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  • The holidays often evoke thoughts of comfort food, a time for families to gather and give thanks for their many12-07-11-blood_bank.jpgblessings and even football. During this season, we tend to be more cognizant of everything we are grateful for. The focus of our gratitude is not on our fancy smartphones or discretionary income, but rather on our families, friends and good health.

    In giving thanks, it is common to reflect on the adage, “If you don’t have your health, you don’t have anything.” Often times, we don’t know how true this statement is, until our own health or the health of someone we care about has taken a negative turn. Our local patients are not as lucky and rely on volunteers in our community to improve their health.

    Cape Fear Valley Health transfuses on average 1,100 units of blood every month to local patients. In order to perform surgeries, be prepared for traumas, save premature infants and provide therapy to cancer or treat burn patients, the hospital calls on our community for volunteer blood donors. Fortunately, our community has our own blood bank so that local citizens can be a service not only to themselves but also to their loved ones and neighbors.

    With today’s aging population, plus advances in medical treatments and procedures that require blood transfusions, the demand for blood continues to rise. About one in seven people entering the hospital need blood. The average red blood cell transfusion is three pints of blood, needed from three different donors. However, a single car accident victim could require up to 100 pints of blood. Blood has a shelf life; red cells have to be used within 42 days and platelets only last for 5 days, so there is a constant need to replenish the community’s blood supply.

    As we approach the holidays, the demand for blood increases. We feel this on a national and local level. With the short list of blood donors in our community, the hectic holiday season and patients’ never-ending need of transfusions, it’s hard to keep a minimum amount of blood on the shelves. Blood donations are needed all year, but they’re most critical during holidays. There is an urgent need for blood during this time because during the holiday season there are more trauma cases, many businesses and schools are unable to host blood drives and there is a low turnout of donors due to vacation schedules, illness and inclement weather.

    The week before and after Thanksgiving and Christmas, are our Urgent Days of Giving. Our local patients depend on healthy volunteers to donate lifesaving blood, so that they too can be thankful of another day. What better way to show gratitude for good health, than by donating life to those who are not as fortunate.

    In this time of rushing through life, it is easy to not stop and take time to appreciate what we already have. For healthy individuals, you have the power to save lives. Each blood donation can save up to three lives. Volunteers can go to our community blood bank, Cape Fear Valley Blood Donor Center, at 3357 Village Drive in the Bordeaux Shopping Center. Donors must be at least 17 years old, weigh at least 110 pounds and have valid photo identification.

    The Blood Donor Center is open Monday through Friday, 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. and every third Saturday of each month, 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. For information on saving lives locally, call (910) 615-LIFE. This holiday season, show thanks by giving — giving.

  • 12-07-11-opinion-tattoo.jpgIt seems there has been quite a bit of interest in the topic of tattoos and tattoo studios. Let’s face it, in a military community there are certain industries that thrive, no matter in which part of the country you may reside. Tattooing is one of them. My fiancée Sarah and I are owners and tattoo artists of Hot Rod Tattoos in Fayetteville. We have read both articles recently featured in the Up and Coming Weekly, and would like to share our views and opinions with the community.

    There are so many criteria to consider when choosing a tattoo studio and artist for your next tattoo. Yes, the studio being licensed, autoclave spore test results and clean atmosphere are important, but tattooing is a permanent procedure and consumers need to also be concerned with the artist’s experience. The tattooing laws in N.C. are very lenient compared to other states. Just as “E” of Cherry Blossom Studios quoted, “any idiot can buy a kit online and start jacking up his friends the next day with no idea about cross contamination or risk of infection”; any “idiot” can become a tattooist in N.C. An individual needs only to pay $250 annually for an artist permit and $1,000 annually for a privilege license. There is no state requirement for prior experience or specialized formal training in first aid or blood borne pathogens/cross contamination to become a tattoo artist or studio owner in this state. There is no requirement for artists to be vaccinated for Hepatitis A or B. Many of the above criteria are required for other occupations that pose a similar risk of contamination through bodily fluids. Some daycare and educational occupations require at least a formal first-aid certificate.

    The state laws regarding tattooing need serious attention as they were put into effect back in 1994; or guidelines that supersede the N.C. State Statutes should be developed for the City of Fayetteville. There are nearly 30 tattoo studios that operate within the city limits, and clearly this is an industry that generates substantial revenue for the city through tattoo permits and studio licenses.

    The process of creating stricter laws is lengthy and often is met with resistance. Until that happens, it is the responsibility for the sake of the tattoo industry, and public safety of the community, for all tattoo artists to hold themselves to a higher standard. There are tattoo artists in Fayetteville who actually care about the art of tattooing and hold the craft sacred. These tattoo artists will be proud to show off their portfolio and ensure you are educated about your entire experience.

    As respected members of the Cumberland County Chamber of Commerce and members of the Military Affairs Council, Hot Rod Tattoos feels it is our duty to inform and educate the community about our industry. There are tattooists and there are tattoo artists, and there is a big difference between the two, i.e., the one who is out for your money and the one who has the heart for your interest, as well as our sacred craft.

    Photo: Tattoo by Mike Kotlarek.

  • With today’s spiraling costs, you have probably worried about how you might pay for your child’s college education. Perhaps your solution rests with a new program instituted by North Carolina Governor Beverly Perdue, entitled College and Career Promise (CCP). CCP is an initiative that prepares high school students with career training credit or awards them college-level credit at no cost to the student. Through participation in the program, qualified students will gain access to an affordable postsecondary education.

    In Cumberland County, CCP is administered through the High School Connections Program. High School Connections is a partnership between Fayetteville Technical Community College and Cumberland County Schools. This past year, more than 600 students participated in the High School Connections program, with more than 125 earning college certificates before they graduated from high school. Through the High School Connections Program, students can earn college credit that is transferrable to all of North Carolina’s 16 constituent universities as well many private colleges, or technical course credit in many exciting careers

    Frequently asked questions about College Transfer Pathways:

    Who is eligible?

    • Qualified high school juniors and seniors as of January 2012.

    • Students must have at least a 3.0 grade point average on a 4.0 weighted scale.

    • Students must demonstrate college readiness on an approved assessment.

    What are the benefits?

    • College credit will transfer to all 16 member universities of the North Carolina University System as well as many private institutions.

    • The cost for a two- or four-year degree is greatly reduced.

    • Students work on college credit while still in high school, free of charge; however, students are responsible for textbook and supplies.

    Fequently asked questions about Technical Career Pathways

    Who is eligible?

    • Qualified high school juniors and seniors as of January 2012.

    • Students interested in pursuing one of the 16 high school career and technical education career clusters.

    • Students with at least a 3.0 grade point average on a 4.0 weighted scale or upon principal recommendation.

    • Students who have demonstrated college readiness by meeting course prerequisites.

    What are the benefits?

    • A credential, certificate or diploma in a technical career.

    • A credential that builds skills for an entry-level job.

    What pathways are available through these certificates?

    Associate In Arts (College Transfer), Business and Economics Pathway, Humanities and Social Science Pathway, Associate in Science (College Transfer, Life and Health Sciences Pathway, Engineering and Mathematics Pathway, Advertising and Graphic Design/Graphic Design Basics Certificate, Architectural Technology/ Green Sustainable Architecture Certificate, Business Foundations Certificate, Computer Information Technology/Hardware and Software Certificate, Criminal Justice Technology: Latent Evidence Certificate, Culinary Arts/ Demi-Chef Certificate, Electrical Electronics Technology Basic Electricity, Motors and Controls Certificate, Emergency Medical Science Certificate, Basic Horticulture Certificate, Infant Toddler Care Certificate, Manicuring/ Nail Technology Certificate, Medical Office Administration/Medical Coding and Billing Certificate, Networking Technology Cisco Networking Certificate, Certified Nursing Assistant Certificate and Simulation and Game Development/ SGD Basics Certificate.

    If you would like to find out more about the College and Career Promise Program or High School Connections, contact your local high school guidance counselor or Suzanne Davis, High School Connections Coordinator at Fayetteville Technical Community College, at 678-8542.

  • Aging in Place12-07-11-senior-corner.jpg

    The odds are great that your parents will want to stay in the familiar surroundings of their own home and not move anywhere else permanently — not to a condominium in Florida, a retirement compound in Arizona or a nursing home across town. Still, there are some important barriers to seniors remaining at home. Fortunately, recent innovations have made what is called “aging in place” much easier, safer, more practical and more enjoyable for seniors who remain at home.

    A book, Stages of Senior CARE: Your Step-by-Step guide to making the Best Decisions, written by Home Instead Senior Care® founders Lori and Paul Hogan, discusses the concept of “aging in place.” Today, many seniors can remain in their homes, while making the appropriate changes to keep up with their changing needs.

    Here are some trends from Stages associated with the aging in place model:

    Universal Design to Make Living Easier

    With the retirement of 78 million baby boomers now under way, the National Association of Home Builders (NAHB) has given more thought to creating a house that will last a lifetime, that is, one that will be easily habitable no matter what the age of the occupants or their handicaps, such as difficulty with sight, hearing or mobility. Universal design is intended to accommodate such needs.

    Anticipate Safety Concerns and Make Improvements

    Most seniors will want to stay in the home they have lived in for many years, and the odds are that their home was not built with senior compatibility in mind. However, there are many improvements that can be made in the house immediately and inexpensively. Suggest to your parents that they contact a local Certified Aging in Place Specialist (CAPS)-trained remodeler to adapt their home.

    Aging in Village: Networks of Services

    A movement that shows great promise for supporting and supplementing the adaptation of the home to the changing needs of seniors is the aging-in-village initiative. A pioneer in the movement is Beacon Hill Village in the heart of Boston, founded in 2001 with the stated purpose of enabling a growing and diverse group of Boston residents to stay in and around their own homes.

    Naturally Occurring Retirement Community

    A companion movement to the aging-in-village strategy is the naturally occurring retirement community (NORC). NORCs are sponsored by government agencies, both federal and local, and philanthropic groups. Currently found in many U.S. communities, NORCs are expected to become more common as the population ages.

    Multi-generational Homes

    Multi-generational homes are very common. On a local level, more families are adding suites to their existing homes to accommodate senior loved ones. Motorized chairs are advertized constantly to restore a senior’s lost independence. Bathroom remodeling has become big business, which is demonstrated by the number of television ads for these companies. These are just a few of the considerations when looking into helping a parent to “age in place”.

    A great Christmas purchase would be Stages of Senior CARE: Your Step-by-Step guide to making the Best Decisions, if you need in-depth answers on how you can best prepare for your parent’s care.

    The book is available at Amazon.com and Barnes & Noble. Get more information about senior-related services through www.caregiverstress.com.

    Photo: Today, many seniors can remain in their homes, while making the appropriate changes to keep up with their changing needs. 

  • The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn - Part 1 12-07-11-movie.jpg

    (Rated PG-13) 4 Stars

    Critics hate the Twilight Saga films, and Breaking Dawn—Part I (117 minutes) is no exception. But as much as I enjoy making fun of the books and movies, I am totally willing to admit that nobody twists my arm to get me into the theater. So, let’s acknowledge the essential sexism and bizarre sexual politics of the books, which only become more impossible to avoid on screen.

    What I am getting at here is that The Twilight books (and by extension the Twilight movies) are not Shakespearean by any measure. Ok, awesome, the author wrote something that a lot of people read. That is good. People should read more. However, that doesn’t mean they are not poorly constructed bits of dreck, borrowing elements from other better books being turned into movies that appeal to the lowest common denominator.

    So, it’s ok to like the films, as long as we are all aware that 18 year-olds getting married is usually a mistake. And that Jacob (Taylor Lautner), who is not even old enough to vote, much less get into a bar, is showing both a prurient and inappropriate interest in the honeymoon activities of Edward (Robert Pattinson) and Bella (Kristen Stewart). And that when you establish clumsiness as the defining character trait of your heroine, you might consider explaining to your audience how she avoids sinking her ten inch spike wedding heels into the soft forest floor. And that showing the wedding and honeymoon only needed to take about 15 minutes, not 45. So really, there was no need to have two movies.

    After nearly an hour’s worth of nothing much happening (PG-13 remember?), we find out that Edward is an extremely abusive spouse, who leaves his new bride covered in bruises. But he didn’t mean to do it, and he’s really sorry, and feels really guilty, so that makes it ok. He even promises never to do it again! So then we get to see Bella the 18-year-old try to seduce her 107-year-old husband. When sex appeal doesn’t work, she tries beating him at chess, and when her intellectualism doesn’t do it for him, she resorts to crying and begging. Also, there are Brazilian housekeepers who have an in-depth knowledge, and a healthy fear, of the Cullen family, but somehow manage to not carry crosses and holy water around with them.

    Their knowledge comes in handy however, when the plot finally gets moving and we find out that Bella is going to have a demon baby! So naturally, instead of relying on the experience (and advice based in both science and reality) of Doctor Daddy Cullen (Peter Facinelli), Edward insists that the woman who believes he is an evil murderer and gets her ideas from unproven legends is a great source of wisdom.

    Despite the patriarchal attempts to control her body and make her decisions for her, Bella decides to skim through some pro-life literature and let the FX guys go to town on her already skinny frame. As she gets weaker and weaker, no one can figure out why her half-vampire baby isn’t thriving in her human body. The Cullen Brain Trust finally gets a clue and realizes what the rest of the audience knew as soon her pregnancy test produced a pink plus sign … Bella is going to need some blood smoothies to nurture her little miracle.

    Meanwhile, there is some werewolf stuff going on, which culminates in the big vampire/werewolf fight during “slightly-toned-down-from-the-book birth of the demon baby with a stupid name” scene. Of course, Jacob’s “imprinting” on baby Renesmee is a key scene, but that is an entire thesis all by itself, so please make your own inappropriate relationship jokes here.

    Overall, fans will love it, it will make a ton of money, and we can all do this again next year when Part II comes out!

    Now showing at Wynnsong 7, Carmike 12 and Carmike Market Fair 15.

     

  • 12-07-11-building relationships.jpgIt’s been quite a year for the Army Ground Forces Band band. They relocated to Fort Bragg this summer from Fort McPherson in Atlanta, Ga., and hit the ground running. If you were to look at their calen-dar, you would see they spend as much time in the community as they do in their ceremo-nial role for the Army.

    This holiday season, the band is teaming up with the Fayetteville Symphonic Band to offer a free concert to on Dec. 15, at Reeves Auditorium on the Methodist University Campus. The public is invited to the free performance. Traditionalists and fans of more contemporary music are in for a treat at the holiday concert, and can expect to hear a wide range of musical styles.

    The Army Ground Forces Band has 64 musicians in its ranks and various ensembles that perform approximately 300 concerts a year.

    The Fayetteville Symphonic Band is 70 members strong and pulls its mem-bership from Methodist University students as well as area professionals, edu-cators and students from the Cape Fear region.

    Army Ground Forces Commander/Conductor Treg Ancelet is looking for-ward to the performance and getting to know the community a little better. “This is a joint effort, and we are really looking forward to it. The night will be filled with music all the way through,” said Ancelet.

    The brass ensemble performs before the concert, to set the mood. Once the concert begins listen for a Boston Pops rendition of Christmas Festival, a performance by the Holiday Dixieland Band as intermission winds down, vocal performances and, of course, everyone’s favorite — the holiday sing-a-long at the end of the concert.

    “You can’t have a holiday concert without the sing-a-long,” said Ancelet.

    Larry Stevens, public affairs specialist, U.S. Army Forces Command, moved to Fayetteville with the band this spring. Like many former Atlanta resi-dents who now call Fayetteville home, Stevens is impressed by what he’s found here. Fitting into the local arts scene has been an easy transition for the band.

    “We’ve really been reaching out to the community,” said Stevens. “We’ve been in contact with the local school system and places like the Arts Council Fayetteville/Cumberland County to work on building relationships and becom-ing a part of the lively arts scene that exists here.”

    The band played a big part in the Hero’s Homecoming celebration last month performing at the Vietnam Veteran’s Memorial dedication ceremony, the Veteran’s Affairs Medical Center, the Hero’s Homecoming wreath-laying ceremony, the N.C Veterans Day tribute and in the Veterans Day parade.

    Local schools are also benefitting from the band’s presence, as are the neighboring communities. Chances are, if you haven’t heard them yet, it won’t be long before they are playing at whatever local events you attend.

    A peek at their website, www.forscom.army.mil/band shows the organiza-tion will be participating in tree lightings, local parades and a Wreath’s Across America ceremony this month, too.

    “There is such a lively art’s scene here,” said Steven’s. “I haven’t even had time to see much in Raleigh yet because there is always so much going on here.”

    The holiday concert is free and open to the public. To get a ticket, send a self addressed, stamped envelope by Dec. 8 to The Army Ground Forces Band, ATTN: Public Affairs, 4700 Knox St., Fort Bragg, NC 28310.

    Stevens encourages anyone who misses the Dec. 8 deadline to come to the concert anyhow. “Because this is a free concert, the no-show rate is sometimes high and we would love to be able to fill those seats and have someone be able to enjoy the show.”

    Find out more about the concert and the Army Ground Forces Band at www.forscom.army.mil/band/ or by calling 570-7226.

    Photo: Staff Sgt. Frank Briscoe, trumpeter for the Army Ground Forces Band.

  • Christmas is a time for merriment. Our smiles are a bit bigger, our eyes are a bit brighter and our arms are a bit wider this time of year. I am a lover of the holiday season, mainly for the reasons listed above. I’ll admit that I’m one of those who gets wrapped up in the whole “finding the perfect present” hubbub of the season. I get so caught up in finding the perfect pres-ent for friends and family or attending the “it” social gathering of the holidays that, I’ll admit, I sometimes forget what Christmas is really about.12-07-11-jenny beaver.jpg

    I received an email the other day from a friend that said “Put the CHRIST back in CHRISTmas.” This simple phrase really made me stop to think about trying to expe-rience Christmas on a much simpler level and I encourage you to do the same.

    Grab a group of friends and sing car-ols around your neighborhood; take your children to see The Best Christmas Pageant Ever at the Cape Fear Regional Theatre; contact a local food kitchen and help pro-vide food for our homeless; visit the Cape Fear Botantical Gardens Festival of Lights; choose an angel or two from the Salvation Army’s Angel Tree; view A Christmas Carol at the Gilbert Theatre or attend a Christmas Eve service at a local church. Christmas shouldn’t be about how much money we spend on each other but about much time we spend with one another and how much time we spend helping one another.

    The Fayetteville Young Professionals hope that you’ll consider joining us this holiday season as well as we kick up our heels and enjoy an evening of Christmas Karaoke and dancing during our annual Holiday Social — National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation Tacky Sweater Eve on Dec. 15. Dig deep in your closet (or your parents’ clos-ets) and find one of those fun “creative” Christmas sweaters from long ago to dress up our festive evening! Who knows, there may be a visit from Cousin Eddie himself!

    FYP will also be accepting $10 dona-tions at the door from our members and guests that will go toward buying presents for several Salvation Army Angel Tree children!

    The Holiday Season comes once a year and I hope you’ll join The Fayetteville Young Professionals or whatever organiza-tion, church or friend circle you are a part of, in making this holiday count. After all, the best way to put the CHRIST back in CHRISTmas is by helping your neighbor and appreciating the fortune that we all have been given.

    Until 2012... Happy Holidays!If you would like to learn more about FYP, become a member or purchase a mem-bership as a Christmas present for a friend, employee or family member, please visit www.fayyp.org or contact Brandon Plotnick at the FAY-CC Chamber of Commerce: 433-6766.

    Photo: The Holiday Season comes once a year and I hope you’ll join The Fayetteville Young Professionals or whatever organization, church or friend circle you are a part of, in making this holiday count.

  • The stage is set. You enter the theater, clutching the playbill you received upon your arrival. The theater is filled with low chatter as you settle into your seat and read the synopsis and details about the artists. The lights dim, the curtain rises and you sit, enraptured by a live performance at the world-famous Bolshoi Ballet and Opera Theatre, founded in 1776, or the London Opera House or the Teatro alla Scala — Sleeping Beauty and The Nutcracker, Mozart’s Don Giovanni and Puccini’s La Boheme, the Royal Ballet’s Romeo and Juliet. Only you’ve never left town!

    Balletomanes and opera fans can enjoy this world-class ballet and opera experience several times a year at the Carmike Market Fair 15 theater located at 1916 Skibo Rd. in Fayetteville — at a fraction of the cost of airfare, hotel and tickets!

    Such a cultural adventure is possible through the unique partnership of Carmike Cinemas with Emerging Pictures and Emerging Cinema, using the digital technology of Microspace to beam live opera and ballet performances by satellite from all over the world. The Ballet in Cinema and Opera in Cinema programs are in their second year at the Market Fair 15, explained Allen McWhorter, general manager of the theater.
    “This year we started the second season Sept. 28,” said McWhorter. “We did the opera Faust, and we’ve done a couple of ballets, like Esmeralda with the Bolshoi Ballet in London and the Bolshoi reopening gala on Oct. 28.”

    The idea behind hosting the program was a result of the corporate office’s desire to “branch out to offer people something more than just movies.”11-30-11-bolshoiballet.jpg

    “We do a lot of sporting events,” said McWhorter. “Some NCAA championship football games and basketball games, NBA all-star games and a couple of things we’ve shown in 3D. Our company is venturing out, trying to get an extra audience other than just moviegoers.”

    Because of the time differences between local time and Europe and Russia, many of the live performances take place in the morning, offering a perfect opportunity for school groups and those who enjoy a mid-day escape to take advantage of the live-theater experience. But no one needs miss out.

    “For all the events that we show, we also show an encore performance, sometimes on the same day,” McWhorter said. “So we do a live version, then we show the recorded feed a few hours later on the same day and then we always do an encore performance a week out, usually at 7 p.m. on a Tuesday. All Carmike Cinemas have Stimulus Tuesdays. We offer dollar popcorn and dollar drinks all day, so we just matched the events with that day. It was the slowest day of the year, but now it’s the most popular weekday.”     

    Tickets for the events are priced comparably to a performance on the stage — and are a real bargain as opposed to traveling abroad to view them in person! Opera tickets are $25, with a group rate of $21 for 10 or more. The ballets are all $20, $17 for any group of 10 or more. Additionally, the theater is exploring targeted promotions to involve schools and further expand its audience, like a recent two-for-one special rate offered on advance ticket purchases for senior citizens 62 and older and dance school attendees for The Sleeping Beauty ballet presentation, which was presented on Nov. 20.

    The upcoming schedule for Opera in Cinema and Ballet in Cinema at the Market Fair 15 includes performances of the classic operas Don Giovanni, La Boheme and Rigoletto and ballets Romeo and Juliet, Le Corsaire and Raymonda. Of course, no holiday season would be complete without The Nutcracker.

    “We’re doing The Nutcracker on Sunday, Dec.18 at 2:30 p.m.,” McWhorter said. “The encore is on Tuesday, Dec. 20 at 7 p.m.”

    McWhorter and his staff work hard to enhance the overall experience for the audience, as well promote the programs to the area.

    “When people come, we give them a playbill. We talk to them as they come in and try to find out how they heard about us. I definitely ask for their suggestions,” he said.

    The Opera in Cinema and Ballet in Cinema websites, www.operaincinema.com and www.balletincinema.com, offer season schedule information and details about the individual presentations. Visitors to the sites may also join other opera and ballet super fans to help spread the word throughout the community about this exciting program that brings performances from some of the greatest ballet and opera houses around the world — right to Fayetteville.

    For more information, contact the Market Fair 15 at 868-9791. Tickets may be purchased online at www.carmike.com, www.fandango.com or at the box office.

  •   uac113011001.jpg At the end of November and during the early part of December, if you happen to run into an unusual number of young athletic men and women in historic downtown Fayetteville, speaking in languages from all over the world, accompanied by equally passionate and interesting people — you should know the Cirque du Soleil is in town! Performing in all the major cities around the world, Quidam, a production by the Cirque du Soleil, is in Fayetteville for eight performances Nov. 30 – Dec. 4 at the Crown Coliseum.

    Cirque’s reputation is one of exceptional artistry, special effects, costuming and remarkable acrobats. So, being able to hang out with Jessica Leboeuf, the publicist for Quidam, before it arrived in Fayetteville, was a recent and quite remarkable experience. My task was to experience different facets of the production company before joining 4,000 other people in Washington D.C., who had purchased tickets to see Quidam.
    What I learned backstage exudes in the performance. Passionate artists, acrobats, extremely skilled light and sound technicians, performers, high-art clowns, costume designers and choreographers have created a two-hour magical place for people of all ages to enjoy. Quidam is a faraway place where anything is possible — from acts of human strength to sublime human sensitivity; where the every day is quite remarkable and the dream believable.

    Before the performance, I watched Banquine, a troupe of mostly Russian and Ukrainian acrobats practice their breath-taking performance — you will easily recognize them on stage as they methodically fling and flip each other through the air, landing on the multiple tiers of a human structure. 

    Gabriel Dubé-Dupris, the general stage manager, explains that performances can change night to night due to the practice sessions. He noted, “Performances are organic and can change night to night. All performers have to be feeling 100 percent before they go on stage. Everyone in the troupe and the trainer has to feel their practice session was exactly where it needed to be in order for them to perform. In the interest of safety, we can alter who is performing what for the evening.”

    I was able to interview Ana Ostapenko, a young athlete and acrobat from the Ukraine who performs with impeccable balance and amazing strength on the balancing canes. She, like Jessica Leboeuf and Gabriel Dubé-Dupris, exuded the joy and passion of having a career with the Cirque du Soleil.

    The production company includes a traveling team that plans and carries out the logistics of the production. Then there is the training, practicing and performances that last 10 weeks. After that rigorous time on the road, the performers return home or take a vacation for two weeks — then they hit the road again.11-30-11-cirque1.jpg

    For Cirque to come to Fayetteville, a lot of work is involved. The production company travels with a chef, all the sets, lights, costumes, weight-training equipment, technicians, washers and dryers and whatever else is needed to rebuild the set, scaffold, light and sound for the performers to begin practicing again.

    The arch overhead in Quidam is moved and installed in each location. It is constructed of five all-aluminum rails for an overall length of 120 feet. Each rail of the arch houses two trolleys that run from one end of the structure to the other. One is used to transport performers and acrobatic equipment and the other raises or lowers them to the appropriate height and position for the particular act. The stage floor alone has more than 200,000 perforations to create special effects with the lighting.

    Quidam is dramatic from the opening performance to the finale. The story begins with a young girl named Zoé who is bored; her parents seem distant and are ignoring her. Her life is forever changed as she opens the door to the “nameless passerby.” From that moment on, Zoé and everyone in the audience experiences the possibilities of the imagination and the idea that anything is possible!

    From aerial acrobats to high-art clowns, the performance is multi-centered and layered, always shifting from the poetic and graceful to the seemingly impossible. A door opens on top of the stage with something humorous and unexpected; then, with an ease of transition, Jerome Le Baut and Asa Kuniak do a routine of sheer artistry and strength as they lift, carry and become entwined with each other as one. In the end, each performance lends itself to be interpreted by all the members of the audience.

    During the performance, I heard the gasps of people in the audience as the acrobats did unbelievable feats of balance and strength; I found myself in awe at the talent and strength of the athletes. As well, I could hear the laughter of small children who found the silliest and simplest of things very funny. So funny, they would laugh out loud without hesitation, yet remain quiet as a mouse when anything dangerous was being performed above their heads or on stage.

    Even the joy of skipping rope becomes artful in Quidam. What begins as two solo performances of jumping rope builds to more complicated rope jumping. As the rope beats time, the performance has been choreographed into an ever increasing manipulation of skill, rhythm and sound by 20 acrobats.

    A gymnastic exercise, the German Wheel performance by Cory Sylvester, in the first act is unforgettable. Sylvester becomes a human spoke as he spins, turns, twists and maneuvers in an eight foot wheel on the stage. In his performance, Sylvester performs gravity-defying acrobatics.

    There is always something happening on stage and above stage. Something is being lifted, lowered, swinging or hanging in the air. In Quidam, the Spanish web is an aerial group act. Artists fly over the stage, then drop into stillness, stopped only by the ropes around their waists or ankles. I just kept thinking “Don’t they need a net?”

    For me, Quidam was a symbolic mix of dark and light, depth and surface, slap-stick and the dramatic. The production is a synthesis of traditional performance styles from around the world. We are each drawn into the performance with the music, lighting, costumes, the strength of the acrobats and the mystery of the story. In the end, it is a roller coaster ride of the unexpected and imagined seamlessly choreographed to become believable.


    For more information or to purchase tickets, visit www.atthecrown.com.

  • 11-30-11-peo-house-cover-pic.jpgThe holidays are about family, taking time to enjoy the simple things in life and remembering slower, sweeter times. There are many who have a hard time making that happen. It’s more about over-extended budgets, over-filled calendars, frenzied baking marathons and last-minute shopping.


    It wasn’t always that way though. There was a time when the holidays were much less expensive and more family-centric. On Dec.4, at the Museum of the Cape Fear, peek into the past at the Holiday Jubilee and see what the holidays were like in Fayetteville during the Victorian era.

    From 1-5 p.m. visitors are invited to a fun-filled day including musical concerts from acapella group Oakwood Waits, performances by A Fairy Tale Affair, ornament making and cooking in the Poe House kitchen.
    See the Poe House adorned in period fashion with early 20th century accents and activities at every turn. It’s a different kind of hustle and bustle here — one that soothes the soul and calms the nerves, and even rejuvenates the spirit.

    So take a moment, sit a spell on the porch and listen to the harmony of Oakwood Waits as they perform melodies that call back to an earlier time.

    “Oakwood Waits is a wonderful singing group out of Raleigh,” said Leisa Greathouse, curator of education at the Museum of the Cape Fear. “One of the exciting things about having them here is that not only are they great performers, but they will be having meet and greets in between performances so people will have a chance to talk to them about their music.”
    Dressed in red and green ball gowns, Princess Emily and Princess Anna of A Fairy Tale Affairs, will perform 13 traditional carols incorporated into a Christmas production. This is sure to captivate the youngest visitors and ignite their Christmas spirit.

    “We’ll also have a crafting area where children can come and make what are called scrap ornaments,” said Greathouse. “They are called scrap ornaments because children used to cut pictures out of magazines and things like that and make these out of scrap paper.”

    An addition to the annual celebration, this year the local doll clubs are involved. They are providing their expertise and even more significantly, access to their prized doll collections, which are part of the decorations in the parlor. These doll clubs have a national membership with the United Federation of Doll Clubs, Inc. A large variety of dolls and toys representing the early 1900s will indeed make the parlor “all dolled up.”

    “The collections that these collectors have are amazing,” said Greathouse. “They represent many different countries and cultures and are representative of the kind of toys children had in the early 1900s. This is a very unique opportunity to share their passion with the public while educating them as well.”

    Admission is free. Find out more by calling 486-1330 or visiting www.museumofthecapefear.com.

  • 11-30-11-bowles_erskine_9_06.jpgWe are following in the footsteps of Greece and Italy. Just like them, we have lost control of our nation’s budget, and along with them, our economy is tanking.
    Just like them, we have a bunch of people who are hooked on government subsidies and unwilling to give up any part of them. We also have a bunch of people who have the resources to contribute much more, but who are, like the Greeks who are wealthy, unwilling to give up anything.
    Our country, like theirs, is headed for a train wreck.
    You hear this kind of talk, don’t you? Like Thelma and Louise, we seem to be headed for a cliff, more ready to ride out — and crash — than we are to grab the steering wheel or push our foot down on the brakes.
    Our two political parties have strong partisan and tactical commitments that preclude a cooperative and pragmatic approach to the budget emergency and the shattered economy.
    Both political parties have only enough power to keep the other one from taking charge. Thus, neither political group has enough power to govern.
    Meanwhile in Greece, where the budget emergency is greater than in our country, the warring politicians have organized a coalition government and picked a “technocrat,” one respected by everyone, to lead the government as prime minister.
    A similar approach in Italy resulted in the recruitment of a respected economic specialist to lead the government.
    The American political system is not designed to accommodate this sort of change in government leadership between elections. Our people elect the President, and there is no simple way for Congress to undo that decision.
    But, what if our system were more like the European parliamentary governments? What if our Congress could put in force a coalition government of “national unity” to meet the budget and economic emergencies?
    Who could they recruit to lead? Who has the expertise to develop a plan? And who has the skills to bring the different groups to the table and give up ground, at least temporarily, for their highest priorities, and, finally, someone who agrees that the budget and economic crisis require compromise and unity?
    Such skilled, non-partisan leaders are in short supply in Europe, and maybe even more so in the United States.
    Nevertheless, let us try to come up with some ideas and some names. First, we have to concede that the candidates ought to have some expertise in government, and even have some experience in partisan politics, but one in which he or she still has the respect of the opposition political party.
    So who are some candidates?
    First consider Mayor Michael Bloomberg of New York City. Although he is a Republican, he has shown an ability to bring people of different political persuasions to work on commons tasks in New York City.
    Or consider Warren Buffett. Maybe he is too old to take on such an assignment. But he has proven time and time again an ability to understand the importance of good financial planning and discipline for the success of businesses. He has been active in the debate of several important political questions Even though he is very wealthy, he has shown a willingness to promote some tax increases on the rich.
    But my candidate for “prime minister” of the United States is Erskine Bowles.
    Bowles has demonstrated an understanding of the importance of finding a painful solution to the budget situation in the United States. As representative of President Clinton in the discussions with Congress, he has already proved an amazing ability to bring about workable solutions to budget making challenges. His pragmatic approach to the challenges of administration and leadership of the UNC system is just one more indication that he is a someone you ask to take on the toughest assignments.
    You might disagree for one reason or another, but I think Prime Minister Bowles sounds pretty good.
  • uac112311001.jpg To hear Don Hudson tell it, there are two things North Carolina is known for —pottery and wine — and he is looking to bring the best of both to the Second Annual Sanford Pottery Festival Christmas Show and Wine Tasting Event. Don’t misunderstand. This isn’t Hudson’s first rodeo, or pottery show, if you will. He’s been participating in pottery festivals, as well as organizing and running them, for years. In fact, there is a Sanford Pottery Festival every spring. It’s the largest one in the state, and he has serious ties to the oldest pottery festival in the state, the Seagrove Pottery Festival. So, if you’ve been to either one and enjoyed it, you’ve already had a taste of the high-quality offerings to be had and won’t want to miss this one either.

    Held on Saturday, Dec. 3 and Sunday, Dec. 4, the Sanford Pottery Festival Christmas Show and Wine Tasting Event is set to include some of the area’s fi nest potters, including several from the Seagrove Area (of which Sanford is a part). Look about 45 oversized booths selling pottery and everything from artisan chocolates, woodwork, leather and purses to accent clothing, gourmet items, jewelry and more. And that’s before you get to the wine tasting event.

    With 14 vineyards representing, Hudson promises everything from sweet muscadine wines to the more robust European varieties.

    “We see this as an opportunity to promote North Carolina pottery and wines nationally, and throughout the military community,” said Hudson. “We’ve had military folks tell us over and over how they enjoy exploring the local culture. There is nothing more local than pottery and we’ve got some of the fi nest potters in the world here.”11-23-11-pottery-1.jpg

    With the holidays just around the corner, there’s no reason a person can’t serve a holiday meal on a piece of genuine North Carolina pottery with a glass of top-notch locally grown wine. Friends and family will be coming to visit from out of town. Wouldn’t it be nice to be able to hand them a one-of-a-kind piece of handcrafted pottery or a bottle of wine that they won’t be able to get anywhere else in the world?

    In addition to showcasing the best of what the local culture has to offer, Hudson is seeking to build a long-term relationship with the military, but fi rst he wants to show them why it is worth their while to investigate what the area has to offer. To show he’s sincere, anyone with a military ID (plus one guest) gets in to the festival free — both days. “I’ve been to events that have military appreciation and they’d give something like $2 off on Sundays. I just thought that was really chintzy,” said Hudson. “If you are going to appreciate the military, appreciate them!”

    Admission to the event costs just $5 (except for military ID cardholders and children under 14; they get in free). The wine tasting costs $10 and is only for adults 21 and over. There are no discounts for the wine-tasting, although Hudson promises it will be worth your money. Wines will be available for sale by the glass, bottle and case as well.

    Hours are from 10 a.m. – 6 p.11-23-11-pottery-4.jpgm. on Saturday and noon to 5 p.m. on Sunday at the Dennis A. Wicker Civic Center at 1801 Nash St. in Sanford. Find out more at www.sanfordpottery.org.

      Trey Taylor (12) and Caleb Fulton (11) are brothers. They were first introduced to pottery in 2003 when their father, Lewis Fulton, worked at D. K. Clay. Growing up around one of the largest pottery studios in NC was, for them, like a child being turned loose in a candy shop. Various potters are helping them develop a line of pottery to do on their own, working with clay slabs, fused glass and ima11-23-11-pottery-5.jpggination. Their grandmothers want them to grow up to love the Lord, work hard and save money for cars and college. They want to buy clothes, sneakers and video games. A happy medium is being sought. To inquire about their work contact: donhudson@windstream.com.

     

     

     

    Photo top right: Phil Morgan hard at work.

    Photos above left and right: Trey and Caleb with Phil Morgan and Don Hudson and working in the studio

     

    Cover and Story photos courtesy of Ben Albright.

  • 11-23-11-loft-tours.jpgTucked away in downtown Fayetteville, above the restaurants and shops, awaits a side of downtown culture that many never see — except once each year during the annual Candlelight Loft Tours.

    Every December, for one night only, a smattering of Fayetteville’s downtown residents open their homes to the public and offer tours of their residences perched above the streets of downtown.

    On Dec. 11 from 5-8 p.m., spend $10 on a ticket and start a new tradition (or continue an old one) and take the self-guided candlelight loft tour.

    Like their owners, the downtown lofts are fun and unique, each refl ecting the style and tastes of the residents. Some are quirky, some sophisticated, some modern, some traditional. All are original — from the fl oor plans to the décor — they add to the flavor and personality of downtown.

    “Some of these lofts are really amazing,” said Leslie Saenz, event coordinator. “Once you step inside them it is hard to believe that you are right in downtown Fayetteville … some of these lofts are like something from another place and time. It is very exciting.”

    So far, Saenz counts between five and seven lofts on the tour, but plans are still being finalized and the number may change before the big day arrives. Something Saenz finds interesting is the scope of lofts that will be on the tour.

    “We have several that are in the 300 Block of Hay Street. One is above an antique shop,” she said. “They are just so original and different that it is hard to single out one or two as a favorite. They all bring something to the tour.”

    While loft-tour fans look forward to this event each year, the event sponsor, the Downtown Alliance, is looking to add something unique and fun for the participants. Sure touring the eclectic properties is fun, but they are adding a twist this year. While the organizers are reluctant to pick one loft over the rest as the clear favorite, they are encouraging attendees to do just that.

    Each person who takes the tour will get to fill out a survey gathering their opinions about the tour. At the end of the candlelit adventure, surveys are collected and entered into a drawing.

    “The prize for the drawing has wonderful items in it that have been donated from downtown merchants,” said Saenz. “Our downtown merchants are very generous. The winner can expect to get some wonderful goodies.”

    The tour is self-guided and self-paced making it a perfect event for enjoying more than just the living spaces downtown. There are several new restaurants downtown to try. Saenz suggests enjoying more than one of the downtown attractions — dinner, loft tour, followed by a cup of coffee, a movie or a night cap before heading home. There is plenty to see and do downtown, why not make a night of it?

    Tickets are available Rude Awakening, So Chic Bebe, City Center Gallery and Books and The Pilgrim. The night of the event tickets can be purchased at the Downtown Alliance office on Hay Street. Call the Downtown Alliance at 222-FDTA (3382) for more information.

  • 11-23-11-pitt.jpgLet us contemplate the fl eeting nature of power. Case in point — Italy. I will miss Silvio Berlusconi, the former Italian Prime Minister. Silvio loved wine, women and deficit spending. He was a major party animal. Because the Euro was going to heck in a hand basket, the Italians dumped Silvio. The B-man was as colorful as an explosion in a Paas Easter Egg dye plant. The guy rocked. The Italians replaced him with Mario Monti, a boring dignified financial technocrat dude who is the spitting image of Mr. Peanut.

    Many moons ago as a Boy Scout, I went to Camp Durant, a Scout camp in northern Raleigh, every summer. You had to pass the Planter’s Peanut store to get there. The store had a guy dressed up in full Mr. Peanut garb dancing on the side of the road. Mr. Peanut waved to you as you rode by. This naturally set off a chorus of “Please stop at the peanut store!” from the Scouts in the back seat. Mr. Peanut is a dapper legume, sporting a top hat, fancy walking cane and a monocle. The new Italian premier looks just like Mr. Peanut without the personality. The Italians are still playing a shell game with the Euro.

    I lost track of Mr. Peanut over the years. The last I heard, Mr. Peanut had moved to the Gray Havens Retirement Home in Lakeland, Fla., where he was living with his long-time companion Bilbo Baggins and their aging blind pet, Tony the Tiger. Frankly, I thought Mr. Peanut had passed away. I was overjoyed to see Mr. Peanut pulled out of retirement to become the Prime Minister of Italy.

    Once again, as Mr. Rogers would say, “It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood.” We truly live in the best of all possible worlds. There is so much fascinating stuff going on right now. I identify with my favorite Republican Presidential Candidate, Herman Cain, who told the TV cameras after fl ubbing a Libya question, that he has all sorts of things “Whirling around in my mind.” Don’t we all have stuff whirling around in our minds? The Herminator has it all: lots of ladies who adore him and a new found knowledge that the Red Chinese have had nuclear weapons for about 50 years. That’s a lot to keep up with. No wonder Herman had some issues with deciding whether he agreed with President Obi’s action in “that Libya.” The Herminator’s policy pronouncements should have taken some of the heat off poor Rick Perry, but they just haven’t helped our Texas friend.

    As Frank Costanza said, all this Republican colorfulness has resulted in the road kill formerly known as Newt Gingrich “rising like a Phoenix from Arizona” into a tie with Mitt Romney for the Republican Presidential nomination. The Newt is back, baby! Mitt is still steady as he goes, but the Newtron bomb is trying to replace him at the top of the Republican heap. All of these Republican debates are like MacBeth said, “full of sound and fury, a tale told by an idiot, signifying nothing.” The debates don’t matter. Their campaigns don’t matter. It’s Mitt’s turn to be the nominee. The Republicans always choose the guy whose turn it is to be the nominee. On that you can rely.

    Mitt is going to be there like it or not. But the once beloved Joe Paterno is gone. The Penn State fans in Unhappy Valley rioted on behalf of a guy who apparently knew about child abuse for almost 10 years. Some might think it odd to rally behind a cover up of child sexual abuse, but Jo Pa was King. As we all know, the King can do no wrong. It’s called the doctrine of Sovereign Impunity. The mess that is the Penn State football empire is hideous.

    Enough about Jo Pa’s troubles. He has strutted and fretted his hour upon the stage and then is heard no more. Let us instead close with a touching poem about a suicidal peanut:

    “A peanut lay upon a railroad track

    His heart was all aflutter

    A train came down the railroad track

    Toot, toot

    Peanut butter.”

  • A Very Harold and Kumar 3D Christmas (Rated R) Three Stars

    While I loved Harold and Kumar Go to White Castle for its ability to challenge stereotypes, I thought Harold and Kumar Escape from Guantanamo Bay was an ill-considered disaster. A Very Harold and Kumar 3D Christmas (90 minutes) falls some-where in between. While I am sure there are callbacks to both movies, I only really picked up on the references back to Famous Original and Far Superior Harold and Kumar. For example, half-way through the film they go to White11-23-11-movie.jpgCastle! Which reminds me that we need a White Castle in Fayetteville. Krystal Burgers just aren’t the same.

    It is strange that the overall quality of the films is so variable, since the main players are the same, and writing partners Hurwitz and Schlossberg scripted all three movies. I think we can chalk the difference up to directing … the first film was helmed by Danny Leiner, while the second was co-directed by the co-writers. Todd Strauss-Schulson takes the reins on the latest film, so at least the writers realize they were lousy directors.

    A very scrofulous Kumar Patel (Kal Penn) visits Santa (Patton Oswalt, currently stinking up the small screen on Adult Swim’s The Heart, She Holler). In the scene that follows, the directing apparently consist-ed of telling Kumar and Santa to get high and act stupid. Mission accomplished.

    The scene shifts to a clearly successful Harold (John Cho). His assistant Kenneth (the extremely irritating Bobby Lee) has picked up a 3D television for Harold’s father-in-law, which they parlay into some self-referential 3D humor. In a scene that is either a really cool coincidence or a very last minute add (or maybe I completely misunderstand the timeline of movie creation), angry protestors oc-cupy a New York street with class warfare signs. Then they throw eggs at Kenneth, showcasing the only way that 3D should ever be used (to throw things and have them appear to come straight at the audience).

    Luckily, Harold manages to escape most of the barrage. His new friend Todd (Thomas Lennon) is waiting to pick him up and take him back to his lovely wife in suburbia (Paula Garcés). Harold arrives home in time to learn that in addition to his father-in-law (Danny Trejo), the rest of Maria’s extended family is also planning to visit. Many stereotypes and several references to a big party follow. At least we get to see Trejo wearing a Christmas sweater!

    Back at Kal’s lonely apartment, a package for Harold ar-rives, and (SPOILER ALERT) Kumar learns he is expecting a package of this own. Kumar decides to drop off the mystery gift at Harold’s before heading to a party with his new friend (Amir Blumenfeld). Of course, the moment these two share a scene hijinks ensue, pushing them into the quest that will drive the rest of the movie.

    At first Harold and Kumar are accompanied by their bud-dies and Todd’s daughter (Isabella Gelniak). Later, the bud-dies get their own subplot involving Elias Koteas, and Saint Neil Patrick Harris shows up to make the film better and to give Kumar a Wafflebot for Christmas. Arguably, it was his turn in the first film that turned him into the cultural icon he is today, so it is nice to see him here. As is a must for Christmas comedies, the real Santa Claus (Richard Riehle) makes a cameo. Plus, midway through the film there is a fantastic Claymation sequence.

    Overall, Harold and Kumar is a film using a quest as a platform for potty humor and drug jokes while showcasing the best use of 3D since Friday the 13th Part III. If nothing else, it will make you laugh.

    Now showing at Wynnsong 7, Carmike 12 and Carmike Market Fair 15.

  • Free Web Conference Helps Caregivers Tune into Trouble11-23-11-senior-corner.jpg

    It’s easy for busy family caregivers to overlook the subtle signs that a senior loved one needs assistance. But the holidays, when many return to their childhood homes with aging parents, can highlight those red flags.

    Signs of potential trouble can be evident in a senior’s home — such as spoiled food in the refrigerator and piles of unpaid bills — or personal indicators such as episodes of confusion or dirty and unkempt clothing.

    Here’s what several noted national caregiving experts had to say about the issue:

    Gail Hunt, the president and CEO of the National Alliance for Caregiving, said: “If you’re a long-distance caregiver, perhaps you haven’t seen your loved one in a while. You may notice some real differences since a few months ago. The hometown caregivers might not see the signs because they’re so busy and the changes are so subtle.”

    Countering senior resistance to assistance can be a challenge, added President and CEO of the National Family Caregivers Association Suzanne Mintz. “Family caregivers must recognize that their parents are adults and – unless there are cognitive or emotional problems – they can make their own decisions. We do not and should not become our parents’ parents. We must remember we will always be their children.”

    You can learn more about those signs by registering for the free Home for the Holidays web conference, moderated by a representative from the Home Instead Senior Care® network. The event will be hosted by the American Society on Aging, and co-sponsored by the National Family Caregivers Association and the National Alliance for Caregiving.

    The hour-long web conference will be available in the U.S. and Canada: Monday, Dec. 5, at 8 p.m. Eastern Time. Register by going to www.caregiverstress.com/familyeducation.

    The web conference will be moderated by Director of Strategic Alliances Mary Alexander of Home Instead, Inc., the franchisor of the Home Instead Senior Care® network. Alexander is a family caregiver and a Certified Senior Advisor (CSA).

    Featured will be information about countering senior resistance to assistance as well as resources that can help family caregivers and senior care professionals.

    Following are 10 signs that a senior might need more help at home:

    1. A change in appearance or condition of the home. If Mom never cared much about her house, the fact that it’s a little messier than usual might not indicate a problem. However, if the house was always spotless and decked out for the holidays, a messy home might mean trouble is brewing.

    2. Clutter. Piles of magazines or clothing could be an indicator that an older adult needs more help.

    3. Dirty or unkempt clothing. Lack of interest in appearance can be a sign of depression in a senior.

    4. Unpaid bills. A pile of unpaid bills or correspondence is an alarm-ing sign that could require a family caregiver to intervene immediately in the best interest of a loved one.

    5. Fresh food replaced with junk food. A senior who loses interest in cooking sometimes resorts to junk food.

    6. Spoiled food in the fridge or freezer. Spoiled food could be an early sign that a senior no longer has an appetite and is not eating prop-erly.

    7. Bugs or rodents in the home. An older adult who no longer can clean a home properly may be vulnerable to bugs and rodents.

    8. Confusion. Disorientation could be a sign of dementia, a problem with a medication or another medical issue that needs to be assessed by a doctor.

    9. Unfilled prescriptions. Seniors could be forgetting to take their medications or cannot afford to refill them.
    10. Spills on floors and countertops.

    Older adults with mobility problems may no longer be able to clean up spills, reach high places to dust and change light bulbs, and bend under beds to take care of messes.Older adults often need help year-round, not just during the holidays. Professional caregivers are ready to assist with a variety of services including companionship, meal preparation, light housekeeping, medi-cation reminders, running errands and shopping.

    Photo: The hour-long web con-ference will be available in the U.S. and Canada.

  • Fayetteville Technical Community College (FTCC) provides education and workforce training to Cumberland County residents. In 2004, FTCC opened a campus in the town of Spring Lake to better serve the growing educational needs of the Spring Lake area and Fort Bragg. The warm and inviting atmosphere of the Spring Lake Campus leads to a calm environment, which allows the students to relax and learn in a peaceful setting.11-23-11-ftcc-logo.jpg

    Located adjacent to Fort Bragg and Pope Army Air Field, the campus has a significant enrollment of military dependents, veterans and active military personnel. The Spring Lake Campus serves approximately 4,000 students each year, about 35 percent of whom are military dependents, active duty military, reservists or veterans.

    The Spring Lake Campus continues to grow in its role as a strong community partner and good neighbor in the greater Spring Lake and Fort Bragg area by offering a number of pro-grams, hosting community events and expanding its program offerings to address emerging needs. The campus offers a num-ber of curriculum and continuing education programs including Basic Law Enforcement Training (BLET), Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA), Registered Medical Assistant (RMA), phle-botomy certification online courses, adult basic education and GED, Licensed Practical Nurse (LPN), Emergency Medical Services (EMS), and various college-transfer opportunities. Plans are underway to expand its program offerings by adding a social-media program and Homeland Security/Emergency Management and Defense Analysis and Global Securities Studies Programs.

    Some of the resources that are available at the campus include an “I Persist, I Achieve, I Study, I Succeed” (I-PASS) Center, Spring Lake Campus Library Resource Center (located inside the Spring Lake Branch of the Cumberland County Public Library) and a physical fitness center. Plans are underway to add a walking/jogging trail and an athletic field for classes in flag football, volleyball, jog-ging and walking.

    Since its opening in 2004, the Spring Lake Campus has seen dramatic changes in the surrounding community. A new apartment complex, Village by the Lake, has been constructed directly across the street from campus. A number of new busi-nesses have set up shop in the town of Spring Lake as it is evolving into a regional commercial hub that serves northwestern Cumberland County and southwestern Harnett County. In the past few years, the town’s commercial development has soared into the millions of dollars, thereby creating hundreds of jobs and increas-ing the town’s tax base. To help develop a vision for the town’s future growth and development, the Spring Lake Campus served as the site for first “Spring Lake Community Summit.” The theme of the summit was “Connect, Create, and Collaborate.” The town leaders invited representatives from various national, state, county and local government offices, as well as leaders from FTCC and Fort Bragg, to serve as panelists.

    FTCC recognizes that it must take a collaborative approach with the school system and the community to ensure that stu-dents are prepared for post-secondary education. To that end, the Spring Lake Campus sponsors the children of Koala Day Care Center, located just behind the campus, for Harvest Fest/Halloween and Christmas events. For Harvest Fest/Halloween, the children are treated with a story time presented by the staff as well as bags of treats with candy and FTCC information. At Christmas, a special visit from Santa is enjoyed by all who attend.

    The campus is also developing the Spring Lake Campus Science, Technology, Engineering and Math (STEM) Summer Academy in col-laboration with Fayetteville area schools, military groups and the non-profit organi-zation, Project L.I.F.T (Lift Initiative for Teens). The STEM Summer Academy is a five-week program that provides 3,000 hours of student-centered learning oppor-tunities for 30 middle and high school students in Spring Lake. Scholarships will be provided to most families to cover part of the $100 enrollment fee. Instruction will provide age- and grade-appropriate hands-on activities in science, technology, engineering, mathematics, and computer sciences. To support the program, retired veterans, educators, active-duty military and military spouses will volunteer to serve as teachers, guest speakers and mentors.

    Through activities such as these, the Spring Lake Campus of Fayetteville Technical Community College is proving to be a good neighbor and community partner.

  • 11-23-11-better-health.jpgThe American Diabetes Association tells us that there are nearly 26 million Americans living with diabetes and there are another 79 million at risk for developing Type 2 Diabetes.

    Every 17 seconds, someone is diagnosed with diabetes. This disease kills more people each year than breast cancer and AIDS combined. Recent estimates project that as many as 1 in 3 American adults will have diabetes in 2050 unless steps are taken to stop diabetes.

    Melissa Brady, health education coordinator for Better Health of Cumberland County, is familiar with these numbers. She works every day to help educate the public about diabetes and to teach people with diabetes how to live with and manage it.

    Better Health offers classes and events year round, but because November is American Diabetes Month, there is a lot more going on in the way of education and activities to raise awareness

    .“Let’s face it, we know how to eat right, we just choose not to,” said Brady.

    And those small choices made each day over time can lead to serious complications.

    She adds. “There are many, many people in Cumberland County who have diabetes and even more with prediabetes. We are here to educate them and give them tools and resources to better manage their health.”

    There are still a couple weeks left in November and Better Health, sponsored by United Way, is using them to the fullest to promote, well, better health. There is an Oral Health and Diabetes clinic scheduled from 8 a.m.to 12 p.m. on Nov. 22 and a cooking class on Nov. 28 at 8:30 a.m. These clinics are all in addition to the regularly scheduled diabetes-related events that are ongoing throughout the year.

    Brady also noted that this is the perfect time to register for the next “Take Charge of Diabetes” class, which will be held in January. This is a seven-week comprehensive diabetes management course. While the class is free, students who are able are asked to contribute a donation to “pay it forward” for the next class. Preregistration is required.

    In addition to the events above, Better Health sponsors ongoing and continuous classes and clinics related to diabetes management:

    • Diabetes clinics are held on Tuesdays from 8 to 11:30 a.m. at the Better Health Office. Individual glucometer instruction is available.

    • Diabetes clinics are held on Thursdays 5 to 6:30 p.m. at the Better Health Offi ce• Exercise classes for people with diabetes are on Monday, Wednesday and Friday from 9 to 10:30 a.m. for experienced students; 11 a.m. for beginners. All classes are offered at the Better Health Offi ce. Exercise regimens include yoga, aerobics, chair-yoga and chair-aerobics. Blood glucose testing is required pre and post class. Supplies are provided.

    • Diabetes Clinic is on a walk-in basis at Gray’s Creek Recreation Center on Wednesday from 9:30 to 11:30 a.m. Individual education is available at the clinic.

    • Eat Smart, Move More Healthy Lifestyle Series can be scheduled at your church or civic group at your request. Call 483-7534 to plan an event.

    For more information, visit the Better Health website at www.betterhealthcc.org or give them a call at 483-7534.

  • For many of our neighbors, the traditional sign of the holiday season approaching is the raising of the Christmas tree. Some have tabletop trees, others have the eight-footers and still others, like Snyder Memorial Baptist Church, put up a tree in extraordinary fashion.

    The 33rd Annual Fayetteville Singing Christmas Tree rings in11-23-11-singing-tree.jpgthe Advent season with six performances starting Thursday, Dec. 1 and running through Sunday, Dec. 4.

    The singing Christmas tree consists of a 40-foot tall structure of lights and ribbon that showcases a 90-voice adult choir, 100-voice youth choir and 35-voice children’s choir directed by Dr. Larry Dickens, minister of music at Snyder Memorial Baptist Church.

    “All of the music is live. The singers and musicians are local people in our community who you work with and go to school with. It’s a grassroots effort,” said Dickens.

    Also performing at the Singing Christmas Tree is the Steps of Faith interpretive dance team, a 20-member contemporary praise team and band, two handbell choirs and a 40-member orchestra. A 57-Rank Schantz pipe organ and Steinway Grand piano accompany the performers.

    Snyder Baptist leaders consider Fayetteville’s Singing Christmas Tree a gift to the community. Tickets are free to the public and go very quickly. Snyder Baptist welcomes more than 5,000 people every year for the Singing Christmas Tree.

    Dickens said, “It’s not as much about entertainment as it is about worshipping with the entire community. I think people want something to celebrate. This is a way for them to mark the season as something different in their lives, a different time of year. The first song in part two is called “The Yearning.” I think there is a yearning for spirituality during the Advent season that draws them here.”

    This is Dickens’ 13th production of the Singing Christmas Tree. Part of the appeal, he says, is the uniqueness of the event.

    “The music is very diverse. There are a couple of classical pieces, contemporary praise and worship, black gospel and tradition carols. There is a little bit of everything,” he said.

    Snyder Baptist is also conducting a food drive during each performance. Concert goers are asked to bring canned goods for local food pantries. And while you are warming your heart by contributing to the food drive and warming your soul with Christmas music, there will be hot cocoa and cider on hand to warm your belly.

    Evening performances start at 7:30 p.m. Saturday and Sunday afternoon performances begin at 4:30 p.m. Attendees are asked to arrive 20 minutes before performances. For more information or to order tickets, please contact Snyder Memorial Baptist Church at 910.484.3191 or www.snydermbc.com.

    Photo: The 33rd Annual Fayetteville Singing Christmas Tree will be on stage at Snyder Memorial Baptist Church from Dec. 1-4.

  • uac111611001.jpg If the idea of joining the maddening crowds at the mall and super stores on Black Friday does not appeal to you, why don’t you take a step back to a kinder, gentler time and join the peaceful crowd downtown for the celebration of A Dickens Holiday.

    A Dickens Holiday, a Fayetteville tradition started by the Arts Council of Fayetteville/Cumberland County, has evolved over the years to a partnership between the Arts Council and the Downtown Alliance. Each year, the two organizations pull out all of the stops to create a fun, family atmosphere that reminds visitors of a simpler time when celebrating Christmas meant family and neighbors. It was a time of tradition — not a time of commercialism.

    On Friday, Nov. 25, from 1-9 p.m. Fayetteville’s downtown will turn back the clock and the city’s Victorian history will come to life (and there will be a touch of commercialism for those of you who still have some Christmas shopping to do!).

    Mary Kinney, of the Arts Council noted, “We are planning to have some of the things people look forward to year after year — the traditional parts of the event. There will be characters from A Chistmas Carol roaming the streets, and you can still get your photo made with Father Christmas at the Arts Council, but there will be some new events and things going on to entertain visitors.”

    There is a whole host of events going on throughout the day including:

    • Hot cider and gingerbread will help keep you warm throughout the day. Buy some on every block of Hay Street. 50¢ each.

    • Preserve a lifetime memory with a picture of you and your loved ones with Father Christmas and an authentic Victorian sleigh at the Arts Council building. $6 per print (or $15 for 3 prints).

    • Amazing holiday entertainment all day at the Arts Council building along Hay Street.

    • See what students have created in a Scholastic Gingerbread Competition. Cheer on your favorite high school team in the H&H Homes Scholastic Gingerbread Competition, starting at 1 p.m. at the Rainbow Room. Cookie decorating workshop for kids 12 and under for $1 per cookie from 1-5 p.m. Come back after the fireworks to se11-16-11-dickens-1.jpge which school won the $500 first-place prize and to vote for the People’s Choice Award until 9 p.m.

    • Victorian Carriage Rides, 1-9 p.m. Enjoy the sights and sounds of a Dickens downtown on a big decorated horse-drawn hitch wagon. Only $10 for adults, $5 for children. Tickets on sale at 222 Hay St. beginning at noon on the day of the event. Come early — they sell out fast!

    • Queen Victoria Carriage Rides, 1-9 p.m. Enjoy a longer, more personal tour of historic downtown Fayetteville in this intimate setting. Tours leave from the Fayetteville Area Transportation Museum, at Franklin and Maxwell streets. $15 per person. Advance ticket purchase recommended by calling 678-8899.

    This Victorian Life display on the second floor of the Market House from 1-9 p.m., sponsored by the Transportation & Local History Museum. See how the Victorians celebrated the holidays. Don’t miss the display of coins, ceramic plates and other commemorative pieces created to honor her, during Queen Victoria’s reign.

    • Candlelight Procession and Tree Lighting Ceremony. Gather in front of the Arts Council building for the 5:30 p.m. candlelight procession to the Market House. Pick up a free candle at selected merchants, or in front of the Arts Council building (while supplies last). Join thousands of townspeople for Fayetteville’s largest candlelight procession to the Market House, followed by fireworks!

    • Victorian Costume Contest. Put together a Victorian outfi t from the simple suggestions offered at www.theartscouncil.com, and participate in the contest, which starts at 7 p.m. Contestants model authentic Victorian costumes from the Dickens era. Call 678-8899 for more details and to register.

    11-16-11-dickens-2.jpgIn addition to the many activities, visitors will also have the opportunity to participate in some retail therapy. “You will have the opportunity to shop,” said Kinney. “There are many fine merchants in downtown Fayetteville, but we also add arts and crafts vendors all along Hay Street on this special day. They will sell handcrafted items, which are perfect for Christmas gifts.”

    There are a number of holiday performances including magicians, bands and carolers.

    “It’s a good mix of performances at the Arts Council, and also roaming the streets,” said Kinney. “A lot of people are really looking forward to Phoebe Hall, who is going to be dressed as Mother Goose and will do story telling.”

    For more information on A Dickens Holiday or to get hints on how to dress in Victorian style, visit www.theartscouncil.com.

  • When President Barack Obama urged Americans to go out into their communities and help their11-16-11-h&h-stand-down.jpgneighbors, Bishop Larry Wright heeded the call. The result is the 2nd Annual Homeless & Hunger Stand Down on Friday, Nov. 18 at V.F.W. Post 6018 at 116 Chance St. from 9 a.m. until 2 p.m. The H & H Stand Down is the largest one-day community event to focus on feeding the hungry in Fayetteville. In 2010, 1,300 residents were served. Event organizers hope to feed more than 1,500 this year.

    Wright, the president of the Fayetteville-Cumberland Ministerial Council and the chair for the 2011 H & H Stand Down Committee, worked with Second Harvest Food Bank of Southeast North Carolina, Heal the Land Outreach Ministries, Walmart, 107.7 FM, The Salvation Army and the United Way of Cumberland County to make the event a reality. Wright modeled the H & H Stand Down after Feed Fayetteville, a local organization that feeds the homeless and hungry. He then added local organizations to bring information and resources to people working to rebuld their lives.

    The meal is just part of the bigger purpose that Wright hopes to bring to homeless residents.

    “We not only want to feed people, but to give them information and build an ongoing relationship with them. They are in need, they’re homeless, they’re struggling. We want to help them build a better quality of life,” he said.

    Participants will go through a round robin of organization booths providing information on prescription assistance, medical and dental assistance, housing, identification services, job placement, educational opportunities and VA assistance. After completing the round robin, residents are invited to the free lunch.

    Community members are needed to fill a variety of volunteer positions including serving on the lunch line, distributing clothing and coats, helping with parking, security and event set-up and take down. There is also a food drive on to replenish the shelves of Second Harvest Food Bank of Southeast North Carolina. If you can’t volunteer on the day of the event, you can still help by donating blankets, rain coats, umbrellas, sleeping bags, gloves and hygiene items to Second Harvest Food Bank at 406 Deep Creek Rd. Donations will be distributed to residents at the H & H Stand Down.

    Wright hopes the Fayetteville business community will get behind the H & H Stand Down. Corporate sponsorships are available. Continuing community support will help the event grow throughout the years. He intends to expand the event to fill the Crown Coliseum one day. Wright took President Obama’s call to action to heart.

    “We are one another’s neighbors and we’re here to inspire and serve. We are an All-American city. Working together, we can always achieve more,” he said.

    For more information on the 2011 Homeless & Hunger Stand Down, please contact Bishop Larry Wright at 910-568-4276 or Crystal Moore-McNair, Community Impact Director for United Way of Cumberland County at 910-366-4725.

  • It’s time to get that little black dress out of the closet and get ready for a night on the town! (Guys, you can forgo the dress and stick with a nice suit or tux.) One of Fayetteville’s premiere events is coming up, and with a limited number of tickets available for purchase, if you wait until the last minute to get yours, well, let’s just say, you might be waiting for next year’s event. 11-16-11signaturechefspic.jpg

    If the question marks are still circling your cranium, then you’ve not figured it out. Give up? The Cape Fear Division of the March of Dimes is hosting its annual Signature Chefs Auction.

    The auction is truly one of the area’s most exciting annual fundraisers and not just because it’s an excuse to get dressed up. Think about it. Some of the city’s most talented chefs are brought together under one roof for just a few hours. If you’re one of the lucky ones who snags a ticket in time, you will get to enjoy some of the most delectable dishes the area has to offer.

    When asked to describe the event, Catherine Heindselman, division director for the Cape Fear March of Dimes, said, “It features the skills and creativity of some of the finest local chefs and hottest restaurants … guests sample tastings of the signature dishes.”

    She also added that along with the food tasting, there will be a silent auction offering packages containing “everything you need to host a holiday party in your home, showcase your business, have a night on the town or pamper yourself with the fi nest in relaxation and luxury.”

    This year’s participating restaurants are: Black Water Grille, Hilltop House Restaurant, Highland Country Club, Morgan’s Chop House, Pierro’s Italian Bistro, ScrubOaks Restaurant, Sherefe Mediterranean Grill and Steve The Southern Gourmet.

    Beer and wine will be provided by Healy Wholesale, while coffee will be courtesy of the folks at Rude Awakening. An evening like this is not complete without music, so get ready to be thoroughly entertained by national jazz recording artist Reggie Codrington.

    The Signature Chefs Auction will be held on Nov. 20 at the Hotel Bordeaux & Conference Center from 5:30 to 8:45 p.m. Lorna Ricotta of Ethos Creative Group is this year’s chairwoman. Wells Fargo Home Mortgage, Cape Fear Neonatology Service and New Century Bank are corporate sponsors. Tickets are $75 each or $125 per couple. Tables with reserved seating for eight are available for $750. Remember, there are a very limited number of tickets available so to get yours, contact Heindselman at 483-3691 or online at cheindselman@matchofdimes.com.

    The 2011 Signature Chefs Auction Ambassador is Jackson Brooks, the son of Jennifer & Tim Brooks. Jackson, born at 25 weeks gestational age, weighed just slightly more than 2 lbs as a newborn. As a result, he spent nearly three months in the NICU at Cape Fear Valley Medical Center. He received treatments developed through March of Dimes funding.

    Preventing birth defects and infant mortality is the key focus of the March of Dimes. The Cape Fear Division is headquartered in Fayetteville and includes the counties of Cumberland, Robeson, Scotland, Sampson, Lee, Moore, Hoke and Harnett. So, plan to come out and support a fantastic cause, come hungry and make sure that little black dress (or suit) has plenty of breathing room.

    Photo: The Cape Fear Division of the March of Dimes is hosting its annual Signature Chefs Auction on Nov. 20

     

  • DISPATCHES FROM VENUS AND MARS

    Sexual harassment in the American workplace continues to be a mysterious issue that torments men and women at all ends of the social, professional and political spectrums.

    Republican Presidential hopeful Herman Cain and his expanding circle of accusers are but the latest to duke this troubling issue out on a very public stage, and there are countless people who struggle with it in tortured privacy. Occasionally, it is obvious that a wrong — maybe even an actual assault — has occurred, but many times the issue boils down to this.

    11-16-11-margaretart.jpgWhat the heck is sexual harassment?

    My first and only up close and personal encounter with what might be termed sexual harassment took place in the hallway of the office of my second employer.

    I was freshly out of college, thrilled to be working in a well-respected company and eager to learn and to succeed in my chosen industry.

    My-entry level position required that I go with my immediate boss to the private office of the big boss for a regularly scheduled meeting. The big boss was a man of significant achievements and is still remembered as a pioneer in his industry. He evoked respect and sometimes fear in those who worked with, and certainly in those who worked for, him.

    At the time I arrived at his legendary business, he was relinquishing the reins to younger family members, although he did appear in his office every day from about 10 to 2, accompanied by his wife/secretary who watched him like a hawk. He was probably 85 or older, which seemed impossibly ancient from my early 20-something vantage point.

    One day as I followed my immediate boss down the hallway for this regular meeting, I felt a solid pinch to my posterior and turned around to see the big boss, a now-tiny old fellow shrunken to be shorter than I, grinning up at me like an imp with his eyes all a-twinkle. Somehow, he had momentarily escaped the eagled-eyed wife who obviously had his number and was pleased as punch to be loose in the hall!

    To say I was fl abbergasted hardly describes my reaction.

    I was speechless with shock and riveted to that spot in the hallway. I am still surprised when I think of this little incident today.

    But what really happened?

    Was this inappropriate behavior by the biggest boss of all to a very junior member of his staff? You betcha!

    Was this sexual harassment? Did I feel I was being asked to do something I did not want to do or that my job was being threatened?

    I do not mean to make light of sexual harassment in the workplace. It is a real phenomenon that causes untold distress and damages careers on all sides. The problem is that it is just so dif cult to define, much less to prove.

    Using the little example from the mists of my own career, what were the big boss’s intentions? Did he think he was acting inappropriately? Did he intend for me to feel threatened by that pinch? Was this a pattern of behavior or was it a one-time impulse by a man heading into his sunset who just happened to feel frisky one day when opportunity walked down the hall?

    And how did I react? Was I frightened? Did I fear a repeat or that this incident might haunt my career with his company and possibly beyond?

    What if I had called the incident sexual harassment and made an issue of it?

    To my knowledge, no one saw this happen, even though I did tell my immediate boss about it and we had a good chuckle over the notion of the big boss’s “escape” from the Mrs. There were no bruises, so how could I have proven that the incident ever occurred?

    The big boss, a well known and well-respected man, could have simply denied that pinch and dismissed my allegations as not only false but mercenary.

    That is the underlying problem with charges of sexual harassment.

    Like art, sexual harassment is in the eye of the beholder.

    Maybe the big boss did intend something nefarious and I did not understand, or maybe I should have felt more threatened than I did even if he did not intend anything more than actually occurred.

    Moreover, not only may the parties involved perceive the situation differently, but even when both know that something quite untoward has occurred, it is virtually impossible to prove one way or the other. Short of an actual witness, a recording or a smoking gun of a blue dress with DNA on it, sexual harassment is too often reduced to a case of “he said, she said.”

    All of which brings us back to Herman Cain and the women who allege he sexually harassed them. I suspect that as in most such cases, we will never know what happened between Cain and any of them.

    Voters considering supporting Cain will simply have to use their own best judgment.

    Photo: Like art, sexual harassment is often in the eye of the beholder. What happened and who did what to who often is hard to prove and harder still to understand.

  • 11-16-11-hamont-grill.jpgEstablished in 1946, the Hamont Grill and Steakhouse, is not only Fayetteville’s oldest family-owned restaurant to stay in the same location, but it has also been a prominent business that has attracted people from all over the world.

    “There’s not a politician in North Carolina or the United States that has come to Fayetteville without visiting here. Generals, presidents, congressmen, you name it,” says Pete Skenteris, former owner of the restaurant.

    Skenteris was the owner of the Hamont Grill and Steakhouse for 55 years and has recently turned over the business to his two sons, Dino and Jimmy.

    “I’m supposed to be retired, but I’m still here,” says Skenteris, who comes in on Tuesday and Saturday mornings to help out at the restaurant.

    Skenteris spent his younger years in Greece and moved to Fayetteville in 1951, when he was just 10 years old.

    “When I came from Greece as a young kid, we had to work to survive. We didn’t speak much English; we didn’t know much of anything. So while I was going to school I started working in a kitchen washing dishes,” says Skenteris.

    When he finished high school in 1956 he went over to a tiny restaurant that was formerly known as Steve’s Grill to work full time. Steve and Skenteris became partners of Steve’s Grill in 1960 and when Steve died in 1967, Skenteris bought the building with the intention of expanding the restaurant.

    “There were five businesses in the building,” says Skenteris, “Part of it was the restaurant, part of it was First Citizens Bank, part of it was the Haymont Shoe Shop, my kitchen was Metropolitan Life Insurance Company, and the front part of it was the Haymount Barber Shop.”

    After purchasing the building, Skenteris told the other four businesses that they had to move out. The First Citizens Bank moved two blocks down, the barber shop moved across the street, and the shoe shop moved to Raeford Road.

    “So they all stayed close by,” says Skenteris.

    After expanding, renaming and running the restaurant for 55 years, Skenteris decided to retire and hand the business over to his sons.

    “When I retired I told them if they want the place they can have it or I’d sublease it,” says Skenteris, “they said they wanted it. They are staying here. I told them they have to take care of the business and take care of the customers like I have been doing for 50 years, and they’re doing a good job…they’re doing well.”

    Jimmy Skenteris, Pete’s son and present owner of the restaurant, says that business has been good considering the economy.

    “I’m enjoying it,” says Jimmy, “I remember being 5 years old running around the restaurant. I’ve always liked the restaurant business.”

    While the Hamont Grill and Steakhouse is under new management, it has also recently had the interior renovated in order to accommodate customers and keep it up to date.

    “Of course this place has been here since 1946, and we have to bring it up-to-date so we put in new booths, new tables, new fl oors, new ceilings, new fans and handicapped bathrooms,” says Skenteris, “As we’re getting older a lot of my friends and customers who have been eating with me for the past 50-60 years are having problems getting around and a lot of them have walkers and wheelchairs. It was time to bring it up to date to help our customers and our business.”

  • 11-16-11-harvest-train.jpgFalcon Children’s Home has dedicated more than 100 years to helping kids. In fact, the majority of their charges are from Cumberland County. Caring for children can be an overwhelming and exhausting task. Providing for numerous children, who come from difficult circumstances is another business entirely. The logistics, resources and energy required all multiply — never mind the emotional investment, determination and compassion that goes into it. Even in the best of times, it can be tough making ends meet, but that’s not anything new.

    Harvest Train is a 62-year-old tradition that provides the community with an opportunity to make a difference in kids lives by fi lling in the gaps and meeting the needs of the children who reside there by donating things like school supplies, toiletries and cleaning products.

    This year, Harvest Train is scheduled for Tuesday, Nov. 22 in the town of Falcon. It starts with a parade at 8:30 a.m. and ends with a program titled A Place Called There at the J.A. Culbreth Memorial Auditorium at 10:30 a.m. Lunch will be served on campus immediately following the program.

    Harvest Train is a tradition that reaches back to the 1940s when Falcon Children’s Home was struggling to make ends meet. The local women’s ministry groups from several churches started the “Santa Clause Train.”

    The churches rallied and collected items and raised money throughout the year. When it came time for the parade, they met up in Dunn and would make a caravan and drive down I-95 to the Falcon exit. Children from the home watched and waited for the caravan to drive down the streets of Falcon. People in the parade would throw candy to the kids and made the entire event quite festive. After the parade, the children would perform in the auditorium as a way to say thank-you to their benefactors.

    The parade doesn’t start in Dunn anymore, but the parade is something the children look forward to with great anticipation and the supplies are still very much appreciated by the students and the staff.

    If you can’t make it to the event but would still like to help or make a donation, visit www.falconchildrenshome.com or give them a call at 980-1065.

    Photo: Some of Falcon Children’s Home’s earliest charges.

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