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    Holly Whitley owns Legend’s Pub, but she’s the first to admit that it does not belong only to her. It’s her friends and the pub family that make this watering hole a sanctuary for so many. The Gypsy Women are a big part of that family. Their history together runs long and deep. With a shared connection to the military, they came to Fayetteville as soldiers’ wives and daughters and never left. The Gypsy Women are known for their generosity and joie de vivre. This band of sisters has faced many struggles and shared countless losses and triumphs, but they’ve done it together. They know that life is short. They know what it means to take care of their own and they have a passion for making a difference in the community they call home. That is just what they do. 

    The Gypsy Women have a magical combination of strength and tenderness that has touched many in the community these past 20 years. They’ve raised money to help pay for medical treatments due to injuries and illnesses and helped families struggling to pay bills after suffering staggering losses. If there is anything this group of women understands it’s that life is short and we can all make a difference. For two decades now, Legend’s Pub Owner Holly Whitley and the Gypsy Women have hosted a Spring Fling. It’s a weekend-long celebration of the friendship, tenacity, kindness and generosity that thrive at Legend’s Pub. And just like every day at Legend’s, everyone is welcomed with open arms and open hearts. This year the Spring Fling runs May 6-8. 

    The event benefits Stan Stewart, a longtime Legend’s Pub patron. Stan recently sustained injuries in a crash. “Stan is such a friend to us. He’s supported so many of our events. Whenever we asked for a hand with anything, Stan was right there,” said Whitley. “Now that he needs our help, we want to be there for him. There is something that just feels right about helping one of your own and we are glad to do this for him.” 

    Planning three days of fun is a tall order, but Whitley and her crew have it down to a science, and in the end it comes down to the generosity of the many volunteers at Legend’s when It’s time to get things done. “There are a few of us who get the ball rolling, but when it is time to put things together, there is no shortage of people willing to help,” she said. “I can’t tell you how many times I hear ‘What can I do to help?’ and that is such a wonderful feeling. From my daughter Christy, who has been by my side helping me for many years to Priscilla and Nancy and so many others. I can’t even tell you how many wonderful people have stepped up to help over the years.”

    The fun starts on Friday night with a pre-party and pool tournament. The tournament starts at 8:30 p.m. Saturday’s activities kick off with the Stan Stewart Poker Run. It’s kickstands up at noon for a fun-filled afternoon of riding with the last bike in by 5 p.m. for the auction, raffles and dinner. “We are going to raffle off a Harley T-shirt quilt and a few other fun items,” said Whitley. “The auction is always a lot of fun, too. We have one friend of Stan who made and donated a cigar box three-string electric guitar for the auction. I’ve got some motorcycle paintings too. We are still taking items for auction. Donating to an auction that helps someone is the best way to regift items that may not suit you.”

    On Sunday, don’t miss the bike show and cook out. “Because this coincides with Mother’s Day, we are also doing a Mother’s Day Giveaway on Sunday,” said Whitley. 

    In 20 years of hosting Spring Fling events, Whitley has never kept a tally of the money she’s raised. For her the joy is in knowing that all the hard work she and the other volunteers have put in have made a difference for people in the community. “I don’t know what we have raised over the years, but I can tell you that the last two years, we brought in more than $50,000 at each event and that feels good because all of it stays in the community,” she said. “We don’t give to large organizations. We give to local nonprofits and families. That is where our heart is.”

    Last year’s Spring Fling raised money for hyberbaric treatment for veterans. The year before that it was literacy and education that benefitted from the event. 

    The Spring Fling is just one of five or six runs that Legend’s hosts each year. “We do some other smaller fundraisers throughout the year,” said Whitley. “But we have a lot of fun, too. Our friends and patrons are always there for us. Every time we ask, they are there to support us so it is important to give back to them, too. We have things like Valentine’s Day events and Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners. My kids, Christy and J.D.  have celebrated the last 19 Thanksgivings at Legend’s. We set out a long table and serve turkeys and hams and everyone brings their favorite side dish to share. It’s nice to be able to celebrate like that with friends.”

    You don’t have to ride to come and enjoy the Spring Fling festivities and make new friends in the process. There is no such thing as a stranger here, and many are lucky enough to join our ever-growing family. The welcoming smiles, cold refreshments and easy camaraderie make for easy conversation and life-long friendships. Call 864-2364 for more information

     
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    Well, another Dogwood Festival weekend in Fayetteville has concluded – and, wow! What a wonderful weekend it was. For anyone who has ever said, “There is nothing to do in Fayetteville,” those words only expose the fact that you have not taken the time to enjoy, appreciate or become aware of your community. 

    This weekend, tens of thousands of people celebrated spring and a sampling of the local quality of life this community has to offer. I have to congratulate Carrie King, executive director of the Dogwood Festival, and the dozens of dedicated, hard-working community volunteers who helped put this wonderful event together. There was literally something for everyone with rides, music, food and fun all located on our streets and parks in downtown Fayetteville. 

    There are other Dogwood Festival sanctioned events that make this time of year very special and memorable: The Lafayette Ford Classic Car Show, the Miss Fayetteville Dogwood Pageant, Fayetteville Urban Ministry’s Duck Derby and one of my favorite events, the Hogs & Rags Motorcycle Rally where hundreds of motorcycles and cars, led by our very own Fayetteville Mayor Nat Robertson and his wife Kim, ride more than 200 miles for local Fayetteville/Cumberland County charities. It was good to see the mayor involved and participating in the event. I also saw another elected official participating in an event. City Councilman Jim Arp and his son found themselves “up the creek” as they waded through the middle of Cross Creek retrieving wayward ducks after the Derby. 

    I must contend that the best-ever conclusion to this already wonderful weekend was the tour-de-force music performance at Snyder Memorial Baptist Church: The Festival of Keyboards. It was the perfect event to end a perfect weekend. Accomplished pianist, Joy Cogswell and seven other equally talented musicians entertained a full house, sometimes leaving the audience breathless and amazed with the  music and talent of these local musicians. 

    Yes, Fayetteville as a lot to offer. In the long-term, we are going to be a great city as leadership emerges from a community that seems to have more heart and hospitality than it has common sense when it comes to vision and leadership. However, I am confident that we will get there because we have all the makings of a great community. So sit back, relax and enjoy this community in all its various and wondrous ways. The annual Fayetteville Dogwood Festival is just one way we showcase what our community has to offer. Thank you for reading Up & Coming Weekly.

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    Wrestling and boxing matches can be exciting on television, but there is nothing like attending a match in real life. On April 30, One Hit Promotions and Triangle Kickboxing Promotions are bringing Fayetteville a chance to do just that. And Still I Rise is bringing 15 amateur bouts and 10 professional fights to the Crown Coliseum. 

    “I compare it to T.V. Everyone has seen Rockyand MMA fights on television, and it’s just like that but real. It is up close and personal, and it has a real Vegas excitement and atmosphere. Its always a must see because you never know who is going to win or who is going to get hit. It is always like wow, don’t blink you might miss something,” says Miree Coleman “the Pink Panther” Coleman, a professional fighter who will be appearing in the event. 

    Coleman is one of Fayetteville’s own. His boxing career began to take off while he was stationed at Fort Bragg, North Carolina. As an amateur, he won many accolades both within the military and the general community. His connection to this area and his military experience can be seen in the deep personal meaning of his chosen name. “The Pink Panther is pink because my mom is a breast cancer survivor and I fight for breast cancer awareness. And the Panthers is a unit in the 82nd that I deployed with, twice. Once to Iraq and once to Afghanistan, so my name really has meaning to it,” he explained. 

    For Coleman, his professional boxing career is about a lot more than putting on his gloves and fighting. It is also about fighting for a cause that is close to his heart: breast cancer awareness and transparency in charities. 

    “The boxer that I most look up to is Muhammad Ali because of the effect that he had on the country. Everything that he did, whether it was good or questionable, the whole world knew about it. I’m trying to get on that level and I can say the things that other people can’t and then maybe someone that matters can take that point of view into consideration and do something about it. A lot of people donate to charities for breast cancer, but we don’t know where all that money goes. I’ll bring that up. Of all that money we raise, I want to give some to the women who are fighting it so she can put gas in her car and get to her appointments,” he says. 

    Inspired by such an incredible athlete, Coleman seeks to be an inspiration for others himself. He often accepts invitations as a public speaker and goes out of his way to share his experiences with others. His advice, though tailored to his profession, holds true to anyone chasing a dream and searching for success. “I always say they should try and push themselves,” he said. “If you win or lose, there are always going to be naysayers. Add that to your positive motivation and continue to push for your dream. Be ready for your chance because you have to grab it when it comes.”

    Doors open at the Crown Coliseum at 2:30 p.m. with the amateur bouts. The professionals should take the stage around 7 p.m. This is a family-friendly event and tickets begin at $30. They can be purchased online through the Crown Coliseum website. 


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    The Fayetteville Area Convention & Visitors Bureau closed the third quarter of the 2015/2016 fiscal year with a tally of more than 65 future meetings, tournaments and group tours booked for Fayetteville and Cumberland County in the coming months. These events, which represent more than  26,000 room nights at local area hotels, impact Cumberland County’s economy at more than $5.8 million.     

    In addition to the booking achievements the FACVB:         

    • Redesigned the  County’s Cultural Heritage Trails. 

    • Attended 17 trade shows and handled 12,100

       inquiries at the three active Fayetteville visitor centers. 

    • Issued 17 press releases and secured 60 pieces of publicity in travel and local

        media. 

    • Facilitated four familiarization tours that brought attraction staff to visit hotels 

        and hotel staff to visit attractions to encourage cross-promotion.

     “Everything begins with a visit,” says John Meroski, FACVB president and CEO. “Our organization works hard to increase the number of visitors, expenditures and, in turn, taxes collected.”


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    FTCC’s Bang for the Buck                             

    Fayetteville Technical Community College is the third largest community college in North Carolina. It’s one of 58 institutions that comprise the North Carolina Community College System. Yet, it’s 32nd in local funding at $934 per full-time student, according to FTCC President Dr. Larry Keen. Counties share the cost of funding community colleges with the state. Community colleges in cities of comparable size receive much more local support. In Wilmington, County Commissioners contribute $1,212 per full-time student. In Asheville it’s $1,161. During his annual report to Cumberland County Commissioners, Keen downplayed that FTCC is the least funded of the state’s seven largest metropolitan community colleges. The ranking is deceptive, said County Commissioner Kenneth Edge. “A penny on our tax rate yields much less than other cities,” he added. Keen is seeking a 5.18 percent budget increase in the coming fiscal year, including a 3 percent raise with benefits for employees.


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    Serious House Fire          

    Fayetteville firefighters battled a house fire at 7311 Bertram Drive in Loch Lomond in which two occupants were injured, one of them seriously. Assistant Chief Kevin Morgan said the fire broke out in the middle of the night in the single-story house. The alarm was received by 911 dispatchers just after 3 a.m. Engine 8 was first on the scene and reported heavy fire and smoke. “Two people were inside the home at the time of the fire,” Morgan said. Both escaped the flames before firefighters arrived, but a family pet died in the fire. The fire department would not release names of the occupants, one of whom was hospitalized in critical condition at the Jaycee Burn Center in Chapel Hill. An investigation as to how and why the fire started continues. The fire department did not say whether the home was equipped with smoke alarms. Officials estimated the loss at $76,000.


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    Youth Council Honored      

    The Fayetteville-Cumberland Youth Council received two awards this month at the North Carolina Youth Council Spring Conference. The conference was for state-chartered youth council, which compete for various awards for the work they have done all year. The Fayetteville-Cumberland Youth Council received the “Most Outstanding Project of the Year” award. The award was voted on by their peers following 10-mintue project presentations. The FCYC project was the Fayetteville-Cumberland Glow Fest: A Race for the Change. Information and photos about the event can be seen online at Fayettevilleglow.com. The Youth Council also received the highest honor of the conference: “2016 Most Outstanding Youth Council Award.” 

  • Canines have become a staple of law enforcement agencies around the world. Like many jurisdictions, Fayetteville’s K-9 corps is comprised of two primary breeds, the Belgian Malinois and German Shepherd. The latter is the most popular breed of police dog. The Shepherd is a 200-year-old breed in the herding class of working dogs. Law enforcement began using them for crowd control in the 1950s. The Belgian Malinois (pronounced Mal-In-Wah) is a smaller, sleeker version of the German Shepherd. These animals are imported from Holland. This 135-year-old breed is popular with police because they are hard-working dogs with a high level of endurance. They’re noted for their intelligence, speed and agility. The Malinois is the second most popular breed of canine in service in the United States. 

    What may come as a surprise to some is that the Fayetteville Police Department is among the most experienced canine agencies in North Carolina. The department is staffed with 14 teams of dogs and handlers. Some of the handlers have been K-9 cops for more than 20 years, including Lt. Stacey Smith. He’s been with the FPD for 29 years and has been a dog handler for his entire career. 

    As the unit supervisor, Smith is not assigned a dog but tells Up & Coming Weekly “I spend more time on the streets than most lieutenants.” Eleven teams of canines and cops are assigned to the city’s three patrol districts. Additionally, three animals are on special duty. Two are drug sniffing dogs assigned to the narcotics bureau. The third specializes in detecting explosives. Several
    dog teams are on duty at any given time. 

    “We’ve got a lot of ground to cover,” Smith notes. 

    Fayetteville is among the largest cities in the state, area wise, encompassing 148 square miles, more than Raleigh, Durham and Winston-Salem.

    Officer Heather Napieralski and her dog Hemi comprise what likely is the most important team in the unit. Napieralski is the training officer and she stays busy every day she’s on duty. 

    “Constant training is what keeps the animals sharp,” she says. And there’s a lot of it. Fayetteville Police dogs are trained and retrained in obedience, agility, tracking, trailing, searching and narcotics and explosives detection. 

    “All of our dogs live with their partners at home,” Napieralski says. They stay outdoors. Their training includes acclimation to family life in that “we need to let the dogs be dogs,” she adds with a smile. Smith says a typical police dog can weigh from 45 to 120 pounds. Their average life expectancy ranges from 8 to 14 years.  

    Most police dogs are imported from established vendors in Holland and Germany. Smith says it’s less expensive to import them because they’ve been raised and initially trained by credentialed dealers who confirm each animal’s lineage and good health. 

    Locally, Dr. J.K. Garrett, DVM, owner of the Animal Hospital of Fayetteville, has been the Police Department’s veterinarian for many years. Retirement is not something the animals or the cops look forward to. Smith says the vet and trainer determine when that time comes. In most instances the K-9s then become family dogs with their masters. 


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    Interim Fayetteville City Manager Doug Hewett is taking personal responsibility for management of the city police department. 

    Hewett tells Up & Coming Weekly in an exclusive interview that he intends to oversee the police and fire departments, relieving Deputy Manager Kristoff Bauer of that responsibility. 

    “I believe the scope of public safety requires that the chiefs report to the manager,” Hewett said. He pointed out that former Chief Tom Bergamine reported to then manager Dale Iman. Hewett served with Iman as an assistant city manager. He returned to city government last year and was confirmed by city council last week as interim city manager. 

    Hewett acknowledged that he had been made aware of Police Chief Harold Medlock’s discontent resulting from former manager Ted Voorhees’ decision allowing Bauer to take oversight responsibility for police operations. Medlock would not confirm or deny that he told Mayor Nat Robertson he was considering resigning. The chief said that when he came to Fayetteville three years ago his understanding was that he would answer only to the city manager. 

    “I shared my concerns with the mayor, and, it’s behind us now.” the chief told Up & Coming Weekly.

    “I am very supportive of the realignment,” said Robertson. “Eliminating a level of management will make the departments operate more efficiently.”

    Hewett said he had no idea of the changes city council was making on the night of April 11. He was home watching the Council meeting on TV when it went into executive session. An hour and a half later Mayor Robertson announced that Voorhees had submitted his resignation. 

    “I was very surprised,” Hewett said, when he got the phone call from Robertson asking him to take over as interim manager. “Having known Ted for a number of years I was concerned.” 

    Voorhees brought Hewett to Fayetteville several months ago to serve in a senior management planning role with the business community. 

    “The relationship between the manager and council is one that must be close, and when priorities change job security is sometimes called into question,” said Hewett. 

    The 45-year-old Hewett served as a Fayetteville assistant manager from 2004 to 2012. He has known, and in most cases worked with, other members of the senior management team for many years. Asked about community changes he’s noticed since his return, Hewett said he was “so excited to see a conceptual framework of the multimodal transit center actually come out of the ground.” It was a project he had worked on in its infancy. He recalled that the State Veterans Park was still in the planning stages when he left. 

    “We have jobs to do as the city moves forward on the parks bond projects, economic development, public safety and more,” he said.

    The manager added he will have a plan for involving council and the community in building our referendum projects. He says he wasn’t surprised that the bond passed. 

    “The time was right, it was significant,” added Hewett. As for his future, Hewett says he hopes to exhibit a management style that results in a “great relationship with city council.” He hasn’t said whether he’ll seek the post permanently.


  • April 19, 2016

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    Just like spring, the Fort Bragg Fair returns to the area from April 28 until May 15. This annual family-friendly event is constantly growing in both attendance and attractions. According to Rhett Stroupe, the special events coordinator, there is expected to be more than 40,000 fair-goers. There are also three new rides, “the Magic Maze, it is a glass house walk through, and two kiddie rides, The Farm Tractors and the Happy Puppies,” Stoupe said.

    In addition to these three new rides, there are plenty of fun and exciting activities at the fair. There is something of interest for everyone and more than enough fun activities to offer days of fairground fun. 

    “The fair will have over 30 adult and kiddie carnival rides, midway games as well as food and live entertainment Thursday through Sunday. “Fairgoers will have easy access to the Fairgrounds off Bragg Boulevard at Howell Sreet and Gruber Road,” Stroupe added. 

    One of the most poplar aspects of the annual Fort Bragg Fair is live entertainment. There will be a variety of bands and shows such as Rime Tyme, Zack Stone, Jeremiah Jones, Phaze, Freeway and Islandtime Band. According to Stroupe, the real can’t-miss performance is Kachunga and the Alligator Show. This show began in 1982 as a way to increase public awareness and education regarding these misunderstood and native reptiles. It’s success and popularity has turned into one of the most popular performances at fairs and festivals in the United States and Canada. There are even a total of five touring units. Kachunga is an American bushman from the swamps of Florida who has the power and knowledge to handle the ferocious alligators. The danger is great and the excitement is palpable. Despite all of the excitement, the shows are completely safe for the audience and for the alligators. The primary goal is education. All of the performers are highly knowledgeable and trained and the alligators are treated with respect. 

    Organizing the fair every year takes a lot of hard work, but for Stroupe the smiles and joy that the end results generate more than makes up for it. At its core that is what the Fort Bragg Fair is about. It is about creating a fun and safe environment for the community to come and enjoy the warm weather and each other. It is family friendly and has a wide variety of activities for everyone to enjoy. 

    For those new to the Fort Bragg Fair, Stroupe has the following advice, “Take advantage of the Customer Appreciation Specials, Monday through Friday, 5-7 p.m., for the low price of $7 per person.  As a result of the rock bottom price, many fairgoers come back to the fair multiple times to take advantage of the special.” General admission on weekends, the most popular days is $17. While this includes unlimited rides and entertainment, it can add up. The fair has a large number of specials and discounts for groups like military, children and seniors. Going to the fair is an incredible adventure for the whole family and it doesn’t have to be expensive. Visit http://bragg.armymwr.com/us/bragg/ft-bragg-events/fort-bragg-fair?eID=386293 to find a complete list of prices. 


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    The Hit Men is a unique musical opportunity. Five of the most prolific hit-makers in the music industry are bringing their musical careers together on stage after working together in the studio for more than 40 years. All of these men have worked with countless musicians over their careers such as the Four Seasons, Barry Manilow, LL Cool J, Carly Simone and Korn. On this tour, they are performing some of their classic high-energy hits. Hitmen will be at Givens Performing Arts Center on April 23.

    As studio artists, these men performed steadily for decades, which makes for an incredible concert. These are men who have worked tirelessly for perfecting their craft and they have yet to slow down. 

    “A lot of times we see older artists come back and perform their old songs, but more often than not they have not kept it up. You hear them and just say ‘oh boy.’ But we are still in shape, we never stopped. We are studio artists we are the background guys. We never got out of it. If we are not up to it we don’t get to work. People call us because we know what we are doing and still sound great,” says Jimmy Ryan a Hit Men member. 

    Despite being continually active in the music industry, this concert does not focus on their modern work. Instead they are taking a step back in time. 

    “Production technology has come so far that the studio can take mediocre music and with the right beat, make it great to dance to, but it is not a song, it’s just a thumping beat. It doesn’t have the longevity that a great song has that really touches your heart,” Ryan said. 

    Their goal is more than performing great music; it is about transporting fans back to happy musical memories. 

    Even more important, the entire reason this group was created was to have fun. This desire to have fun is at the heart of every performance for both the band and the audience members. Performing in the studio and on the stage are both great, but very different. “Playing live is really when you get the feedback,” Ryan explained, “When you play for crowds between 1,000 and 7,000 and they are all on their feet cheering, you feel so much acknowledgment. Performing is really not just about the pay, though the pay is nice. It is about making people happy. We make people feel young again and that is tremendous, we are doing a psychological service.” 

    After years in the music business, Ryan has some advice for aspiring musicians, though it can truly apply to anyone looking for success. “Don’t be lazy,” he explains “If you want to grow up and really give people something, you have to put the time in. You can do it in any number of things. Otherwise you are wasting everyone’s time - most of all your own. There are new apps that make it easy to make okay music but not great music. That takes work.”

    The Hit Menwill perform on April 23 at 8 p.m. at the Givens Performing Arts Center. Tickets begin at $31. To purchase tickets or for more information visit http://www.uncp.edu/giving.advancement/givens-performing-arts-center/broadway-and-more-series. 


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    The Fayetteville-Fort Bragg community paid its respects to the men and women of the 1st Squadron, 17th Cavalry Regiment during a fly over at the Airborne and Special Operations Museum. The Fort Bragg-based squadron is the last on duty in the United States. The squadron and its 30 helicopters have been reassigned to South Korea. The OH-58D Kiowa Warrior primarily operates as an armed reconnaissance aircraft in support of ground troops. Except for the one remaining squadron, the Bell Kiowa is being replaced by the Boeing AH-64 Apache Attack Helicopter. The final flight from Simmons Army Airfield to Fayetteville and back was the community’s way of saying thank you for the service and farewell. 

    The Kiowa Warrior helicopter has played a key scouting role for decades. The Bell OH-58 Kiowa is a family of single-engine, single-rotor helicopters used for observation, utility and direct fire support. Bell manufactured the OH-58 for the Army based on its civilian Jet Ranger aircraft. The OH-58 has been in continuous use by the U.S. Army since 1969. The latest model, the OH-58D Kiowa Warrior, is primarily operated as an armed reconnaissance aircraft in support of ground troops. It is used worldwide having been exported to Austria, Canada, the Dominican Republic, Taiwan and Saudi Arabia. 

    The 17th Cavalry is an historical organization that began as a regiment of cavalry following the Poncho Villa Expedition. The unit was constituted in July 1916 in the Regular Army as the 17th Cavalry at Fort Bliss, Texas, and originally inactivated in September 1921. Then, it was reorganized as a part of the Army’s Regimental System in an ongoing effort to maintain the lineage and history of the Army. In early spring 2006, 1st Squadron, 17th Cavalry, transferred to Fort Campbell, Kentucky, and was reflagged as the 7th Squadron, 17th Cavalry of the 101st Airborne Division (Air Assault). As part of the Army’s modular force structure, the 1st Squadron was reassigned to the 82nd Airborne Division’s reorganized 82nd CAB. This summer, the squadron departs Fort Bragg for Korea.

    When the unit was reactivated and assigned to the 82nd CAB. The formation included: Headquarters and Headquarters Company (Gryphon), 1st Squadron, 17th Cavalry Regiment (Saber), 1st Attack Reconnaissance Battalion (Wolfpack), 2nd Assault Battalion (Corsair), 3rd General Support Aviation Battalion (Talon), and 122nd Aviation Support Battalion (Atlas).  When Saber’s nine-month deployment to South Korea is completed next year, the unit will switch to more modern Apache helicopters and unmanned aerial vehicles (drones). 

    Air cavalry soldiers are sometimes seen wearing traditional Stetson headgear. It was the headgear of Cavalrymen during the late 18th century into the 19th century, including the Indian Wars, Civil War and Mexican-American War. In the modern Army, the Stetson was revived as an unauthorized, unofficial headgear for the sake of esprit de corps. Because it is not authorized, wear and use
    of the Stetson is regulated by
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    Roses, succulents, calla lilies and more will take on a new level of sophistication as the Ellington-White Contemporary Art Gallery showcases more than 60 juried works with the 2nd Annual Art and Flower Exhibition at the Arts Council of Fayetteville/Cumberland County beginning this 4th Friday. This intrinsic showcase will pair original artworks along with unique floral arrangements created by local area floral designers and event planners.

    “Works will include paintings, drawings, collages and photography,” said Dwight Smith, artist and founder of the Ellington-White Contemporary Art Gallery. “This is a beautiful exhibition from all over the country. Such an exhibition demonstrates the continued significance of botanical art through both conventional and innovative methods.”

    The Ellington-White Contemporary Art Gallery began in Michigan as a project for two friends, Smith and Calvin Mims. The agency moved to Fayetteville in 2007, after ten years of cultural programming in Detroit, beginning first working with CommuniCare, Inc. The organization then moved to provide high quality after-school arts education to special needs youth through its “Discovering The Arts Program” taught by professional artists on the campus of Fayetteville State University and its Valley Gate offices. The programs provide a productive, structured and safe learning environment for under-served youth in Cumberland County during the after school, Saturday and summer vacation time. 

    “Research has shown a direct correlation between increased academic performance and decreased at-risk behaviors, increased self-esteem and increased problem-solving skills when young people participate in art, music, dance, theatre and creative writing programs,” said Smith. “By using visual and performance arts as a catalyst, we keep our participants engaged and active, help them to improve their academic performance and interpersonal skills and provide life experiences that will hopefully help keep them out of the juvenile justice system and point them towards becoming valued community members.”

    The exhibition will open to the general public at the Arts Council at 301 Hay Street from Friday, Apr. 22 during downtown’s 4th Friday celebration from 7 to 9 p.m.  and will hang through Saturday, May 21 during regular Arts Council hours. A gala reception is set for Thursday, Apr. 21, from 6 to 8 p.m. for members and invited guests of Ellington-White and the Arts Council. All art work will be for sale.

    Artists have been selected from all over the country. Image selection jurors were professors Shane Booth, Soni Martin and Dwight Smith from the Department of Performing and Fine Arts at Fayetteville State University.The floral arrangements were juried by the Garden Club Council of Fayetteville. 

    The Ellington-White Contemporary Gallery located at 113 Gillespie St., is an art gallery for emerging and professional artists, presenting a yearly exhibition schedule of national and local artists, national touring exhibitions and curatorial research projects in the visual arts and the humanities. Visit www.ellington-white.com for a complete listing of programs, events and activities.

    For more information on the Arts Council of Fayetteville/Cumberland County, visit, www.theartscouncil.com. Gallery hours are Monday through Thursday, 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., Friday from 9 a.m. to noon and Saturday from noon to 4 p.m.


     

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    Another city manager has been shown the door in Fayetteville with the abrupt resignation of Ted Voorhees on April 11. Contrary to what many people believe, we at Up & Coming Weekly, do not take his departure as a victory in any sense. Matter of fact, when you examine Voorhees’ tenure with the city and his relationship with the community, it becomes evident that his demise was not only predicable; it was inevitable. 

    Our city has gone through way too many city managers in the past two decades to think the flaw is with the man. And, I am not buying into the fact that they know and accept that their career life expectancy is only four to five years on the job. John Smith was Fayetteville’s City Manager from 1981 to 1997. He was an excellent city servant. I’d say that’s a pretty good record before the City Council fired him. They wanted Smith terminated because he wouldn’t fire Police Chief Ron Hanson, who was accused of racial discrimination in the firing of four Fayetteville police officers. 

    Sure, they gave Smith the same options as Voorhees, resign or be fired, but Smith, being a man of character and principle, refused. He chose to do his job honorably and standup for Chief Hanson and what he believed was good for the community. As a result, Smith kept his character and principles, but lost his job and went on to bigger and better things elsewhere. (Side note: Chief Ron Hanson was cleared of all charges and allegations against him.) 

    What’s the point and what does that have to do with recent action at the city? A closer look at the situations that lead up to Voorhees’ departure will indicate that there is plenty of blame to go around, with most of it belonging to City Council. Like in the HBO miniseries Game of Thrones, when striving to commandeer power, there is never a happy ending. The treacherous path and impending doom is described throughout the mini-series as “winter is coming!” In this case, Voorhees has vanished in a blizzard.  

    There are many things that contributed to his departure. First, it must be understood that Voorhees was a good hire. No doubt he had the qualifications, and during his tenure he demonstrated that he was intelligent, analytical and talented. Unfortunately, he was not a leader. Matter of fact, it probably was this deficiency along with his faulty judgment that ultimately cost him his job. Voorhees never acted like a person who had even the remotest desire to embrace the community that he was hired to serve. He arrived on the scene bold, arrogant and defiant. He made it known from the get-go that he was hired to shake things up, get things done and resurrect and elevate Fayetteville’s status to the caliber of other North Carolina cities. 

    His persona wasn’t natural. It was as if someone else was controlling his actions, a secret confidante whispering instructions in his ear, feeding him information and directing him on what policies to pursue and actions to take. All the while giving him this Teflon-like confidence and (false) sense of security, since he thought the actions he was undertaking were legitimate and that he was doing what was good for the citizens and what the city council mandated. 

    The first indication that something was terribly wrong came when he referenced the dissolution of the PWC Board, merging departments and raiding PWC’s coffers. What? Voorhees hadn’t even been on the job long enough to know the names of PWC management, let alone pass judgment on their competence, management style and community commitment. It quickly became apparent Voorhees was getting his marching orders from outside source(s), and the information he was acting on was misdirected and misguided. 

    Members of City Council must share the responsibility for his dismissal and the costly replacement process that must be addressed. Many of our newly-elected freshmen Council members failed to embrace their positions. 

    Anyone who attends or watches the City Council meetings on TV observes how grossly unprepared some of these councilmen are for the meetings. It is doubtful that they actually have an understanding of the basics of a city manager form of government. They are failing in their responsibility to understand how our local government should work. This is evident in the conduct of their duties and responsibilities. It is obvious that they did not read their council packets, which contain information about what will be discussed at the meeting. These packets are designed to prepare them to discuss and analyze the issues. Lack of knowledge led to their dependence on Voorhees for information and direction. He became a Pied Piper of sorts because it was easier to take instructions from him than it was for them to do their own homework and due diligence on city-related issues. Eventually they became pawns doing his bidding. This is one of the reasons the city and PWC are now engaged in a legal dispute. Even some of our senior council members made themselves subservient to Voorhees’ wishes to the point that the perception was that City Council worked at the pleasure of the city manager rather than the other way around. Bizarre. 

    Voorhees’ failure to address the massive complaints from builders and developers about the way the building inspectors operated within the city limits and the inconsistent enforcement of the city’s Unified Development Ordinance was another major point of contention. At one point, this negative situation spiraled out of control with major developers threatening pull out of Fayetteville or declaring they would never return to Fayetteville and Cumberland County.

    At its worst, the Fayetteville Regional Chamber was asked to create a board of about 15 involved local citizens to discuss the U.D.O. and voice concerns and recommendations for improvement. To my knowledge, little  was done with that information, no improvements were made and the  inspection department continues to run amuck to the detriment of local businesses. The net result has been ongoing discourse and a crippled economic development program at a time when fostering and nurturing economic development to create jobs within our community is one of our highest priorities. 

    Bottom line, I never felt Ted Voorhees was his own man. From the beginning, Voorhees was spoon-fed information from outside power brokers who used him to do their dirty work while he thought he was taking a shortcut to power. His downfall came from not taking the time to know or understand this community. He trusted the wrong people. Then again, as long as Fayetteville maintains nine separate districts, and those nine district councilmen continue to focus only on their districts and constituents, not much is going to change in the future with or without a competent city manager. 

    Voorhees’ resignation concludes another chapter in Fayetteville’s sordid history book. We can again start anew confident that we are our own worst enemy. I hope some lessons have been learned. Since we are starting over, let’s hope that Fayetteville will consider this: How about getting beyond the race issue? It only holds us back and consumes way too much of our positive energy, time and money. 

    I contend that citizens of Fayetteville and Cumberland County do not have a race problem. I don’t see it. I I have never experienced it. I contend that race discrimination only exists with those people, organizations and institutions that profit from this kind of discourse. 

    We should not encourage or endorse such behavior. Rather, we should focus on what is good, right and beneficial for all Fayetteville and Cumberland County residents. Doing the right things, for the right reasons always works. Voorhees is gone, however, the situations, people and circumstances that caused this costly disruption in management are not. Let’s hope everyone involved has gotten a lot wiser. I support the mayor and applaud Council’s actions in the dismissal of Voorhees. Until it becomes evident that every City Council official is dedicated and serious about embracing the responsibilities of being an honest and competent servant for the City of Fayetteville, I cannot support four-year terms. Four years will be too long (and costly) to deal with ineptness. Agree? 

    Thanks for reading Up & Coming Weekly


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    “Friends and good manners will carry you where money won’t.”

    – Margaret Walker


    A polite, and mannerly friend will soon be teaching etiquette at a local educational institution; a task that suits her perfectly. Her students will enter the real world with enhanced skills for their personal and workplace lives as well as a clearer understanding of why etiquette — what some call ordinary good manners — is the grease that smooths interactions with our fellow human beings. It keeps us from saying ugly or unkind words to each other or conking someone over the head when we are angry or displeased. 

    Etiquette/manners require us to consider others’ feelings, and if we do not, brand us as crude bores, mean people or worse. Etiquette evolves over time and is different in different cultures — think polite bowing in some eastern cultures and the wild proliferation of fish forks and grapefruit spoons at proper Victorian dinner tables, but its core is always respectful treatment of those around us. 

    “Miss Manners” — aka Judith Martin, puts it this way. “I make a distinction between manners and etiquette — manners as the principles that are eternal and universal, etiquette as the particular rules which are arbitrary and different in different times, different situations, different cultures.” 

    However we label it, it underlies civil society.

    It is also simple, as Parents instructs its readers. Three decades ago Robert Fulghum published All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten, a classic take on living a good life. Parents magazine is more specific in its piece “25 Manners Kids Should Know,” tips that work just as well for adults. Here are some of the most obvious and the most abused.

     “Do not comment on other people’s physical characteristics unless, of course, it’s to compliment them, which is always welcome.” The Dicksons learned this one the hard way, when a Precious Jewel standing nearly 3-feet tall looked up from that low vantage point past a pot belly so impressive that its owner, my professional colleague, had to wear his belt below it. The child looked into the man’s eyes and said flatly but clear as a bell, “You’re fat.” We quickly and privately had a mother-child conference on the topic “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all” and that not every thought needs to be spoken aloud. Several years later, a tutorial was required after the Jewel and a friend commented on a classmate’s large ears, and we landed in the principal’s office, but eventually the lesson was learned.

    “Knock on closed doors — and wait to see if there’s a response — before entering.” Every parent I have ever talked to about this one has had such an experience, often involving the bathroom or bedroom. Fortunately, most children figure this one out about the time they would like a little privacy themselves. I have no idea what to do about adults who have not learned this except scream at them. They deserve to be embarrassed.

     “Use eating utensils properly. If you are unsure how to do so, ask your parents to teach you or watch what adults do.” I suspect this is will be an important aspect of what my friend will teach her students. She may also tell the story of President George H. W. Bush drinking water from his fingerbowl because a guest did so, and he did not want to embarrass his guest, an example of the ultimate good manners.

    “Be appreciative and say ‘thank you’ for any gift you receive. In the age of email, a handwritten thank you note can have a powerful effect.” The Precious Jewels were instructed from an early age that a gift was off limits until the note was written. This was not always effective, but at least they got the idea. Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis was so good at thank yous and congratulations that her notes—always on blue stationery—are treasured keepsakes in many families.

     “The world is not interested in what you dislike. Keep negative opinions to yourself, or between you and your friends, and out of earshot of adults.” And, “Never use foul language in front of adults. Grown-ups already know all those words, and they find them boring and unpleasant.” Not so sure about sanctioning negative comments and ugly language among children as long as adults do not hear them, but clearly children do experiment and learn from it. It is also a fact that I was a naïve mother when the Precious Jewels were young. A story famous in our family involves the time I told a friend the children were in the back yard playing. My next door neighbor, a kindergarten teacher who had seen it all and whose own children were also in the yard, said, “No, Margaret, they are in the backyard smoking.”

    Obviously, manners can be learned and the effort is well worth it.

    But for those who never learn, Mark Twain says this. “It is a mistake that there is no bath that will cure people’s (bad) manners. But drowning would help.”

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    The Veteran’s Memorial Museum in Huntsville, Alabama, is home of what is believed to be the oldest prototype jeep in North America. The museum and the Historic Vehicle Association have verified its authenticity. The GP-01 is one of five original test vehicles — two from Ford, two from Willys Overland and one from American Bantam. It was originally called the “Pygmy.” The GP designation is believed by many to have hatched the name “Jeep,” which is among the world’s most iconic automobile brands. The little 4x4 1/4-ton vehicle became the renowned and most universally recognized automotive shape in the world.

    The original jeep produced for the U.S. Army early in World War II featured the upright grille with vertical slots that have become the brand’s trademark. Willlys and Ford produced more than 648,000 Jeeps. Fiat Chrysler’s Jeep Wrangler is a direct descendent of the original Army Jeep whose trademark, like Kleenex, has become a universal reference for similar products.  

    The U.S. phased the Jeep out of the military arsenal starting in 1984 when it adopted the High Mobility Multipurpose Wheeled Vehicle, popularly known as the Humvee. The Jeep may be headed for a comeback. According to a report in Stars and Stripes,the Army is looking for an inexpensive, lightweight, unarmored, all-terrain vehicle. It would bridge a gap between the Army’s upcoming, heavily armored JLTV and the light MRZRs. A company that customizes Wranglers for special uses thinks that sounds a lot like the original Jeep, and they’re submitting modified Jeep Wranglers for the competition. 

    As a popular civilian vehicle, the Jeep is quite a success story. “The Wrangler is our number 1 seller. It accounts for about one third of all of our Jeep sales,” says Dan Dederick, general manager of Hendrick Chrysler Jeep in Fayetteville. Soldiers at Fort Bragg are especially fond of the Wrangler for its off-road capabilities. The Wrangler Rubicon has been consistently voted the best 4 X 4 by off-road magazines. It’s unusual and durable because it has a body on steel frame construction. It also has front and rear solid axles. There are no other vehicles quite like the Wrangler. Coil springs were added in 1996 to make a better overall ride quality. The convertible top is standard, just like the military version. Best of all, the doors can be removed. “The last two years have been record years for Jeep. It is selling so well Chrysler is adding a new Wrangler factory for 2017,” adds Dederick.

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    Outer Loop Progress

    The next phase of Fayetteville’s Outer Loop is scheduled to open to traffic in four months. North Carolina Department of Transportation Division Engineer Greg Burns tells Up & Coming Weekly the section of what will eventually be I-295, from Ramsey Street to Bragg Boulevard, will open in August. Overhead signs and guard rails are being installed now. The section from Bragg Boulevard to the All American Freeway is set to open in the fall. “Bragg Boulevard will not be closed until the work on Murchison Road and Bragg Boulevard through Spring Lake is complete,” said Burns. “We anticipate that work to be finished by December 2016 to January 2017.” 

    The Army’s ability to close Bragg Boulevard (NC 87-24) to thru traffic motivated the North Carolina Board of Transportation to place the Fayetteville Outer Loop project on a fast track several years ago, bypassing a major highway project in Charlotte. But in 200, the project was temporarily stalled because of a shortage of highway funds. Military officials made a twofold request to DOT; first that it gain direct access to I-95 and second that an alternate high-speed route to Bragg Boulevard be provided so the Army could close off the boulevard in the vicinity of Stryker Golf Course thereby improving security on post. Murchison Road was upgraded with a loop to Bragg Boulevard.


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    Downtown Parking a Problem, Again

    Remember the days of parking meters on Hay Street, downtown?  The Fayetteville City Council is seriously giving some thought to bringing back the dime-eating devices. A 7-year-old ordinance allowing on-street paid parking under some circumstances could make a comeback. The local law isn’t being enforced currently, and the Downtown Alliance isn’t anxious for its comeback. About 40 members of the Alliance held a quarterly meeting last week to hear City Traffic Engineer Lee Jernigan bring them up to speed. “Free parking has been a luxury in this community,” said Mayor Pro Tem Mitch Colvin at a March 29 City Council meeting. The Downtown Alliance will conduct a study on how to improve downtown marketing and the Council seems willing to wait for the findings. Parking is a big part of enhancing the downtown area. Since the opening of the Airborne & Special Operations Museum more than 15 years ago, real revitalization has revived commerce and good living and reduced crime downtown. One of the challenges is figuring out how to encourage people to use the Franklin Street parking deck. One way would be the resurrection of those meters on Hay Street.

     

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    VA Health Center to Close?                   

    A blue-ribbon panel created to evaluate the Veterans Affairs healthcare system is floating a radical proposal to eliminate all VA medical centers and outpatient facilities over the next 20 years. Instead, the VA would transition 9 million veterans to the private sector. This, after a $120 million health center was opened in Fayetteville six months ago. Seven of the 15 outside advisers appointed to recommend ways to improve veterans’ health services proposed the startling move. David Blom, president and CEO of the Ohio Health System, authored the report with input from the six other members.  Blom wrote that the goal is to “meet the needs of every veteran,” something he claims is not being done now.

    “The commission finds the current VA healthcare system is seriously broken … and there is no efficient path to repair it,” Blom and other commission members wrote in their report. Shuttering the largest medical system in the country would leave the VA primarily a payer, like Medicare. To entice physicians and facilities to accept more veterans as patients, the document proposes that VA reimbursement rates be set 5 to 10 percent higher than Medicare pays.

    Backlash from veteran service organizations was swift. The American Legion noted many commissioners are medical-industry executives who stand to gain financially if VA care is privatized. Paralyzed Veterans of America said placing vets with special needs into private-sector care “is a death sentence.” Veterans Affairs Undersecretary of Health Dr. David Shulkin told commissioners March 23 that the VA is already undergoing a “bold transformation” to improve care at in-house health facilities. 


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    Nextdoor Polls Residents               

    Connecting neighbors with one another via social networking is what Nextdoor is all about. More than 9,000 Fayetteville households are already signed up. Now, using www.nextdoor.com, members can participate in a new polling feature. Subscribers are asked to respond to questionnaires about crime and crime fighting. “It’s a way for us to follow chronic crime issues,” said Police Chief Harold Medlock. It’s an outgrowth of the White House Open Data Policing Initiative, in which Medlock has participated. He’s in Washington this week. The police department has used Nextdoor for nearly two years. Polling can be done in individual neighborhoods or citywide. It’s administered by the PD’s Crime Prevention Division and is the first use of the social media by a police agency in North Carolina.


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    Fayetteville Murder Rate Up                 

    “This sort of thing creates fear in our city,” said Fayetteville Police Chief Harold Medlock. “I’m angry,” he added. Medlock was referring to Fayetteville’s eighth homicide of the year. That’s twice the number of murders during the corresponding period last year (and there’s been a ninth murder since then). Joseph Alexander Cason Jr., 22, of Amanda Circle, was jailed on a first-degree murder charge and two counts of shooting into an occupied vehicle following a rolling gun battle. Police identified the shooting victim as Thomas Durane Evans, 28, of Dudley Drive. 

    The shooting stemmed from an incident the week before at a Graham Road convenience store in which Evans’ brother was shot. “This was a straight up retaliation shooting,” said Medlock. Cason and Evans faced off each other in the parking lot of the Rayconda Shopping Plaza off Raeford Road. They then got into their cars and began shooting at each other as they drove along Raeford Road. The vehicles turned onto Strickland Bridge Road, and at one point, Medlock said, the vehicles were side by side as the drivers exchanged gunfire. “Too many young black men are taking lives in this community and if they want to fire me for saying that, so be it. At some point folks have to take responsibility for their actions … I’ve had it. We can’t police stupid,” Medlock added. 


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    Camp Corral                 

    If you’ve eaten at Golden Corral ® on Skibo Road recently, you likely were asked to make a donation to Camp Corral. It’s the latest effort by the Raleigh-based restaurant chain to support summer camp for the children of wounded, disabled and fallen service members. Fayetteville was home to the first Golden Corral ® restaurant, which was opened on Bragg Boulevard in 1973. The fledgling company began as an affordable steakhouse. Forty-three years later, Golden Corral ® is well known as America’s #1 buffet and grill. According to its website, when you make a gift to Camp Corral, you’re not only giving military children a week of fun, but also providing them with life-changing experiences. “Both of my kids came home with tons of new knowledge, skills and confidence. We have moved 13 times in 19 years, and the kids never really seemed to fit in with non-military kids because their lives are so different from the friends from school,” said one grateful parent. The fundraiser, which began this month, coincides with the fifth anniversary of Camp Corral. More than 2,300 kids are on the waiting list to attend 21 camps including one in eastern North Carolina. The company says it has raised more than $5 million for Camp Corral.


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    We know exactly what DTC is even if we do not recognize the acronym. 

    DTC stands for direct-to-consumer advertising, a term that generally refers to the ubiquitous drug ads brought to us by Big Pharma encouraging us to ask our doctors if “Make me feel better” is right for us. DTC is what informs us — and our naturally curious children — about “erections lasting longer than four hours,” constipation caused by opioid use, brand name surgically implanted mechanical joints and painful sex after menopause. Not to mention all manner of unpleasant digestive disorders, sleep interruptions and debilitating mental-health conditions. 

    People suffering such conditions are generally depicted looking sad and pained, but after taking “Make me feel better,” they are frolicking in impossibly green meadows holding hands with their loved ones and trailed by happy dogs. DTC refers to drugs sold by prescription only and not to the ones we can buy over the counter, such as aspirin.

    Who knew? And, frankly, who wants to know and talk about all this outside the privacy of your doctor’s office?

    An entire generation of Americans has grown up since 1997, when the U.S. Food and Drug Administration approved DTC for prescription drugs. It has done so presumably thinking DTC is the norm, but it is not. The United States is one of only three Western nations that allow this sort of DTC advertising. The others are New Zealand, a nation with half the population of North Carolina and Brazil, which strictly limits such advertising. Apparently, no other Western nations think pharmaceutical DTC advertising is such a great idea. 

    Neither does Minnesota Senator Al Franken, he of Saturday Night Livefame who morphed into politics and was elected to the United States Senate by just more than 300 votes. Franken has filed a bill to eliminate tax breaks taken by pharmaceutical advertisers and which make all those billions spent on DTC advertising more palatable. Franken is not alone. You are totally safe in betting the farm that Big Parma will oppose that bill with big vigor — and big money.

    Late last year, the American Medical Association called for a ban on DTC advertising, citing its dramatic growth and suggesting the ads are driving consumer demand for expensive drugs when less expensive ones are equally or more effective and when the drugs in question may not be appropriate at all.

    Part of the concern is that DTC advertising has ballooned since the FDA initially okayed it, with as many as 80 ads an hour and annual spending reaching $5.4B — yes, billion — last year, according to Kantar Media. All that spending, even with tax breaks, amounts to a lot of money, which means drugs cost more. The New York Times reports that one heavily advertised drug to fight Hepatitis C costs a whopping $1,100 per pill. Dr. Patrice Davis, incoming chair of the American Medical Association, expresses the problem this way, “Patient care can be compromised and delayed when prescription drugs are unaffordable and subject to coverage limitations by the patient’s health plan. In a worst-case scenario, patients forego necessary treatments when drugs are too expensive.”

    In addition, the FDA’s Deputy Commissioner Dr. Janet Woodcock says, “Much of our compliance and enforcement activity is spent trying to ensure that companies don’t low-ball risks in the ad and provide inflated expectations of benefit.” 

    FDA physician surveys find that docs, 78 percent of them, think patients have a fairly solid understanding of the benefits of
    DTC advertised drugs but a minority of 40 percent believe their patients have a grasp of risks, and 65 percent think their patients are confused about benefits and risks of drugs advertised by people frolicking in too green fields.

    Put me in that category.

    Those surveys have also found that doctors feel pressured by patients to whip out their prescription pads to prescribe the drug du jour, whether it fits a need or not. Several of my own docs have confirmed such pressure from patients who have seen DTC ads and who may have done Internet research themselves.

    Opinions are not all negative.

    The AMA says docs also tell them that DTC advertising has made some patients both more knowledgeable and more thoughtful about treatment options for what ails them. Some also say that DTC advertising has engaged more patients in making their own health care decisions. In addition, surveys indicate that DTC ads encourage discussions between doctors and patients on health care issues.

    On balance, Senator Franken’s effort to slow down DTC advertising feels right. It is neither all bad nor all good, but a thoughtful look at what only the United States and one other tiny nation have embraced full bore is in order.

    Maybe I am just tired of discussing bodily functions in Technicolor 24/7.

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    Once upon a time, in a county, not too far away, there lived chemical cooties in people’s well water. Presented for your consideration is the curious case of Lee County, the N.C. Department of Health and Human Services and some interesting water ingredients called Hexavalent Chromium, better known as Chromium 6 and its ugly cousin Vanadium. 

    Many years ago, people thought state government was responsible for protecting the health of its citizens from things that go bump in the drinking water. This quaint notion is no longer operative in our brave new world of deregulating polluters and campaign contributors. 

    Recall Flint, Michigan’s, chunky style lead-infused drinking water. North Carolina is not letting Michigan get ahead of us in the burgeoning field of water pollution for fun and profit. Duke Energy had a little accident in 2014, in which zillions of tons of coal ash dumped itself into the Dan River. Duke is going to scoop up that coal ash and dump it in Lee County in some old quarries. To get a baseline of the quality of pre-coal ash dump well water in Lee County, the state did some testing on local wells. “Surprise, surprise,” as Gomer would say. The State’s test results showed about 14 wells were contaminated with Hexavalent Chromium which has been shown to cause cancer. 

    Here the story gets murky and governmental fingers begin to point. The Lee County Health Department says it relied on the N.C. Health Department instructions about Chromium 6 when it sent letters to local residents not to drink or cook with the water due to polluting cooties. This created anxiety and unpleasantness. After a while, the N.C. Health Department backed off its warning not to drink the water using the colorful but unreassuring reasoning that other cities in the state had levels of Chromium 6 equal to Lee’s water. Lee residents viewed this as a flip flop by the state about their health. They are not convinced the water is now suddenly safe. 

    N.C.’s State Health Director was quoted in the news about the reversal of fortune for the drinking water saying, “ We’re not really backing off recommendations. We’re just evolving as we always do in public health as we receive more information.” 

    This statement wins this week’s prize for Governmental Double Speak. Cancer doesn’t metastasize, it just evolves. So now the water is okay to drink. Big Brother’s Double Speak tells me so. What was once double plus ungood is now double plus good. 

    The State’s reversal on Chromium 6 reminds me when our beloved sainted President Ronald Reagan once declared “Ketchup is a vegetable” to lower the costs of school lunches. Chromium 6 is a tasty treat. The state magically fixed Lee’s water by Proclamation Incantation. Lee County still has a public relations problem regarding its water. Time to turn a negative into a positive through the power of advertising. The Acme Advertising Agency has come up with a campaign to switch toxic Hexavalent Chromium into exciting and daring Chromium 666 by rebranding Lee County water an energy drink that will make you glow in the dark. 

    Acme’s Chromium 666 campaign has been leaked, which I now share with you, gentle readers. The following slogans will appear soon on bottled Lee County water featuring its secret ingredient Chromium 666: If you’ve got the time, we’ve got the Chromium 666. Water, water, everywhere and not a drop to drink without Chromium 666. Have a Chromium 666 and a smile. Things go better with Chromium 666. The cold, crisp taste of Chromium 666. Great taste, almost zero carcinogens — Chromium 666. I’d like to buy the world a Chromium 666. Chromium 666, melts in your cells, not in your hand. Chromium 666: Have it our way. Silly rabbit, Chromium 666 is for kids. Chromium 666, it’s magically delicious. Chromium 666 is good to the last drop. The best part of waking up is Chromium 666 in your cup. Promise her anything, but give her Chromium 666. Sometimes you feel like a Chromium 666, sometimes you don’t. We do Chromium 666 right. Chromium 666 is forever. Come thirsty, leave mutated with Chromium 666. When you’ve said Chromium 666, you’ve said it all. Chromium 666, it tastes great, less living. We will sell no Chromium 666 before its time. Lee County water: the champaign of Chromium 666. Like a bad neighbor, Chromium 666 is here. Chromium 666, it cleans your intestines as it cleans your clock. 

    Bad old Hexavalent Chromium is flushed down the memory hole. Exciting new Chromium 666 not only is good for you, but it’s good for campaign contributors. This is an election year after all. Drink up! 

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    Since the end of World War II, Fayetteville’s Hamont Grill & Steak House was the place to eat, meet and greet friends and neighbors. All those years of local history, much of it legendary, went up in flames Saturday, April 9. Fort Bragg soldier, Staff Sgt. Terry Deitrich and his wife, were the first to report the fire about 3:30 a.m., said Assistant Fire Chief Kevin Morgan. The Fire Engine 2 crew, stationed just a block away, requested a second alarm on arrival. 

    “I am half-dead,” Pete Skenteris said. He’s owned the restaurant for 60 years.  Everyone who was anyone ate there over the years. “Mayors, senators, congressmen, presidents — all been here,” Skenteris added. 

    There were no injuries. The walls of the two-story building are still standing, concealing the devastation inside. Fire officials said the roof collapsed on the gutted interior of what can only be described as a total loss. Memorabilia and framed photos of the rich and famous which Skenteris had collected over time were lost. 

    Skenteris said the restaurant closed at its regular time Saturday night and there was no sign of trouble. “We have a list of things we do every night,” he told reporters. “We check the stoves, check the grill, the hood fans. We check everything.” 

    Fire units from at least six city fire stations responded to the blaze and attempted an attack from the roof where flames had broken through from below. But firefighters were evacuated from the building fearing the roof would collapse. Engine 2 was still on the scene after daybreak to sniff out hot spots. 

    The restaurant’s original owner, Steve Fermanides, opened the business as a sandwich shop and later expanded the dining area. He sold the business to Skenteris in the mid-1950s. Fermanides is responsible for the iconic Hamont Grill sign atop the building. The city declared the sign an historic landmark thereby allowing it to remain despite a new sign ordinance.

    Sexting and Sextortation            

    Cumberland County Schools held a seminar warning middle and high school students about the very real dangers of sexting. South View High School was the scene of the workshop on the consequences and dangers of sexting and sextortion. Remember the time when if you liked a boy at school you’d pass him a note? Today, the disturbing new trend in teenage flirting is sending nude or semi-nude photos from cell phone to cell phone. It’s called sexting. While the X-rated offerings are usually intended just for a boyfriend or girlfriend, the photos often wind up being shared. 

    Social media and teenage girls can be a risky combination. Girls still want “likes,” but the lengths some are willing to go to get them — whether it’s revealing a tearstained face after a breakup or a close-up bikini shot — put them at risk for online sexual aggression, emotional trauma and damage to their reputations. Finding authenticity is a struggle for teens…always has been. It’s a natural part of growing up. Social media is the place girls go to get real. In her book, American Girls: Social Media and the Secret Lives of Teenagers, Nancy Jo Sales says today’s girls are coming of age in a culture that normalizes exhibitionism. One in four kids reports being sexually harassed by friends online. But at the same time, revealing too much — for example, nude photos that go public — gets you blacklisted on public “slut pages.”

  • 041316_jeff2.jpgIt’s much ado about nothing, as South Carolina Gov. Nikki Haley sees it. Haley says her office has not received any complaints about who uses what bathroom, adding that South Carolinians already are respectful to people from different backgrounds. Her remarks came in response to a transgender-bathroom bill, sponsored by state Sen. Lee Bright, Republican, Spartanburg that deals with the rights of people based on their gender identity. 

    “I don’t believe it’s necessary,” Haley told reporters. “When we look at our situation, we’re not hearing of anybody’s religious liberties being violated, and we’re again not hearing any citizens that are being violated in terms of freedoms,” she said. 

    It would ban transgender people from using public bathrooms, showers or changing rooms of their choice. Bright said his proposal mimics a law passed last month in North Carolina. Except it doesn’t prohibit local governments from providing anti-discrimination protections for gays and lesbians, nor does it bar employees from taking discrimination claims to state courts. “Like it or not, South Carolina is doing really well when it comes to respect and when it comes to kindness and when it comes to acceptance,” the governor added. 

    Haley mentioned a South Carolina law, passed in 1999, that allows business owners to exercise their religious rights. Asked to explain the connection between the rights of citizens and business owners, the governor said religious-freedom advocates see transgender people using the bathroom opposite from their birth gender as a violation of their rights. 

    “They very much see this as something that goes against their religious beliefs,” she said. Bright contends his proposal is not a religious-freedom bill. “I think it’s a public-safety issue,” Bright said referring to concerns that male predators are allowed to enter women’s restrooms without a state law.

    Transgender advocates have said those fears are a myth, and that transgender men and women use public restrooms everyday with no problems or disruptions. The head of the South Carolina Chamber of Commerce said he agreed with the governor’s opinion that Bright’s bill is unnecessary. North Carolina’s new law, which Gov. Pat McCrory signed March 23, limits legal protections of LGBT individuals by setting a statewide definition of protected classes of citizens. The law means schools and local governments cannot adopt more inclusive rules. Legislative leaders said they were responding to Charlotte’s ordinance, which would have allowed transgender people to use the bathroom that corresponds to the gender with which they identify. Since the bill’s signing, more than 100 prominent CEOs, including PayPal’s, have signaled their opposition.

    One reason North Carolina’s legislation could be particularly damaging is that it runs counter to the image the state has cultivated nationwide as a more progressive, moderate Southern state, said Mark Sweeney, senior principal at McCallum Sweeney in Greenville, South Carolina. He said the companies that Charlotte in particular is seeking to recruit — high-tech, financial and advanced manufacturing — need to attract and retain millennial workers who are especially sensitive to issues such as LGBT rights. Another reason the North Carolina law stands out is that Georgia’s governor vetoed a similar measure last month. The business community applauded that decision, with the Metro Atlanta Chamber of Commerce issuing a statement commending Gov. Nathan Deal, a Republican, for “an outcome that preserves Georgia’s positive business climate, encourages job growth and sustains our quality of life.”


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    On April 16, Cumberland Oratorio Singers, in collaboration with the Fayetteville Symphony Orchestra, presents Carmina Burana at Fayetteville State University’s Seabrook Auditorium. It’s the third of four concerts for the Cumberland Oratorio Singers this year. 

    Collaborating is nothing new for the oratorio or for the symphony, in fact, concerts like this are a long-time goal for both organizations. 

    “It was an agreed goal of Dr. Fakhouri and I that we would one day have our respectful community organizations provide concert experiences at this level,” said COS Artistic Director Dr. Michael Martin. “In 2008, we set out on building both of our organizations so that these partnerships would be possible. Our first collaboration was Vaughn Williams Serenade to Music. This was followed by Beethoven’s Symphony #9 with a collaboration including area colleges and the Cumberland Oratorio Singers, and it has grown since then.” 

    While events like this bring an added dimension to Fayetteville’s music scene, there are some challenges. One of them is a lot of people on the stage. Martin noted that it is unique to much larger metropolitan areas to have such concert experiences available. 

    “It says a lot about the dedication and commitment of artists, musicians and the philanthropy of area Fayetteville foundations to sponsor such strong musical organizations to perform these large works,” said Martin. 

    Carl Orff’s Carmina Burana is a setting of 24 songs from a much larger collection of texts dating mostly from the 11th or 12th century, including some from the 13th century. In 1934, Orff encountered the 1847 edition of the Carmina Burana, compiled by Johann Andreas Schmeller.The songs in this work were selected from that edition. 

    “The songs cover a wide range of topics, as familiar in the 13th century as they are in the 21st century: the fickleness of fortune and wealth, the nature of life, the joy of the return of spring and the pleasures and perils of drinking, gluttony, gambling and love,” said Martin. “They are also mixture of languages from Medieval Latin, to German and French, making the performance of the texts pretty tricky! Interestingly, this is a work known by most people, even though it is not always heard in its entirety. The first movement, “O Fortuna,” has appeared in many media over the years from sporting events to beer commercials, as well as been the focus of many parodies.”

    People who regularly attend COS performances will notice a few differences from previous performances. The concert features COS and Methodist University Chorale appearing with the FSO in this final concert. 

    “So, this is not a typical concert of ours which would feature only choral music. However, the COS does bring regular choral/orchestral works to their seasons,” said Martin. 

    He added that the newly formed youth chorus will join the event as well. 

    The final Cumberland Oratorio Singers concert of the season is on May 13 at St. Ann Catholic Church. It will be a performance of new work by Ola Gjeillo. After that, the choral group is set to prepare for next season. Planning is already underway because next year is the 25th season for the Cumberland Oratorio Singers. Martin invites anyone who is interested to contact COS at www.singwithcos.org. 

    “I always want to reach out to Fayetteville to have people who like to sing come sing with us! I know we do not have the only 75 people that sing in Fayetteville! Come join us! We are your community choir,” he said.

    Carmina Burana starts at 7:30 p.m. and takes place at Fayetteville State University’s Seabrook Auditorium. For more information or to purchase tickets, visit www.singwithcos.org.  

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    Hogs & Rags isn’t your typical motorcycle rally for many reasons. The main one being that it involves both motorcycles and cars (mostly convertibles). Some of the others include a stop for a hearty country breakfast at Rockin’-A-Ranch, a police-escorted ride the entire 118 miles and a huge lunch and entertainment at Barefood Landing in North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. It’s a day filled with excitement food, fun and camaraderie that benefits three great local organizations: the American Cancer Society, The Green Beret Foundation and the Kidsville News Literacy and Education Foundation. 

    The Hogs & Rags Rally is a sanctioned Dogwood Festival event and will actually start April 22 with Fayetteville organizers hosting a welcome party at Mac’s Speed Shop on McPherson Church Road. Fayetteville’s Mayor Nat Robertson and his wife, Kim, will “meet & greet” local riders and greet out of town guests. The Robertson are motorcycle riders and will lead the ride the next day on April 23.

    The Hogs & Rags rally started 11 years ago as a way for friends (not all of whom had motorcycles) to enjoy a day together on the road. Today, it has grown to be the largest area motorcycle event and one that is anticipated each and every year. Gardner Altman is one of the founders of Hogs & Rags and he’s looking forward to the ride. He’ll be there in his 1968 Cadillac convertible. 

    “I’ve been really surprised by the support and reception this event receives from the community,” said Altman. “Not just the bikers and cars that participate every year, but the entire community — businesses, people who come out to watch the ride, volunteers and the wonderful hard working team members — the support is broad based. It’s been a tremendous success — more than I ever envisioned. The purpose is to have fun. Any time you bring people together and they have fun and they come back.”

    Registration begins at 7 a.m. and runs through 9 a.m. at the Airborne & Special Operations Museum. It is recommended that riders don’t wait until the last minute to show up. There is plenty to do and see prior to the ride. Including the introductions of the Fayetteville Dogwood Queens. Wendy Rogers, one of the event organizers said, “We do a safety briefing before the ride so that everyone knows to obey the rules and stay safe along the way. Amazingly, we are escorted all the way by the dherriff’s departments from each county that we pass through.”

    It’s kickstands up at 9 a.m. as the group departs from the ASOM for Rockin-A-Ranch in White Oak with the Robertson’s leading the way to the full country breakfast at the ranch. 

    “I think the energy and enthusiasm is a lot of fun,” said Altman. “My favorite thing is when I am at my farm (Rockin’ - A- Ranch) and see all the motorcycles and cars come riding by. All that adrenaline and energy is exciting.”

    The group is back on the road at 10:45 a.m heading to Wild Wings Café where they will arrive two hours later for lunch, entertainment, prize raffles to top off the day’s events. After the festivities and fellowship, Hogs & Rags adjourns for another year leaving everyone free to enjoy the afternoon in Myrtle Beach or have a casual ride back home to Fayetteville to enjoy the Dogwood Festival and the Saturday night concert at Festival Park. 

    Traditionally, the Hog & Rags Rally welcomes bikes of all kinds as well as trikes, convertibles, muscle cars and street rods. The event has grown every year.  

    “If you come one year, chances are you will be back,” said Rogers. “It only takes one time. It is so much fun that you just can’t stay away the next year.”

    Last year the Hogs & Rags Rally raised and donated more than $15,000 to three local 501(c)(3) non-profit organizations. 

    The American Cancer Society helps “people stay well and get well, find cures and fight back against cancer.” It’s been the goal for more than 100 years and will continue to be a priority as the organization fights to save lives and create a world with less cancer.

    About 2.5 million volunteers, along with professional staff work tirelessly each day to fight back and find cures for cancer. They do this by helping people stay well, which includes developing guidelines for screening tests, developing nutritional and physical activity guidelines, creating personal health action plans and more. Helping people get well is also a priority and the American Cancer Society plays a role in this with a hotline to answer questions and provide resources. The organization also has more than 120 sites at hospitals and treatment centers around the country. Finding cures plays a vital role in the fight against cancer. Find out more about the American Cancer Society at www.cancer.org.

    The Green Beret Foundation provides immediate and long-term support to wounded Green Berets, their families and the families of the fallen. Specifically that means when a Green Beret is injured in the line of duty, the Green Beret Foundation sends him and his family a check for $1,000 and essentials needed for a hospital stay. Sometimes it takes more than a short hospital stay for a soldier and his family to recover. The Green Beret Foundation is there to support them during this time, too. The organization supplements care that the Veteran’s Administration offers by paying for treatments like hyperbaric oxygen therapy for traumatic brain injury and PTSD, laser nerve therapy and adaptive and recovery equipment. 

    Gold Star families have a friend in the community in the Green Beret Foundation. The organization covers unfunded funeral expenses and long-term support to the families. It also hosts events like reconnect weekends to help foster closeness and build bonds that are critical to healthy families. The Steel Mags program offers support and provides access to resource, advocacy and guidance to help wives, widows and caregivers of Green Berets. Scholarships are another service provided by the foundation. 

    Green Berets transitioning out of the military can also look to the foundation for tools, training and support to help them succeed in the civilian world. To date, the Green Beret Foundation has offered financial support to more than 500 Green Berets and assisted scores of families. This organization has given more than $4 million to support the Special Forces community. Find out more about the Green Beret Foundation at www.greenberetfoundation.org.

    The Kidsville News! Literacy & Education Foundation seeks “to improve literacy, education and character development among America’s youth by providing support for various early learning and literacy-based initiatives nationwide.” The Kidsville News Literacy & Education Foundation will approve grants to qualified projects and institutions that endeavor to instill strong reading and education skills and good solid character development traits in America’s youth.”  The Kidsville News Literacy & Education Foundation awards grant to qualified organizations for the purpose of promoting education and improving literacy among America’s youth. Find out more about the foundation at www.kidsvillenewsfoundation.com.

    Hogs & Rags registration is $50 per person and includes a collector’s T-shirt, breakfast, lunch, door prizes and a $2,500 cash raffle. Register early at http://hogsandrags.com/pdf/reg_form_2016.pdf. For more information, call 818.0458.


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    The city of Fayetteville will soon have a new sense of identity. The Fayetteville City Council has decided to do away with a logo it’s used for more than 20 years in favor of a more modern symbol. 

    The old logo  was a likeness of the official city seal; a round emblem with the Market House as the centerpiece. It’s been associated with city government for decades. But it hasn’t had universal acceptance. 

    Some African American leaders have been offended because the Market House was the site of occasional slave sales in antebellum Fayetteville. City Councilman Chalmers McDougald refused to wear a city lapel pin because it too contained a likeness of the Market House. But he acknowledged the historic significance of the building. The Council asked the Fayetteville/Cumberland Human Relations Commission to solicit thoughts and ideas from the general public with an eye toward changing the seal. And a private contractor was retained to solicit public dialogue. 

    City Councilman Ted Mohn took it from there. He noted that the demographic makeup of Fayetteville has changed remarkably since the current Market House logo was adopted in 1993. Our city is one of the most diverse communities in the nation. Large-scale annexations of west side suburbs took in thousands of black families. 

    “I must thank the entire council for their honest, thoughtful and respectful public conversation on the city seal and logo,” said Mohn. 

    Members of the Human Relations Commission agreed with Mohn’s tact. He found, as Up & Coming Weekly reported earlier, that there are only a few official instances when the corporate seal must be used. Since the logo containing the Market House is just that — an unofficial logo — it could be disposed of. The official corporate seal won’t be changed. 

    “The Market House is part of our city’s history and we must acknowledge and understand our fellow citizens have good and bad emotions associated with the building,” Mohn observed, agreeing with McDougald. Council intends to adopt a resolution declaring the modern script emblem as the city’s official logo. 

    It will likely take a while for the city to rid itself of the emblem. It has been stamped everywhere over time, from official letterhead stationery to roll out trash containers. It’s all over the city’s website that will require some redesigning. Stationery won’t be updated until current supplies run out. Large sculpted logos hang on the wall in city council chambers and on an exterior wall at police headquarters.

     
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    For more years than I can remember, Friday morning 7 a.m. breakfast at the Haymont Grill and Steak House was pretty routine for me. After all, 40-year-old habits are hard to break. Hundreds, no thousands, of people are feeling the sadness at the loss of a business that became a stellar Fayetteville institution over the past 60 years. Now, it’s gone. 

    The history, the tradition, the haven that became a beloved gathering place, political stronghold and neighborhood sanctuary providing a warm sense of home in a proud and unpretentious Greek-American tradition is no more. Pete Skenteris, now 79, has been the owner of the Haymont Grill since he purchased it from Steve Fermanides in the 1950s. Skenteris’ success is the epitome of the American dream. Pete, with his wife, Frederika, by his side, built his business and reputation on honesty, integrity and lots of hard work.

    To me the loss of the Haymont Grill is personal - very personal. My first Fayetteville home was only blocks away. My best friend, Leonard McLeod, and I had breakfast at the grill almost every Sunday for nearly 25 years until his death in 2000. My son, Grady, and I also shared the tradition. Now living in New Jersey and working in New York, his visits home always included a visit to the grill. No doubt, fond memories are the ties that bind and I have hundreds of them. 

    Matter of fact, when you entered the grill from the Morganton Road side, the second booth on the left against the wall is where I actually conceived and started Up & Coming Magazine (now Up & Coming Weekly) in November 1995. I actually ran the newspaper out of that booth for nearly four months until I could afford a real office.  Through the years, I have had countless business meetings with clients, brainstorming sessions with staff members and impromptu meetings with local leaders, business owners and educators in that booth. After we celebrated our 20th anniversary, Pete authorized a plaque designating that booth as the birthplace of Up & Coming Weekly, Fayetteville’s community newspaper. 

    Unfortunately, we never got around to it. However, we did physically place that white Up & Coming Weekly newspaper box in front of his business 20 years ago. Today I picked up that very same box. While everything on the inside of this iconic restaurant may have been destroyed by the fire, I am happy to have one surviving memento that will serve as a reminder of the man, family and business that served this community loyally for nearly six decades.

    The Haymont Grill was unique and endearing to our community.  It may be rebuilt but it will never be replaced. Thanks for reading Up & Coming Weekly.


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    A million years ago when the Precious Jewels were very young, I was like many other working mothers, stressed and exhausted most of the time. I recognized that our children were my main responsibility, but they were not my only responsibility, a reality that often left me overwhelmed. One afternoon when a shrieking toddler refused to go down for a nap he and I both desperately needed, I picked him up and plopped him into his crib with such force the child actually bounced!

    I was so shocked at myself that I fled his room, shutting the door behind me while he wailed, no doubt flinging the toddler equivalent of curses in my direction. My first thought was how could I possibly have manhandled my precious child that way. My second was the realization is that this is how child abuse begins and too often escalates into something hideous.

    How often have we heard a parent, or a parent’s significant other, say, “He was crying, and I just couldn’t stand it anymore?” Shaken Baby Syndrome, which often results in permanent brain damage, is associated with such statements. Sometimes the damage is not physical, but mental and emotional. Statements like, “I could not help it. She was flirting with me,” are associated with sexual abuse. Sometimes it is all of the above, and abusers either cannot or do not bother to justify their behaviors. However it occurs, abuse of a child is a crime that keeps on giving for decades, for a lifetime. A quick look at memoirs in any library will confirm that sad fact.

    Nothing erases child abuse, but children can be helped to deal with what has occurred in their lives through competent, caring and trained intervention. Cumberland County and our surrounding neighbors are blessed with just such a place for children, the Child Advocacy Center. When child abuse is discovered, the CAC integrates services for that child — medical, psychological, legal and social so that the child, especially very young ones, do not have to relate their traumatic stories time and time again in all sorts of different environments. It coordinates continuing services, particularly important for children who have been removed from their families and for whom stability and continuity are critical issues. This coordinated approach saves our community about half a million dollars a year and saves children heartache.

    All of that is the good news.

    The bad news is that 661 children had need of CAC’s services last year, and there are surely others who could benefit from them but have not, because the abuse has yet to be detected by caring adults or reported by brave ones. 

    I asked CAC staff to tell me about some of the children whom they have served. Obviously, privacy is paramount, but here are three real stories. 

    “I (CAC staff) received a call one afternoon … She was in tears and shared with me that her mother got rid of her cat while she was at school. She was not sure what mother had done with her cat but said her mother hated the cat. I listened to her and tried to ease her pain but in the end had to say that the issue with the cat would need to be worked out with her mother. After the phone call I thought about how sad it was that a child would call me …”

    A mother and child came to the CAC … They were here regarding sexual abuse. In talking with the Victim Advocate, the mother was sharing how thankful she was for our center and the treatment she and her daughter received. She stated she wished she could share with others about her experience but it would be too difficult. 

    “We interviewed a 7-year-old-boy for abuse. He was very quiet most of the time … I finally engaged him with a board game and offered him a snack and something to drink. I was taken aback when he started to leave and asked if he had to return. I explained he did not … He looked at me and said, “Lady, all the people here have been so nice to me. If you want me to, I will come back.”

    Heartstrings tugging?

    So what can people like you and me do to help?

    CAC and agency staff are professionals, so there is no need for volunteers in the traditional sense, but there is a huge need for advocates and support. The CAC offers Darkness to Light, a national training program to educate parents, grandparents and others who work with children to recognize and prevent child sexual abuse and how to react appropriately when it does occur.

    And there is always money. The CAC has successfully met the Lily Endowment Challenge of the Cumberland Community Foundation (full disclosure — I co-chaired this effort with Joyce Loughlin), which is a great help in building and safeguarding CAC’s future. In CAC’s endowment building campaign, more really is, well, more.

    Wouldn’t you want a child you love to have these services if he or she needed them?


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