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  • 07 N1907P68002CPoor-performing schools in North Carolina have been put on notice that they need to improve their academic performance over the next few years or they could be turned over to outside groups such as charter schools. State education officials have made public a list of 69 schools that qualify for inclusion in the Innovative School District based on their low state test scores. Low-performing schools that remain on the list for four consecutive years are slated to be taken over by the Innovative School District, which would hire a group to run their day-to-day operations.

    Forsyth County had the most poor-performing schools of any district on the list at eight, followed by seven in Nash-Rocky Mount and six in Guilford County. Charlotte-Mecklenburg had four schools. There were two schools in Wake and Johnston counties and one each in Cumberland, Harnett and Iredell counties. T.C. Berrien Elementary on North Street is on the list in this latest attempt to reshape a program that has gotten off to a rocky start. Coincidentally, Berrien students are now attending classes at W.T. Brown School in Spring Lake because of structural issues.

    The Innovative School District concept was created by Republican state lawmakers in 2016 to take up to five low-performing elementary schools away from local school district control and turn them over to an outside group to run. Supporters of the program said it’s a way to help raise student achievement. But critics say the model, which has been used in other states, would privatize education.

    Southside Ashpole Elementary School in Robeson County is the only school in the Innovative School District and ended the program’s first year with an F grade, not meeting academic growth and with a drop in the percentage of students passing state exams. Recently, state lawmakers changed how schools are picked. Four more schools were to be added to the district for the 2020-21 school year. But after lobbying from the State Board of Education and State Superintendent Mark Johnson, lawmakers passed a bill that says no schools must be added for the next school year.

    In return, the legislation requires the state’s lowest-scoring school in the 2019-20 school year to be transferred to the district for the following school year. It also requires the lowest-scoring school in the 2020-21 school year to join the district the year after that. The 69 schools identified this month make up the lowest performing 5% of all schools in the state. If they’re still on the qualifying list after two years, they will be moved to a watch list. Schools that are still on the qualifying list after three years are put on a warning list. The five lowest performing schools that were on the warning list the previous year and were also on the qualifying list for four years in a row would automatically be turned over the Innovative School District.

  • 09 SANTALooking for a fun and festive event to go to this holiday season? Look no further than the Rotary Christmas parade. The parade will take place Dec. 14 from 9 a.m. to noon in the Cool Spring Downtown District.

    This will be the 20th year for the parade. The event will be filled with dancers, music and so much more. What started out as a simple event founded by the Fayetteville Rotary Club has now become an annual parade that many people enjoy each year.

    ShaDonna “Mo” McPhaul is an announcer for the parade and the public relations coordinator for the Liberty Point Rotary Club. She said, “My favorite part about the Rotary Christmas parade is seeing the smiles on the children’s faces, the dance teams and the high school bands.

    “The parade is important to the community because it brings us together to enjoy the holiday spirit. This year our theme is ‘Youth Leadership,’ and we are taking the opportunity to highlight our youth and encourage them to lead us into the future.”

    In 1999, a member of The Fayetteville Rotary Club learned that there was no established Christmas parade in Fayetteville. So, the Fayetteville rotary Club decided to collaborate with the other two Rotary clubs in Fayetteville to start one and ensure that there would, in fact be a Christmas parade. This was done as a service project for the city of Fayetteville.

     The first Christmas parade had around 50 entries. Now, the parade gets around 110-120 units. Rotary is the sole sponsor of the event. Some companies that have worked with The Fayetteville Rotary Club in the past on the parade are Chick-fil-A and Taco Bell.

    Planning the parade is a yearlong event. The first thing that happens occurs the day of the previous parade. On parade day, the floats for the following year are ordered.

    Matthew Smith is a chairman on the parade committee and one of the members of The Fayetteville Rotary Club that helped start the parade. The preparation of the parade, he said, “In May, we start meeting and deciding on what we are going to do for the coming year. We meet on and off at least once a month.

    “In the May to July period, the grand marshal is confirmed. In September to October, the list of elementary schools their principals and contact information are verified so that proper contact can be made for the child to represent their school in the parade. November to December, contact is made with Parks and Recreation, the Cumberland County manager for use of the main and auxiliary parking lots, city manager for use of the parking lot behind City Hall and NCDOT for the blocking of a portion of Russell Street, and a vendor for the porta potties.”

    The route of the parade begins at the main parking lot behind the Court house and ends at the auxiliary lot across from Person Street. Visit https://www.rotarychristmasparade.com/ for more information about the parade.
     
  • 21 01 carlosCarlos Villarreal

    Pine Forest • Soccer • Senior

    Villarreal is a member of the varsity soccer team and has a 4.2 weighted grade point average. In his free time Villarreal enjoys participating in travel soccer and volunteering at the Cumberland County Animal Shelter.

     

    Elizabeth Johnson

    Pine Forest• Bowling• Senior

    Johnson is a member of the Trojan bowling team. She has a 4.2 weighted grade point average. Her other interests include competing in SkillsUSA events and working on computers as part of the Academy of Information Technology.

    21 02 elizabeth johnson

  • 12 information technologyThere are many reasons why one should consider the field of information technology as a field of study. Information technology includes many different areas. The job market is constantly growing, and a fundamental informational technology knowledge base opens the door to pursue a vast number of different careers within the field. There will always be a demand for technology specialists, as new advancements are continually on the horizon, and the financial reward is great.

    Fayetteville Technical Community College offers an information technology degree in PC support and services as well as database management. This curriculum prepares graduates to work in the information technology field as help desk technicians, technical support specialists, field service technicians, system support specialists and a number of other positions. Students learn about computer hardware and software to troubleshoot and solve problems. Students also learn the fundamentals of other areas in information technology like programming, networking, security and virtualization.

    Education and training in information technology can be an asset for an individual’s career. We are not limited to only those individuals who are seeking an associate's degree. For those seeking that additional career training, we have several certificate programs that are condensed, focusing on one particular area of interest.

    FTCC also offers education opportunities for high school students. There are many certificates available to High School Connections and Cumberland Polytechnic High School students.

    Anyone interested in the program may easily apply to FTCC from www.faytechcc.edu by clicking on "Apply Now." There is no application fee, and everyone is accepted. During the admissions process, you will indicate your area interest. You can select the information technology/database management or information technology/PC support and services program at this location. Once the admissions process is complete, you can begin registering for classes right away. Students can begin their major courses their first semester. Interested individuals may also contact me, Tomica Sobers, via email at sobersto@faytechcc.edu or by calling 910-678-7368.

    Registration is currently open for Spring 2020 classes. Classes begin Jan. 13. New students can visit the Tony Rand Student Center at the Fayetteville campus, the Spring Lake campus, or the Fort Bragg Training and Education Center for admissions, counseling and registration assistance.

    FTCC offers over 280 curriculum programs of study where some academic credits transfer to some four-year colleges/universities. FTCC also offers a wide range of corporate and continuing education (noncredit transfer) classes and programs of study.

    For convenience of study — including online or in traditional classrooms — affordability, athletics, student club/organization experiences and a high-quality education, make the smart choice for education — Fayetteville Technical Community College. Your information technology career starts at FTCC.
     
  • 03 margaretWe all have wonderful and unexpected moments in life, both large and small. One came for me earlier this month when an Up & Coming Weekly reader emailed to ask about a word I used in a column published in May 2008. The word — if it really exists — is “teewaddy,” which is what my grandmother called a lie. As I strolled down Memory Lane rereading that vintage column, it occurred to me that it might be especially relevant in our current climate of spin and blatant use of teewaddies.

    Here is a revised version of that column.

        ********************
    Growing up in our family, the word “lie” was rarely used. Instead we were admonished not to tell “fibs.” My maternal grandmother, from whom my own mother undoubtedly inherited some of her ideas about language, used an even more creative word than “fibs.” I no longer remember my infraction, but I will remember until my dying day the feeling of my grandmother’s larger hands cupping my then small face with her eyes close to mine, addressing me by my full name and saying, “Don’t you ever tell me another teewaddy!”

    I love that eastern North Carolina word, and my own children were regularly cautioned about the dangers of teewaddies.

    Unlike my mother and grandmother, though, I find “lie” to be a plain, strong and useful English word. Everyone understands that to lie is to be deliberately untruthful. An error of fact is not a lie. It is a mistake. A lie is something the person telling it knows to be untrue and tells it anyway.  

    We all know the difference in our hearts. A mistake is when we call our friend the wrong name, erroneously tell a colleague a meeting is on Tuesday when it is actually on Wednesday or reference Australia when we mean Austria. Lying is when we say or write something to mislead or deceive someone else, knowing full well what we are doing. To paraphrase Gertrude Stein, “a lie is a lie is a lie.”

    Politicians try to fudge on this point. White House Press Secretary Ron Zieglar once tried to cover up for his boss, Richard Nixon, by saying the president “misspoke.” I remember thinking at the time, “Sounds like a teewaddy-fib-lie to me!” Lying seems most acute during political seasons, and politicians from presidential contenders on down will issue vague and squishy mea culpas trying not to admit, “I told a whopper.”

    My own observation and experience are that people are smarter than that. We often know when someone, particularly a public figure, is telling us a tale under the banner of “misspeaking.” My question is why we let misspeakers get away with it, why we tolerate linguistic cleanup attempts, why we let language be used as wrapping paper for something decidedly unattractive and possibly dangerous, why we allow them to put lipstick on pigs of their own creation.
    Whatever I told my grandmother all those years ago, whether I lied or just got mixed up about something is lost in time. Either way, she was having none of it. Our family dealt with more than a few teewaddies and fibs as our children were growing up, but if one of them had ever uttered the word “misspoke,” I would have zipped past suspicion directly onto conviction.

    We all see and hear misspeakers in public life, and when we suspect they are lying, they probably are. Their lies can be silly, annoying, ingenuous or thoroughly deceitful and frighteningly dangerous. Our job, if we have the courage to do it in this deeply contentious and miserable presidential election season, is to scream loudly and publicly every time we seeing that lipstick coming out of its tube.
     
  • 14 Christmas Christmas is an odd time for me. I love to give gifts, but I don't really care to “add to the collection” of unwanted gifts. In my home, we often talk about trusting God to meet our needs. That doesn't mean we stand on the shore and watch for our ship to come in. We work hard to make sure we've done all we can to provide for our family and others, but still we trust God. Sometimes I'll pray and ask for specific things — you know, a particular amount of money, favorable diagnosis of a car problem — and I suspect you do, too. Nothing wrong with that, but there's truly more to having your needs met than having stuff go your way. It may be as simple as being content with where you are and what you have.

    My wife and I must be on the same wavelength concerning contentment. We have a little chalkboard in our kitchen where we'll write a recipe or date night idea, but recently I walked into the kitchen and saw these words: “What if God has already provided?”

    That stopped me. And the thought has haunted me for weeks. What if, in my quest for more and better, I've overlooked what I already have?

    It's caused me to take stock of my time, talents and resources. It's even changed the way I pray and how I look at pretty much everything.

    Discontentment runs rampant in our culture, and today I want to offer you three choices you can make in your life that can lead you to genuine, biblical, lasting contentment.

    1. Seek contentment as a lifestyle. Choose it. Acknowledge that you would not be happier if you had more. You wouldn’t be — you’d likely be more miserable. God’s word contains clear warnings for us: “It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the kingdom of God.” (Mark 10:25)

    2. Learn to say, “I have enough.” Let those words reign in your home. Push back from the table and say, “I’ve had enough.” When money comes your way — a surprise bonus from work, an inheritance from your great-uncle, even finding $50 in your coat pocket — resist the cravings for more.

    3. Settle it. Here’s a challenge — choose a lifestyle; don’t let your income dictate your lifestyle. Choose a comfortable level of living that meets your needs, and don't compromise that with more spending when more income arrives. If you don’t choose a lifestyle, this culture will choose one for you, and by default it will be the lifestyle of living beyond your means. Be counter-cultural. Be radical. Be others-oriented.

    Let enough be enough. Learn from the examples of those around you, both the contented and the covetous. You'll save yourself some heartache and know the joy of a truly contented attitude. More does not equal happier. I promise.
    And remember this from Philippians 4:19:

    "My God will supply every need according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."
     
  • 16 pets supplies plusTony Mello is the manager of the newly opened Pet Supplies Plus in Hope Mills at the intersection of Main Street and Camden Road in the former Eckerd drugstore building.

    But Mello doesn’t really care that people refer to him as the store’s manager. He’d be happier if you just called him neighbor.

    “I’m from Hope Mills and have been here for 17 years,’’ said Mello. “The whole idea behind Pet Supplies Plus is we don’t have customers, we have neighbors. We are that big-box store to go shopping in minus all the hassles.’’
    Mello said the store is a win-win for pet owners of all types in the Hope Mills area.

    “This is somewhere you are going to want to come,’’ he said. “We want to get on a first-name basis with our neighbors — not just our neighbors, but their pets.’’

    Customers will get a feel for the special interest the staff at Pet Supplies Plus has for them whenever they visit the store. “I hire for personality, but I also need pet people,’’ Mello said of his staff. He said one of the first questions he asks any potential employee is do they own pets.“I love to see their faces light up when you ask their pet’s name,’’ he said. “The first thing they show you is the pictures (of their pet) in their cellphone.’’

    Pet Supplies Plus is independently owned but part of a chain of some 400 stores, based in Cleveland, Ohio.

    On the premises, you can purchase live birds, various small animals, reptiles and live fish. Among the more exotic animals the store sells are chameleons, crested geckos and leopard geckos.
    The store doesn’t sell dogs and cats, but arrangements are being made with several local pet adoption agencies to come in on weekends and help people pick out a pet.

    One of the store’s major features is a full, self-service grooming facility.

    Shampoo, towels and a blow dryer are available, and the store staff takes care of cleaning up and sanitizing the area when customers finish using it.

    If need pet food, the store carries everything for dogs, cats, reptiles, guinea pigs and ferrets to name few animals. If a customer has a special need for something not in stock, they’ll work with you to make a special order.
    The store also plans to offer clinics with a traveling veterinary service.Two are already scheduled for next year, one on Jan. 28 and one on Feb. 25. The hours for both are from 5 p.m. until 7 p.m.

    “You can come in, see a vet and get vaccinations in house,’’ Mello said.

    Regular store hours are from 9 a.m. until 9 p.m. Monday through Saturday and 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. on Sundays.

  • 06 Soft CostsFayetteville City Council has learned that major project investments can have open-ended construction costs. The original plan for the Hay Street baseball stadium was estimated at $33 million. It ended up costing $40 million. Two years ago, council executed a construction contract for the adjacent five-story parking garage at $14.4 million. But then in June of this year, City Council agreed to increase its contribution to the construction cost for the project by $1.5 million to a total just short of $15 million.

    In the council’s final meeting, as it was previously composed, members present voted unanimously to make a parking deck budget amendment of another $1.5 million to finance what are known as “soft costs” in addition to construction costs. Councilman Jim Arp was absent. Deputy City Manager Kristoff Bauer wrote the construction project contract and pointed out to council members in a detailed letter that there was an addendum requiring the city to also pay actual soft costs that would arise.

    Bauer said the soft costs, which included engineering and architectural work, were not known at the time. Other soft costs included design work, permitting, special inspections, legal fees and other incidentals. Bauer explained that so-called soft costs are usually projected “at 15% to 30% of construction cost, depending on the size and complexity of the project.” He said the additional costs for the parking deck project were reasonable when compared to other major projects. In his letter, Bauer wrote that the soft costs for this project are less than 10% of the construction costs.

    The city agreed to purchase the garage once it’s open, and that will likely be in the next couple of weeks, officials said. The structure will provide parking for a new hotel, office complex, Prince Charles apartment tenants and the general public. PCH developers have proposed to build a seven-story office building and a five-story Hyatt Hotel atop the parking garage. It would be the tallest structure in downtown Fayetteville.

    This month there was a 40% turnover of City Council members. Under the current electoral system, the City Council consists of nine council members and a mayor. The nine council members are elected from individual districts, and citizens only vote for candidates running in their districts. The mayor is elected citywide. Councilmen Bill Crisp and Dan Culliton chose not to seek re-election. Jim Arp and Mayor Pro Tem Ted Mohn were defeated in what were considered upsets. Chris Davis succeeded Crisp, and Shakeyla M. Ingram won Culliton’s District 2 seat. Yvonne Y. Kinston beat Arp in the District 9 race, and Courtney Banks-McLaughlin defeated District 8’s Mohn.

  • 19 01 rodney brewingtonHere is the Patriot Athletic All-Conference football team as chosen by the league’s head coaches:

    Coach of the year

    Rodney Brewington, South View

    Athlete of the year

    Matthew Pemberton, South View

    Offensive player of the year

    Dorian Clark, Terry Sanford

    19 02 jackson deaverDefensive player of the year

    Jackson Deaver, Terry Sanford

    First team
    Offensive line

    Caleb Krings, Cape Fear
    Terry McLaughlin, Gray’s Creek
    Ethan Denzer, South View
    Dejon Gilliam, Overhills
    Darrius Johnson, E.E. Smith

    Wide receivers

    Yates Johnson, Terry Sanford
    Kevin Brewington, South View
    Nasir McDaniel, Overhills
    Jailen Hobbs, Overhills
    Bryan Davis, E.E. Smith

    19 03 Matthew PembertonRunning backs

    Keyshown Lindsey, Westover
    Jerry Garcia, Gray’s Creek

    Quarterback
    Jacob Knight, Terry Sanford

    Tight end

    Ezemdi Udoh, Terry Sanford

    Kicker

    19 04 dorian clarkMason Smith, Cape Fear

    Punter

    Mason Smith, Cape Fear

    Defensive line

    Markell Samuels, E.E. Smith
    Joel Evans, South View
    Elijah Morris, Terry Sanford
    Kendall Evans, Gray’s Creek

    Linebackers

    Justin McLintock, Gray’s Creek
    Mark Burks, Cape Fear
    Donta Autry, South View
    DeShaun Rivera, South View

    Defensive backs

    Tyquan Hayes, Terry Sanford
    Dujuan Lockhart, South View
    Timel Smith, South View
    Randy Franklin, E.E. Smith

    Second team
    Offensive line

    Nahala Moore, Westover
    Arden Billington, Douglas Byrd
    Garrett Crockett, Gray’s Creek
    Christian Deaver, Terry Sanford
    Taeveon Dove, South View

    Wide receivers

    Devon Marshall, Westover
    Israel Reuben, Terry Sanford
    Jemel McLean, Pine Forest
    Daniel Dawson, E.E. Smith

    Running backs

    D.J. Jones, Pine Forest
    Cayden McKethan, Cape Fear

    Quarterback

    Chris Perkins, Overhills

    Tight end

    Josh George, South View

    Defensive line

    Remmington Workman, Westover
    Zion Cameron, Douglas Byrd
    Jarvis Higgins, Terry Sanford
    Xavier Johnson, Pine Forest
    Nic Minnicapelli, Cape Fear

    Linebackers

    Jarvis Dudley, E.E. Smith
    Bernard Flerlage, Pine Forest
    Isaiah Locklear, Douglas Byrd
    Jerry Smith, Overhills

    Defensive backs

    Xjavian McMillian, Westover
    Dalton Patrick, Gray’s Creek
    Chad McDonald, Terry Sanford
    Jaysen Smalls, Overhills

    Honorable mention
    Offensive line

    Douglas Byrd - Zyon McEachin.
    Cape Fear - Mike Wesolowski, Chason Bryant
    South View - Michael Herbert
    Pine Forest - John Sullivan, Seth Smith, Blake Marshburn
    Terry Sanford - Hayden Honeycutt
    E.E. Smith - Anthony Morris

    Running backs

    South View - Tyrese Harris
    Terry Sanford - Jre Jackson
    Quarterback
    Pine Forest - Jaden Jones
    E.E. Smith - Dashawn McCullough

    Tight end

    Cape Fear - Nic Minicapelli

    Defensive line

    Cape Fear - Darrick Whitted
    Gray’s Creek - Jalen Johnson
    South View - Michael Herbert, Mahlik Gonzalez
    Pine Forest - Chris Green

    Linebackers

    Gray’s Creek - Josiah Arreguin
    Cape Fear - Micah Nelson
    South View - Marzea Saunders, Christian Ray
    Terry Sanford - Sequan Smith

    Defensive backs
    Douglas Byrd - Glendell Herring
    Cape Fear - James Sealy, Lamon Lockamy
    Terry Sanford - Maurice Jones
    South View - Ahmir Ashley
    E.E. Smith - Trevon Hinton
  • 11 01 CM0A1192It’s been 50 years since the North Carolina State Ballet graced the stage to  perform “The Nutcracker.” Under the direction of Charlotte Blume, the production flourished. Blume died in 2015, but her passion project continues to pull in crowds — both for auditions and at the box office. This year’s public performances are set for Dec. 14 and 15, in addition to the shows performed exclusively for school students.

    Dina Lewis has been at the helm since Blume’s death, and she’s worked hard to ensure Blume’s memory lives on and that her contributions to the community and to her students are acknowledged. “About midway through a rehearsal, I asked how many people had studied under Charlotte Blume. It was 10,” Lewis said. “There are 10 of her students remaining that had her — and three are seniors. She is still such a legend in the studio, though. The younger girls are like, ‘You knew her?’ And the older girls will tell them about her. She is definitely still there.”

    “She is still a big part of the production — this year more than ever,” Lewis said. “When people walk into the show, they will see pictures of her flanking the doors. When Charlotte was alive, she was an artist in every sense of the word. She would draw the posters and have them printed.  She would draw out the T-shirt designs; they were all hers. …  A few weeks ago, when I was going through a stack of papers, it was labeled “art.” It was all her old T-shirt designs. We brought the tradition back this year as a surprise to the girls using a couple of Ms. Blume’s original designs. We found her signature, and it will be on the back of the shirts this year.”

    While Blume was known for her passion for her dancers, she was also known for demanding excellence and commitment from her students.  “She had a way of pulling the excellence out of the children,” said Lewis. “She knew what they were capable of, and she would push them to be their best and do their best. She would say that no one is ever perfect in dance. There is always something to work on.”

    While there have been many surprises and lots of hard work in carrying on Blume’s commitment to ‘The Nutcracker,’ Lewis said there have been some moving and 11 02 CM0A1205wonderful surprises, too. In addition to the stack of hand-drawn  original T-shirt artwork, Lewis has come across hand-drawn posters that Blume designed for previous “Nutcracker” productions. And there was also the original paperwork that The Charlotte Blume School of Dance signed with the N.C. State Ballet when Blume’s students first performed the ballet. “I found her original paperwork from the ballet company,” said Lewis. “All these years we have had the numbers wrong. All this time, we didn’t know how long this has been going. When I found it, I called her son to confirm it. I also reached out to the Crown, and we are the longest performing production at the Crown Theatre — it is us!”

    This year, the audience can expect some fun changes. “We have done a lot of new things,” Lewis said. “There are new backdrops, and almost the entire first act — except one group — is all brand new costumes. I wanted to put the statement out there how proud were are of the anniversary and producing the show for this many years.”

    There are some big changes in the Russian scene in the second act as well. “The Russian tutus were created for us by  Phillip Martin-Nelsen, principal dancer of the all-male pointe group “Les Ballets Trockadero de Monet Carlo” of New York,” Lewis said. “We were very honored when he agreed to create and make them for us. …  He does a lot of their costumes. We FaceTimed him and he had a sketch back to us in just a few minutes.”

    This year, Ella Lewis is Sugar Plum, dancing with Adam Chavis. Nick Fokine is ballet royalty — his great-grandparents Michael and Vera Fokine choreographed ‘Giselle.’ He helped at some of our rehearsals. He also performs with Carolina ballet. He helped us a lot. We are excited to put that on stage.”

    Lewis mentioned some other fun changes, too. “We just don’t have ballerinas on stage for the Russian stint. There will be some gymnastics on stage, too. I think the audience will love it. And for Snow … we have a Snow King and a Snow Queen. That is also new this year.”

    It takes 11 months to produce “The Nutcracker.” The planning starts shortly after the holidays. Rehearsals start in April and, except for two weeks in July, run right up to the performances. It’s hard work. It’s a lot of dedication. It’s exhausting, but so worth it, Lewis said. It brings something special to the community and the performers are passionate about it. “This year we have a cast of 86. … As people came in, we saw the line for auditions was wrapped all the way around the fire station. It is really cool. I thought wow, if Charlotte could have been here to see this.”

    North Carolina State Ballet’s “The Nutcracker” will be at the Crown Dec. 14 and 15 with performances at 3 p.m. Tickets cost between $10 and $25. Children 5 and under are free. Visit http://www.crowncomplexnc.com for tickets and information.
     
  • 10 Christmas light show‘Tis the season to be jolly, and there is an abundance of local merry festivities to usher in the holidays. From viewing spectacular light displays to laughing at comedic Christmas performances, the variety of entertainment provides something for everyone. Here are some gems you won’t want to miss.

    Purchase a delicious treat and catch “Santaland Diaries,” put on by the Cape Fear Regional Theatre, at The Sweet Palette, located at 101 Person St. Watch as Santa’s helper, Crumpet, gets caught up in the craziness of the holiday buzz at Macy’s and deals with all of the shoppers and their children that come through the doors. The CFRT: After Dark production promises to bring on the laughs with “whacked out, wicked wit.” The show is for ages 18 and up, so leave the kids at home lest you end up on the naughty list. The show will run through Dec. 21. General admission tickets are $20 and for season ticket holders, the tickets are $15. Call 910-323-4233 or visit http://www.cfrt.org/project/the-santaland-diaries/ to buy tickets.

    Enjoy an evening stroll at Arnette Park’s “Christmas in the Park,” a beautiful attraction of light displays. With thousands of beautiful lights decorating the park, the Christmas Express train, a fire pit to roast marshmallows at and the opportunity to enjoy your favorite, classic Christmas movies on the outdoor screen with a cup of hot cocoa, this event is a favorite among locals. You can even visit jolly St. Nick and get a picture for $5. “Christmas in the Park” is open from 6-9 p.m. through Dec. 22. Admission is $10 per family vehicle, $30 per commercial vehicle and $75 per motor coach or bus. For more information, call 910-443-1547. For inclement weather, call 910-306-7325.

    “An 82nd Airborne Jingle: All the Way!” is right around the corner at the Crown Theatre. Featuring the 82nd Airborne Division Concert Band, the All American Chorus and Riser Burn, the 82nd Airborne Division’s rock band, the event’s holiday program is free. A military family night will be held Dec. 19 at 7 p.m. The public concert will be held Dec. 20 at 7 p.m. Seating is on a first-come, first-served basis. Visit http://www.crowncomplexnc.com/events/detail/an-82nd-airborne-jingle-all-the-way to learn more.

    Experience the magic of Christmas at Lu Mil Vineyard at the drive-through Festival of Lights. Some of the features of the attraction include free pictures with St. Nick, a gift shop, a free wine tasting and their Christmas Village. A country buffet is also available for $12 from 5-9 p.m. You can view the brilliant lights through Dec. 23 from 6-10 p.m. The event costs $10 per person, and ages 5 and under are free. For more information, visit http://lumilvineyard.com/festival-of-lights.html or call 910-866-5819.
     
  • 04 I think youre wrong butWatching all the problems that threaten the continued existence of America but go unsolved has brought me close to a state of despair. At times, our situation seems completely hopeless. In several columns, I have contended that the primary cause of our troubled condition is due to a turning from God and the ways of God. For me, that remains the primary cause.

    However, I recently read an observation that further explains, as a society, our seeming inability to successfully address the simplest of problems. Sarah Stewart Holland and Beth Silvers are authors of a book titled, “I Think You’re Wrong (But I’m Listening).” At one point, they reflect on an experience during their podcast, Pantsuit Politics. Holland is a Democrat and Silvers is a Republican. They discuss politics. When discussing how best to achieve productive discussion of issues, they emphasize the importance of grace. They write: “Grace isn’t rolling over or acquiescing to those who have completely different values than we do. It is simply seeing our shared connections and acknowledging each other’s human dignity so that we can continue moving forward as a country.”

    They go on to say, “Grace permeates most of our conversations with each other on the podcast — so much so that listeners often don’t even recognize our disagreements because it doesn’t feel like fighting.”

    However, at one point, they decided to experiment with a different format. This format would make their differences more apparent. In actuality, they decided to debate one another. Over time, the debates shifted in tone. This quote describes the course of these debates: “However, as we continued, we began to occupy our predefined roles as a Democrat and a Republican. Beth defended the role of private industry in energy production. Sarah argued for an increased role for the federal government in environmental regulations. We bickered about the power and authority of state and local governments. We danced around our shared interests only to fall back into our conflicts over profit motivation and government corruption.

    “Slowly but surely you could hear us begin to become skeptical of each other’s motives.”

    The writers come to this conclusion: “In the end, what we realized is that debates aren’t problem-solving. They are dramatized events filled with manufactured conflict. We weren’t trying to find a solution that would make both sides happy. We were arguing that we were a better choice to solve the problem.”

    The conclusion reached by Hollard and Silvers regarding debates is absolutely true; one only has to look at what is happening in America to know that their conclusion is astoundingly true. Start with a situation happening in Fayetteville. For months, Mayor Mitch Colvin and others have been highlighting alleged overwhelming opposition to construction of the North Carolina Civil War & Reconstruction History Center in our city. A public hearing regarding this matter was, at the urging of Mayor Colvin, held in the Council Chamber on Nov. 14. I attended the hearing but sat in an overflow room because attendance was substantial.

    The mayor opened the hearing by explaining the meeting flow, rules for speakers and for general conduct. In my estimation, what followed was a very civil debate. Speakers shared their positions relating to the project. There were no questions allowed to be directed to speakers, no audience participation that would have provided for measuring the impact of what was presented by speakers. Further, there was no allowance for questioning facts or construction of arguments presented by speakers.

    Regarding that meeting, a Nov. 24 Fayetteville Observer article titled, “Readers debate Civil War history center,” reported: “… around 300 people came to a public forum for the N.C. Civil War & Reconstruction History Center. Thirty-nine people spoke in favor of the center, five were against and four were neutral.”

    Beyond this, a Nov. 16  Fayetteville Observer editorial titled “Our View: Public vote on Civil War center should not be ruled out” raised a possible action that, in my thinking, highlights the uselessness of debates in solving problems or deciding difficult issues. That editorial refers to a call by one speaker, Nero B. Coleman, for a referendum on the History Center. That is, let the voters decide the fate of this project. The Observer’s position is that a referendum “should not be taken off the table.”

    Given how little attention the general public gives to a matter of this kind, while being influenced by emotion vice thoughtful examination of facts, a referendum would appear ill-advised. It would be like having a jury decide the fate of an accused person based on hearing 15 minutes of 25 hours of testimony. In a referendum, people would act based on having heard limited debate points, many of which would probably be misinformation.

    As for me, I left the meeting impressed with most of the speaker presentations, but not sensing a coming together of citizens around some shared values and beliefs, some shared vision as to what is good for us as a city, state and even a nation. No, it was a matter of one group seeking to out-point the other.

    Because that was the case, even though it was crystal clear, as The Observer reported, that the number of speakers who supported this project substantially outnumbered those who did not, the matter is still not settled. The battle for which group will control the fate of this project goes on. The fact of the battle going on is confirmed by what appears to be serious consideration of a referendum. This is what debate produces; ongoing battles that divide people into competing groups. No problems are solved, most people lose and a few win — for a moment.

    If this local situation does not offer confirmation that debate is useless in solving problems, consider what is happening in the current impeachment inquiry. I watched the first day of public hearings being conducted by the House Intelligence Committee. That first day, I watched straight through all of it. The second day and beyond, I had to watch in 15 to 20 minute increments. That is, I would watch for those few minutes, take a break and come back for a bit more. That was the case because it was all debate, people trying to accrue points with the public. Like with the meeting at City Hall, I did not sense these politicians coming together around some shared values and beliefs, some shared vision, as to what is good for us as a country. It was a debate, and the destructive cost to this nation just keeps going up while no positive end is anywhere in sight.

    Thankfully, these two experiences are not the end of the story. On a rainy and dreary Friday night, Nov. 15, I made my way to a meeting called by Councilwoman Tisha Waddell, District 3. Waddell’s purpose was to discuss several topics with citizens of her district and others who might be interested. It was a small group. Among the topics discussed were the “Build A Better Murchison” project, storm water management, sidewalks, street resurfacing and The North Carolina Civil War & Reconstruction History Center. Very capable individuals addressed the topics and answered questions regarding each. Clearly, by her comments, Councilwoman Waddell was well-informed relative to every topic.

    The information flow and factual presentations were encouraging. Even more encouraging was the tone of the meeting. Councilwoman Waddell opened by reminding all of us that when the meeting was over, we would still be neighbors. Her use of “neighbor” clearly conveyed far more than living near one another. The message I received was that being neighbors demands that we give due consideration to others in our decision-making. It was not simply that she said it, but the way she said it. There was a ring of sincerity, a convincing call for us to rise above scoring debate points and focus on finding a mutually beneficial way forward. The vast majority of the people in the room appeared to make that shift.

    My hope, my prayer, is that more and more Americans will recognize that we are neighbors and take hold of the grace that will move us from useless debate to productive discourse.

  • For a second consecutive Christmas, Dawn Seegars is pulling double duty preparing for special Christmas music.

    Seegars, a bi-vocational worship leader at Temple Baptist Church, is again helping to put together the annual Singing Christmas Tree performances at Highland Baptist Church where she sang in the choir with the late Nancy Brady.
    This year’s performances are scheduled Dec. 13-15 at 7 p.m. each evening.

    Brady was the choir director at Highland until she lost a battle with cancer last year. Seegars stepped in to take over Brady’s role, and has agreed to do it again this year while Highland is engaged in the search for a new pastor.

    “They have awesome lay leadership but no music director permanently on staff and now no pastor,’’ Seegars said. Seegars said the congregation reached out to her over the summer to ask if she’d take on the job of directing this year’s Singing Christmas Tree and she agreed.

    “In church music, if you’re not a season ahead, you’re behind,’’ Seegars said. “In summertime you’re picking out Christmas music.’’

    Rehearsals began about the third week in September Seegars said.

    “We always try to do something different every year,’’ she said. “We haven’t repeated music. We want everyone that comes to hear something new, see something new.’’
    The sets may be the same, but the music and dramatic portions of the performance will be updated.

    Seegars said this year’s music selections will represent a variety of styles. “We’ve got some music with a Southern gospel feel, music with a regular gospel feel,’’ she said. “We’ve got some Christmas classics and even a song that includes a children’s choir.’’

    There will also be narrations along with actors portraying the traditional manger scene from the story of the birth of Christ. There will even by a lyrical dance team performing.

    Seegars praised the lay leadership at the church for their commitment to keep the Singing Christmas Tree going even without a full-time minister and music leader presently on staff.

    “When you don’t have a pastor, things are always a little tougher than when you do have somebody in that leadership role,’’ Seegars said. “They are going to continue to do what they are called to do and present the gospel message of Christmas to the community.’’

    Woody Cox, chairman of the church’s Board of Deacons, said those planning to come to the Singing Christmas Tree are invited to bring a donation of canned goods or other nonperishable foods to the church’s food pantry.
    Even without a pastor, Cox said the church’s ministry has been able to continue because of the great people there who are willing to share their time. The church has been doing the Singing Christmas Tree many years before Cox joined the congregation in 1995.

    “We just think it’s a great way to get the community in to hear the presentation of the gospel,’’ he said. “A lot of lost people are more willing to come in and watch the program. Through songs and the message that goes into it they get the gospel presentation of Jesus Christ.“We can touch a lot of lives quicker that way.’’

    For questions about the Singing Christmas Tree, call the church office at 910-425-5305, Monday through Thursday.

  • 11 01 jonathan pilandJonathan Piland

    Cape Fear • Indoor/outdoor track • Senior

    Piland has a grade point average of 4.62. He is a member of the Natural Science Academy, the county youth orchestra, all-county orchestra, East Regional orchestra and the N.C. Honors orchestra. He works in the freshman mentoring program as a lead mentor. He’s active with the Lebanon Baptist Church praise team and the Snyder Baptist Church Singing Christmas Tree.

     

    Walker Brittain

    Cape Fear• Soccer• Senior

    11 02 walker brittainBrittain has a grade point average of 4.46. He is active in speech and debate, the Environmental Club, Harvard Model Congress, Common Ground Initiative, Student Government Association, the BETA Club and journalism. He’s also a freshman mentor and has served as a page for the North Carolina governor as well as in the North Carolina state house.

  • 08 02 Pine Christmas Garland at the 1897 Poe HouseThe nights are getting longer, and the air is turning colder as the winter season settles upon Fayetteville. The festive season is the air and many families want to go to memorable events with their children. As the holidays approach, Fayetteville organizations are preparing many events to celebrate the Christmas season, including the ever-popular Annual Holiday Jubilee at the 1897 Poe House. The 1897 Poe House will host this event for everyone Dec. 8 from 1-5 p.m. This event is free of charge — so everyone in the family can come.

    The Poe House will be covered in beautiful traditional Christmas decorations of the Victorian era. The event will include a multitude of Christmas-related things to do that will entertain everyone in the family.

    Megan Maxwell, the Poe House coordinator, is in her eighth year of being in charge of this event.  She noted that “It’s geared for all ages. We have a caroling concert on the front porch. The adults really love (it), the kids (do) as well. We have Santa for the younger kids to visit. It’s really for all ages.”

    Two groups will perform the carols — the Coventry Carolers and Cross Creek Chordsmen. The Coventry Carolers are an acapella group. They will sing more traditional Christmas songs. Maxwell said, “They perform pretty much every year we have the event. The people really enjoy them. They kind of do the Victorian-era Christmas carols.” They will perform at Holiday Jubilee at 1:30 p.m., 2:30 p.m., and 3:30 p.m., showing off their vocal talents.

    They will be followed by Cross Creek Chordsmen. Maxwell described the Chordsmen as, “Our local barbershop chorus,” adding that “they do some modern tunes, too.” The Cross Creek Chordsmen will perform at 2 p.m. and 4 p.m. 

    Maxwell said that both acts, “Will make for a very festive event.”

    After listening to the lovely voices of the performers, tour the magnificent Poe House. You can tour the house with interpreters in each room to tell you about the history of the house and help guide you into that festive spirit of an era long passed. The kitchen will be open and using its wood-burning 1902 stove to serve free cookies and cider for attendees. “It’s a great opportunity to view the house,” Maxwell 08 Cross Creek Chordsmen perform at the Poe Housesaid about the Holiday Jubilee. “The house is beautiful year-round, but with the Christmas decorations up, it just makes it all the more spectacular.”
    Also, Santa and Mrs. Claus will be at the house, so that the family can get a picture of Santa and have their little children tell Santa what they want for Christmas. “We don’t charge for pictures,” said Maxwell. “Parents are allowed to come and take their own pictures on their phone. It’s a free opportunity to get your Santa pictures.” 

    The Holiday Jubilee has had a professional Santa for four years now, so it will provide a great photo opportunity for the kids — or for the entire family. Maxwell noted that it is a great way to end a visit to the Holiday Jubilee.

    Holiday Jubilee will Dec. 8 from 1-5 p.m. The entire event is completely free and includes musical groups, cookies, cider and pictures with Santa. Enjoy the beautiful 1897 Poe House in all of its Christmas glory, while creating some lifelong family memories or traditions.

    If attending the Holiday Jubilee is out of the question, there is still time to see the Poe House in its holiday glory. The house will be decorated with all of its Christmas gear by Nov. 19. Megan Maxwell said, “The Christmas decorations go up the week of Thanksgiving. So, people can come and view the Christmas decorations during our regular Poe House tours, starting Nov. 19, and they are up all the way through Jan. 5.”

    For more information, visit the website at https://museumofthecapefear.ncdcr.gov/ or call 910-500-4240.
     
  • 03 Margaret Thanksgiving has come and gone in a wake of leftovers and cellphone photos of family and friends gathered for the occasion. Moving forward into the holiday season proper ups the stress level for most of us. It has been estimated that the holidays are more stressful for American women than almost everything else except for the loss of a spouse or a child.

    How can we reduce our stress during the holidays and beyond?

    An increasing body of evidence says we — women, men and children — would benefit enormously from more discipline of our screen time, be it on a cell phone, a tablet, full-blown computer, television or some specialized gizmo I have never heard of much less used.

    A quick search yields lists of articles about ill-effects of screen time on children, including research released just last month linking screen time to lower brain development in preschoolers. Many parents are now trying to limit screen time, but that is apparently far more difficult than those of us who parented before cell phones and such can imagine. Take as evidence children everywhere glued to screens in restaurants and other public places. Screen time comes with physical changes for children as well — less movement and less oxygen intake, less social interaction with other children and adults, exposure to adult images and concepts not available to children of prior generations.

    It is not just children spending too much time looking at various appliances. We adults are voracious screen-time consumers, walking around talking on or looking at our phones, working on tablets and laptops as if our very lives depend on them. The word “addiction” is bandied about and with good reason. I had an up-close-and-personal encounter with just how important my cell phone has become to me when I left it in a church pew after a wedding last spring. Blessedly, a fellow wedding guest, whom I did not know, found my phone and tracked me down, but I was sick with worry for almost 24 hours—my personal information, my contact lists, my purchases, my photos! So relieved was I that when he declined a reward, I sent a check to the church in his honor.

    Evidence of the problem abounds, and solutions are offered, all of which require adult discipline.

    Experts agree that screen time for children should have clear and enforceable limits for both time and content. Every family is different, of course, and there is a wealth of advice available for both what to do and how to do it. The issue is parental fortitude in the face of children’s demands. It might help to see the issue as protecting one’s children, not depriving them.

    As for adults, we are going to have to do it ourselves, and here is why we should. A Nielsen report in 2014 found American adults with about 11 hours of some sort of screen time per day. Among that astounding amount of screen time’s ill effects are weight gain, vision problems, neck and back pain, poor sleep, impaired cognitive function, a lack of privacy and early death, all of which should give us great pause. Most of today’s jobs require some degree of screen time, making it all the more important to build in time for movement, for actual face-to-face interaction with family, friends and colleagues and regular quiet time when all screens are turned off. Long before screen time became an issue, former U.S. Secretary of State George Schultz gave himself an hour a week alone to contemplate, write, plan and be in his own company, something we should all consider for our mental health. He is wise, indeed.

    It is intimidating to many, including your columnist, to think about being without gizmos, but every generation before us lived without them. They came upon us and we embraced them so quickly that we have had little time to consider their impact. Now is that time, though, and we should all be taking baby steps to control our devices instead of their controlling us.
     
  • 02 pub pen picHappy holidays, everyone!

    It’s no secret, Fayetteville is on the go and is growing. I have been heard saying many times that as an entrepreneur, I wish I was 30 years younger. There is so much potential and opportunity in Cumberland County. Unfortunately, when speaking to residents, they are not as forthcoming in their enthusiasm about our arts, culture and quality of life. Also, they are less confident in the future and direction of the community. Instead of attracting high-tech industry and manufacturing companies to prop up and enhance our economic development in our community, we’ve become a welcoming sanctuary for the homeless and downtrodden. Other cities view us as a dumping ground.

    Please don’t shoot the messenger. I’m sharing what I sense is a groundswell of concerns surrounding the qualifications of many of our local elected officials and the direction they are taking this city. Planned municipal growth, prosperity and economic development require experience. More importantly, they take vision, empathy and the ability to put people over politics. Our community struggles with that concept on many fronts, and we suffer for it.

    Evidence of this surrounds us at every turn. The most obvious examples are the contentious relationship between the city of Fayetteville and Cumberland County, the 18-month struggle Hope Mills Mayor Jackie Warner and Commissioner Pat Edwards heroically fought — and won — to keep their town and residents safe from unscrupulous self-serving politicians.

    Sadly, it’s not just local politics we should be concerned about. My final example is what is happening with the impeachment hearings in Washington, D.C. It is a sad and blatant example of politics over people. As Americans, it makes no difference whether you are a Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent or white, black, rich or poor, the government is purposely and blatantly not functioning in our best interests. Elected officials’ personal politics take priority over the needs and welfare of our country. And we as taxpayers, get the honor of paying the bill while the needs of our nation fail to be addressed — needs concerning health care, homelessness, our veterans, our military and our national security, as well as education, the opioid crisis, infrastructure, the list goes on.

    Locally, if our leaders put people before politics, it would demonstrate that they really care about the welfare of the community. No doubt, continuing to embrace the mantra “politics over people” will only produce mismanagement, enable corruption, cripple our growth and development and breed mistrust of our leaders.

    There is hope, though. I admire leaders like Reps. Elmer Floyd, Billy Richardson and John Szoka for their “people over politics” inclinations to support our community. I respect them for supporting a state budget that would bring $136 million for high-priority projects to Cumberland County, including $46 million for the North Carolina Civil War & Reconstruction History Center that would benefit all residents educationally, financially and culturally. This action alone speaks volumes about their commitment to the residents of Fayetteville and Cumberland County.

    This is real leadership.

    As we move into the new year, I hope our community newspaper is saturated with news and stories showcasing examples of great leadership, vision and accomplishment. We deserve it!
    Thank you for reading Up & Coming Weekly.

  • 10 01 cape fear picAs far as Cumberland County’s high school wrestling gurus can remember, there’s only been one three-time state individual champion in the sport in county history.

    That honor falls to former Jack Britt star Richard “PNut” Tolston, who finished third in the state when he wrestled for Hoke County in 2012 then won three straight state titles as a Buccaneer from 2013-15.

    This fall, Cape Fear’s Dallas Wilson, son of Colt head coach Heath Wilson who is also a former state champion, will seek to become the second county wrestler with three state championships.

    Heath won his second title last year, competing at 138 pounds. It’s sure he’ll move up in weight classification this season but it likely won’t be until after Christmas before Heath and his father settle on which class Dallas will be competing in for his third state title.

    Heath Wilson said his son has reached a level of high school wrestling where he’s forgotten more about the sport than Heath knew during his competitive days. “My biggest problem is finding somebody to push him to the next level,’’ Heath said of his son.

    10 02 dallas and jaredOne way he’s pushed Dallas to a higher level is by taking him to top national competitions, like the big freestyle tournament held over the summer in Fargo, North Dakota. “In Fargo, I saw a totally different, very aggressive wrestler come out,’’ Heath said. “He came out banging.’’

    Dallas ran into a three-time state champion from Tennessee and rolled to a win.

    “He’s at a new level,’’ Heath said.

    Among the biggest challenges Dallas will face this year is the pressure of expectations, but Heath doesn’t expect that to be a problem. “It’s really nonexistent after all these other places we’ve traveled to,’’ Heath said. “In North Carolina he’s got the confidence that he’s the best wrestler.

    “The biggest pressure he puts on himself is every day in that practice room. He’s the hardest-working kid I’ve got. That’s contagious. I like it to be contagious.’’

    Dallas agreed with his dad that he’s become a more aggressive wrestler, coping better with opponents who stay in his face and won’t back off, working harder to fight the opposition with his hands and find different angles of attack to knock them off balance.

    “You’ve got to be mean,’’ he said. “You’ve got to have that grit. I definitely picked it up this summer. I have no excuse to lose in a state that I’ve won twice.’’

    The rest of the Cape Fear team will be seeking the same grit as it tries to bounce back from a second-place finish to St. Stephens High School in last year’s state 3-A dual team championship wrestling match.

    The top individual returners for the Colts are Dallas and 220-pound Nick Minacapelli, who placed third in the state in his class last season. He’ll be a late arrival this season because of his involvement with football.

    “We are looking for the second-stringers to come on strong this year,’’ Wilson said. “They’ve got to perform. I’m just waiting for that first scrimmage to see what comes out of our kids.’’
    Wrestlers Heath will count on early are Jaleel Parks, Jack Culbreth, Jose Paz and Aiden Barbour, who is the younger brother of graduated state champion Jared Barbour.

  • 07 SANTA 11 2018 DEC 16The holiday season is in full swing, offering options galore when it comes time to celebrate. Cool Spring Downtown District offers a twist on a downtown favorite — an up-close-and-personal carriage ride with everyone’s favorite jolly elf. The organization will host its  holiday-themed horse-drawn Carriage Rides with Santa” Saturdays and Sundays, Dec. 7-8, 14-15 and 21-22, from 1-8 p.m.

    “What is really exciting, especially for the kids, is the Santa carriage rides, and, typically during those three weekends, we will have up to 1,000 kids and families riding with Santa Claus,” said Hank Parfitt, programming committee member of the Cool Spring Downtown District. “The carriage is decorated for whatever holiday it is and the driver for the carriage ride is Santa.”   
    Parfitt added that the owners of the horses and carriage go all out decorating for the holidays. “This may be the only city in North Carolina where Santa is actually driving the carriage,” said Parfitt. “These rides are tons of fun, and we have people of all ages do it because this is the perfect holiday activity.”

    Parfitt added this is a family activity, but singles and couples can join in the fun, too, by enjoying a carriage ride after watching the Christmas parade.

    “We do have the early bird special for the carriage ride with Santa for $5,” said Parfitt.

    “To obtain the early bird special, you have to ride between 1 p.m. and 2 p.m.”     

    The rides are provided by S & S Carriage Rides. “They are very enthusiastic, very professional and always concerned about client safety,” said Parfitt. “Each kid will receive a candy cane as a gift, and after the ride, you can take a picture with Santa and the horse with your camera phone. 

    “December is just a magical time downtown with all the lights and stores,” said Parfitt. “It is a great experience to come downtown, have a meal at one of the nice restaurants, do a little shopping and go for a carriage ride with Santa.” 
     
    Tickets are $10 for adults and children over 10 and $5 for children under 10. There are no advanced reservations. Ticket sales start at 12:30 p.m. on the day of the rides at 222 Hay Street across from the Cameo Theater. Adults can ride for $5 during the early bird special from 1 p.m.- 2 p.m.   

     
    For more information, weather updates, or to purchase tickets, call 910-223-1089. 
  • 05 01 major goldstyn portraitPresident Donald Trump intervened in three military justice cases involving war-crimes accusations, issuing two full pardons that will prevent the Pentagon from pursuing future charges against the individuals involved. The service members involved were notified by Trump over the phone, said the lawyers who represent Army Maj. Mathew Golsteyn and former Special Warfare Operator Chief Edward Gallagher, a Navy SEAL. Golsteyn faced a murder trial at Fort Bragg, scheduled for next year, while Gallagher was recently acquitted of murder and convicted of posing with the corpse of an Islamic State fighter in Iraq. Golsteyn was a captain with Fort Bragg’s 3rd Special Forces Group. He is accused of killing an unarmed Afghan national but says the killing was justified under the wartime conditions in Afghanistan because the man was thought to be an insurgent who made a bomb that killed two Marines.
    In a statement, Phillip Stackhouse, who is Golsteyn’s civilian lawyer, said Golsteyn’s family is “profoundly grateful” that Trump “ended the dubious, long-delayed prosecution of the decorated Green Beret.”

    05 02 sheriff wrightThree U.S. officials, who spoke on the condition of anonymity, said that some commanders have raised concerns that Trump’s move will undermine the military justice system.

    Is Sheriff Ennis Wright holding immigrants for ICE?

    In the 2018 election, North Carolina voters elected new sheriffs in North Carolina’s seven largest counties. Cumberland County Sheriff Ennis Wright was one of them. Voters knocked off at least two longtime incumbents, one of whom held the position for nearly 25 years. Wright became an officially elected sheriff after serving for two years as an appointee following the retirement of Moose Butler.

    Sheriffs in North Carolina manage local jails. Some of them ignore requests from Immigration and Customs Enforcement to detain previously arrested immigrants in 05 03 PCH Development 2the country illegally so the agency can apprehend and deport them.

    “We have not had any request for an ICE detention,” said sheriff’s office spokesman Lt. Sean Swain. “The sheriff is not going to hold anyone in the detention center any longer than they are required by the N.C. courts.”

    Newly-elected Sheriff Garry McFadden of Mecklenburg County, who has been one of the most outspoken of the new sheriffs in opposition to ICE demands, told reporters that the provision was “off the table.”

    Downtown high-rise construction is on hold

    The construction project along the 400-block of Hay Street may appear to be at a standstill.  But development of the multi-million-dollar buildings in front Segra Stadium continues. The tower crane that was used to stabilize construction of the five-story parking deck was taken down several weeks ago. It will eventually be replaced by a larger crane, but it isn’t needed yet, according to Prince Charles Holdings Project Manager Jordan Jones. PCH is a major developer in downtown’s projects. “We are getting components installed inside the garage and around the site in preparation for going vertical,” he said. “This is a long and very complicated construction process.”

    05 04 Ted MohnPCH plans to build two structures atop the garage, a five-story hotel and a seven-story office building. The resulting 12-story complex will be the tallest structure downtown. Project delays have increased the cost. PCH also purchased and renovated the adjacent Prince Charles Hotel building and converted it into apartments.
     
    New city council

    Last month’s municipal election cost the city valuable governmental experience with the defeat of longtime members Jim Arp, Bill Crisp and Ted Mohn. The trio served about  10 years each — Crisp somewhat longer. Not only did they have the knowledge of growth, Arp, Crisp and Mohn were considered critical thinkers and were generally regarded as the most influential members of the 10-person council.

    Observers noted that Mohn in particular had the advantage of analytical thinking. He even took the time recently to brief newly elected council members on how city affairs are conducted. Mayor Pro Tem Mohn will be missed by many.

    The three departing members of council also had a personal understanding of the significance of Fayetteville being a bedroom community for Fort Bragg. They retired from the U.S. Army and made Fayetteville their home. Arp is a Fayetteville native. 

    05 05 Arp CrispCombating Opioid abuse in Cumberland County

    The Cumberland-Fayetteville Opioid Response Team wants input from the public for its 2019 Supportive Community Survey. The survey gives community members an opportunity to share with C-FORT their thoughts on how opioids and other substances affect lives. It will provide a snapshot of community knowledge and awareness about opioids. Opioids are a class of drugs that include the illegal heroin, fentanyl and pain relievers such as oxycodone, hydrocodone, codeine and morphine. There are currently more than 90 stakeholders participating in C-FORT including the Cumberland County Board of Commissioners, the District Attorney’s Office, Cape Fear Valley Health System, the city of Fayetteville, Fayetteville Police Department, Cumberland County EMS, U.S. Army Civil Affairs, Alliant Health and more. Members of the public are invited to join C-FORT. The survey will be available through Dec. 31. It can be accessed at  https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/C-FORT.
     
    05 06 opiod abuse oxycodone
     
     
  • 06 veteransuicideprevention4The 2019 National Veteran Suicide Prevention Annual Report includes the most recent analysis of veteran suicide data from 2005 to 2017. The report presents complex suicide data in a practical way, conveys the key findings in clear terms, and highlights the data-driven initiatives that VA and its partners have implemented to prevent veteran suicide. This detailed report is available to the public at VASPDataRequest@va.gov.

    The most recent state-level data includes veteran suicide data from 2005 through 2017. The State Data Appendix includes a comparative analysis of suicide rates for veterans and the general adult population. North Carolina has seen a gradual increase in veteran suicides, from 188 in 2005 to 212 in 2017. The Department of Veterans Affairs said it’s important to note that suicide is a complex issue with a multitude of contributing factors — and there is no single explanation for disparities in veteran suicide rates among the different states.

    There is one statistic that has been widely quoted in the veteran community, that an estimated 22 veterans a day commit suicide. The statistic, some contend, can be misunderstood. This figure comes from the VA’s 2012 Suicide Data Report, which analyzed the death certificates of 21 states from 1999 to 2011. The report, as cited by The Washington Post, warned that “it is recommended that the estimated number of veterans be interpreted with caution due to the use of data from a sample of states and existing evidence of uncertainty in veteran identifiers on U.S. death certificates.”

    A more recent study, which surveyed 1.3 million veterans, found that “Between 2001 and 2009, there were 1,650 deployed veteran deaths and 7,703 nondeployed veteran deaths. Of those, 351 were suicides among veterans who had been deployed and 1,517 suicides among nondeployed veterans. That means over nine years, there was not quite one veteran suicide a day,” according to The Washington Post. The rate of suicide was, as The Los Angeles Times reported, “…slightly higher among veterans who never deployed to Afghanistan or Iraq, suggesting that the causes extend beyond the trauma of war.”

    As the largest national analysis of veteran suicide rates, the VA report examines veterans suicide rates by age, gender and method, suicide rates among veterans compared with rates in the non-veteran population and suicide rates among veterans who use VHA health care compared with those who do not. “The aggregate remains about 20 suicide deaths per day … including the average of 16.8 veterans who died by suicide in 2017,” reported Richard A. Stone, VA Under-Secretary for Health.

    Suicide is preventable, and with the release of the 2019 National Veteran Suicide Prevention Annual Report, the VA urges all Americans to take action to prevent suicide. Learn more about veteran suicide prevention efforts at www.mentalhealth.va.gov/suicide_prevention. If you are a veteran in crisis — or you’re concerned about one — free, confidential support is available 24/7. Call the Veterans Crisis Line at 1-800-273-8255 and press 1, send a text message to 838255.

  • 05 06 ccf logo verticalThe Cumberland Community Foundation is a partnership of donors, nonprofit organizations, and the community working together to find solutions to pressing community needs. The community foundation manages more than 500 different charitable donor funds and endowments of more than 30 local nonprofit organizations. The charitable foundation was established in 1980 by a significant financial gift provided by Dr. Lucile West Hutaff. It was her goodwill toward humanity that laid the foundation for a community legacy of philanthropy.

    The foundation facilitates personalized and endowed individual, family and corporate philanthropic contributions. Under CCF’s umbrella tax-exempt status, donors may create ‘’family endowments’’ through an array of fund options. As a 501c3 charitable organization, CCF offers maximum tax advantages available to donors. It is audited annually and certified in compliance by the National Standards Board. For the year ending June 30 of last year, the foundation’s assets totaled $89 million. Grants paid since 1980 amounted to $53 million, while gifts received since then totaled $108 million.

    The Cumberland County charitable fund is doling out a record-breaking $847,147 in grants this coming year, board president Kelly Puryear announced at the agency’s annual Founders and Friends Banquet last month. He said the grants being awarded are the most ever in the foundation’s 39 years. He also noted that the foundation decided 10 years ago to double its endowment assets to $100 million by 2020. “Now we are at $95 million,” Puryear said.

    The largest of the 2020 grants is $250,000 for the Cumberland County Partnership for Children. It will help provide seed money for a program that will send nurses to the homes of families with newborns. Partnership for Children President Mary Sonnenberg said the program would be offered to the parents of every newborn in Cumberland County. Visiting nurses will make sure the mothers and their newborns are doing well in the first few weeks after birth. Sonnenberg noted that the county health department provides some home visitations but that “it only serves a very small number of families each year. Babies don’t come with instruction books,” she added, “and when they are born, you never know what risk factors might be there.”

    Another significant community foundation grant is being made to the Airborne & Special Operations Museum. One hundred thousand dollars will provide funding for the museum to upgrade exhibits and add digital technology. The community foundation emphasized that small gifts are just as important to recipients. A $1,000 grant was gifted to All About Fitness Inc. for boot camp equipment needed to fight obesity. Board member Eva Williams announced the winner of the 2019 Mary Lynn Bryan Leadership Award went to Jesse H. Byrd Jr. He was nominated by Cape Fear Valley Health Foundation for leadership of its endowment campaigns.

    During the event, Puryear acknowledged the service of two outgoing CCF board members, Ray Manning and Lynn Legatski. He welcomed two new board members, Carol “Lani” Dickey and Melissa Short.

  • 04 chris chow 7JRGXEzz8WE unsplashHere’s history! Fayetteville has been here since 1783 when Campbelltown and Cross Creek merged into our fair city. That’s a long time. A lot of things have happened in the past couple of hundred years. As Dick Hallorann once told Danny Torrance in “The Shining,” “There are some things that only people with the shine can see. Sometimes they can see things that happened a long time ago. I think a lot of things happened in this particular hotel over the years … and not all of them was good.”

    A lot of things have happened in Fayetteville over the years, and not all of them were good. Right now, our city council is embroiled in controversy over whether or not to fund the proposed North Carolina Civil War & Reconstruction History Center.

    Impassioned voices have been raised on both sides. “Build it so we can burn it down” was a sign one protestor of the History Center brought to a public meeting. That seems pretty straightforward. Not too subtle. Proponents of the Center point out that it is not going to be a Confederate museum honoring the Lost Cause but an educational asset that will look at conditions here from about 1830 through the Reconstruction period. False rumors have spread that the Center will become a repository for the Confederate soldier statues that are coming down across North Carolina. The facility would be about a $60 million project with operations funded by the state of North Carolina, creating about 200 jobs locally and attracting an estimated 160,000 visitors annually who will spend about $18 million here.

    All of those fine financial statistics aside, that is not the reason I think the Center should be built. As George Santayana once said, “Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it... Those who do not know history’s mistakes are doomed to repeat them.” The Center is going to bring individual stories of slaves, sharecroppers and soldiers back to life, warts and all. There are a lot of warts from the Civil War. Must have been a lot of frogs hopping around spreading warts. Among other things, the History Center will tell the story of the white riots in 1898 in Wilmington in which many black people were killed, the black newspaper was burned, and black city council members were evicted in a white coup.

    Indulge me for a moment to take a ride in Mr. Peabody’s Time Machine back to the mid-1950s. I grew up in Fayetteville, arriving here in second grade in 1958. Segregation was everywhere growing up. But like the fish in the ocean who is not aware of being in water, being a white kid, I was not aware I was living in segregation. Everything was just the way it was. I did not know any better. In the Sears Building on Hay Street, there was a white water fountain and a colored water fountain. The white fountain was snazzy with refrigerated water, and the colored water fountain was bare pipes. The bathrooms were marked white and colored. The downtown theaters, the Miracle, Colony, Broadway, and Carolina had separate entrances for black and white patrons. The black folks had to sit upstairs in the balcony while the white folks sat downstairs. You learned not to sit right under the edge of the balcony as you might end up with ice or popcorn tossed down on you. If I had to sit up in the balcony I would have done the same thing to the folks down below.

    The county schools were segregated. E.E. Smith was the black high school and the rest were white high schools. I did not have a black classmate until my junior year in high school in 1967. We had about eight to 10 black students assigned to 71st. They were brave kids, as their welcome was not always pleasant. Cape Fear Valley Hospital had separate black and white waiting rooms. I remember black students from Fayetteville State University marching on Hay Street to protest segregation. Not everyone was oblivious to the evils of segregation. Black folks knew exactly was going on. Dumb white kids like me were oblivious because that was all we knew.

    Separate but equal was the original fake news. In retrospect, all of these things seem unbelievably stupid and cruel, but they happened. As a kid growing up in the South, we didn’t know any better. It was just the way things were. The History Center is going to bring back what actually happened. It wasn’t the moonlight and magnolias of “Gone with the Wind.”

    As Mr. Hallorann said, “a lot of things happened here, and not all of them was good.” Trying to forget them doesn’t mean they didn’t happen. In fact, it just makes it easier for some people to pretend these events never happened. Educating our kids and adults about what actually occurred is what the History Center will do. Charlottesville, Virginia, and Charleston, South Carolina, were not born in a vacuum. Their evil roots go back a long way. As Supreme Court Justice Louis Brandeis once wrote: “Publicity is justly commended as a remedy for social and industrial diseases. Sunlight is said to be the best of disinfectants; electric light the most efficient policeman.”

    Bring on the History Center, make public the past events — both good and bad. Shine some sunlight on our history; light up the past so we don’t repeat it. Unless you have the shining, it will take the History Center to see what happened in the past that led us to where we are today.
    Thus endeth today’s sermon. Thank you for your attention.
     
  • 09 02 Christmas tree hmA busy schedule of Christmas activities will take place from this weekend through next weekend in Hope Mills. The scheduled events will be held rain or shine. Only in the event of extreme bad weather will anything be canceled.

    Here’s a quick look at the scheduled lineup of activities. For questions about any of the events contact Meghan Freeman at the Hope Mills Parks and Recreation Department at 910-426-4109.

    Christmas at the Lake

     The celebration begins Friday, Dec. 6, at 6 p.m. with Christmas at the Lake. This event features the lighting of the Christmas tree at the lake near the gazebo.
    There will be hot chocolate and cookies and free music provided by Kelly West of Cumulus Media.

    Hope Mills Christmas Parade

     One of the highlights of the Christmas season in Hope Mills is the annual Christmas parade, which is scheduled for this Saturday, Dec. 7, and will begin at 3 09 03 Christmas cookies and cocoap.m.
    This will be the first Christmas parade featuring the altered route that was introduced at this year’s Fourth of July Parade. In the past, the parade started at Hope Mills Middle School and wound its way through town to finish on Rockfish Road near the Town Hall complex.

    The route was reversed for the Fourth of July so that bands and other walking units don’t have to negotiate the long hill climb that starts at the railroad trestle and continues up Rockfish Road.

    Last year’s parade attracted some 70 units according to Freeman. This story was written just prior to the deadline for submitting an entry into the parade so there was still time for late additions.

    This year’s parade grand marshals will be the winners of the Miss Cotton Pageant.

    Other entries are expected to include local high school bands, businesses, churches, athletic groups, classic cars and of course Santa.

     
    Festival of Lights

    09 04 Santa Hope MillsRight after the Christmas parade, enjoy the Festival of Lights at the Town Hall complex on Rockfish Road. Activities will begin at 5 p.m.

    The highlight of the Festival of Lights is the lighting of the Christmas tree by Hope Mills Mayor Jackie Warner.

    In addition to the tree lighting, there will be free hot chocolate and cookies for everyone. Kelly West of Cumulus Media will provide the music.

    There will be a giant snow globe spectators can get inside and take pictures. There will also be two train rides and Santa Claus will be on hand.

    The event will wrap up around 7 p.m.

    Breakfast with Santa

     For a second straight year, the town will host Breakfast with Santa on Saturday, Dec. 14, at the main Hope Mills Fire Station at 5788 Rockfish Road.

    The event was moved to the fire station last year because of damage sustained to the parks and recreation building from Hurricane Florence. The event was 09 Jackie paradesuch a success last year the fire department wanted to continue being involved with it, so it was kept at that location this year.

    This is the only town Christmas event requiring tickets.

    The cost is $10 per person. Children under the age of three are admitted free. There is a limit on the number of tickets. Only 250 are sold and it’s first come, first served. Tickets can only be purchased in person at the Hope Mills Parks and Recreation Department near the Town Hall complex on Rockfish Road.

    The breakfast is scheduled to run from 8:30 a.m. until 11 a.m. Music will be  provided by Kelly West of Cumulus Media. The breakfast menu includes pancakes, eggs, sausage, bacon and juice and will be catered by Grandsons Buffet.

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