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  • Moneyball  (Rated PG-13) 2 STARS10-12-11-movie-review.jpg

    Moneyball (133 minutes) is not breaking any ground in the sport’s movie plot department. Much like every other sports movie, ever, an underdog (name a sport) team tries to (name a new strategy) so they can reverse their losses. But wait! (name authority figure) doesn’t believe it will work! But this team has heart, so after ignoring the experts who did not believe in them, they insist on trying (repeat name of new strategy). At the end of the day, the team wins an award/proves they can win/learns that winning isn’t everything.

    Two hours in the theater and that is what I am taking away from the whole experience. The film opens on the Oakland Athletics’ as they wrap up their 2001 season. They have just lost to the Yankees by a couple of hits, and they are about to lose the heart of their team, Johnny Damon, Jason Giambi, and Jason Isringhausen. Their general manager, Billy Beane (Brad Pitt) struggles to maintain the competitiveness of the team despite having the lowest salary budget in the league.

    While roaming the Earth to recruit players, Beane runs into Peter Brand (Jonah Hill). Brand has clearly read Freakonomics and he is pushing for a math-ematical assessment of players’ value. Bean is working through some issues related to the way he was recruited, which is revealed to the audience via some helpful soft-focus flashbacks.

    Convinced that Brand’s focus on recruiting otherwise undesirable players will pay off, Beane hires him and they start convincing random scouts and own-ers that they are smarter than they look. After making peace with the scouts, the scene shifts to dealing with Manager Art Howe (Philip Seymour Hoffman, chan-neling Tommy Lasorda a lot more effectively than he is channeling Howe). Howe insists on playing the roster his way rather than following the formula designed by Beane and Brand.

    Beane responds by trading the lone remaining superstar player so that Howe has no choice but to follow the strategy. Of course, the media gives the manager all the credit for the result-ing, record-breaking, winning streak. Flush with the prov-en success of the method he championed, and probably more than little bit pumped at having alpha-maled Howe, Beane wanders the locker rooms sprinkling words of wis-dom and motivation over the players’ heads.

    There are some nice scenes in the middle of the movie introducing players who are in it for the love of the game, who aren’t making a ton of money, and who are either trying to find their way into a secure contract after being labeled a liability or are on their way out, and struggling to hang on.

    There is also a brief scene introducing Beane’s ex-wife (Robin Wright) that serves to encapsulate Beane’s life. Basically, he had a lot of potential that he didn’t live up to, so the people he was relying on to support him hung him out to dry.

    This is a good example of a sports movie. If you like sports movies, you will like this. Moneyball’s strength lies in focusing on the dramatic tension inherent to the coach/general manager relationship, and the media scrutiny and second-guessing. The film is weakest when addressing non-team related issues. The flashbacks to Beane’s recruitment seem emotionally disconnected from the rest of the film, and the scenes with his ex-wife and daughter (Kerris Dorsey) seemed tacked on. I get that the director/writers tried to add an emotional center to the film, but I don’t think I am alone in saying the game itself is the only emotional center you really need.

    Now showing at Wynnsong 7, Carmike 12 and Carmike Market Fair 15.

  • 10-12-11-senior-corner.jpgAs Baby Boomers who are also caregiv-ers for elderly parents, we know firsthand of the situation Jonathan Rauch recently shared in Reader’s Digest September 2011 issue. His story began as he was attempting to move his 80-year-old father closer to him in Alexandria, Va. so that appropriate care could be provided.

    That move eventually happened, but not before many months of falls, calls from neigh-bors and resistance from the father who said he was “fine” and wanted to be left alone. During the heart-wrenching experience, Rauch sponta-neously shared his frustrations with a variety of people. They might have been shocked at what he said, but some listeners offered concern and sometimes good advice. But Rauch continued to think: How could so many people be unpre-pared for one of life’s near certainties?

    That is a great question!

    1. Do we not want to admit that our parents will age?

    2. Don’t we say that the two guarantees in life are death and taxes?

    3. Didn’t we watch our parents care for their parents?

    4. Isn’t the news full of information about diseases, retirement options, se-nior living communities, long term care insurance and Medicare?

    5. Isn’t AARP the largest lobbying group in the country?

    6. Are we blinded to think it will happen to other people … just not us?

    Actually, if we are fortunate enough to have family members live long enough, we will most likely need to provide care for them. That care may in-clude: bill paying, medication monitoring, coordinating doctor visits, grocery shopping and driving for them. These needs could expand into dealing with safety issues such as hygiene, nutrition and fall prevention.

    Regardless of which specific needs the parent has, adult children can benefit from having support from other people who are “in the same boat.” But where is this support of-fered?

    • Area Agency on Aging

    • Reading periodicals: Up & Coming Weekly, Stroke Connection Magazine, Caring Today Magazine, etc.

    • Some Local churches have groups focusing on Children of Aging Parents.

    • Support Groups for target groups sponsored through medical and rehabilita-tion centers: such as Stroke, Parkinson’s or Alzheimer’s Support Groups

    • Neighborhood Recreation Centers• Websites: www.caregiverstress.com

    • Friends and relatives

    • Professional Caregivers

    Essential in the process of caring for a loved one is not feeling alone in the process. It is helpful and possibly necessary to seek fellow-ship among others experiencing the same concerns as you. Consider starting a group if one is not available in your neighborhood or church. You can do this by yourself, but why would you want to when there is support out there?

  • 10-05-11-picture-it.jpgAn initiative of the Young Adult Library Services Assocation, Teen Read Week is celebrated annually at thousands of public libraries, schools and booksellers. Teen Read Week is officially Oct. 16-22, but the Cumberland County Public Library and Information Center is choosing to celebrate all month.

    This year the theme is Picture It. The library is embracing this theme and has two month-long programs to engage local teens.

    The first one is the Teen Read Art Show at West Regional Branch. It is an opportunity for teens to show off their talent. Teens are invited to submit artwork for display throughout the month of October. There will be prizes including ribbons and gift cards, although people can enter their work without competing. Find out more at 487-0440.

    Taking the Picture It theme in a different direction, Headquarters Library is having a photo scavenger hunt. Teens can go to the TeenSpace at Your Library Facebook page, the library’s website or any of the Cumberland County branch locations and get the list of items for the scavenger hunt.

    “We are hoping the teens will be really creative,” said Missy Lang, assistant youth services coordinator. “For example, if the list included a license plate, and someone sent in a picture of a funny or interesting vanity plate, we would consider that as a winner for most creative. We really want them to have fun with this.”

    Here are the rules that are posted on the Cumberland County Public Library and Information Center website: The library is using Flickr for this contest, since it allows tagging and grouping, and teens can create a free account. The contest tags (which need to be added to each photo in your submission set exactly as listed) are: CCPLIC teenreadweek2011 photoscavengerhunt. Please label your pictures with the item and number taken from the list. Create a set for all of your photos so that viewers can see all your work together and leave comments. There will be one winner and one runner up for this contest. To be eligible, participants must submit 31 separate pictures, must be the creators of the photos and the pictures must be taken during the month of October 2011. Cheating isn’t nice. Don’t do it. A three-judge panel of library staff will select a winner based on creativity and photo quality.

    “We are excited about this contest and hope that we can get a lot of teens to participate,” said Lang. “We have many teen related programs at the library, but sometimes people don’t realize that, or for whatever reason they can’t attend. This event is designed to draw in those teens who can’t always make it to our events but would like to.”

    For more information, please call Missy Lang at 483-7727 ext. 306.

  • uac100511001.jpg Fayetteville Technical Community College opened it’s doors 50 years ago because community leaders at the time realized that it was time to modify the economic out look of the state. They realized it would take a skilled work force to take full advantage of the opportunities the future held for them.

    FTCC President, Dr. Larry Keene is well aware of the great progress the school has made this past half century and he’s looking forward to making the next 50 years just as productive.

    “I am not a hockey player,” said Keene. “But they tell me that when you are playing hockey you skate to where the puck will be — not to where it is — because if you go to where it is right now you will always be late.”

    Like any good hockey player, Keene is positioning FTCC to take the lead in technology, job training and whatever else comes along.

    That includes staying on top of the latest technologies like interactive learning and 3D training opportunities and implementing them within programs that will benefi t students, who then take these skills and talents into the workforce. FTCC currently utilizes these technologies in applications like health care and construction, but the possibilities are endless. Students are able to not only look at an image of a heart on a screen, but they can virtually journey into the heart and learn its functions as they interact with the image. It is a huge leap from what they can learn with just a book and a plastic model.

    One of the things that makes this strategy a success is public/public partnerships and private public/partnerships. In other words, if major manufacturers of products and services fulfi ll a need world-wide FTCC will be there to partner with them, providing education training and working in concert with them to utilize the institution’s effectiveness for their purposes as well. That is the kind of partnership that benefi ts not only industry, but FTCC students and the economy.

    The institution currently partners with several local industries including GoodYear, Time Warner, MJ Soffee, K3, RLM Communications and Clear Path Recycling to provide job training for employees. “The Customized Training Program allows us to reach out to local industries and provide state funded training to their employees,” said Brian Haney, executive director of economic development and emerging technologies.

    Century Link is a perfect example of this system at work. Vice President for Learning Technologies, Bobby Ervin became aware of Century Link’s plans to introduce “Prism” — a new digital technology — in the area. It involves bringing 20 – 25 new jobs to Cumberland County and an additional 75 jobs to eastern North Carolina. He reached out to Century Link and now FTCC is providing training to employees and job applicants. In fact, there will be a Career Fair on Oct. 11 at 7 p.m. for those interested in applying for these jobs.

    It would be easy to assume that putting together a training program would be time consuming, especially when it involves high tech objectives, but that is not the case.“

    We live in an area that is rich in talent,” said Haney. “We are able to find people with the right skills and contract with them to meet the needs of our partners, and often it is at a much lower cost than if people were travelling to be trained in another city like Raleigh.10-05-11-ftcc-article.jpg

    ”With one eye on the future, Keene and the other leaders at FTCC have not lost sight of the current needs of FTCC students — and there are many.

    When a student comes to FTCC their objectives are vast and varied. Whether it is retraining for a career switch, preparing for a four-year college, starting a new business, venturing into a new hobby or taking on new skills in hopes of a promotion, FTCC is ready to meet the needs of it’s students.

    When it comes to meeting the needs of both students and industry partners, the staff know how to make it happen.

    “We listen,” said Haney. “Sometimes institutions dictate to their students and partners because they think they know better. We don’t do that. We listen to the needs of the people we are working with and then find ways to meet them.”

    “We are all about jobs,” Ervin added. “We educate and train people, work with corporate partners and do whatever we can to help bring jobs to the community and have people ready to fill them.”

    Find out more about FTCC and their many programs at www.faytechcc.edu or by calling 678-8400.

    Photo: The institution currently partners with several local industries to provide job training for employees.

  • If you are looking for employment in today’s difficult market, this fair may offer just the ticket — and it’s free! The Cumberland County Department of Social Services (DSS), in partnership with other community agencies and businesses, is holding its Fall into Work Job Fair on Wednesday, Oct.12, from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Crown Expo Center.

    More than 100 employers are expected to attend the job fair, and employment opportunities span several fields, including business, education, government, food service and hospitality, childcare, customer service, distribution, healthcare and more.

    “It is free,” said Robert Relyea, employment coordinator with the DSS. “Anybody seeking a job is welcome to come to this. It doesn’t matter where you’re from. In the past, we’ve talked to people from all over the Southeast.”

    “Work First started in 1996, and Gov. (Jim) Hunt wanted all 100 counties in North Carolina through the DSS and Work First program to do an event like a job fair,” Relyea said. “So we did ours, and probably had one of the most successful in the state. Fayetteville Tech was our original partner; in fact, we held the fi rst one at Fayetteville Tech because at the time, we didn’t have our facility set up. We probably had about 45-50 vendors (employers), and we might have had around 1,200 people come through it, which was big back in ’96. We had a much better economy. We decided to keep doing it, and we started doing them here at the agency.”

    Over the years, the agency has held more than 20 such events. The original fair took place in March, and after its positive outcome, the DSS offered another fair in the fall, which was also successful. For 10 years, the agency and its partners offered two fairs a year. Their success contributed to the growth and eventual move of the fair to a larger venue at the Crown Expo Center.

    “We used to have them down here at the DSS,” said Relyea, “but we basically outgrew our area. Parking became a bad issue, so DSS decided we better find a bigger location for the event. And we went from having around 70 or so vendors per event and really having them squeezed together to having 100-plus with plenty of room.”

    The job fair now takes place once a year, and the numbers of attendees and partners have increased as well. Fayetteville Tech has remained a partner, joined by the City of Fayetteville Community Development Department, Beasley Broadcast Group, Inc. and Fayetteville-Cumberland County Chamber of Commerce and business sponsors Fayetteville PWC and Hardee’s restaurants. This year’s turnout is expected to be at least comparable to last year’s.

    “Last year, 4,700 people come through the event,” said Relyea. “This year, we’re hoping to be as helpful, although it would be nice to see fewer people. That might mean the economy is a little bit better off. We’re probably going to see around the same number. Things don’t seem, job wise, a whole lot better than they’ve been in the last year. ”

    And with competition keen for jobs, Relyea offered several valuable points for jobseekers:

    • Bring plenty of résumés and pens, as no resources for making copies exists.

    • Prepare a brief statement about yourself. Employers can spend only a few minutes with each applicant. The more concise you can be with what you have to offer, the better off you’ll be because you’ll give the employer that important information right off the top.

    • Talk to vendors and understand what you need to do next. Understand each vendor’s hiring practice so you will know what to do.

    • Make sure to get a vendor’s name, address and business card. When you leave the job fair, immediately write a thank you note to each vendor for spending time talking with you.

    • Dress well –– neat and presentable. Look representative of the type of jobs you’re going to apply for. If that means a coat and tie, that is what you should wear. Avoid large jewelry; be really conservative in dress and accessories.

    For more information on a great opportunity to meet many potential employers, call (910) 677-2222 or (910) 677-2177 or visit www.ccdssnc.com/Job_Fair.htm.

  • 10-05-11-historic-hauntings.jpgHalloween is right around the corner, so while you’re carving your pumpkins, decorating your house and putting the finishing touches on your costume, go online and purchase your tickets to the 8th Annual Historic Hauntings in downtown Fayetteville.

    The hay ride will depart from the Transportation Museum and Annex every Thursday, Friday and Saturday of the third and fourth weeks in Oct.(October 20-22 and 27-29).

    “We have a wagon that leaves every half hour starting at 6:30 p.m. all the way up until 9:30 each evening.” says Carrie King, executive director of The Dogwood Festival.

    The Historic Hauntings tour consists of an hour hay ride that takes you through downtown Fayetteville to some of the city’s most haunted locations.

    “What we do is not only tell you stories and tales of mayhem and murder, but we also represent things that are historically accurate,” explained King. “So not only are you getting the scare factor, but you’re also getting real fi rst-hand accounts of events that have shaped our community and our history.”

    “We change the tour every year so the patrons are not going to hear the same ghost stories that they heard on the wagon last year,” she noted.

    Some of the stops this year will include Liberty Point, the Cross Creek Cemetery and the Transportation Museum. Each year the tour will take the patrons through the Cross Creek Cemetery and share stories about how some of the residents of the graveyard got there. This year, The Dogwood Festival takes it a step further and will have the patrons get off of the wagon and walk through the cemetery by torchlight.

    “We try to bring in those creepy little elements so you can really catch the eeriness,” says King.

    The Gilbert Theatre has also provided the Historic Hauntings tour with actors and re-enactors who will assist in bringing some of Fayetteville’s ghosts and spirits to life.

    Bruce Daws, the city’s historian, will be an onsite narrator at the Transportation Museum sharing some of his spine-chilling and bizarre stories about railroad accidents.

    “Some of our stories are really interesting, stuff that you’re not going to read about in a history book,” says King.

    This event is open to the general public and the admission is $15 per person.

    King added, “If there’s a hiney on the hay you have to pay.”

    This event can be child friendly, but it is up to the parent’s discretion and if the child is easily scared or not.

    “The cemetery will be pitch dark and the stories are true, so it depends on your child’s scare-factor level,” says King.

    All of the proceeds from the Historic Hauntings tour go to Bruce Daws to help preserve historic Fayetteville and Cumberland County, and to the Cross Creek Cemetery to help repair some of the old headstones that have been there since the early 1800s and those that have been vandalized throughout the years.

    “We definitely don’t spare any details as far as making sure everything that we’re talking about is accurate and putting on the best show for the dollar,” says King.

    Also, make sure to buy your tickets online ahead of time because they sell out fast, and show up early so that the wagon doesn’t leave you alone in the dark!

    For more information or to purchase tickets, visit the website at www.faydogwoodfestival.com/historic-hauntings.

    Photo: The Historic Hauntings tour consists of an hour hay ride that takes you through downtown Fayetteville to some of the city’s most haunted locations. 

  • Who Do You Trust?

    I have been on the road a bit of late, with all the packing and unpacking that goes with travel. It dawned on me during a recent and frantic session that my packing has changed without my being aware of it. It was a small revelation.

    For one thing, I am more organized about it than I used to be.10-05-11-margaret.jpg

    I keep a vanity kit packed at all times with toothpaste, shampoo and the like. It is ready to toss into a suitcase after I add my vitamins and other current items. I keep a stash of no-iron clothes that survive travel, if not exactly unscathed, at least looking like no one slept in them. I have also learned to keep a travel umbrella in my regular suitcase, because you just never know no matter what the forecast says.

    The main difference, though, is what I now deem essential to have that I never imagined in travels past.

    As I left on my most recent jaunt, I had a moment of mini-panic when I thought I had left my mobile phone at home and another when I could not find the charger. Fortunately, I had packed both, and the same charger does double duty by fueling both my phone and my now-necessary tablet computer. The heretofore unknown tablet now goes everywhere I go, and I hardly know what I did without both it and the mobile phone.

    I am comforted by the knowledge that I am hardly alone.

    A stroll through any airport in the entire world reveals thousands of people yakking on their mobiles — or “handies” as they say in Europe, hunched over laptops or cradling tablets in their laps. They do this on planes as well in “airplane mode.”

    Technology makes this possible, of course, and drives us to use it as well. There is an element of “keeping up with the Joneses,” of course, but there are also practical reasons. If the Precious Jewels are going to send me texts, which they do regularly, I have to have a device that can receive them and allow me to respond.

    There is more.

    In what seems increasingly like the olden days, we got most of our news and information from our local newspapers and television, which really meant three networks — ABC, CBS and NBC. Today, the options seem endless. There are hundreds of cable TV channels, some of which seem fairly sketchy to me but are there nonetheless. And, oh my goodness!, the Internet! If there is some topic impossible to search, I have not found it. Online is now the go-to source for news and information of all kinds, so much so that many people wonder what is going to happen to all those libraries full of actual books.

    A recent report by the Pew Research Center and the John S. and James L. Knight Foundation confirms what we are all up to now days, media-wise. We still depend on local newspapers, like Up and Coming Weekly, for local news and information. We read them at least once a week, although we do so increasingly online. Beyond that, media consumption is “Katie, Bar the Door!” Television remains our primary source of news — primarily weather, traffic and breaking stories — but radio and all manner of websites are in the mix as well.

    The bottom line is that we are taking advantage of all the choices technology has brought us.

    The situation is fluid, though, and there are aspects of it I find troubling, most notably that young people gravitate toward “softer” news stories, often passing on the more complex stories. Maybe that is just a matter of maturity, but… A separate Pew Research Center study tells us how confl icted we are about our media. Overwhelmingly, we distrust “the media.” More than two-thirds of us believe news is often inaccurate, that news organizations have agendas and that they are infl uenced by those in power. That is, all media except the outlets we personally like, which we fi nd fair and balanced.

    We feel the same way about our elected offi cials.

    By astounding margins, as much as 90 percent, we disdain Congress as a body but generally like our own representatives and senators. And in what social scientists refer to as “cognitive dissonance” — holding confl icting views at the same time — we do not seem concerned about where our news and information comes from. With so many options available, we lack interest in exactly who is generating our news content, or what, for example, would happen if local newspaper disappeared.

    Who would tell us about local events and discuss local issues? Some website based in China? Who would write the news and disseminate it and would they try to be truthful or to advance their own points of view?

    I am packing for another trip as I write this and have my gizmos stashed for the ride. I know they open new worlds of media, and I know something else about them as well.

    They are driven by human nature, which is as old as time.

    Photo: In what seems increasingly like the olden days, we got most of our news and information from our local newspapers and television, which really meant three networks.

  • 10-05-11-jazz-fest.jpgJazz fans have something to look forward to this month. On Oct. 13 at the Crown Center, prepare to hear some of jazz music’s finest per-formers at the Autumn Jazz Explosion. Performers Jay Soto, Paul Taylor, Warren Hill and Marion Meadows are pulling out all the stops to bring Fayetteville an evening of fabulous jazz music.

    Soto is a guitarist, singer, songwriter, producer, pianist, music in-structor and church music director. With songs on shows like Sex and the City and All About Us, Soto was also the grand finalist in Guitar Center’s Guitarmageddon Competition. With several albums to his name, Soto is a must-have in any jazz performance.

    Paul Taylor’s contemporary urban jazz sound has been honed over the 15 years that he’s been in the business. He’s no stranger to col-laborating. In fact, according to his website, “Paul’s in prime time mode with emotionally powerful 10 song collection of instrumentals and vocals which finds him vibing with a mix of old and new (and very funky) musi-cal friends.”

    In fact, Taylor, Hill and Meadows just finished up the Gentlemen of the Night Tour which was a collaborative effort that took them across the country to perform from California to Virginia.

    Warren Hill began playing the guitar when he was just 7-years-old. By the time he was 14, he was performing in shows in his hometown of Toronto, Canada. The night he graduated from the Berklee College of Music in Boston, he was picked up for a recording project with Chaka Khan. He’s released 11 CDs, been on many tours and is sure to deliver an evening of great entertainment when he comes to the Crown.

    Meadows is a West Virginia native who was raised in Stamford, Conn. He plays the tenor saxophone and soprano sax, is a composer and recording artist. With nine albums to his name, and collaboration projects with many big name performers, Meadows brings passion and experience to this performance.

    It is easy to find accolades for Lorber’s performances in his more than 30-year career in jazz fusion (a mixture of traditional jazz with elements of rock, R&B, funk and other electrified sounds). He started out in Portland, Oregon. And quickly had an international audience.

    Together, these five performers promise a fun-filled evening of smooth jazz.

    The show starts at 7:30 p.m. Ticket prices are $68.00, $55.00 and $48.00 (includes facility fee).

    Tickets are available at the Crown Center Box office and at Ticketmaster.

  • Straw Dogs  (Rated R) 3 Stars10-05-11-movie-review.jpg

    Straw Dogs (110 minutes) is a remake of Sam Peckinpah’s 1971 film, which was itself based on a novel, The Siege of Trencher’s Farm. Thankfully, they kept the übercool poster art. Too bad they also kept the completely unnecessary sexual violence (not original to the novel, FYI).

    Now, I suspect I am in the feminist minority when I say the 1971 original cut used the violence in such a specific way that I am not ready to dismiss the entire scene as a misogynistic waste of the viewer’s time. Of course, much of that sort of criticism is due to the studio’s foolish decision to edit the cut originally released in the U.S. The studio edit was intended to reduce the overall amount of sexual violence, but it tended to reinforce the mistaken idea that “No” means “Yes” by removing crucial scenes.

    The uncut original film showed far more violence towards women, but actually did a better job of demonstrating the female lead’s lack of consent. As far as the remake is concerned though, I don’t think the rape scene served any purpose besides Rob Lurie wanting to be Sam Peckinpah. And this should go without saying, but Lurie is no Peckinpah.

    Having said that, I wasn’t a fan of the original, and I am not a fan of the remake. I will totally give Kate Bosworth credit for doing a much bet-ter job with the complex material than Susan George. I will even say I didn’t hate James Marsden as much as I usually do, what with his Hollywood cheek bones and stupid bouncy hair. If you measure a movie by the amount of conversation it in-spires, than this one isn’t bad.

    The action is moved from the UK to Mississippi, which adds another layer of complexity to already weighty material, adding a commentary on class warfare and hinting at deep seated racial tension. One scene in particular points to a painful lack of beer variety in small southern towns.

    Passive Aggressive Fancy Pants David Sumner (Marsden) and his wife Amy (Bosworth) are taking a vacation from stardom to enjoy some bucolic scenery in Amy’s hometown. They need to hire some contractors to repair the barn roof, so naturally David hires the one guy in town who has a history with his wife. Because David has a pathological need to be liked.

    First, David is angry that Charlie (Alexander Skarsgård) starts too early. Then he is angry that Charlie starts too late. David is super hard to please. Also superhard to please? Coach Tom Heddon (James Woods), who is the violent angry kind of drunk who won’t leave the bar when asked. He spends most of the film starting fights with everyone who is not his daughter, but especially with Jeremy Niles (Dominic “PrisonBreak” Purcell). Jeremy is giving off a bit of a “Lenny” vibe, and I keep waiting for him to ask George about the rabbits.

    After establishing that Amy is not thrilled with David’s plan to move to smalltown America and that Skarsgård is the tallest man on the planet, the contractors promptly begin their work by taking a break to ogle Amy. David engages in some victim blaming, and Amy responds by performing a strip tease for the contractors.

    Despite Amy’s anger, David continues to sing the “Three Best Friends” song from The Hangover, even though the constructions guys are clearly not his friends. As the violent climax approaches, the tension ratchets up, perhaps a bit too quickly. Is the director leaving certain events unknown to lend the inci-dents a certain real life ambiguity? Or is the director moving so quickly in order to emphasize that spur of the moment decisions lead to tragedy?

    Now showing at Wynnsong 7, Carmike 12 and Carmike Market Fair 15.

  • 10-05-11-fyp-logo.jpg“I need a change in my life, but can I really do this now … in my mid 30s?” This is the question that kept crossing my mind almost a year and half ago. I sat in my home in Raleigh, and re-flected on the past 15 years of my life spent in a city that watched me grow from a college kid into the woman I am today. Raleigh gave me an amazing college experience at Peace College, lots of great friends and memories and a starting place for my career. But as I grew-up, life changed, time passed and new journeys began for everyone around me … my friends were getting married, some becoming mothers for the very first time and others moving away for careers. Then there was me; a young, successful professional involved in my community but unable to feel like I had planted my roots. I had been contemplating the idea of moving back to Fayetteville. It was my hometown, my family was still there, friends I grew up with were moving back. Fayetteville was familiar and comfortable. But of course, as with any major life change such as this one … I couldn’t help but wonder … will it be easy to get involved? Will I make friends again with these people that I hadn’t seen in years? Can I make a difference in the community?

    Two nights later, I went to my 10-year college reunion for Peace College. It was there that I ran into Jenny Beaver (a longtime hometown friend and fellow Peace alum) and Kirk deViere. Deep into conversation and catching up with one another, I brought up my idea of moving back home to Fayetteville. Jenny and Kirk were “all for it” and expressed much excitement for me. I told them of my hesitations and then Kirk made a defining comment to me, that at that very moment turned my de-cision to move back to Fayetteville from a “maybe someday” to a definite “Yes!” His words still resonate with me to this day. He said, “Raleigh is a large city with a lot of great possibilities, but Fayetteville is a smaller city with great possibilities. Would you rather be a ‘small fish in a big pond’ or a ‘big fish in a small pond’? Fayetteville is where you can be that “big fish” and where there are a lot of opportunities.”

    Three months later, I packed up my life and took a huge leap of faith... and moved back to Fayetteville.

    Now fast forward a year and half and here I am in Fayetteville, incredibly in-volved, and I can say that my move home was the best decision I have ever made. Last August when I moved home, I made the decision to plant my feet firmly into the Fayetteville community. I transferred my membership from the Junior League of Raleigh to the Fayetteville chapter; I joined the Boys and Girls Club’s of Cumberland County Garden Party Committee to help plan its largest fundraiser of the year, and I joined the Fayetteville Young Professionals. It felt good to be firmly planted in a community. Then my roots began to grow. FYP became a key part of my life immediately. It continually allows me to network both professionally and socially with young professionals that are in the same place in life.

    My roots keep growing … my circle of friends continues to expand with both old and new faces. A lot of these new faces I have met through FYP. My roots are now growing deeper. Today my involvements in the commu-nity continue to increase with the Boys and Girls Club, Child Advocacy Center, Cape Fear Studios, Junior League of Fayetteville, and now I sit on the Executive Committee of FYP as the Social Chair for 2011-2012.

    Today, my roots are planted firmly in this community. I have found home again.

    The Fayetteville Young Professionals is a fantastic avenue to network socially and professionally with young professionals in this community with like interests. We have bi-weekly meet-ups, professional development opportunities, and monthly social events. There are some great upcoming events to be apart of in FYP.

    On Oct. 22, FYP hosts its 3rd Annual Halloween Hike in downtown Fayetteville. Please join us that evening dressed in your best Halloween costume. In November, join us “down by the river,” for our first Oyster Roast; and in December, come out to It’z for our annual Christmas Party … this year it is Tacky Christmas Karaoke, so join us in your tackiest Christmas attire and be ready to sing your heart out! These events are just the start of a great year of fun to come!

    To learn more about FYP, please visit our website at www.fayyp.org. Get involved! Come join FYP! You too, can be the next “big fish!”

  • 09-28-11-boeing.jpgAfter interviewing the visiting artists performing in Boeing, Boeing at the Cape Fear Regional Theatre, I knew it was a show that had the potential for great comedy. I am happy to say, they didn’t disappoint.

    Boeing, Boeing is the story of an American in Paris who is looking for love amidst the airline timetables. The premise is that Bernard, played by veteran actor Gil Brady, is an architect working in Paris. Bernard, a man-about-town, makes friends with a man who works for the airlines. His friend helps him fi nd lonely stewardesses who are also looking for love. Instead of fi nding love ever after, Bernard fi nds love with whoever is on the ground — winding up with three fiancées.

    The fiancées are played by veteran CFRT performers Nicki Hart and Rebekah MacCredie, and West Hollywood-native Case Kalmenson. The three are Italian, German and American, respectively. Each brings a unique dimension to the performance, but MacCredie, a Hope Mills kindergarten teacher, had a particularly strong performance on opening night.

    Patricia Cucco, who may very well be the leading funny lady of the CFRT family, rounds out the female cast, playing Berthe, Bernard’s maid and social director. It is up to Berthe to make sure that the apartment is ship-shape when each of the fiancées arrive. She does everything from changing out pictures and flowers to cooking favorite meals. Cucco’s comedic timing is sheer perfection, and her physical comedy adds much to the performance.

    Brady, as Bernard, brings a bit of Jim Carrey to the stage as he struggles to hold all the pieces of his life together when all of his fiancées arriveat once.

    While the cast as a whole shines, R. Bruce Connelly steals the show. Connelly, who has played Jim Henson’s Muppet dog Barkely on Sesame Street since 1993, was absolutely brilliant.Connelly plays Robert, Bernard’s visiting friend. As the never-been kissed, Wisconsin introvert, Connelly draws you in, and then leaves you laughing in the aisles with a mixture of physical comedy and dead-pan timing.

    The CFRT made a great choice in staging Boeing, Boeing as the fi rst performance of its regular season. Bo Thorp, the director of the show, picked an excellent cast, and when you understand they put the show together in just under two weeks, you realize what marvelous talent these six actors possess.

    The show runs through Oct. 9, so book your ticket now. For tickets and times, visit www.cfrt.org.

    Photo: Boeing, Boeing is the story of an American in Paris who is looking for love amidst the airline timetables. 

  • 09-28-11-us-army-soldier-show.jpgThe carnival concept of the 2011 U.S. Army Soldier Show will take audiences on a globe-spanning journey to more fun-fi lled venues in 90 minutes than some folks experience in a lifetime.

    From a boardwalk to a fun house to a circus to a county fair to a time machine, Soldier-entertainers will take their guests on a song and dance tour of carnivals across America and beyond.

    “It’s an opportunity to actually take the audience on a journey with us,” Soldier Show director Victor Hurtado said. “And not just to the continental United States — we have a great international scene.”

    Africa, Samoa, Latin America, Nepal, with influences from India, Thailand and China, are represented in the song-and-dance extravaganza that plays to the strengths of cast members from several countries. Each international scene will feature authentic music from that locale.

    This Soldier Show cast features strong instrumentalists on the violin, drums, guitar, keyboards and bass who will keep the performers on the move as they dance from scene to scene. One central character will help keep the show moving by introducing each scene.

    “There are a lot of dancers, a lot of movement in the show,” Hurtado said. “But there are some great voices as well. And great stage presence. We have some great rapper and spoken-word guys, so we have quite a bit of that driving the show.”

    Patriotism is woven throughout the show that does not so much resemble a military production.

    “With MWR, we’re in the business of taking Families and Soldiers away from the trials and tribulations of what they’re going through, so I think this will definitely inspire the patriotism, but really help you escape and take you to places you wouldn’t go, all in one day,” Hurtado said.“You wouldn’t go to the circus, a boardwalk, a country fair, a fun house — in four different areas of the world — and a Fourth of July celebration, all in one day.“

    You could never physically do that, but you’re going to be able to do that at this show.”

    “Entertainment for the Soldier, by the Soldier” is the working motto of Army Entertainment Division, which will launch the 106-performance Soldier Show tour from Fort Belvoir, Va., to 61 installations, garrisons and other venues around the United States, Germany and Korea.

    “As a group, they’ve really become very cohesive,” Hurtado said. “We’ve really been able to get the show together quickly. They’ve been very engaged. It’s pretty amazing where they are already, as far as rehearsals go.”

    The 2011 U.S. Army Soldier Show’s eight-month tour is made possible through sponsorship support provided by Army G-1’s Sexual Harassment/Assault Response and Prevention Program (SHARP) and Navy.

    The Soldier Show will be at the Crown Center Theatre in Fayetteville on Oct. 7 at 7 p.m. and Oct. 8 at 2 p.m. Admission to all shows is free on a first-come, first-seated basis. For more information visit www.atthecrown.com or call the box offi ce at 438-4100.

    Photo: The 2011 U.S. Army Soldier Show’s Admission to all shows is free on a first-come, first-seated basis.

  • uac092811001.jpg It has been a stellar year for the Cape Fear Botanical Garden. The new 33,000 square foot visitors pavilion opened in April and has been a real boon for the community.

    “All along our plan has been for the visitors center to serve as a platform to expand our programming,” said Botanical Garden Executive Director Jennifer Sullivan. We’ve been fortunate that it has worked out like we had hoped it would.”

    In addition to an upscale gift shop, the center is available to rent for events like wedding receptions and business conferences.

    Big Bugs is an exciting part of the new expanded programming that Sullivan mentioned.

    It is an exhibit featuring just what the name implies, big bugs — really big bugs. A 1,200 pound praying mantis and three 25 foot-long ants are among the giant insects that can be found in the garden through Dec. 31.

    The exhibit debuted at the Dallas Arboretum in 1994. Since then it has been seen nationwide, including the Denver Botanical Garden, Disney’s Epcot, New York Botanical Garden and the U.S. National Arboretum.

    Artist David Rogers created the sculptures using combinations of whole trees found standing or fallen dead, dry branches and other forest materials. It is the wide range of materials that gives the bugs their distinctive character.

    The exhibit is sponsored by Terminix. “We are delighted to have the opportunity to sponsor David Rogers’ Big Bugs at Cape Fear Botanical Garden. Visitors will have a fun filled opportunity to come face to face with some of nature’s most fascinating creatures,” said James Haugh, president of Terminix.

    “We’ve actually been planning this exhibit since 2007,” said Sullivan.“It has been a long time in the making and we are excited to see our efforts payoff.”

    Taking full advantage of the nationally known exhibit, the garden is hosting several bug-themed events, for kids and grown-ups alike, through the end of the year, in addition to the regularly scheduled events. Build-A-Bug craft stations will be available daily in the Children’s Classroom for youngsters to celebrate their bug love. Be sure to schedule a visit to the Café Cart for a Bug Munch brown bag lunch. Activities are also scheduled on Saturdays from 12-3 p.m. Registration is not required; children are encouraged to drop by. Visitors are invited to check out all the offi cial bug detective gear and merchandise at Cape Fear Botanical Garden Gift Shop.

    On Oct. 2, come to the garden and enjoy not only the Big Bugs exhibit, but take in the Heritage Festival and celebrate life in the 19th century. There will be live bluegrass music, barnyard animals, agricultural exhibits and activities for all ages. Look for the demonstrations featuring how food was prepared in the 1800s. There will also be displays and demonstrations of traditional crafts. Stick around for a moment or two and play a game of hopscotch or marbles.09-28-11-botanical-2.jpg

    Oct. 20, don’t miss An Evening with the Big Bugs and BackBeat, a Beatles’ tribute band. The event runs from 6:30 – 10 p.m. Bring a blanket or lawn chair to sit on and enjoy the family friendly outdoor concert. Ticket information is available at www.capefearbg.org.

    It is a great deal — for the price of a regular visit to the garden, visitors can see the Big Bugs exhibit and enjoy the Heritage Festival.

    Not only is the exhibit a good thing for Cape Fear Botanical Garden, but it promises to be good for the entire city.

    “It is fantastic that Fayetteville is going to host this nationally recognized exhibit,” said John Meroski, president and CEO of the Fayetteville Area Convention and Visitors Bureau. “It will really put Fayetteville on the map, and is going to introduce visitors from all over to the beautiful botanical garden and our great city.”

    Find out more about the garden at 486-0221 or www.capefearbg.org and learn about the Big Bugs exhibit at www.big-bugs.com.

    Photo: Big Bugs is an exciting part of the new expanded programming at Cape Fear Botanical Garden. Cover photo and story pictures courtesy of Julia Vetrinskaja ( Julia V. Photography).

  • 09-28-11-author-discusses.jpgCultural diversity is just one of the things that makes the Fayetteville area so unique. We are fortunate in that we share our city with people from all over the globe. With them, they have brought us colorful fashions, interesting languages and delectable cuisines, but how much do we really know about them, and, the countries they’ve left behind?

    The Southeastern North Carolina Asian India Association (SENCAIA), the Friends of the Library and the Arts Council of Fayetteville/Cumberland County, together, are giving us a rare opportunity to better understand the past and present struggles, growing pains and relationships that have molded, and continue to shape modern day India.

    Anand Giridharadas, columnist for both the New York Times and International Herald Tribune, will speak at the Cumberland County Public Library and Information Center’s Headquarters Library, 300 Maiden Lane, on Oct. 4 at 7 p.m.

    Giriharadas, who was born in the United States, will discuss what it’s like to live between two different cultures, and, of his experience returning to his parent’s native land as a young adult.

    His topic, “The Age of the Fusionista: Understanding the New Class that is Stitching our World Together” is his interpretation of how ancient customs and changing attitudes are being woven together to create new beliefs in the country of his ancestors. Following his lecture, Gririharadas will host a question and answer session, then he will sign copies of his book, India Calling: An Intimate Portrait of a Nation’s Remaking. If you don’t have a copy, not to worry, copies of the book will be available for purchase on the night of his lecture.

    Kellie Tomita, marketing and communications manager for the library, when asked about the importance of understanding other cultures, explained, “As we learn and share our experiences and perspectives, we deepen our acceptance of one another.”

    She said that this program is the result of a generous contribution and that the goal of SENCAIA is to promote awareness of the culture and lifestyle of the Indian population.

    She added, “Their donation funded, not only the visit from Giriharadas, but also enabled the library to increase its print and digital collections.”

    When asked about the term fusionista, Tomita responded, “Fusionista is an intriguing term, isn’t it? How Giriharadas defi nes it is at the heart of this program, which is why we hope those who are curious will join us to fi nd out just what Giriharadas means.”

    Reservations are not required for this event, nor is there a charge. For more information about this, or any of the library’s other upcoming programs, visit the website at www.cumberland.lib.nc.us or call 910-483-7727.

  • If laughter is the best medicine, then the doctor is in the house on Friday, Oct. 14, when the Royal Comedy Tour comes to the Crown. The tour looks to be a must see show this fall, if it is anything like last year’s tour which, sold out shows across the country during its 20 city tour.09-28-11-royal-comedy-tour.jpg

    Sommore, a comedian, is this year’s headliner. She is known for her quick-witted sarcasm and has an impressive track record to back her up. With air-time on the Oprah Winfrey Show, Live From LA, Showtime at the Apollo, The Hughley’s, The Parkers and Politically Incorrect with Bill Maher, it is no wonder fans are coming out in droves to hear her perform.

    Bruce Bruce, another peformer on the tour, was rewarded for his comic talent with the highest ratings ever as host of BET’s 10th Anniversary Comic View for two seasons, and promises to deliver a side-splitting experience for the audience.

    Mark Curry, the star of television’s Hangin’ With Mr. Cooper, has countless hours of night-club entertaining under his belt and really shines on stage. With shows like Coming to the Stage and ESPN’s Cold Pizza on his resume, Curry has earned a place in the hearts of those who love to laugh.

    Damon Williams has appeared on BET’s Comic View several times as well as performing at Showtime at the Apollo and Jamie Foxx Presents Laffapalooza. Williams can be heard on the Tom Joyner Show in “Seriously Ignant News.” He’s a crowd favorite in the comedy clubs and sure-fire favorite for the Royal Comedy Tour.

    Tony Rock is the brother of Chris Rock, but he has made his own mark in the world of comedy and easily keeps audiences in stitches. His list of performance venues includes the Comic Strip, Caroline’s, The Comedy Store and The Improv. He’s had roles in All of Us, Hitch, Three Can Play that Gameand Life Support. He’s a busy guy and a big part of the comic synergy that the Royal Comedy Tour is so well known for.“

    The Crown Center is excited about having one of the most high-spirited, hilarious comedy tours in the country featuring one the hottest headliners and well-known female comedians in the comedy world, Sommore,” said Interim Director of Marketing and Sales at the Crown, CaroLyn Swait. “The tour features some of the funniest comedians around. We look forward to bringing a variety of different shows to our diverse community for the 2011-2012 season.”

    This show opens at 8 p.m. and will only be in town for one night, so order those tickets early to ensure a good seat. Visit www.ticketmaster.com or www.atthecrown.com to get your tickets. They are also available at the Crown Box Office or by calling 438-4100.

    Photo: Comedienne Sommore headlines Royal Comedy Tour at Crown.

  • Bragg Boulevard: A Love/Hate Relationship09-28-11-pub-notes.jpg

    I fielded an interesting phone call at the offi ce this week. The caller didn’t leave his name, but based on our conversation I am confident that he owns a business on Bragg Boulevard. The caller asked why in the world we would have a category called “Best thing to Hide from Visitors” in our Best of Fayetteville edition when Up & Coming Weekly works so hard all year to promote small businesses and lift up the best in our community.

    After he hung up I thought about it and I have to admit, condemning an entire street, one that is 15-miles long and a main thoroughfare in our community does seem a bit counter-productive to the mission of our publication.

    Our publisher maintains that the Best of Fayetteville serves many purposes. It provides valuable information and insights into the Fayetteville community. Reporting with credence and credibility what is NOT the best in our community also lies within our mission and is valid, and I respect that.

    It was our readers though, who voted and awarded this title to Bragg Boulevard. This is not the first time that Bragg Boulevard has won this dubious distinction. In fact, it has held the title for a number of years. It makes me wonder if it has become such a tradition that people really don’t really think too hard about it when they see this space on the ballot. But maybe they do.

    The caller pointed out to me that several of our Best of Fayetteville winners are located on this supposedly wretched road. He’s right.

    Thai Pepper won Best Thai Food and they have a location on Bragg Boulevard that stays quite busy. MiCasita won Best Mexican/Best Burritos and they have a location on Bragg Boulevard, too, as does KFC who won Best Fried Chicken. M&M Leather and Custom Cycle is our readers’ choice for Best Leather Store, New and Nearly New Thrift Shop is the Best Place to Buy Used Furniture. Edward McKay won Best Used Book Store. They are all located on the boulevard.

    The Trophy House, which is one of the Best of Fayetteville sponsors, calls this street home. The Renaissance European Day Spa won several categories, just like they have in years past. They took Best Day Spa/Nail Salon/Leg and Bikini Wax/Massage Therapist and Best Health Club/Gym. Where are they located? Right behind Eutaw Shopping Center, which is on, you guessed it, Bragg Boulevard. Perhaps one of the biggest contributors to our community in both dollars and population — Fort Bragg — has several gates on Bragg Boulevard.

    The N.C. Veterans Park was voted Best Change to Fayetteville and rests on the downtown end of the Best Thing to Hide From Visitors, right next to the Airborne Special Operations Museum, which also won several categories in our Best of Fayetteville edition — Best Little Known Attraction/Best Thing to Show Out-of-Towners and Best Museum.

    Did you miss that? The Best Thing to Show Out-of-Towners is on the street that won Best Thing to Hide from Visitors.

    Our readers know what’s good in this town, they tell us every year and have proven to be right time after time. Why they voted this particular street a disgrace when it holds some of our best treasures is something I can’t answer. Does it have some establishments that are not family friendly and are even a bit shady? Yep. So do several other streets in town, and somehow they escape our reader’s scrutiny. Are the businesses that line the road aesthetically pleasing? Is it a place you would feel comfortable walking at night? We have to say no.

    Could it be? Can Bragg Boulevard turn itself around the way downtown did a decade or so ago? Are the businesses that our reader’s love best organizing themselves and working together to change their corner of the world?

    What I gleaned from this caller is that the business owners, maybe not all of them, but many of them, know this and are working every day to bring more and better goods and services to our community. They are trying to meet the needs of their customers, provide for their families and contribute to the community just like the businesses downtown, Sycamore Dairy Road, Raeford Road, Morganton Road, Reilly Road and all the other roads that are home to the thousands of small businesses in the community that play a part in making Fayetteville the All-America City that we call home.

    They are succeeding in that aspect. But think about this: Maybe the boulevard gets this vote so often because our readers see so much potential here. They are willing to eat, shop, workout, get pampered and do business on this road, many of their favorite places are here — but there is still a lot of work to be done.

  • The Debt  (Rated R)  Three Stars09-28-11-movie-review.jpg

    The Debt(113 minutes) is a remake of a 2007 Israeli film never released in U.S. theaters. It’s not bad, but since there are no zombies, plagues, explosions, offensive humor or Harry Potters, it is a little outside my normal preferences. I guess it was okay. A little boring and hard to follow, but Helen Mirren is a good actor, and Jessica Chastain does this really cool hand-to-hand combat thing.

    For those who haven’t been keeping track, Mossad is the Israeli version of the CIA. The events of the film take place half in 1966 and half in 1997. One drawback is figuring out which 1966 character grows up to be the 1997 equivalent. It is fairly obvious that Chastain grows up to be Mirren, but figuring out which one David is (Sam Worthington/Ciaran Hinds) and which one Stephan is (Marton Csokas/Tom Wilkinson) becomes a bit of a challenge. The problem exists due to some poor camera work and weirdly timed flashbacks that don’t re-veal details needed in the beginning of the film.

    Drawback number two is the complete lack of moral com-plexity developed in the villain. Sure, Nazis make great villains because they are an obvious evil. The problem is creating believable Nazis whose dialogue is more complex than repeating various sections of Mein Kampfverbatim. I guess Dieter Vogel (Jesper Christensen) starts off believable, he just ends up as a caricature. And I refuse to believe he could get the better of either Chastain or Mirren, even on a bad day.

    In 1966, Mossad agent Rachel Singer (Chastain) arrives in East Berlin. She is met by David Perezt (Worthington) and Stephan Gold (Csokas). They are assigned to capture Dieter Vogel, Surgeon of Birkenau and bring him back to Israel alive to face trial. Mixed in with this vitally important mission, Rachel works on getting a boyfriend. Because women make bad secret agents because they get emotional and stuff and distract men from doing secret agent missions with their big eyes and need for love. And then the men fall in love with them and blow the mission trying to save them because women are not capable of get-ting out of tight situations even with their presumably intense training. Or something. The subplot was distractingly annoy-ing and unnecessary so I tried to tune it out.

    Vogel is currently working as an OB/GYN, and the plan is for Rachel to pose as David’s fertility challenged wife. By the third visit things have gotten as creepy and inappropriate as they possibly can, so Rachel takes him out with a sedative injected into his neck. Posing as ambulance drivers, David and Stephan scoop up Vogel and attempt to smuggle him out of the country.

    That works out just as well as it ever does in action mov-ies, so the three drag Vogel back to their apartment and hide out. Personalities end up falling along the continuum of care about how you would expect (guess which characters want to jam food down his throat and who respects the human dignity of the prisoner). And guess who is watching the prisoner when he makes his big move?

    The years pass, and the agents have gone their separate ways. Rachel’s daughter Sarah (Romi Aboulafia) writes an account of the 1966 events. The book’s account serves as a Macguffin of sorts, spurring the characters to action.

    Overall, if you like this sort of movie you’ll get caught up in the good parts while finding it easier to ignore the bad parts.

  • North Carolinians outside the Research Triangle region (“Triangle”) envy its economic suc-cess and cultural assets.

    But don’t get too jealous.09-28-11-rtp.jpg

    The very success of the Triangle brings chal-lenges that, if unmet, will topple the Triangle’s place as North Carolina’s capstone example of successful economic development.

    The Triangle’s dilemmas are the focus of The Research Triangle: From Tobacco Road to Global Prominence, a new book by William Rohe, director of the Center for Urban & Regional Studies at UNC-Chapel Hill.

    The story of the Research Triangle Park is a part of the state’s defining his-tory or myth, just as much as the Lost Colony or the Wright Brothers’ first flight.

    You know the short version. In the 1950s North Carolina’s visionary gov-ernment and business leaders saw the pending demise of the state’s traditional low-wage industries and the potential for using the resources and reputations of Duke, N.C. State, and UNC-Chapel Hill to attract research-related businesses to an open area of worn-out farmland near all three universities. Thousands of acres of land were acquired and, over time, the research-related business filled them. In less than a generation, the Triangle moved from economic laggard to national leader.

    This “myth” is mostly true. There were a few bumps in the road. Lots of tenacious people fought through roadblocks and disappointments before the Triangle achieved the success that makes it widely admired and envied.

    Rohe tells in rich detail how the Research Triangle Park (“Park”) came about, including the 200 years of history of the region that put it in position to take advantage of the opportunities the Park made possible.

    Rohe enthusiastically catalogues the benefits the Park brought to the region, including the high-value businesses, the high paying jobs, and the leveraged eco-nomic activity that results from them.

    However, Rohe’s most important message to North Carolinians is like that of Professor Hill in The Music Man, who asserted to complacent townspeople, “We got trouble right here in River City.”

    Much of the trouble in the Triangle is a result of the region’s success. The low-density sprawling housing patterns and crowded traffic routes cannot sustain the projected population growth of the re-gion. ”It’s so crowded, nobody goes there anymore,” the saying attributed to Yogi Berra, could be pro-phetic for the Triangle region.

    These kinds of problems face every growing metropolitan region. Rohe details a long list of strategies and tactics that could be used to absorb the projected growth without destroying the region’s quality of life. For example, Rohe suggests for consideration:

    • More high-density housing, even within the Park itself.

    • Light rail connections to get a substantial number of cars off the highways, but Rohe concedes that much more high-density housing has to be in place be-fore rail can be successful.

    • Limiting new residential development by requiring, before approval of a new project, a showing of the readiness of the community or region (schools, roads, and other infrastructure) to accommodate the proposed additional popula-tion.

    Even if these kinds of approaches would work if they were applied region-wide, getting a coordinated approach in the region is almost impossible. Rohe says that there are 43 jurisdictions in the region that have some responsibility for land-use and transportation planning. Getting even one government to adopt such restrictions would be ambitious. Getting 43 of them to act in a unified man-ner would be a miracle.

    Various regional organizations that coordinate activities of governmental or planning units have been successful in many areas. But it is unlikely that any of them could gain enough power to bring about the kind of trans-portation and housing development plans that Rohe says are needed.

    Without a unified approach in the Triangle, Rohe says, like Professor Hill, “We got trouble.”

  • Turning Resistance into Assistance

    The Senior Corner topic in the Sept. 14-20, issue of Up & Coming Weekly was “When Seniors Say ‘No’ to help”. We shared many reasons why a senior might say they do not want help in their home.

    When there are concerns about safety, it is reasonable for family caregivers to express the desire for assistance for their loved one. Safety issues might involve poor nutri-tion, eating expired foods, mismanagement of medications, opening the door to strangers, unwelcome phone solicita-tions, being a fall risk or many other issues. Having con-cerns are always the reason help in the home is offered to a senior.

    09-28-11-senior-corner.jpgFollowing are strategies from Home Instead Senior Care and Dr. D’Aprix, a family caregiver consultant, to help family caregivers turn resistance into assistance.

    • Understand where the resistance is coming from. Ask a senior parent or loved one why he or she is resisting.

    • Explain your goals. Remind an older adult that you both want the same thing. Explain that a little extra help can keep them at home longer and will help put your mind at ease as well.

    • Bring in outside help. If a relationship with a senior is deteriorating, ask a professional, such as a geriatric care manager, for an assessment. A third-party professional can provide valuable input.

    Also, go to www.4070talk.com for tips on how to talk with a loved one. If you are having problems getting through to your older adult, consider asking an-other family member or close friend to intervene. If you’re not making headway, perhaps there’s someone better to talk to that older adult.

    • Research options to find the best resources for a senior in the community. The local Area Agency on Aging or geriatric care managers are great community resources.

    Or go to www.homeinstead.com and click on the re-sources tab for The Home Care solution, a guide for family caregivers to help them find the best in-home care for their loved ones. If you decide outside help is needed, reassure your parents and tell them you have researched caregivers and you are confident you have found the best you can find to come into the home to help.

    • Respect a senior’s decisions. Sometimes you won’t agree with an older adult’s decisions and that’s okay — as long as that senior is of sound mind, he or she should have the final say.

    Please remember that if a senior has dementia, a doctor or geriatric care manager should be consulted. Using logic often will not work with the senior so other strategies must be used.

    Once again, unless a senior has dementia, he or she has a right to make the final decision about care, even if a family caregiver or professional doesn’t agree. The flip side is that family caregivers have the right to suggest limits on behaviors that they think are risky.

    Without additional resources and education, the desire to be a perfect fam-ily caregiver can lead to burn-out. Perspective can come from friends, support groups and professional or informal support networks.

    The battle to turn resistance into assistance can be fierce, like seniors who call police when a professional care-giver shows up. Education can help arm family caregivers with the tools they need to cre-ate a win-win everyone.

    Photo: When there are concerns about safety, it is reasonable for family caregivers to express the desire for assistance for their loved one. 

  • Surfboarding penguins, a sunfl ower draped Iron Mike and a Jim Morrison-inspired cowboy are a just a few of the visual delights that await you when the doors to Wet Willie’s opens in early October.

    But as much as the new entertainment venue in historic downtown Fayetteville is a visual delight, its trademark daquiries are a tasty delight that Josh and Tonia Collins believe will help keep summer hanging on all year round.

    Years in the making, Wet Willie’s is the third restaurant the couple has opened in downtown Fayetteville, and if their past successes are any indicator, Wet Willie’s will soon become Fayetteville’s nightlife destination.

    The restaurant, part of a Wet Willie’s 17-store chain, is a natural progression for the folks at Huske. Collins recounts that their first foray into the restaurant world was at Blue Moon. When Huske Hardware came up for sale, Collins thought it was an opportunity not to be missed. But Tonia thought otherwise.09-21-11-wet-willies.jpg

    “I told Tonia I wanted to do Huske, and she said, ‘No, I want to do a Wet Willie’s,’” recounted Josh. “So I said let’s do Huske fi rst, and then we will do Wet Willie’s. That was the negotiation.”

    After getting Huske on a solid status. The duo and their partners began laying the ground work for Wet Willie’s, purchasing the franchise in 2007. As Huske took off in late 2008-2009, they started working harder on Wet Willie’s and then the economy crashed.

    “We were working through the small business loans, but money was hard to come by,” said Josh. “We were on our third bank, and our business was in a five inch binder before we got fi nal approval — and that was a nine-month process.”

    “Quite a few things were happening downtown at that time. Businesses were closing, but were were doing okay,” he said.

    When the Wet Willie’s executives came to town, the Collins’ took them to a variety of locations where they thought to put the restaurant. “We went all over the community, and the CEO wouldn’t even get out and look at some of the locations,” he said. “When we showed them Huske, the CEO said, ‘Son, this is a homerun.’”

    “And then he said, ‘If you don’t do it here, I am,’” added Tonia.

    The idea is that the two businesses, Huske and Wet Willie’s will complement each other, creating a nightlife destination for downtown.

    As mentioned earlier, Wet Willie’s is a daiqu09-21-11-wet-willies-2.jpgiri restaurant. It was originally started in 1988 by a small group of friends. The group began the research required to fuse the daiquiri concept with a casual, upbeat atmosphere, yielding the right mix of fl avor, fun and success. The goal was to exceed our guests’ expectation of a bar and a party, and to become an institution.

    The Collins’ hope to meet that goal in Fayetteville. “We will make the world’s greatest daiquiris,” said Josh.

    The restaurant serves a variety of exotic as well as classic frozen daiquiris with names like Attitude Improvement, Bahama Mama, Chocloate Thunder and the classic Call A Cab. It will also offer aclohol-free drinks known as Weak Willie’s

    .Along with the drinks, there will also be great food. The restaurant will feature some of the chain’s menu, but will also offer an expanded menu.

    “We are taking it up a notch,” he said.

    The same can be said of the nightlife. Just as Huske has become a destination for dancing and live music, Wet Willie’s will also offer quality night time entertainment in a safe and healthy environment.

    As construction is ongoing at the facility, adjacent to Huske, excitement is beginning to grow. Frequent hits to the establishment’s website, www.wetwillies.com/locations/fayetteville, have resulted in the still unopen restaurant being in the top three for VIP memberships within the chain.

    “We aren’t planning on a big grand opening, we think people have waited long enough,” said Tonia. “We just want to get the doors open and let the people enjoy it.”

  • uac092111001.jpg Bringing the World to

    Our Backyard

    Fayetteville, much like the United States, is a melting pot. The city’s population is drawn from all 50 states and countries from all over the world. This diversity brings a rich fabric to the life of our community. It creates a tapestry of customs, ideas and cultures. It intoduces us to new ways of doing things, new music, new food, new ideas. Unlike other communities that struggle with diversity, Cumberland County embraces it, even more, it celebrates it.

    For 33 years, the county residents have come together to experience the cornucopia of cultures that make up their community, and it’s one party you are not going to want to miss.

    The 33rd Annual International Folk Fesival kicks-off on Friday, Sept. 23 during the monthly celebration of 4th Friday. While 4th Friday is always a visual delight, this month’s activities will be beyond belief. Join the crowds along Hay Street as our neighbors and friends bring the Parade of Nations to the heart of the city at 7 p.m.

    The parade is a time-honored tradition in Fayetteville, and is one of the big draws of the weekend. Groups representing more than 30 countries will march through the city center in costume with banners, music and dancing. The spirit of the parade embodies a quote from a Trinidad poet that is often associated with the International Folk Festival — “When we dance in the streets, we dance together, regardless of color, race, status, enjoying ourselves and sharing a love for great music, food and fun!”

    Mary Kinney, the marketing director at the Arts Council is excited about bringing the Parade of Nations to 4th Friday.

    “This is a really big change for us,” said Kinney. “In the past, the Parade of Nations has been on Saturday morning and kicked-off the event. By integrating it with 4th Friday, we are really building the excitement.”

    “There is so much pageantry and color to the parade,” she said. “It’s very high energy, and people look forward to it every year.”09-21-11-folf-fest-1.jpg

    This year, the Army Ground Forces Band will lead the parade. The band made the move to Fayetteville as part of BRAC and is quickly integrating itself into the community. The band is very large but is divided into smaller elements. Kinney said the Dixie Land band will play during the festival on Saturday and Sunday.

    On Saturday, the festival goes into high gear as activities move to Festival Park. The festival opens at noon, with six full hours of music, dance, art, food and fun.

    According to Kinney, there are four performance stages and there will also be strolling artists throughout both days of the festival. All eyes will be on the International Stage as performers from the cultural groups will take the stage to share their culture through music and dance.

    New this year to the festival is an expanded area for children. Kinney explained that all of the artists performing on the children’s stage are from the artists in the school program.

    “Adjacent to the performance stage is a tent for the children to do hands-on, interactive art projects,” said Kinney. “The artists will rotate from the stage to the tent, so there will be several educational components going on simultaneously.”

    Another new event is an area that is dedicated to Native-American crafts. This component is supported by the Cumberland County Schools’ Native American Program. This activity will complement the Native American Cultural Showcase in Linear Park that focuses on the element of pow Wow.

    Once you’ve taken in the sights and sounds, you might want09-21-11-folk-fest-3.jpg to get a taste of the festival at the International Café. The café is a unique way for the community’s cultural groups to showcase their cuisine, but also raise money. So come hungry and prepare for a smorgasbord for your taste buds.

    You will probably have worked up a thirst along with your appetite, so you can stop by the beer tent, which is featuring North Carolina brews.

    And don’t forget that the festival is a great place to shop. Vendors will display arts and crafts with an international flair.

    “The festival itself is free,” said Kinney. “But you are going to want to bring money to eat the delicious food and to shop.”

    The festival runs from noon to 6 p.m. on Saturday and Sunday. For more information, visit www.theartscouncil.com.

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  • Come out to Cypress Lakes Golf Course on Sept. 29 at 12:30 p.m. and watch the first tee-off at the 14th Annual Kiwanis Care for Kids Golf Tournament.09-21-11-kiwanis-golf.jpg

    “Fourteen years ago, we had a couple of members of our club who either had a child or a grandchild that was affected by brain tumors and we decided we were going to do a golf tournament to benefit pediatric brain tumor research,” said Gary Cooper, chairman of the Kiwanis Club Golf Tournament. “We did eight years for that particular cause, and the last six years we’ve been doing the tournament to benefi t the Child Advocacy Center.”

    Before the first tee off, at 12:15 p.m., the Army’s premier parachute team, The Golden Knights, will jump into the event.

    “It will be literally at 12:15 because that’s how good they are,” explained Cooper. “They will start jumping from the sky earlier than that and there will probably be a team of about 8. If you’ve never seen that you ought to come out and see it. It’s pretty cool!”

    Aside from The Golden Knights and the tournament itself, there will also be prizes raffl d off at the tournament.

    “Kiwanis is all about children,” said Cooper. “Whether it’s helping the abused, as in the case of the Child Advocacy Center, it’s providing funds for brain tumor research, or it’s reading at local schools and providing books and certifi cates to kids for being good students, everything we do revolvesaround children.”

    Aside from the adults who have volunteered to come participate in the golf tournament, the Kiwanis Club has also invited a foursome of wounded warriors to come out and play.

    While the Kiwanis Care for Kids Golf Tournament has always had a good turnout, Cooper is confi dent that this year will be no different.

    “The most we can have is 128 golfers, and we’ll have 128 golfers,” he said. The entry fee to play in the tournament is $100 player. If there is a team of four, the fee is $400, but if you are a hole sponsor the fee is $475.

    “Typically a whole sponsor will be $100, but because you have a team we lower the price,” said Cooper.

    In the previous five years that the Kiwanis Club has teamed up with the Child Advocacy Center, the golf tournament has donated an average of at least $15,000 a year, and this year promises to be even better.

    “We are very thankful for some of our biggest sponsors like Beasley Broadcast, who provides awareness of what we’re doing by bringing their WKML bus out every year and doing a remote while we’re all getting ready to play,” said Cooper. “Cape Fear Valley Hospital is also a platinum sponsor, and we have a lot of other very good corporate citizens, both locally-owned companies and national companies, that have participated year after year.”

  • 09-21-11-acap-job-fair.jpgDust-off those resumes and break out the business suit, there is a job fair at the Fort Bragg Club on Sept. 28. The Army Career & Alumni Program (ACAP) along with the ACS Employment Readiness Program are teaming up to host the semi-annual Fort Bragg Employment and Career Fair, and you don’t have to be affi liated with the military to attend — it’s open to the public.

    Both ACS and ACAP are in the employment readiness business. Between the two organizations, they help soldiers who are retiring or separating from the Army and their spouses. The job fairs are open to the public though, because it’s clear to the event organizers that having a strong work-force is good for everyone.

    “Of course, one of the purposes of ACAP is to decrease the unemployment rate among retirees and those leaving the service. This fair is also one of the things Fort Bragg does to help combat the local unemployment rate, so anything we do to combat that is good,” said ACAP Counselor Morgan Kirby. “Besides, if employers come and hire people and find the perfect person for different positions, they are more apt to come back next time. There is not a target population for this event, we just want to help people find jobs.”

    The prospects are looking good with more than 50 employers coming out to court the attendees. Look for government agencies, members of the healthcare industry, intelligence careers, aviation careers, federal contractors, information technology, security agencies, law enforcement, human resources, retail, financial services, school systems and colleges among the vendors at the job fair.

    “Bring your resumes — a number of different copies and business cards if you have any,” said Kirby. “Wear your best business attire, however, if you are in the military it is acceptable to wear your ACUs.”

    A typical turn out for these job fairs is about 3,000, according to Kirby. Since they’ve joined forces with ACS, it could be quite a bit more this year.

    It’s no secret that the economy hasn’t been the best lately and matching up people with employers is something that Kirby really enjoys. A lot of the soldiers who come through ACAP have been in the military for several years, even decades, so a lot of them don’t have experience with job fairs.

    “So we put on a job fair preparation seminar and we sit down and talk with them about their resumes and the interview process. You see how excited people are and start getting excited for them,” said Kirby. “We go over how to present themselves, and things like that. To see people excited to fi nd jobs outside the military, and then actually fi nd something, is very rewarding.”

    There is still time to get ready. Visit the ACAP website at www.acap.army.mil or the ACS Employment Readiness website at www.fortbraggmwr.com/erp.php to find information about resume writing and other resources that are available to help prepare for the big event.

    The job fair starts at 9 a.m. and lasts until 2 p.m. Find out more at 396-2227 or 396-1425.

  • Bernard is a lonely American living in Paris. His friends don’t like to see him lonely, so they09-21-11-boeing.jpgintroduce him to some nice ladies. The ladies in question are all stewardesses. So what happens when a lonely American in Paris begins juggling three jet-setting ladies of the air? Pure comedic genius, or at least that’s what Bo Thorp, the director of Boeing, Boeing, hopes happens as the Cape Fear Regional Theatre brings this French farce to stage this month.

    Boeing, Boeing by Marc Carmoletti “shines with slamming doors, delicious innuendo and spectacularly improbable situations,” all designed to tell the story of how much can go wrong in just a short time.

    As mentioned, Bernard is something of a Lothario. His chaotic love life is guided by the flight schedules in and out of Paris, and his maid, played by the ever entertaining Patricia Cucco, is the air-traffic controller who keeps it all going.

    R. Bruce Connelly, a well-known visiting actor, plays Bernard’s American friend who comes to visit just when everything falls apart.

    “I arrive from Wisconsin early in the first act,” explains Connelly. “I play a very shy man — the kind who has never been kissed — who comes to visit his good friend. I am surrounded by these beautiful women. I am not a player, not a liar, but I’m left all alone when all this action starts happening. So my character is the the one who is left to invent the stories and keep the women separated. It all falls apart and goes crazy very rapidly.”

    Connelly is not a stranger to the production, having done it earlier this year with his co-star Gil Brady. He is excited to be reprising the role.

    “I got the call about a week and half ago to do the show, and we’ve been here about a week in rehearsals,” he said.

    Brady explained that the show is more of a dance than a play in the sense that it is very complicated and it all has to do with timing.

    “This is kind of unheard of to put up a show this diffi cult in such a short period of time,” he said. “The good news is we’ve done it before; Bo knows what she is doing — and she was smart enough to cast a great cast.”

    “Rehearsals have been great so far. We are still in early stages of working out timing and relationships. I’ve been trying to communicate to everyone that it’s more of a dance than a play. It’s so intricate,” he explained. “Boeing, Boeingis easily one of the most technical plays I’ve done in my life. Bo is taking it in a different direction than in the last production I did. What’s great is we are going for more of the emotional truth, while the last one was more zaney/mad cap

    .”He said he was “happy for the change.”

    “There really is no challenge to go into the theatre and do carbon copy of a play you’ve done before. It is very unsatisfying for an artist. I did Grease four times and by the end, you sort of go on autopilot and collect your paycheck.”

    That won’t be the case when you see Boeing, Boeing look for a great night of laughs interspersed with some emotional truths.

    For tickets, times and reservations, visit the website at www.cfrt.org.

    Photo: When you see Boeing, Boeing look for a great night of laughs interspersed with some emotional truths.

  • Doing the right thing means making difficult choices.

    American history is full of examples. Whether it be the impositions of the Stamp Act, the injustices of slavery or the intrusions of eugenics, Americans have had to decide how best to respond to tyrants in power — and sometimes to tyrants next door.

    Far too many people have made the wrong choice. Afraid to sacrifice their reputations, their ambitions, their property or their personal liberty, they have chosen to look the other way.

    Here in North Carolina, for example, the state operated a eugenics pro-gram for decades that sterilized thousands of North Carolinians against their will — on the grounds that their mental or physical infirmities made them unfit to reproduce. Rather than speak out against this practice, many of the state’s most-influential citizens either ignored or participated in it.

    The 18th century Virginia planter and Quaker leader John Pleasants chose differently when faced with his own era’s injustices. As early as the 1760s, John Pleasants and his son Robert had concluded that the institution of slavery was abhorrent to God and inconsistent with the principles of a free society. They resolved to do something about it.

    On the matter of slavery, John and Robert Pleasants were not bystanders. They were among the biggest slaveholders in Virginia’s Henrico County, near Richmond. Their Curles Neck Plantation was home to hundreds of slaves. Although the Pleasants family had long treated their slaves kindly, as they thought their Quaker faith demanded, it wasn’t until sometime in the 1760s that they fully embraced abolition.

    The problem with “doing something about it” was that at the time, it was illegal for Virginians to manumit, or free, their slaves. If John Pleasants had simply declared the workers at Curles Neck free and sought to pay them, he would have been subjected to punishment and his workers to re-enslavement.

    Perhaps such an act of civil disobedience might have advanced the cause of abolition a bit, but at great cost — particularly to the slaves themselves.

    Pleasants had other options, however. He could have attempted to take his slaves out of Virginia and then free them elsewhere. Or I suppose he could have attempted to organize a broad-scale insurrection against the Virginia government. But neither option had much prospect of success.

    Pleasants opted for a different course. Recognizing that there was growing sentiment among influential young Virginians such as Thomas Jefferson to at least limit the scope of slavery by prohibiting importation of new slaves and legalizing manumission, Pleasants rewrote his will. It now contained a provision that would free all of his slaves if Virginia ever legal-ized manumission.

    Pleasants died in 1771. His son Robert Pleasants then became one of the founders of the abolition movement in Virginia. He wrote frequent letters to prominent citizens such as George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, and Patrick Henry exhorting them to support manumission, the education of slaves and freed blacks and the legal abolition of slavery itself.

    Right after the American Revolution, there was a burst of anti-slavery sentiment in Virginia. It didn’t last, unfortunately, but a 1782 law legalized the manumission of slaves for a time. Robert Pleasants immediately liberated the slaves he had inherited from his father, and built one of the first schools for free blacks. The Gravel Hill community soon grew up around the school — one of the first communities of free blacks in the South.

    But other relatives refused to follow suit. So Robert Pleasants, the execu-tor of his father’s estate, went to court in the 1790s to carry out his father’s wishes. His attorney in the resulting case of Pleasants v. Pleasants was none other than John Marshall, the future chief justice of the U.S. Supreme Court.

    They were successful. In 1799, the slaves at Curles Neck were freed, and joined the growing Gravel Hill community.

    John Pleasants was my sixth great-grandfather. When faced with injustice, he chose a middle course — to challenge it through moral suasion and the courts, rather than ignoring it or resorting to insurrection.

    What would you do?

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