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Swap and Shop: Support local business, reduce waste

Swap and Shop events are more than just gatherings; they are powerful platforms for fostering community, sustainability, and economic empowerment. By bringing together like-minded individuals, these events facilitate the exchange of goods in a way that reduces waste and promotes a circular economy. Instead of letting unused items clutter space or end up in landfills, they will get a second life.
17These events create a sense of community, as participants connect over shared values and interests. The interactions that occur at Swap and Shop events can lead to lasting relationships and a stronger local network. It's an opportunity to engage in meaningful conversations about sustainability, fashion, and the importance of supporting local businesses.
Participating in a Swap and Shop event is simple and rewarding. First, gather clothing or wardrobe items that are no longer worn but still in good condition. These could be clothes, accessories, or even shoes that someone else might find joy in. For the upcoming event hosted by Saucha Living and Room2Tailor, bringing 5 or more items will reduce the entry fee from $30 to $20.
Once the items have been selected, head to the event location—Blissful Alchemists at 414 Ray Ave—on May 10 at 2 p.m. Tickets not only grant access to the event but also include a drink voucher for a delicious, alcohol-free beverage from the Sober Bartender.
Enjoy a day of swapping, shopping, and connecting with other women who share a passion for sustainable living.
Pre-registration is required for this event. To register and purchase tickets, visit https://tinyurl.com/3hyxvc96. Tickets are limited.

Swap Rules
1. No Grumpy-Gretchens or Selfish-Susan’s will be tolerated.
2. Bring a shopping bag & hangers for donation items, as needed.
3. No swapping of items until the Hosts give the announcement.
4. Guests may only have 5 items in hand during the group’s first 15-minute swap.
5. Hosts will announce when Final Swap begins.
At this time, attendees can hoard as much as their bags and hands can hold.
6. Put anything in the “Safe Zone” you don’t want taken. All clothing not on your body or in your shopping bag(s) will be considered fair game!
7. Any disagreements will be decided by a coin toss facilitated by event hosts
8. No messy food/drinks near the clothing.
9. Introduce yourself to someone new and have fun.

Swap & Shop Agenda
2 p.m. to 2:45 p.m.: Welcome- Check in at the table to receive the swap rules, full itinerary, and drink ticket. Guests will have time to stage donated items (self-guided), browse the event, and enjoy mingling with others. Clear signage and a map will guide attendees to where to place their donations. Drink tickets will be good for one mocktail from The Sober Bartender.
2:45 p.m. to 3:45 p.m.: Group Swapping – To ensure a fair and enjoyable experience for all, swapping during this time will be in groups. Groups will be called in order, allowing everyone a fair chance to explore and choose new treasures.
4 p.m. to 5 p.m.: Final Time, Swap Away- Select as many items as your heart desires. Items that are not spoken for will be donated to Fayetteville Urban Ministries.

Embracing Sustainable Fashion
Sustainable fashion is about making mindful choices that consider the environmental and social impacts of our clothing. Participation in a Swap and Shop event means embracing a more sustainable approach to fashion. Swapping clothes extends the life cycle of garments, reducing the need for new production and minimizing waste.
In addition to swapping, consider the materials and manufacturing processes behind the clothes.
Opt for items made from eco-friendly materials or those produced by ethical brands. Contribute to a more sustainable fashion industry and set an example for others to follow by making these choices.


Making an Impact: Supporting HEAL and Fayetteville Urban Ministry
The Swap and Shop event provides an opportunity to support important causes. Proceeds from ticket sales will benefit HEAL, a nonprofit organization dedicated to holistic recovery and wellness. HEAL offers prevention services and support for individuals and families affected by substance use, trauma, mental health challenges and military-related PTSD.
Additionally, any unclaimed swap items will be donated to Fayetteville Urban Ministry, an organization committed to serving the local community through various programs and services. Participation in this event means embracing sustainable fashion and contributing to the well-being of the community. Together, we can make a meaningful impact.

Explore dark side of Fayetteville with true crime tour

Are there any True Crime fans out there? Do you know about the Eastburn family murders of 1985? Or the 1970 murder of the family of Jeffrey MacDonald? What about what Ann Simpson did to her husband in 1850? Sign up for the Fayetteville True Crime Tour to learn about these stories and more.
The Fayetteville True Crime Tour is an intriguing venture by Triangle Walking Tours, an organization based in Durham. Triangle Walking Tours was founded with the mission to share the fascinating history of North Carolina with enthusiasts of all kinds. Despite the Piedmont region of North Carolina often being overlooked as a historical treasure trove, Triangle Walking Tours aims to challenge this perception.
16aTheir Fayetteville True Crime Tour is a unique offering that explores the darker aspects of the city's history. The tour was created to shed light on the often-overlooked stories of crime and intrigue that have shaped Fayetteville through the years.
The next available tour is Saturday, May 10 at 4 p.m. Each tour runs for an hour and is priced at $15 per individual. To see all the dates the tour is running and to purchase tickets, visit: https://tinyurl.com/mrx3zxcs
One of the most fascinating aspects of the Fayetteville True Crime Tour is its focus on notorious poisonings and dark conspiracies. These tales delve into the grim history of secret plots and lethal deceptions that have left an indelible mark on the city.
Participants will hear about infamous cases of poisoning that baffled authorities and terrified the community, revealing the lengths some individuals would go to achieve their sinister goals.
The tour also covers some of the most shocking prison breaks and daring escapes in Fayetteville's history. These stories highlight the audacity and cunning of individuals who managed to outwit the authorities and escape from confinement.
Visitors will learn about the dramatic events that unfolded during these escapes and the subsequent manhunts that gripped the community, showcasing the relentless pursuit of justice in the face of adversity.
No true crime tour would be complete without delving into the infamous murders that have left a lasting impact on Fayetteville. From familial murders that tore families apart to serial killings that sent shockwaves through the community, these stories are both chilling and thought-provoking.
The tour provides an in-depth look at the circumstances surrounding these crimes, the investigations that followed, and the lasting legacy they have left on the city. The tour group will meet up at Winterbloom Tea, located in Downtown Fayetteville at 238 Hay Street.
The Fayetteville True Crime Tour offers a unique opportunity to explore the darker side of the city's history in a way that is both educational and engaging. For true crime enthusiasts and history buffs alike, this tour provides a fascinating glimpse into the events that have shaped Fayetteville over the years.

Fayetteville’s Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown takes center stage

High energy hits the stage with the arrival of the 9th Annual Fayetteville’s Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown to the Crown Complex on May 17. The battle for Best Lip Syncer—in youth and adult categories—benefits the Child Advocacy Center and reigns as one of the All-America City’s most entertaining shows. Presented by Fayetteville Academy, the 2025 Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown’s lights-music-action energy is a can’t-miss.
The creative Lip Sync Showdown is the CAC's spring major fundraiser and signature event. Since 2017, the fun promotion has raised money and awareness for the Center, a 501 (c) (3) charitable organization with a multi-disciplinary approach to caring for abused children. By attending and supporting the Showdown, sponsors, show participants and eventgoers become community partners with the CAC in its mission to respond to and prevent child abuse. Event proceeds help provide healing and hope to the over 700 child abuse victims with whom CAC volunteers and staff work.
12For the second year, Fayetteville’s Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown presents two performances in the Crown Center Ballroom. The youth matinee at 1 p.m. includes groups with one or more performers under 18. With recommended dress of casual to cocktail, the ticket price is $25 plus taxes and fees if purchased online. The 7 p.m. evening features adult-only performers ages 18+. Evening showgoers will enjoy a catered meal with dessert options and a cash bar; cocktail dress is suggested. The nighttime show ticket is $75 plus taxes and fees if purchased online. View all seating and pricing options here https://www.crowncomplexnc.com/events/detail/fayettevilles-ultimate-lip-sync-showdown-3
Tickets can also be purchased in person at the Crown Box Office, located at 1960 Coliseum Dr.
A live DJ, show emcees, professional audio, custom stage lighting and a 3D photo booth keep the party pumping, both day and night. Table pompoms and hand-clappers, raffle tickets, an interactive dessert station and People’s Choice cash-donation ballot vases create audience interaction opportunities before, after and between the clapping, cheering, laughing and fever-pitch crowd responses the show always elicits. The Lip Sync performers may not have cut a record or signed a contract, but their Fayetteville fans follow them just the same.
Returning in 2025 are the 2024 winners: youth ensemble, The Miracles, comprised of local young actors with Cape Fear Regional Theatre ties, and the adult group formerly known as The Six Merry Murderesses, led by Casey Benander of Haymount Homes. High school theater department members from E.E. Smith, Terry Sanford, Fayetteville Academy, homeschools and other K-12 groups are on the lineup for the matinee. Adult Lip Syncers include groups from Womack Army Hospital, Keller Williams Real Estate, the office of Spring Lake Mayor Kia Anthony and Dancing Without Sin studio owner Stephanie Brown Kegler as “Tina Turner,” among numerous others. From musical theater selections, The Lion King, The Addams Family Musical, Legally Blonde, Newsies, Grease and Pitch Perfect, to hits and hipsters from the past, Ultimate Lip Sync competitors, past and present, are in it to win it! A $500 cash prize will be given to the winner of each show; performing acts are judged on the criteria of lip sync ability, stage presence, choreography, costumes, crowd appeal and preshow fundraising.
According to Event Chair Karen B. Tisdale, over 100 performers have signed up to participate in the 2025 competition, which is expected to be better than ever despite changing months from April to May.
“We've become more of an established event, and we're getting groups that are putting more effort into their performances, more choreography,” she said. “Last year was the first time we split and did two shows. So, continuing in that vein allows more performance groups to come in. The more developed the event, the bigger and better it gets.”
“It's my favorite event all year,” Tisdale continued enthusiastically. “It's so fun. It's fun to sit in the audience and watch. It's fun to be on stage. It's fun to be backstage.”
The Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown has raised upward of $30-$40K for the CAC each year.
“We hope to raise $50K this year,” Tisdale shared. “It's such a fun, high-energy event. It's just fantastic.”
Pre-fundraising among the participating groups contributes to the overall goal and is another way for the entrants to showcase creativity. From raffling tickets and washing cars to selling lemonade and hosting donation dance classes, the designated proceeds “go to the CAC for its mission,” Tisdale said. “We have adult groups that do Facebook and online social media fundraisers that bring in quite a bit for the CAC.”
Hired as the CAC Executive Director in June 2024, John Webster is excited to experience his first Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown with the agency this year. Expressing gratitude for the event’s legacy, he said, “As the Executive Director of the Child Advocacy Center and as a representative of the CAC staff and its Board of Directors, but more importantly, on behalf of the children we serve, I would like to thank everyone who has supported Fayetteville's Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown in the past. I encourage corporate and individual sponsors and supporters to come out again and support this super fun fundraiser benefiting the work of the CAC. Karen Tisdale and her amazing planning committee work tirelessly to make this event bigger and better each year, so I know this year's event will be lots of fun for all who attend! The work of the CAC is vital to Fayetteville and the entire county as we strive to be a place of healing and hope for child victims of abuse by offering forensic interviews and counseling for victims as well as providing prevention education for parents, professionals and agencies in our community. Please plan to purchase tickets and come out for a great time while benefiting the children we serve.”
Unleash your inner rockstar and join in this year’s event. Don't miss the chance to win big and earn bragging rights as the Fayetteville Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown Champion. Sign up now or buy your ticket to attend. Stardom awaits!

(Photo: The Six Merry Murderesses pose for a photo after the Ultimate Lip Sync Showdown in 2024)

Veterans take the wheel: Community gathers for overland fundraiser at Static Line Brewing

On Armed Forces Day, May 17, the veteran community in Harnett County will gather for a special cause at Static Line Brewing Company, a veteran-owned and operated craft brewery located at 1671 Buffalo Lake Road, Sanford. The event—an Overland-Themed Car Show Fundraiser—is a collaboration between Static Line and Mind Over Land, a North Carolina-based 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to reconnecting veterans with the outdoors through vehicle-based adventures.
14The fundraiser, which runs from 1 p.m. to 4 p.m., will showcase a wide range of off-road vehicles: Jeeps, Toyotas, overland rigs, and trucks—each a testament to freedom, grit, and individuality. Participants can register their vehicles for a $10 entry fee, while attendees can vote for their favorite rig for just $2 per ticket. In addition to the car show, there will be a raffle featuring an overland fridge generously donated by a supporting company from Asheville, with all proceeds going directly to support veteran outdoor excursions.
“We wanted to hold this event on Armed Forces Day as a way to honor those who serve, have served, and continue to serve,” said retired Chief Petty Officer Chad Bruner, one of the co-founders of Mind Over Land. “Everything we raise goes back into our mission. We’re 100% donation-funded, and we don’t charge veterans to participate in our events.”
Mind Over Land is led by three retired military leaders: Chief Warrant Officer 4 Seth Smith, Chief Master Sgt. Jonathan Shores and Bruner. Each brings years of service experience and a shared passion for healing through nature and camaraderie. Their nonprofit was born from a desire to streamline services and focus on one core mission—connecting veterans with each other and the outdoors.
“An earlier group tried to do too many things for too many people,” Bruner explained, referring to a previous initiative called True Patriot Inc. “We decided we were going to do one thing really well—facilitating overland-style vehicle adventures where veterans can disconnect from daily stress and reconnect with nature, purpose, and each other.”
Mind Over Land’s programs are immersive and comprehensive. Veterans are not asked to pay out of pocket. The organization provides everything: transportation, food, fuel, gear, and campground fees. They even waive the $50 registration hold fee if a veteran is experiencing hardship.
“We had to turn away over 100 veterans last year,” Bruner said. “Not because we didn’t want them, but because we didn’t have the funding to make the trips possible. That’s why fundraisers like this one with Static Line are so important.”
Static Line Brewing Company, owned by Steven Khoo, a veteran himself, serves more than just award-winning craft beer—it provides a gathering place for veterans and civilians alike to share stories, support one another, and foster community. Khoo, whose brewery website is www.staticlinebeer.com, has long been a supporter of local veteran initiatives.
“The veteran community is very self-supportive,” Bruner said. “We all understand each other. Businesses like Static Line get what we’re trying to do, and they step up. Steven Khoo offered us his parking lot and brewery space for this event because he understands the mission—it’s about more than beer. It’s about belonging.”
This Armed Forces Day event isn’t just a one-off; Mind Over Land hopes it marks the beginning of a new tradition.
“If we get enough support this year, we’d love to make this an annual event,” Bruner said. “And maybe even expand to different areas.”
Looking ahead, Mind Over Land has set an ambitious but inspiring goal: to impact 10,000 veterans in 10 years. With increasing demand for their services and a proven model of healing through outdoor connection, they’re confident, but they need the public’s support to get there.
“Our biggest limitation is funding,” Bruner stated plainly. “We’re not asking for a handout. We’re asking people to partner with us in making a real difference. Come out to the event, register your vehicle, vote, buy a raffle ticket, or just enjoy a cold beer. Every action helps a veteran.”
The Overland-Themed Car Show Fundraiser is more than a display of rugged vehicles—it’s a symbol of resilience, camaraderie, and the road to healing. With beer in hand, engines humming, and veterans at the center, May 17 promises to be a meaningful day for all who attend.
For more information about the event or how to get involved, visit www.staticlinebeer.com or follow Mind Over Land on social media.

(Photos courtesy of Mind Over Land's Facebook page)

Spring Fling at Legends Bar benefits “One of our own”

Make Fayetteville your home for any length of time, and you may catch wind of a local spot that is fittingly known as Legends Pub. Owner Holly Whitley isn’t kidding when she talks of the “family” that has grown around the institution through the years. For her, it’s a natural fit.
"It’s not hard — after 29 years, it becomes a way of life, probably more than anything," she said. The place is known for its wide appeal to the military, veterans, and bikers.
When she bought the bar 29 years ago it became home to her friend group, lovingly dubbed “The Gypsy Women” by the community. From there, they began hosting an annual party at the bar, which would eventually become the Spring Fling. Initially, a chance for the community to have fun, they ultimately transitioned the event to a benefit in the wake of a friend’s motorcycle accident. It’s now their largest of the year and spans three days.
Over its lifetime, the pub has grown with Whitley and her family in addition to growing a family of its own.
12b"My children were teenagers when I bought the bar - my grandchildren know about the bar. They understand what it does for the community," she explained. “They’ve always been very supportive of the bar.”
Whitely says she's had the privilege of watching patrons’ children grow up, being a place that supports military families, and hosting annual memorials and tributes.
“I’ve watched military careers go from beginning to retirement. I’ve watched friends and their children and grandchildren as they grow up and have their first drink at Legends Pub.”
One of those tributes, an annual toast and poker run in honor of Staff Sergeant Scott D. Sather, is of particular significance for Whitley.
A friend of Whitley’s and regular patron at Legend’s, Sather was killed in action on April 8, 2003, in Northern Iraq. According to the Combat Control Foundation, “his death marked the first combat casualty for the US Air Force during Operation Iraqi Freedom.” Whitley says the tribute often brings back patrons she hasn’t seen in a while who want to take part in keeping Sather’s memory alive.
“He has been remembered greatly in our bar and by the whole community,” she said.
This commitment to honoring and supporting each other underscores the familial bonds formed by many of Legend’s regulars. The bar serves as a hub for those who don’t have connections nearby.
“A lot of us in this area - this military town - decided to stay,” Whitley explained. “Some of us don't have any other family besides our immediate family. Several people are by themselves, their families live elsewhere. We're always there for each other, for birthdays and celebrations, and to comfort each other during bad times and to be supportive like this.”
Another patron, Mike Slater, is the beneficiary of this year’s Spring Fling. Like many chosen family members who frequent the bar, Whitley has lost track of exactly how long
she’s known Slater.
“Twenty years or so,” she speculated. “It’s hard to say, I don’t really remember. Everything becomes a blur. So, several years, let’s put it that way.”
Slater was recently diagnosed with stage 4 Metastatic Melanoma, and Whitely hopes the Spring Fling will be an opportunity for the community to make a difference as Slater and his wife, Pam, face this battle. A Facebook announcement from Legends bar said the two were facing the diagnosis with “incredible strength, faith, and determination,” and concluded by rallying attendees behind these words, “Let’s stand together, celebrate community, and make a difference! Together we fight. Together, we support. Together, we are family.” One commenter said, “Yes, yes, yes!!! I’ll be there to support Mike and the Legend’s Pub family!”
The Spring Fling will take place Friday, May 2, Saturday, May 3, and Sunday, May 4. The schedule of events:12a
Friday: Pool tournament and pre-party.
Saturday: Scott Sather Memorial Poker Run, first bike out, Pig Pickin’, auction.
Sunday: Bike Show (Sign-up, 1 p.m., judging, 3 p.m.)
Categories and prizes:
1903 -1990, Best of Show.
1991 -present, Best of Show.
On display at the Spring Fling will be a Superbird restored by John Breach, recently featured in Mopar Magazine.
“I love to feature something that a friend of mine has taken from a burned-out junk car to such a beautiful machine,” Whitley explained.
While Legends is known as a biker bar, she believes patrons will appreciate seeing the work that has gone into restoring the vehicle.
“We call ourselves the oldest biker bar in Fayetteville, but you know, we have such a wide range of people,” she said. “What he has been able to do as far as restoring cars is, I think, quite phenomenal.”
While Whitely is deeply enthusiastic about the experience the Spring Fling offers car and bike aficionados, she doesn’t lose sight of the mission. Attendees comment particularly on the concern and care shown for Legend family members who need support.
“I’ve had people over the years turn around and say, ‘I’ve never seen anything to this level.’” She continued, “I’ve watched people come here for the first time and the next thing you know, they’re sitting around six other people that you know are regulars and just enjoying themselves.”
Whether a regular or newcomer, Whitley is certain that community members will find their place at Legends Spring Fling.
“The way the group comes together,” she shared, “It’s something to experience.”

(Photos: Top photo: Holly Whitley's crew of women at Legends Pub have become known as the "Gypsy Women" by the local community. Whitley has been the owner of Legends for 29 years.
Bottom photo: Holly Whitley and her bartenders are the Gypsy Women at Legends Pub. Legends is hosting their 29th Annual Spring Fling starting May 2. The proceeds from this year's event will go to help offset the costs of care for Mike Slater, one of the regulars at Legends. "Let's stand together, celebrate community, and make a difference!" Legends' announcement proclaims. Photos by Aly Hansen)

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