our community colleges, courses that lead to well-paid employment are being curtailed for lack of funding, and instructors endure among the lowest pay in our nation.

    But here in the land of the first publicly supported university in the country, the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill chartered by the legislature here in Fayetteville in 1789, the elected descendents of those enlightened people cut university system funding by almost 16 percent at a time when North Carolina’s population is exploding and higher education is more important than ever in our global economy. That first public university, by the way, took an 18 percent hit, the largest in the UNC system.

    Tom Ross is the guy who has to deal with that this year for the foreseeable future.

    He has clearly been thinking a great deal about our university system as evidenced by recent interviews and by his inaugural address last week.

    First off, Ross refuses to whine.

    He continues to focus on the university system’s charge to deliver quality higher education. N.C.’s Constitution states that this education shall be free, “as far as is practicable.” The problem is that no one knows what that means, and as the state pulls back funding, tuition increases loom large. Couple that with the reality of diminishing financial-aid for students, and the door of educational opportunity inches shut for families of low and modest means. Moreover, some political circles do not support any sort of student financial aid, a position that bodes ill for many who seek higher education.

    University classes are already getting larger and fewer, meaning that some students will not graduate in four years because they could not get into all their required courses. In addition, there are calls to limit enrollment in the 17 constituent institutions of the UNC system at the same time nations challenging the United States in this global economy are ramping up their education systems.

    North Carolinians who value education and who understand the profound difference it makes in the quality of life of both individuals and families are deeply concerned. Appalled may be a better word.

    Study after study confirms that educated people make more money and lead more satisfying lives than those who are less educated. We can tell ourselves that being educated is an individual achievement and blessing, that one person’s education has nothing to do with the rest of us, but we would be wrong. It is in everyone’s best interest that North Carolina have an educated population prepared to keep our state and our nation competitive as the world continues to shrink.

    Tom Ross put it this way in a recent interview with the Raleigh News and Observer, “If you look at most communities, most states, many, many of the leaders of those communities … and their institutions, are people who are college-educated. Our institutions are in the business, I think, of producing leaders for our society, and we’re in the business of helping people understand about a civil society, and how and why we come together in a society. So there’s a value to the common good.”

    Thousands of North Carolinians have saved and planned for their own educations and for those of their children, secure in the belief that education will improve their lives and in the hope that their children’s lives will be better still.

    This is the deepest heart of the American dream, and in North Carolina, it is in peril.

    Photo: Tom Ross, president of the University of North Carolina 

  • Holidays are right around the corner and that means that you need to start on your gift list. A great way to start would be to visit the annual Small Business Expo held by the local North Carolina Center of Economic Empowerment and Development, otherwise known as CEED.

    Every year CEED gives local business owners an opportunity to show off their exclusive and lim10-12-11-small-business-expo.jpgited products and have them available for individuals to purchase. This is a wonderful opportunity to start shopping for the holidays and get your hands on exclusive deals that no one else offers. 

    Visitors to the event will find a wide variety of goodies to give to their favorite someone — or even to keep for themselves. There will be a vendor from Pretty & Pink where one can get their hands on fashion accessories, handbags, clothing and more. D-Unique Jewelry and Accessories will be there along with Hope Thru Horses, which is an equine-assisted psychotherapy program. Diamond Home Essentials and Ways of Wellness will be in attendance as well.

    There are about 80 vendors who will be present during the expo this year including several food vendors. Chef Julius III, who is well known for the Bezzies Home-style Barbeque Sauce, is a local favorite and will be at the event.

    According to Laura Solano, who is a business consultant at CEED, “This is our third year for organizing the Small Business Expo, and it’s our first time holding it at Cross Creek Mall. Our objective is to stimulate our local business growth and bring exposure.”

    Cross Creek Mall, being a centralized location, will bring an increased amount of vendors and attendees this year. CEED has a main goal of finding ways to help individuals and businesses succeed. By going along with the mission of promoting growth, productiveness and well being through peer counseling, education, information and advocacy programs, CEED is anticipating a successful event that is sure to please both the vendors and the event attendees.

    CEED provides a variety of programs to the community, both on an individual and business level. Last year, according to CEED statistics, 2,407 small business owners attended 1,645 workshops and $285,000 was loaned to seven small business owners. Along with classes and workshops, CEED also provides many resources to displaced homemakers. Last year CEED helped 148 people in this category with resources like financial aid counseling, the career makeover workshop, the family law clinic and the computers for the workplace clinic.

    The North Carolina Center for Economic Empowerment and Development is located at 230 Hay St. Find out more about the organization by visiting the website at www.ncceed.org or smallbusinessexpo@ncceed.org.

  • As the Arts Council of Fayetteville-Cumberland County closes the exhibit Recycle! It’s Natural, the exhibit in the small west gallery will remain open until Oct. 23. Accumulation: A Collage Invitational is a small, but powerful exhibit that dominates the space in presence, professionalism and originality.

    Seven artists were selected to show two works each in an effort to partner professionals with the open competition for the exhibit in the main gallery. The result was an exhibit that reveals the power and variety of styles within the collage technique.

    Collage, the attaching of individual parts to an existing surface to create composition and meaning, was explored by Pablo Picasso and Georges Braque in the early 20th century. The technique has continued to strongly influence image making by artists from Pop art to the present. Accumulation is an exhibit that readily reveals the variety of styles professional artists use to incorporate collage into their works.

    Included in the exhibit are quotations from each artist verbally communicating how collage is being used in the work — quotations will evoke the “ah ha!” moment for visitors to the gallery. Each quotation has the potential of bringing new meaning to the already existing multiple meanings of each work.

    James Biederman, a Brooklyn, N.Y.-based abstract painter, joined the University of North Carolina at Pembroke’s art faculty in 2007, and was named the Martha Beach Distinguished Professor of Art at UNC Pembroke. Most recently he was awarded the 2008 Joan Mitchell Foundation Sculptors and Painters Grant. (The foundation issues $25,000 grants to 25 artists annually.)

    Biederman is exhibiting two small abstract works titled “Amorous” and “A Year from Monday, John Cage.” Both works are no larger than 14” x 14” and appear twice their size in presence on the gallery wall. He combines the mark making of two painted surfaces joined to create what Biederman refers to as “unfi xing the fixed.”

    With the masterful strokes of simplicity and limited color, Biederman refers to his paintings as “fragments of thought and moments realigned and seemingly fi xed; something not whole but complete; disjointed time, vision and space.” Upon seeing the paintings, the words will make perfect sense to viewers. His juxtaposition of surfaces and even using a stapler to create marks all appear effortlessly masterful. In Biederman’s works, what is absent is equally important to what is present.

    Two other artists are representing UNC-P in the exhibit — Carla Rokes and Janette Hopper. The works of Rokes, a graphic designer, are in strong contrast to the more spacious work by Hopper.

    The impressions Hopper transfers in the printmaking process are complemented by the Sumi painted marks incorporated into her images — quiet, refl ective and poetic moments are evoked in the two works titled “Low Country” and “Duality.” In our present age of information, Hopper combines an array of information to bring us back to a place of quietude. The artist states, “Direct drawing using Sumi ink, the collage and simplistic printing processes mimic the contemplative wealth provided to us by nature. Meditative is the word that comes to mind to describe this process and the resulting works.”

    Rokes’ images are a combination of computer graphic images to create an interpretation of the female fi gure in space. The fi gure is active in movement; the sensuous texture is enclosed, locked within a sparse and minimal background. “Losing Equilibrium” and “Gush” are both works which, according to Rokes “explore feminine identities with the assemblage of disparate visual elements; the image is re-contextualized to create a new whole.”

    The collage images of Fayetteville Technical Community College art instructor Chuck Lawson echo Rokes’s comment, “assemblage of disparate visual elements.” Lawson takes the disparate combination to make a more traditional collage of torn paper parts combined. Yet the content of Lawson’s work is anything but traditional. His work refl ects a solemn message about what he calls the “disjointed psyche of modern humans.”

    Lawson’s works titled “Been Workin’ Out” and “Tips for Gorgeous” scream about a condition of American culture: Desire is a foil for the sinister and glamour is a foil for the ridiculous. The messages in Lawson’s works directly challenge states of being in our culture.

    Peggy Hinson and Silvana Foti represent two of the art faculty at Methodist University. Both Hinson and Foti are long standing professional artists in the community who have exhibited extensively.

    Hinson’s collage images are a mix of architectural places, dry humor and often individuals we can recognize in art history books. Both works, “Romie at the Met” and “Happening at the Met,” are humorous spins on individuals interacting in a staged setting, the collage becomes a place of discovery as the viewer slowly identifi es individuals they recognize among the crowded narrative.

    Years ago, Hinson decided to take the collage approach after completing a major shadow-box construction based on the life and art of Romare Bearden. After that experience she noted, “I decided to integrate collage into my work. I expanded my subjects and discovered that I could tell stories, make commentaries, and use humor with combined imagery from old master artists.”

    Foti is exhibiting two works which refl ect a more well-known style and her most recent approach after a sabbatical from teaching. Individuals who have followed her career will be able to compare “Underwater Maze” and “Underwater Tapestry.” The use of metal in combination with color and pattern has moved from a geometric-design composition to having a highly organic quality.

    Foti explains her work concisely, “Parts are combined to create a new space — each part, a microcosm in itself, is a component of a larger universe. Parts, as a collective, create rhythm within the work; as10-12-11-soni-martin.jpg well as the energy of space.”

    Dwight Smith is the artist/assistant professor representing Fayetteville State University in the exhibit. Smith is known in the area as an abstract artist who integrates iconic symbols into his collages. Color and texture have always been an integral part of Smith’s technique for creating space and rhythm — movement across the picture plane or “push/pull” in space.

    As with all the art in the exhibit, as well as being an integral part of contemporary sensibilities, multiple meanings are always present in Smith’s work. His comment on the two works in the exhibit is as follows, “Collage is a method of integrating opposites into a state of harmony and balance. Iconic symbols, abstract shapes, patterns and textures merge as a sum that is greater than its parts.”

    The exhibit is small, only 14 works of art by seven artists, but it is a wonderfully diverse and potent exhibition of professional originality and high standards. For information about this exhibit and upcoming exhibitions, call the Art Council at 323-1776 or visit the website at www.theartscouncil.com.

    Photo: “A Year From Monday, John Cage,” by James Biderman is one of 14 works on display in Ac-cumulation: A Collage Invitational at the Arts Council.

  • 10-12-11-trail-brings-screams-.jpgIf your idea of Halloween excitement goes beyond the simple fun of trick or treating to include the thrills and chills of a terrifying scare, Fayetteville-Cumberland County area offers numerous opportunities to raise both the hair on the back of your neck and the pitch of your scream.

    For at least 15 years, Arnette Park and Fayetteville-Cumberland County Parks and Recreation have held the Haunted Hayride, a one-mile-long open-air ride that travels the Haunted Trail to Marlowe Mansion, a haunted house.

    This year’s event takes place on Thursday-Saturday, Oct. 27-29 from 7 to 9 p.m. Admission is $2 per person. According to a spokesman for the parks and recreation office, the event is not recommended for small children.

    Arnette Park is located at 2165 Old Wilmington Road. For more information, visit www.fcpr.us/special_events.aspx or call 433-1547. In case of inclement weather, call 306-7325.

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    Stoney Point Fire Department will continue its reputation for sending shivers up the spines of guests during its ninth annual Trail of Terroron Oct.14-15, 20-22 and 27-31, from 8 to 10 p.m. on Thursdays and 8 to 11 p.m. on all other evenings.

    “Basically, a couple of years ago, we threw out the idea, ‘Hey, let’s do a haunted house,” said Lieutenant Tara Whitman. “The guys out here did one, and they stopped doing it. They used to run one over at Lafayette Village Fire Department, and they closed that one down, and there was nothing around here for Halloween, so we said, ‘Let’s try it and see how it goes.’ We just threw some people in costumes and threw them out there in the woods and cut a little path. There was just nothing to it. It was a huge success, and ever since then, we’ve been going strong.”

    In fact, the Trail of Terror grows bigger each year.10-12-11-trail-clown.jpg

    “We always try to switch it up a bit and do things a bit better than we did the year before,” Whitman said. “It takes 15-20 minutes to go through the trail. We have a haunted mansion, and then you have to walk through a cornfi eld and in and out of buildings. You’re actually walking through an older-style mansion with all the dark wood paneling and different rooms like the parlor, the study, the bedroom, the kitchen and then you’re out of the house. There’s a variety of themes, and you’ll see a little bit of everything. We guarantee a good time and a good scare.”

    The Trail of Terror is recommended for ages 12 and older, but the fire department also offers a Trail of Candy for small kids on Oct. 29 from 1 to 3 p.m.

    “We don’t scare them,” said Whitman. “And they get a chance to walk through it, too.”

    Prepare to be scared, but please don’t bring cameras, flashlights or video cameras. Admission is $12 per person. The event is held at the Stoney Point Fire Department, 7221 Stoney Point Rd: and actually originated in the reincarnation of past haunted houses from more than 20 years ago.

    For more information, visit www.stoneypointfi re.com/SPFD-Trail-o-Terror.or call (910) 424-0624.

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    In a twist on the title of popular novel and movie Field of Dreams, Gillis Hill Road Produce offers Field of Screams on Oct. 21-22, 28-29 and Halloween night.

    “This is our second year of having a haunted corn trail,” said Jenna Gillis, who runs the Field of Screams with her brother William. “It will be here at the produce stand. Last year we held it with random things, like a haunted corn maze. This year we have more of a theme, kind of like back in the country. We’re trying to make it as scary as possible. We’ve put more into the facemasks and the special effects.”

    And if someone would rather scare than be scared, Field of Screams is accepting applications for participants up until Oct. 15. This fi ve-acre haunted corn trail thriller runs from 7 to 11 p.m. each Friday and Saturday and from 7 to 10 p.m. Halloween night at Gillis Hill Road Produce, 2899 Gillis Hill Rd. Admission is $8 per person, and groups of 10 or more receive a discount of 10 percent. For more information, visit www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=268258853205505 or call 308-9342.

    Happy hauntings!

    Photo, top left: A Trail of Terror actor offers up a haunting look.

  • October is such an exciting month here in North Carolina! There are fairs, festivals, concerts and bazaars all throughout the state. Fayetteville is no exception to the activity buzz and one of the most anticipated local events is the opening of the Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra’s Emerald Anniversary Season! Celebrating its 55th year, The FSO has scheduled a concert season that truly offers something for everyone, regardless of age!10-12-11-fso-show.jpg

    Just in time for Halloween, on Oct. 22, The FSO will open its season with a Symphonic Spooktacular which will feature musical pieces, hauntingly orchestrated, from some of today’s most well-known scary films!

    Fouad Fakhouri, music director and conductor of the FSO, said that, “Children, along with their parents, will recognize the music from the movies like Harry Potter, Pirates of the Caribbean and Star Wars. The rest of the program will reintroduce them to short classical pieces that they may have heard before but have forgotten … pieces like “Night on Bald Mountain” used in Disney’s Fantasia, as well as “Danse Macabre” that’s been used in many children’s cartoons.”

    In addition, the concert will also feature Fayetteville State University Percussion Professor, Dr. Don Parker, who will perform a Latin-inspired vibraphone concerto written by Brazilian composer, Ney Rosauro.

    When asked about the appropriate age to start introducing children to the symphony, Fakhouri explained, “I think it’s never too early to introduce children to the orchestra. Unfortunately, there is a misconception that symphonic music is not for everybody. Our aim for this concert is to try and change that perception.”

    Not only do the musical selections make this particular concert a little more youth friendly, but children (and adults) are encouraged to wear the costumes, especially those featuring characters from Harry Potter, Pirates of the Caribbean and Star Wars. Fakhouri stresses, however “audiences at this performance, whether children or adults, can expect great music as well as great entertainment.”

    Roxanne Harris, administrative coordinator for the FSO, adds that there will be some thrilling surprises in store during the Symphonic Spooktacular!

    One of the event sponsors, Spirit Halloween, will decorate the auditorium lobby to create an eerie ambiance. In addition, the 501st Carolina Garrison (an international Star Wars costuming organization) will be on hand to, according to Harris, “celebrate musical chills and blockbuster thrills.”

    While there are no food or beverages for sale during the concert, audiences are always invited to attend the reception, held after each performance, where complimentary refreshments are served.

    The box office for this event opens at 6:30 p.m. and seating will start shortly thereafter. The concert will begin at 7:30 p.m. Single concert ticket prices are $25 for adults, $20 for military ID-holders and senior adults over age 65, $5 for students with ID, while children 12 and under are free. For more information about this performance, or to see the entire concert lineup for the year, visit the FSO website at www.fayettevillesymphony.org or call 910-433-4690.

    Photo: Just in time for Halloween, on Oct. 22, The FSO will open its season with a Symphonic Spooktacular.

     

  • ARIES (March 21-April 19) Added stressors come into the mix this week. Soon enough, though, you’ll realize the gift in said “challeng-es” and be grateful that you accepted them.

    TAURUS (April 20-May 20) Give yourself the time and space to do what you want to do. It sounds simple enough, and yet there are many reasons why you haven’t been able to create the moment and fi nd the quiet, comfortable space to make magic happen. You will be more mind-ful and intent than you’ve been in a long time.

    GEMINI (May 21-June 21) The origami artists and physicists agree that the essence of life is folding. Whether it’s the folding of paper or DNA, the act of folding is sure to make a dramatic difference. And so will your efforts this week, which are likely to include bringing people into your “fold.”

    CANCER (June 22-July 22) Relationships are funny. Sometimes in life you have an attraction for someone but can’t guess the way to make a connection. Or you have a connection with someone and no attraction. You have both this week and should celebrate it for all it’s worth.

    LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) A person does not equal the sum total of his or her habits, tenden-cies and preferences. You can like someone without having to be like that person. Your ability to relate, empathize and be enriched by those who are very different from you will be highlighted this week.

    VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) What you read will be important to you later. Reading is not a tangent or an indulgence, though it sometimes feels that way this week, particularly when the reading material is good. You’ll collect new words and learn their meanings. Having a com-mand of language will increase your power and infl uence.

    LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) You’ve seen relationships that were built on insecurity and need, and you’ve even been in them. They can transform into something stable and support-ive, though, as each party develops a stronger identity. You’ll be favorably affected by sucha transformation.

    SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21) The problem is that your nearest and dearest have become so accustomed to your charms that they take them for granted. When you get out and mingle among people you’ve never met before, your magic works anew.

    SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21) You may not always do the ideal thing for your overall physical health. Sometimes your intentions get trumped by what you need to do to feel better in the moment. But when you are well rested and the stressors of your life are at bay, you will revel in good, wholesome habits.

    CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) When you interact with another person, you are free to feel however you want about that person. You’ll be challenged by the behavior of others. They seem intent on making it difficult for you to be kindhearted. Love will win in the end.

    AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18) In a funny way, you wish you could return to a state of depen-dence on others, if only because it would show you once more that you are completely loved — and not for what you bring to the table, but just for being you. Someone will dote on you, and you’ll love it.

    PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20)You read the omens differently from the way others read them. You see the opportunities that exist in every situation. You may not be able to act on every opportunity, but noticing the promise that’s there will benefit you in the days and weeks to come.

  • As someone who appreciates the social and economic value of advertising and marketing, I don’t mean the comparison as a slight. Politics is the means by which human societies confer and legitimate the power of force. It is — or at least ought to be — a serious endeavor, conducted by people who seek such power for legiti-mate ends, rather than to enrich themselves or oppress others

    Just because people market useless diet pills and tedious rap “music” through advertising, public relations, social media and other modern techniques doesn’t mean that they aren’t well suited to more serious causes. Effective marketing is simply effective mass communication. And the alternative to seeking political power through marketing campaigns is to seek it through corrupt or forceful means

    So thank goodness politics is about marketing.

    As the technologies and tools of marketing have changed, so has our politics. In the early American republic, when true mass communication was impossible and the voting franchise was limited anyway, political campaigns consisted of letters, meetings, personal appearances, and grassroots organization. As mass media pro-liferated through the 19th and early 20th centuries, political campaigns increasingly focused their attention on securing favorable press coverage and producing high-quality display and broadcast ads.

    In today’s social-media world, mass communication has become mass customization. Political campaigns now use tools such as Facebook to target messages to potential voters and donors based on stated interests and preferences.

    For example, those Facebook members who list church, community service, and social causes among their interests will get a very different advertising message than members who list hunting, sports, or playing the stock market. All these mem-bers may be Republican-leaning voters, and they may all end up voting for the same candidates. But their reasons and motivations likely differ — which is why candi-dates differentiate the messages accordingly.

    There are at least two major concerns I’ve seen expressed about the onset of political mass customization. Both deserve serious consideration.

    The first is that by using Facebook preferences, magazine subscriptions, and other consumer information to personalize their messages, political parties and candidates are violating the privacy of potential voters and donors.

    In a free society, people ought to be able to protect their privacy from unwant-ed intrusion, be it by government or by private parties violating their contractual responsibilities. For the most part, however, the information that political actors use to customize their messages is either freely disclosed (as with personal Facebook pages with privacy screens off) or obtained legally through agreements between companies and customers (as with many subscription and mailing lists)

    If I thought there were gross, widespread intrusions of privacy here, I’d be worried about it. So far, that doesn’t seem to be the case. Remember that targeted advertising is good for consumers — it serves to inform potentially interested in-dividuals of something they may value, be it a consumer good or a political cause, while sparing those unlikely to be interested from having to see or hear the ad in the first place.

    The second concern is about the loss of shared experience. While Americans have often found political ads and other campaign messages annoying, they have helped to create a common body of knowledge. Think about the Helms-Hunt Senate race in 1984. While many North Carolinians were annoyed by the TV ads they saw from each side, the most-despicable material was relegated to small-circulation newspapers aimed at rural audiences — messages that many urban and suburban voters never saw.

    Of course, the difference is that even if you customize your message in 2012, that doesn’t mean it won’t quickly leak into the mass media if it is libelous, ridicu-lous, or shameful. A couple of clicks and a “targeted” message with a potential to upend a campaign will go viral.

    My sense is that customization of electoral marketing will bring more upsides than downsides for most voters, and for the political process. Social media offer the promise of persuading and motivating voters at a cost many cash-poor candidates can afford. Sounds good to me.

  • The Computer-Integrated Machining curricu-lum at Fayetteville Technical Community College is designed to prepare students for a career in manufacturing by providing them with the skills required to enter into various machining positions. We emphasize all aspects of machining that are required to take a product from the initial design to the final product. To accomplish this, we utilize a wide variety of metalworking equipment that in-cludes manual and computerized machines, such as drill presses, lathes, and milling machines. We also have a new computerized EDM (electrical dis-charge machine) that cuts extremely precise, com-plex geometry without ever touching the part. The operation is accomplished by using fine sparks that jump from a brass wire to the product to burn the material out of the cut.

    In general, a machinist is a skilled craftsman who uses machine tools to manufacture parts from various materials. These parts can be one-of-a-kind parts used in special ap-plications or numerous parts used in a high-volume production operation. To understand how a machinist impacts your daily life, we need to understand what a machinist produces. Production machinists produce multiples of parts used in production requirements. Specialized machinists include mold makers who produce molds used to manufacture plastic or die cast parts, die makers who pro-duce stamping dies that cut and form sheet metal parts, and general machinists who produce almost any product needed. One of the best examples of a machinist’s work is a car. The panels that form the shape of a car are typically stamped from dies. The plastic components, such as the grill, lights, hub caps, dashboard and console, are produced from molds. The engine, transmission, axles, wheels, and various other parts are made by production machinists.

    In order to properly produce a part, a machinist must also be able to read blueprints, interpret the geometry and specifications, select the proper tools and processes, and use all the necessary machines and gages required. A machinist must also be able to manufacture precise parts. In our training, we manufacture parts to tolerances of ±.0002 of an inch (approximately 1/20th of a human hair). To meet these require-ments, we include classes in blueprint reading, general math, geometry, trigonometry, metallurgy (the properties of metals) and metrology (the study of measurements). Since computers have become such a vital part of manufacturing, we also teach classes in CNC, CAD and CAM. CNC (computer numerical control) is the computer interface that allows a machinist to write a computer program that controls the movements of a machine. CAD (computer aided design) is software that allows the design of products through a specialized computer program. CAM (computer aided machining) is software that allows a machinist to take a CAD drawing or model and generate the CNC code for a machine to produce the part.10-12-11-ftcc.jpg

    Although the field of more than 400,000 machinists is expected to remain steady, job prospects are expected to grow as more machinists retire or change careers than new candidates enter the field. As with many fields, the pay varies widely, with the typical starting pay for a machinist ranging from $14-$18 an hour and a top pay that can exceed $25 an hour.

    Come and see how you can begin a rewarding career in this highly technical and challenging field and visit our state-of-the-art lab facility at Fayetteville Technical Community College. For more information, please contact Gary Smith, program coordinator, at 678-8375.

    Photo: Although the field of more than 400,000 machinists is expected to remain steady, job prospects are expected to grow as more machinists retire or change careers than new candidates enter the field.

  • Moneyball  (Rated PG-13) 2 STARS10-12-11-movie-review.jpg

    Moneyball (133 minutes) is not breaking any ground in the sport’s movie plot department. Much like every other sports movie, ever, an underdog (name a sport) team tries to (name a new strategy) so they can reverse their losses. But wait! (name authority figure) doesn’t believe it will work! But this team has heart, so after ignoring the experts who did not believe in them, they insist on trying (repeat name of new strategy). At the end of the day, the team wins an award/proves they can win/learns that winning isn’t everything.

    Two hours in the theater and that is what I am taking away from the whole experience. The film opens on the Oakland Athletics’ as they wrap up their 2001 season. They have just lost to the Yankees by a couple of hits, and they are about to lose the heart of their team, Johnny Damon, Jason Giambi, and Jason Isringhausen. Their general manager, Billy Beane (Brad Pitt) struggles to maintain the competitiveness of the team despite having the lowest salary budget in the league.

    While roaming the Earth to recruit players, Beane runs into Peter Brand (Jonah Hill). Brand has clearly read Freakonomics and he is pushing for a math-ematical assessment of players’ value. Bean is working through some issues related to the way he was recruited, which is revealed to the audience via some helpful soft-focus flashbacks.

    Convinced that Brand’s focus on recruiting otherwise undesirable players will pay off, Beane hires him and they start convincing random scouts and own-ers that they are smarter than they look. After making peace with the scouts, the scene shifts to dealing with Manager Art Howe (Philip Seymour Hoffman, chan-neling Tommy Lasorda a lot more effectively than he is channeling Howe). Howe insists on playing the roster his way rather than following the formula designed by Beane and Brand.

    Beane responds by trading the lone remaining superstar player so that Howe has no choice but to follow the strategy. Of course, the media gives the manager all the credit for the result-ing, record-breaking, winning streak. Flush with the prov-en success of the method he championed, and probably more than little bit pumped at having alpha-maled Howe, Beane wanders the locker rooms sprinkling words of wis-dom and motivation over the players’ heads.

    There are some nice scenes in the middle of the movie introducing players who are in it for the love of the game, who aren’t making a ton of money, and who are either trying to find their way into a secure contract after being labeled a liability or are on their way out, and struggling to hang on.

    There is also a brief scene introducing Beane’s ex-wife (Robin Wright) that serves to encapsulate Beane’s life. Basically, he had a lot of potential that he didn’t live up to, so the people he was relying on to support him hung him out to dry.

    This is a good example of a sports movie. If you like sports movies, you will like this. Moneyball’s strength lies in focusing on the dramatic tension inherent to the coach/general manager relationship, and the media scrutiny and second-guessing. The film is weakest when addressing non-team related issues. The flashbacks to Beane’s recruitment seem emotionally disconnected from the rest of the film, and the scenes with his ex-wife and daughter (Kerris Dorsey) seemed tacked on. I get that the director/writers tried to add an emotional center to the film, but I don’t think I am alone in saying the game itself is the only emotional center you really need.

    Now showing at Wynnsong 7, Carmike 12 and Carmike Market Fair 15.

  • 10-12-11-senior-corner.jpgAs Baby Boomers who are also caregiv-ers for elderly parents, we know firsthand of the situation Jonathan Rauch recently shared in Reader’s Digest September 2011 issue. His story began as he was attempting to move his 80-year-old father closer to him in Alexandria, Va. so that appropriate care could be provided.

    That move eventually happened, but not before many months of falls, calls from neigh-bors and resistance from the father who said he was “fine” and wanted to be left alone. During the heart-wrenching experience, Rauch sponta-neously shared his frustrations with a variety of people. They might have been shocked at what he said, but some listeners offered concern and sometimes good advice. But Rauch continued to think: How could so many people be unpre-pared for one of life’s near certainties?

    That is a great question!

    1. Do we not want to admit that our parents will age?

    2. Don’t we say that the two guarantees in life are death and taxes?

    3. Didn’t we watch our parents care for their parents?

    4. Isn’t the news full of information about diseases, retirement options, se-nior living communities, long term care insurance and Medicare?

    5. Isn’t AARP the largest lobbying group in the country?

    6. Are we blinded to think it will happen to other people … just not us?

    Actually, if we are fortunate enough to have family members live long enough, we will most likely need to provide care for them. That care may in-clude: bill paying, medication monitoring, coordinating doctor visits, grocery shopping and driving for them. These needs could expand into dealing with safety issues such as hygiene, nutrition and fall prevention.

    Regardless of which specific needs the parent has, adult children can benefit from having support from other people who are “in the same boat.” But where is this support of-fered?

    • Area Agency on Aging

    • Reading periodicals: Up & Coming Weekly, Stroke Connection Magazine, Caring Today Magazine, etc.

    • Some Local churches have groups focusing on Children of Aging Parents.

    • Support Groups for target groups sponsored through medical and rehabilita-tion centers: such as Stroke, Parkinson’s or Alzheimer’s Support Groups

    • Neighborhood Recreation Centers• Websites: www.caregiverstress.com

    • Friends and relatives

    • Professional Caregivers

    Essential in the process of caring for a loved one is not feeling alone in the process. It is helpful and possibly necessary to seek fellow-ship among others experiencing the same concerns as you. Consider starting a group if one is not available in your neighborhood or church. You can do this by yourself, but why would you want to when there is support out there?

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