Because I spend much of my time encouraging constructive engagement across political differences, through such programs as Duke University’s North Carolina Leadership Forum, readers sometimes ask me if I think political differences are more appearance than reality — that if we just tried hard enough, we could reach a broad public consensus on many seemingly contentious issues.

That’s not what I believe at all. I think political differences are very real, very deeply ingrained, and very difficult to bridge.

Learning how to disagree without coming to blows or resorting to personal ridicule and attack is important precisely because the political divide is a semi-permanent feature of our cultural topography.

We can’t pretend it isn’t there. We can’t wish it away. And we shouldn’t expect it to wither away as a result of inevitable social forces.

Why not? Because the political divide isn’t primarily an artifact of statistical claims or carefully reasoned political ideologies. It’s about differences in how we see the world and our place in it.

The Cato Institute’s public opinion analyst, Emily Ekins, provided a fascinating example in her “Welfare, Work, and Wealth” poll. Conducted in partnership with YouGov, the survey asked a representative sample of 1,700 Americans a wide range of questions about political, economic, and social issues.
Most relevant here is the battery of questions about what psychologists call “locus of control.”

If you tend to believe that the major events in your life are largely the consequence of your own choices and efforts, you are considered to have an internal locus of control. On the other hand, if you tend to think what happens to you isn’t greatly determined by your choices and efforts, you have an external locus of control.

“While in reality both external forces and personal choices play a role,” Ekins observed, “the question is what individuals emphasize.”

Their answers appear to be related to political identification. While Americans as a whole lean towards internal locus of control to a remarkable degree — much more so than Europeans and Asians tend to do — American conservatives are more likely than American progressives to express the internal-control view.

Consider this statement: “My life is determined by my own actions.” While 52% of respondents identified as very conservative agreed with this statement, only 33% of very liberal respondents agreed.
Here’s another one: “When I get what I want, it’s usually because I worked hard for it.” Support was 53% among the very conservative and 30% among the very liberal.

Perhaps even more to the point: “I feel like what happens in my life is mostly determined by powerful people.” Fully 61% of the very conservative disagreed with this statement, while only 34% of the very liberal did.

I’ve long cited another survey finding when I teach classes on navigating political differences. At first glance, you may find this Pew Research Center question to have little bearing on politics: “Would you prefer to live in a community where 1) the houses are larger and farther apart but schools, stores, and restaurants are several miles away; or 2) the houses are smaller and closer to each other but schools, stores, and restaurants are within walking distance.”

Americans as a whole lean toward the former over the latter, with 57% favoring spread-out communities and 43% wanting their community amenities within walking distance.

When you adjust for political views, however, a striking pattern emerges — 72% of Republicans and 77% of conservative Republicans say they prefer the lower-density, automobile-oriented lifestyle while 56% of Democrats and 65% of progressive Democrats say they prefer higher-density, walkable communities.
These are correlations only. We can’t say for certain what the causal factors are. What we can say is that our political differences extend far beyond our contrasting views on specific pieces of legislation or electoral candidates. Deeply held feelings and values are at play, including preferences for how we live, work, and play. These differences aren’t easily modified. The best we can do is accommodate them.

Editor’s Note: John Hood is a John Locke Foundation board member. His latest books, Mountain Folk and Forest Folk, combine epic fantasy with early American history (FolkloreCycle.com).

The Man Who Recaptured Joy

The cul-de-sac on Lakewood is small — only a couple of homes sit nestled on the shallow inlet that abuts Mirror Lake in the neighborhood of Vanstory Hills.

Most of the year, the small street would go unnoticed. There is nothing that would make this street any different from the next. But just after Thanksgiving, sometime around the beginning of December, a transformation happens at the modest, ranch-style brick house in the middle of the cul-de-sac.
The lawn becomes a sea of lights and characters dressed in red, white or both. Behind a display of at least 70 Christmas inflatables, the house is hardly visible.

At the end of the driveway, a giant red and fully functional letterbox sits perched on the curb with the words "Letters to Santa" written on the front. A gigantic joy sign shines bright on the opposite side of the yard. Its letters stand more than 5 feet tall, with twinkling lights inside each one.
Signs in front of the yard direct passers-by to a radio station they can tune into for a synchronized musical experience.

At this time of year, the home is hard to miss, even from a distance.

Just inside the house, sits Bryan Lake, dressed in a short-sleeve button-up shirt and jeans. His wife, Stephanie, sits beside him, listening to him recount how their yard came to be so decorated. The living room shelves behind them display Christmas Village tiny homes, string lights and puffs of cotton made to look like snow. He has lights and raw wiring strung across the floor near a tree he is working on. Bryan details his history of the love of both Christmas and its decor.

Bryan grew up in what he would refer to as a solidly middle-class family. Even so, he recalls the decorations of his childhood home being more than average.

"It was ingrained in me since childhood," he says, smiling.

During his childhood, Christmas was a special time of family gatherings and celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ. To this end, he still hangs a lit cross above an empty manger at the end of his display. He would prefer passers-by to remember the reason for the celebration.

At the age of 14, Bryan says, the light-hearted feel of Christmas dimmed.

Bryan sits up straighter on the couch. He starts his sentence, stops and then restarts as his voice trembles softly. Bryan begins to tear up as he tries to get the words out. Stephanie is, too, sure of the story he is starting to tell.

"My mother got sick and passed away. I remember the Christmas before she got sick and then the last Christmas she had — She passed away shortly after."

And for many years after that, Bryan admits, Christmas was different. His world had changed completely.

"Christmas became a pretty depressing time. You put on that happy face, but you struggle with things that you spend a lifetime dealing with, quite frankly. Christmas was a difficult time for me for a lot of years until my kids came along."

Many years later, Bryan would find joy in Christmas again. He and his wife Stephanie purchased an inflatable Minnie and Mickey Mouse for their front lawn in 2013 or 2014.

"That's what started it," Bryan says. "Seeing Christmas again through the eyes of children. That excitement … happiness that I had lost somewhere along the way."

Both Bryan and Stephanie smile at the memory.

"It has come full circle back to where it can be my favorite time of year," he says.

While the original Mickey and Minnie have since been retired, Bryan and Stephanie have held onto them.

Maybe one day, Bryan admits, he'll get them back up and out of disrepair. He is sentimental. He still holds on to an old Christmas tree that belonged to his parents.

His voice breaks a little when he mentions it.

The original inflatables led to a few more inflatables and then more lights. Year after year, Bryan would buy more inflatables on the postseason sales. As packed as his yard is this year, Bryan says he has probably 30 more inflatables that he just hasn't put out yet.

The lights he puts out for Halloween always help him get a jump start on the infrastructure for Christmas, but even still, it's an undertaking.

Bryan takes off most Thursdays and Fridays in November to begin his prep work for the Christmas display. Sometimes, his kids will help, but often, he'll be out during the day or after dark adjusting cords and wires and configuring a diagram for the display.

"It gives me time to think and reflect on some of those childhood memories. Sometimes, it's freezing cold or dark, but I kind of like it. My alone time, I guess."

By the time Bryan completes his display, he has put in more than 150 hours and ends up with 70 inflatables, dozens of lights, and other displays. He plans every year to have it all out by the Sunday after Thanksgiving.

"I don't know the last time I made that," he says lightheartedly of his self-imposed deadline.

A couple of years ago, Bryan switched all the lights to LED. He and Stephanie say they can't tell the difference in their power bill because they have natural gas, and the bill usually drops in the winter anyway.

The best guess they have is a couple hundred dollars. This number is generally surprising for people with the amount of lights and inflatables.

"It's probably too much for her," Bryan says, pointing at Stephanie. He takes a glance over at her and then continues. "It probably crossed the line of tacky a few years ago."
Stephanie smiles as she looks over at Bryan.

"No, it's nice to know that other people enjoy it, and it brings joy to them," Stephanie says.

The Lakes welcome anyone to come by and see the lights. Most nights, it will be up and running until after 10 p.m. The music will mix old and new, spanning about an hour and a half. Bryan might even be seen handing out candy canes to those who exit the vehicles to get a look.

He loves having conversations and discussing Christmas or the lights or music. Every year, Bryan says they will add new things.

There is one thing, however, that will never change about his light show.

Currently on the music lineup is the song "Christmas Shoes." The song details a little boy trying to buy shoes for his dying mother and being unable to do so without the help of a stranger.

Bryan's voice breaks frequently when recalling the story. He sits up straighter, wipes away some tears and readjusts.

"That song always makes people leave. I refuse to take that out of the show," Bryan says.
He stops for a second, pulls his lips in tight and he tries to get his thought out while holding back tears.

“I am the boy in the song."

 

The Boy Who Tinkers

Just a mile from the Lakes, across Raeford Road, is the home of John and Lacy Kells.
Out front, in the mix of bushes, lights and inflatables, is JP Kells. He walks around the yard, frequently adjusting an inflatable or tweaking a cord.

His mother would say he is tinkering, per usual. Many of the inflatables that surround him are 10 times his size. This does not stop him from adjusting any that aren't standing up straight or fixing the lights on others. As he does this, both cars and walkers pass by his yard.

"You bring us so much joy," says a mom to JP and Lacy while walking her two toddlers to the house.
JP shyly waves to them and smiles. He continues his work around the yard as one of the toddlers runs to see "Snoopy's Tree Lot." JP added that particular part of his light show just this year.

Setting up synchronized light displays and 12-foot inflatables are usually the jobs of grown men, but this will be 12-year-old JP's sixth Christmas assembling his light show.

He was just five when he asked for the control system for the lights as a Christmas present. Much like Bryan Lake, just a mile away, every year since he adds new touches and inflatables.

In the future,JP hopes to add a walk-through element and expand into his neighbor’s yard.
“We are trying to get into there,” JP says pointing toward the adjoining yard. The yard just so happens to belong to his maternal grandparents who live next-door.

“He’s very slowly convincing Gigi to let him expand into their yard,” Lacy says laughing.
JP bounces a little and smiles. His excitement for future plans is palpable. He’s pretty sure he is about to convince his Gigi to use some of her yard.

He has already commandeered the use of his grandparents' basement where, in his spare time, he can be found “tinkering.” JP, who wants to be an engineer when he grows up, has learned a lot through producing his light shows. He has learned to solder and has more knowledge about amps and wires than most boys his age.

“He works on things for months leading up to it. He’s constantly checking wires and fans and outlets and other things,” Lacy says. “It’s a lot.”

As for the design of the yard, the new sections he’ll add or what features he will bring in each year, his mom says it’s all in JP’s head.

“He knows what it will look like before he goes out there."

He and his father, John, will spend nights in November setting up the light show for Christmas. While other holidays can be done in a weekend or even less, Christmas is always an undertaking, JP admits. Like Bryan Lake, it consumes most of JP’s time in-between Halloween and December.

Like most boys, JP already has his Christmas gift list in order. However, unlike most boys, most of it has to do with inflatables or the light show.

“That is what he asks us and both sets of grandparents for … that’s what makes him happy,” says Lacy.
This is the same for his birthday, which falls at the end of October — just in time to put up the Christmas lights show. JP will watch YouTube videos on inflatables or monitor websites on the night of the release of the next year’s inflatable line up.

Each year, a couple weeks before Christmas, JP will also host a hot chocolate fundraiser out of his grandparents' driveway to support a local project. Last year, he raised funds for a local elementary school. The event will entail the light show, hot chocolate goodie bags JP usually makes for the kids that come by.

“We do it to give back,” Lacy says. “We are so fortunate to be able to do this … it’s important to give back.”

As for why JP does it all, his answer is pretty simple.

“I find it fun doing it and it's fun seeing people come by every night.” JP says. “Last night we had a line of cars out there.”

A smile breaks out across his face as he says the last part.

Next year, JP will have a few new inflatables to add to the mix and maybe, just maybe, he’ll convince Gigi that the show requires two yards instead of one.

New Year's Eve is right around the corner. Whether you plan to host your own celebration or have received an invitation to attend someone else's party, we are here to provide you with our top recommendations for the best champagne options! The lovely ladies at The Sip Room have put together an excellent selection of champagne choices that cater to all tastes and budgets. Before we delve into the details, let's start with a brief introduction to Champagne.

What is Champagne?
To be labeled as "champagne," a bottle of wine must be produced in the Champagne region of France and undergo the traditional fermentation method to create carbonation. Champagne is primarily made from Pinot Noir, Chardonnay, and Pinot Meunier grapes, although the specific grape varieties used in Champagne can differ.

What is the best serving temperature for Champagne?
For optimal enjoyment, it is recommended to serve sparkling wines, such as Champagne, at a cool temperature ranging from 43 to 50 degrees Fahrenheit.
What type of glassware is ideal for serving Champagne?
According to many professionals, it is widely suggested that flute glasses are the optimal choice for serving sparkling wines. The prevailing belief is that the slender shape of the flute enhances the effervescence of the bubbles, enabling them to flow through a greater quantity of wine before reaching the top of the glass and releasing the delightful aromas of the wine.

What is the proper way to safely open a bottle of Champagne?
Sparkling wine and Champagne are both under significant pressure when stored in bottles. The pressure is even greater in Champagne bottles compared to sparkling wine. Here is how to open your bottle safely:
1. Remove the foil and slightly loosen the wire cage. It is crucial to ensure that the cork remains firmly in position as soon as the wire cage is loosened.
2. Tilt the bottle, holding it at approximately a 30-degree angle while gripping the cork. Use your other hand to grasp the base of the bottle.
3. Carefully stabilize the cork and gently remove it from the bottle. The aim is to release the gas pressure smoothly and quietly, preventing any sudden explosions or the cork flying off.

And now the suggestions you've been waiting for!

 

Best Brut Rosé: Jacquart Brute Rose
The Brut Rosé is created by combining Chardonnay, Meunier, and Pinot Noir grapes that have been fermented as red wine. The Jacquart Brute Rose showcases aromatic hints of red berries (mature redcurrants, cherries, and wild strawberries) with underlying tones of plum, peach, and apricot. This particular Rose exemplifies a refreshing and rich flavor profile, culminating in a delicate and satisfying conclusion.

Best Blanc de Blancs: Perrier Jouet Blanc de Blancs
Blanc de Blancs Champagnes are effervescent beverages produced exclusively from white wine grapes such as Chardonnay, Pinot Gris, and Pinot Blanc. The Perrier Jouet has a harmonious, intricate, and arid profile with refreshing acidity. It possesses a moderate body and a pleasingly prolonged aftertaste. On the palate, there is a gentle expression of grapefruit, lemon, apple, pear, white peach, brioche, and mineral notes.

Champagne on the Sweet Side: Laurent-Perrier Harmony Demi-Sec
Demi Sec is a French wine expression that translates to "half-dry". Demi-sec sparkling wines usually have a slight to moderate sweetness. If you prefer a slightly sweeter taste, consider trying a demi-sec instead of a brut. Laurent-Perrier offers the perfect level of sweetness to enjoy on its own or to complement rich dishes such as fried foods and cheese dishes.

Best Champagne Under $50: Andre Clouet Champagne Brut Grand Reserve NV
Champagne is categorized based on its level of sweetness. The driest type is called Brut, derived from the French word meaning dry or raw. The Andre Clouet’s finish of the fruit is rich with a chalky-mineral quality and refreshing in its salty finesse and elegant notes of yeast. The addition of lemon juice flavors adds an extra burst of invigorating taste.

Best Splurge: Dom Pérignon Brut Champagne
If you're looking to commemorate a truly extraordinary occasion, Dom Pérignon is the go-to choice. Renowned as one of the most iconic brands in the world of champagne, it offers a delicately balanced, light-bodied experience complemented by the subtle opulence derived from the Chardonnay grapes carefully selected for each annual vintage.

Alternative Options for Champagne Worth Considering

Prosecco: An Italian sparkling wine, produced using the Prosecco grape variety, typically exhibits a greater emphasis on fruity and floral flavors. Due to its specific aging techniques, this wine tends to be sweeter and showcases lighter, less effervescent bubbles that do not linger as long as those found in authentic champagne.
Recommendations: LaMarca, Botegga and Mionetto

Cava: A Spanish sparkling wine crafted from Macabeo grapes closely resembles champagne in terms of its production process. However, the use of different grape varieties results in a bubbly that is characterized by floral and fruity notes.
Recommendations: Marques de Monistrol Brut Cava, Borrasca Rose Cava, and Conde De Caralt Semi-Seco Cava

Make sure to visit The Sip Room for your celebration essentials. Situated on 106 Hay Street, The Sip Room is the perfect destination to find champagne, sparkling wine, and wine for the upcoming year or any special event.

New Year’s Eve is fast approaching and plans are being made around the world for the most celebrated night of the year, New Year’s Eve.

Fayetteville is no different. No need to take a plane, train, or Uber anywhere else. This year marks the third year the Cool Spring Downtown District is bringing fun, music, and food to Downtown Fayetteville with the Night Circus: A District New Year’s Eve Spectacular.

Gates open to the Night Circus in Festival Park at 7 p.m. and the party doesn’t stop until 12:30 a.m. Jan. 1st. Parents, not to fear; a sensory-friendly and bedtime-friendly countdown will take place at around 9 p.m. for those wanting to wrap up the party and get the little ones back home.

Organizers have taken great care in planning this year’s event, with this year promising to be better than last. Setting the mood from beginning to end, attendees will be met with carnival performers of all kinds.
Ashanti Bennett, Director of Special Projects for Cool Spring Downtown District said, “Contributing to the festivities, we will have stilt walkers, fire dancers, aerialists, magicians, tarot readers, face painters, and more!”

Food trucks will be on hand to sling the food amongst the fun. CQue BBQ, Fry Papi, The Carnival Cart, and Popcorn Is Us are among those slated to be parked in the park, along with other favorites and downtown staples.

Attendees will be on their feet dancing the night away with two 90s legends taking the stage. Performing on the stage at this year’s event is the multitalented, Brooklyn native and third member of the Hip-Hop group, Salt-N-Pepa, DJ Spinderella, bringing classics like "Push It" and "Whatta Man."

Coheadling is Baltimore-founded, Billboard and Soul Train Award-winning R&B group, Dru Hill, led by the blonde crooner himself, Sisqo, bringing their hits like "Beauty," "5 Steps" and "These Are the Times." Attendees can expect to sing and dance the night away with these artists hitting the stage.

Last year brought Tony! Toni! Tone!, another popular 90’s group.

Bennett said this was done with purpose.

“The Night Circus has had great success with its 90s theme. The music from that era is cross-generational and widely popular across diverse audiences.”

Anyone who knows 90s music knows these are some big names coming to Fayetteville to ring in the New Year. Bennett explains the process of getting these big names was no small feat, but one that produced perfect alignment for this lineup.

“We have several booking agents that we work with for our events; we start with sending them a wishlist roster of artists, and then we work with the agents to determine availability and budgetary concerns, a process that takes lots of phone calls and emails, over many weeks. I like to think it was a bit of Night Circus magic that aligned the stars so that we could welcome both Spinderella and Dru Hill to our Fayetteville NYE Spectacular.”

As the night winds down and the clock winds up, the celebration will conclude with a spectacular showcase. Raleigh has the acorn and New York City has the ball, but nothing compares to the Fayetteville star. At midnight, attendees will watch the iconic (you heard it here first) LED “custom built” 18 foot star drop from above the stage as fireworks illuminate the night sky, a celebration not to miss.
Last year’s celebration brought in 12,000 people. Bennett would love to see 15,000 people this year and has plans to make this event bigger and better next year.

“For next year, we have a number of ideas to shake things up and keep the event fresh, but we are not quite ready for any kind of reveal at this time. Audiences need not worry though - we will definitely still bring the party that Fayetteville has come to expect and love!”

Cool Spring Downtown District isn’t slowing down; Night Circus, is just the beginning (literally).
After a much-needed break, Bennett said the team will be back in the office and ready to work on several events coming in the spring..

"We will put our energy toward the return of 4th Friday in March 2024, our Arts in Motion trolley event series, the third annual Juneteenth Jubilee, and many more. That's in addition to our public art projects, downtown marketing and promotion initiatives, and economic development projects that make up the work of managing an arts and entertainment district," she said.

For more information about upcoming events or to learn more about the Cool Spring Downtown District, follow them on Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/CoolSpringDowntownDistrict.

Many people consider New Year’s Day the unofficial end of the holiday season.

That often means that New Year’s Eve is an opportunity to socialize, gather and party one final time before returning to the routines of daily life.

The first known instance of New Year’s celebrations can be traced to around 2,000 B.C. in the region of Mesopotamia.

Celebrants would gather in March, rather than January, as this was the time of the vernal equinox, when the darkness of winter subsided, and agricultural life could begin anew.

As individuals count down the days until New Year’s Eve festivities, these planning tips can make the celebrations occasions to remember.

1. Consider a theme. Everyone is having or attending an NYE party. Let your event stand out from the throngs of others with a theme. Guests can come dressed as dynamic duos (like Mario and Luigi) or the party can evoke a bygone era, such as the roaring 1920s. Let guests know what they can do to play the part.

2. Start late. You do not want guests wiped out by the time midnight arrives. Therefore, start the party at around 9 or 10 p.m. and anticipate it lasting into the wee hours of the morning.

3. Tailor drinks to the season. Utilize seasonal ingredients when crafting drinks or serve drinks that are expected this time of year, such as a boozy eggnog or cranberry Moscow mules.

4. Provide various activities. Plan fun activities during the party. Offer card games or board games to give guests something to do. Karaoke or group activities like trivia can also spread out the fun.

5. Beverages should be accessible. Unless you are hiring a bartender who will be on call to pour drinks, having drinks ready to go is a smart idea. In addition to cans/bottles of beer or malt beverages, have ready-to-go mixed drinks available by selecting a signature drink and
preparing a bulk batch.

6. Curate a winning playlist. Ask guests to submit a list of their favorite tunes so you can create a collection of songs that will ebb and flow with the evening’s events. Be sure to include some sing-along favorites like Don’t Stop Believin’ or Tiny Dancer .

7. Offer self-serve foods. Much like having drinks ready to go, make foods accessible as well. Finger foods and bite-sized morsels will not require guests to carry plates, reducing the chances of spillage. Sliders, miniature quiches and dessert shooters should suffice.

8. Tie decorations into the theme. Classic New Year’s Eve decorations include balloons, streamers and confetti. Think about a very festive balloon arch or backdrop that also can serve as a place to pose for photo opportunities.

9. Offer takeaway gifts for designated drivers. Encourage guests to stay sober and volunteer for designated driving duties by offering prizes. Ideas include gift cards to coffee shops or restaurants.

10. Be ready for midnight. Have a large television at the ready to show the midnight countdown and start pouring champagne roughly 20 minutes before midnight to ensure all glasses are full when the clock strikes 12.

New Year’s Eve celebrations get an extra boost from a well-planned party

“The City is excited to issue this Notice of Funding Availability to local non-profits,” said Chris Cauley, Economic and Community Development Director.

“The Economic and Community Development Department funds non-profits to help address homelessness, mental health, youth engagement and violence interruptions in an equitable, transparent, competitive, process with limited amounts of Federal funding.”

“The Community Development Block Grant program provides annual grants on a formula basis to states, cities, and counties to develop viable urban communities by providing decent housing and suitable living environment and by expanding economic opportunities principally for low-moderate income persons. The program is authorized under Title 1 of the Housing and Urban Development Act of 1974, Public Law 93-383 as amended 42 U.S. C. 5301 et seq. The program is designed to reinforce several important values and principles of community development……design and implement strategies to their priorities……consolidated plan……. technical assistance activities and set asides for grantees build capacity of these partners,” according to the United States Department of Housing and Urban Development.

“The 2024 Consolidated Plan has identified the following priorities. Economic Development Strategy- increase and promote job creation, job retention, self-sufficiency, education, job training, technical assistance, economic empowerment of low- and moderate-income residents of Fayetteville. Housing strategy- Improve, preserve, expand affordable housing inventory for low-and moderate-income families. Special Needs Strategy-Improve, preserve, and expand opportunities and services for persons with special needs and the disabled in Fayetteville.

"Community Development Strategy -Improve, preserve, and create new public and community facilities, infrastructures, and public services (limited to 15 percent) to ensure quality of life to all residents of Fayetteville. Homeless Strategy-Improve living conditions and services, increase housing availability for homeless persons and families in the City of Fayetteville and eliminate unfair housing practices that may lead to homelessness.

"The Neighborhood Revitalization Strategy Area-Special consideration and weighted allotment will be made for any programs or activities in the above categories designed to target Murchison Road NRSA and support the Murchison Choice Initiative, as this is a high priority for the City of Fayetteville” (NOFA – Fayetteville Economic and Community Development)

The approximate dollar amounts for Community Development Block Grant administration is $3,711,190: Public Services – $278,392, Non-Profit Capacity Building -$111.911, Neighborhood resources -$140,000, Rehabilitation-$654-458, Economic Development-$300,000, Home Administration-$112,128, Home, Affordable Housing Development- $1,912,772 HOPWA funds -Administration capped 3 percent -HOPWA-$834,891, HOPWA Administration- $25,821 and CDBG Rehabilitation – population-80 percent below AMI, elderly, disabled, experiencing emergent needs.

The City of Fayetteville has opened the application process for proposals for non-profits to address the specific priorities from the Consolidated Plan. Submit the proposal to www.FayettevilleNC.gov/ECD under What’s Happening. The deadline for receiving proposals is January 28, 2024, at 11:59. The funding year is July 1, 2024-June 30, 2025.

The Community Development Block Grant has a citizen public feedback component.

“In accordance with the City’s Citizen Participation Plan, the Economic and Community Development Department will solicit feedback for the 2024 Annual Action Plan which covers July 1,2024 to June 30,2025,” said Cauley.

Four public meetings will be starting Feb. 12, 2024. There is a thirty-day time limit for the review of drafts by the public after the public meetings. These will be held at Feb. 13, 2024, Massey Hill Recreation Center, 7 p.m.; Feb. 22, 2024, Smith Recreation Center, 6 p.m.; Feb. 28, 2024, Westover Recreation Center, 6 p.m.; and March 7, 2024, EE Miller Recreation Center, 7 p.m.

The City of Fayetteville strives to reflect transparency and opportunities for all citizens to provide feedback on the plan.

“Furthermore, residents that cannot attend any public meeting may submit written comments from Monday, Feb. 12 to March 15, 2024, at EconCommDev@FayettevilleNCgov” said Cauley.

The long-term overview of the Community Development Block Grant is:
1. Stakeholders Meeting and NOFA Release (November /December)

2. Proposal due for Community Partnerships – January 28, 2024

3. Draft Plan & Public Comment – February/March

4. Fayetteville Redevelopment Commission -March 2024

5. Council Work Session- April 2024

6. Council Approved -April 2024

7. Submit to HUD- May 2024

8. Fund Projects -July 2024

Publishers note: When we ask the question: What do Fayetteville and Cumberland County need most? The most resounding response is: "Honest and competent leadership." However, encouraging good people to run has been the biggest challenge. I am encouraged that a bi-partisan movement is afoot to recruit candidates with the integrity, knowledge, and desire to lead Fayetteville and Cumberland County into the 21st century. Below is a statement from such an individual. Hopefully, others will follow.
Bill Bowman
Publisher

 

Over the last year, as I stepped back from elected office and spent more time with my family and in my business, my desire to serve the people of our community has not diminished.

This period of reflection and engagement in everyday community life has only deepened my focus on our local needs and challenges. My desire to serve your interests has grown stronger, and it is with this renewed commitment that I am seeking the office of Cumberland County Commissioner in one of the three District 2 seats.

Now, more than ever we need leaders solely focused on strengthening our community not dividing it and ensuring that everyone has opportunities for a better life.

I have always believed in “deeds not words”, and I hope my consistent actions as a state senator and city councilman have proven that I am the leader who will continue to put the people of this community first over the political games we often see play out. I will deliver results not promises.

Over the next several years our community will make major investments in moving forward and we need steady, experienced leadership.

Experience matters now more than ever and I will bring my experience at the state and local levels to the board of commissioners at a time when two long-term incumbents have chosen not to seek another term.
I will continue championing issues like clean water, job growth, infrastructure growth, mental health, education, veterans, quality of life, and ensuring people have better opportunities.

In previous elected positions, I have delivered for our community in these areas and will deliver again as your county commissioner.

I am ready to roll up my sleeves and get back to work for you. I love this community and want to help build a life for our children to have opportunities to come home to, where they can live and raise their own future families.

I am committed to always doing what is best for our community, being respectful of others even when we disagree and focused on solutions even when they are difficult.

In response to unprecedented job growth and urgent requests from employers, Fayetteville Technical Community College recently announced plans to expand its Dental Assisting program from 30 to 36 students for the 2024-25 school year.

Dental assistants play a vital role in helping dentists improve the health and well-being of patients. Some dental assistants focus on conducting in-depth examinations of new patients. Others work with orthodontists to give patients million-dollar smiles. Increasing numbers of dental assistants work in cosmetic dentistry, helping with dental restorations and bleaching. Dental assistants also have the option to continue their education, complete a bachelor’s degree, and teach dental techniques to the next generation of dental assistants.

The dental assisting program at FTCC is a one-year, three-semester program that begins in the fall and concludes at the end of the summer each school year. Coursework includes classes in topics such as clinical procedures, dental materials, dealing with infections, preventative dentistry, and radiography.

The program is fully accredited by the Commission on Dental Accreditation, which is the accrediting body for dental assistant programs across the country. Since CODA accreditation is respected across the United States and in many foreign nations, the FTCC Dental Assisting program is a great career choice for anyone, even individuals who plan to eventually leave North Carolina.

According to the United States Bureau of Labor Statistics, dental assistant jobs are expected to grow by 7% annually from 2022 to 2032, making it one of the nation’s fastest-growing fields. New dental assistants can expect to earn $18 to $23 per hour with excellent opportunities for advancement and increasing wages as they gain experience.

Starting in the fall of 2024, a limited number of students who complete their prerequisite coursework at Robeson Community College will enjoy the opportunity to complete their dental assistant training at FTCC.

Are you worried that you can’t afford college? If so, we have great news. FTCC is one of the most affordable colleges in the region. Most students receive generous financial aid packages, and many students can complete their education at no cost to them.

Applications for entry into the FTCC dental assistant program for the 2024 - 2025 school year will be accepted from Nov. 1, 2023, to Jan. 30, 2024. The program is highly competitive. Anyone interested in the program should apply today.

For more information, contact FTCC today!

Dental Assisting Department Chair: Sandra Walker
walkers@faytechcc.edu
910-678-8574
Health Technologies Center
Room 101-H, 2201 Hull Rd.

“The Sandhills Trolley Company is the only entertainment venue on wheels in the Sandhills of North Carolina. From Karaoke, Trivia, brewery hopping and family-friendly events, we have a cruise for you,” according to Sandhills Trolley Company website.

The Sandhills Trolley Company Festival of Lights Cruise is on Dec. 21 and 22 at 8:30 p.m. in
Pinehurst, North Carolina.

The Festival of Lights Cruise will feature an enormous display of Christmas lights at Eagle Springs. Five acres of 10,000 lights, created by the Williams Family, make up the light cruise.

Leanna Allen, known as the “Trolley Queen of the South,” shares her insights about the Sandhills Trolley Company. “My journey with this incredible venture began with the simple pleasure to spread joy through unique experiences as an entertainer on board.

"Being the first host hired set the stage for an exciting and fulfilling endeavor. Throughout my journey as a host, I was given the name ‘JoMama,’ which previous trolley goers have called me many times even while shopping for groceries,” she said.

“When the opportunity to buy the company arose, a close family friend and I couldn’t resist. Adding an interesting twist to the story, my co-owner Michael, is my ex-husband. Despite our personal history, our collaboration with the Sandhills Trolley Company is a testament to our shared commitment and friendship to create something special beyond the past,” Allen said.

“The success of the Trolley Express: Festival of Lights Cruise is a source of immense joy for us. It has become a beloved tradition, consistently selling out, and prompting us to consider adding more dates. The overwhelming response from the community is truly heartwarming,” she said.

The Sandhills Trolley Company is more than just a party bus, it is an immersive entertainment experience.

“Our individualized touch, combined with the success of the Festival of Lights Cruise reflects our dedication to provide an experience that goes beyond a simple ride. It is a journey filled with laughter, camaraderie, and unforgettable moments.

"As we continue steering the Sandhills Trolley Company toward new horizons, our cruises symbolize our commitment to spreading joy, one trolley ride at a time,” said Allen.

Celebrate the Christmas Trail of Lights with treats of hot chocolate, coffee, apple cider and cookies. Enjoy the mesmerizing experience of over ten thousand Christmas lights on five acres of land. The Sandhills Trolley Company, Festival of Lights Cruise is on Dec. 21, and 22 at 8:30 p.m.

Attendees can bring their own wine and beer, but are asked to not have glass containers or hard alcohol.
Tickets cost $28. Tickets can be purchased by calling 910-549-1327 or visiting their website at https://www.sandhillstrolley.com.

Katrina Phillips wants to do things a little differently. It isn’t about the murder or mayhem or even mullets. Phillips is used to hosting murder mystery parties but at the upcoming “Totally Rad '80s Prom Gone Bad” at H8ters on Dec. 22nd, all the participating characters won’t have scripts.

“I guess around here that is different,” she said. “It’ll be kind of like improv.”

The interactive murder mystery, which will take place from 6 to 9 p.m. on Dec. 22nd, will include 20 participating characters and an unlimited number of guests. Sign-ups for the event will end on Dec. 18th to allow Phillips and the folks at H8ters time to prepare.

Those participating will be given an envelope at the event which will include money, for bribes of course, and a list of objectives they must accomplish. All the participants will have a list of objectives and must try to accomplish them while the others are doing the same.

“Cool thing is it’s all going on at the same time,” Phillips said. “It’s like a game of Clue.”

This game, however, comes with a list of prizes. The team at H8ters will be giving out awards and prizes for participants and potentially guests if they can guess who “done it.” The awards will include best dressed, drama king and queen, Mr. and Mrs. Money Bags and the smoking gun.

Although everyone who attends will have the chance to guess who the killer is, Phillips said she’s only done one event so far where an audience member guessed the killer.

“It’s going to be a lot of fun,” she said.

The event will be themed in the 80s and the team at H8ters and Phillips encourage all that come to wear 80s gear. In the past, this has included about 50 people in total but again, Phillips said, the guest amount is unlimited.

Tickets for Totally Rad '80s Prom Gone Bad can be purchased in advance through Bear at H8ters via phone call at 910-835-5881.

The tickets are $30 per character and $40 for guests. There are some character tickets left currently for purchase. All tickets must be bought by Dec. 18th.

The Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra along with Cumberland Choral Arts are proud to present Handel’s Messiah (Part the First) on Saturday, Dec. 16, at 7:30 p.m.

This annual performance, held at the Berean Baptist Church located at 517 Glensford Dr, is a cherished tradition that marks the beginning of the holiday season, attracting hundreds of eager attendees.

Described as a "Gift to the Community," this musical offering is a longstanding partnership between the Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra, Cumberland Choral Arts and the local community.

The event encourages participation from the audience, extending an open invitation to individuals who have previously sung this masterpiece to join in or attend rehearsals and stand with the choir, fostering a sense of inclusivity and shared musical experience.

The performance primarily features the “Christmas portion” of Handel’s Messiah, culminating with the renowned and uplifting “Hallelujah Chorus.” Symbolizing the spirit of the holiday season, this rendition encapsulates the joy and exuberance associated with the festive period.

Meghan Woolbright, marketing and office manager, Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra, shared insights into the significance of this annual celebration.

"Handel’s Messiah has become a beloved tradition in Fayetteville, serving as a beacon that heralds the onset of the holiday season. It's a musical gift we offer to the community, inviting everyone to come together and revel in the beauty of this timeless piece,” she said.

“The opportunity for audience participation, where past singers join the choir, exemplifies the inclusivity and communal spirit that defines this event."

Woolbright also shared what attendees can expect from this performance of Handel’s Messiah (Part the First), saying, "This rendition will showcase the vibrant talent of the Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra as they deliver the mesmerizing 'Christmas portion' of Handel’s Messiah. Audiences can anticipate a captivating and uplifting musical journey, culminating in the iconic 'Hallelujah Chorus.' It's a celebration of the season through music, a moment to come together and immerse ourselves in the joyous spirit of the holidays."

Admission to the concert is open to all without the need for tickets, encouraging everyone to partake in this festive celebration.

The Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra and Cumberland Choral Arts invite you to join them for this enchanting performance of Handel’s Messiah (Part the First) and experience the magic of the holiday season through music.

For further details or inquiries about the performance, individuals are welcome to reach out to the Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra at www.fayettevillesymphony.org or by calling 910-433-4690. Cumberland Choral Arts can be reached at 910-303-0463, and their website is www.cumberlandchoralarts.org.

For the next two years, all eyes will be on the Town of Hope Mills and the leadership performance of their new cadre of elected officials. Many residents will be asking: How do you improve on a town that has, in twelve years, evolved from being a hicksville tongue-in-cheek joke to one of the fastest-growing and most respected municipalities in North Carolina?

That question will be answered sooner than later, as incoming Hope Mills Mayor Jessie Bellflowers and the newly elected Board of Commissioners take command of Hope Mills' future.

Many people familiar with Hope Mills' history, culture, and politics remain cautiously optimistic and equally curious about what a post-Mayor Jackie Warner Hope Mills will look like. Questions are already starting to surface, like: "Will all the petty name-calling, crude, mean-spirited accusations, and vile slanderous anti Warner sentiments dissipate, or will the shameless social media trolls continue their attacks on Warner by posting and broadcasting misinformation that has only served to deter progress and harmony in this beautiful lakeside community?"

We hope these dark and malignant sites will be dismantled and the senseless personal attacks on Warner cease so the current Mayor and Board of Commissioners can go to work capitalizing on the achievements that have brought Hope Mills to its pinnacle of prosperity and respectability. Undoubtedly, we will find out in short order.

According to Datausa, since 2020, Hope Mills has increased its population by 9.07% to become the fastest-growing municipality in North Carolina. During this same period, the median household income of Hope Mills residents rose 4.34% to $49,800. That's measurable progress. That's a quantifiable success.

Success and progress were obtained while addressing Hope Mills' ongoing municipal challenges, such as residential and economic development, nurturing cultural and recreational opportunities, and managing infrastructure needs, including a significant ongoing traffic congestion problem.

These successes have set the achievement bar high for the new incoming administration. Now, their work begins.

Being the Mayor of a thriving, progressive town like Hope Mills will take aggressive, unbridled leadership from the new Mayor and tireless commitment from ALL five members of the Board of Commissioners. Hope Mills has a vast and honorable footprint in Cumberland County.

Over the years, this high-profile and distinguished reputation was earned by keeping Hope Mills relevant, involved, and informed on important county and state issues that impact the Hope Mills community.

This takes time and commitment from those who intend to keep the town from losing its relevance and influence. Will Bellflower and the new administration rise to the occasion? Everyone hopes so, and no one dares bet against it.

Yet, the fact remains that Jackie Warner was Hope Mills' full-time mayor.

• 12 years of perfect attendance at Mayors Coalition (Current Chairmen)

• Appointed by County Commissioners to Mid Carolina Council on Aging

• Delegate to Senior Tar Heal Legislature Delegate

• 12 years of perfect attendance at Fayetteville Area Municipality Planning Organization and prior FAMPO chairman or vice chairman.

• Hope Mills representative of FCCEDC (Fayetteville-Cumberland County Economic
Development Committee)

• Hope Mills Representative at Hope Mills Chamber of Commerce meetings, luncheons, Business Breakfast, and ribbon cuttings.

• Member of HM Finance Committee (Town Budget)

• Leader of the Mayor's Youth Leadership Council

• Member Kiwanis Club — Baldwin Elementary K-Kids advisor

• Member of Post 10630 VFW Women's Auxiliary

• Hope Mills Ministerial Committee

For those who love Hope Mills and have watched it evolve over the past twelve years to its proud and prominent position in Cumberland County and North Carolina, we wish the best to the newly elected Hope Mills Mayor, Jessie Bellflowers, and the Board of Commissioners. And we thank former Mayor Jackie Warner for setting the foundation from which Hope Mills can expand, grow, and prosper, bringing peace, tranquility, and civility back into a deserving community.

Thank you for reading the Up & Coming Weekly newspaper.

The Arts Council of Fayetteville/Cumberland County has awarded $21,575 in funding in 2023 to individual artists for new works and professional development in 2024 as part of the Artist Support Grant program with the North Carolina Arts Council.

A total of 12 artists were awarded $21,575 following the submission of their applications and an extensive review process, which considered more than $69,000 in requests from 35 artists across five counties.

The Artist Support Grant was developed by the North Carolina Arts Council during the COVID-19 pandemic and maintains a mission of providing direct support to emerging and established artists for the creation of new works and professional development. The Artist Support Grant is funded by the North Carolina Arts Council.

The Arts Council does not limit this annual grant opportunity to Cumberland County artists. It also manages the grant initiative on behalf of the Robeson County Arts Council, Sampson County Arts Council, and Scotland County Arts Council/Storytelling Center of the Southeast. Residents of Hoke County are also eligible.

“We believe in the power of individual artists to shape our cultural scene. This important statewide initiative not only helps artists during times of creation, but also highlights how funding can make a big difference in each arts community,” says Michael Curtis Houck, the Arts Council’s Director of Grants and Allocations.

“Investing in the ideas of individual artists to create works within their communities across the state means we’re building a more robust and vibrant arts scene for all of North Carolina,” Houck emphasizes.

The Arts Council awarded an Artist Support Grant to the following 12 artists, who represented a total of six artistic disciplines:

• Miranda Ackerly - Craft - Professional development through travel to a national conference and investment in a digital artist portfolio.

• Anthony Aycock - Writing - Editing and release of non-fiction work investigation the Supreme Court banned book case, "Island Trees v. Pico."

• Robert Baker - Visual Arts - Investment in equipment for the development of an artist portfolio.

• Wendy Bethea - Writing - Development of a poetry manuscript on the subject of "Empty Nest Syndrome."

• Kadeem Booth - Visual Arts - Investment in upgraded photography equipment in anticipation of a solo exhibit in 2024.

• Devorah Buntrock - Visual Arts - Investment in material to complete a new sculpture series in anticipation of a solo exhibit in 2024.

• Carlos Castilla - Music - Production of an album of classical guitar music by Hispanic composers to be released in 2024.

• Linda Flynn - Theater - Professional development through vocal and movement classes.

• Raul Rubiera - Film - Investment in equipment for real-time visual effect processing.

• Raul R. Rubiera - Visual Arts - Investment in equipment for exploratory work in 3D printing.

• Irina Shin-Geller - Visual Arts - Development of collage and Hanji work in anticipation of a solo exhibit in 2024.

• Amanda Virelles - Music - Produce a two-hands piano concert set to be recorded and released as an album in 2024.

The next Artist Support Grant cycle will open in August 2024 for projects in 2025. For more information about the Arts Council grants and subsidy programs, visit theartscouncil.com/grants or email Michael Houck, Director of Grants and Allocations, at michaelh@theartscouncil.com

Eggnog is a rich and delicious beverage that has become synonymous with the most festive time of year.
This milk and egg-based concoction is tasty on its own, or it can be dressed up with other flavors and spiked with a favorite spirit when celebrating the holiday season with other adult partygoers.
December is National Eggnog Month, and December 24 is National Eggnog Day. There is no more perfect time of year to learn everything you can about eggnog all the while sipping a cup of this creamy concoction.

 

Indulge in these festive facts about the beverage, courtesy of Mental Floss, The Fact Site and Tastemade.

•Eggnog likely originated in the medieval period and was known as “posset,” a hot, milk-based drink made of spices and wine. Even though posset could be a cocktail, it also was used as a remedy for colds and flu for its soothing properties.

•Milk, eggs and sherry used in the early recipes were difficult to come by, so when eggnog first appeared it was a drink only the
wealthy could enjoy.

That changed when eggnog was popularized in the American colonies, where dairy products and liquor were more readily available.

•Etymologists believe “eggnog” stems from the word “noggin,” which refers to small wooden mugs often used to serve strong ale, known by the slang word “nog.”

•In the Medieval period, it was risky to drink milk straight because it wasn’t pasteurized. Eggnog contained alcohol so that it would kill off any harmful bacteria in the milk.

•A typical homemade version of eggnog has roughly one egg per serving. However, commercial eggnog is regulated by the FDA and can only contain 1 percent of the product's final weight in egg yolk solids.
That stems from fear of raw egg and salmonella.

•President George Washington apparently enjoyed serving eggnog at Christmas, and even had his own special recipe (see below), according to the Old Farmer’s Almanac.

•There is no right or wrong alcohol to use when preparing eggnog. Distilled spirits like rum, sherry, cognac, and whiskey all have produced suitable eggnogs.

•Puerto Rican coquito is a traditional drink that is very similar to eggnog.

•Individuals concerned about eggs or milk in eggnog can enjoy a vegan recipe made from nut milk instead. Commercially produced vegan eggnog offerings are now more widely available.

•One of the more notable flavors in eggnog comes from the use of nutmeg. Nutmeg is a fragrant spice made from grinding the seed of the nutmeg tree.

Now that you have learned about eggnog, whip up a batch of George Washington’s original recipe this holiday season.

 

Eggnog (George Washington’s original interpretation)
1 quart cream
1 quart milk 1 dozen tablespoons sugar
1 pint brandy
1/2 pint rye whiskey
1/2 pint Jamaican rum
1/4 pint sherry
Eggs (Washington forgot to include the number of eggs, so home chefs can improvise or use six, which seems to be the standard in traditional recipes)

Mix liquor first, then separate yolks and whites of eggs, add sugar to beaten yolks, mix well. Add milk and cream, slowly beating. Beat whites of eggs until stiff and fold slowly into mixture.
Let sit in cool place for several days. Taste frequently.

Tip: Today’s recipe makers may want to set the eggnog in the refrigerator as the “cool place” of choice.

Those words, made famous several generations ago in the Broadway musical Hair, celebrated the 1960s’ take on openness, light, sharing, and other virtues of the era.

Today, even politicians still like to talk about sunshine, governmental transparency, and giving citizens access to and voices in public business.

North Carolina General Assembly members, for example, are happy to let citizens know what laws took effect this month, particularly criminal statutes regarding rioting and civil disorder (just in case anyone was considering such activities), banning the manufacture, possession, and distribution of fake pills (the law excludes pharmacists), and protecting critical infrastructure after someone shot up a Moore County electric substation late last year.

Some of this is simply letting citizens know such feel-good laws have taken effect, and some of it playing to partisan political constituencies.

Increasingly, though, transparency is not the goal. In fact, the goal is becoming the exact opposite, to withhold information from the public. In other words, elected legislators are big on talking the sunshine talk but less enthusiastic about walking the transparency walk.

States throughout the country are making it more difficult for citizens to access various public records that have been available through various Freedom of Information Acts. Sometimes officials complain they are overwhelmed by various record requests. Sometimes they say staff is unavailable or that providing information to the public can be expensive.

What they do not say is that releasing certain documents can be embarrassing, even damaging to them and their careers. A prime example of this is US Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas’ acceptance of fancy trips and a tricked-out RV from a right-wing donor in Texas, gifts he ultimately had to own up to himself.

North Carolina legislators clearly have some information they hope to keep to themselves.

Tucked, some would say hidden, deep in the 2023-2024 budget bill finally approved nearly three months late, is a provision having nothing to do with funding state government.

It is a provision allowing legislators to exempt General Assembly records from public release, removing any semblance of sunshine. Legislators can now decide which documents are released, kept,
destroyed, or even sold.

I am not the only North Carolinian who finds this hidden provision alarming. North Carolina State Treasurer and former legislator himself, Republican Dale Folwell, told NC Newsline that “allowing individual lawmakers to determine what records are public and what material can be destroyed without ever seeing the sunshine of public view creates a system that does not have standards or accountability.

It prevents the public from learning who and what influence certain decision-making on their behalf.” Brooks Fuller, executive director of the North Carolina Open Government Coalition, agrees.

“It’s a massive change. It undermines the public access to any document that touches the hands of an individual legislator.”

It is important to remember that the words “public access” refer to any member of the public—a journalist, Up & Coming Weekly, you, and me. Even if we decide we want a legislative document, we no longer have a right to it if a legislator says “no.”

Does this sound like an open and representative government to you?

To me it sounds like one more step on the road to opaque and authoritarian government and one more reason to be very, very careful who we vote for in 2024.

What we do not—or cannot—know can indeed hurt us and our families.

Sunlight gleams upon the tiles, the pastel flowers pop out around the business’s sign. It reads “Ding Tea,” and the welcoming tones of a hearty “Welcome to Ding Tea!” are heard throughout the shop.
These are the first moments visitors experience when they visit the newest and hottest tea shop in Fayetteville, Ding Tea.

Franchisee and local business owner Kevin Hoang, a native of Fayetteville since 2006, has recently sought to provide the city with his vision for superior, quality tea. During the soft opening of the new location, Hoang spoke on his goals as a business owner, his thoughts on being a franchisee and his opinion on Ding Tea as a brand. He talked about his aims with setting up shop in the city and his personal history concerning tea, business and the community as a whole.

Hoang, originally from California, is a long-time businessman who makes his living navigating the complex and ever-changing economic landscape. Upon arriving in Fayetteville, his daughter, a college student at one of the state’s universities, inspired him to take the plunge into the tea business. But why? Why open a tea shop in a market so saturated by the current zeitgeist’s obsession with boba tea?

“I’ve been doing business my whole life, but my daughter convinced me to open a boba shop. ‘The tea here is so bland.’ So I began seriously considering it. We researched social media intensely to learn what the community wanted and needed. It was then that I decided, ‘If we’re going to do this, we’re going to do it right,’” he said.

Upon seeing so many tea shops begin opening their doors in recent times, Hoang was convinced that the market had room for a business model focused on quality and the community. He immediately began addressing the most important pillar of any reputable business, quality control.

When asked why he chose to franchise under Ding Tea, Hoang had this to say.

“Their quality control is why I chose them. Quality is hard to do, and it’s expensive. Sometimes you’ve got to pay to play.” Hoang continued, “When it comes to tea, there are a lot of styles. Ding tea, across the world, is known for high-quality teas.”

Hoang noted that the basis for good tea begins with quality tea leaves. His philosophy of ensuring a quality product naturally found him seeking brands with a history of quality, recognition, and mass appeal.
“You can say you’re a master tea maker, but if the tea tastes bad who cares? We wanted to create tea that people like drinking.”

After deciding on what brand to franchise under, Hoang got the opportunity to go to Taiwan himself in order to learn and be certified in Ding Tea’s course of tea making.

Upon receiving his certification and having the location approved by Ding Tea, Hoang was able to set up his new shop at its current location on Yadkin Road.

“I like the diversity. We’re a melting pot of people, races, and cultures. We don’t just cater to one over the other. Part of why I went with Ding Tea is because of how recognizable they are. Our brand is recognized by people from other countries around the world,” said Hoang.

Hoang went on further to say, “We’ve been here since 2006. We’ve been watching the trends and none of them [local tea brands] are to our standards. So I thought, ‘Let’s show everyone what real tea tastes like.’“
Kevin Hoang, his family, and the brand behind him, Ding Tea, are ecstatic and eager to share their perspective on quality tea and boba with our city, and hope to bring their customers and, soon to be, regulars a premier tea experience in which one not just drinks tea, but enjoys it, too.

Hoang and his shop look forward to engaging with the community, receiving feedback, and sharing their love of tea with those who come out to see the new location.

Hoang even shared with Up and Coming Weekly that there are already plans to add food to the menu this coming January that will provide people with healthy and quick nutrition on the go.

With new tastes on the horizon, there’s never been a better time to expand one’s taste palette through the art of tea making and its evolution into modern boba.

Ding Tea is located at 5447 Yadkin Road and is open Monday through Sunday from 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. For more information, you can contact them through their website at www.dingteafayetteville.com/contact or via their phone number at 910-339-2028.

Can an 80-year-old person still lead and run important businesses?

Duke University President Vincent Price recently reminded us of the continuing value of people such as Jim Goodnight. In the Nov. 24 edition of The Charlotte Observer and The Raleigh News & Observer, Price wrote, “As a young professor at N.C. State, Jim Goodnight teamed with colleagues in the mid-1970s to build software to analyze agricultural data. That team turned a good idea into a great one, spinning that innovation into a product line that birthed SAS, the Cary-based software giant that recorded $3 billion in sales last year and employs more than 12,000 people. That’s the sort of success story we need more of in North Carolina…”

Born in Salisbury in 1943, Goodnight is, according to Forbes magazine, the richest person in North Carolina. His business strategy focuses on employees. "Innovation is the key to success in this business, and creativity fuels innovation," he says. "Creativity is especially important to SAS because software is a product of the mind. Ninety-five percent of my assets drive out the gate every evening. It's my job to maintain a work environment that keeps those people coming back every morning."

At 80 years, Goodnight’s experience and wisdom continue to make him one of North Carolina’s most valuable assets.

Similarly, Jim Goodmon, also 80, continues to serve as, CEO and chairman of the board of Capitol Broadcasting Company (the parent company of WRAL-TV), the Durham Bulls, and other media and real estate ventures.

He grew up in Raleigh working at his grandfather’s radio and TV stations. In 1968 he became operations manager and in 1975 became president and then in 1979 became CEO. According to the company’s website Goodmon “has guided the growth of CBC’s broadcast holdings and led the company’s expansion into satellite communications, new media, real estate and professional sports.”

The website has more about Goodmon. “Known as a trailblazer and a pioneer, Goodmon explores new technology with passion and energy—always seeking out the latest and best methods of serving audiences, clients and community partners.”

With his successful experience and the wisdom that comes with age, Goodmon will be an asset to his company for years. No one would suggest he is too old to lead the company.

Dennis Gillings will not be 80 until April. Born in England he taught biostatistics at UNC-Chapel Hill and became the founder, CEO and chairman of the clinical research firm Quintiles Transnational, which changed its name to IQVIA in 2017. The success of Quintiles made him wealthy. Forbes estimated his net worth to be $2.2 billion. After retirement from Quintiles he has served as a partner of healthcare-focused investment firm NovaQuest Capital, which values his experience and judgment notwithstanding his advancing age.

Perhaps the best example of the value of post-80 maturity and long experience is at the firm of Berkshire Hathaway.

When an emergency hits the stock market, the investors at that firm do not panic. They know that Warren Buffett has been there for 50-plus years dealing in investments and that that experience will help him guide the firm through all challenges.

Buffett is 92 years old, but none of his investors is worried that his advanced age will keep him from handling the stock market and investment challenges.

They tell themselves, “He has been there before.”

Or, “You can't buy that kind of experience.”

And maybe, just as important, you know that after all these years he will not panic.

Maybe young people coming out of graduate school and some success in business have more energy, maybe they have more great ideas, but Buffett shows that a blend of years of experience and wisdom can be priceless.

The lesson these people teach us: If you are involved in an enterprise led by an experienced 80-year-old, count your blessings.

Editor’s Note: D.G. Martin, a retired lawyer, served as UNC-System’s vice president for public affairs and hosted PBS-NC’s North Carolina Bookwatch.

Grab a friend, partner, the kids, or even yourself to join in on the winter fun as the Downtown Market of Fayetteville is hosting its S'mores Charcuterie Board for Beginners on Dec. 21 from 6 to 8 p.m.

The Downtown Market is celebrating the first day of winter with America's popular treat, s'mores. The s'mores charcuterie board for beginners is one of the many classes hosted at the Downtown Market of Fayetteville.

The Downtown Market, owned by Johanna Brumm, has previously hosted many holiday and creative theme-like board classes and workshops, such as the Brunch and Cornucopia Floral Workshop, Spice of Life Fresh Salsa Class, Savory Butter Class, Thanksgiving Butter Churning for Beginners and Make Your Own Bath Soaks.

"We teach floral design, charcuterie and butter churning. It's part of our normal regimen of making stuff," said Brumm.

Located at 325 Blount Street in the warehouse district of downtown Fayetteville, the market offers various products from local farmers and artisans. According to the website, the market carries local dairy, eggs, meats, antiques, veggies, fresh flowers, candles, soaps and gifts.

The famous traditional trio of Graham crackers, gooey marshmallows and melty chocolate is known to be associated with campfires and storytelling. S'mores, short for "some more," is an occasion for people to slow down, enjoy the warmth of company, and appreciate life's joy. Brumm is using the favorite sweet treat trio in other ways that will create the perfect combination and environment of connection, excitement, and holiday nostalgia.

For those cold December nights, a S'mores charcuterie board is the perfect way to get into the winter season. "The event is charcuterie-based but is a s'mores theme class. This will be the second year of the S'more Charcuterie class," she shared.

Attendees will learn from Brumm how to sweeten things with traditional Graham crackers, Hershey chocolate, and marshmallow s'mores, combining and arranging them on a new level of creativity.

Customers will indulge in the delicacy of their mastery of the charcuterie board.

The event will include dinner for attendees and beverages. Participants can also take the s'mores charcuterie and grazing boards home. The Downtown Market hosts other Christmas theme board classes for customers to dive into the holiday spirit.

"We host wreath-making during the Christmas holiday. We'll have some kind of Christmas-theme flower arrangement classes as well," Brumm stated.

"I love hosting the classes. We always have fun as we're making the boards," she added.
The thrill of fluffy marshmallows, heart-melting chocolate and crispy graham crackers are a great way to start the winter right, turning America's popular treat into a sweet taste of Christmas joy.

A single ticket is $95, and for two people making one board, it is $115.

The Downtown Market of Fayetteville's hours of operation are Tuesday to Saturday, 11 a.m. to 6 p.m.

Visitors can visit https://ncmilkman.com/product-category/classes to purchase tickets.

Readers can also like and follow the Downtown Market of Fayetteville on Facebook at dtmfaync and Instagram at gotncmilk.

With social media platforms like Facebook and TikTok monetizing their top users, singles, families, and professionals are all tapping into the extra payday.

Content is one of the easiest ways to get paid online but it is also a taxing job that requires creators to come up with new, fresh ideas and aesthetically pleasing videos and photos for their followers.
Many business owners are creating spaces for content creators to take pictures and create content for themselves, but few are dedicated to only content creation.

Keep It Cute K, owned by local entrepreneur and women’s business owner advocate, Sylvia Glanton, is hosting Keep It Cute Content Day on Saturday, Dec. 16th from 1 to 5 p.m. at the studio at 100 Hay Street, 7th floor. This event will be a one-stop shop for content creators, business owners, and professionals.
Tickets are $125, and can be purchased on Eventbrite at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/keept-it-cute-content-day-presented-by-sylvia-s-glanton-tickets-731277549837. Tickets include 4 hours of studio time, a professional photographer/videographer, and a content creation strategy session. The content creation strategy session will include tapping into the latest trends and how about “crafting compelling content that resonates with your audience.”

A professional makeup artist will be on hand for those who need it for an additional cost. For those who have a “glam” team and photographer that will be joining them, only those creating the content for their social media or website should purchase a ticket.

Keep It Cute K creation space has several distinct spaces for content creation. The rooms are designed with all businesses in mind. Much of the space has views of downtown, creating the perfect lighting for photos and videos.

This event is for anyone who needs to create content, but studio owner Glanton said the event's focus is on business owners and women in the area.

“I have a content creator that is going to come in and help business owners or women who are into growing their digital footprint online. A lot of what needs to happen when establishing yourself on social media is having a presence that screams ‘I AM HERE’ and also screams that you are a professional, because I think a lot of people miss that step,” Glanton said.

“It’s ok because sometimes people are able to be themselves without all the aesthetics but this specific audience that I’m looking to come to the content day are people who pretty much are business owners, who have some sort of following or want to establish some sort of following, but they also need professional pictures.”

Glanton has a passion for helping individuals and small business owners, prompting her to create this invaluable event for the local community.

“I see little things that people don’t take into account when it comes to even having a social media presence. One thing that I always do, is if I do have a photoshoot and I have these new beautiful pictures that I want everybody to see, I update my profile picture or my cover photo and I always add a caption. People don’t do that. So I noticed that. This is also the time for people to come in and get those little tips and stuff on how to increase their presence,” she said.

Keep It Cute K creation space functions as a venue for small gatherings, meetings, and parties. The intimate, well-decorated space, allows for the creative juices to flow or the perfect backdrop for an office gathering.

Glanton is only getting started with this event. She will also be hosting a Friendsmas event at the studio later this month and her Future Rich Aunties conference is in April of 2024.

Future Rich Aunties is the product of Glanton’s vision to see women business owners being successful while creating a community of support for one another. For more information about all the upcoming events at Keep It Cute K follow them on social media, https://www.facebook.com/Keepitcutek.
Women business owners looking for more information about Future Rich Aunties can follow https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100094027974325

In a heartwarming display of generosity, Fayetteville’s Asylum Ink tattoo and piercing shop is holding a toy drive from Dec. 1 to Dec. 22. Asylum Ink, typically known for its skilled tattoo artists, piercers and extremely sanitary environment, shifts its focus to helping its community this holiday season.
Asylum Ink goes beyond body art by contributing to Toys for Tots, offering an incredible deal for those who donate.

Jim Patrick and his team have organized a campaign where customers can bring a toy and its receipt to receive double the toy’s amount off their tattoo. This generous and thoughtful event showcases diverse ways to contribute to charitable causes and how businesses, big or small, can have a large and long-lasting impact on their communities.

Not only does this initiative give to less fortunate children, but it also offers the opportunity to collaborate with local businesses that thrive off their community.

“[This is the] first year we’re doing [this special] for the children. We figured during Christmas, let’s try something that can give people [our] service and, in a way, give back,” said Jim Patrick, owner of Asylum Ink.

This charity event and deal covers more than just tattoos. If you bring a toy to drop in their donation box, any piercing above the belt drops down to a price of $20.

If you’re unable to participate in their toy drive, you’ll still have the chance to get incredible deals year-round. Asylum Ink goes out of its way to bring you quality services at an affordable price, offering deals like this on every major holiday.

Asylum Ink maintains its unwavering commitment to cleanliness and sterilization, a quality its clientele appreciates and mentions often in the shop’s overwhelmingly positive reviews. This, among other great qualities, proves this shop’s dedication to its clients’ health, safety, and enjoyment.

The artists and piercers within Asylum Ink strive to create an environment that puts clients at ease, knowing they’re safe and respected the second they walk through the doors.

“If you’re doing what you love, you’re not working at all,” said Patrick. “To see someone smile when they’re done [getting a tattoo or piercing], knowing that they’re going to enjoy it for the rest of their life– what better kind of service can you do?”

Asylum Ink is a veteran-owned tattoo and piercing shop that offers stunning body art for appointments and walk-ins alike.

They’re home to talented and well-versed artists who put in the effort to create works of art their clients will proudly display and skilled piercers with thousands of jewelry pieces to choose from.

Whether adorning clients with rich black and gray pieces, intricate portrait tattoos, or perfectly placed piercings, Asylum Ink always puts their all into their work.

Putting clients' safety and health above all, these tattoo artists go above and beyond to put their customers at ease, knowing they’re surrounded by professionalism and a completely sterilized environment. Asylum Ink has been voted among the best artists and piercers in North Carolina, further proving their top-tier skills and customer service.

The shop’s involvement in the Toys for Tots fundraiser shows their heartwarming values as a company, the care and love for their community and the innovation used to come up with this incredibly charitable deal.

“Asylum’s been in business for almost 7 years. We moved to our newest location on Reilly Road [and] I would love to get out to the military that we’re literally on the road that brings you to the [Fort Liberty] gate. They need to know that we’re here and would really enjoy it if they came,” Patrick said.

Toys for Tots, founded in 1947 by the United States Marine Corps Reserve, hopes to spread and share the joy of Christmas to the less fortunate children of America.

Their organization acts as a symbol of collective goodwill and action throughout the holiday season. What started with a gifted handmade doll has become a nationally recognized charitable organization, providing millions of toys every year to ensure that every child, regardless of economic status, can experience the joy of receiving gifts for the holidays.

The collection and donation process normally starts in the fall through donation bins in community centers, but this doesn’t mean their charitable efforts stop after the holidays. Toys for Tots eagerly participates and engages in year-round activities to support children and families in need.

To cover all fifty states and the communities within, the Marine Toys for Tots Foundation works with local community organizations and Marine Corps Detachments.

Community members put new and unwrapped toys into Toys for Tots donation boxes to be picked up by that community’s coordinator in mid to late December.

With the assistance of local social welfare agencies, church groups, and local organizations, well-qualified coordinators identify and distribute donated toys to economically disadvantaged children.

As a nonprofit organization, the true success of Toys for Tots and charities like it comes from the nation's generosity, support, and donations.

Asylum Ink’s Toys for Tots toy drive is a perfect way to show support for children in need without breaking the bank. Fundraisers like this make it clear that every donation and gift counts, no matter the size or amount.

The collection process is simple and ensures an incredible deal for clients who bring in a new, unwrapped toy and its receipt. Asylum Ink’s team of experienced tattoo artists and piercers banded together and decided to drop off any extra toys after the Toys for Tots community pick up at the nearest fire station and police department at the end of their toy drive.

“[We] know they’ll have a better course of action to do with it than what we would,” Patrick explains.
To be a part of this charity event, go to 512 S Reilly Rd., Unit C in Fayetteville, or contact 910-339-3002 to donate.

“We said we are going to do this a little differently this year,” Nicholas DiLorenzo, Musical Director for Fayetteville Sound, says. “We are going to give back to the community. It’s called ‘A Very Barbershop Christmas.’”

DiLorenzo adjusts himself in his chair. The typical lineup he is speaking about involves a concert and admission. As he looks around the room, he verbally walks through the upcoming events for Fayetteville Sound which takes up his and other members every Thursday and Saturday through the end of the year.

This will include singing at nursing homes, the Christmas tree lighting at DirtBag Ales and other various performances.

A Very Barbershop Christmas, which is free to the public and one of many events the group takes part in during December, will be hosted on December 9th at The Stadium Events Center in downtown Fayetteville. The event will begin at 5:30 and last until 10 p.m. with Fayetteville Sound performing at 7 p.m.

“This is a really important one for us,” DiLorenzo says. “It’s aimed at children.”

Fayetteville Sound will be giving out presents to the first 50 kids through the door via Santa Claus, and a barber from Cut My City will be offering free haircuts for kids during the event. Local comedian, Heather Berube, will be the MC for the event. There will also be food vendors and small business vendors present for any of those attending. Most of the participants, DiLorenzo says, have given their time or talents.

“We are asking everyone [there] to give back to the community with us.”

Fayetteville Sound has been active in the area for about seven years although originally it was known under a different name. DiLorenzo says the group has always acted like a community chorus rather than a group worried about competitions and has a varied array of members.

“We have a little bit of everything,” he says of the professions of the group members. “We are a true crazy kind of chorus. Anyone who likes to sing can join.”

The group currently has 24 active members although most events will include about 18 to 20 members, including the upcoming Christmas event. All members are there on a volunteer basis, some of which, he says, have volunteered after watching them perform.

“Some of our members have never sung before [this],” he says. “They say, ‘I think I’d like to try that.” And they do. They become lifelong barbershoppers.”

For DiLorenzo, his journey into barbershop started 24 years ago with a teacher helping him explore his love of music and ultimately, barbershop. Although much of what he does he prefers to do behind the scenes of Fayetteville Sound, he still loves to sing alongside the members of his “second family,” whether that is traditional barbershop music or some modern music.

“We do a little bit more modern music that is fun for people,” he says.

At “A Very Barbershop,” the lineup will be music geared toward children including “Jingle Bells,” “Angels We Have Heard On High” and “Jingle Bell Rock.” Both Christmas and music are good for the cheer factor, according to DiLorenzo.

“It's good for [the kids’] ears and their happiness level.”

The idea for the Special Olympics began in the early 1950s and ‘60s when Eunice Kennedy Shriver began to take notice of how unfairly people were being treated and the bias over those who did not have challenges.

Her first plan of action began with a summer day camp for young people with intellectual disabilities in her backyard. Her optimistic approach focused on what could be achieved in sports and activities. Her work continued through the 1960s and was a driving force behind President John F. Kennedy’s panel.

Her passion eventually evolved into the Special Olympics movement. In July of 1968, about 1,000 athletes with intellectual disabilities from the USA and Canada competed in the first summer games at Soldier Field in Chicago. The opening ceremony included a teen runner carrying a torch to light the forty-five foot high John F. Kennedy Flame of Hope.

Over two hundred events included the broad jump, twenty-five-yard swim, high jump, 100-yard swim, fifty-yard dash, water polo and floor hockey. The highly successful event was the catalyst for a growing strength in the Special Olympics.

The Special Olympics has grown to year-round sports with an emphasis on education, health, and community involvement that now encompasses one hundred seventy-four countries and more than five million athletes.

In the United States, games have featured more than five thousand athletes from all fifty states and the Caribbean. Participants must be at least eight years of age or older and have year-round sports training to be effective in competition.

The Special Olympic sports competition parallels other sports competitions as athletes train to compete in a vast number of events which include tennis, basketball, volleyball, soccer, golf, bowling, softball, gymnastics, alpine skiing, powerlifting, figure skating, cross-country skiing, downhill skiing and many more.

Special Olympics participants train as elite athletes at least six days per week and multiple hours per day with a fitness coach. The difference between the Special Olympics and other sports organizations is that athletes of all ability levels are encouraged to participate, and all athletes are recognized for his or her performance.

There are many athletes who have competed over the years with a driven dedication. The word “Star” is not always who is first at the finish line or the best in competition.

Lani was born with a heart condition and intellectual disability. She was not credited for her ability to excel. Lani has proved any naysayers wrong, and her determination has awarded her a medal in rhythmic gymnastics. Jacqueline Mason commands her energy and confidence and it is difficult to believe that before the Special Olympics, she was reclusive and avoided eye contact. Her coach seized the opportunity and knew that she would flourish. She enjoys her work and competing in sports.

Mike Bailey was born with Down Syndrome and has been an avid Special Olympics enthusiast since he was a child. His parents feel that getting their son involved was one of the most important decisions they made.

And finally, Kayleigh Williamson, whose grandmother wanted to take her to New York to see the lights but did not live to see that happen. On Sunday, November 5th , thirty-three-year-old Kayleigh lived her grandmother’s dream and saw more than the lights of the city. She crossed the finish line in the prestigious New York Marathon in ten hours and nine minutes.

The ability to see the promise in an individual goes far beyond what we categorize as a disability. We can excel in a positive environment.

Live love life and the Special Olympics.