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What About the Boomers’ Kiddos and Grands?

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Tuesday, 19 May 2026

Written by Margaret Dickson

I am a proud Baby Boomer and happy to say so.
My generation includes the 76-to-78 million Americans fortunate enough to be born just after World War II between 1946 and 1964. As the children of people Tom Brokaw dubbed “the greatest generation,” we first drew breath into an economy booming with post war veterans. They were thrilled to have survived the worldwide conflict and anxious to get on with their lives. Millions of veterans headed to college on the newly-minted GI bill and started families that peaked with an average of 4 children per household.
The Haymount neighborhood in which my sister and I grew up teemed with children and dogs who ran around together in packs as leash laws were a thing of the future. Most mothers stayed at home and most dads were climbing advancement ladders in their chosen fields. Households were generally disciplined and children were taught to pay attention to all adults. Structure, hard work, and thrift were important values even in an economy that floated most boats for about 3 decades. Religion, generally Christianity, was a significant part of family life for most Americans.
Ours was not a perfect childhood or a seamless transition into adulthood and the working world with the backdrop of the Vietnam conflict and massive social upheavals, but for the large part we Boomers had family structure and an economy that worked for most Americans, enabling home ownership and a good shot at education.
Today’s working Americans, specifically Generations X and Y (Millennials), born between 1965-1980 and 1981-1996, respectively, are having a difficult go.
Both Xs and Ys are finding themselves caught between their Boomer parents and their own children—the so-called “sandwich generation,” with little time and often little money for themselves. The goal of work-life balance seems out of reach.
They also face significant financial pressures from paychecks that do not keep up with inflation, student loan debt, economic downturns over which they have no control, and the growing wealth gap between the haves and the have-nots. Both Xs and Ys have trouble saving for retirement, and at the same time, they face the possibility that Social Security, American retirees’ mainstay for the better part of a century, will not be there for them.
Layer on the rapid growth of technology and the necessity of adapting to it in both work and personal lives, and the pressure can feel overwhelming.
This is the national atmosphere in which Americans are approaching the 2026 midterm elections in a nation divided not only along strict party lines but also facing stark differences on both domestic and international issues. All of us vote based on our own experiences, ages, educational levels, where we live and many other factors. This year, perhaps more so than in the past, we should look at the broader picture, including the daunting situations facing not only ourselves but those coming behind us whose roads ahead look different from the ones we Boomers trod and perhaps even more difficult.
Just as I try to imagine what my grandparents and parents would think of life in 2026 America, I wonder what the lives of my children and grandchildren will be like in 2056 and what I can do to make them better.

One Nation Under God: Why this May 17 matters

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Tuesday, 12 May 2026

Written by Bob Laverick

There is a sentence most Americans have spoken out loud. They said it in classrooms as children, hand over heart, eyes on the flag. They said it at ball games and moments of national grief. Many said it without thinking much about what the words actually meant.
One nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.
America turns 250 this year. And that anniversary feels less like a birthday party and more like a reckoning. We have accomplished extraordinary things. We have also never felt more divided. For believers, the deeper question is this: have we forgotten who we are?
You’re Invited! On Sunday, May 17, as we come together to reaffirm our answer.
The One Nation Under God celebration at Paradise Acres welcomes everyone who believes that our nation’s foundation is rooted in faith in God. It is neighbors standing together to remember who we are. It is an evening of gratitude and rededication as believers from every tradition recommit this nation to the God who established it and Jesus Christ who sustains it.
The founders built this nation on a deep conviction that freedom was not something governments invent. It is something God ordains. They understood what many have forgotten. A nation without God at its center cannot hold.
We have inherited something rare. Most people who have ever lived on this earth did not grow up free. The Americans who came before us bled for those rights. This celebration is a public declaration that we have not forgotten that. That we still believe Jesus Christ is Lord over this nation, and we are asking Him to be.
The evening includes live music, food, family activities, and special speakers. It runs from 4:30 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. and is open to anyone who loves this country and believes its greatest days are still ahead.
The ancient words of the Psalmist say it simply and say it best.
"Blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord." Psalm 33:12
America's 250th birthday only comes once. Come be part of this historic moment. All proceeds go to the Cumberland County GOP.

Publisher's Pen: Kiwanis Terrific Kids Celebrate Excellence

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Tuesday, 19 May 2026

Written by Bill Bowman

A Legacy of Character and Community
For over a century, the Fayetteville Kiwanis Club has been a pillar of our local community. Founded in 1920 by 20 local businessmen, this organization has grown into a vibrant force of over 150 men and women dedicated to community service.
While their history includes hosting an International President and three District Governors, their heart has always been with the youth of Fayetteville and Cumberland County. Nowhere is this more evident than in the commitment to the Terrific Kids program.
A Global Leader Right Here at Home
It's a little-known fact that the Kiwanis Terrific Kids program was North Carolina born in 1982 in Black Mountain, as a way to encourage character development and perseverance in learning. Today, the Fayetteville Kiwanis Club’s chapter is the largest in the world, reaching over 20,000 students right here in Cumberland County.
What does it mean to be a "Terrific Kid"?
It isn't just about getting the best grades—it's about personal growth. Students collaborate with their teachers to set specific goals in areas such as:
• Behavioral improvement
• Strengthening peer relationships
• Consistent attendance
• Academic perseverance
When a student meets their goal, they are celebrated with certificates, bookmarks, and local rewards that reinforce their hard work and boost their self-esteem.
Honoring the "Terrific Kid of the Year"
While they celebrate every student who hits their milestones, Kiwanis also recognizes 40 exceptional young leaders who have demonstrated these qualities consistently throughout the school year.
"Terrific Kids is more than an award; it's a recognition of a student's commitment to becoming the best version of themselves."
Terrific Kid of the Year recipients receive:
*Personalized recognition plaque.
*$50 gift card
*Book on financial literacy to help them manage their future.
A Community Effort
This massive undertaking would not be possible without the incredible support of Cumberland County educators and community partners.
A special Fayetteville Kiwanis Club thank you to:
• Our School Leaders: The principals and counselors who facilitate these goals daily.
• Our Major Sponsor: Wendy’s of Fayetteville, whose long-standing partnership ensures students feel truly celebrated.
And, to all the Terrific Kids: We recognize your hard work, your kindness, and your grit. You are Fayetteville's future, and we couldn't be prouder.
For 30 years, this newspaper has addressed the good things about living in this community. It just doesn't get any better than our Kiwanis Terrific Kids.
Thank you for reading Up & Coming Weekly.

(Photo: Kiwanis Club Kids Baseball is one of the many ways the Fayetteville Kiwanis Club supports kids in Cumberland County. Photo courtesy of Fayetteville, NC Kiwanis Club's Facebook page)

Knotty opine: The Hormuz Conundrum

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Tuesday, 12 May 2026

Written by Pitt Dickey

Are you tired of wars and rumors of wars? Does the phrase “Gulf of Hormuz” strike fear in your wallet at the gas station or grocery store? If so, Gentle Reader, kindly read no farther in today’s column. Skip directly to the crossword puzzle. Today’s stain on world literature is going to visit America’s ongoing and seemingly intractable war against Iran.
First, a bit of history. Iran used to be called Persia for millennia, a period of time for which the memory of man runneth not. Europe and Persia were not good neighbors. The Greeks and the Persians got along like Donald Trump and Jimmy Kimmel. If you don’t want to read about history (and if you don’t, why are you reading this second paragraph?), you can watch a movie called 300 Spartans about the battle between 300 Greeks and a zillion Persians at Thermopylae in which the Greeks saved western civilization by holding off an invading Persian army.
Despite being unable to defeat the Greeks, Persia kept its name until 1935. It officially changed its name to Iran when Reza Pahlavi, the Shah of Iran, ordered the switcheroo. When you are Shah, you can change the name of your country by whimsical executive order. Don’t believe me? Check out the Gulf of America, the Gulf formerly known as the Gulf of Mexico. There is no business like Shah business.
Now, back to our story. The good old USA has gotten itself knee deep in the big muddy called the Gulf of Hormuz. Like our wars in the Middle East and Afghanistan, it started out with the slightly shopworn theory called “This Time Will Be Different.”
It was going to be a short war like Venezuela. Knock off a leader we don’t like. The hearts and minds of the people will follow into the wonderful world of democracy. A little Regime Change makes the medicine go down in the most delightful way. Bombs help, too. Four weeks, six weeks tops, and the Iranians will be cowed into embracing democracy as a new and fun way of life.
Unfortunately, a funny thing happened on the way to the forum or in this case the bazaar. It didn’t work out like that. The US and Iran are holding each other and the rest of the world hostage in the Gulf of Hormuz. As the Soup Nazi would say if he was in charge of the Gulf of Hormuz: “No oil for you. Come back, one year!” What to do? What to do? It’s the old immovable object meeting the irresistible force conundrum. Who is gonna blink first? Who will cry, Uncle Sam?
Fortunately, there is a lesson from our old pals the Greeks on how to deal with Iranians. Once upon a time in the Fourth Century, there was a country called Phrygia, which is now called Turkey. The Phrygians did not have a king but needed one. A local Oracle read some chicken guts and announced that the next guy who came into the city riding an ox cart would be king. Soon, a dude named Gordias rode in on his ox cart and was named King. Gordias’ son Midas was so happy, he had the ox cart tied to a post in the royal palace with a bodacious knot that was so tightly tied that no one could untie it. This was known as the Gordian Knot.
Another Oracle declared that anyone who could untie the Gordian Knot would become king of all Asia. Many men tried, and many men failed to untie the knot. One day in 333 BC, Alexander the Great rode into town. Al learned about the prophecy that whosoever untied the knot would rule Asia. Al tried mightily to untie the knot to no avail. Frustrated, but not being a quitter, Al put on his thinking cap and pondered this knotty problem. Like a reformed alcoholic, Al had a moment of clarity. Eureka! He ciphered that it did not matter how the Gordian Knot was untied, just as long as it was done. Results mattered.
Al took his sword and like the killing of the Jabberwocky, “One two! One Two! And through and through. The vorpal blade went snicker-snack.” With mighty blows, he cut the Gordian Knot in two. The ox cart was then free to roam about the country unfettered to a post. Al fulfilled the knotty prophecy and went on to conquer Asia. The rest is history.
How does this story help resolve the Hormuz Conundrum? We have to think outside the knot. Perhaps holding each other hostage will not work. Does anyone have access to the Sword of Damocles? It still seems to be hanging around somewhere overhead.

(Illustration by Pitt Dickey)