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  • 13As the trees in the Sandhills begin to show the first signs of fall, we are reminded that colder weather is near.

    Like many of you, my family faced last winter’s high energy prices and I am left wondering how they will be this year—especially as costs continue to climb. Just like many states across the country, North Carolina is currently seeing another steep rise in the price of gas and energy.

    In the last month, energy prices have increased 5.6% and gas prices in North Carolina have spiked 16 cents higher per gallon than they were one year ago.
    Washington Democrats’ overspending and war on American energy fueled this inflation crisis.

    However, House Republicans are working on policies to combat these high prices by passing bills, such as H.R. 1, the Lower Energy Costs Act. This legislation will unleash American energy production, reverse President Joe Biden’s anti-energy policies, and lower energy costs that continue to burden your family’s pocketbook.

    High energy costs continue to impact you and every family, and lowering them should not be a partisan issue.

    However, the Democrat-controlled Senate refuses to move forward on the Lower Energy Costs Act—common sense legislation which passed the House with bipartisan support. Against the backdrop of historic energy costs, the Biden administration continues to push a rush-to-green agenda by attempting to give power to states to force people to buy expensive electric vehicles.

    These mandates are impractical and unaffordable for the average family. In fact, the average price of an electric vehicle is $17,000 more than a gas-powered car and the lack of vehicle charging infrastructure—especially in rural communities—makes electric vehicles even more impractical.

    You should be in the driver’s seat when it comes to choosing your car. That’s why last week, House Republicans took a stand against Far Left bureaucrats and passed H.R. 1435, the Preserving Choice in Vehicle Purchases Act.

    This bill stops the EPA from banning your gas car or truck and protects you and millions of Ameicans from big government overreach. Instead of focusing on the car in your garage, I continue urging President Biden and my colleagues to focus on the issues that matter most.

    For example, after the power substation attacks in Moore County last December, I have been laser focused on finding solutions to strengthen our power grid. Earlier this summer, I brought members of the Energy and Commerce Committee to Moore County for a field hearing on improving the security and resiliency of our nation’s energy grid.

    Since that first hearing, our Committee has held multiple others to continue discussions in Washington with expert witnesses.
    Their testimonies and insight help us move closer to finding tangible solutions to strengthen our power grid in order to prevent future energy infrastructure attacks. These are the kinds of solutions you should expect from Washington.

    Over the past eight months, House Republicans have delivered on all fronts of our “Commitment to America” and have advanced legislation that will build an economy that’s strong, a nation that’s safe, a future built upon freedom, and a government that’s accountable to you.

    Although we have made significant progress, there is still a lot of work to be done. As your Congressman, I will never stop working to solve problems facing our nation and am committed to fighting for your family.
    Until Next Time.

  • 10Decades ago, when I moved back to North Carolina from the nation’s capital, my rent dropped by half — for a new apartment that was larger and better furnished than the one I rented just outside Washington, D.C.

    Today, my native state remains less expensive to live in than the average state. And even our fastest-growing metropolitan areas remain more affordable than most of the metros with which they compete for people, jobs, and business investment.

    But these differences are shrinking.

    Take the Charlotte metro, for example, which encompasses not only the Queen City but also Concord, Gastonia and dozens of other nearby jurisdictions.

    According to data released from the U.S. Bureau of Economic Analysis, the cost of housing, food, transportation and other goods and services in the Charlotte metro is roughly 3.4% lower than the national average.

    The Tax Foundation offers a handy website for comparing living costs across the country, translating the BEA data into dollar values.
    In other words, if you had $100 to spend on a standard bundle of household goods and services, it would buy you quite a bit more in Charlotte ($103.52) than in, say, Denver, Colorado ($91.61), but only slightly more than in Colorado Springs ($103.26).

    All of North Carolina’s metros fare better than average here. You’d get $102.48 worth of goods and services in the Raleigh area, $102.49 in Wilmington, $104.18 in Durham, $105.60 in Asheville, $107.73 in Greensboro, $109.03 in Winston-Salem, $109.07 in Fayetteville, $109.60 in New Bern, $110.95 in Goldsboro, $111.48 in Jacksonville, $111.58 in Greenville, $111.65 in Burlington, and $112.04 in Hickory.

    The BEA data aren’t as granular for small towns and rural counties. Very roughly, North Carolinians outside of metropolitan areas get about $114 worth of value per $100 spent.

    These are real differences, to be sure. And they’re driven largely by differences in the costs of housing, which in turn reflect a combination of geography and land-use policies.
    But if I were writing this column 30 years ago, or even 15, the differences would look far more dramatic.

    The fact is that while North Carolina remains a relative bargain, our cost of living has been rising toward the national average for quite a while.

    Some of this is just the market at work. As people move here from other states — be it because of job opportunities, climate, quality of life, or some other attraction — they tend to bid up the price of housing and other services purchased here.

    When more buyers chase a fixed quantity of a good or service, its price rises.

    Of course, when a price goes up in a given location, that also serves as a signal to prospective sellers that they can prosper by selling more of the good or service in that location.

    As they respond, supply catches up with demand. Prices moderate.
    There is some evidence that, over time, the costs and benefits of living in various locations across the United States have been converging.

    The most expensive metro is, not surprisingly, San Francisco. The real value of a hundred dollars spent there is about $83. By comparison, it’s worth about $119 in Anniston, Alabama.

    A big difference? Sure, though some might argue that the intangible but deeply valued benefits of living in the Bay Area — though presumably not next to an abandoned store or rowdy park — are worth the tangible cost.

    What’s really striking to me, though, is that this gap isn’t really so large anymore.

    As North Carolina policymakers continue their efforts to make our state a great place to live, work, play, and invest, they need to pay close attention to our rising costs, especially for housing.

    To the extent state and local regulations obstruct the ability of homebuilders, developers, and agents to add more inventory to our housing stock, that keeps prices and rents artificially high.
    North Carolina is still a good buy for most individuals, households, and businesses. Let’s keep it that way.

  • 6When Watts Auman, beloved community and political leader in Moore County, died at 84 on Sept. 17, I knew that I would have to write about him.

    But there is a problem. Whenever I have written about Watts in the past, the column turned out to be more about me than him. There is a reason. My connection with Watts and the lessons I learned from and with him have been important, perhaps life changing.

    So I cannot write about Watts without trying to explain how much I learned because of him. When I first arrived at Fort Bragg (now Fort Liberty) in late 1963 and was being taken around to see the important places that airborne troops need to know, I learned that my Davidson College friend Watts Auman was commanding a team of airborne riggers.

    As paratroopers know, riggers are among the most important people in airborne.

    They pack the parachutes, new and used, and get them ready for use. A mistake could lead to a tragedy. Watts and the people under his command regularly made airplane jumps using the parachutes that they had prepared. Watts’s quiet leadership made him a perfect commander of these riggers.

    For a short time Watts and I lived with seven other junior officers in a house at 1805 Bragg Boulevard in Fayetteville. But soon Watts completed his service and returned to the family farm near West End in Moore County.

    Meanwhile, I was assigned to an intelligence detachment of the Special Forces. One of my first assignments was to participate in the war games in the area known as Swift Strike as an underground spy in Moore County.

    Watts and his parents let me live with them for several weeks and pretend to be a part of their family. One of the first things I saw in the Auman home was a plug of chewing tobacco encased in plastic and sitting in a prominent place on the coffee table in their living room.

    “What in the world is that?” I asked.

    “That was Kerr Scott’s favorite chewing tobacco,” Watts’s mother explained.

    Terry Sanford, who ran Scott’s campaign for the U.S. Senate in 1954, sent tobacco plugs to the key campaign workers like Clyde Auman, Watts’ father. He had been Kerr Scott’s county chair and was now campaigning for a seat in the North Carolina House. I learned how much struggling farmers appreciated the roads and services that Kerr Scott had pushed through while governor.

    Watts led me around the farm. Although the Aumans were best known for peaches, they also farmed other crops.

    He showed me how to string tobacco, take it down, bind it up, and send it to market. I watched as Watts worked with the farm workers.

    Always quiet and respectful, but he was also demanding. It was clear that Watts had earned their respect. One day, Watts and I took a small crop of field peas to the Farmers Market in Raleigh, selling them for almost enough to cover the cost of the gas it took to get there.

    Clyde Auman let me follow him around from event to event as he campaigned for the legislature. Like Watts, Clyde Auman was quiet and modest in a winning way.
    But that modesty made it a challenge to create campaign materials. Even though Moore County was still Democratic, a candidate had to be careful to appeal to traditional Republicans in the northern part of the country and to conservatives in Pinehurst and Southern Pines.

    But our candidate was slow to brag.

    In those few weeks in the Auman home, I learned more about farming and politics and the strength of humility than I did about “spying.”
    Watts leaves hundreds, maybe thousands, of Auman kin across the state and region, almost all sharing Watts’s commitment to community, especially his sisters Nancy Cunningham and Laura Pitts and his brother Bob.

    Without Bob’s suggestions for column topics and his careful reading and correction of drafts, I could not continue writing this column.

    For Watts’s friendship and example and for my connection to his family, I will always be grateful.

  • 4The North Carolina General Assembly approved the $30 billion state budget last week, and Fayetteville and Cumberland County will benefit from the $127M that will flow into our community.
    This is excellent news, but unfortunately, it pales compared to what the tour de force Cumberland County delegation of Sens. deViere and Clark and State Reps. Szoka, Richardson, Lucas and Wheatley brought to our community in previous years. ($413M plus!)

    Why the success? That delegation worked hard, cared about every segment of our community, and worked together across the aisle for the betterment of the citizens of Fayetteville and Cumberland County. More importantly, they displayed a unified and dignified front in Raleigh. They got things done.

    This time, the credit goes to Sen. Tom McInnis, who serves Moore County and a small piece of Cumberland County, and Fayetteville’s District 43 House Representative, Diane Wheatley.

    The $127M covers the two-year budget through June 30, 2025.
    Because of their focus and hard work, many local organizations will benefit. To name a few of the beneficiaries:

    All three educational facilities: Fayetteville State $72M, Methodist University $2M and FTCC $10M

    • $12M for Grays Creek
    • $14M Cape Fear Valley Medical Center
    • $2 million U.S. Army Airborne & Special Operations Museum
    • $2.1 million Fayetteville Cape Fear Regional Theatre
    • $250,000 to the Gilbert Theater

    Plus money for nonprofit organizations:

    • Cumberland County Fire Chiefs Association
    • Heritage Square Historical Society
    • Falcon Children’s Home
    • Vander Civic Association
    • The School of Hope
    • Karen Chandler Trust of Fayetteville
    • Gray’s Creek Ruritan Club

    We thank Sen. Tom McInnis and Rep. Diane Wheatley for a job well done. As for the rest of the delegation, we recommend they spend less time concerned about their political futures and pay more attention to their constituents in Fayetteville and Cumberland County, who sent them to Raleigh.

    Make no mistake about it, State Reps. Charles Smith, Marvin Lucas of Spring Lake, Frances Jackson of Hope Mills and Sen. Val Applewhite of Fayetteville paid homage and loyalty to high-ranking Raleigh democrats rather than looking out for their constituents.

    And, yes, this group voted Against the Budget. So, they voted Against bringing $127M of North Carolina tax dollars to the Cumberland County community.

    This begs the question: What are they there for? Why were they voted into office if not to represent the taxpayers of this community?

    I hope that the next election does not forget these irresponsible actions. Undoubtedly, they will want to take credit for these accomplishments or, at best, try to spin it with plenty of excuses for underperforming.
    Excuses like they were not invited to participate, they were never included in the conversations or negotiation, or their requests were undermined by someone or something beyond their control abound. Please don’t buy it.

    Please don’t buy any attempt they may try to take credit for what McInnis and Wheatley accomplished.

    Smith, Jackson, Applewhite and Lucas voted AGAINST the $30 billion budget. They voted AGAINST the $127M to local organizations. They voted AGAINST Fayetteville and Cumberland County residents.
    Again, this begs the question: Why do they deserve to represent Cumberland County if they don’t represent us? Curious minds want to know.

    Thank you for reading the Up & Coming Weekly community newspaper.

  • wineanddine

    • Best Restaurant Overall............................................Luigi’s Italian Chophouse & Bar

    • Best New Restaurant.................................................Crave Hot Dogs & BBQ

    • Best Local Caterer....................................................Two Brothers Catering

    • Best Waitstaff/Service..............................................Luigi’s Italian Chophouse & Bar

    • Best Brew House......................................................The Mash House Brewing Company

    • Best Breakfast...........................................................Zorba’s Gyro

    • Best Place to Enjoy a Glass of Wine......................The SIP Room

    • Best Food Truck....................................................... R Burger

    • Best Coffee House...................................................Rude Awakening

    • Best German Restaurant.........................................Max & Moritz Bakery & Restaurant

    • Best Indian Restaurant............................................Bombay Bistro

    • Best Italian Restaurant............................................Luigi’s Italian Chophouse & Bar

    • Best Japanese Restaurant......................................Miyabi Japanese Steak & Seafood House

    • Best Korean Restaurant..........................................Kwons Kitchen Korean Fusion Cuisine

    • Best Chinese Restaurant........................................Hunan Garden

    • Best Vietnamese Restaurant..................................Saigon Bistro

    • Best Thai Restaurant.............................................. Prik Thai Cuisine

    • Best Sushi Restaurant............................................NONA Sushi

    • Best Steakhouse.....................................................Chris’s Open Hearth Steak House

    • Best Greek Cuisine.................................................Zorba’s Gyro

    • Best Hispanic Restaurant......................................Mi Casita Mexican Restaurant

    • Best Seafood Restaurant.......................................316 Oyster Bar & Seafood Grill

    • Best Southern-Style Restaurant............................Fred Chason’s Grandsons

    • Best Vegetarian/Vegan Cuisine..............................Bombay Bistro

    • Best American Cuisine...........................................Bubba’s 33

    • Best Bakery/Desserts..............................................Superior Bakery

    • Best BBQ..................................................................Mission BBQ

    • Best Fried Chicken..................................................KFC

    • Best Pizza.................................................................Brooklyn Pizzeria

    • Best Wings...............................................................301 Wingz

     

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     . Best Local Sports Team................................................Fayetteville Woodpeckers

     . Best Youth Program/Camp...........................................Cape Fear Regional Theatre's

       Summer Camp                   

      . Best Martial Arts Studio...............................................Martial Arts of NC

    • Best Bowling Alley………………………………….….…Lafayette Lanes

    • Best Extreme Activity/Adventure................................ZipQuest

    • Best Golf Course………………………………………....Gates Four Golf & Country Club

    • Best Place To Commune With Nature………..............Cape Fear Botanical Garden

    • Best Shooting Range.................................................. Jim’s Pawn and Gun Jobbery
    • Best Local Picnic Area……………………………….….Arnette Park

    • Best Place For Taking A Hike..................................... Cape Fear River Trail

    • Best Place For Doggie Walk....................................... Cape Fear River Trail

     

     

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    • Best Use of Local Tax Dollars…………………..Schools & Education

    • Best Historical Building……………………..…...Market House

    • Best Little Known Attraction…………………….Fayetteville Transportation & History Museum

    • Coolest Venue in Fayetteville………….....…..…Segra Stadium

    • Best Thing To Show Off To Visitors..................Airborne & Special Operations Museum

    • What Does Fayetteville Need Most....................Family Entertainment

    • Best Local Community Project..........................Friendship House Gardens

    • Best Local Nonprofit Organization……………..ServiceSource of NC

    • Best Event/ Attraction.........................................Dogwood Festival

  • nightlife

    • Best Venue/Club For Live Music............Louie's Sports Pub

    • Best Night Club Overall......................... Paddy's Irish Public House

    • Best Neighborhood Bar..........................Paul's Place

    • Best Sports Bar.......................................Bubba’s 33

    • Best Pool Room......................................H8ters

  • goodsandservices

    • Best Veteran-Owned Business.......................... Boone Trail Fit Body Bootcamp

    • Best Shopping Complex (Not the mall)............ Westwood Shopping Center

    • Best Health Food Store...................................... Apple Crate Natural Market

    • Best Candy/Sweet Shop....................................  Rocket Fizz Soda Pop & Candy Shop

    • Best Tobacco Shop............................................  Anstead’s Tobacco Company

    • Best Furniture Store - New................................. Bullard Furniture

    • Best Furniture Store - Used................................ New & Nearly New Thrift Store

    • Best Antique Shop.............................................  Blue Bike Antiques and Gifts

    • Best Place to Buy a Unique Gift......................  Cursive
    • Best Used Book Store....................................... 2ND & CHARLES

    • Best Library Branch............................................Cliffdale Regional Branch Library

    • Best Private School........................................... Village Christian Academy

    • Best Senior Living Center.................................. Harmony of Hope Mills
    • Best Carpet/Flooring Store............................... Webb Carpet

    • Best Thrift Shop..................................................Timely Treasures

    • Best Bargain Shop.............................................. Pickin' Coop

    • Best Pawn Shop.................................................. Jim’s Pawn and Gun Jobbery

    • Best Jewelry Store.............................................. Rhudy’s Jewelry Showroom

    • Best Janitorial Supply....................................... A-1 Supply Company

    • Best Printing and Shipping Company............. UPS Store

    • Best Business Brokers..................................... Transworld Business Advisors

    • Best Limousine Service..................................... Venus Vogue
    • Best Place To Buy A Gun................................... Jim’s Pawn and Gun Jobbery

    • Best Car Dealer - New....................................... Bryan Honda

    • Best Car Dealer - Used...................................... Bryan Honda

    • Best Auto Repair................................................. Sandy's Automotive

    • Best Auto Body Shop......................................... Grizzly Customs

    • Best Car Wash..................................................... Tommy's Car Wash

    • Best Motorcycle Dealer - New............................ Baker American Cycles

    • Best Motorcycle Dealer - Used.......................... Baker American Cycles

    • Best Tire Store..................................................... Black’s Tire & Auto Service

    • Best CPA Firm..................................................... TRP Sumner, CPAs & Advisors

    • Best Law Firm...................................................... Beaver Courie Attorneys at Law

    • Best Legal Assistant........................................... Gina Henry of Blackwell & Edwards P.A

    • Best Criminal Attorney........................................ David Courie - Beaver Courie
    • Best Divorce Attorney......................................... Timothy Edwards - Blackwell and Edwards

    • Best Personal Injury Attorney.............................Caroline Gregory

    • Best Traffic Violation Attorney...........................Mark Hearp - Beaver Courie

    • Best Local Pharmacy.......................................... Cape Fear Discount Drug
    • Best Dental Clinic................................................ Lewis Family Dentistry

    • Best Pediatric Dentist......................................... Village Family Dental

    • Best Chiropractor................................................ Nelson & Nelson Chiropractic

    • Best Urgent Care................................................. NextCare Urgent Care

    • Best Family Medical Practice............................  Cape Fear Family Medical Care

    • Best Pediatrician...............................................  Rainbow Pediatrics

    • Best Optometrist...............................................   Risk Optometrics

    • Best Ophthalmologist......................................... Carolina Vision Center - Dr. Woodcock

    • Best HVAC Contractor........................................ NATHAN’S Heating & Air Conditioning, Inc.

    • Best Plumbing Contractor................................. Wade Hardin Plumbing

    • Best Computer Repair Service.......................... Fidelis I.T.

    • Best IT Professionals/Service........................... Ross I.T. Services

    • Best Cell Phone Repair..................................... Quack Quack Phone Repair

    • Best Bank........................................................... TRUIST

    • Best Credit Union.............................................. State Employees’ Credit Union

    • Best Hair Salon.................................................. Leading Edge Salon

    • Best Barber Shop.............................................. Pinky’s Chop Shop

    • Best Place To Board Pets................................. Blessed Oasis Pet Resort

    • Best Pet-Sitting.................................................. Carolina Pet Care

    • Best Dog Groomer............................................. Woof Gang Bakery & Grooming

    • Best Vet/Animal Hospital.................................. Animal Hospital of Fayetteville

    • Best Employment Agency................................ Express Employment Professionals

    • Best Event Venue..............................................The Crown Complex

    • Best Wedding Venue........................................ Cape Fear Botanical Garden
    • Best Florist....................................................... Always Flowers by Crenshaw

    • Best Funeral Service....................................... Rogers & Breece Funeral Home

    • Best Health Club/Gym..................................... Fit 4 life Health Clubs

    • Best Day Spa................................................... The Renaissance Day Spa & Alternative Wellness

    • Best Sign/Banner Company........................... FASTSIGNS

    • Best Advertising Specialties.......................... Carolina Specialties International

    • Best Mortgage Company................................ Union Home Mortgage

    • Best Realtor/Company.................................... Denise Strother of ERA Strother

    • Best Insurance Agent/Agency....................... Teresa Kibbe of NC Farm Bureau Insurance

    • Best Security/Alarm Company...................... Gill Security Systems INC.

    • Best Moving Company................................... Andy Anderson Moving Co.

    • Best Remodeling Contractor......................... Paul Blankenship Vinyl Siding & Construction

    • Best Cleaning & Sanitation Service.............  Pristine Clean
    • Best Lawn & Garden/Nursery........................ Pate's Farm Market Nursery

    • Best Landscaping Company..........................Green Biz Nursery & Landscaping

    • Best Pool/Spa Company................................ Hallmark Spa & Pools

    • Best Place To Get A Tattoo/Body Piercing....Evolution Ink

     

     

  • arts   • Best Cinema Complex..................................AMC Fayetteville 14 & IMAX

    • Best Theatre: Live/Virtual…………………….Cape Fear Regional Theatre

    • Best Art Gallery………………………………..The Arts Council of Fayetteville/Cumberland County

    • Best Museum………………………………......Airborne & Special Operations Museum

    • Best Local Musician/Band…………………...RIVERMIST

    • Best Solo Artist..............................................Michael Daughtry
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  • 18There are few things more delightful than a child’s smile and few things more heart wrenching than a child who can’t smile because of dental pain.

    Sadly, one out of every four kindergarten-aged children in North Carolina suffers from untreated tooth decay. When left untreated, tooth decay can lead to severe pain, oral abscesses, and depression, and in extreme cases, untreated tooth decay can even cause death.

    If you are concerned about your child’s dental health or if you just want a fun educational activity that will encourage your child to get excited about staying healthy, we have great news. Fayetteville Technical Community College can help you and your child.

    Please join us for the second annual Dental Health Fair at Fayetteville Technical Community College, courtesy of the United Way’s Youth Trust Stock Fund.

    When: Saturday, Oct. 21, from 10 a.m. until 2 p.m.

    Where: Tony Rand Student Center, 2220 Hull Road, at the Fayetteville campus of FTCC

    Who: This event is primarily for children ages 3 to 12, but children of all ages are welcome to attend and to participate in all the day’s great activities.

    Activities will include:

    • Oral Health Screenings: Conducted by FTCC Dental Hygiene Students and Faculty
    • Microscope Station: Children can view plaque samples
    • Art Activities: Arts and crafts available at each activity station
    • Dental Instruction: Children will learn how to care for their teeth

    This event is free. There is no charge for the event or any of the fun activities. In addition to helping your child get or keep a great smile, this event will also help children realize that science can be great fun!
    Questions? We are eager to help your child get and keep a beautiful, healthy smile.

    Jessica Jones, Dental Hygiene Instructor
    Email: jonesj@faytechcc.edu
    Phone: (910) 678-8552
    Office: Health Technologies Center, Room 101A

    Michelle Ping, Chair of the Dental Department
    Email: pingm@faytechcc.edu
    Phone: (910) 678-8575
    Office: Health Technologies Center, Room 101D

  • 17When it comes to things to do in Cumberland County, there is no shortage. A growing list of niche groups from comic book fans to the great outdoors proves there is something for everyone.

    Life's A Trip Adventure Club is one of the newly formed groups in the county. It was established in 2022 by founder, local photographer and adventurer, Keith Sykes. Skyes started the group because of his “love of travel and adventure” and sharing that with others.

    The adventure club wasn’t created on a whim. Skyes had received encouragement to start the group three years ago, but lacked the time.

    “Honestly, I was a little intimidated about what it would take to put it together and run it,” Sykes said.

    Thankfully he took the leap and created a Facebook page with the sole intention of bringing people together outside in nature. Life’s A Trip Adventure Club now boasts a membership of almost 800 people. There are planned events and meet-ups just about every weekend.

    Saturday Strollz is the group’s weekly meetup at Jordan Soccer Complex. Members meet at 6:30 a.m. and walk the path at the soccer complex. Some “strollz” include yoga sessions. This meetup is completely free and offers a space for members to encourage one another in their health and wellness journey.

    Life’s A Trip Adventure Club wouldn’t be an adventure club without the adventure. While there are plenty of local events to participate in with the group, they also travel. On the schedule are several events. The group's calendar is filled until the end of the year with one-of-a-kind experiences for local adventures.

    October alone will be a busy time for the group. They have trips planned to the NC Seafood Festival, a train trip to Washington D.C. for a weekend, as well as Saturday Strollz. In December they will head to the Biltmore to explore the grounds during the festive Christmas season. The most anticipated trip is the one to Greece next September.

    Sykes looks forward to the future of the group and to “give more individuals access to a community of positive people
    and adventurous opportunities.”

    “I have been privileged enough to hear stories of the positive impact the group has made on many of the members,” he said.

    Even though he is the founder of the group, Sykes recognizes that Life’s A Trip Adventure Club has many members who have contributed to its success and cultivating a safe and healthy atmosphere.

    “Angela Lewis is a positive and spiritually uplifting personality. She has invited many people to the group, and she is the perfect representative. Genise Price overcame her fear of heights. She joined the group in the beginning stages and has been another recruiter who has brought other positive individuals into the fold,” Sykes said.

    “Belinda Wilkerson has been a role model for healthy living and someone who constantly shows others that they can do it. Her bright smile and positive attitude are infectious, and it is motivating to the group. Mary Hinton is an encouraging spirit. She has recently joined the group, but she is one of our most uplifting members. She is constantly pushing others to give it their all, and she does it all with a smile.”

    Life’s A Trip Adventure Club is a positive group that is continuing to grow not only in its number but in its impact.

    To join the club, visit https://www.facebook.com/groups/5735624283194004/.

  • 16Home is a sacred place where families can build memories, find comfort and create a sense of belonging. Unfortunately, not everyone has the opportunity to experience the joys of owning a home.

    Connections of Cumberland County’s mission is to help families realize their dream of "home sweet home" by providing the necessary resources and support.

    They are an active lifeline for many families in the area, and offer tailored stabilization plans for each family, recognizing that every family is different. Their focus is on single women with children facing or at risk of homelessness, a demographic that is often overlooked. A team of professionals conducts one-on-one assessments to create personalized stabilization plans that cater to each family's specific requirements.

    To assist these families, various empowerment groups, budgeting workshops, computer labs, mail services, hygiene closets and birthday/reward closets are provided.

    Connections of Cumberland County offers a minimum of 12 months of case management services to ensure long-term improvement. The level of support and aid a family receives is determined by their specific needs, with an average of $600 to $750 allotted to each family.

    Connections of Cumberland County believes that everyone deserves a place to call home.

    They are committed to making this a reality for families by offering education on home maintenance and repair, financial management, and community resources to help families maintain their homes and improve their quality of life.

    All of these great opportunities are not available without the active community support. On Oct. 5, at Studio 215, Connections of Cumberland County will be holding one of their most significant fundraising events of the year.

    Their 6th Annual Art Auction, "Home is where the HeArt is" will be held from 6 p.m. until 8 p.m., and the community can be a part of it.

    The auction will feature original works of art donated by local and regional artists, which will be available for both live and silent auctions. It is an excellent opportunity to own a unique piece while also contributing to a good cause. All the proceeds from the fundraiser will go towards supporting CCC's mission of providing vital services to those who need it most.

    Apart from the auction, guests will also be treated to delicious hors d'oeuvres, refreshing beverages and live music that will keep the atmosphere buzzing all night long. The event promises to be an enjoyable experience for everyone.

    To learn more about Connections of Cumberland County's case management services, support resources or to visit the Day Resource Center, feel free to do so by visiting https://www.connectionsofcc.org/.

    By attending the art auction, the community can help make a difference in the lives of those who need it most. Join the community in supporting a great cause on Oct. 5.

    Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity to come together as a community and help those in need. Let's make Home is Where the HeArt Is an event to remember.

    For more information, visit https://www.connectionsofcc.org/annual-art-auction

  • 14October is National Bullying Prevention Month. The premise is the reduction of childhood bullying incidents.

    “One in six students will experience bullying on or off school property,” reports the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. October 2 is World Day of Bullying Prevention Day.

    “Bumps and bruises are the rite of passage for childhood bullying. The consequences of childhood bullying and depression can persist forty years after the bullying occurs. The reaction of depression from bullying can cause multiple psychological symptoms and in extreme circumstances, bullying-inducted suicide. Children and adolescents experiencing bullying have significant rates of self-harm and anxiety,” according to recent studies.

    The observance of the day is “to encourage schools, communities and organizations to work together to stop bullying and cyberbullying by increasing awareness of the prevalence and impact of bullying on children.”

    Bullying is a public health issue. Bullying is a form of aggression. It is continuous and deliberate misuse of the power dynamic in a relationship. Bullying can be physical, verbal, social and cyber.

    Physical bullying is a person using their body as a tool for intimidation. Hitting, pushing, tripping, pinching and damaging property is a concise list for physical bullying tactics.

    Verbal bullying uses words as weapons. The words are used to threaten, to offend and to hurt the victim.

    Social bullying includes teasing, nasty looks, spreading false rumors, spreading gossip and physical gestures. The victim experiences alienation. Gaslighting is a widespread practice of social bullying perpetrators.

    Those who use gaslighting attempt to have a person question their reality. For instance, a person can purposely ignore an individual within a meeting. The confrontation with the perpetrator creates the comment, “I didn’t see you.”

    Cyberbullying is the evolved technological level of bullying. Cyberbullying is intimidation and harassment on multiple platforms. The messages are sexual comments or gestures, threats of harm to the target, offensive videos about the victim.

    “Cyberbullicide” is a term created by Sameer Hinduja and Justin Patchin in 2009.

    “It is a descriptive term for suicides that are directly or indirectly influenced by online bullying. Students who participate in bullying and cyberbullying, both offender and victim, have a significant likelihood of experiencing suicidal thoughts, suicidal attempts and completed suicides.”

    “In 2013, 12-year-old Rebecca Sedwick was extensively bullied on multiple online platforms by girls from school, including her former best friends. She switched schools, but cyberbullying continued, and after a year and a half, Ms. Sedwick took her life,” according to news sources.

    Bullying has three roles: perpetrator, target and bystander. The Bystander has multiple options. The person stays and watches the event. The bystander has a passive response to the perpetrator and target.

    The supportive role for the perpetrator is cheering, encouraging and laughing at the intimidating actions. Defenders could ask the perpetrator to cease torturing the target. However, there is the possibility for the perpetrator to torture the intervening individual. Some onlookers are unsure of an effective action. Often the question is, what can I do?

    Bullying impacts health habits such as frequent tears and angry outbursts, changes in eating and sleeping habits, stealing and substance misuse.

    Help is available. The United States Department of Health and Human Services sponsors the Stop Bullying Now Helpline. The Helpline contact number is 1-800-273-8255.

    A second option is 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. The 988 Lifeline is sponsored by Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration and V! brant Emotional Health.

    Counselors are available 24/7 on the 988 Lifeline. Spanish and English counselors are available. The Lifeline can be contacted by the website Lifeline-988lifeline.org, 988 for text and chat, and SMS:988.
    You are not alone. Reach out and connect for support.

    The October 2, World Day of Bullying Prevention and the October, National Bullying Prevention month features community engagement activities.

    Blue shirts and banners can commemorate the World Day of Bullying Prevention.

    Educators can create bulletin boards about anti-bullying topics. Free sample lessons with multimedia slides and videos about anti-bullying activities are available on School Connect at https://www.school-connect.net>anti-bullying>curriculum.

  • 12bOktoberfest is a time for celebration and camaraderie, and this year, military servicemembers are invited to join in on the fun. The Oktoberfest on Fort Liberty will be held on Sept. 30 at the Iron Mike Conference Center. It will feature all of the traditional Oktoberfest activities, including live music, dancing, food and beer.

    “We're looking to have a variety of alcohol and food. We have a certain amount of German beers as well as domestics. For the food, we're going to have our Jumbo pretzels with our world famous beer cheese sauce, and also Schnitzels, brats... all the German style food,” said Keith Rigby, Deputy Director of Family and Morale, Welfare and Recreation.

    The kick off to Oktoberfest will be a Volksmarch (non-competitive walking). The Volksmarch will start and end at Iron Mike Conference Center beginning at 11:30 a.m. Food, beer tents and bounce houses will open at 12 p.m. A live polka band will be playing two to three sessions throughout the day. There will also be a raffle going on throughout the afternoon and evening, giving out prices once an hour.

    The Fall Market will be open during the afternoon as well. The market will be located inside the Iron Mike Conference Center. There will be at least 13 vendors on-site offering different items, perfect for anyone wanting to get holiday shopping done.

    “There will be a variety of vendors in there. Selling anything from popcorn to laser engraving, to Oktoberfest goods, as well as crafts and supplies,” Rigby said.12a

    For those who love to dress up, there will be an Oktoberfest costume contest. There will be three categories: 12 and under; 13 to 17 years old and 18 and over. Prizes will be awarded to the winners of each category. The costume contest starts at 4 p.m.

    For those who want to attend Oktoberfest closer to the evening, there will be a free German meal to the first 250 people in line at 5 p.m. Following dinner, the atmosphere will be focused more for adults only. There will be a DJ and a Stein Holding contest. The first 20 men and the first 20 women to sign up will be able to showcase how long they can hold a full stein of beer. The contest starts at 7 p.m.

    Oktoberfest is the kickoff event for the fall season on Fort Liberty. Col. John Wilcox, the Fort Liberty garrison commander, told Up & Coming Weekly that MWR and Fort Liberty plan on holding more events throughout the season for families and for soldiers.

    “We are going to focus really heavily, especially getting into the fall season, on making sure that there's plenty of events for families and our soldiers, sailors and the Marines and Space Force guardians to go do on the installation. The focus has been to provide soldiers opportunities to come on post and enjoy themselves,” Wilcox said.

    12Fort Liberty’s Garrison Command Sgt. Maj. Gregory Seymour wanted to ensure families that this is not only a family-friendly event, but there will be plenty of security as well.

    “This is a safe environment. There will be security. [Military police] will be patrolling around so it, it will be a very, very safe event,” Seymour said.

    Everyone organizing the event all agreed they hope people come out and have a good time. Last year was the first time Oktoberfest was celebrated on Fort Liberty, and there was a good turnout, despite there being hurricane-related weather. The hope is that the sun will be shining on Saturday and people can come out and enjoy themselves.

    Oktoberfest starts at noon and will go through 10 p.m. The Fall Market will run from noon to 6 p.m. Entrance is free, but there will be items available for purchase. The event is open to the public. Non-DOD ID cardholders will need to get a visitor pass at the All American Gate Visitor Center. This can be done in person or folks can pre-register for gate access by going to https://home.army.mil/liberty/application/files/6816/8372/2450/FORT_LIBERTY_VISITOR_PASS_REQUEST_USING_ONLINE_PRE.pdf.

    For a list of vendors at the Fall Market, go to https://liberty.armymwr.com/calendar/event/fall-market/5959929/65056. For more information about the event, go to https://liberty.armymwr.com/calendar/event/72037 or call (910) 907-2582.

  • 11aOn Saturday, Sept. 30, the Airborne and Special Operations Museum Foundation is hosting the Mogadishu Mile 5K, a poignant event dedicated to paying tribute to the heroes who made the ultimate sacrifice during the Battle of Mogadishu. Also known as ‘Black Hawk Down' or Operation GOTHIC SERPENT, the Battle of Mogadishu occurred 30 years ago.

    Legacy and Lesson Learned

    In the annals of modern military history, the Battle of Mogadishu, remains etched as a tragic and heroic event. The battle, which took place on Oct. 3 and 4, 1993, was a harrowing clash between the U.S. and United Nations forces against Somali militias and armed civilians in Mogadishu, Somalia.

    This operation sought to capture key lieutenants of the Somali National Alliance and restore order to a war-torn city. However, what transpired was a grueling firefight that resulted in significant loss of life and countless injuries. Operation Gothic Serpent was part of a larger United Nations peacekeeping mission, UNOSOM II, aimed at stabilizing Somalia, which had descended into chaos following a civil war.

    On the fateful day of Oct. 3, 1993, a group of U.S. Army Rangers and Delta Force operatives set out to capture several high-ranking lieutenants of a Somali warlord, Mohamed Farrah Aidid. The mission, however, took a perilous turn when two UH-60 Black Hawk helicopters were shot down by RPGs.

    The unexpected downing of helicopters and the subsequent intense urban firefight changed the course of the mission, resulting in unforeseen consequences. The heroism and sacrifice of the soldiers who fought in Mogadishu are immortalized in military history. Their bravery, resilience and dedication to their fellow soldiers continue to inspire generations of military personnel and the broader public.

    In memory of those lost, we honor their sacrifice and reflect on the lessons learned from this tragic and pivotal event in American military history.

    The Mogadishu Mile’s 5K Objective

    The "Mogadishu Mile" refers to a route traversed by U.S. Army Rangers and Special Forces soldiers from a helicopter crash site to a designated rally point held by the 10th Mountain Division on National Street during the Battle of Mogadishu, Oct. 3, 1993.

    This heroic journey served as the inspiration for the impactful 2001 movie, Black Hawk Down. The MOG Mile 5K is a symbolic event and is not a timed race. It is devoid of prizes or recognitions for the top finishers.
    Age groupings have not been considered, allowing participants to traverse the route at their own pace. Registration cost for this event is $40.00, plus a $3.40 service fee. This event is open to individuals aged 18 and above.11

    Children under 18 can join at no cost, provided they are accompanied by a registered adult. The registration period will close at 11:59 p.m. on Sept. 28th. The location for the event is the Airborne and Special Operations Museum in downtown Fayetteville.

    Sign-up at https://runsignup.com/Race/Events/NC/Fayetteville/MogadishuMile5K For those who wish to contribute without participating in the race, there is an option to "Sleep In and Donate." By choosing this option, participants will still receive a Mogadishu Mile T-shirt. Interested individuals can share their preferences by emailing info@asomf.org.

    Join in honoring the brave individuals who demonstrated unparalleled courage and sacrifice in the face of adversity during the Battle of Mogadishu. Let us stand united as a community to pay tribute and commemorate their valor.

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